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Did your dad GHOW?
/r/MGTOW27/12/17 10:33 PM
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Which is also why divorced men can become the most hardcore mgtow men... coming out of a darkness of marriage and finding the light of mgtow is life changing revelation. The freedom is glaring. It's a Neo using his eyes for the first time sort of thing.
/r/MGTOW15/12/17 07:49 AM
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I went to a fancy east coast university 25 years ago... worked great for me... but I think in today's world going military is a great plan, in many ways superior to going straight to college. Get some adventure in, maybe see some of the world, do some "real" work, bond with your brothers in arms... and after a few years if a military career isn't enticing, leave with some saved money and go to college with a specific major/career in mind. I'd say, though, to be careful to NOT get married or get …
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 02:59 AM
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Great scene
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 08:53 PM
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As a lawyer, I think you made the right move. Move on and go your own way. Spending years trying to get revenge is a recipe for misery and they'll never really care. You'd just be dragged through the mud and vilified... years of pain. Lesson learned, move on, enjoy life. Money isn't everything.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 04:17 AM
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Tell her you're going to quit your job and focus on your passion (whatever hobby you have that has no chance of making you money). If she's not gone within a few months of that conversation, actually follow through and do it. Then you'll be single.
/r/MGTOW28/10/17 06:34 PM
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So you're the president of the mgtow club, and pass judgment on who is in and who is out? Apparently you think mgtow is another group in the world of identity politics, and if some guy doesn't fit your definition then you should write an overwrought screed shaming him for not being a "real" mgtow... You sound like a woman.
/r/MGTOW28/10/17 06:03 PM
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It's become easy to spot the crazies: if they use POC, privilege, or Nazi in conversation, they're crazy.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/17 04:45 PM
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Guys have options, and it's a crime that they don't understand freedom is a few steps away, just outside of their front door. Quit paying, drop out of society, hit the road in a van, live on a beach in Mexico... any of us can do it, but inertia of society stops us and then eventually we forget we can always go out own way, literally. If you want to end your life, fine. But consider that when you're at that point, you don't have to kill yourself... instead you can end your life by starting a new …
/r/MGTOW30/09/17 07:45 PM
1

Did you learn the Thai language before moving there?
/r/MGTOW11/09/17 02:12 AM
1

When I got divorced in California, I was actually entitled to alimony, potentially for life. I waived that right and took nothing. In the end, even if you're entitled to it, I bet you won't take it. It's a difficult thing to do, to sell your manhood.
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 07:08 AM
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We know they post here, so I actually appreciate the up front disclaimer to put the post in proper context. Better than the countless women posting here pretending to be guys to push a NAWALT narrative they desperately want us to believe.
/r/MGTOW11/08/17 04:25 AM
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Just talk to him. Ask him actual guy questions about women, life, etc. Find out if he has regrets, things he would do differently, things he'd do the same. If he's showing mgtow tendencies, why not point him here? Show him you care by asking and listening, and offering gentle advice. As a dad of teenage boys, seeing them actually care is very moving. Remember, most older men are used to having very few people give a shit about them... and fathers stuck in a bad marriage probably experience this …
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 01:59 AM
2

Vasectomy should be #1 if the plan is to avoid having kids or getting married.
/r/MGTOW07/06/17 05:27 AM
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Very interesting, insightful, and useful. Thank you for sharing, and I'm glad to hear how much appreciation you have for your dad. It's really a tough job, raising kids (although doing it as a single dad actually is easier in many ways, I think)... I hope my sons feel the same way about me when they leave the fold.
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 10:35 PM
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As a single father with younger boys... I want to develop with them the same closeness that you clearly enjoy with your dad. Quick question: While you were growing up, was he strict but fair and caring, or more permissive and let you decide things for yourself while offering advice? Just curious for my own education as a dad... Also, congrats on giving him such a gift. You have no idea how much pride he must have inside right now, having raised a son wise enough to teach him a thing or two about…
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 12:29 AM
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Good for you. I only learned how much better freedom is now in my mid 40's. And I'm still excited for the adventure that is going to be the second half of my life. You young MGTOW guys, the world is your oyster. Oh the places you'll go! Stay safe out there....
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 05:44 AM
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Nailed it. They switch from perfect to perfect nightmare in a matter of days, if not hours. If you must play the game, at least go in with your eyes open, knowing they can drop you without remorse at any time, even after years together.
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 07:49 PM
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I did this. Basically started going to work with a DGAF attitude after the red pill. And then I got the biggest promotion of my career. I feel like I'm living the movie Office Space these days.
/r/MGTOW14/05/17 03:22 PM
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If you tell the woman you don't want kids and want to use condoms or have her on the pill.... then it's fine in my opinion. At that point the vasectomy is just a backup protection against baby trapping dishonesty. And if a guy wants to lie and pretend to be trying, well that's his call. While not in line with the ethics of some of us, it's no worse than the shit a lot of women are pulling in dating and relationships.
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 02:36 PM
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I had a long, successful marriage (no fighting, nagging, spousal weight gain, etc.). And yet the feelings of loneliness I experienced as the relationship followed a typical path from intensity to boring to divorce (amicable) were way worse than the fleeting moments of loneliness I've experienced since divorce. Remember, marriage is generally more isolating to men than being an independent bachelor.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 05:15 PM
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Our sisters who gleefully divorce rape good men while sleeping with chad on the side? Our sisters who preach "rape culture" and teach our sons to hate themselves? Our sisters who sleep with 50 guys, march in their slut walks, and then demonize and insult any man who decides he'd rather go his own way? I generally don't wish anyone ill, male or female, but I think I'll give a hand to my brothers (and sons), and let the women reap the whirlwind while I enjoy my quiet life of happiness.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 01:59 AM
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Thank the MGTOW community, sure. But thank your dad for dropping the seed knowledge to let you find your path. And don't forget, you'll have moments of regret/questioning, your biology will push you, hot girls will appear when you least expect it... but now at least you have the truth to guide you. You have learned about a core life problem for men, and are thus ahead of most guys twice your age (as someone more than twice your age, I can attest to this with confidence).
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 11:01 PM
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Sure, until she decides you're boring, or the magic is gone, or younger/hotter chad shows up on her Instagram or Facebook when she hits 40 and she decides she needs to prove that she's still "young at heart" by leaving you to take another ride on the CC... In other words, you are operating on the false assumption that if you give up your freedom now, she'll stick with you in the future. It's becoming more and more rare for that to actually happen. I'm mid-40's and I've seen this script play out …
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 06:41 PM
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And then one will figure you out, whisper your particular combination of secret words into your ear, make you believe you are better than every man in the world... then she will own you, destroy you. AWALT. It's like online gaming, eventually you'll meet someone who beats you at the game... and then you're fucked.
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 05:49 AM
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If what he wrote shames a man, then that man has some person introspection to do to figure out why it shames him and if he should make changes to his approach and beliefs. If it doesn't shame him, then it's just a guy giving opinions. There's nothing wrong with him saying and believing what he wrote. In fact, we should all protect and defend his ability to have and express these thoughts... because in doing so we are protecting our ability to disagree, ridicule, and/or ignore all of his complete…
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 04:51 PM
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A confident man going his own way actually enjoys seeing all opinions and perspectives, even those he disagrees with. Only the weak can't stomach hearing opinions that differ from their own. Trying to preach "the one true MGTOW" is contrary to the fundamental concepts of personal freedom, personal choice, and letting men figure out and take their own path through this world. When someone attempts to preach to me what I should or shouldn't believe, say, or do... that someone will likely find I'm …
/r/MGTOW16/04/17 06:05 AM
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Go your own way. And let others go their way. Complaining about the attitudes of others, shaming, trying to dictate beliefs, getting upset that the rest of the world isn't doing exactly what you think they should do... hmmm, reminds me of some certain people I no longer associate with. If you don't like the posts, don't read them.
/r/MGTOW16/04/17 04:43 AM
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If they really miss/need you, and try to get you to stay.... offer to continue to work, but only as an outside consultant. You do the same work, get paid more, and can work from a home office and avoid the annoyances of a corporate office.
/r/MGTOW10/04/17 07:23 PM
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How about not worrying about what some woman thinks? A lot easier, and more rewarding in the long run.
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 07:02 PM
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That kid sounds annoying as hell to me.
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 06:37 PM
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Because there was a woman involved.
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 07:46 PM
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Rewarded with what? False rape claims? Get her out, preserve freedom.
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 07:45 PM
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No, kick her out asap. With a recorder and witness.
/r/MGTOW22/03/17 07:43 PM
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Hot (young) women are really difficult to turn down when you're in your 40's and there's a little voice in the back of your mind saying "you'll never have a shot at a girl this hot again." Even when you see the red flags, if the girl has skills it's pretty easy to keep telling yourself "just a while longer, I'll stop it before it goes too far, but this is just so gooood." In that way, I learned that women and relationships are exactly like taking drugs. You know it's bad for you, you know you're…
/r/MGTOW12/03/17 08:42 PM
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My advice is to take your medicine with whatever alimony applies, and get out. The longer you stay, the more you'll pay (and not just money).
/r/MGTOW11/03/17 02:31 AM
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Yes, he probably figured out that she already had chad #1 lined up (if not already active). She wouldn't ask without a plan in her mind to take action.
/r/MGTOW01/03/17 07:01 PM
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That would, in fact, indicate he might be a bit of a fool.
/r/MGTOW28/02/17 08:22 PM
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Your were a beta orbiter and you're surprised/upset that she treated you like one?
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 08:11 PM
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But her amazingly enlightened Sisters will make sure that every male has the right to gender identify their way into a restroom with her precious little daughters. And if anyone says anything while these dudes are fishing out their cocks, they can just be deeply offended and say "how dare you assume my gender identity." Oppression!
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 05:25 PM
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Yep, and when she decided to take a run at OP, she poured it on to get sympathy and a trigger captain save a ho response. Textbook. She probably fucked a chad later that night when her ploy didn't work.
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 10:02 PM
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Amen brother. Pot is not the cause of weakness or lack of motivation. Losers are losers regardless of pot. And winners keep on winning regardless of pot.
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 09:56 PM
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They're all the same.
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 07:12 AM
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Definitely stick with your dad. Have you discussed this with him? As a divorced dad, I'm happy to have found MGTOW philosophy before getting sucked into another LTR/marriage. Almost happened (young gold digger swooped in during the divorce), but I escaped and have now seen the bigger picture. I'm trying to teach my sons now.
/r/MGTOW24/02/17 07:23 PM
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Women respect strength and leadership - even if it's in the form of "Alpha" behavior like you're describing above. Switch it to wimp beta mode where you are acting like a new employee kissing the boss's ass... and they quickly lose interest. You saw this - you "went all out" and acted like a movie romeo. She saw you as a loser even if she wouldn't admit it.
/r/MGTOW21/02/17 06:48 AM
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When I look at guys in their 60's and older, generally the bachelors seem happier and more alive. They have friends, hobbies, and a zest for life. Most married guys seem fatter, more sedentary, beat down, bored, and unhappy. As I approach my golden years, freedom, not companionship, is the beacon that draws me.
/r/MGTOW18/02/17 06:29 PM
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Quit doing things for women. Do things for yourself. Get a group of guy friends and enjoy life.
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 09:25 PM
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Dude, run. There's no future here and you know it. Use it as a learning opportunity with your kids, discuss with them her flaws and why it would be a mistake to let her into your lives. They will be a little sad but still better off in the long run (by a long shot).
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 05:42 PM
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I didn't mind it. I have to say that after decades of dealing with the particularly annoying and one-sided shit-show that is VD, enjoying complete freedom yesterday was especially enjoyable. I don't begrudge any guys sharing their joy about walking away from the BS. Remembering slavery is a natural way to remind yourself how sweet freedom is.
/r/MGTOW15/02/17 09:38 PM
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A year ago I took my then GF out to a fancy restaurant on the 13th (I had family obligations on the 14th), and got her red roses, chocolates, and a necklace. What did I get? A bad attitude and complaints that I was not a good BF because I wasn't taking her out on Valentine's Day. I can't tell you how much better things are this year! Going home to play Overwatch with my kid, watch a movie, and give zero fucks about these dumb broads and their need to get things to prove to their friends that the…
/r/MGTOW14/02/17 07:47 PM
3

"A strange game. The only winning move is not to play."
/r/MGTOW13/02/17 03:39 PM
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There are some that want out and you can help on the journey. They will see the joy in a single life and want to get there. And then there are some who will fight to stay on the plantation. But even with those, you can usually still discuss sports and hobbies.
/r/MGTOW13/02/17 03:36 PM
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I'm looking forward to early retirement because I have hobbies and interests that I want to pursue. And I don't mind being quiet and spending time with myself. All of that scares most single women. Working provides them guaranteed socializing.
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 12:47 AM
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I think a good first step would be for men of some means to start opening male only businesses. Given laws, these would likely need to be private social clubs such as a neighborhood bar that is members (men) only. These used to be common but have mostly disappeared. Doesn't need to have funny hats or initiation rights, just a neighborhood bar where men can go and not worry about PC rules, men fighting over chicks, etc. Just cheap drinks, good jukebox, sports on tvs, and an old, wise bartender to…
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 05:21 PM
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Good Oregon-born rednecks need to descend on Portland and knock these idiots back to wherever they came from. I miss the days when the bearded guys in Oregon were actual loggers, not a bunch of whiny leftist trust fund losers who moved up from the LA suburbs to be cool.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/17 10:06 PM
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When someone attempts to lecture men about what is or is not "MGTOW" I generally assume they must be a woman. Men who allow other people to define how they should act to be "like a MAN" are by definition not going their own way.
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 06:13 PM
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Yep. I'm 44 and of my close crew of five (20+ year friends): -Two of us are divorced and clearly MGTOW. -One is remarried and bluepill but likes to get away and hang out. -One is divorced and searching for another marriage. For the time being though he's a bachelor and is a good guy. -Two are still in their first marriage, but one is basically avoiding his wife as much as he can. So, current score is six marriages, four divorces, one second marriage, two MGTOW post-divorce. I'm guessing by 55 th…
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 06:42 PM
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Good link. The crazy key stats: First Marriage Survival (Probability of lasting more than 10 years): Probability that a first marriage will survive 10 years 6.6 % - 1 in 15 If there was no birth during marriage 3.7 % - 1 in 27 If there was a birth before marriage 6.5 % - 1 in 15 If there was a birth 0-7 months after marriage 7.4 % - 1 in 13 If there was a birth 8+ months after marriage 7.9 % - 1 in 12
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 06:23 PM
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I've had more sex in the two years since my divorce than I had in the decades I was married. And I've avoided online dating and escorts (so far). Marriage is generally the worst way to have a lot of sex.
/r/MGTOW07/02/17 01:41 AM
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I went through the same thing (20 year marriage, two kids). I'm 2+ years past that day now, and I promise you if you work at it, things just get better. My biggest mistake was looking for comfort by running into a LTR. While I liked the ego boost of finding I could use my age/wisdom (aka money) to hook a hot, much younger than me girlfriend, the drama and eventual AWALT break-up was actually more traumatic than the divorce. My advice: read up here and other forums, watch lots of MGTOW videos on …
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 05:53 PM
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If (when) the wife decides she's still young/hot and wants to take another ride on the CC party bus (usually late 30's), be a good beta and stay at home with the kids so she can get out there.... but keep detailed records so that, when the time comes, you can show evidence that you've been at home with the kids while she's been out partying 2, 3, 4 nights every week. This advice was provided to me by a divorce attorney years ago. I didn't need it, but thought it was a good idea.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 09:28 PM
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Of course she did. Almost every woman I've been with has declared me the best they've ever had, etc. Its Manipulation 101 - all men want to hear that they are amazing in bed.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 07:35 PM
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This seems like the best bet.
/r/MGTOW25/01/17 08:13 AM
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Which is better: (1) live alone and enjoy my golden years doing whatever I want to do, wherever I want to do it, and with whoever I want to do it with... and then go out alone (although I'd still have the paid nurses and likely my friends and family around); OR (2) Spend a few decades as a slave, always compromising, listening to complains, nagging, and requests for all sorts of silly things... in exchange for the remote chance of having some pruned-up old woman sitting near my deathbed for a fe…
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 05:33 PM
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This makes we want to semi-retire and teach.
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 07:01 AM
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I was dating a 30 year old once... I was her perfect guy, according to her. A year in and I was thinking second marriage, more kids... then I told her I was thinking of quitting my job in the city and retiring early. I shit you not, we went from sex twice a day to her leaving me in a few days.
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 06:44 AM
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Looking back on 40+ years of life, I think I've loved three women. Two turned out to be mentally ill and thanks god they broke my heart without kids or marriage. Married the other one, a smart professional girl who seemed to have no red flags... had kids together, had very little sex, and then watched her head for the exit after twenty years for no reason other than she "was looking for something more." AWALT.
/r/MGTOW03/01/17 09:33 PM
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Justified Sons of Anarchy
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 07:08 AM
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Dude, you need to cut off contact. She sounds crazy and that shit can re-snare you. It's like fighting a zombie - get the fuck away, don't play with it.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 07:51 AM
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I don't think MGTOW and marriage are necessarily mutually-exclusive. For example, a blue-pilled married man could have a MGTOW awakening and decide to change his approach and run the marriage according to his beliefs. Of course, he's at significant risk of divorce rape like all married men, but MGTOW can still provide a useful guide on how to proceed. For example: protect assets, don't trust wife re birth control, get a vasectomy, raise his children with MGTOW knowledge, require frequent sex fro…
/r/MGTOW13/12/16 12:12 AM
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Curious about why you would "how bad the job is".... I always thought electrician seemed like a great job. Care to elaborate on what you do, pros and cons as a career, etc?
/r/MGTOW10/12/16 04:52 PM
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My old boss used to say something similar: "Avoid the trouble of marriage, just find a woman you hate and buy her a house."
/r/MGTOW07/12/16 09:10 PM
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You can always just decide to go for it - go ahead and date and have a relationship if you can find a decent girl. Just do it with your eyes open, and take the necessary precautions. Don't get anyone pregnant, don't get married, don't move in together. Be ready to walk away. And understand that you might get hurt given the 99% chance that AWALT will surface. But it's a choice many of us have made, and in my opinion, it's a valid thing to try. Just understand the risks, as you should with anythin…
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 07:04 PM
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I'm raising my two sons after my wife (20 years together) decided to give the CC another ride in her mid 40's. Its not always easy, but it's always worth it. And these boys will grow up at least understanding the true nature of women. :)
/r/MGTOW03/12/16 04:50 PM
3

BPD chicks are dangerous because they actually can be the unicorn you're looking for.... they have an ability to literally mold themselves into your perfect woman and break down your defenses completely. And then the BPD shows up. Changing from perfect to perfect nightmare in the space of a day (or an hour) is typical BPD behavior. And getting over one is so difficult because they literally were your dream girl for some period of time (and probably the best sex you've ever had), and then they le…
/r/MGTOW02/12/16 06:42 PM
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Definite BPD chick. Been there.
/r/MGTOW30/11/16 06:03 AM
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Until AWALT happens, and they show their true colors. It might be a year or even ten, but eventually it happens. And long term (marriage) is almost never a happy place for men. At most they resign themselves to their fate and feel like it's noble to endure. None of my married friends still likes hanging out with their wives (we're in our mid 40's).
/r/MGTOW12/11/16 03:53 PM
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You didn't marry her or get her pregnant... you dodged the bullet and should be thankful. Be careful out there. I'm mid-40's and I've had a few serious relationships with a range of women (white, asian, latina) in my time... including a long marriage (now over). And, yes, so far it's 100%: AWALT. Next time, if you meet a good one and think you want to try your luck, remember to walk away at the first red flag: if she keeps her orbiters, walk; if she yells at you, walk; if she mentions trigger wa…
/r/MGTOW12/11/16 03:26 AM
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Same thing here. Post divorce (which was luckily not painful), I tried dating again after 20 years out of the game. Quickly ended up with a super hot, super cool chick 14 years younger. She said and did everything right, but after about a year she realized I wasn't going to be marrying her and when I started talking about early retirement, magically she lost interest (after telling me what a catch I was and how I was the perfect guy for her). She was gone within a few weeks. In hindsight I reali…
/r/MGTOW06/11/16 06:14 PM
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She sounds like she might be BPD, so not going full retaliation on her (as fun as that might have been) was probably the best approach anyway. Better to go no-contact quietly than to have her turn fatal attraction on you.
/r/MGTOW04/11/16 09:35 PM
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