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You have to create those interaction chances yourself, start cold approaching, join a club
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:38 AM
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I think your problem is that you waited 3 weeks to make a move considering you “hit it off”. If she was initially showing signs of attraction to you and flirting you should have continued that vibe and possibly done an after work coffee or drinks. You want to be asking girls out at high points in your interactions. 3 weeks, the spark and mystery goes away since ur too beta to make a move
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:35 AM
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This
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:32 AM
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“Its like saying I just need to meet someone who wants to be my gf” Im sure thats the joke bud. If you were truly breaking ur shortys back u wouldnt think finding a girl whos down to cuddle that difficult
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:14 PM
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Your problem is you only last 30 seconds. Cuddling happens after ur both drained and dont wanna move.
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:31 PM
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You have most likely turned from a timothy into a brad. Unless you are top tier model face looks and shredded you are not a chad yet sorry bro. Youll know you are getting there when girls start approaching and opening you
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:20 PM
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Literally the first line: “fucktoy for a night vs boyfriend material debate” You bringing up irrelevant nuanced situations that only apply to you brings nothing of value to this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:57 AM
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you are bringing up situations that have nothing to do with the original post The post is about making a conscious decision not to sleep with a guy based on if he is "bf material"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:09 AM
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So you sleep with the guy youre not interested in on the first date and not the one you are??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:10 AM
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okay, so lets say the conditions are the same, you felt the same before going on the date. You want to have sex with one and not the other. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:04 AM
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If you are consistently having sex on the first date with every other guy you find attractive why are you making this guy wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:07 PM
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Take a good hard look at yourself and try and figure out your negative points. Maybe you need to improve your hygiene, or your social skills, or lose weight Whatever it is, you have to identify it before anyone can give you advice on how to change
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:02 PM
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- they'll lie about their past and play hard to get Youre so close to figuring it out. This is literally the main issue, if youre easy then be easy, there are guys out there that dont care. But dont lie and try and manipulate a guy into thinking youre something that youre not. You are literally building the relationship with a foundation of deceit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:00 PM
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Its almost like men are comprised of individual beings that have their own preferences on what is relationship material and what isnt!!!! WOW big discovery
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:38 PM
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Good for you, if you actually read the post and the comments guys just want congruency. If you are easy for every guy then be easy for every guy If you take it slow for every guy then take it slow for every guy But dont be easy for a random and then make the bf material guy wait because you want to manipulate him into think youre something youre not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:37 PM
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Women are so delusional they think that its okay to have sex with some random on the first date that they "dont want to settle down with" but make the person they do want to settle down with wait in an attempt to look like a "good girl that doesnt do that sort of thing" This is hilarious, just goes to show how many women are actually manipulative liars and will say anything to get their way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:34 PM
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imagine not understanding that there are different levels of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:27 PM
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totally wrong yet again its the lack of congruency If you are going to be easy then be easy If you want to take things slow, take things slow Dont LIE in an attempt to manipulate men into thinking you are something youre actually not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:22 PM
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you completely missed the point "If a man has a gf that made him wait for months after sleeping with Chads in a day or a week, he would be childishly naive not to suspect her motives and what actions she may take discretely."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:21 PM
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Literally this OP. May help to bring 1 drink for each of you as well You already know shes down just relax dont be weird vibe a little bit then go for it dont be scared
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:42 AM
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You didnt smash after she literally gave you multiple opportunities and then called her a tease. On top of that “asked how shed have reacted if i made a move that night” way to call out the elephant in the room without knowing why. You literally didnt make a single move after all those hints And then she still gives you another chance and you literally call her a tease once more. Bro?
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:40 AM
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1-2 days before my schedule is free
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:34 AM
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“Texting doesnt have the same rules of normal conversation” Exactly One thing ive found is if its a new girl im talking to i like to plan the date within 1-2 days of my availabilities. So if I was only free friday sat id message them wed/thurs and try to plan it out Personally its been hard converting new girls asking for a date so far away cuz they over think it and usually end up flopping Sounds like you use social media, Instagram to me is the best for girls. Stories literally replace game fo…
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:30 AM
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💯
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:50 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:50 PM
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You should have a goal when messaging a girl. Personally, i only use messaging to plan dates. Asking about the exam could be a good opener for you but you will have to pivot away from school and talk about something that isnt boring, banter for a bit and then when the conversation is at a high tell her about something fun you are doing and that she should join you. Think of it like shes one of your male friends that you will occasionally flirt with (push pull), you dont talk to your friends just…
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:03 PM
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So your solution is to be just like every single other dude thats giving her attention? Good luck with that This is all inner game, if she doesnt want to go out with me because i left her on read when the convo died naturally, who cares? Theres plenty other girls out there that will be interested enough in you
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:24 PM
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You right
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:46 PM
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Sorry lol theres been quite a few comments here that have totally misconstrued what I have said
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:39 PM
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Where in my post does it say anything remotely close to what you are saying. Literally the first line of the post says “you dont always have to try to keep the conversation going, if she sends you a message that is hard to reply to then just leave her on read”
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:35 PM
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Please read my other comments in the thread I have went over this and it is also in my original post. It is NATURAL to leave a girl on read OR for her to leave you on read when the conversation has died out organically. There is a difference if she leaves you on read in a organically dead convo or when she leaves you on read in the middle of one
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:13 PM
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Yes, but its still leaving on read. I know a lot of guys that once the convo starts to die they will try to force it and then truly get left on read which kills the interaction completely. Like i said in a previous comment theres quite a few reasons for this
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:06 PM
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If you are the one to leave someone on read it is up to you to spark the conversation up again. You cannot expect the girl to message you again like that after you have left her on read. You will always have to chase in the beginning, but you dont have to do so constantly without break
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:02 PM
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7 - 56% of women isnt a lot of women? Huh? What? And what are the numbers for girls from tinder/bumble lmao. Youre arguing just to argue at this point
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:46 PM
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You literally responded with connotations that I didnt say in my post and required further clarification. Like i said in the reply to this comment i underestimated the nuance required to understand my post.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:45 PM
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Is it a fact that a lot of women have sex on the first date or have one night stands? Its a simple yes or no, its called reality. If its yes, and this is happening but not happening for you then what is the reason? You cannot grow and develop without realizing your flaws
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:22 PM
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Wow the first actually respectable comment. You are totally right and I feel like I vastly underestimated the level of inner game required to understand what im saying here after looking at the other comments. Edit: One thing I have to point out is that this isnt a tactic, its just a normal part of how conversations work. Conversations die out all the time which is why i used the example of conversations with your friends. A lot of inexperienced guys are scared to leave girls on read when the co…
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:16 PM
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How can you give advice on dating without being general, please be realistic. What is negative about having sex on the first date for either guys or girls? Sex is a normal part of dating and it’s starting to sound like you have slut shaming tendencies Not every guy is the same and not every girl is the same obviously, but there are generalities in everything
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:12 PM
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Blah blah blah, all youve done is make up lies about what ive said when its clear as day in black and white
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:02 PM
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A Lot (not all) of girls have sex on the first date or one night stands Just because this fact is true doesnt mean that she will have sex with YOU on the first date So what does this mean? It means you should work towards becoming the guy that the girl likes enough to have a sexual relationship with instead of being like 99% of other guys
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:58 PM
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“Semantics” LOL more like hes just making shit up
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah very true bro but im trying to give back to this sub as i used to lurk here when i first started. This sub has gone so downhill since then that I feel the need to try and give back some value
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:50 PM
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Its a numbers game brother, just gotta keep at it while continuing to work on yourself. Inner game is everything, keep developing and girls will come
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:47 PM
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Explain how the sentence “its not that girls dont have sex on the first date its that girls dont have sex with you on the first date” Somehow equals “women are entitled to give sex on the first date” Sorry to break it to you but yes a lot of girls do have sex on first dates and one night stands with guys they like
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:32 PM
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Your terrible reading comprehension skills has nothing to do with me. And the post said its not that girls dont have sex on the first date its that they dont have sex with you on the first date. Once again refer to your terrible reading comprehension. Its no wonder you have issues with the opposite sex when you cant even read properly
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:21 PM
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Fair enough, this is my first post outlining advice here so I can admit its pretty rough.
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:16 PM
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What the, projecting much? What part of “before we go on a date she is just a regular girl to me” did you not understand. Youre probably one of those weirdo creepy ass guys with no experience with women that plans out their entire life with them right after you matched on tinder. Relax dude, relationships take time to build
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:09 PM
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The value comes from showing that you are secure enough to let a conversation die out and dont have to endlessly chase. Pointing out that this action provides you with value isnt a negative thing. Its a part of inner game that guys work towards, at the end of the day the goal is to be comfortable interacting with the opposite sex
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:03 PM
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If we havent went on a date yet then yeah shes just another regular girl. You just want guys to put you on a pedestal and give you constant attention. Good luck finding a high value guy that will do that before you even one date. This post is to help inexperienced guys realize that they dont have to keep the conversation going too long and that its okay to leave girls on read, and be left on read.
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:00 PM
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Then shes not interested, which is when you move on from her. Why waste your time on a girl that doesnt want to see you irl? What are you going to do jerk off to her pics?
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:52 PM
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Its not risky. Its normal. Conversations die out and end, there is no need to force it like so many guys do. Just like with your friends, the convo dies out and then some time passes before you speak again
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:52 PM
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90% first date success rate but ok
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:50 PM
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Have fun having convos that never end and span days on end without actually meeting that person
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:50 PM
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“The conversation comes to natural ends” Exactly, this happens all the time. My point is that guys are way too afraid to be the ones to leave the girl on read and are totally wrong in doing so. Additionally if a guy sends a message that is hard to reply to and a girl leaves them on read thats normal too. A lot of guys incorrectly see that as a sign of disinterest and dont understand that its not a big deal
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:49 PM
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How would you be bringing down someones value by leaving them on read. If a girl sends me a response that is so hard to reply to that i would literally have to change the topic of the conversation ill just leave her on read This is natural in any conversation, you want people to force this? Im not saying leave them on read and ghost them. But if the convo is dying naturally then just let it die and spark it up again at a later time
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:47 PM
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Wtf are you talking about. Its called building value
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:18 PM
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Stop facetiming, stop texting too much. Save it for the date, you are a mystery and if she wants to find out more she has to do it in person. You should only be texting with the goal of planning a date, obviously you dont just send the date request on your first text and have to build a bit of banter first (5-10 texts max) I just posted this as well check it out https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ra9i9x/leave_girls_on_read/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:17 PM
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Nah man relax if you see her just say Hey with a smile. Dont make it weird. I would try approaching her later on after youve given it some days and try to actually have a conversation with her. Being left on read isnt a big deal, learn to leave girls on read sometimes too if the conversation feels too forced. Just ping short conversations like you do with your friends
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:02 AM
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Start saying hello with a smile when you see her at beginning of class or when you pass her in the halls. After a couple times stop her in the halls and strike up a conversation. Dont exit the convo without getting her snap!
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:42 PM
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Do friendly get to know you conversation while dropping in subtle flirts here and there as well as dropping lines that portray your value and interests. Figure out a common interest (hopefully something that could be a good date) then invite her to join you the next time you are doing it
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:11 PM
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After she “replies well to your initial texts” tell her about something fun you are going to do that day or the next day and tell her shes free to join you. You arent going to win her over by sending her texts all the time, just feeding her ego and need for attention. If she flops again then its time to move on, live life to the fullest and post the fun things you do all over social media and give her crazy FOMO. Ive had quite a few cold leads hit me up and be very warm and receptive to date inv…
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:46 PM
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I would say yes message her later today because you did not have sex. For future reference if you do have sex with a different girl do not text same day/next day wait a bit
/r/seduction05/09/21 06:57 PM
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Ur right its probably time i give back to this sub after using it during my beginning
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:21 PM
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It clearly doesnt work as well as you think it does when ur only actually closing 3/10 dates (some are 2nd dates?) No one that is actually good at game is counting kisses or feeling her up lmfao. Again, its all about your vibe and how well you can lead the interaction. Seduction is about how you make her feel in the moment not about how you told her you want to fk on text message before you saw her
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:08 PM
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Good job! Only thing I dont like is the advice about “being more sexual in your predate interactions”. This is flat out bad advice. All you are doing is adding pressure on her because she will think you are expecting her to put out in a logical sense which will then get her thinking about how she doesn’t want to be thought of as easy or a hoe, which will in turn lead to either a higher flake rate or less of a chance of you getting laid on the first date because she has already decided before the…
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:53 PM
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No, I’m saying don’t wait until big events in your life e.g. your bday, to hang out and smash. Have you ever had a fwb before?
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:24 PM
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Dude just do it she wants fwb not a relationship. She said she was down to smoke with you. The way you are going you are giving off boyfriend vibes which will just result in you losing her. Even if you do want to be her boyfriend this isn’t the way to go about it
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:37 PM
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Why not just go smoke with her and hook up? She wants something casual and broke up with her ex to be single in college. Why are you making this more difficult than it has to be. You don’t need a special reason to hang out and smash
/r/seduction16/09/20 12:36 AM
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Sounds like she was interested in the beginning and u fked it up by being boring, asking boring interview questions, being too afraid to physically escalate at all even for just a hug. Girls want to feel a "spark" with a guy, which is literally just excitement and not the same old boring stuff they are used to with every timid shy guy they come across
/r/seduction02/03/20 01:33 AM
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Always lol when beginners say that the pick up methods aren't useful and it's all about inner game and then when they explain their pickup it's through the methods. Is this some sort of Pua virtue signaling ?
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:17 PM
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What part of she was my old roommate and I would see it happen do you not understand?
/r/seduction28/01/20 03:26 PM
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Obviously you haven't had an honest conversation with a girl before. My old roommate used to fk her dealer all the time
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:37 PM
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The pay issue has been debunked thousands of times, maybe try not looking at salon.com exclusively for your sources
/r/seduction09/12/19 05:24 PM
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But you don't fuck ANY girls you see. There's the difference. LOL
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:08 PM
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Whatever dude, you're right. It's not your fault u don't get girls, it's ur age. Happy? Go ahead and continue living your life without girls and finding excuses as to why you aren't getting any. Believe me there's excuses for every year of your life.
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:05 PM
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You don't need a social scene for cold approach. If I can approach at a mall, library, grocery store, dog park, hiking trail. You have no excuse not being able to approach at a college campus. 80 percent of the time the girl won't be your age, that's the nature of the game. You have a lot of excuses and limiting beliefs. You really need to work on your mindset
/r/seduction21/08/19 10:18 PM
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What do you mean meeting girls at community college isn't a thing? It is a thing. These girls you see are getting fked by someone. They just aren't fkin u You have a bad mentality. Start daygaming and cold approaching
/r/seduction21/08/19 04:26 PM
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Literally just go up to her and say: Hey, Im really liking the chill vibe youve got going for you. What's your name? Then: Guess where she's from, (Italy, Greece, Sweden) Don't guess more than 3 times just ask her to tell u if u don't get it by then Close Time: Say you gotta go grab ur stuff for class but you found her intriguing and would like to grab coffee sometime, ask for her number As a beginner you wanna do Open Premise Close to start, you'll probably receive numbers off this but they wil…
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:43 AM
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When u completely miss the point of the comments and focus on the rating lmao
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:23 PM
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An hour of foreplay lmao. Of course you're going to explode the moment she touches you. Focus the foreplay on her, finger her, kiss her body, eat her out, then go for the smash
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:52 PM
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This. Also looks like an attempt to make the dude jealous, a high value guy isn't going to stand for that
/r/seduction09/06/19 07:39 AM
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"I've had a great time using my girlfriend as bait" Misrepresentation LOL stfu
/r/seduction02/06/19 06:10 PM
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Yeah all you gotta do is join a swinger group and trade ur girlfriend's pussy for some other losers girl just like OP! Fkin lmao
/r/seduction01/06/19 07:04 AM
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Tldr: OP got brainwashed into joining some swinger group that he thinks is "high value" OP got tricked into making his relationship open by said swinger group. OP has sex with swingers by handing his girlfriend's pussy out to anyone that will trade him. OP has learnt absolutely nothing about seduction and it is surprising this post hasn't been removed yet
/r/seduction01/06/19 07:01 AM
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Whys ur girl giving out her number to dudes that find her cute. I would bring this up to her and tell her it's her job to shut that shit down from the beginning and tell these dudes she's not interested. It's not your job to be doing this shit, you can't be around her 24/7 swatting away all the dick that comes her way. If she doesn't start doing it then you should start talking to other girls
/r/seduction30/05/19 04:26 AM
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Cheers m8, u got a new subscriber
/r/seduction25/05/19 04:51 AM
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Literally all of game is generalizing women lmao. What are you doing on this sub
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:37 AM
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Send her a funny snap, good pic of you to start the convo, then you can move it to direct messages, flirt a bit with her, mix in some getting to know her and then ask for a date at an emotional high in the conversation
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:17 PM
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Wow the autism
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:57 PM
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It's too much like an interview. Not a real convo of u teasing, getting to know her
/r/seduction11/05/19 02:56 PM
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Bruh vid too long
/r/seduction10/05/19 03:08 AM
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Game her the same way you do other girls. You trying to change up your style for her is just going to throw you off.
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:57 AM
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This lmao
/r/seduction17/04/19 06:33 PM
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Pretty surprised that he even got a second date without even kissing her on the first one
/r/seduction03/04/19 02:35 PM
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Pretty sure you can see all that through a) the title and b) the bullet points at the end of his post
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 01:30 PM
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OP showed abundance when he declined pussy for the gym. Which yes maintained his plate and made it even better. Girls want guys that other girls want. Maybe try reading the comments to get a better understanding
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 01:16 PM
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Op didn't say he intended to drop them. I'm so surprised I haven't lost all of my friends for giving them advice when they are doing stupid shit. Oh wait, no I'm not cuz they are my real friends. I can't reply to this autism anymore this is my last post on this shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 03:12 PM
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Op is the one that categorized the dude as his friend, not me and I would have dropped the dude the first time he started shit talking me in front of the girl. Your answer about advice just goes to show how socially inept you are. Not giving your friend advice when you see they are being retarded just goes to show you aren't really their friend.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 08:47 PM
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Jesus you guys sound like absolute garbage friends. Just cuz your buddy doesn't ask for advice you don't try and help him out? What the fuck am I reading
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 08:08 PM
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Not once did I claim it wasn't u tard.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 07:59 PM
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Low value beta male spotted. The point is no matter how much of a pussy ur friend is being they are still your friend. A high value social male understands that they don't need to fuck a girl his friend is pining over because they can just go fuck any other number of girls that are available that aren't being sought after by ur beta friend.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 03:27 PM
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Good shit op but truly the best way to get over a girl is to fk other girls. You have to start getting into the mindset of speaking to multiple girls at the same time as to not get invested. This works 10 fold because if a girl flakes you arnt gonna be buthurt cuz u got another girl on the way, which makes the girl that flaked want you even more.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:37 AM
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Some words of warning. DONT friendzone ugly girls or girls you wouldn't wanna fuck. They usually catch feels for you and tell their hotter friends not to fk with u. I have made this mistake a couple of times, though it is possible to still smash one of her friends, the difficulty sky rockets to the point where it's not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:32 AM
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Yes Steve Jobs was an alpha because he had a vision and did whatever he had to do to see that vision through. He literally went down as one of the greatest visionaries and influencers ever. The stupidity in this post is immeasurable.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:30 AM
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No you dont, see my above reply. Op is a complete phaggot and what he did was super beta shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:24 AM
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Sounds like your a shit friend. Yeah it buddy is a full on beta cuck. But instead of you helping him out with a girl that he's clearly interested in by giving him advice, you gave the girl immediate selection and competed with your friend. Don't you know bros before hoes? You know why that's a thing? Pussy is fleeting it comes and it goes, your friends are there to stay. And if you were truly an alpha you wouldn't need to try and steal your friends girl. So disappointing. Once a beta always a be…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:22 AM
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OP you might honestly want to just completely ignore her question, this is a shit test. She cheated on you, dipped off you and then is coming back to see if your beta ass will still take her back, WHICH NO SELF RESPECTING HIGH VALUE ALPHA MALE WOULD DO. Don't message her anymore unless its to meet up and smash. Nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:03 AM
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What the fuck is this lmao. "ive been screwed with before too much" mite as well tell her you started wearing panties.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:01 AM
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Idk how to edit my post but some of my message got cut off, doing this off my phone lol. First thing when entering my room you see the helmet, then to the right is my desk with three convo set pieces, the books, hat and bullets. The stories build social value and are a little funny. Yes the bullets are cheesy but I'm in Toronto so the rarity outweighs the cheesiness for me. Also just recently started my cologne collection, any of you guys do this?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 05:40 AM
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More info on this "The Warning" app, I cant find it on google store
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 02:08 AM
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