| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 132 | Hypergamy hysteria debunked | LIES MEN TELL | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 11:06 AM |
| 87 | Never forget what manosphere "red pill" men are all about | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:28 PM | |
| 75 | Red pill red flags | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:07 AM | |
| 47 | Being ok with your single status | STRATEGY | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 08:30 PM |
| 45 | Married to a man who won't do any housework... | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:42 PM | |
| 1 | Men don't hate gold diggers, they're just mad when they can't afford them | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 08:58 AM | |
| 1 | Your view of promiscuity? | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 03:27 PM | |
| 0 | Why we shouldn't tell men our sexual past, exhibit #4562278 | Aurore11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:34 AM |
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| 5 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkWomen don't get good in bed through dozens of one night stands in which most of us don't even orgasm, but through passion and intimacy which require a committed relationship and love. Also, one of the top comments says "we want submissive wives" - I WANNA PUKE. I'm so happy that men who want submissive women think modern relationships are so bad for their interests that they never wanna get married. Thank god! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 22 | 😘And to all this I'd add: if you don't even approach women. I know men have to deal with the possibility of rejection and it probably doesn't feel good, but it just is what it is. Women are less likely to make the first move so if you want something to happen with a girl you like, you better be the one to approach her first. If it doesn't work - sorry, it sucked, move on. Even women don't have the luxury to be completely passive, stay at home and act antisocial, yet have men approach them - so ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 10 | Why we shouldn't tell men our sexual past, exhibit #4562278Did he use it against you or treat you differently afterwards? I don't think a man is LVM by default for calling himself sexually liberated and asking about sexual stuff - but if he indeed is liberated he won't care if you don't wanna talk about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 5 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.I am Eastern European myself (not Romanian) and I did experience some sense of "bigotry" when traveling to Western Europe. I wouldn't call it discrimination but I wasn't there long term so I didn't care either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages meAm I crazy or is this more like a parody of women's complaint about men? Especially the part where he commented men. I see everyone else likes it so I guess I may be reading too much into it, but that's the impression I got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 5 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.It could be prejudice against Eastern Europeans I assume. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 3 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.Romanians are not Romani, it's just a similar root in the nation's name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:32 PM |
| -8 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.Completely different topic, but what racism? Romanians are European and white. They tend to be darker than Northwestern Europeans but they're still obviously not of a different race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:19 PM |
| 142 | Why we shouldn't tell men our sexual past, exhibit #4562278RW means "right wing" Anyway, if he asks anything about your previous relationships and says he's sexually liberated, tell him you don't wanna talk about it. If he really is sexually liberated, he won't care. If he keeps asking, either directly or indirectly (for example, proposing new sex positions and asking if you tried it, asking about your friends' relationships and comparing you, etc) then he's just pretending in order to learn your "number" The thing is, even if your number is low, a man … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:47 AM |
| 74 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Even if that's 100% correct, and we all become bitter and jaded at the age of 30, it only means the following: men are only kind and decent to women if they want to have sex with them men only want to have sex with women in their 20s Makes me wonder why even give them time of day. Edit: formatting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:26 PM |
| 44 | After a lady ranted about low quality men, a man proceeded to suggest she give up her high paying job and nice apartment to attract better men.Shrink yourself, cut down on your own potential and give up on your accomplishments in order for him to feel good about himself next to you. Patriarchal advice for any woman with an average IQ or higher. Especially higher, even if just by a few points. I'd never want a man to let go of his desires to be with me and those who want that, regardless of gender, seem like sociopaths to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:45 PM |
| 6 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchThey're so butthurt about hypergamy, but it's the only thing they are willing to do themselves. This is true, but also if you don't end up with them by practicing hypergamy (i.e. you're out of their league), they'll get resentful after a while and probably cheat on you (with a woman closer to their league because she makes them feel masculine), but they'll most definitely treat you poorly. Have you noticed? If you give a chance to a less desirable man, it comes back to bite you in the a** | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:51 PM |
| 8 | I mean, who cares what people think but yeah, that is most definitely not the solution!I've been thinking a lot about this lately. On one hand I get it - beauty is related to health and fertility, and as such it signals the preservation of the species; I don't wanna bash a natural instinct just like that. Furthermore, even if you just focused on being healthy and taking care of yourself, you'd inevitably end up looking good, and definitely looking better than you would if you let yourself go. And this goes for men too - strong, fit men with proportionate faces are not just attract… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Covert misogyny is deeply embedded and can even seem “sweet”Good point, agreed. Even if it is misogyny, I wish this was the furthest misogyny ever goes. And not saying it shouldn't be dealt with in that situation - but we have far bigger fish to fry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Found this on an Instagram meme page and honestly I don‘t find it funny at all. The “women are crazy” stereotype was created by men to invalidate us and our boundaries.Well another anecdote about my ex - after our breakup he kept messaging me at random times for no good reason, trying to talk to me as if everything is ok with us - even though he was in a relationship with the girl with whom he cheated on me. I told him to stop texting me a few times, and then ignored him completely until he stopped (it took a while but at least he wasn't texting daily). Anyway, as I said in my first reply, I see how someone less mature and with less self discipline to go into … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:30 AM |
| 44 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightI wonder how many women over 35 who can't get pregnant are actually struggling because the sperm of the older father is making it additionally hard. If a woman is in her late 30ies and doing IVF, is it more likely to succeed with the sperm of her 40+ year old husband or the sperm of a sperm donor in his 20ies? I'm not suggesting dating men who are 10+ years younger, that must have its own set of issues, just talking about sperm performance. I did a very quick research and this is one of the firs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:09 AM |
| 11 | Found this on an Instagram meme page and honestly I don‘t find it funny at all. The “women are crazy” stereotype was created by men to invalidate us and our boundaries.My ex who "had a crazy ex gf" before me has spent the last few months of our relationship cheating on me. Then I started to wonder when, why and how he broke up with her (official story - more than 6 months prior to meeting me). And I wondered if I was also getting described as a "crazy ex" to his new gf during the time we still didn't break up and I was sensing something was very wrong but he kept on gaslighting me and even getting mad I'd doubt him. Not to say there are no chances for a man to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:14 AM |
| 5 | My boyfriend hasn’t been paying attention to me since quarantine.Pretty sure this is fake by some guy who wants to believe the worst about the women on FDS. In case it's not fake - break up with the man you cheated on, you obviously don't love and respect him (and it may very well be mutual) and ditch the loverboy. Stay single and celibate until you figure out what you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:29 PM |
| 12 | behold this person unwittingly doing us a favor. keep helping us spread the word, by all means!Is he as fervent about spreading negativity about various manosphere subs? I guess he isn't; men calling women irrational, evil bitches is not a problem - women refusing to date such men, now that's a tragedy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Red pill red flagsOh damn, I'm so sorry to hear that. Now that you see him for what he was, I hope it helps your recovery. It hurts to know that we were following an illusion, I know... but when you look at this from his perspective, I hope you realize how utterly worthless he is, and take back the energy you have lost due to his BS. These men are psychic vampires, they boost their sense of self worth by draining women. What lies behind that is emotional emptiness and lack of self love that needs to ruin others t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:48 AM |
| 26 | Red pill red flagsI would say the best giveaway is if he's using red pill techniques on you. It's highly unlikely he'll admit to being a red piller, or even that he'll use the lingo in front of you, but the whole point of wanting to avoid a red piller is to avoid his behavior in a relationship, so: pay attention to his behavior! Great news is that FDS makes you see through that even without knowing about the red pill - in fact, it makes you see even through men who don't know about red pill or PUA but are just ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Red pill red flagsThanks. I couldn't post a copy/paste text so I figured I can't post duplicate content. I could post as a comment though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:57 AM |
| 150 | Pretty much all of the comments were telling her she needs to COmMuNiCaTeExactly. He wants to spend time this way. If she insisted him to spend his time otherwise, it would be equal to him insisting her to play games and watch streams with him. So, they're incompatible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:25 AM |
| 87 | Never forget what manosphere "red pill" men are all aboutI would say the best giveaway is if he's using red pill techniques on you. It's highly unlikely he'll admit to being a red piller, or even that he'll use the lingo in front of you, but the whole point of wanting to avoid a red piller is to avoid his behavior in a relationship, so: pay attention to his behavior! Great news is that FDS makes you see through that even without knowing about the red pill - in fact, it makes you see even through men who don't know about red pill or PUA but are just ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 137 | Please fuck the robot and leave me alone. No loss on my half.Even if the guys interested in robots are good looking, it's still a relief to get rid of them. Even if they had relationships, if a sex bot fulfills their needs, the female gender is better off without them - imagine a relationship with someone who's bothered by you having you own personality, needs and feelings. Ironically sex bots may be what finally crushes the patriarchy, leaving all men who dehumanize women out of the dating pool and the gene pool. If you ask me, they can't come soon enoug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:01 AM |
| 12 | This guy is a self proclaimed incel, MGTOW. He has a YouTube channel talking about EvIL FeMiNiSts. Go on, take a wild guess, why he hates women. .... the fact he looks like foot disease might be be the cause ? Just a wild guess....The example of a man who only stands a chance of impressing a woman if all women are held back - not allowed to work or get an education. Guess what, guy - if her average salary and the fact she's not illiterate are making it hard for you to impress her, then maybe, just maybe, you're not worth sh*t. All antifeminist men who think women working and going to school is making it hard for men to impress women are implicitly admitting that men are less competent than women. That's hilarious if you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.I'd say it depends on how he goes about it. If he goes out of his way to flaunt it in front of you, that might be the case. But if he doesn't, I'd say there are two options. Either he genuinely changed and learned his lesson, or he's evolving like a virus does, by learning to better control his victim. Either way, the best way forward is to get over him and move on completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 10:14 AM |
| 80 | Current moodI oppose this. We'd rightfully call this LVM behavior if a man wrote it. We should try not to stoop to red pill levels, where they bash something when a woman does it and praise it when a man does it. I get this as a joke but if we're talking seriously, never enter a marriage if you don't mean it 100% and your husband doesn't mean it 100% too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of guys who follow a lot of models on Instagram?Omg!!! What a gaslighting piece of sh*t!!! You're much better off without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of guys who follow a lot of models on Instagram?You should, and save time for some other women who trapped themselves with such a moron. I knew deep down it would not be good if I was posting selfies to fish for likes and compliments from men online, so of course this behavior from a man was a bad sign. Imagine flipping the table, if you're seeking compliments from other guys and he speaks up, and then you call him insecure, controlling prick who wants to put you in a hijab. In reality there is a clear boundary between acting normally in your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 02:24 PM |
| 8 | What do you think of guys who follow a lot of models on Instagram?This, so true!!! I wish I didn't waste more than 3 years of my life to learn it. Gaslighting is the worst part maybe - he makes you feel guilty for being bothered by something that's legitimately bothersome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of guys who follow a lot of models on Instagram?My ex was like that. I saw it as a tendency to cheat and I was right. I wouldn't touch such a guy with a six foot pole now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 27 | They start young...Imo, other than the option that the kid is naturally depraved, it may very well be a porn addiction, like everyone said - but also exposure to incel, red pill and manosphere propaganda. The idea that women are running things and that's why he is single is straight out of manosphere handbook. A 14 year old kid doesn't just come up with that on his own. Not to mention that it's perfectly normal to be a virgin at his age, even at 18 or 19. Honestly if I ever have kids, wifi time is gonna be severel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 07:17 PM |
| 15 | 51-year-old says women his own age are too old to be loved. Fetishizes 25-year-olds.If there's one thing that ever made me lose faith in men and love it's men like him hitting on me when I was in my late teens and early 20ies. I've had a few heart breaks and bad break-ups, I had an ex cheat on me, but even that didn't make me think that male gender as a whole is not capable of love and that getting married is pointless. Luckily for me I had some examples that were a polar opposite as well, and I didn't stay in this mindset forever. But yeah men like this would make this world a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:01 AM |
| 85 | I don’t know what’s worse, the audacity or the fact that these were all from different profiles 🙄Good, out in the open so normal women can avoid him. However, with THAT photo and THOSE requirements, he won't attract a "good traditional girl" who wants to be in the kitchen, he'll attract a woman with some kink who is probably somewhat damaged, then when she goes nuts he'll bitch and whine because 'all women are like that, boo hoo" With a different photo and those requirements, he MIGHT attract a more traditional woman, but again here's the main issue - why should she offer to chip in? If he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:47 AM |
| 6 | Sperm from old Men increases birth defects. Info for the next old man that bothers you!Honestly I wonder how many women in their 30ies who can't concieve are actually married to older men. I never saw a study on that, I guess nobody ever even thought that something may be wrong with the father. I'd really like to see a comparison of the average age of the partner between women who have trouble getting pregnant in their 30ies vs those who don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:37 AM |
| 17 | Swedish model gets rape threats after ad shows her unshaven legs. Meanwhile...I don't mind it if a man prefers my legs, armpits and intimate zone to be shaved. In fact, I mostly prefer it too. But if he is disgusted by the mere sight of female body hair, he's disgusting himself. That's a major red flag, that man doesn't like women in their natural state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 8 | Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating StrategyThe myth that beautiful women don’t need a strategy because good relationships “just happen” is the new male cope to denigrate FDS members. In other words, they say that the good treatment from men that FDS members are trying to achieve is granted automatically to hot women. Even if it were 100% true - it's a good reason to follow FDS for women who are not model-tier. But of course this is another example of gaslighting. Just a scroll through red pill subreddit (if these men are not lying in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 59 | Anybody notice how men who fear "gold diggers" usually don't have any gold to dig?And yet most of such men would feel "emasculated" if a woman had a better job than them. They don't want you looking for financially stable men, they don't want you looking to achieve financial stability on your own, they want you to be satisfied with their bread crumbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:42 PM |
| 42 | Reminder to not do hookups because it just isn’t fucking worth itCould be some red pill crap to show women promiscuity isn't worth it. And I agree, it isn't - little do they know we're not ditching it to please patriarchal men (which they want) but to avoid them altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:38 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone else enjoy "trolling" jerks like this? I know responding is not a HV use of my time but it's entertaining for my friends and I 💁🏽♀️These are the same men who complain about all women being "immoral thots" once they decide to get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | If you have questions about dump his ass or if a man is a HVM read women’s pitiful stories about their lives with their bf/husbands that are everywhere else on Reddit. Those posts can give clarity like nothing else.Can you send it to me as well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 12:19 PM |
| 3 | The internalized misogyny in rpw is realYes, and that's why knowing about red pill is so important. If you're clueless, you are unknowingly a pawn in his game because you want to solve the problem, you wonder what's going on, etc... you see the whole situation as an enigma with some deeper meaning that he's not disclosing. But when you know about the red pill and you connect the dots, you know there's no enigma or deeper meaning, he's just an a**hole who's not worth your attention. That's why, I repeat, red pill should be mandatory re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 25 | The internalized misogyny in rpw is realRed pill subreddit should be mandatory reading for every woman! It's very sobering. Once you realize that the red pill brain virus is behind his "aloof" attitude, he stops appearing mysterious and you see him as a disgusting worthless piece of s*** that he really is. Recognize the red flags early, and ditch such men immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :)My fiancé. He supports my idea to start my own business which could be happening very soon. He also wants to start his own business but not that soon, and so far we're both working for other people. The fact that he doesn't feel threatened by the idea of me having my own business before him makes him sooooo high value in my eyes that I can't even begin to express how grateful and happy I am... (before him I wasted years of my life and shut down opportunities for my ex who hated the idea of me pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 01:30 AM |
| 7 | This dumbass scrote has poor reading comprehension. It somehow think FDS preaches women be financially dependent on men. Oh, it also seems to think that its refusal to date a FDS woman is something we care about.Tbh what I noticed from such guys is that they're mad they can't afford to get trophy wives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 20 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Been there. It's like, once he gets an ego boost from you, he'll try to see how many other women he can score. Though before I conclude it's male behavior only, I must admit - this is a "gender neutral" tendency of ugly people - men and women alike. From what I personally have seen, the worst adultery and back stabbing stories in which women were the culprits, the women were always ugly. And when I say ugly I mean by universal standards, not having proportionate bodies and faces, crooked teeth, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 8 | This dumbass scrote has poor reading comprehension. It somehow think FDS preaches women be financially dependent on men. Oh, it also seems to think that its refusal to date a FDS woman is something we care about.Yes I'm sure his kind just love it when a woman is doing well financially, is educated, has a good career etc. It's really a thing that opponents of FDS appreciate in women... /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:18 PM |
| 5 | I miss the guy who mentally abused me and played mind gamesYes, I'm pretty sure that is at the core of your need for painful love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | #truthUgh. They're not the same as us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 11 | I miss the guy who mentally abused me and played mind gamesYou can only fall for it when you don't love yourself. We're attracted to people who treat us the same way we deep down treat ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 12 | Presenting: The official Pickmisha wedding cakeI'd rather become a crazy cat lady than marry someone who has to be pressured into being with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | #truthI don't understand why people downvote you btw. You said nothing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 05:07 PM |
| 4 | “She is crazy!!” is any man’s favorite description of a woman he used to date 🙄I wasted years of my life with my ex for not realizing this. Then he played me and cheated, but wouldn't wanna stop texting me an basically playing with my hurt feelings even after I found out everything. Luckily for me, I learned about the healing dignity of no contact after my first heartbreak so I quickly went into "ignore mode". However, I can see how some girl struggling with maintaining no contact could give the guy plenty of material to portray her as "crazy". Girls, there's nothing wrong… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:55 PM |
| 9 | #truthI get your point, but we shouldn't give up on a word that's originally made to describe us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:36 PM |
| 61 | Daily reminder to NEVER TELL MEN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY. They can and will hold it over your head, even if they seem fine with it at first. Don’t fall into this all too common trap.I don't like the "I think" part. She should get checked for STDs. I wouldn't even say "hide your sexual history", I'd say dump him if he asks. Unless you're a virgin and he has to know for "technical reasons" when you first have sex, don't go there. Even if it was just 1 guy, if your bf is pathetic (and if he asks, chances are high that he is), he could build up some negative fantasy about it in his head. Another reason why he may ask is if he's one of those human trash sort of men who want to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:36 PM |
| 5 | From R/NoSo(couldn't cross post) This is so DISGUSTING and ultimate low. A grown man and pissing on the floor and expecting his wife to clean it.UPDATE: he cleaned it! https://www.reddit.com/r/JustNoSO/comments/em2kzc/he_cleaned_the_damn_floor/ I went to check out that subreddit and this is one of the first posts I saw. Now, ladies - is "he cleaned his piss" really something you want to be happy about? Is it a sentence you even want to have to pronounce when talking about your partner, ever in your life? If the answer is no, stay away from LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:10 AM |
| 47 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on RedditYeah I had no idea that so many men appreciated women who display financial independence in front of them, and who offer sex without too much standards. Because these same men seem to be horrified at the thought of promiscuous women, and feel "emasculated" by financially independent women. Based on how they bash FDS one would think those guys have actually adopted all the principles of liberal feminism and genuinely believe in total equality between men and women. Yet in reality, these guys hate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Saw this on a friends profile. Thoughts?Agreed. Besides, turning to bitterness and resentment makes me think I'm becoming a female version of red pill or mgtow and that immediately sets me straight. Besides I know a fair share of amazing men, bashing men as a whole, or masculinity, just doesn't make sense as it wouldn't apply to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 14 | Saw this on a friends profile. Thoughts?A bit too fluffy for my taste, but overall not as pickme as it may seem at first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:10 PM |
| 28 | LVM gaslight a mother of three into thinking she is wrong for not wanting to hire a younger hotter nanny.Oh no, that really sucks. It's an incredible story of emulating the example your parents set for you, even if at one time you may have suffered because of it. At the same time, I feel so bad for the kid he was, and disgusted by the man he is now. I'd also say he had more character and integrity at the age of 9. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:22 AM |
| 60 | LVM gaslight a mother of three into thinking she is wrong for not wanting to hire a younger hotter nanny.You have to hand it to him, the guy is a master manipulator! A prime example of gaslighting... "you're sexist if you won't hire a woman"... notice she doesn't say she wouldn't hire an old lady - just not a young hot one. If anything, that's ageism and lookism (if you care about -isms) but he goes for "sexist" because he knows it could, at least in theory, totally affect his wife from an employer. Also, on a different note, if I had to hire a nanny I'd prefer an older woman, ideally one who has k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:11 AM |
| 30 | LVM gaslight a mother of three into thinking she is wrong for not wanting to hire a younger hotter nanny.Oh my god!!! Sorry for asking a personal question and feel free to not reply but what standing does your father have in your brother's eyes after that? That's so awful, poor kid :( As for the rest of the post, makes perfect sense, I guess that's the dynamic behind many affairs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:04 AM |
| 9 | Another day, another old man who marries a much younger woman from the Philippines who wonders why she doesn’t want him for who he is and is eager to start a family. Men are hypergamous.A 64 year old man who's infertile and can't knock up a young, fertile woman, who wants nothing more to do with his geezer weiner?? He was 50 when he married her and they were married for like 2 years... which sheds an even worse light on the supposed eternal fertility of men. Women can still get pregnant til their late thirties and some even in their early 40ies. If all men supposedly have sooooo much more time, shouldn't they be able to impregnate a woman fairly easily in their early 50ies? And… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:54 AM |
| 32 | Today is a Good Day. Just Found Out My Evil Time Wasting Ex was Deported. I’m So Happy I Could CryConsider yourself very lucky he didn't marry you to get citizenship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 07:42 PM |
| 4 | We’re not safe on LinkedIn evenRed pill men, MGTOWs etc: men don't like women over 30 with a good career and high education. Linkedin inbox of women over 30 with a good career and high education: full of men asking to meet them. And still they come off as creepy and get ignored by "desperate lonely career driven spinsters." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Couldn’t we just vote instead?How is this any better than patriarchy? And I'm not defending patriarchy here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:27 PM |
| 17 | Contradictions and HypocrisiesAnother one, but this may be just sheer ignorance - they feel attacked by feminist campaigns against hitting on women on the street, catcalling etc... but in reality, before feminism, had a man done that 100 years ago, the brothers or the father of the girl would have beaten the living sh*t out of him. Not to mention there were even laws against "seduction", as silly as it may seem to us today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 25 | Contradictions and HypocrisiesThey complain modern women are sluts. But when women actually have standards they screech about "hypergamy", call them stuck up bitches etc. Also, while we're on the topic of sluts - they spends years feeding female "slutiness" in various ways, they dump girls who won't have sex ASAP (or if they don't dump them - they cheat on them to get sex on the side), they ignore and overlook girls who are not dressing provocatively, they follow half-naked girls on social media, they admire male promiscuity… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Dating - Engagement - Marriage TimelineI don't think there's a "one size fits all" rule when it comes to how long a relationship should be, but the key point is in what you said - a man who wants you will make it happen. I honestly can't think of anything that would make feel less feminine than being with a man, loving a man, and expecting certain things from a man who's reluctant to pursue me and is rationalizing on whether or not I'm worth his commitment. That's an instant passion killer. Whatever the ideal "timeline" is, if your h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Pick me! Pick me! Im so unique compared to other women!They go through all that trouble to appear unique and special, only to be treated like s**t by the low value guys they end up with. I could kinda get this if it was used to lure some super hot millionaire, or a king of some country, or some guy along those lines... but all this effort and self flagellation to end up with some low value beta who can only feel alfa by humiliating women (and probably bows down to other men around him)? Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 25 | Boyfriend of 2.5 years starting to constantly add women to IGMy ex did that. I interpreted it as an interest in establishing a contact with women, as an ego boost, and I feared it could show tendency to be unfaithful. However, I didn't wanna leave a relationship I otherwise saw as good back then (lol). Big mistake - he ended up cheating on me and that's why we broke up. That's when I realized I'd never again be with a man who does such stuff. Women cut men a lot of slack for being "visual" and tbh I'm even fine with that, but the moment it turns into him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Being ok with your single statusI'm so happy I could help with my story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Being ok with your single statusDefinitely. You're not in a hurry to overlook flaws and disregard reg flags just for the sake of having a guy in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Being ok with your single statusI forgot to mention this part. I heard freezing egg cells is not as safe as most people think so I'm reluctant to recommend it to young women. I was never a fan of sperm donation but back when I was single, I figured if past a certain age I really feel like I want to care for children, I'd try to become a foster parent. Either way, making a plan in this department should also be a part of woman's plan for single life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Another reason Why Liberal Feminism Is Not compatible with FDSTo be honest, to me they seem like girls with very strict fathers, who are now "rebelling against dad's strict and extreme rules" by acting in a promiscuous manner and/or glorifying prostitution (or even worse, by practicing it)... They're not realizing that just because you rebel against one set of rules it doesn't mean you have empowered yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Aging, over 30, dating as a womanThat's what I came here to say. If any group of men ever made me feel like love and marriage are pointless, that would be much older men who made a move on me. My train of thought was - if so many old men are after young women, how would I ever trust my husband one day not to lust after young girls. Of course not all men are into it, but the shitty ones stand out. Overall I always felt so repulsed by those men that I can hardly see how anyone would want them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:46 PM |
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