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| 1 | Fuck it, here's an updatethe front end is fine though. Anything that alienates her behaviour and let's her know you're on to her and it's fucking weird will work. You want to strip all the validation away. Because he already asked her out, trying to set up a date puts him straight back as a thirsty fuck. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take?Six years in high school. Can you believe that shit? And you know why? Because she stayed the same in my mind from the first moment of lust. No matter what I learnt about her, or who she became, she was the same to me as she was when I first fell for her. I believe that's what all oneitis is. You're in love with an idea, and you just assign that idea to a person. That's why when someone tells you they saw them hooking up with this guy or fucking that guy, you say something like "she wouldn't do … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Dread game?More like eliciting competition anxiety | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | "Why can't you just be happy"I'm a big believer in self reliance. I share small parts of my shitty life growing up with my girl, but ONLY once they no longer affect me. I work through my issues by myself first, and then share them once they no longer have an impact on me. Story time should be few and far between. Until then, mystery is your friend. Set it up however you want, but let her fill in the gaps. Her hamster will conjure up better stories and paint a better picture of you than you ever could with the truth or with … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | "Why can't you just be happy"Choose your friends carefully when it comes to this sort of confidence | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | what should i do?Abundance mentality dude. Look it up, learn what it is, and apply it to your life. No one is worth thinking about this much. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:52 PM |
| 1 | My LTR is starting to look elsewhereAWALT looks different in different conditions. A dissatisfied girl will look to branch swing. That's AWALT. A devoted girl won't entertain another guy, even for a second. That's AWALT. So you're right, AWALT. And knowing what she did to you, we can surmise she doesn't desire or respect you, and she is looking to get away from you. I know, hard truths. So instead of being a little bitch and getting upset that people are telling you how things are, get a bit of Abundance about yourself, and hard n… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | My LTR is starting to look elsewhereAWALT looks different in different conditions. A dissatisfied girl will look to branch swing. That's AWALT. A devoted girl won't entertain another guy, even for a second. That's AWALT. So you're right, AWALT. And knowing what she did to you, we can surmise she doesn't desire or respect you, and she is looking to get away from you. I know, hard truths. So instead of being a little bitch and getting upset that people are telling you how things are, get a bit of Abundance about yourself, and hard n… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:45 PM |
| 2 | My LTR is starting to look elsewhereAWALT looks different in different conditions. A dissatisfied girl will look to branch swing. That's AWALT. A devoted girl won't entertain another guy, even for a second. That's AWALT. So you're right, AWALT. And knowing what she did to you, we can surmise she doesn't desire or respect you, and she is looking to get away from you. I know, hard truths. So instead of being a little bitch and getting upset that people are telling you how things are, get a bit of Abundance about yourself, and hard n… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with ultimatums from women who aren't committed to you?This is insane. Walk away man. Any bitch with the audacity to make this demand is fucked in the head. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Should I be objective about my value in the SMP?Good starting point. But it definitely sounds like you're obsessing about this way too much. Improving your smv is an on going battle for life, but when you're gaming, focus on your perceived smv. Even if you're a 5, you can get 8s or 9s with the right game. In the moment, it's all about creating the tingles, not how much money you make or your hairline. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:08 PM |
| 2 | What are good places where random women will start talking to you (eg. stores, greenpeace booths, etc.)?If you look good enough, anywhere. If you don't, then nowhere. But that doesn't matter much, we should be the hunters, not the hunted. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Any Australian Red Pillers?Qld local. Me and my girl reckon it's not that bad in Brisbane. Definitely more prevalent in Canada from what I've seen. But as per everywhere I've been, pretty girls are normally on the fence about feminism deep down. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Im going to Break up with my partner, Please give opinion(Good or Bad)Second time I've agreed with this guy today. You're trying to come across like an alpha with options but the whole post smells of scarcity and butthurt. Guess what man? How she treats you is your fault. The smart guy would reflect on the relationship, figure out where he fucked up (I'm guessing poor boundaries), and put together an action plan on how to improve in that area. If you're going to be angry at anyone, let it be yourself. And don't try and hurt people man, that's just a toxic attitude… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Does life actually get better if you put the work in? Am I on the right track?Yes, life definitely gets better. I've put on a few extra kg of muscle 'recently' and the difference is crazy. I already got looks and now it's just silly. I lift my arm up to scratch my neck and they stop looking at my face and are glued to my bicep. The cool thing is, this can be you pretty quickly in the scheme of things. And you'll look back and muse on how small a price it was to pay to feel so fucking good. Here's the thing man: life is pain no matter what route you go down. You think welf… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How to fix low self esteem?Mindfulness and meditation are good tricks. The idea being that the subconscious spews out thoughts that are good, bad or ugly. it is up to your conscious mind to accept or reject the thoughts your subconscious creates. Read this: https://markmanson.net/your-two-minds It's a lot of hard work man, but simply being aware of your internal monologue and calling yourself out on the bullshit you think is a big part of it. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How many cold approaches does it take to start succeeding?Accurate. As it turns out, hard things are hard. You're going to have to fail a lot and get rejected a lot and not become a bitter little cunt about it. But you'll get better faster if you 'game' everyone. Take one concept at a time and consciously apply it when you talk to people. Be mindful and reflect on your interactions. You'll be slaying in no time | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Broke Frame - How to Recover?And the frame break wasn't saying we need to talk, it was that you didn't address the orbiter earlier. In other words, you never broke frame, you were just operating in her frame. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Broke Frame - How to Recover?Hey man, how old is the ltr? And we're you dating non exclusively prior to the ltr? As for what to do? I would probably walk away. New ltr spending the summer away AND you left things in a bad way? And she took the orbiter's side? I don't like that at all. Taking the orbiter's side would be a deal breaker for me straight up actually. If you stay with her, definitely lay down your expectations/boundaries in an ltr, and if she wants to keep entertaining other guys, then you should go back to seein… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Im 21, keep feeling like im getting "too old"Being a fit guy in medicine? All you need is to put yourself around other people and you should get laid, as long as you're not completely autistic. Hate to be this fucking guy, but you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. As the other guy said. Stop being a faggot and approach. By the by, 'getting too old' is a rejection buffer. It's just something we tell ourselves to justify our shitty choices that contradict our real desires and eases the cognitive dissonance we feel. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Can't get over my old oneitis whom I broke up with almost a year agoHow many girls have you been with since? Could be a clue | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 08:57 PM |
| 3 | [Update] Bros, I need help. I'm here to listen.You shouldn't be married to this person. If you can end it without heavy losses, do it. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 08:54 PM |
| 6 | It's her birthday and I felt bad. Do I follow through on taking her out like I said?Yep. This is good advice. But it's nuanced. If you take her out because you feel guilty, because you think you should, or because you want to secure more sex in the future, you are not doing what you want. If you take her out because you want to treat her or make her feel special, you're doing it because you want to. It's all about whether it comes from necessity or desire. Weakness or strength. She will be able to sense if it is transactional/conditional or given freely. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Games up, but I wanna win...Over analysis bro. Sounds like you're in your own head and that is killing your alpha. You don't have to ghost her, but go back to abundance. That is what was attractive in the beginning. Stop caring if you see her again, or if you're going to fuck again. And get out of your own head. The more you worry about your frame, and question yourself, the more she will. Girls follow, which means if you worry about something, they will worry. If you're cool with it, they will be too. I did anal with this… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend keeps losing her cool over me having my phone on silent, advice from TRP please.It could be this for sure. She could also be very self conscious and feels inferior to OP. Both would result in the "why do you keep me around" shit. I have misdiagnosed this for myself before and ended up going colder and the poor girl I was with was devastated because she just wanted some hint from me that I cared about her. It's hard for us without knowing more about the girl, but I think OP will know which one of these two it is. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend keeps losing her cool over me having my phone on silent, advice from TRP please.Probably comfort tests eh? Women communicate overtly when they're out of options. My guess is you've been a bit to alpha/aloof with her and she's feeling worthless and craving a bit of comfort. The push/pull of alpha and beta is crack to bitches. Had the same problem a while back. I sat my girl down and spoke to her with authority (as in it's not a conversation, you're telling it as how it's going to be). Key points to hit on: You're reacting like a child, it's unattractive I'm a busy person, it… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Redpill adviceThe issue here is the fact that it's only monthly. Something is wrong. She doesn't desire you enough to fuck you more. She desires you but you don't fuck her well enough. You don't instil enough dread/competition anxiety in her to keep the sex hot/frequent. You fail shittests, and are probably living in her frame. You are beta bucks. You haven't made your boundaries, standards and expectations clear in the ltr. The two of you are too familiar with each other and there is no anxiety. I'm sure the… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Older adults: Would you bang a 17 year old?All about the individual girl. theres some 20 y.o chicks who are very child like and I know a 17 y.o who would teach me a thing or two I'm sure. As long as she's not a kid in the head, I see no problem. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to shake the "adorable" tag women give meCocky funny is a great neutraliser for baby face. Just a guess, but your writing suggests to me you're a pretty quiet and reserved guy socially/conversationally. You have to balance the baby face through your communication. Being a cocky asshole, sexualising conversation quickly, being loud and tastefully obnoxious should help. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on my anger...I imagine there's a lot of moving pieces to this thing, but there are a few things in this story which suggest you failed some comfort tests prior to the break up. She still sounds like a bitch, but something to think about and reflect on for future plates/ltrs | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | A typical question on texting and only setting datesTo add to this. You can gauge her interest by ignoring. If she doesn't send a follow up, she was just testing to see if you're waiting by the phone for her. If she sends an unnecessary follow up, she wants to engage. Reply after two with logistics as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Gender Polaritysome differentiation is needed between niceness and kindness. The major difference is the motivation behind the actions. Nice guy is someone who expects something in return for his actions, he wants to earn respect or a smile to make him feel valued. That behaviour is externally motivated, comes from a position of weakness and is needy as fuck. A kind guy is someone who is genuinely altruistic and as such expects nothing in return for his actions. This behaviour is internally motivated, comes fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 08:36 PM |
| 13 | How do I deal with my oneitis' promiscuous past?Okay buddy, do yourself the biggest favour of all and stay away from those toxic subs. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 07:15 PM |
| 3 | What Is Mate Guarding? EC's come thruThat's why my strategy (which isn't mine, I got it from this sub a few years ago), is the Best way to mate guard. Because you can guard your mate, while not appearing to. I mean, its basic stuff: the best way to keep a girl is to not care if she leaves. It comes from abundance. "If you can get her you can have her" implies I have options and I can afford to lose her. That in itself will make her want to stay with me. There is supreme confidence and intimidation at play when you step aside and we… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 07:14 PM |
| 4 | What Is Mate Guarding? EC's come thruShe wouldn't bro, that's the point of having good game. And if she does, there's more around the corner. That's the problem with mate guarding. It's scarcity mentality. And guess what? It's not going to change the outcome at all. Mate guard a scrawny little fuck? She was never interested in him anyway so you let her know how important she is to you, for nothing. Mate guard against some dude that's getting her panties wet, you're not going to stop her from giving away her number/cheating. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 07:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with my oneitis' promiscuous past?I know the feeling, and it sucks. Separating our identity from other people is crucial. I would forget about girls for a while altogether and work on who you are, what your values are and build yourself up from the inside out. Trying to deal with girls when you're not sure about who you are is asking for trouble | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How to smash the "do you have any friends shittest"?When in doubt, don't give a straight answer. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend has me as her little bitch.Break it off buddy. You're worth much more than this. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Lifting / Working out and inner barricadeOnce a week would be a good start. Twice a week would be awesome. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Met a girl at salsa, ask her out, "who else coming"Don't ignore man, how old are you guys? Just play it cool. Ideally, you're not affected by her rejection, which you can convey by being a normal person when you see her. Nothing screams butt hurt like the cold shoulder. She will apologise for being busy and ask if you had a good night. And you can diffuse the tension by telling her you had a good time with your grandma, but she got you way too drunk and kept trying to get the bartender to take his shirt off. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider unacceptable behaviour for a girlfriend ?If she doesn't cry when I call her a waste of fucking space, I know she doesn't really care about me. That's unacceptable. Luckily, she cries every time | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What to do about a girl who may think you're a blue pill?So.. ready to bite the bullet or not? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 3 | What Is Mate Guarding? EC's come thrui have a solid relationship, so this is what I do. It's different if the guy is friendly and is just being social, but if he wants to fuck her, this is how I handle it. I let the guy know I know what he's trying to do (through a look, a smirk or even a few words) I step back and watch him lay his game down 1-on-1 to my girl with an amused smirk. After 30 seconds she's ready to say goodbye. If i get bored before they're done, I just take her arm and say it was nice to meet him and walk away. Some… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Did I fuck up over a text?The whole thing is odd man. The right ideas are there, but the execution is way off. Could be me, I think you need a lot more practice and there's probably going to be a lot more fails. Next time you're here with text game, rather than ask if it can be saved (scarcity), ask how it can be improved for next time. You seem to understand the concepts, so now you have to work on calibrating. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 03:25 PM |
| 7 | How do I deal with my oneitis' promiscuous past?Oneitis - deal with that first. Think about her pretty face. she's been used, choked, pinned down, had cum her eyes, on her eyelashes when she blinks, slapped with random cocks, tag teamed?, ass fucked, mouth fucked, hair pulled, screamed for more, used and thrown around. All of this to random guys she doesn't know, with a big smile on her face. If you think about that and still think she's someone worth sacrificing any of your time and energy for, I don't know what will help you. For real thoug… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Plate hanging out with an ex the same day I'm supposed to head over.So for arguments sale, let's say we consider her a plate. The whole point of having a plate, is that when she's not with you, you don't give a shit what she's doing. When you're good enough, she'll profess her devotion for you without you asking or caring, but one sided opt-in exclusivity is a bonus, not a prerequisite. Work on your abundance man, you really shouldn't care who she's hanging out with. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Should I hide my world view?Keep it to yourself almost always. Think how you like, but act like others. If you must share: Socratic questioning can be a good way to uncover the bullshit these folks spew. But save it for someone on the fence or who you care about deeply. My girl, like most, are impressionable to ideas of the mainstream, so sure enough she came home going on about the wage gap one day. I studied it at university so this was an easy one. But even then, rather than start regurgitating statistics and explanatio… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Lifting / Working out and inner barricadeEveryone has this issue man. The solution really depends on why you're experiencing them. A common cause is laziness, for which the cure is anything from incentivising yourself by pairing the activity to something you like, or get a work out partner to help with accountability. If you're not sure what you're doing, get a personal trainer. This is good as it will teach you how to lift, be a source of accountability and you're going to work harder as you are paying them so there's a bit more skin … | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Can some experienced OG of Redpill shed some light on love or marriage or maybe LTR.A happy couple that stays together is a result of the man fulfilling his burden of performance. This is a broad term encapsulating aspects of both af/bb. https://therationalmale.com/2014/09/23/the-burden-of-performance/ I have a good girl. If I don't keep her tingling, if I don't lead, if I don't provide, if I don't fuck her well, if I'm lazy, if I'm emotional, if I'm complacent, if I'm not creating other options (passively or actively) and so on... I'm failing in my burden, and even though she … | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 7 | askTRP Megathread July 12As others have said, it's a long time to date someone without fucking, a real long time. im going to assume the best case scenario for why this is the case. If you don't fuck her, someone else will right? It will be a pump'n'dump or a beta schlub after marriage. Either way, she'll be worse off. At least with you, she can feel in love, it can be special (for her) and if/when you part ways she'll have a sex god as her first. It's a win/win. Devils advocate says, can you even get in her pants? Are … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 06:13 PM |
| 2 | My gf is not the same person. But won't let me leave.Listen budddy, you're looking for someone here to tell you it'll work out, and that the sex is worth all the crazy. No ones going to say that. You're the same as a battered woman in your addiction to high/low drama spikes she gives you. Please listen to us man, she's bad news. You are too close to see how damaging she is, and has the potential to be. Walk away. Search bpd in this sub and read what others have endured. That's what you get to look forward to. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | This text the night after first date sexAgree completely. Full asshole is a bad idea but I think a little playfulness is a good way to diffuse the negative tension. Joking about having the next date in straight jackets so you can keep your hands off each other or equivalent. The above response is good too but Whether it's a shittest or a comfort test, its best to not give a straight answer. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | This text the night after first date sexIf it was good sex, she won't be ashamed of doing it with you, she will want more. Sounds a lot more like asd than anything negative. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | This text the night after first date sexNope. asd for sure. Super common after crazy monkey sex. It's a comfort test | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Relative (m) about to propose to LTR. What should he know before going for it?Haha, seriously? I think he's being rude on purpose. Hate to be this guy but it sounds like you and your relative need to read the rational male by rollo tomassi. And the side bar. But as others have said, get him the rational male as a wedding present. Probably have to be on the down low of his bride to be is anything like the average. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | HB Dreading MeIt sounds like she's missing comfort, or she could just be an attention whore. Are you exclusive? If you are, this behaviour is unacceptable. If you're not, you have no right to be upset. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Red flag?If you don't want kids with her, run. Bitches will do crazy shit man | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:18 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 4 years broke up to try ONS. How to recover?Would she have done this to brad Pitt? No, so you're actions probably contributed to whatever lack of attraction was going on BUT she sounds like a selfish cunt. It's hard man, but be thankful it happened now and not once you had kids and a mortgage with her. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Can a woman overcome her past?One word man: baggage. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Doesnt respond?The number 1 problem here is your level of investment. I know it's hard, but you can't let yourself care about this shit. Don't get angry, she's playing her her game just like you're playing yours. That's general advice. Specifically, she's not interested sexually, so don't bother pursuing. An interested girl will agree to the first plans or change them to a day she's free if she's busy. If she's an attention whore, you may be able to leverage her low self esteem through scarcity and indifferenc… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a princess co-worker?Haha, what did you expect man? If you have an alternative job lined up, why not go out with a bang. Otherwise, you got no options, so keep your head down. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 04:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you go from hi on the bus/walk/gym etc to let's get drinksSo you haven't learnt good game. Take any aspect of game, say push/pull and use it on everyone you meet. Observe how they react: they seek more validation, hold eye contact longer or whatever. Rinse and repeat with other aspects of game. Do this for a bit and tell me you don't notice a change. Game works man. If you tell me it doesn't work for you, it just says you don't have it yet. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 04:41 PM |
| 1 | My gf is not the same person. But won't let me leave.Reread what you just wrote. This is a textbook toxic relationship. Right now, you are the battered woman who returns to her piece of shit boyfriend that beats her half to death. Leave this relationship you stupid fuck. You have 20 guys telling you what you're too invested to see. This bitch will fuck your life up. I guarantee it. Walk away. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | how to 'flirt' back?Change the subject. It's a bad line to begin with. Next time you want to push/pull, have an idea of how you're going to pull her back. So change the subject, and if she insists on why you said that, casually say "come on, don't be weird" and keep talking about the new subject. That will get her hamster spinning. OR "Well, I'm glad I'm not sitting next to you, I mean, you're great and all, but you do that teeth grinding thing when you're sitting still ;)" | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain happy couples who actually workout and the woman is respectful and loyal?The guy fulfils his burden of performance | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 04:08 PM |
| 11 | askTRP Megathread July 12The short version is if she FEELS she is in love with you, she will fuck you. The following is for if she really is a virgin. If you have tight game, you should be able to decide when you have sex, so the only consideration is your value system. Is it okay to fleece the little honey? or should you look after her 'heart'? it all depends on how you feel about it and what you can live with. Dark triad folk will manipulate her feelings and slam asap. Beta mentality will wait til marriage. You sound … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 03:04 PM |
| 8 | How to Deal with an Angry GirlfriendSure man. I remember the first time I implemented it, a few years ago, I was quite busy with university/work and was spending no time with my girl (ltr of 1.5yrs at that point), just stopping by for a fuck on the way to or from something else. She ended up getting angry when I was on my way out one day that I wasn't spending enough time with her, I didn't care about her etc. crying and carrying on. I said in an authorative tone "stop, you're being crazy, and I'm not going to talk to you like thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Like doesn't attract like - why your masculinity is keyLift with appropriate nutrition for your goal, read x-book and apply its lessons, hang out with guy friends (who are men, not boys). You will become more masculine doing any one of these things and increased masculinity will make you more attractive to women. One of my clients was convinced she couldn't lose weight no matter how much exercise she did or how little she ate. She toldme she followed my training planperfectly and yet she stayed the same and put on more fat. She thought the laws of p… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 09:44 PM |
| 9 | How to Deal with an Angry GirlfriendWhen your girl is playing up, it's some form of shittest and GLO's advice is the winner. However when she is truly angry or upset, my experience is that any amused mastery, a&a or similar response only invalidates her feelings (which are oh so important to her) and causes resentment to build. In these cases, I think treating her like you're her father is the best course. I don't tolerate any disrespect, be it name calling, whinging or raising her voice. I don't fight with her. If she's hot and b… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 08:57 PM |
| 8 | If I didn't discover this subreddit...Yep. Got to turn that spotlight on yourself and ask the tough questions. Nine times out of ten, you are the problem. Anytime my girl gives a shittest, I know I've fucked up somewhere. It's a big red flag. So I go over my recent behaviour. Maybe work has stressed me out or I've had too many long days in a row, it doesn't matter. Nine times out of ten, I find, with introspection, I've dropped the ball somewhere and she's picked up on it. Remember, we are constantly teaching people how to treat us. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | We Are Taught an Artificial Conception of the Human BeingAgreed. Could be grasping at straws here man. The model captures what humans need (not want), and assigns an accurate chronology. It is as simple as any model could be which is good, because it allows the inidividual to define their own requirements to satisfy each level of need. It makes no attempt to estimate the variance between one person or another. Nothing inherently blue pill about it, I mean, it's a triangle with 5 words and 1 hyphenated word. It seems like the beef you have is that it i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread July 05The laziness towards women you describe sounds a bit like a rejection buffer. It hurts to get rejected so your subconscious has come up with a reason to avoid it: laziness. A lot of the time new guys struggle with the personality and behavioural changes because they are a facade or an act. Work on yourself, mindfully practice the lessons on this sub. The goal is for game to be your default response, then girls aren't work at all, they're fun. MGTOW folks miiight be 'content' but they are missing… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 01:30 AM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread July 05Sounds a bit like a sniper mentality, waiting for the perfect moment to strike. You're thinking with a scarcity mindset, and wasting time and energy which could be used on other prospects. Ask her out and accept her answer or forget her completely and focus your energies elsewhere. Imagine if you're buddy was working at Walmart, when he was an accountant. You tell him to quit and get a job as an accountant and he replies with "nah, I think they might make me a supervisor soon." Same thing man, q… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 01:19 AM |
| 10 | askTRP Megathread July 05Talk to everybody dude. If you haven't implemented much theory it's going to be a shit show starting out which is fine. Try focusing on one or two ideas at a time and be mindful of your interactions. Be observant of how people respond to you as you implement different aspects of game. Use everybody to consciously hone your skills, including the hot bitches. Practically, find a wingman to have drinks with after work and everyday just tell the girls you're interested in that you'll be at 'x' havin… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread July 05All the techniques used to game bitches will work in all the environments you list. Push pull, amused mastery, cocky funny etc. works on everyone. You should be gaming everyone, until game is your default. You don't want to fuck them, but tease your buddies and watch them seek a bit of validation, be a cocky bastard at work and and see the bitches moisten and hang around a bit more. 'Low pressure' environments are a great opportunity to observe the results different game techniques can have with… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 12:32 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread July 05Don't openly talk to her about your options, that is asking for a reaction and comes off as insecure and untrue. Let your actions infer abundance through Scarcity of interaction, time limits on dates etc. There was a guy a while back on here who had a box of spare toothbrushes and a different guy who had a lost and found box for the stuff girls left at his place. I would say that's as obvious as you want to make it | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Assertion without violenceI have the same experience. The feeling is the same gut feeling you get as when someone tries to break your frame. Something is off. The feeling is your subconscious telling you your values/identity has been violated and you should act on it. Thank fuck for higher order thinking which allows us to balance this feeling with potential consequences of action. Otherwise you would ram every mother fucker that cut you off, or knock out every guy that brushes past your girl in the club. Despite rationa… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 10:27 PM |
| 9 | How I learned to understand "frame"It's good to be able to lead a conversation, which, in the context of dates, means to build sexual tension and avoid boring the shit out of each other. You do this by reigning her in when she starts talking about hair salons. Leading (as preferred to controlling: leading comes from a position of strength whereas controlling comes from a position of weakness) the conversation as necessary is a Manifestation of strong frame, rather than frame itself. Someone here has said before: Your frame is how… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 10:10 PM |
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