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AudaxVir/r/RPChristians21/12/18 02:11 PM
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I'm a Catholic and I met my wife at church, so I'm biased here. The bottom line is that finding a woman at church is no substitute for getting off your ass, and putting the work in to become superman. Read the sidebar and get to work. Women can smell hypocrisy a mile away. You say you're considering Christianity for a number of reasons. If one of those reasons is not "I really believe" or at the very least "I may not literally believe it but I think it's the absolute best way to live" then it's …
/r/askMRP21/06/19 01:17 PM
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I'll look into it, thanks for the recommendation. In these situations I generally don't DEER. My natural response is STFU, but I get really grouchy and it shows. Our moods feed off one another and we usually both end up angry and silent. I need to focus more on keeping frame and keeping my emotions independent. He's closer to 1.5yr really. My wife climbs as well, and we're hoping to introduce our son early. My intent with this weekend is to get us all outside in the dirt and fresh air. So it's n…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 12:13 AM
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Stats: 26YO, 5’9”, 150lbs, 14%BF (digital scale) Family: married 3 years, 27YO wife, works part time, 1YO son. Max Lifts: SQ 3x5x200, BP 5x5x135, BR 5x5x108, OHP 5x5x90, DL 3x5x205, Weighted dips 3x5x25, Weighted chinups 3x5x20. Reading: NMMG, the wiki x2, most of Athol Kay’s blog, most of Rollo’s blog. Reading WISNIFG. Personal: I fell off the wagon over the holidays. I didn’t put my time in reading, lifting, or mission building, and now I’m paying the price and trying to catch back up. I do ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 07:11 PM
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This is the advice I've mostly been getting and I appreciate it! Separating things out like that will definitely add some difficulty, but I think RP is too valuable a tool to leave unused.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 11:59 PM
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Thanks! I've read a bit of Zippy but I've never heard of Donalgraeme. I'll check him out!
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 06:04 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 05:20 PM
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Good point. I guess I subconsciously wanted to be able to bitch later. The chinups confused me too. I progressed way faster than I had anticipated. I can only guess that it's because I spent so long rock climbing as my only form of excercise, my pull strength is much greater than my push strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:07 AM
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Thanks, this is helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 07:02 PM
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I realize "acta non verba" is the default position, and for good reason. However I need to chart a course for the coming changes (wife's job, baby transitioning to toddler, primarily), and I would like my first officers input. I don't see a way to plan for these changes that doesn't involve some talking. I am not under the delusion that this meeting will result in "peace and harmony", it's just a jumping off point. Any advice on how to achieve the same result with less beta faggotry is appreciat…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 04:27 PM
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Stats: 26YO, 5’9”, 150lbs, 14%BF (digital scale) Family: married 3 years, 27YO wife, works part time, 1YO son. Max Lifts: SQ 3x5x195, BP 5x5x135, BR 5x5x108, OHP 5x5x88, DL 3x5x195, Weighted dips 3x5x25, Weighted chinups 3x5x20. Reading: NMMG, the wiki, most of Athol Kay’s blog, most of Rollo’s blog. Reading WISNIFG. Personal: I’m only 2 chapters in to WISNIFG. We’re taking a week long family vacation next week with my extended family. I’m sure we’ll be kept quite busy with family activities, bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 01:55 PM
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Great points all around, thanks again. My wife and I are both Christian as well, and we're both rather explicitly anti divorce whenever the topic has come up. But you are right, it's always a possibility. I'll take it into consideration
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/18 12:24 AM
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Thanks for this detailed breakdown! There's lots of great stuff in here. Looks like you've got plenty of potential here for hobby time. Pick one or two and develop them before going on to the others. That's the plan. I'm going to stick with what I've written here for the time being, because they're already hobbies I've established. I'm just focusing on frequency at the moment. Thankfully several of these fit together. Cooking happens every day more or less, and I take most of my photos on climbi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 10:23 PM
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I agree, it will be good for both of us, but getting there is easier said than done. Breaking those mental barriers are usually harder than the logistical ones. I also agree on your analysis of fatherhood. He's just now getting to the age where we can have a more active father/son relationship, so I need to take advantage of that early and make it a habit. Take him for hikes, build him a climbing wall, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 09:33 PM
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It's unconventional for sure, but it has plenty of research backing it up. It's worked great for 3 years, there's just not much room for error. The change to ABC has improved my mental state considerably, definitely my best take away from MRP so far. And I've always had this mentality during shark week. Granted, I'm not coming from a deadbedroom like a lot of guys here, so it was considerably easier to implement. I can see how adopting an ABC mindset would be much more difficult starting from sc…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 09:08 PM
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Home: We bought a house earlier this year and it’s in good shape, there’s nothing that needs immediate attention, but I have a long list of projects I would like to complete. Finding the time for these is difficult, as my wife tends to get stressed out when I leave her to watch the baby on her own during the weekends. This rubs off on me and we all end up in a bad mood and I end up not spending as much time on a particular project as I might like. Again, need to read WISNIFG. Right now my priori…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 07:24 PM
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Stats: 26YO, 5’9”, 150lbs, 14%BF (digital scale) Family: married 3 years, 27YO wife, works part time, 1YO son. Lifts: SQ 3x5x185, BP 5x5x135, BR 5x5x105, OHP 5x5x85, DL 3x5x195, Weighted dips 3x5x25, Weighted chinups 3x5x20. Reading: NMMG, the wiki (working through it a second time now), most of Athol Kay’s blog, most of Rollo’s blog. Going to pick up WISNIFG this weekend. Introduction/Personal: I have been lurking for a month or two, but this is my first post. I don’t imagine my OYS will be thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 07:10 PM
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