AuspexAO Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
91	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't.	Red Pill Theory	AuspexAO	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:06 PM

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1	You're not unlucky, You're just Lazy Yup. The modern male needs to have the old school fortitude driven by an understanding that reality isn’t fair and you don’t win by showing up. However he also needs to be a renaissance man who is both skilled and well-learned. I’m getting up there in age too, but I try to caution myself against nostalgia. After all, the only thing that matters is what lies before us.	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/18 08:45 PM
5	You're not unlucky, You're just Lazy You ARE your genes, that much is true. I’d say the biggest difference between men that say they have “bad luck” and men who “make their own luck”. Has everything to do with their ability to act. Weaknesses can be shored up, gaps in knowledge can be filled. I was sitting in my living room with a girl the other day and what of all things did she bring up but motherfucking incels, ha ha. I had an alert flash in my mind. Was she reading my posts here? Nope. Incels are apparently big news now. Anyway…	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/18 08:36 PM
2	The Cut: Sex Diaries [AF, BB, sloots] - too real. Like, who writes this shit? Wellll...it does and it doesn’t change them. Women who have resources locked down and have a solid whipped man in their life will continue their hypergamy even when depreciated. I will tell you that there is some serious fucking panicking at that age if they don’t own a home and are still hanging out in the wind without a permanent dude. Most of these women are affluent and don’t have resource issues. A lot of the post-Walls in my line of work, despite being well-paid career women, are freaking …	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 11:32 PM
2	The Cut: Sex Diaries [AF, BB, sloots] - too real. Like, who writes this shit? Fucking love NYC. It’s too goddamn expensive to live there though (Colorado where I live is starting to fucking creep though). Spent a few business trips there and the women are definitely hard up. Probably has to do with male/female ratio. Denver is a sausage party, but despite being fit and built, most guys here have garbage game.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 11:25 PM
1	Not Everything You Do Will Be Perfect Exactly. A lot of people mistake frame for ego. Identifying and correcting your flaws is what life is. Denying you have flaws means that you’re not spending time at the forge, hammering yourself into a more successful man. Over time your unidentified and uncorrected flaws will make you brittle and weak. Alphas adapt and survive—adaptation implies imperfection.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 10:49 PM
2	Reminder: Never discuss your feelings I recently started dating a woman who I call (not to her face) my coal mine canary. Everytime I start talking too much about my shit her face gets immediately bored. She has absolutely no tact and I fucking love it. If I see that bored face come up I know I need to get physical (sexually, I’m not beating her) or toss some light dread for fun. Yes, she’s super boring to talk to, but as a plate she’s actually amazing because she keeps me honest.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 07:47 PM
1	How to lose weight and stop over-eating Mmmm, be careful about giving medical advice about the heart. People should see their doctor for any weight loss exceeding 2lbs/week to make sure they are fit. Extreme positive changes are awesome, but the body does find them stressful and that stress can even lead to renal failure in some cases.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 07:26 PM
1	How to lose weight and stop over-eating Eat less calories than your adjusted BMR. Exercise including 150 minutes/week of cardio and resistance training to create muscle tone which will help spend calories at rest. That is the Alpha and the Omega of weight loss. Anything else you add to that to mentally prepare is perfectly fine though. If someone wants to fast and meditate, keto, paleo, South Beach it’s all good in the hood. As long as you are running at a calorie deficit and exercising to burn even more you’ll lose tons.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 07:24 PM
6	"Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not! 40 next year. Man, I don’t know about you but the age thing is not a boundary at all. I had one of those weird moments the other day when I was talking to this 22 year old college student at my friend’s party and she kept following me from convo to convo as I mingled. My old BP brain said “she must be scared around all these guys and I’m someone she trusts.” Then, as I’m flirting with a hot PA from my buddy’s office, the girl grabs my hand and kind of presses her whole body up against me in a cl…	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 05:44 PM
11	[FR] A More Socially-Acceptable Version of Redpill theory I think we fucked up somewhere along the way by being soft with our women and tough around other dudes. I have three little bros and they are my biggest source of manly support. When my bro has doubts with his marriage, he doesn’t show them to his wife, he brings them to us. I’m not here to pass judgement over men who want to be “best friends” with their wife or gf. That’s for you to decide. Just remember that everytime you disclose a weakness to a mate, you are basically making a case for why t…	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 04:48 PM
23	A letter to the procrastinator I was on the PS4 last night playing some Wildlands and I hadn’t lifted yet. My hamster told me to level up some more and that I was already looking pretty good. I mean I could skip a night, right? Then, and I kid you not, I got this shitty feeling that I was leveling up some digital merc and not leveling up my own muscles. That got me off ass and to the gym. It’s not guilt or anything. I just have better priorities now even though the call to be a turd is strong in me.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 04:07 PM
4	A letter to the procrastinator Everything is about wants. The end result of working hard or studying is to get something we want. Not engaging in instant gratification should be done with an understanding that you are postponing one minor want (a donut) for a greater want (getting laid). Life is triage. We always have to make choices and have priorities. It’s a sign of shitty character to always take the easy low payout over the big difficult ones.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/18 04:00 PM
1	Guide for weight loss I dropped 15k (American) and I mostly had lower belly problems and thighs. Chest required a little work, but not as bad as the stomach. I started getting a little more into bodybuilding techniques to get a six-pack, etc, but I'm not as dedicated to that level of precise eating as a I should be. As a result, I mostly just have strong arms and a decent chest, but my core is still just ok. I think I have the lifting disease known as arms&chest-itis, ha ha. Edit: Hey, btw, thanks for standing strong…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 07:23 PM
3	Guide for weight loss Mine came to about $15,000 (USD) all told. I was "lucky" because most of my fat was in my gut and upper thighs so I didn't need arm surgery, lower legs, etc. Those were still nice and elastic. Maybe TMI, but if you carry a lot of fat near your penis (like a fat pad around your groin), your weight loss will buy you back a ton of dick. That's a nice ego boost on top of the added SMV.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 07:02 PM
1	Guide for weight loss Let's math a bit, bro. I'll make it all clear. Let's use me: 6'2" 190 lbs 39 years old My basal metabolic rate (the amount of calories my body eats at complete rest) is 1925. I know that number by heart now, but you can calculate it using a BMR calculator online. So I can eat 1925 calories a day and stay at 190 lbs. If I eat less I will lose weight. Now we need to apply the Harris Benedict Formula to figure out how much our daily exercise will effect calorie loss. I do "moderate" so my modifier …	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 06:54 PM
1	Guide for weight loss Whether you're in camp keto or not, drinking water is absolutely a great idea. It's counterintuitive because drinking more water actually makes the body retain it less, so you won't bloat as much and being dehydrated will actually slow the metabolic process (because water is necessary for the renal system to function at full capacity).	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 06:29 PM
2	Guide for weight loss I have a feeling the OP is going to get a lot of shit, but I would like to support him because his post is not only scientifically accurate, it is also something that a lot of people deny fiercely to this day. I was weighed about seven years ago at the doctor's office at 387 pounds. It was the heaviest I've ever been in my life. That was also around the time I took the pill and I knew what had to be done. You don't have to do anything except for diet and exercise, period. If keto or paleo helps …	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 06:01 PM
20	Your own sense of style Fit is paramount, for sure. I hope no one here is putting money down on an Armani suit and not getting it tailored, but as abdaba said you need to get even your regular off-the-shelf shit fit. Following fashion isn't really that important. If I told you about my most expensive shit like the Ermenegildo Zegna ties and my LV and Burberry jackets, you'd probably get the impression of a snobby, high-priced shopper, but that ain't even close. My Burberry coat was a steal at a vintage store for like $…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 05:39 PM
5	Confessions of a guy that has ruined his mental game with Hookers, Steroids, Videogames, Drugs, Porn and in general taking the easy way out. It'll depend on your age. There are lots of guys on here that range from under 18 to 50+ Even a fit guy with good T levels isn't going to get hard every six seconds when he's pushing 50. Libido is going to gradually decline over the course of a man's life. I didn't get the proof out of my fabulous ass or anything, but you're just going to have to trust 7 years of school on this one, ha ha.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 04:52 PM
6	'NO' is my favorite word... Here is why. Bosses love to "highly recommend" a lot of shit. Unless they're putting money in my pocket for it, they don't get my time. If they don't like it they can fire me and I can take my talent to South Beach.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 04:46 PM
1	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill Fair enough. I thought it was purely in the interest of altruism. I just wanted to thoroughly dispel the myth that just wanting to fuck is somehow taking advantage of a woman. It's only that if you do BP shit like promise her things and claim to love her. Otherwise, it's just two people getting down.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/18 12:52 AM
1	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill The question I have for you, and this is not a mockery but a question in good faith: If you want care and physical affection from women and decide against it, how is that philosophy serving you? I understand how you are serving society and serving women. But how is that helping you? I'm not advocating total selfishness as a principle, but if the one thing you want is what you are 100% not getting, then that's not even a compromise, it's just denial. I'm not feeding women a lot of free meals and …	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 09:58 PM
1	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill As I frequently post, the only MGTOW I respect is one that is so focused on bettering themselves that they don't have time for women. If you're a MGTOW Olympic Athlete, I think that's fucking rad. I'm guessing there aren't a hell of a lot of people who go without women because they're some kind of athlete or academic god.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 09:46 PM
1	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill Societies rely on "panem et circenses" (bread and circuses) to keep the people placated and happy. Monogamy is a glue for society, as is the idea that "everyone has someone" that keeps people dreaming and working in hope that their resources will attract a mate. The red pill reference was, of course, a nod to waking up from a false world, but that awakening leads to so much more than just how woman and men really are or that men need to adapt or die. It's also waking up from the lies civilizatio…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 08:51 PM
8	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill Ha ha, in the medical biz we call that gall bladder risk, son! (Female, Fat, and Forty)	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 08:25 PM
2	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill Fuck yeah man. Mountain climbing is a great physical hobby to have, too. So many women at my gym climb and are always looking for a partner and they always want a guy too...I wonder why ;). I'm not getting on a mountain for love or money, so I should shoot you some referrals, ha ha.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 08:16 PM
8	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill What you are saying is exactly how I view myself. I will NEVER be perfect. I'm not going to be 20 again, or have a billion dollars to be able to have fifty coeds on a yacht party. The idea that I need perfection to have sexual encounters with members of the opposite sex is just as dangerous of a fantasy as believing that "the one" who understands my every thought and desire will be delivered to me via a "meet cute" like in every romcom. You don't need to be perfect to stop being trash. I started…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 07:50 PM
1	How to hold frame (my complete guide) You know it, brother. I try to think of it as gene therapy. I'm adopting their traits to further myself as an organism. Naturally, I respect their raw ability to get women, but I do have desirable traits of my own (non PU game related) that I think make for a better all-around man.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 07:40 PM
7	How to better approach higher-tiered women Sorry for the late reply, but you asked me about good ways to ask for a number. My personal favorite is to have a little light convo, and then say, "I didn't think I'd be having such a good time at the ____ (supermarket, bowling alley, S&M dungeon). I've got get out of here, but give me your number and I'll call you later." That's super simple, but it'll work unless you get a husband/boyfriend drop. At that point you choose if you want to overcome that particular objection or not. A good one for…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 07:36 PM
9	Eye contact That's the John Wayne. He used to do that when entering a room.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 09:36 PM
6	Friend Gains the Interest of a Bitch We Both Found Hot, Promptly Fucks it All Up Yeah this is some textbook bullshit. BP me would have been cringing a little at Jimmy. Even BP guys should have no problem getting laid in college. Pussy is flying at you all the time. It's like Moses cursed the people of collegypt with a plague of pussy.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 08:46 PM
5	Friend Gains the Interest of a Bitch We Both Found Hot, Promptly Fucks it All Up Don't hate the woman. Woman is doing her thing. Hell, woman gave Jimmy a chance to get down, and it sounds like he wanted to get into Guinness for being the only guy not to bang her. If you take your friend hunting and he won't stop shooting his dick off, it's not the deer's fault. Hell, if it weren't for girls like Katie, college would have sucked.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 08:42 PM
2	How to better approach higher-tiered women Attractive people have a nice hard shell around them. I don't like calling it "self-confidence" as much as I think of it as "buying into your own bullshit". I don't aim to make some woman hate herself, merely to remind her that we are both human and we both like to flirt and fuck.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 08:13 PM
1	NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill. I see a lot of the posts you're talking about, but I think it's understandable to a limit. A lot of these guys feel betrayed because their oneitis ended in a complete wipeout and they want to vent a little. It's not like the mods are allowing circle jerk gripe posts.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 08:09 PM
2	NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill. Some women are surprisingly cool with the core concepts of TRP. I have a young man at my job that is BP (but starting to fight it) and I'll give him little pieces of advice when he asks. I don't try and fill him up on the sidebar or anything, he's not there yet. Most of the time there's a lady or two around and they always agree with me. Could be it's just that they're absorbing into my frame, but a lot of the shit women complain about in men: "smothering", "stalking," "obsessing" is all just co…	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 07:41 PM
1	NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill. I don't know. I feel like being a 385 pound man playing PS3 and eating candy out of a bag was so much more rewarding then my current life of fun, women, and not getting the diabetes. You guys really fucked me over with your hate group! I want my money back! (Note to NPR: I didn't pay these guys any money)	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 07:33 PM
1	NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill. Good advice. I'd say go one further and don't bother explaining yourself. Your actions and frame will be self-evident.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 07:27 PM
1	NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill. "I don't believe in 'isms' I just believe in me." Ha ha. I agree. You guys are my brothers in the philosophy of self-development and the understanding of male/female relations. I don't care if you fly a blue or red flag. I don't care if you're rich as shit or poor as dirt. I see a lot of people post shit I don't agree with, but as long as it's not part of TRP discussion, it's not my place to try and change them to be something. That's not why we're all here. To the media I say: You need to know …	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 07:21 PM
1	How to hold frame (my complete guide) I didn't read that as a single woman. I don't think he's advocating oneitis. I think it's more like the reward for your alpha traits can also be dangerous, because the second you start feeling like you don't have to work hard anymore, someone is going to fuck you over. I think it's a call for discipline even when you think you've got your game on lock.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 07:06 PM
1	How to hold frame (my complete guide) This is insightful. I was born a beta, so I'll never have the perfect killer instincts of an alpha, but I have also faced a lot of failure and have known what it's like to get shit on. Those experiences also made me stronger. In theory, a perfect alpha would also be perfectly adaptable, so failure wouldn't phase him and he would rise above it. However, I think the reality of actual alpha men as opposed to the perfect example we use is that the guys who are naturally talented often don't have the…	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 07:02 PM
20	How to better approach higher-tiered women I fucking love this. I need to do it at least once in my life. I also like: Me: Buy me a drink! Her: Ha ha, why should I? Me: Because you'll be less likely to toss it in my face if you spent your hard earned money.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 06:35 PM
16	How to better approach higher-tiered women This is a great opportunity to refine your "negging" process. Please keep in mind that saying something negative to a HB is not turning yourself into some fucking insult comic. If you're swaggering up and saying "yer ugly, wanna fuck?" then you're going to be spending a lot of time lamenting how we all lied to you about the power of negging. Sometimes all it takes to negate someone's social shell is just to treat them like any other woman of no particular attractiveness. The reason you lead with…	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 06:30 PM
1	Girls and Personality Yeah, laughter as a social cue can mean a ton of different things. When one of my friends won't stop laughing around a HB, I know he's nervous. People also laugh when they're scared or threatened. It's pretty safe to say, though, when you're having a one on one with a woman and she's laughing at your lines (in a non-mocking way, obviously) then she's yours.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:49 PM
11	Girls and Personality Just remember that vengeance is another form of giving a shit. The coldest thing you can do to a person is find them unworthy of any and all interaction.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 11:09 PM
8	Girls and Personality A high value woman won't subvert her will to yours as much, but she also won't feel the need to constantly contradict you in public. Think of your own actions around people you respect. You may disagree with them, but you don't constantly bash their choices in front of others to try and fuck with them.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 11:06 PM
10	Girls and Personality Borderline Personality Disorder. Read the sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 11:04 PM
38	Girls and Personality It also bleeds into humor. An IOI I can rely on without fail is tell a shitty joke and seeing who laughs at it genuinely. Not in a socially polite way, but an actual laugh. It's a reaction that she will internalize as "this guy is funny" but it's actually "I want this guy."	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 11:02 PM
1	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. Agreed. Admittedly in my old age (I'm about to turn 40) and since my transformation in body and mind, the world is starting to kind of fall into place for me. I don't really have issues with women trying to cheat on me or disrespect me anymore. I date the smart ones at work (mostly healthcare professionals) and really run into a lot of psychological problems more so than the classic shit tests and cheating from the bar rats. Honestly, I kinda preferred talking shit to a loud HB8 at a bar then ha…	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 04:51 PM
1	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. Yeah, same with my dad. He taught me how to fight, but said I couldn't fight a boy who was smaller than me and I could never fight unless struck first. He never really taught me about frame, though, so I didn't realize that a lot of the kind of shit that happens between kids at school was a series of shit tests. It led me to fucking up some kids I probably should have been friends with and getting fucked up by others I should have stayed away from, ha ha.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 04:30 PM
2	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. I wonder about that a lot when I talk to you guys here on the sub. I think it's possible that what you say could come to pass. It's not beyond rationality. I tend to believe in the elastic nature of society, though. I think that hypergamy and all that comes with it is a reaction to women being capable of being independent and providing for their own resources. What did men change to keep up with this alteration in the social contract? Nothing! The guys here and the stories being shared are a goo…	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 03:45 PM
1	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. That could have been clearer in my post. I wasn't postulating that human beings have changed in any significant way. The "times" aka culture, society, acceptable behavior is different. Hypergamy is a relatively new thing in our society, for example, but the attraction to "alpha" traits isn't some new revelation. I like women, even the "shitty" ones. I just used to idolize them and misunderstand their psychology. Now I think of them as human beings and understand that their motivations are not as…	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 03:30 PM
6	Have a Kanye Attitude about Your Race Oh I will ha ha. Speaking of stereotypes, where I work (I work in medicine) there are a lot of Asian and Indian women. I find professionalism and intelligence to be almost as big of a turn-on as physical beauty, so I tend to gravitate towards them. I know not all Asians are science nerds, but my choice of profession puts all the eggs in that basket, ya know?	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 09:00 PM
1	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. Yeah, I guess that's fair. My only first hand experience is with my own family, obviously, and they definitely weren't boning prostitutes overseas, ha ha. In fact, my grandfather never spent any time in foreign nations. He had CAP in California and flew a few times in American waters, because he was too young to be involved in the early moments of the War in the Pacific.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:56 PM
7	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. I think that my father, had he grown up in my time, would have been very much like me. He wasn't a pussy because my mother respected him and valued him as a provider. He and I are both excellent with our hands and do DIY shit, fix cars, etc. When I was in my beta phase I always remember hearing all those girls I was orbiting/friendzoned with telling me how skilled I was and how "girls would love to have a man like you around." It's only a matter of time before you realize that women DO like havi…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:46 PM
3	What our fathers can teach us, and what they can't. Oh the Chads were always out there, man. There's no doubt. The difference is in how resource gathering was and is viewed. There was also a great deal of social pressure on women not to be promiscuous. The culture HAS shifted, although I think you're right in saying that human behavior hasn't. It was easy for a man like my grandfather, who was of strong moral fiber, to be a one woman man because it was expected of him and my grandmother, and straying from that path would have cast him in a negati…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:40 PM
3	Have a Kanye Attitude about Your Race Good man. For me, it's kinda the opposite. I really like Asian women and a lot of them will avoid me because I'm 6'2" and bearded. So, really, just keep pursuing physical and mental greatness. No one approach works for every woman, but being a ripped and wordly man is going to win you a lot of tail.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:34 PM
2	Have a Kanye Attitude about Your Race Ha ha, not really. I'm mostly norse myself (and a little welsh) so I definitely embrace some of the stereotypes. I style a beard that breaks the no grey hair rule (I dye my actually hair) and wear colors that pop my blue eyes and diminish the effect of my pale skin. I recommend investing in a few expensive blue or purple silk shirts, tight fighting with a very slight sheen. With some forearm tats and the sleeves rolled up, you'll look like a modern Viking ready to do some fucking and pillaging.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:21 PM
1	TRP is not about preventing you from making mistakes. It’s about telling you what to expect I think the bright side is the kind of stubbornness that makes a man willing to hold onto outdated philosophies for so long will also help fuel the dedication it takes to learn a new one. You just have to make that choice to not be wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 08:12 PM
3	TRP is not about preventing you from making mistakes. It’s about telling you what to expect As an older guy who's finally sorted shit out, I like it how TRP doesn't pretend to be some kind of bullshit religion. No one is forcing anyone to do anything, and when I talk to guys on here about my experiences being an incel and how I shook that shit off, I know they are taking notes and saying, "I don't want that. I don't want to have to wait until my mid-thirties to start being a man." I salute you young men who will be a better man than I was at a much younger age. You'll take some scars y…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 07:34 PM
3	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Affluence leads to comfort and comfort leads to decay. It's a story as old as time. The wolves need to be bred back into the dogs, my friend. In this case the "wolf DNA" is the aggression and masculinity of the very thugs and criminals mentioned in this article. The key is to adopt those traits without destroying the edge we already have (resource producing talents, reason and worldliness). I don't want to BE a serial killer or a convict, but obviously the allure they have to the opposite sex ne…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 05:16 PM
2	Get to average first I asked about how your friends and associates view you as a person. As far as your hair goes, you shouldn't listen to your mother. It's a mother's job to nuture and protect her children. She's not trying to get you laid, ha ha. When I was 380 pounds of fat nerd, my mom told me I was handsome and would totally find a nice girl who appreciated me for my wit and brains. I was not handsome, I was revolting. I would not have found a girl, because my wits and brains only helped me to hamster all my ob…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 05:07 PM
3	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Monogamy is a social construct and having life time pair bonds helps to stabilize our civilization. I think, ultimately, things will settle back into those stable LTRs once men learn how to start being attractive again. The ball is in our court.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 01:01 AM
4	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") The cure for society will be the adoption of philosophies like TRP. Right now the scumbags of the world are out breeding the people of real value. However, once enough men learn to overthrow the beta values that have been programmed into us by the outright fairy tales society tells us, we will see men of real strength that are also productive members of society and strong leaders and role-models for future children. We are the vanguard of the new male. I know that sounds dramatic and, frankly, r…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 12:58 AM
3	Frame is EVERYTHING Ha ha, well...sure. Yeah, you can't just walk up to someone in an attempt to persuade them and say "Wizzle wuzzle" or some other nonsense like that. But my point is that you can say anything as long as that thing aligns with the reality you wish to create. It doesn't matter if I say global warming is man made or just a natural form of the planet. If I say it like an annoying, pushy dork then people will get upset with me. If I make either argument with charm and confidence I can at the very leas…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 12:21 AM
8	Frame is EVERYTHING I think you are mistaking a social argument for a logical one. It's not the same thing. The goal of a logical argument is to prove the veracity of your statement. The purpose of a social argument is to establish dominance in a social setting. The difference is between a scientific consortium and a political debate. If I wanted to prove how one medical treatment is better than another in a specific circumstance, I would value a rational discussion with eloquent and well-explained talking points. …	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 11:45 PM
17	Frame is EVERYTHING Frame is not about hiding or acting. Frame is an actual reprogramming of your social being. I love self-deprecating humor in my job environment because people know I know my shit and I use it to relieve tension when they fuck up. I want them to chill out and get back to work instead of killing themselves over a mistake. I'll say something like, "I do dumb shit like that all the time" and slap them on the back. Do I do dumb shit all the time? No. Do they think I do? No. They see it for what it is…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 11:25 PM
2	Get to average first Interesting. How would you describe the way other people think of you? Not family, but friends and associates.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:57 PM
5	Get to average first Tats are also fantastic cold openers because women can't fucking stop asking about them. Treat the question as if it were an IOI. Do some flexing (accidently, riiight) to show of the tats and if you're lucky they'll show you theirs which is a kino opener without being creepy.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:00 PM
4	Get to average first Agreed on the shaving thing. Bald men can look physically imposing, powerful, and aggressive if you market your look right. I have a few late thirties buds who look like they're sixty because they're hanging onto their bullshit strands.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:56 PM
10	Get to average first The mind needs to change before the body can. It's one thing to say "get to average" but "average" from "slovenly" is no different than advancing from "average" to "superior". If a person doesn't have the discipline to accept change, then change will not occur. The baseline of everything that happens in this forum, in this philosophy, is the WILL TO IMPROVE. Lifting, talking to many, maaany women to get over awkwardness, learning to mingle and stay socially agile. But dressing nice, showering, a…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:35 PM
1	[FR] Why You Should Always Assume Attraction That's right I love to kiss my pythons and correct everyone's grammar! Nah, I just like having the straight flush to play if I need it. A lion resting in the hot sun looks like a big ol' sleepy kitty cat. Most people are probably still not gonna start shit with him though, ha ha.	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/18 10:45 PM
1	[FR] Why You Should Always Assume Attraction I'm "out" as a RedPiller. However, I'm also not the most aggressive when it comes to gender roles, etc. I don't care if there's a woman president or a woman in the military. I couldn't give less of a shit about any of that. I can see how some posts in here could get you in hot water with your job or family, ha ha. I'm interested in women, I love their company and I love sex. I also like being the smartest and strongest guy in the room. If my friends and family don't like that, they can march rig…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/18 06:05 PM
1	My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge. I don't mean this as an insult, but I laughed the entire time I read this. I didn't realize (probably due to moderation) that dudes were so into fucking toys. Sexual gratification is only a small part of sexual strategy. There is a satisfaction that only comes with sexual conquest. I'm not being sexist or whatever saying this, because women feel it too. There is no woman banging a sex toy who will say it's "just as good" as a man. Hell, even if a woman is sleeping with a soldier who lost use of …	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/18 05:53 PM
2	Keep Shit To Yourself On one hand it sucks because you want to pool your knowledge with people from your native land, in your native tongue. I understand that because reading the posts on here has improved me greatly. On the other hand, you have "secret knowledge". Taking advantage of it will put you above your competition.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/18 09:08 PM
2	Keep Shit To Yourself Yes, you will never be the most attractive man or the most intelligent. The struggle of TRP is to improve yourself until you are the best man you can be. That man, believe it or not, is going to be leagues above the rank and file. Tell you what: When you're at the very peak of your mental and physical limit, come back here and tell us how you're failing with women.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/18 08:58 PM
3	Keep Shit To Yourself The only reason that dude is more jacked then me is because he tries harder. Yeah...no fucking shit. People who claim to be worried about appearing "tryhard" are just afraid to compete. I'd rather try and be savagely beaten then pussy out and sit on the sidelines.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/18 08:26 PM
2	Keep Shit To Yourself You ever do sales? You would be good at it. Rephrasing jargon and selling benefits instead of features are something that every good salesman does. You can't jam some RP glossary into every rube you meet, they're not going to have any clue what you're talking about. Learning to use natural language is the first step to being convincing and persuasive.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/18 08:24 PM
13	Keep Shit To Yourself He's wrong to hang onto someone out of obligation, but he'd be equally wrong to allow someone else to determine his personal relationships.	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/18 08:18 PM
17	The value of standing up for your friends in the face of disrespect. Your friend is a badass, but sometimes these outbursts will happen and you won't have backup. Either you leave and look like you're defeated, or fight and look like you're sinking to that ridiculous level. Remember that emotion is reality for women. If you can sabotage the emotion and replace it with another one, the behavior will stop. An example: Smile and say something like, "You're sure making a lot of noise about someone you don't like. <Indicate her friend at the table> and I are getting m…	/r/TheRedPill	22/03/18 07:16 PM
1	A Family Man Experiences the Light-Switch, Loses Everything, Baffled that the Rules Don't Apply Agreed. I should have elaborated more by saying that a person isn't born an "alpha" or "beta," biologically speaking. TRP is a behavioral philosophy/methodology that any man can apply regardless of his genetics. In fact...I'd kill to do a TRP study on a really biologically weak and unattractive male. Some physical training, some social refinement, some light fashion--we'd have ourselves a nice soup.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/18 09:12 PM
2	Married man disparages marriage Women are human. It's easy to say the Red Pill is "misogynist" because essentially it's about studying female behavior and using that knowledge to our advantage. I study a lot of things, and I don't hate anything that I invest my time in. I greatly enjoy women, but I don't deify them, nor do I allow them to determine my actions. Before TRP I was still a very smart man and had women tell me that all the time. However, they never told me, "I respect your dedication" until after TRP.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/18 03:56 PM
2	Married man disparages marriage Agreed. Forcing a philosophy on someone is the last thing I want to do. I want to improve my own life, and I hope other men do too, but it's not my burden nor is it my desire to push anything on anyone.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/18 03:33 PM
9	Red Pill Isn't A License to Be Absurd Ha ha, oh Jesus Christ man what a nightmare. You created some kind of horrifying abomination of misunderstood concepts. I am definitely going to tell the next person who asks me to pass something at dinner that "Alphas don't pass napkins, bro!" On a more serious note: I think a cure for a little knowledge is more knowledge. Give him the "How to Win Friends and Influence People" book as Twentyfive mentioned. You don't have to be condescending about it or anything, you can just introduce it as mor…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 11:28 PM
1	Don’t bend your schedule to fit hers Ha ha, fucking dog-killing meteors. You have a good "I don't give a shit" style. I have a feeling that's pretty successful.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 11:13 PM
1	Don’t bend your schedule to fit hers Yes. Yes. Yes. I get that a lot from my dumbass friends. "She didn't want to hang out with me when I was seeing her, but she sure jumps to fuck that new guy she's with." Yeah dude...she wants that guy and didn't want you. It's not fucking rocket science. If she starts getting wishy-washy tell her that she's welcome to tag along, but you're going to go out and have a shit ton of fun whether she's there or not. Outcome independence. You're not going to live forever so you should keep looking forwa…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 10:57 PM
34	Don’t bend your schedule to fit hers I was dating this cute Mormon girl who was doing her damnedest to get me into church. I told her, "I did want to talk to some of your church friends about your behavior last night." And she got beet red and started giggling. I never got invited again after that, ha ha.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 10:52 PM
13	Married man disparages marriage I'm not secretive with my beliefs and so I share them openly with the women in my life (yep, including PUA tricks, etc). I tell them exactly what I want from life and from them and most of them appreciate it and respect the way I want to live my life. Honestly, the one thing that kind of got to me is that I had to red card a girl for expressing interest in a friend of hers. I was at dinner with the two of them and she was being flirty and shitty directly to my face. She was mad and self-entitled…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 09:19 PM
8	Married man disparages marriage I think it is possible to renegotiate the social contract. As men become more aware of the new reality of hypergamy, we will start being more restrictive about LTR/resource sharing relationships. Women may biologically crave multiple partners, but they are human beings that also crave stability. It's possible for the desire for a strong male who won't take shit will force a self-regulation. Just like I may crave stuffing pizza in my face hole, but regulate my behavior for social value reasons. T…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 08:38 PM
12	Married man disparages marriage I know this goes against the whole purpose of sharing this philosophy with our fellow men, but do you think that TRP is something you have to come to after some hard times? I don't think I was ready to accept some truths until I got them beaten into me by life, and at 14 I was worshipping women.	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 08:20 PM
14	A Family Man Experiences the Light-Switch, Loses Everything, Baffled that the Rules Don't Apply I think the alpha-beta thing is a bit outdated, but we still use it because it is short-hand for a man who is self-actualized and in control of his life vs a man who conforms to other peoples' plans for him (including his wife and family). You don't have to be some kind of wild wolf man to set boundaries and integrate TRP philosophy in your life. For instance, aside from a healthy, strong body I always advocate that you also push for a strong mind. So many men begin and end TRP with getting phys…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/18 06:28 PM
1	Wanna be confident? Fail. That might be a joke, but you absolutely can. I used to do some acting in college (it came in really handy in my years of sales and finance afterwards). If you repeat an act over and over it eventually isn't an act anymore, it's reality. If you fake swagger and people aren't quite convinced, just keep swaggering and eventually that behavior WILL be your behavior.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/18 07:17 PM
1	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far I used to troll the shit out of my friends in HALO LAN parties by running into the room the other group was playing in (we had two TVs with four players each) and just start brawling with them so they would fuck up in the game and my team would win, ha ha. Skull ball was the shit.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 10:55 PM
2	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far Ha ha, I'm joking about the mocking. I'm an old guy who still remembers when the only women into tabletop weren't exactly into personal hygiene. These days even the hotties are into nerdy shit and it's kind of glorious.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 10:53 PM
2	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far People are going to mock the shit out of this, but fuck em'. I like to bring women to tabletop games I host out of my place. You can do all sorts of kino while you roleplay, and then ask them to stay after everyone leaves to "talk".	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 10:29 PM
1	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far I think a lot of us game with our real-life bros. It's a different thing when you spend some time shooting each other in the face and others giving each other shit at the bar. Online only relationships should definitely not be the only social outlet a man has.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 10:20 PM
1	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far Ha ha, I think "fuck a pizza into my gullet" is getting added to my lexicon. And, yeah, this shit is spot on. Good post. I'm not gonna lie, I'm hard on people about bad food because I have a bad food problem. It's an immature piece of myself that I need to hammer out.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 10:10 PM
2	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far I'm going to guess that gaming presents a unique form of addiction and that's the illusion that you are accomplishing goals. I think men especially like to see work getting done in that little virtual world. Combine that with the dopamine rush and it's probably a little more compelling than sitting on the couch binging on pro wrestling, ha ha.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 10:03 PM
6	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far I think it may be an age thing, honestly. I'm 40 and gaming has a really bad rep. When I pick up a woman in her 30s they're generally appalled if they find out I like to play video games. A girl in her 20s wants to play with me, ha ha. Gaming is a new hobby, all things considered. Plus, yeah, most people go overboard with it just like they go overboard with drinking and gambling and it becomes a problem. There is no "forbidden activity" on TRP. The important thing is that you don't let your hobb…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 09:48 PM
2	Appearance is absolutely vital I'm glad to meet you my Portuguese friend! I knew a fellow who went by the last name of Coelho from there. You're not wrong about the shortcomings of using just posturing to attract women, and there are a disturbing amount of threads here that focus on hating women instead of enjoying them. Whenever I read an account about some kiddo discovering TRP and talking about his gains and his new plates, I try not to ask him about the quality of his women. A lot of the guys here are evolving from fat/sk…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/18 09:46 PM
1	Appearance is absolutely vital Ha ha, just out of curiosity are you an American? I've read a lot of your posts and although you have a lot of interesting things to say you come of as super tense and hostile. I don't want to assume, though, because it could be a cultural thing.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/18 07:41 PM
0	How one adverse "blue pill moment" can cost you your girl and defy weeks of hard work to zero? Trading resources for sex isn't an accomplishment any more than buying a sandwich from the supermarket is. You can't "avoid" game and frame. If you interact socially with other human beings you will participate, unwilling or no.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/18 09:45 PM
1	How one adverse "blue pill moment" can cost you your girl and defy weeks of hard work to zero? This is good advice. You should always "be present" whether you're with a girl or at work. Texts are a poor substitute for actual human interaction. Use them for utilitarian purposes.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/18 09:39 PM
5	Appearance is absolutely vital Changing a first impression isn't impossible, but it is brutally hard. You're basically fighting inertia in the form of cognitive dissonance. I like to look at human relationships like a credit report. It's much easier to go from no credit to good credit then from negative credit to good credit.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/18 08:04 PM
11	Appearance is absolutely vital I got to observe this first hand as I went from a fit, ripped college kid who was usually the smartest kid in the room to a post-college fattie. My mind didn't change, my wit and charm with women didn't change. But I went from seeing IOI everywhere I went to getting a lot of laughs and "lets just be friends". Partially thanks to TRP, I got my body back and became a whole person again. Is appearance everything? Fuck no. However, if some random woman sees me walk into the room and I'm grossly obes…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/18 07:54 PM
12	My best bro was cheated on. She told him she was "happy that she cheated on him." He's still dating her. It's 100% a given. She is cheating right now. I keep reading a lot of stuff about being a secret cuck whatever, but let's nip that shit in the bud. If you have a sexual kink about watching women bang other dudes, that's great. IT SHOULD NOT BE YOUR LTR DOING IT. If you opt for a LTR and let her do this kind of thing, you will never be happy because she will never respect you no matter what. Tell your buddy that it's cool if he wants to pursue some kind of fantasy with this woman, but she needs t…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/18 07:20 PM
1	You will never outlift a bad diet We usually say STI now (Sexually Transmitted Infection). It is possible to get a bad infection from unprotected sex that hasn't developed fully into a disease with symptoms. If you're with a woman with a high n-count, you could very well grab a nasty infection from her before it even exhibits symptoms. Wrap your peckers, kids! 10 out of 10 times lol.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/17 09:31 PM
1	You will never outlift a bad diet 90% good, 10% bad is pretty much ok for everything. In a week of meals that's roughly two meals. I'd say three is a-ok.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/17 09:20 PM
4	The Contrast Effect: How "Bobs and Vagena" Indians increase your attractiveness on OkCupid Sure get a gym membership and dressed well, all men should be doing this, but then what? What happens when all men are doing that, you're left with things you can't change, your face, height etc "just shower bro" LOL When your body and game are where they should be, it's time to work on culture, your mind, your career. You need to evolve everything about yourself. TRP focuses on the physical because you can't do it backwards. You can't be some guy with man-tits and a nice job or it's BB-ville fo…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/17 01:05 AM
1	Got a girls number now she's kind of giving me the runaround Let me give you some context. I work with a hot little 20 year old who gives her number to anyone who asks. She maybe gives like 1% of them a date. She says she hates saying "no". Don't look at the number as a win. In sales we would call a number with a kiss a "warm lead" and a number just a lead.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 11:29 PM
1	Plate trying to dread game me. Pfff I handle almost every shit test with women the same way: ST: "the only fun you want to have with me is sex." You: (with a smirk or a little laugh) "I guess you better find some better ways to entertain me then." Done. It's a game, not a struggle.	/r/askTRP	25/06/16 12:39 AM