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Austinisfullgohome/r/askMRP22/02/18 06:30 AM
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I wear an apron every time I do housework or cook. It's more of a frugality thing, as I'm trying to keep from having to replace clothing due to bleach or food stains. Much easier to just replace the apron.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/18 11:13 AM
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I actually came into this thread just to make that same comment.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:53 AM
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What's your question? If you're looking for validation of your own stupid choices, you won't find that here. This is a bed YOU made, now you lie in it. asking if she was single Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:29 AM
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Oh, in that case... The man she runs to has some choices to make while listening to her bitch about her boyfriend. Will be be her emotional tampon? Or will he get a blowjob out of it?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:41 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding the saying. This cautionary phrase is used in regards to infidelity. It means when she (your girl) has problems she cannot discuss with you, she will search out a man for comfort--who will use that opportunity to bed her.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:01 AM
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Like that Black Mirror episode with John Hamm
/r/askMRP05/07/18 08:10 AM
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Amoral, not immoral. There was a stickied post on the main sub and RPW a couple years ago that explained the difference.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:16 AM
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Pretty sure he's referring to McDojos, calm down princess
/r/askTRP30/06/18 02:30 PM
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rather than try to attack the person you disagree with stop acting like trailer trash Lol
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:15 PM
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Supenia isn't a word, so it wouldn't get autocorrected. And he meant tell, not talk. It's OK to have shitty spelling and reading comprehension, but it makes you look like a bitch when you can't own your flaws. Own your shit.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:29 PM
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Reminded me of this gem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/18 08:18 AM
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I’m not the person you’re asking, but there are “””matchmaking services””” that you pay several thousand for and they set you up with a woman you may or may not select from a group of available non-western women.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:08 AM
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Uh, thousands of years of evolution doesn’t get bred out in a few generations just because we had the industrial revolution and “feminism”... Jesus sometimes you people need to think
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 04:43 PM
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Next time she complains, simply tell her to pick one up and start learning. If she gives any excuse, any response more than a hearty “ok,” ignore it. She either truly wants to learn (unlikely, because she would have started herself already) or is just giving you a hard time.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:39 PM
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You’re asking about logistics? Figure it the fuck out like guys have had to do since civilized society became a thing. Go ask your dad where he knocked up your mom and take her there, I don’t know.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:57 PM
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Yeah that always soaks the panties 👌🏻
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:55 PM
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I think he wants help with a hooker that shows up and forces him into the friend zone? I can usually translate this stuff but this one has me stumped. Uh, ignore her?
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:42 PM
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The first year was so fucking awesome. It’s over though. That year isn’t coming back.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 08:56 AM
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Because it informs the other members of that community that the person posting is familiar with the rules, knows the acronyms, etc. Also RPW has a case-by-case basis for throwaways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/18 03:32 AM
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It’s from the RPW sub. High n-counts are not celebrated or encouraged there. And it’s not that hard. When you’re a young woman every nasty fuck is trying ONLY to get in your pants. It’s easier to just say no to everyone until you find someone you want to have a relationship with. Being a female virgin (unless she’s hideous) is a positive quality and demonstrates restraint.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/18 03:29 AM
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...and in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 02:55 AM
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In my experience women who do this are generally not good partners. They lack the self-awareness to admit they were wrong and once you two are through she’ll say the exact same things about you. Because she couldn’t possibly be dumped, right? There must be something wrong with him. Also women who do this are very often lying. Women who were actually abused do not make a spectacle of it. They reserve sharing that trauma with someone they’re close to. It’s in that same vein as “everybody I’ve slep…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 01:15 AM
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Google “harlequin icthyosis” Happens when cousins breed. And that’s just one possibility.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:28 AM
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Quickest way? Shut the fuck up. Trust. And be grateful. STFU allows you to stop taxing arguments and nagging before they even start. Have you heard that old joke? Woman goes to the doctor explaining how her husband loses his temper constantly, and she’s scared. Doc tells her whenever he gets angry, to swish a mouthful of water until he calms down. She goes back to the doctor and tells him it’s a miracle! He’s never angry anymore! But she wanted to know how the swishing helped. The doctor said, “…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 08:57 AM
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They could be real. But that’s not the point. (I’m telling you not all women can fake cry, if they can that’s a giant red flag. Being happy immediately after bawling could simply be lady hormones.) Don’t be callous, but be firm. Tell her you’ve given it time but you can’t feel any true attraction for her. Give her that old, “You deserve so much better blah blah can’t keep stringing you along...” I suggest you break it off and (politely) cut contact to minimize your guilt. Don’t ghost her, but on…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:39 AM
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Don’t take that at face value. Ever see American Beauty?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:51 AM
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First off, sorry for the super late reply. My app glitched out and wouldn’t open this thread or let me reply. I understand about the welfare thing, but what do you mean it only works out if it’s a one-time gig? Is he not dependable? Does he have chronic conditions? Is he injured? If he’s an invalid and can’t work, then you should transition to caretaker since he can’t provide for himself. That’s a whole other discussion. I want to point out this little bit I noticed— He could probably be a consu…
/r/RedPillWives15/05/18 02:26 AM
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one of these girls who is supposedly on pills Any idiot who trusts women to completely handle b.c. gets what he deserves.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:54 AM
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It wasn’t a problem for me, but you make a good point. Finding balance is the key.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:22 PM
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Focus on academics first. So many people light their hair on fire and burn out two semesters in. There will always be parties; make sure you’re mindful of the balance. A good rule of thumb is to start the first semester not partying much for a week or two and seeing how you are performing in class. Then you can see if you have some academic room to spare or not. You should have a baseline of “this course is easy” to “my prof is a psycho and I’m going to need to bust my ass to pass this class”. P…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:42 PM
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Tick tock I guess
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/18 01:46 AM
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Right? I’m 36 and hardly sleep and thought she was 40. This chick looks like boot leather. Dick must age you or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/18 03:19 AM
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It sounds more like "don't shit where you sleep" to me and I wouldn't have a problem with that FTFY
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:09 PM
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First off, could you please link the post to which you’re referring? And no one made anyone do anything. Don’t blame others for his actions and decisions. Oftentimes people are actually looking for confirmation, not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 08:36 AM
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They’re not losing ground in the bedroom. The nerd look is currently fashionable and mainstream, yes. A pale, timid, 94-lb little shit couldn’t get panties wet with a hose. Literally the only thing that makes Zuckerberg’s greasy little face attractive is his bank account. He’d be posting in braincels right now if he hadn’t learned to code. If betas have power they don’t know what to do with it. I mean, look at his wife. Ugh. That little weasel should have a harem of perpetually horny 10s. Hopefu…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:22 PM
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Oh snap
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:09 PM
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The one with that caviezel dude? Yeah, that's good film right there.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:05 PM
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If he wants a bigger place why isn't he stressing over making more money? Does he work? If he does work, does he contribute? You sound like you're worrying about things that he should be worried about. And I'm sorry to say you won't find much upward mobility living off welfare. Red Pill theory is for making you the best version of yourself and selecting a mate compatible with that, not turning an unemployed stoner couch potato into a man by catering to him. You can only improve yourself.
/r/RedPillWives29/04/18 04:37 AM
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🎶 If you want to be happy for the rest of your life🎶 🎶Never make a pretty woman your wife🎶
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:03 AM
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*y’all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/18 12:21 AM
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Good, I hope it helps. It’s completely normal that you’re bored talking to women. How many women do you think actively enjoy things like weightlifting, fast cars, video games, craft beer, or martial arts? An ideal conversation for you is boring to them. That’s why communication is so important. Gotta bridge that gap. And your social media activity is nobody’s business but yours. If they ask for your SC just tell them you don’t have one. “Not my thing, but I can take your number” “Got tired of be…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:47 PM
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I can’t relate to women Really? That’s because you’re a man, and they’re women. You’re fundamentally different. Want a chick you can relate to? Chat up a powerlifting butch lesbian military veteran that rides a Harley, even in the rain. But that’s not your problem. Your problem is you suck at small talk. Why are you justifying your social media usage to some barfly you just met? Explaining your online habits like a busted preteen is not sexy. If she starts talking about bullshit, just tell her i…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:59 AM
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It’s literally, “I’m so smart, that’s why men don’t like me. It’s not because I’m offensively pretentious and emasculate the men that care about me. It’s they who are insecure and threatened by my multiple degrees (in foreign languages by the way, not medicine or science). Every woman that ends up marrying one of my ex-boyfriends is pretty bUt NoT aS sMaRt aS ME!” I can speak multiple languages too, bitch, but I’m also not above doing my guy’s dirty laundry with a smile. Or even just enjoying so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/18 09:47 PM
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You’ll get more constructive answers from /r/RedPillWomen.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:47 AM
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Bullshit. Men can have red flags as well. Relationship-minded women look out for them and will take notice. Yeah, lower quality women will overlook them, but this thread regards LTR-worthy women. Nobody wants to LTR that psycho welfare queen barfly with three kids, a probation officer, and chlamydia...no matter how hot she is. Save the slutfishing advice for ONS/plate posts. A guy doesn’t have to be fat and beta to be unattractive. There’s tons of unsuitable chads out there, too.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:38 PM
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Is she a plate? Potential LTR? Her status will depend on the course of action. Do you want to invest in this or not? You said you’ve been physical already, she’s likely looking for comfort or resources now.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 12:53 PM
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The reason why is “nice guys” work for female attention and affection. In our animal brains, women want to mate with the best men. Those best men are desired by many women. They don’t have to work (give attention) to breed. Women strive to get the best mate possible. That guy waiting up till 2am ready to listen to your problems isn’t a man with much going on and is willing to give comfort without requiring sex. That makes him undesirable. He’s the male equivalent of a slutty girl. Sure, women ca…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 01:19 AM
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So...you’re 21? From your post it reads like you got together six years ago? Am I reading that right? He does not sound like someone worth investing in. Here we discuss how to get and keep the best quality man by improving ourselves. Your man does not sound like he is a quality person. If all your sex is violent and painful that’s a huge red flag. From just what you’ve told me here, I’d say get away. Fast. And don’t tell him where you’ve gone. You should not be experiencing physical trauma at th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 10:16 PM
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If I were you I’d change it over time, but you’ve got to make sure you don’t sound like an idiot when you do. Begin to playfully refer to yourself as a variation, like Dobbs or just D. Like after you do something positive, say something like, “you can always count on the D.” Or you could just nut up and tell people to call you by your real name. Whatever makes you happy, homie.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:32 AM
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How do I lose weight Simple. Eat meat (this includes eggs and fish) & vegetables and drink only water. Do not eat more than 20g of carbohydrates per day. Lift weights. Run and do body weight exercises if you do not have access to weights. Darebee has some good workout routines if you’re just getting started. A standard keto diet looks like this— Breakfast - eggs cooked in butter, bacon (as much as you want), coffee w/no sugar Lunch - Cobb salad with full-fat ranch dressing, water Dinner - steak/…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:03 PM
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. It sounds stressful. He obviously doesn’t have the courage to admit his true feelings. That’s evident by what he said to you when you reconnected and by the way he’s acting now. If he says he’s fine with it but acts like he’s not, then he is lying to you. Is that what you deserve? Shouldn’t you expect a little better for yourself? If we were friends and all I knew of you two was this, I’d say leave him. He doesn’t sound RP at all (not in the r/TRP way, in the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 09:22 PM
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In my experience, fear of guns comes from ignorance. People don’t know how they work; they just know guns go “bang” and someone could die when they do. Could you maybe have him take you to a gun range and train you how to handle one? This is not to suggest you become a regular shooter or a gun hobbyist; rather do it once to familiarize yourself so it’s not a big scary unknown anymore. Plus, you’ll be learning with someone you know and trust as opposed to some random firearms instructor. I was wa…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 01:22 PM
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Well, to your specific example, she was acting up because she was embarrassed. If she’s savvy she knows your “boy” knows she’s giving it up. When you dismiss her as “just a friend” she feels invalidated because it’s just been verbally confirmed that she is giving up sex without securing commitment. It wasn’t so much rejection as it was her finding out her place isn’t as high as she’d thought. It’s literally no different from when a girl calls her orbiter “just a friend” and he turns into a butth…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:32 AM
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I’ll take some too, please.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 11:22 AM
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Seems like you already know plenty. He told you he had a bad childhood. Digging up those memories may be uncomfortable—even painful—for him. It’s cruel to drag him through painful past memories just to satisfy your own curiosity. I’d say unless you find red flags like Wanted posters of him online or something he’s probably ok. Best of luck to you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 02:18 AM
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I’ve read your post and all your replies up to this point. There’s one of two things happening here. Either she’s a marriage-minded woman who is verbalizing her goals to you or she’s just trying to tie you down because $$$. Unless you get a real unicorn+best friend feel from her (NOT oneitis), I’d assume the worst—if for no other reason than to protect yourself financially and emotionally. Do not assume she will change for the better. If she’s absolutely amazing and does nothing but improve your…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 12:32 AM
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Good read. Just FYI, the first comment appears to be shadow banned. It’s listing one comment but I don’t see anything here, even after refreshing twice.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 01:41 AM
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I have actually considered this but he has a physical job and he comes home very grimy. He won’t touch me until he’s had a shower—but once he does he gets/takes whatever he wants.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:58 AM
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Thank you. He and I have known each other for over 20 years and are very close. That may be why he’s comfortable venting to me. He actually received a job offer a few weeks ago but his current employer gave him a ~20% raise so he decided to stay. (It doesn’t seem to have helped his frustrations any—if anything it’s worse.) And I have always supported and encouraged his career decisions. I try to be his cheerleader. We’ve endured a lot together. How do you feel this will affect our relationship? …
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:28 AM
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Good advice. You also need to remember that what he plans may not be what you had in mind (if you didn’t communicate your desires directly). He may take you to a movie instead of dinner, or might cook dinner himself, or rent your all-time favorite sappy 80s romcom and begrudgingly watch it with you. Try to remember his efforts and be grateful, even if what he did wasn’t your first choice.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 11:04 PM
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You’re welcome!
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:28 AM
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What when and where “Movie @ mine 8pm Sat” or “Valentines Day I’m taking you to dinner, be ready by 7. I’ll pick you up. Wear something nice.”
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:49 AM
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I just keep those things in mind as this sub promotes respecting and appreciating a good man. (Gratefulness mindset) This is my way. I’m not the best woman out there and I know that. RP is about self improvement and while he’s not perfect, I’m not either. If you go off what men tend to fall for initially—looks, youth—I feel that he could find someone cuter or younger if he tried. (We are in our 30s and I’m actually a few months older than him.) So I make up for that by trying to be a good partne…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 10:17 PM
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I’m so glad! I hope it works out for you and the both of you become a little happier in the process. I know we are :) And yeah, STFU is really really hard at first but it gets a lot easier with practice. A bonus is that once you choose the things you want to say carefully, they hold more weight. If something is truly bothering you he’ll be able to tell right away vs “oh, she’s just being grouchy again”. And it’s great that you noticed how thoughtful he was being when answering your financial que…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 09:54 PM
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Oh, yes and yes. I originally used it to try and help myself (nun mode and undoing feminist mentality post-breakup) and subsequently my boyfriend. When I found him he was your typical broken, skinny, doormat B.B. who was doing everything “right” yet was still miserable. But he had potential. He has never been to r/TRP but just last week he got (another) raise, has some friends and hobbies of his own, we just bought a beautiful house, he lifts, he quit drinking (his choice, but I quit too out of …
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:49 PM
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It doesn’t really matter here. There are rules in TRP and RPW against announcing it but generally people don’t care as long as the post has value and is consistent with RP theory. The rule is mostly there to put the kibosh on “TRP is sexist/RPW are chained to the stove” bullshit we used to get from white knights and sjws, or plain bad advice.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:42 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:18 AM
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Women don’t “need” sex like guys do. The idea that they’ll cheat out of sheer sexual frustration doesn’t make any sense. Women cheat because they lose attraction and respect for the man, not because he won’t have sex with her. She can get dick anywhere. Dick itself has very little value because it’s in such abundance. Not to mention women are perfectly content to go years without sex as long as there’s commitment and resources. But then after that dry spell who does the she end up sleeping with?…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:17 AM
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OP asked what the hamster does, so I told him.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:32 AM
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woman? Yep. Been reading TRP theory for a few years now. Came to find out why all of reddit was hating on it, stayed for the logic.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:13 AM
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Ooh! I did this. YMMV, though, since I don’t know your man. But my guy seems much happier now, even though he has no idea what r/TRP is. Start by making him feel like number one. Tell him that. Let him put himself first. Encourage him and support him. Trust him and his decisions. If you can’t trust him, you shouldn’t be with him. Let him have guy time if you don’t already. Don’t nag. Compliment him, but mean it. How many times have you told him how strong or handsome or smart or funny he is? Lis…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 02:55 AM
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The hamster goes fucking nuts. “Did I gain weight? Does he not find me attractive? Is he getting it somewhere else? What the fuck? Guys always want it, right? Did I piss him off or something?” Before I continue please note that this only applies to the men that women are actually attracted to. If you suck in bed or she’s uninterested, she’ll allow you to slide right out into orbit. We, as women, are not used to rejection. It goes all the way back to childhood. Boys are told to suck it up while g…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:48 AM
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I know you’re just a kid but I’m not going to sugarcoat anything. Join the military, get a bunch of medals, fuck foreign chicks in every time zone, and retire comfortably in your 30s. Or teach yourself to code, take a couple of IT courses, and start your own business. Turn your workout hobby into a personal training business or professional bodybuilding and drop panties. Just quit whining and do something besides posting on Reddit. You could be doing literally anything from pushups to learning H…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:04 PM
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homebody loves the outdoors Pick one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/18 08:37 PM
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It makes you stand out. We have a ton of interactions every day with men who are fat, skinny, frail, sickly, or paunchy. When we see a muscular man it’s a primal thing, like, “oh my god I bet he could wrestle a bear and win”. sploosh Men don’t just naturally become muscular through genetics. Having a killer body shows the world your dedication, even if it’s only to that one thing. There are endless hours and countless pounds dedicated to maximizing each muscle. Even if most women are too stupid …
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:03 AM
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He said she was like a HB3 even with makeup. Going beta on a desperate woman won’t end well.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:44 PM
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Because despite being civilized for a couple thousand years we haven’t progressed very far past the animal mating habits that lasted for millennia. It’s not that women will have sex with any random guy. It’s almost exclusively attractive men with alpha traits. I’ve never had to talk a drunk girlfriend out of going home with an insecure, greasy, obese WoW guild leader. But Chad’s employment doesn’t matter much when your panties are flooding. And just because we “like” stable men doesn’t mean that…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:29 PM
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I love male-created spaces. Like the internet. And hospitals. And the voting booth. And the inside of my insulated, climate controlled house. God bless men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 11:32 PM
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I watched this already. I like him and I enjoy discussing his lectures, but not in this sub. I think on a basic level all the women here would at least be open-minded to his points of view. We tend to be anti- radical third wave feminism. If I had to guess, I’d say a vast majority of RPW subscribers would agree with the points he makes. But this place is more about female self-improvement and relationship help, less scholarly debate. I come here for relationship perspective and occasional househ…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 10:52 PM
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The medium-pitch, flat voice is a common trait of good psychologists. It’s very non-threatening and non-judgmental which allows people to open up in a clinical setting. He’s just so accustomed to using it that it’s probably become his default manner of speech.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 11:33 PM
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So...the 1950s were a time when it was acceptable to publicly post photos of yourself breastfeeding your illegitimate bastard?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/18 06:45 PM
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Exactly. My guy is the black sheep (white sheep?) of his family. He’s the only consistently employed, home-owning, non substance abuser with a healthy BMI.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:44 PM
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You don’t understand. She owned kittens once and teaches art. Of course she’s entitled to the popular, well-travelled, witty, alpha, left-wing, pot smoking humanitarian guitarist with a buttery-smooth voice in her immediate vicinity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/18 12:31 AM
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Oh, yes. You’re absolutely right. There’s definitely fault on both sides. Women keep them around for validation, attention, and gifts. Women know what they’re doing when they take advantage of orbiters. But it’s also the man’s choice to remain in that situation or leave. I would say most of my friends have been male, but I have always been interested in nerd culture and about 98% of that fan base has been male. However I always kind of lucked out and my guy friends were either gay or in serious …
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 08:09 PM
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They’re probably orbiters.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 09:01 AM
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Hahaha yep
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/17 03:07 AM
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I used to be such a tomboy people used to think I was a dude. To do this quickly and easily, you’ll need some money. Go to a salon that specializes in your type of hair and find a stylist. They will know all the tips and tricks, be able to give you pointers, and help you select a look that will work with your face and skin. You’d be amazed at how your entire look changes with a different color, treatment, or cut. Then go to a high-end makeup store. They will match the makeup to your skin shade a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/17 01:36 AM
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Well, to be fair, pre-K kids don’t know much grammar, spelling and punctuation. She’s teaching someone’s kids, btw.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/17 04:29 PM
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It’s spelled “faucet”. And those ridge things are called baseboards.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 02:59 PM
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Oh boy! What a pickle! I think it goes without saying that your MIL’s behavior is manipulative and unhealthy. She’s guilting you into celebrating the holidays with her over your family and that’s not acceptable. One should not use emotional blackmail to monopolize attention. I can’t say what would work in your relationship as I don’t know you, but in ours we are very direct. I would simply tell her no, we will not be joining her, he and I have decided on our holiday plans. I would reiterate it p…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 12:37 PM
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You’re welcome. I hope you find the support you need that helps you get past this painful time.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 02:38 AM
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I’m sorry for your loss. What works for me is I just ask directly. No sugarcoating. I just say, “Babe, I’m having a really rough time right now. Come hold me please.” He knows since I don’t abuse it, I mean it. Once I’ve composed myself I thank him for being my shoulder and we both get on with our day. Would this be possible, do you think? Or are you in search of more consistent emotional support?
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 09:22 PM
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Great news! RetroPi consoles are ridiculously inexpensive! Here’s everything you need. Raspberry Pi 3 Model B Motherboard https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CD5VC92/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_gD9lAb40651W2 Okay, the first item I linked is the latest Raspberry Pi motherboard. Smraza Case for Raspberry Pi 3 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LWURJMI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_.D9lAbV8T20DH Second is a case that includes a power cable, heat sinks, and a fan. You need all those things and I use this kit to build RetroPis for f…
/r/RedPillWives12/12/17 02:26 PM
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You’re in luck! I am a hardcore gamer and a bit of a nerd. I could probably help you out if you can let me know what he plays on (P.C., Xbox, PlayStation) and which types of games he plays. I can go through a few nice add-ons for whatever he has (I can guarantee I own it). If he’s into even light programming and retro gaming, you could get him a RetroPi kit. I could link a few of them if you like and he can make his own gaming system!
/r/RedPillWives12/12/17 06:57 AM
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How is she a single parent and a stay at home mom? 🤔
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/17 12:18 AM
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Her ethnicity is Capricorn?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/17 11:09 PM
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I may be wrong here, since I don’t know y’all as far as I can throw you. But this is what I’d say if I we were talking as friends. You need to look at your relationship as a whole. Do drug and alcohol abuse seem like qualities of a responsible, high-value man? Can you trust him to lead your family when he’s under the influence? Does his addiction cost you much-needed money or cause stress? (Guessing that DUI wasn’t cheap) I can only assess what I’ve read, and it seems that he has some underlying…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 09:26 PM
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Well, I always try to "need" my man for something that I can compliment him for so he feels engaged and important in the home. For example, I'll ask him to bring in the heavy groceries and tell him how strong he is. Or have him put stuff in storage and tell him how smart he is to Tetris all that stuff in there. But if the only time you compliment him is when he does something for you, he probably won't believe you. Do you tell him when he looks handsome? Do you tell him when you enjoy sex? Do yo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 01:46 PM
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I'd say ask him what he wants. If he doesn't mind the height difference and likes you in heels, buy a pair and give them a try.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 12:48 PM
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