| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Red Pill Men Who Want Relationship | Question for RedPill | AussieBrooks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 10:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Are the Dating coaches and Gurus actually that good in real life?Define Good? Are we talking about, a guru with a 5/10 close (bedded) rate ? Or a 1/10? Even a 1/10 success rate ( for every 10 girls (cute girls not 2s/3s) you talk to, you can bang 1, is still God-Tier Status. Like it’s insane. It doesn’t happen often. Even athletes can barely do that. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?We dont expect sex but expect him to make a move to lead into said sex. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 05:44 AM |
| 3 | What are the benefits of staying in a relationship when you aren’t in love anymore? Why are you making that choice?Sometimes also it’s cheaper to stay together than be apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:34 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.This has been a thing forever. Most girls want a man who has co signage, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 12:29 AM |
| 8 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?No you cant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:12 AM |
| 23 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Becauseeeeeeeee before a woman can make a educated guess on if you have a healthy wallet or not, you have to be somewhat interesting, attractive, not a weirdo, have some sort of personality for her to even talk to you first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:11 AM |
| 6 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?“You say most dont enjoy it?” Well if women hate hookup culture, then why did they start it? Women control Who has sex so if they started hookup culture, why do most not enjoy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?“ Women dont care about a mans struggle, they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"?What op is saying why do ladies screw some guys off rip but make other guys wait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Would it be weird to ask a women for permission (verbally) before making a move?Yeah man don’t ask but read the room. Baby steps. Obviously if she says no as you go on. STOP 🛑 for sure. But don’t be a baby and ask for permission. And as far as relationship. Don’t ask for that either. Let her come to you on that. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | What would you teach your children about the opposite sex?I would teach my son not to be a simp for a girl who doesn’t show the same attention back. I would teach him not to use money to buy love. He will just get used. I would teach him not just to reward women you like just cause they are cute but reward them (show them you like them) when they earn it, etc. to really show you that they are worth your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people pick partners based on how good that partner would make them look?Oh yeah. The biggest driving factor in a woman’s decision on who she dates is her top 2-3 co signing friends. If the friends don’t like ya, she won’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is game?Game is being able to assess a situation with a woman and make calculated moves to be more successful in dating her whether that be talking, emotionally, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill?“That every woman is out to cheat on you if you lose your alpha frame or some stuff of that sort” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongWell you shoulda blowed. Lol Jkay yes us guys do do that. It has been going on for thousands of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]so also don’t try to be Mr. Nice Guy to get sex either. Like OP said, girls like to fuck, they’ll know within the first 5 minutes if they want to or not. If no sex within a month, she simply isn’t in to you and you are “free food” | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:06 AM |
| 13 | What is your opinion on men that read books or watch videos to get better with women?100%. Don’t ever talk about self-help when it comes to getting women or sex with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 3 | How common do you think it is for men to have actual game?There are billions of people in this world and only about 5-10% of men are screwing 80-90% of all the women. So not much guys have game. I have game to secure an LTR but game to go out every weekend and get a lay. Hell no lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?If prostitution ever becomes legal USA nationwide. New marriages will cease to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?No. Men cannot get sex as easily as woman can. I’ve known about 3 guys in my lifetime (24 years old) that could bring home a girl every Friday night. I repeat… 3 guys in my 24 years. Girls all over can bring a guy home every night if they wanted too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:23 AM |
| 4 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?Women will tell you you all day long height don’t matter but always in real life be dating a 6 foot plus man or at least entertaining one. Also I’ve seen women say they hate beards on men but it seems like that’s all they talk too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 9 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?Women say and mean different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:58 AM |
| 17 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?Yes. Women want men that other women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather be an attractive man or an attractive woman?Woman. An attractive woman can be a millionaire so much easier and faster than an attractive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himMen only look for 3-4 things when dating, women have a whole list. It sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, upon meeting a new guy, at point do you develop a sexual attraction towards him?Women know within 5 minutes of meeting you if they will sleep with you or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do women make some guys wait for sex and not others?They make guys wait because they truly don’t desire them like they do the guys they really like. They wanna see if you have other things to offer because they don’t have that genuine burning desire for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 08:52 PM |
| 8 | How do I successfully ask a girl out in a way she knows that I want to just have sex?Yes you don’t ask, y’all have sex indirectly meaning you go on a date and then back to the house and sex just happens, | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 07:19 AM |
| 0 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?Hotel bars/restaurants, book stores, church (singles night) | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 10:21 AM |
| 0 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionOrientals love white American men. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 2 | If casual sex suddenly became readily available to you, (same way it is to women) how much time would you now devote to having sex? If you're currently in a relationship, would you drop her?Wrong, beta males yeah. But a lot of HV men: Rich, good looking by effort, great career, not a dumb ass. They realize that they have a lot to offer, most woman can only keep betas cause the beta is in a scarcity mindset ( holds on to the girl cause that’s all he can get) a lot of woman can of keep a guy post sex long term. Hence why you see most women saying, “where all the good men go” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 12:47 PM |
| 14 | If casual sex suddenly became readily available to you, (same way it is to women) how much time would you now devote to having sex? If you're currently in a relationship, would you drop her?If men could get sex 24/7 like women could. The whole world would change. You would have less marriages, less relationships, etc. the whole dynamic would change and women would actually have to bring something other than sex to keep a man. Guy game is being able to get sex, girl game is being able to keep a guy post-sex. A lot of woman cannot keep men post sex because that is all they have to offer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 13 | Meeting a girl for ‘studies’. How do I end up having s**Yes the more you don’t care, the more they do | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"When a girl says you have no game, it just means she wasn’t vining good with you | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Signs when she is not interestedIf she doesn’t sleep with you between the 4-5th date, she is not interested in you | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl I’m attracted to out for ice cream and she suggested her friends come with?Go out this one time with her and her friends. Next time though, just ya’ll | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 01:18 PM |
| -1 | Men are not responsible for women's orgasm (Read text)Women’s orgasm is not required but they ask so much of me to even date them so therefore if a man can’t get you off, he had to do a plethora of things to even get you to say hi back to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 2 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.“Game”= How you dress, how you look, how you make her feel around you, how you keep her guessing, etc when you were with her; did you lead the date; were you in control? Did you treat her like she was replaceable? This is gonna sound weird but girls chase you when they know other girls want you. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.Normally when a girl says there wasn’t a vibe it means you didn’t have enough “game” for her. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:33 PM |
| 5 | I think tonight I will ask out the girl I like from work.Yeah man don’t shit where you eat | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?Average women have more sexual options than a top tier man. A lot of men want a hot chick but with having a hot above average looking gf, comes a huge headache and a general rule of thumb, the hotter the chick, the more problems and drama there will be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 8 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”Also to add, Women can walk away from Marriage and take everything you got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentIts called Genuine Desire. The girls had genuine desire for you. Not the average joes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.All men give up something in exchange for sex, Currency- Time, Money, Attention, Resources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.All men pay for sex, in all different “forms” of currency, money included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Women make rules for betas but break rules for Alphas. If she actually has burning desire for you, you won’t be thinking if you’ll ever get sex quickly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Simple. She actually likes the guy she just banged and she’s just using the other guy for validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in datingExactly; women f who they want, if they havent f’ed you, they dont want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 12:09 PM |
| 15 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?Pussy is pussy. As frank as that sounds. Its like a man taking a piss, we will piss anywhere but prefer a nice bathroom but we will piss in a redneck nasty truck wash stop if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Do men even get praised anymore for having high n counts?What I just said..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Do men even get praised anymore for having high n counts?Yes they do! Girls want a man who other girls want as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Do men even get praised anymore for having high n counts?Girls like high N count men cause it shows other women want him too, however...they don’t publicly like knowing it if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 11:39 PM |
| 3 | My first ever cold approachAs you cold approach and learn. You cant help but to LEARN game, the best way to gain the confidence is to keep trying and either with success or failure, it doesnt matter because you will learn so much reps that the definition of game is not giving a fuck and you are fine either way with success or failure | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?Sex is what changes relationships from Platonic to romantic, if you aren’t having sex, its not a real relationship and so many men get played and do all the things the girl wants but dont get their needs met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 6 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?Every man pays for sex, some in different “currency” than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Q4Men: Which do you think is more intimate, sex or a blowjobWomen who enjoy pleasing you and WANT to suck your dick are the real keepers when it comes to the world of sex. Any woman can think, “well he did do this and that, he deserves me to lay there and give him missionary” versus, “what CAN i do to please my man”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 5 | I am tired of guys here repeating that "guys do not care about the education or success of women."Not to mention in a bad way but girls who have careers and passions and normally real intelligent aren’t sluts. The ones who are 10/10 and no drive no careers, are always screwing because that is all they have to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Would/Do you judge men who’ve been patrons of sex workers?Way I see it, We pay for sex everyday, in some form of currency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | What constitutes real self improvement?Just basics, but I look at money as a big self improvement. Getting your finances in order and not having to struggle is a big self improvement for your life. Cause when your older, money seems to be the root for everything you will need. Kids, expenses, dating, good reliable car, shelter, when you get older and cant work, you cant make that money back, so for me I would say goals/finance plays a big part in my self improvement milestones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 02:10 AM |
| 0 | How come sex is transactional in some relationships?There is a term called, “Validational Sex” which means the woman is so interested in you and so in love with you that she will have sex with you because you are you. You make her want to have sex, theres no money, no paying bills, ever heard the saying, the fast food worker felon with tattoos gets laid more than the rich guy? Because the way he makes her feel which could still mean transactional. But Validational sex is purely when the woman literally wants to fuck you for you, your validation, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Men Who Want RelationshipAll good responses Gentlemen. Im the same way on most these answers. It all comes down to kids! I want kids too and If i have to deal with the games at a minimal to raise a family then so be it! 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women need to be good in bed? Does it raise her sexual market value and does it have any advantages?Yep! Cause the partner kept them around. I always say this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women need to be good in bed? Does it raise her sexual market value and does it have any advantages?Just gonna say this but the best sex Ive had were from plain janes. The worse just lay there type girls were goddess to the eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 2 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?Bro this is so True. i was 21 working 2 jobs (2300-2500) every 2 weeks when I had a gf. After she dumped me I stuck to my first job only, 1500-1800 every 2 weeks, and Im not even old and I already dont wanna slave hard when the girl is also working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [height]short men, how do you deal with height insecurities and how do you(if at all) the serious disadvantage of being shortBro. Your gonna have to understand that us short men have a significant disadvantage in life when it comes to a dating/sex life. I had a girl who wanted to literally tie me up and fuck my brains out... until she found out I was 5’6, then I was ugly to her. Embrace the height and make women drool over you for other things, however there will be girls who like that height minimum and if you dont have it. They wont hear you. Learn to deal with women who dont care about that. If you find ones that o… | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Sexually Disciplined MenIn short Care less about sex and she'll come 90 and you go 10. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 03:01 AM |
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