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| 4 | What do you think about employed but underemployed men? E.g. completed a degree but does a job you only need high school completion for, etc.I used to feel bad about my preferences when it comes to the careers of the guys I date but honestly I don’t care anymore. I work a nice corporate job with benefits and everything and whoever I date should have the same as me or better (doctors, lawyer, finance etc.). Doesn’t automatically make them a better human being or HVM but would men date a woman they find ugly, fat whatever? No. They’d only go for women they deem fuckable. So I only go for men who make a lot of money in a white collar jo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InTo clarify I didn’t ask for anything. I never ask men for anything lmao. I only told him it was surprising that he was on the dating apps and I’m not interested in being one of his fuck buddies. That’s when he said he didn’t care about being on those apps so he deleted them. It’s possible he did it to appease me but like someone else said time will tell. Its literally been 3 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InNo it’s okay! I’m not the best at communicating when I’m rambling so I can see how that would be confusing. I’m glad you gave me a little insight into the health care worker thing. He’s the only doctor I know and idk why I forget this damn pandemic is a thing (probably a coping mechanism) so hospitals are probably crazier than usual. And the exclusivity came about when he passed me his phone to order food once and I saw he still had hinge and tinder. I told him how that surprised me and I got ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InHm that’s a lot to consider. The only thing I’m iffy about is the parents thing. We have immigrants parents. you don’t bring someone home unless that’s about to be your life partner lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InOkay, can you explain that part further. “Not acting like a bf”. What should that look like at 3 months? (genuinely asking btw) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWait I think my rambles might have been confusing. He didn’t say he wouldn’t delete the dating apps. I asked him about it and then he did delete it. I’m not defending a man by any means but i’m just clarifying things. I didn’t ask for a serious relationship or anything. I just told him I’m not interested in seeing other people and he said “yeah neither am I”. We haven’t said “you’re my bf/gf” yet. And I did date a lot of guys last summer/fall actually that’s how I met him. And I was celibate for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InOh no i meant that it’s still within the first 6 trial months. I met him in november so it’s been like 3ish months. Definitely not expecting him to love me cuz i def don’t love him like that yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 15 | Dating as a woman irl: low effort coffee dates and disappointing sexI can’t get over him complaining about having to speak confidently during a date. What’s the alternative?? How else should one speak during a date lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI’ve been seeing this guy since Nov 2020 and he’s a little older (I’m 25 he’s 31). I was pretty skeptical of him because I did the whole older guy thing before and they can be man children. But we hit it off. We had sex about 2ish months in. It was before I found this sub but I honestly waited cuz I had back to back BV and yeast infections lmaoo. He’s an ER doctor so his schedule can be crazy and I try to be understanding but the beginning I felt like we had more fun together. And he had to work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Do not prepare him for his ‘forever home’This is why i refuse to teach men anything about love, healthy communication or anything about relationships. If you don’t already know it plz get tf away from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 3 | they literally think in porn categories 🙄As a black woman I’ve noticed how black men literally fetishize themselves. They love the attention esp from nonblack woman (which I’m assuming op is). I really hope they get some self esteem and realize they’re more than their genitals. Weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:33 PM |
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