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You say collapse. I say not inflated. It was a market correction.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:39 AM
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I live in a major city in Western Australia. Not really the boonies. The housing market is just not inflated like other major cities. If you go to NSW Australia you just add 350k onto evrry house because of the over inflated price. In Melbourne just add 200k onto every house.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:02 PM
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Western Australia.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:47 AM
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I would never live in LA. The property prices are so inflated it is literally retarded. I feel sorry for the people who have to endure that sort of property market. If I lived in LA I would make the necessary arrangements to move to a different state with a less inflated housing market. I live in Australia. A 4 bedroom 2 bathroom house on 900sqm of land in a moderate area where I live will cost about 350k - 400k AUD. That loan can be easily serviced by rent. But as an example I just bought a pro…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 06:10 AM
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Enough to live off for a year in cash without changing your lifestyle and at least 4 - 6 rental properties being paid off by tenants. More the better. Make sure that debt is serviced and look at your equity grow faster than any fucking index fund or stock. If you went the No Property route then your super funds/401k/Roth IRA should be maxed out yearly and your savings should still be at least a years worth of living expenses. Of course if you don't mind working the rest of your life you can choo…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 04:38 AM
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Sex dies down when women determine their husband/boyfriend will continue to provide security/utility regardless of sex. This is because relationships are transactional. When you realize you can get stuff for free you stop paying. Then you expect the same level of service from the other party. This is not a one-way street. Both partners provide a service and both partners pay for it. This is a supply and demand problem not a "Male" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:54 AM
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Alphas are Alphas. Chads are Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:18 AM
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Having a strategy for dating women is beta as fuck. You might increase your chances if your not naturally Chad. But ultimately its a beta move to curtail to female desires. You should be improving yourself for yourself and accept what comes with it. Also have you ever seen r/FemaleDatingStrategy ? Women don't just want security they want utility. Security comes first but when security is given to you by default in society then utility is their next goal. If a women does not have to worry about b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:31 AM
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The majority of men know to be competent, so you’re wrong about the majority of men having sub-par parents. Are the majority of men competent? Or are they just at the "level of their peers". If the level of thier peers is subpar then are they competent? Most people are not actually competent. And that’s why we have r/MGTOW. They married losers with big tits or married just because they wanted sex, and then got mad when fell apart, as a normal person knew it would. Pretty halarious for you to ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:59 AM
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Yeah, The majority of men grow up with subpar incompetent parents. People have different metrics for competence. What you might deem competent may be completely unrecognized as competence as another women. Some women like guys who can use power tools, If a man can't use power tools very well shes going to be less attracted to him. Even if he is a self made multimillionaire at the top of his field. The funny thing is women don't need to be competent to attract men. They just need to "exist". This…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:58 AM
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Women just wan't competent men. They should just stop pretending they want anything else. With competence comes everything else they want. Confidence, Security, Utility and the like. Just general competence both socially and in life is attractive. Women are repulsed by incompetence to the extreme but within reason. ​ Not one single female authority figure I have ever had while growing up ever uttered anything like this. Women subconciously but actively tell men to be the opposite of what attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:18 AM
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My advice is to do it anyway. At times you will resent women. But for the most part if you can find a somewhat decent one it makes all the difference. In all honesty I would sacrifice physical attraction for a reliable personality in women when picking a partner. I am just lucky I met mine young and we grew up together. That way your on the same team for most of your life. But things can change rapidly.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:50 PM
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The truth is it never goes away. I truly do envy the blissfully ignorant.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:44 AM
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If it worked like magic she wouldn't need to do it again and again and again.
/r/MGTOW07/11/19 07:09 AM
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Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:12 AM
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Get your diving license and go spear fishing.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:23 AM
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Yeah no. That would make things worse. I get a reminder of what I can't have, just out of arms reach. That shit wrecked my self esteem when I first started talking to guys, constantly analyzing myself and picking myself apart trying to figure out why he won't commit. In other words, You don't get the validation of security you need unless he is faithful to you. So making him become yours exclusively is the only way to get the validation you need. He likes me, laughs at all my jokes, thinks I'm c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:09 AM
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All sex is transactional. Even if they don't want you as a boyfriend they still get paid with your validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:55 AM
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All sex is transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:50 AM
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Society was built to protect women and children at the expense of men. Otherwise we would alls till be wandering tribes fighting over the largest cave or best hunting grounds. Since society was built to protect women and children then it is essentially a "matriarchy" led by mostly dominant males all doing their best to protect the women and children. The only thing you should use society for is as a tool to get you what you want. There are systems in place to both elevate your status and remove …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:23 AM
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I chuckled.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:34 AM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:41 AM
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AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:29 AM
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Get pregnant, give birth, Giving Birth hurts. Getting pregnant is a pain. But it is your choice. get penetrated All the women I have been with seem to love this part? and be the partner whose enjoyment of sex is a second or third thought You choose your partner. Then you have to play the game right and have some luck so you can end up with one of the ever rarer good men and hope that your girl brain doesn't have you end up a single mom with whatever 80 IQ thug loser you thought you'd change Imag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:29 AM
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You mean I get a good chance at living life on another mans dollar and all I have to do is go to gym, cook, clean, provide sex and look after the kids. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:17 AM
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Single mothers for the most part mean failed relationships where 2 adults genuinely could not get along enough to put their differences aside for their children's sake. I know everyones situation is different but single mothers are a red flag on their own. Especially for young men. A single mother is a liability with liabilities attached. You got impregnated by another man and could not even make that relationship work. Why would I wan't anything to do with you? I am married man with kids. If my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:53 AM
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Great yet another precedent that will be used to protect grooming gangs and third world economic migrants rape/sexual assault women. Every court case with these men will now look to this precedent set and use it to justify the perpetrators actions. The women who will be negatively affected by this man and many more to come have been betrayed by meaningless empathy for a single autistic man. The UK is a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:36 PM
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Single mothers I don't hate them. I just think less of them is better for children and for society. I also don't want to look after somebody else's kids. Single motherhood is not solely a womens fault. However they definitely had their part to play in it all. (For the most part). You could say where the average fault lies is about 50% Mother and 50% Father. But still 100% my problem. Divorces Women do start divorces more often. Of course men do wrong. TRP men literally attribute failing marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:01 AM
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You want all this in a man? What could you possibly bring to the table that matches all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:59 PM
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Yeah it is hilarious how many men still neglect the clit. It is so fucking easy. Takes like 20 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:06 AM
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Uglier women will have uglier orbiters. Women who go from 5 to a 7/8 will now see their potential prospects as orbiters as their confidence has increased and they will seek out better men. Women who drop from a 7/8 to a 5 will see their prospects as out of their league and their orbiters as prospects because they can no longer get better men. The truth is every female with male friends outside of "couple friends" has orbiters. If a man wants to hang out with you it is because he wants to sleep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:26 AM
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Who you're trying to convince with that conspiracy theorist figment lmao. This is not a conspiracy theory. This is macro economics. If you increase the hours of labour per household over time you can decrease the pay per household over time. These households will work more for the same amount of money. There is literature on this subject. One person could support a whole family for a very short time in human history, one part of the 20th century in America. Women have worked throughout human his…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:19 AM
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His mistake was deleting her snap. His next mistake was showing he actually got upset. “ Agreed. As a sexual strategy, sacrificing it in this way was sub-optimal. Depends if you want quality or quantity. I am selective. See that’s the issue, you are attaching your ego No, I don't like women who behave in this way. I don't care that it was me or any other guy. If she ghosted a different man that I knew I would probably do the same. Not for ego but because I don't condone that behaviour. It should…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:45 AM
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For starters I wouldnt be butthurt and a total dick like OP was Agreed so like the house I always win. Or at least a draw Sounds good in theory. In fact it probably maximises the amount of sex you have. But in this situation I wonder what the effects of sleeping with a women you dislike does to you. It is not about ego. More so self respect. Shit tests or not I will choose which ones I want to pass and which ones I want to reject. A women has no right to have her shit tests passed by me. I will …
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:38 AM
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Make a formal complaint. Get in touch with a lawyer and see what your options are. If you are in Australia the first thing you do is contact these guys and with the help of your lawyer make a formal complaint. He might have other suggestions. Call the local police station and ask them what can be done about false rape accusations leading to you getting kicked out of university. The lawyer will obviously know how best to proceed. You simply can't let this go because it will be permanently on your…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:32 AM
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I am married with kids. Im past the spinning plates part of the cycle. It isn't about being self righteous it is about having self respect. Trading self respect for pussy is a no on all accounts. Why would you provide her with a second chance? Just for pussy? I thought part of holding frame was standing firm? Maybe we have different levels of firm.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:42 AM
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You sacrificed pussy just to look self-righteous. It is like you worship women or something. You never want to come across as upset or desperate. At least he got the desperate part somewhat correct. No need to punish her and you’ll never know if they’ll hit you up again randomly which in this case, they ACTUALLY DID. Who cares if they contact you again? Thats why we "next". His mistake was deleting her snap. His next mistake was showing he actually got upset. Stupid mistakes but for the right re…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:29 AM
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Let me translate that for you. "Technology and female sanitary products have allowed women to reject their traditional role in the home and be exploited by companies that have recognised that because both parents/partners are able to work they can lower the wages for individuals thereby doubling the workforce and keeping the payroll costs relatively the same". Men who used to be the sole breadwinners could easily support a family of 5 or more on relatively mediocre wages. Relatively mediocre wag…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 01:19 AM
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classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:44 AM
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No, Not really. Think about it this way, What type of man would you rather your sister or daughter date? If the answer is a Criminal, Bar Brawler, Thief or Mafioso then something is wrong. I get it though, I understand female attraction. But they often mistake negative traits for positive ones leading to all sorts of shitty relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:35 AM
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Knew this was directed at me. But no not really. You were just using shit logic to justify relationships with criminality involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:30 AM
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Depends on the context. Meeting a "good" guy is a moral statement IMO. Meeting a guy with a "Good" personality can be either depending on how it is said. What people mostly mean though is that a good personality is someone they enjoy being around. If people used the english language as intended then these issues would not occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:28 AM
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indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 08:22 AM
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I have no doubt this is true. But that has nothing to do with what I said. When a female is trying to find a decent male, being attracted unhinged child beating robbers is probably not a good strategy. They are mistaking negative traits for positive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:51 AM
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Obviously understanding the dynamics of men and women strip away any ideological parenting possibilities. No father wants to see their daughter date let alone date the wrong type of men. That is the nightmare. I will get over it one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:48 AM
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Guess we are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:44 AM
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I think dangerous men can protect their women. For as long as it takes for them to eventually take their anger or frustration out on something. I think men with the potential to be dangerous but are mentally stable and calm are a safer choice for women. Which category did you father fall into? Was he mentally stable or was he slightly unhinged? I get the whole "my daddy is a dangerous man" appeal but let us be honest. The likelihood that your father was significantly more dangerous than any othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:20 AM
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I know exactly what women are attracted to. That does not mean I can't debate the logic this particular one uses to justify it. When you have daughters to look after your priorities change from how can I exploit the stupidity of women to how can I make sure my daughters learn to identify what a good quality man is. It is a fucking nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:01 AM
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Your father is no more dangerous than any other man. In a world of force amplification tools like knives and guns the only real winner is the man who survives. Being able to be dangerous is one thing. Actually being dangerous to those around you is another. Being able to rob people and beating kids is not a physical accomplishment it is a mental one. I get that men who act like this can have relationships and not be a threat to their women and children. But there is levels of mental issues that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:56 AM
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If women want to bet on their continued safety then betting on a child beating robber is probably a losing bet. Serial killers can be funny, engaging, interesting, outgoing, and fun to be around. Should people not morally avoid serial killers? It is not even about morals it is about self preservation. You are risking your own mortality for something you can find anywhere else without all the negative traits. Sometimes I think you just play the devils advocate. Surely unless you are projecting im…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:37 AM
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Males can handle themselves and their own safety a lot more effectively than women can. Hence it is less of a risk and therefore can manifest more in their behaviours. A BPD women who goes apeshit is still easier to handle for a man than any other man that poses a threat to him. This is what stupid and desperate men do for sex. Last time I checked most women were not desperate. Maybe only stupid. I would rather fight a BPD women any day than a random aggravated man on the street if my life was o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:32 AM
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Says any logical person. You beat a kid and rob someone your personality is undesirable and any good traits are irrelevant until you change as a person. People are seldom capable of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:22 AM
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This is hilarious. Women seriously unable to fathom their own fragile mortality and the mortality of females is so much more fragile than a males. This is obviously projection on your part. Criminality is an obvious negative trait. Not because you break the law but because you risk yourself for mediocrity. That is called stupidity. I can rob a store as well. I just know that 10 years in jail for armed robbery is not worth 800 bucks in the till. If you rob people and beat a kid in the process you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:15 AM
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you have not built anything for any female, you have not done anything of real importance for your society or the world. I have worked on applications used by large quantities of the agricultural industry. But yeah, I sell software now. So what? My husband actually builds shit fit a living not you. What does this have to do with anything. You are suffering from solipsism and someone is challenging that. Hence the need to "prove yourself" to an online stranger. I help people overcome their emotio…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/19 09:14 AM
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Case in point Sybil Ludington who was a fuck ton more bad ass than Paul Revere, but I know you never heard about her because again men wrote history. I am aware there are of course great people of both genders. We are talking about the majority of each. Anecdotes of great people doing great things are not relevant. Plus lets be real, Both men, women and children have all been messengers of war. Do you really think all of us just sat around while our homes/families/villages were attacked? Of cour…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/19 01:47 AM
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Congratulations, Your a women living in a very comfortable world built by men just for your benefit. Just to keep your interests safe. A society that was formed for women by men. Your still a slave to your biology your just not required to act on it as much. As long as your happy though. That is all that matters at the end of the day. You also assert that women are weak creatures looking for security and protection. Many of us provide this shit for ourselves. I am a veteran and can sure as fuck …
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 08:36 AM
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You work in the mental health industry. That is why you work with homeless women.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 08:09 AM
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You obviously never had to write a paper in college. I wrote to many. All completely worthless and I put as little effort into all of them as I could. The links just explain the issue really well. The nature of males and females are known and concrete I mean if you put females and males into a room. Control the variables and observe. They act in predictable and repeatable ways. For the most part. In the real world there are more variables. This does not change how they act when they experience t…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 07:17 AM
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Thats right, You don't have to worry about it because you are privy to it. Men who are not privy to it should be told about it at the very least. And men with low and high value need to worry about it. I mean most men can spot a gold digger from miles away. But its the little things that most of us miss that play into hypergamy.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 06:47 AM
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Also, in this day and age, SAHM is far less common and women don't necessarily rely on men as much. You are confusing the comfort of modern times with the biological imperatives of women. In times of crisis they display their true nature. In times of comfort they are free to act as they please and they still act within the realms of hypergamy. She has a job, A stable government, A police force, Modern technology and house to live in. She can be less picky when choosing a man. However if all of a…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 07:01 AM
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More than likely you would probably actually "Man Up" and give her a place to stay until she gets back on her feet. Because if you didn't she would just go stay at her ex boyfriends house or with any other male friend. Also women don't easily become homeless, Only those with mental disorders or drug addictions become homeless and even then they are mostly taken care of. Normally women have a place to stay wherever there is a dick to ride on. This situation very rarely actually happen in reverse …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 06:13 AM
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Men definitely can. Women definitely cant. And that is the way it has to be for our evolutionary survival strategy to work. https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/ Funnily enough I disagree with what a lot of RP literature proclaims. But these 2 links are the best sources I have come across to explain in simple terms the differences between male and female love. However the nature of males and females known and concrete. Women and…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 06:02 AM
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It is not necessarily about losing your job. But losing your utility and security. Would she still be with you and love you if you lost the house and you were sleeping in your car? What if you lost that as well? Would she follow you into homelessness for love? The point I am trying to make is love is chemical not omnipotent. If you no can no longer provide her with the feeling of security and utility she will leave you for someone who can. Sure humans have residual feelings towards each other bu…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:48 AM
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My honest advice to you dude is to understand that women can love you but they can never love you the way you want to be loved. Once you reconcile this you can progress. You don't need to be RP to understand this. This is displayed in the best psych literature to date. Women and men have different sexual strategies. Also when you believe only in the physical and in science you understand just how trivial of an emotion love is and how easily it can dissipate or transfer to someone else. There is …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:37 AM
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Well my wife and I have grown up since teenagers together. History and growing up together would probably impact those feelings. I would say as long as she did not stray I would have feelings for her. But my children come first and I live by moral values that I myself uphold. The issue is not how men love it is how women love and how men want to be loved. u/Damichia needs to reconcile the fact that women do not love men the same way men love women. Nor can they love men the way men want to be lo…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:26 AM
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I am aware, I have been married for over 10 years. What you don't seem to understand is that they only love people who tick their hypergamous boxes. Love can fade and can be exchanged. If you think a women loves you for who you are and not what you can provide try losing your job and risking her standard of living. If love can be trumped by loss of security and utility then love is a tool used by women to establish hypergamous relationships. They are capable of love but not in the way you think …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 03:47 AM
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Women are hypergamous? They just display hypergamy at different levels depending on their current circumstances. You can only see the true extent of their hypergamy when they are in a dire situation. Best to come to terms with this regardless of whether you want to be RP or not.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 01:37 AM
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I second this.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:29 AM
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Men and women have throughout history worked together for the most part. You are confusing dominant with tyrannical. In modern times women are dominant in that they control most men with the prospect of sex. Society is based upon protecting women and children and it cares little for men. Men may be physically or mentally dominant but women dominate mens every thought and action. Well, At least most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:16 AM
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You just implied that men are naturally murderers. If that is what you got from that then how am I supposed to help you. You clearly missed the point. There a truly great men and truly terrifying men. Women rarely if ever fall into either category. Those dead hookers are SO EMPOWERED! Men can not do this. Women are born with inherent value (A vagina) that men will pay for. Men are not born with such a tool for profit instead they have to work hard to become valuable. They actually need to do som…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:32 AM
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Fair enough man. There are many things I wish I could do but can't because I am not single. But the grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:54 AM
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In my experience openly denying a women with a high N count can go 2 ways. Either they have low self esteem and they get the message and leave it at that and move onto the next poor guy. Or they get super defensive and try to validate themselves and their mistakes by calling you every name under the sun. Neither scenario does the girl actually understand the true nature of why they have been rejected. They don't blame themselves that is for sure, They blame everything but themselves. Women truly…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:15 AM
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Sex is easy for women. They place little value in it. Commitment and relationships require work and attention. They place value in it. Motivation is not the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:18 AM
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This is a classic. All women lie about this. They want want the best of both worlds. And men let them get away with it. They almost actively encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:16 AM
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Gay but no homo though.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:22 AM
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So nothing would change?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:43 AM
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Being a female is a big red flag for me. You just can't trust them.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:18 AM
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If women and men both thought sex was the prize and treated it as such rather than women thinking commitment was the prize what type of world do you reckon we would be living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:11 AM
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My dude, she's not his mother. It's not her job to socialize or rehabilitate him on the first date. That's HIS job. Absolutely, I agree with this 100%. I am just saying there are 2 sides to every story and hers tells me more about her than him. From what we've been told, she was the one putting in the lion's share of the work to keep this date and fledgling relationship going. The key word here is "From what we have been told". If you have ever been on a shitty date you would know that this is a…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 01:03 AM
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Jesus I died.
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 09:27 AM
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Okay assuming the female is both on the pill and I wore a condom and she took the morning after pill and she ends up pregnant by some miracle and the 2 seperate paternity tests form different labs say that the child is mine. I would not want to raise it. However even more so I would never want to kill it. So I would raise it and take responsibility. This is my child, I would rather suffer the consequences of my actions than end the Childs life for convenience. If she wanted an abortion then I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:40 AM
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I don't want to raise it. But even more so I don't want to kill it. So I would take responsibility for my foolish actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:26 AM
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so if your casual sex partner showed up PG you wouldnt want he rto have an abortion I of course would want one but I would never get it. I definitely would want to raise that child. I would absolutely regret my stupid decisions that lead to her pregnancy. If you let people suffer for their mistakes they will stop making them. I think people who get their casual sex partners pregnant need to suffer for their mistakes as an example of what not to do to others. They should not be rewarded for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:25 AM
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What I want and what I do are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:14 AM
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Abortions purely for the sake of convenience are abhorrent. let us be real, You are ripping a developing baby out of its mother purely because you gave into your hedonistic urges, did not use protection and now an innocent life must be taken because it does not fit your schedule. I get that raising a child after a one night stand is a fucking horrible idea. But an abortion rewards your behaviour with a solution. Your bad decisions should not be rewarded. Keep it in your pants and shut your legs …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:09 AM
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his extremely awkward and uncomfortable behaviors, and his demonstration of lacking social awareness entirely, does go against what red pill teaches. Being bad at dating is one thing. But he wasn't even following the most basic of advice. however his entire outlook on dating and women in general does follow RP. maybe you should reread the post. I simply can't agree. There was no logical flow, Acting cold and distant is something you do to game club sluts in a preselection situation not an actual…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 11:40 PM
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Cure your oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:00 AM
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one thing I'll say is that you talking to the other guy just reinforced his belief that women will hope on the first dick that's an upgrade from him. Yeah, I mean this is what I mean't. I am not 100% on the whole RP bandwagon but for the most part this sort of behaviour is what RP is trying to warn all men about. They are trying to cure all the male "Oneitis" so to speak.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 06:22 AM
-5

Wow, how did he become the victim?! That is a little solipsistic of you to say. Both of you are victims of circumstance. You a victim of a bad date with a bloke you had no chemistry with. He is a victim of his own actions and now probably a victim of hindsight and regret. BTW, it's 16 profiles and even if what you say is right, no woman in her right mind should entertain any man who is invested in that rhetoric, regardless of how aggressive or subtle he implements it. Lots of women say and act o…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 06:02 AM
3

Just don't cause me any grief or issues without good reason and we will get along just fine. What I don't want. I don't want any excess drama. I don't want any illogical outbursts. I don't want emotional dependancy. I don't want to have to validate you all the time. I don't want to be dragged to outings that only cost money and don't deliver any real enjoyment all the time. I don't want to have to buy you material things to validate our relationship. I don't want to have you crying every time so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:38 AM
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Reading how he treated you it does not sound anything like what RP recommends to be honest. He might be following those twitter guys but he is not following Red Pill advice in the slightest. Regardless, You talking to that other bloke so casually on the train without thinking how it would make this fragile man feel just told him everything he needed to know about women. Maybe he might learn a thing or two from that interaction. A bad date for you but an absolutely horrible experience for him by …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 01:18 AM
1

Lazy.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 12:55 AM
0

God damn you LOVE to fucking hear yourself speak..... Blah, blah, blah..... women....blah, blah, blah, men, blah, blah blah. But mom says I am interesting and handsome? She would never lie to me right? The truth is you’re a sad pathetic man, who deep down knows this. Yeah, my great life, wife and adorable children really make me feel sad and pathetic. I don't get why you can't just reconcile the fact that an RP man can have a happy and meaningful relationship while understanding human sexual and…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/19 01:18 PM
1

There is no need to end it. There is no need to test. If it makes you feel bad then ask him. "Yo man we don't hang out much any more aye? Whats happening with that i'm fuckin bored lately. " Excuse the Australian accent. ​ You will most likely get your answer. You would have to go into detail about your relationship for us to have any sort of real input.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:43 PM
3

If doing it makes you look beta then thinking it makes you beta. People move on, If he gets dumped in the next year he will probably return to what he was before. Just sounds like he is pussy whipped or his girlfriend does not like you much and poisoned his mind against you in some way. But I don't know the full story. You probably do. Bromances are great and all but friendships just like relationships have a used by date.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:22 AM
0

including any half ass assessment about my mental capacity or intelligence. Or lack there of. Yet, I am glad we can both agree on the fact that the RP community is comprised of simple minded (stupid) men. I never said anything of the sort. Do you read what you want to read or what I actually write? Most men don't care about the underlining reasoning or "science" behind RP. They just want the results. They need it in simple language. Also, I like that you’re going back in your “AWALT” stance and …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/19 01:31 AM
0

Like I said the name does not suit you. You take literals about hypergamy as absolutes. It is more complex than that. RP uses simple language for simple people. You are not meant to take it as an absolute. You should take it as the underlying reason for specific repeating behaviors not as and absolute prediction that at some point regardless of environment these things will happen. Life is not that simple. But you have to speak in simple language for simple men to understand. ​ So in my case it …
/r/ExRedPill21/07/19 04:57 AM
1

Your username as never suited you.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 11:58 PM
1

Poverty breeds poverty friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:41 AM
0

Capitalism has little impact on female nature, But overall female nature is unchanged regardless of the political system. Under subjugation from National Socialism Polish women were attracted to Nazi men even though they were starving and killing their own countrymen. Capitalism just allows for individual freedoms to be exploited by both government and corporations rather than just government. If there is a ruling class regardless of your culture, politics or geographical location you can be sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:53 AM
1

An ex-red piller. I’m one of those classic guys that are most vulnerable to these pills. Young, virgin, shy, insecure about body. Information is information. How you respond to it is your fault. No one is targeting you trying to make your life worse. Only better. I used to browse red pill a lot after my breakup (I’ve had only one girlfriend, that too she cheated on me), looking for straightforward tricks and strategies to date. I am guessing you figured out why. As you guys know, it did not turn…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 04:13 AM
0

In terms of Eastern Europe I think men are still the best option for women facing hardship. These women either move to another country on someone else's dollar or they shack up with the best men they can reasonably find. Eastern European women are among the most hypergamous in the "Western World". Hypergamy is more pronounced and visible the closer you get to poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:42 AM
3

Vicarious gig economy, High relationship uncertainty. Casual hookup culture, Increased likelihood of being single, Education costs, Cost of living increases, Wages growth not inline with inflation, Housing market uncertainty, Political uncertainty, Identity politics, Ever increasing competition. ​ I mean the list can go on. Lots of this stuff applies to Europe and I have no doubt that they probably also have an increase in Nuns or for that matter any other prospective employment/lifestyle that o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:11 AM
3

Nuns are common in times of hardship. They are uncommon in times of comfort. Nuns are women, Women need security. Having a higher rate of nuns in a declining religion (relative to population) is proof that life is becoming more difficult and we are in and traveling towards hardship. ​ Also, It isn't like nuns and priests don't get sex on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:48 AM
3

They are invisible to the men they want. This is the difference. Ugly men are invisible to all or most women. There are plenty of ugly men that will settle for ugly women without hesitation but these women are not interested in them for the same reason the men they are attracted to are not interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:38 AM
5

Don't tell them. Why would you tell a female you are a virgin? If she thinks you are shit at sex for your first time then so be it. Just chuck on a rubber and try not to be premature. Switch positions a few times then dick her down in her favourite one. If she wants to skip the foreplay then skip it. If she doesn't then don't. At 22 your dick should be rock hard the moment you see an attractive female. Don't wait around for some female who will be patient with you. ​ The simple answer is you sho…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/19 01:12 AM
0

Well since nothing is absolute we people can only speculate. But if something works in practice, theory and is repeatably able to show its viability as a "theory" then it is probably a good place to start.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/19 01:46 PM
1

Good chat. I learned a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:34 AM
1

I quite enjoy my kids to be honest. I enjoy the family life. I don't think I would be happy as a single just plowing females for no real gain. I mean, What is the point of meaningless hedonism? I can go fuck someones wife or some girls this weekend but did I really gain anything from it? Why make your entire existence about your sexuality? Having access to multiple women is not a personality its a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 02:28 AM
1

Yeah this is definitely not a sub designed to help men in any meaningful way. This is a sub for people to hate on RP values because it directly effects them. They don't like hearing the raw unfiltered facts of their nature because it undermines their goals. All women will try to fight against it one way or another.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/19 02:24 AM
1

I can agree with that. But I still think this is not the "Anger Phase" RP describes. Luckily I have never been one to follow the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:46 AM
2

This is very different. Your categorisation of this as an "anger" phase is very different from what TRP would categorise it as. I would say yours is more of an overt realisation leading to visceral reactions in your case. Every person goes through multiple of these throughout their life. But this is very different from the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:06 AM
2

Lol dude, Humble yourself. You are not the only man with a larger than average cock above 6ft in height. My cock is about the same size maybe thicker at the base and I am 6ft5 but I have been with the same girl since I was 16. Over 10 years of monogamy. No need to dip my dick into any random disease ridden thot for validation. Regardless of your cock size you still seem to be compensating for something. That ego needs to take a little rest. Someone has been feeding it to much. Don't need much ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:54 AM
1

Nothing keeps me up, and am definitely not upset just got laid and am relaxing Congrats. After being married for so long I don't often use the word Laid to describe having sex with my partner. Pretty funny though. You mean evolutionary psychology No, evolutionary strategy. Random mutation, Natural selection. The weak die and the strong survive. Nature has no morality. That sort of stuff. no it’s doesn’t sit well. Just like it’s doesn’t with actual psychologist or anthropologist because it’s bull…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 04:17 AM
-1

Why are you so upset? Does evolutionary biology and strategy not sit well with you for some reason? What exactly keeps you up at night about RP?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:36 AM
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Lol, we meet again. I like being in Subs where I am not welcome. You will commonly find me in a lot of controversial subs specifically for debate. I know you guys don't like RP but that does not mean people who seek guidance won't benefit from hearing both sides. They can choose for themselves what they want to believe.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:26 AM
2

Have to agree with this fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:16 AM
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Friendship like relationships are contractional agreements. Friendships like relationships degrade if the conditions agreed upon are not upheld. Conditions are subject to change as well. Females and males can never be friends. If they are both attracted to each other they end up in a relationship. If one is attracted to the other but the other is not then it is a one sided orbit with unmet expectations. Eventually one party is left behind or cast aside or will forever orbit the person. ​ Women a…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 02:13 AM
1

What people who despise TRP have to lose is being seen as just another person who should be treated normally and not as some game or math problem. I am not saying people are as easy as math problems. Calculated means putting some thought into your actions prior to acting. Instead of just running on pure feeling and saying whatever you are thinking. Lots of men fall for this and become instantly unattractive to women. There are so many variables to people, it's difficult to do x + y = z with them…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 01:53 AM
1

Because TRP works for the vast majority of people. TRP is not what people who hate TRP would have you believe. TRP if anything just teaches you to be more calculated in your approach to men, women and life in general. They offer advice on how to apply those calculations but that is up to the individual. Having a more calculated approach to life is going to benefit you regardless of your standing with TRP. But some men need to affirm their suspicions about women before they can even begin that tr…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/19 05:18 AM
1

What part of this do you pass on? What specifically?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/19 12:56 AM
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Don't listen to these idiots. They don't get it at all. You don't need therapy you just need to kick yourself into gear. Women are exactly what we know them to be. How you act on this information is completely up to you. However you can't hate them for it. That is just how they are. You need to be attractive physically to some extent for them to even acknowledge you. I know, It sucks but thats life. You need to also have an attractive personality to keep them on. You need to constantly improve u…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 02:49 AM
2

Feminism is just projected insecurity form the bottom percent of females. Higher status females latch onto whatever is trendy to increase their status. Women who are well adjusted, Care only for their family and things that matter and can see past the facade have nothing to do with feminism. I don't see any happy feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:22 AM
1

so of course “I am less than average” in your eyes Most people are including myself. I guess it depends where you set the bar. Low bars are easy to overcome, High bars make everyone below average. So if you think you are awesome maybe set the bar a little higher. To you my masters degree means nothing. Not nothing, But not much. I just find it odd people like to flex their education as if it means anything. Yet, I do nothing solely for income. I make 80k a year and do it by helping change people…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 01:19 AM
1

Your posts were completely incoherent in relation to the arguments. The first one you made in response was fine. But the rest completely shifted and avoided the entirety of the subject. Doubling down repeatedly on what you already have said instead of making points related to the topic. Also you pretty much just said anyone who has a different opinion from me is a projecting troll. I mean cmon dude. There is a limit to how illogical of a position you can have.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/19 04:49 AM
1

Speak for yourself I am fucking awesome. Debatable. Three degrees Yeah I have A degree and a Masters and a bunch of other useless shit that only cost me time and money. I could earn more money running a small coffee business and making bacon sandwiches in the local industrial area. I have a mate clearing over 300k a year net profit just from having 2 coffee shops. No degree, No diploma, High school education is all he has and he earns more from his day job than I do. To bad he spends it all on s…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/19 04:29 AM
1

Your bullshit angered me weeks ago Imagine getting angry over a post on the internet. You need to work on your mental health. Calm down a bit and relax. You’re also cold and calculated so probably are autistic as your name suggests. Oh damn. I thought my mom said I was Artistic not Autistic? Sad times. This is further evidenced by working in IT (that you informed me of on our last conversation). IT is a wonderful career field for people lacking social skills like those on the spectrum. I will ad…
/r/ExRedPill08/07/19 01:51 AM
2

Translation* I am not able to retort logically without getting upset and I am going to cop out. It has been fun.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 08:47 AM
2

God I was so lucky. My dad instilled this into at a young age. He didn't know anything about shit tests but he was a fucking natural at deflecting them. Lead to a really great LTR kids and a solid family unit. Thinking back a teenage girls whole personality revolves around shit tests.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:28 AM
1

Oh, Theres no point dude. I wasn't even considering women with any sort of N count in this equation. If she has been clubbing and fucking around i wouldn't even consider her for an LTR. I am talking about young blokes who still have access to 0 or low N count girls around their age. Like in scenario OP as found himself in. Who knows what her N count is though. If she want's to wear that to the club then probably too high.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:22 AM
2

those blog posts you like are written by rollo. I am aware. He articulates those points well and I agree with him. Does not mean everything he says is correct. you cant even stay consistent with yourself and cant figure out why no one takes you seriously here. I have been nothing but consistent. ​ Also why do you keep omitting large portions of what I say? Are they hard to reply to or something?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 07:02 AM
1

In other words you can't explain it because you don't know how? let me line it up for you 1 thing at a time. Please answer the following question. If you were unhappy in your marriage and someone better came along and treated you the way you wanted to be treated would you shift your time, love and attraction towards this person naturally? If your answer is yes then I guess it just wasn't your husbands turn any more. He failed to keep you interested and you found what you were looking for in anot…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 06:43 AM
1

I get that but by doing that you pretty much write off 90% of the women in your view as LTR. If that is your goal then you need to in still those morals yourself. Only if you wan't to have a somewhat decent mother for your children. If you intend to have children.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:18 AM
1

u/SHAKIRISHOT (So you can see my reply). ​ MGTOW is for defeatist men. They apply the information they know in the wrong way. Plates are meaningless. You won't derive happiness from fucking multiple women. This is just hedonism, it feels great short - mid term but long term its all pointless and vapid. How men are Evolutionary Hypocrites and how thats is required for our Evolutionary strategy to work. Last Minute Resistance. Although correct it is dangerous territory and should be treated as suc…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 06:12 AM
1

Without trying to cop out and evade the question. Can you please elaborate how this was controversial to begin with? Can you answer the questions rather than evade them?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 06:00 AM
1

I am not arguing with you because frist, you can’t argue with a delusion You can argue with delusion. Atheists have been doing it for years and are slowly winning the battle. just by keeping you responding you’re proving my assessment to be accurate. Must be, You said it yourself. I think you are projecting your own insecurity onto me. Interestingly enough deep down narcissist feel extremely tiny and completely inadequate inside. I am sure they do. I think I am speaking to one right now describe…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 05:27 AM
1

No need to try. No rule is without exceptions obviously. It is a guideline to remember not to be taken advantage of by your own wishful thinking. I don't need to prove anything. a highly upvoted comment on asktrp (120 iirc). Well, is this not true? If you were unhappy in your marriage and someone better came along and treated you the way you wanted to be treated would you not shift towards this person naturally? How is this even controversial? The point of that comment is literally telling men t…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 04:36 AM
1

Ditto.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:59 AM
1

LOL. the fact you have to add that some is true some isnt, speaks fucking volumes about yourself and red pill. yeah, It means I don't discredit something entirely just because there are some questionable material. Like I don't discredit all doctors because some are questionable. The fact that you think you made a logical or coherent point there speaks volumes. you think anyone here thinks you shouldnt improve yourself? try to avoid strawmans next time you argue with someone. I never made any str…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:47 AM
1

So you can't counter my argument and instead rely on branding someone with a term used to discredit what they say. This is a classic response that people often use when they have nothing of any substance to say. Either you are in denial because you can't formulate a logical response or you are not thinking critically enough to discern any flaws with my argument in the first place. Doubt I have a wife and kids all you want. Just another classic attempt to discredit someone so you don't have to ma…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:36 AM
1

They don't become incels. Incels congregate there and turn it into what you guys hate so much. Minority groups scream the loudest.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:21 AM
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I explained this below and in the post you are replying to. Men are evolutionary hypocrites. I absolutely agree. All love is conditional. Men are just taught the conditions of female love are different from what they actually are. Men are taught that love is what females want love to be to us. This is not reality this is deception at a societal level. I would also argue women are mostly taught what love actually is not what men wants it to be. That is the disconnect.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:10 AM
1

Listen, Girl, I am a man and I have known plenty of women in my life. I have known some awful, shitty, waste-of-life women. But not a single one of them didn't fit the AWALT paradigm, with hypergamy and branch swinging and all that bullshit. The Red Pill system is universally consistent, Which makes a lot of people who can think critically think that it is true. Its's foundational tenets, such as the nature of women, are so demonstrably true it is laughable to anyone on the inside or outside to …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 02:59 AM
0

Great critical thinking. Good effort retort. I have learned a lot from this interaction.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 02:49 AM
1

it isnt information, its ideas and opinions. and the majority of people who find red pill are in pain and/or just got burned. Not me, Quite the opposite. red pill tells them what they want to hear. 100% of women are manipulative, disloyal, narcissistic, solipsistic, hypergamous sluts. so they accept it as the "bitter truth" instead of having the introspection to see that him and that girl were not meant to be together and hell find someone else. red pill is an ideology built on insecurities. Inc…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 02:32 AM
2

lmao shut the fuck up bud. You sound upset? i was a red piller for 7 fucking months. You must be a veteran. i was OBSESSED with that shit. That was your first mistake. dont fucking tell me, or anyone else on here that we dont know the REAL message of red pill. You don't know the message, you never tried to learn it. you sound like a mgtow who says "we dont hate women" but if you go look at what they talk about all they do is hate women. I hate MGTOW's. you can defend red pill all you want, we al…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 02:15 AM
0

Soooo narcissist...... Ya I going with narcissist as indicated by the statement If you met me you would probably think I am quite the opposite. You know nothing about women you’re just making assumptions. However believing yourself smarter than others is in also fact a sign of narcissism as indicated by your statement of having spent my entire life with them and having been married for a good amount of time I would hope I know something. Are you aware of the Dunning Kruger Effect? Because I am, …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 02:03 AM
1

Your perspective doesn't include love, compassion, positive regard for others and space for natural personal growth etc. It does not need to. These things can rarely if ever outweigh our natural and biological imperatives. Love is conditional. Compassion is conditional. Personal growth is the doctrine of RP. Personal growth is hardly natural apart from the growing cycle.Most people have to really put in a lot of effort especially in adulthood and it still can never full trump our natural behavio…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 01:51 AM
1

All that “improvement” is simply based around accepting that women are eeeeeeevil. Not evil. Accepting they are not what we were taught they were. Nothing evil about it. Some incels use that word because they are frustrated. It’s just “it’s all their fault” framed in a different way. Hence, it’s what narcissistic men want to hear. “It’s ok to be terrible because women are sub human monsters.” Women can't be blamed for their evolutionary strategy. You can't hate the cuckoo bird for how it tricks …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 01:40 AM
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Oh please, as if a man wouldn’t drop a woman who got fat, contributed absolutely nothing to the home or family, and wouldn’t put out. The key work there is put out. As long as she provides sex any mediocre man will most likely keep her around just for the sex. It happens all the fucking time when women get sick but is rarely the other way around. Loyalty and unconditional love my ass. This is actually explainable. It actually ties to how women and men seek support and who they seek it from. This…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 01:30 AM
1

You tell her once when you set the ground rules. How else is she supposed to know? Most women do not grow up with strict fathers and come from good homes. If you have to say it again. Thats when the problems begin.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:11 AM
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No. She is only doing it for validation. Meaning she has little to no respect for her boyfriend. There is a clear distinction.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:13 AM
3

Fuck, I need to hear your life story.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:09 AM
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Letting your girl friend at age 19 go clubbing without you. Bad move. Letting her wear that. Bad move. Not being completely direct with her about it. Bad move ​ You should have said. "You are not going out dressed like that if you wan't to be in a relationship with me". if she does not take you seriously. She never will. What you do then is up to you. But the answer is simple. If you want this relationship to last lay down the foundations. ​ I don't know how many men have to make the mistake of …
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:08 AM
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yes because red pill tells certain guys exactly what they want to hear. What are you talking about? Nobody wants to hear it. It is a harsh reality of life. Commonly referred to as a "hard pill to swallow". As stupid as that metaphor is it was a very hard reality to reconcile with. I don't want it to be true but it most certainly is undeniable. if not, they reject it knowing its bullshit. Some people reject Atheism knowing its bullshit. Some people reject Religion knowing its bullshit. I reject l…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 07:42 AM
0

i like how you disqualify him as a random on the internet which is literally what rollo is to you. the red pill forums are 100% anonymous people and rollo is just a random guy with a bunch of ideas. Just because Rollo can articulate points well does not mean I care about what he particularly has to say. It is good information for men that have lost their way. The same reason Jordan Peterson has helped so many young men. The things he is saying are not nuanced or radical, Nobody has articulated t…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 07:31 AM
-2

Idealizing your partner is a narcissistic tendency either way it goes. If I, as an extremely loyal and devoted wife, was incapable of real love, I would have kicked my egotistical, domineering and stupid! husband to the curb a long time ago. No, You might not like him personality wise. But he is the best security and utility you have access to. Women love security and utility. Your in love with what he provides not necessarily him. You might be very partial and really enjoy his company and the r…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 06:44 AM
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I will do whatever I want regardless of what some random on the internet says. Provide me with some counter literature instead of this garbage and I would be happy to read it.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 05:18 AM
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The true female and male nature. How relationships are transactional agreements. A lot of the politics also speaks to me. These 2 links really hit the nail on the head for a lot of men including me. https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/ https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ Understanding how female love is different from male love although a harsh reality is unfortunately the only reality. Equipping men with this knowledge not only leads to better relationships but …
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 04:30 AM
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I have a great family and a very good upbringing. Very lucky in this regard. I have never had an issue with getting women. Prior to my wife I had a decent count for my age. Met my wife at 16 and have 3 children together. The relationship is actually really great and fulfilling. Never been cheated on, Never had any trauma relating to people or relationships. (Apart from some young relatives unfortunately passing away that I was close to). My Mother and Father have a good relationship. Large famil…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 04:08 AM
3

Pump, Dump and Jump.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 05:10 AM
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I think if people actually sat down with an open mind and read the literature they would mostly agree to it. Nothing particularly controversial. They confuse simple language used to convey points based on the literature with overt sexism and wrong think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:15 AM
1

Yeah, not so much. HERE is a link to the actual preferences of women. I am not talking sugar daddies. I am talking about the general female age of attraction. Exactly. They were old and paternalistic, and I want someone who can keep up with me on hikes and who treats me like a partner and a human being, not like a little girl or a pet. See how easy that was? My link above explains exactly what you just said. But you still like older guys. Just in those specific ranges. They were on a dating site…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/19 03:12 AM
1

So... lesbians shouldn’t exist, according to RP theory? Yeah, They don't. Lesbians have manifested homosexuality through gene expression. Also all women are bisexual and a little more fluid in their sexuality just in varying degrees. Seeing as lesbian relationships have the highest levels of domestic violence and child abuse per capita I would also assume they reside in the realm of "less than optimal", Pooling with your family includes pooling with your wife. I pool with my wife because we have…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/19 01:37 AM
1

I can date a man for a better Co-Income or pool with my family. I already pool with my family. Care during illness and support during crisis comes under the spectrum of companionship and a man and family can do both of those things. A women is not required. Children comes under the sex category as it is a natural result. But I can grant you this one. Love and affection both come under companionship. "Love" is conditional and therefore meaningless long term. But I understand the sentiment and the…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 09:56 AM
1

Yeah, What can women provide that men don't already have that does not fit into those 2 categories?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 07:39 AM
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You’ve told us. You view your wife with contempt and think that she is ‘only good for sex (and maybe some companionship).‘ I don't view my wife or women with contempt? If anything the exact opposite and against my better judgement. I just understand why they do what they do and the evolutionary strategy behind the behaviour. I act accordingly. When did I say my wife is only good for sex? I said women offer sex for security. Apart from companionship and sex what other reasons do men have to compe…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 07:02 AM
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Ah well, what am I supposed to day to that shit. I dunno, Take it with a grain of salt? Good job? Fuck me. I wasn't trying to overwhelm you with information or anything. I was just trying to illustrate that there is more than a couple of ways to logically go about things and thats how I came to my conclusions among other things. Not everything is so black and white. Not everyone who opposes your beliefs is an Incel with no moral backbone of structure. ​ Also why would you care about my kids pote…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 02:53 AM
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There are homosexuals even in countries that punish homosexuality with death. And the countries that punishes homosexuality harshly I don't doubt it. But how many? Gene expression manifests in ways we don't yet understand. The laws of a country might have an impact on gene expression but other factors might have much more of an impact. There are a lot more gays raised in California than there are in Myanmar per capita? Those are not the countries where one would like to live either. The middle e…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 02:30 AM
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I have done nothing of the sort. What were you reading? I can get sex from anyone why would I dedicate my entire life from age 16 - 28 to my wife? The fact that you think I use her for sex is quite funny. I am simply saying that is what men are attracted to. They are attracted to the prospects of sex with women. Women are attracted to the prospects of security and utility. When either party loses what they are attracted to the relationship will degrade. I don't know how you can think that this i…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 02:15 AM
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They attack things they don't understand. Classic.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 02:01 AM
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Wow, dude. You're cruising for a divorce, and when it happens, you're going to say that it was her fault and women are all duplicitous, hypergamous, etc. I am yet to see any signs of issues in our relationship. I am also not sure how you know whats going to happen in my relationship. I could say the same thing about pretty much standard and normal relationships and I would be right about 70% of the time. Because thats the divorce rate give or take. I think if the average relationship does not wo…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 01:50 AM
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Richard Dawkins explains homosexuality pretty well. When trying to understand why homosexuality survived natural selection there are certain schools of thought. He himself believes that all people have the genetic potential to be gay but depending on environment the genes may or may not manifest. Essentially homosexuality is more of a case of nurture than nature. If your environment permits gene expression of homosexuality then that gene expression will result in varying degrees of homosexuality…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 09:29 AM
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I mean if I found out my husband of a very long time thought my only valuable contribution to life and our relationship was sex, companionship and a uterus, that's...pretty horrifying. Well I have news for you. If your partner was actually honest with you he would horrify you. But let's be honest. If you husband lost his job and decided he was not going to get another one how long would it take you to leave him? Or would you support him for the rest of your life. Be honest. We all know what the …
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 08:34 AM
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My wife knows I think a lot of things. We have been together a long time. We benefit each other mutually and have a great relationship as far as I am concerned. That does not mean I don't understand male and female nature. I keep as much of this shit out of our relationship as possible. It would only depress her. She has asked me about it many times. I always give the same answer. She knows but rarely brings anything up. We just live happily as a normal couple would. ​ If I sat her down and told…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 07:17 AM
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You are clearly one of those sad, bitter men but I am v happy you're here on this sub I must be, you said so yourself. I am not on this sub to "rehab" just to see the other side. When you start to define a modern relationship, as the vast majority of sane people who aren't into 'gaming' and pathetic huge generalisations do, as lifelong teamwork, you'll find women absolutely need all of these things as well. No they don't. Women simply need to provide sex, companionship and comfort to men and men…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 06:41 AM
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Just for context. I had a long reply typed out and then lost power in my house. Someone hit a power pole down the road knocking out power to my suburb. So essentially without having to type it all out again. If I was ever cheated on I would leave. I think you have me wrong. Any women who would put her hedonistic desires before her own family and children is not acting in her children's best interest in any capacity. I would divorce, take custody and allow supervised visitation as frequently as r…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 04:56 AM
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What security does a female need to provide a male? The only utility she provides that the man can not provide himself is sex and arguably companionship. Other than that everything is supplementary? The person I replied to just pretty much told everyone what Red Pill mostly preaches? They essentially said if you don't have the following your not worthy of dating? steady job = security and utility steady home = Security not a slob = future security not a creep = Attractive have a hobby or two = I…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 04:39 AM
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In other words males need to provide security and utility.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 01:20 AM
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Women don't understand their own mortality as well as men do. This is probably the main reason they find desirable traits in undesirable people. Also women mistake Anti Social behaviour for a desirable trait. Could be confidence, assertiveness or anything similar. Most guys know especially when they have sisters or daughters what type of man they don't want hanging around them. Women don't see this in any significant capacity without experience but even as kids we know better than most grown wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:09 AM
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Porn is degenerate trash. The more you watch the worse your habit gets. Most men fail and feed this habit extensively in their teens and early twenties before understanding the damage it has already done. Your best bet is to quit watching it. After a couple of months the difference is extremely noticeable. Her issue is born out of her own insecurities. Thats pretty much it. Older women collectively demonise older men liking or dating younger women because it diminishes their worth. This is how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 01:22 AM
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It plays into the narrative well. Looks are not what matters in this equation. But they have an affect on the frequency. But attractive men can do this more often than unattractive men simply because they have more opportunity than the unattractive men. If you assume these guys were attractive you would probably be right more times than you were wrong. The same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:25 AM
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Hey, if you are insisiting that love does not exist for you and your wife is just some utilitarian person, then it is up to you. That is the life you chose. Nah, We get on really well. We are a team. She is none the wiser. She thinks it's love. I know its not. As far as she is concerned we have a "loving" relationship. Definitely feels like it. But reality is different form what I feel. It does make it easier for you. If you ended up leaving her for a younger woman someday, you can blame that on…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/19 02:10 PM
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He offers me what I offer him. Love. Im glad you think that way. I hope you genuinely believe it. Makes for a much happier life. Unfortunately in the realm of reality it is not nearly as simple nor is it true. He is not on disability pension. His legs deteriorate, but his hands and brains are normal. He makes money by running small advertisement agency. Good for him, I truly wish him all the best. His personality. A very positive person. He is that someone who is always grateful to be able to wa…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/19 12:42 AM
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Just so you are aware. You did exactly to me what you think I did to you. Is your skin that thin? Hilarious.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/19 12:31 AM
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5 ft 2 inches. Those are 2 measurements. Also I shovel horse shit for a living.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:35 AM
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Simply a lack of education for the most part. Women don't care about the journey. They just want to take advantage of the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:34 AM
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The burden of proof also lies with you. How about some wise quotes from a feminist icon. If civilization had been left in female hands, we would still be living in grass huts. There is no female Mozart because there is no female Jack the Ripper. Leaving sex to the feminists is like letting your dog vacation at the taxidermist. Beauty is our weapon against nature; by it we make objects, giving them limit, symmetry, proportion. Beauty halts and freezes the melting flux of nature. The prostitute is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:22 AM
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We can test current people, not past. That is why Evolutionary Psychology is all just speculative and not really scientific. Because we cannot apply the scientific method. Okay even if that were the case. Current people exhibit this behaviour. So we should continue to act accordingly. However you can believe what the fuck ever you want. In the end we all walk our own path. If you’re getting your current hope/meaning by buying into extremism more power to you. Trust me my opinions on Gender are n…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 02:20 AM
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Nope because in fact all human traits vary from person to person no matter the gender. We still share these traits. The combination of these traits might be different but they are all human traits. Gender specific traits exist and are the most obvious. Let’s take “competitiveness” both men and women have varied levels of this trait. One man could display it at 35% and one women could display it at 90%. But if you aggregate all men and all women you get a very different result. Anecdotes are grea…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 02:07 AM
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The fact that you can seriously said women stay beside their men through difficult times just because of social security reason is just mindblowing. When I figured it out it was hard for me to reconcile as well. So what... Exactly so what? This is why MGTOW was formed. They understand and they act accordingly. You drive to work tomorrow, got into accident. Becoming a cripple. Your wife stays just because she is afraid to be judged. Since you are a useless creature now, the only thing you can do …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 01:46 AM
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Insecurities are a lot like spilt milk. The longer you leave it the worse it smells and the more horrible it becomes to deal with. Instead just clean it up when you spill it and now it's gone. ​ Showing weakness is not a good idea in any situation. If your authentic self is full of insecurities and things that make you unappealing. You are better off tackling each one individually in private. ​ Being vulnerable or weak is extremely unattractive and unappealing to most people. Everyone has their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:56 AM
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I am work with physiologist. Sure you do. Even they agree that evolutionary psychology is mostly a pseudoscience. Sure they do. These theories haven’t been observed “throughout history”, in fact they are all theory. Yes they have. They are repeatable and testable. The hall marks of good science. Fits my narrative??? You and your kind are the ones twisting bullshit that has never been scientifically studied or observed (or could be because no one has a time machine) just to fit yours.... My narra…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 03:39 AM
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sorry 99.9 % is to much a majority to be true. It was more like a metaphor not a literal. it could be 95% or 96% or 97%. But it is the overwhelming vast majority. People may manifest this behaviour at different levels as well. 98% of women might only manifest this behaviour at an average of 60 - 70% Some women exhibiting 20% of this behaviour and some women exerting 90% of this behaviour. But it is anyones guess. Nobody know the exact numbers. Hence AWALT being the default position. You could sa…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 02:54 AM
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Do you like to hear about your partners sexual history in detail? Most men don't and this have been true for the entirety of my life and experiences. This behavioural pattern is not complex. It is very telling. If you don't like to hear about your partners previous sexual encounters then you don't like that they happened in the first place. Men like lower N count women. I would go so far as to say men prefer 0 N count women when looking for LTRs. ​ Could your attitude of not being bothered by yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:46 AM
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if all women are one thing, than so are men. We’re not different species. You can’t say only have a species fits a descriptor. yeah, Agreed. Does not mean men and women are the same as each other? We are very different. For example “Women can’t love like you love” (which is really just saying we don’t t love) is not only applicable to women because in fact we’re all a mix. I am half my father, and your still half your mother. So if women can’t love men can’t either. Only .05% of us has a complet…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 01:58 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:42 AM
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For someone with the reddit name you have you seem to have a lack of Critical Thinking. Like I said below. AMALT and AWALT are both reasonable positions to take. When we say AMALT or AWALT we mean 99.9% of people. There are always exceptions. But we will likely never be or never find one of them.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 01:41 AM
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Great, on top of being a delusional narcissist who seems to be in denial about his hatred towards women because he has a wife and a daughter. I wish i was delusional. Then I could have even more joy in my life. (NEWSFLASH a lot of misogynists have wives and/or daughter(s) just like a lot of racists have black “friends”) I don't doubt it. You’re too full of your self to realize every thing you post is a direct contradiction of what you posted 30 mins before. Can you give me an example of this? Yo…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 01:28 AM
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Aka men that stay with their aging wives/partners, and women who stay after their husbands/partners got sick/got into permanent disability/can't fuck/can't work/can't lead the family. Funny how men stick by their women in times of hardship. Women do so much less frequently. I am sure if a Man got cancer his wife would stand by him through the whole process. Mostly because of the social stigma associated with leaving and women being social creatures relying on societal security. If they were to l…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 01:15 AM
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Nobody wants anything to do with somebody else's kids. The issue is people are too quick to divorce and too quick to marry. Females need to keep their N count low because thats a desirable trait. Males need to keep their utility high because that is also a desirable trait. Age matters but thats something everyone has to deal with. Women more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:03 AM
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Proof? Not an argument. Its a copout. How about you prove they are all "creeps and psychos" as you put it. Proof? Another copout. Of course divorce is incentivised? How are you so surface level you can't see that? Women rely on the security that men provide. If the government, Police force, Modern technology and access to income exists then divorce is incentivised. All these things provide security and utility in place of the mans role. There are hundreds of reason divorce is incentivised. We ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:58 AM
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There are no innocents. We all have biological imperatives. We just manifest them in different ways. Everyone is guilty of that. AWALT challenges the male belief that women can and should love them the way they want to be loved. It says they are incapable of doing so, They can only act like they do. This is why is cripples men. And I mean cripples some men. Cripples them so much they turn to single life forever and create groups like MGTOW just so they can find some purpose in life. ​ AMALT is a…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 08:46 AM
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I wasn't talking about longevity of relationships. I was talking about access to people with high SMV. Also there are many factors that go into the "early marriage issues". Mostly societal. This was never the case and is only a recent phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:40 AM
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Those are called creeps and psychos. They are called "the general population". Then explain the divorce rate for younger couple. Divorce is incentivised. Society has different values now than it did 20 - 40 years ago. The ageing population. Birth rates. Multiculturalism. Hundreds of reasons. So prostitution? That's not a good way to go about relationships. Especially going after people who have no life outside of their lust for others. Men prostitute themselves for women. Women prostitute themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:35 AM
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I know exactly one man who, as you say, prefers really low n-count. People otherwise don't care about their partners' pasts, or else are in open relationships and the such. Are you sure this is just them not trying to sound insecure? Are you sure their "apathy" towards the subject is normal behaviour or just a conditional variant in your social circle? If you asked them do you like the fact that your wife/girlfriend has had lots of sexual partners before you do you think they would say yes? If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:02 AM
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I don't doubt it. How does this relate to anything I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:44 AM
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Yes scapegoat women as the cause of all trouble in the world. We are 10,000 years removed from dragging our knuckles on the ground. Took millions of years of evolution. That is not superseded by the last 100 - 200 years of modern society. Nor by the last 10,000 years of feudal and iron age peasantry. So are all men rapists too since the majority of rapes are committed by men? All men have the potential. The vast majority of Western men obviously don't. But if they did women would have no way to …
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 06:40 AM
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You are in a vey odd situation then. Are you in the gay clique by any chance? (Actually asking not implying anything). I know lots of women and men who are like this also. Does not mean they enjoy the fact that their future or current LTR has been sexually promiscuous. Seems real odd to me. I don't know any men who have said "I like a girl who has had a lot of sex partners".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:08 AM
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I have many female friends. This is all surface level and face value shit. Once you get into a relationship with them you get to understand that they manifest the same behaviour in different ways.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 06:04 AM
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Look, As a "Red Pilled Married Man" I can say the following. MGTOW seems great on the outside but it is defeatist at its core. These guys have seen the light but chosen the wrong path. I am very family orientated and have always wanted children. This is why I had them. I did what I wanted to do and i regret nothing. My point is MGTOW although it works very well for some people is a "defeated" attitude. ​ AWALT is specifically controversial. It does reside in the realm of reality. Women have unde…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 04:18 AM
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Not at all. What men? If you start talking to your current LTR about your sexual exploits prior to him does his face cringe or does he like to hear it? If you enthusiastically told him about all your past sexual experiences in detail would he enjoy it or ask you to stop? If you did this to any other men you have been in LTR with would they do the same? Answer honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:53 AM
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I am a bigot? Who are these men? I have had interactions with hundreds of men. Guy talk throughout my life has been literally all the same. In the "manosphere" of discussion. Nothing but disdain is shown for sexually liberal women. Nobody I have ever met wants to have a LTR with a high N count women. Not a single man I have ever met. And I have spoken to many many men. Most men will have sex with anything that moves. But most men especially those with any sense show complete disinterest in women…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 03:42 AM
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anyone can have any standards they want. If you want a low N count tradcon, that's ok. You don't need to justify it correct Look, I'm a sexually liberated woman who's been married for a decade. lucky you. You found someone willing to settle. The difference between me and the girls you describe? I'm mature, and I don't walk around using coded language to signal how 'woke' I am. So... you are like most women. I have my politics, but they don't mean I refuse to make my husband dinner or make sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:21 AM
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Not really, Women can be desirable at any age depending on what type of man you are talking about. women under the age of 25 seem to have a very high desirability for most men. I have seen plenty of attractive women older than 30 but none I would consider a relationship with. Maybe if I was in my 40s or 50s. The reason so many women demonise men who date women younger than they are is simply because women know this. Women know when their prime was. Women know when it is fading. Why do you think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:41 AM
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Womens lives do centre around men by default. Mens lives centre around women by default. Most people do not break the cycle. ​ Of course a lot of women marry and have children early, So do a lot of men. These women and men get "generally" the "first pick" which is usually the better pool of selection with more desirable traits and mostly in the same age bracket. ​ Age has diminishing returns for both sexes. Just at different levels and for different people. Women become undesirable earlier than …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:34 AM
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Some men are good husbands, but once kids are in the mix they don't deal with that life style very well. I know this from first hand experience. This is just tragic. Some men? Only some? I think the vast majority are decent husbands. They are just ignorant to the whims of their wives and how to deal with women. What men do not deal with that lifestyle very well? What they don't deal with well is having a women who is so reliant on the security he provides for her that when he loses his job for 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:48 AM
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Do what you can to protect your assets. Get a BFA drafted by your lawyer and make her sign it. If she does not want to sign then I have bad news for you. Im sure you will be fine if you do the bare minimum. Look into promissory notes and Trust Caveats. If you owe yourself lots of money they can't touch your assets. Children however are your responsibility and just because you are in debt does not mean you don't have to pay. It just saves you having to fork over your assets to her after the divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:34 AM
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There is nothing wrong with protecting yourself. Self preservation is the name of the game. Smart man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 02:46 AM
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So? Anyone can marry and have children - it doesn't make you an expert on either. I don't know how you could define anyone an expert on relationships. All I know is mine is currently strong and unless I stray from my behaviour it is not going to change. I think I have a fair and decent grasp on the relationship. But I guess people have been wrong before. My argument is that people often use no fault marriage because they don't have enough evidence for the other type of divorce. Not true in the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 01:02 AM
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Yeah I live in Australia. In terms of the signs it was quite obvious. My uncle was working a lot running his business and his wife was very high maintenance. He knew this before he married her but as time went on he burned out and just let her fester while doing his best to look after the children. She was not crazy. Just hyper emotional and needy. This inevitably ended up by her bitching to her friends who then talked her into a divorce and she tried to take him for everything. Luckily although…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:53 AM
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You sound very naive to the complexities of marriage. I am married with kids. I'm not arguing that you should be able to take away childen from their dad. I'm arguing that the father who spawned the child has responcibility of the child regardless of whether or not his marriage stayed together. Yes, This is perfectly fine. If a male and a female consensually have children and then there is a no fault divorce then the child must be looked after by each of the parents and they should contribute th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:33 AM
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Just to chime in. If a women voluntarily divorces a man and refuses to give at least half custody then the man should not be forced to supplement her lifestyle choice with his income through child support. No fault divorce can be complex. But the fact of the matter is if a women chooses to get divorced she by default relinquishes the financial support of her husband. If they have a child the child needs to be looked after. A mother that tries to take full custody relinquishes her access to his m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:37 AM
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They like to sleep over grandmas place every so often. Probably once a week and she takes them to school and we pick them up. We all live 5 minutes from each other. But we do 80 - 90% of the looking after. Don't need daycare. Don't want to pay for it. Don't want to put my kids into such a terrible system. Hence why I am not using the public school system either. Trust me I would rather the money in my pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:16 AM
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Family, And my wife works in between school hours even though I keep telling her to quit. We share the work load. I have flexible work arrangements as part of my employment contract. If i need to leave early I will just work from home or clock a few more hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 12:58 AM
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fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 12:56 AM
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Mine cost me 3 - 4k each every year. Minus private schooling which was my choice. Not very expensive. Child care is not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:07 AM
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Poppy, We have interacted a few times before. I feel like you are quite unhinged. Extensive babbling about any shit. Purposely contrarian. Extreme adversity to anything even remotely controversial. Do you have real mental conditions apart from depression or is this some sort of personality quirk that does not translate to text forums well? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 10:04 AM
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Yeah, It all stems back to women being attracted to security. Unfortunately that leaves us men with the short end of the stick. If you are not willing to fork out for the security they need then you are out of the gene pool. This is why MGTOW exists. Unfortunately. But you can't blame them. ​ Womens need for "equal pay" is driven by political propaganda. They understand that money buys security and they are being told they can't get as much security as men can. This worries them and they react. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 09:18 AM
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Are you saying I don't have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 05:01 AM
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I have kids, Apart from private schooling, Food is cheap and clothes are cheaper. Free time is what you lose. The only people complaining about the cost of kids are the ones buying their kids nikes and snap backs they will grow out of in 6 months. If you have any clue on how to save and spend money you know kids don't have to be expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:06 AM
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I don't care about porn actors. But Facial recognition is very scary. I am glad we live in a world where it has not been fully implemented yet. I fear for my children and their children though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:39 AM
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Never. But she probably already knows. Unless you are good at hiding it. If you are depressed do something about it. Depression stems from lack of meaning. Lack of meaning stems from lack of goals. Lack of goals stems from laziness. Unless you have had extreme trauma in your life your depression is simply laziness manifest. ​ Women don't like depressed guys with mental issues. They will only be supportive up until a point and showing this weakness will completely degrade the relationship. ​ If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 01:31 AM
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dont take their careers seriously. I have never taken my career seriously. I despise the idea that making more money for someone else than I am being paid is a goal I should strive for. That does not mean I don't make good money. They seem like they gave up on life Because the male role has been replaced by government and society. Who needs men anymore? here’s no incentive to marry a man that will add more tasks to my schedule and burden my life even more. Here is the problem of the western worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:48 AM
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Single moms are not attractive prospects. You are essentially entering into an agreement to foster with your own time and money another mans child in exchange for sex. Only desperate men do this. ​ lonely/virgin men are also not attractive. There must be a reason they have not had sex. Either they are socially inept or physically unattractive and can't provide any meaningful security to a partner. There are reasons they are a virgin and as soon as they fix those reasons they will escape virginit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:58 AM
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I am doing both at the moment. Self employment is much better but still takes a significant amount of time. And if I were to suddenly switch entirely to self employment I would be giving up a very nice and stable income. I think a slow transition is better. But still soul crushing. ​ I honestly don't know how people do it. Who in their right mind actually want's a career. Imagine setting the bar so low. If you goal is to earn more money for companies than they pay you then something is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 12:50 AM
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Saying both the male and the female are 100% to blame for pregnancy is not a controversial statement. ​ Is this what you fall back on when you can't defend your initial stupid comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:50 AM
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It is both the fault of the male and the female. With contraceptives so cheap (Condoms, Morning after pill) you can actively avoid getting pregnant. If a women gets pregnant it is solely her fault. Unless in cases of rape. If a man gets a women pregnant it is solely his fault. Unless in cases of rape. The actions each party choose were 100% their own and they are both individually to blame. The baby that was created is now the responsibility of both parties. 50/50. ​ Women do not knock themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:27 AM
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That is all circumstantial. She should not have been with that type of man in the first place. Like I said ignorance or cognitive dissonance is no excuse just like in the legal system. Leaving an abusive father falls under the definition of a good mother. Leaving an abusive mother falls under the definition of a good father. ​ However abusive is hard to define. Giving your kids a little smack on the ass when they miss behave is not abusive. Parents arguing about money and yelling at each other i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:05 AM
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Cleaning the house is actually more about keeping it clean than letting it get dirty. Shoes stay in one area so the house doesn't get dirt on the floor. Takes 5 minutes to sweep, And maybe 10 to vacuum the carpets. Dust it once a week. Kids are not allowed to touch the walls so they rarely need to be cleaned. Mop the floor every 2 or 3 days depending. Takes about 20 minutes with a steam mop. Dishes are done during cooking and after every meal. This takes no longer than 5 minutes max. 5 plates 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 02:45 AM
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To want to be a single mother is to neglect the responsibility of motherhood. To celebrate that is to actively abuse children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 12:30 AM
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She hates work as much as I do, probably more. I took the burden upon myself to make her and my children happier. Rather than childcare. She would swap if I asked her and we have had conversations about it. We are pretty good team players and communication is top notch. Nothing goes unsaid. I would never swap though. She would be sad to go back to work. Where I am probably less so. Our current arrangement is the best combination. I already said though that ill send her back to work when the kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:35 PM
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She hates working as much as I do. I refuse to let her go back just so she can be happy with my kids. I have taken that burden upon myself. If I told her I wanted to be a stay at home dad and for her to work she wouldn't hesitate as she tells me she feels lucky. But I know she would hate it. So I never do it. Who in their right fucking mind would ever want to go back to work???? ​ She has a high earning potential as do I. I just know that the sacrifices I make are better for our relationship. Lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:32 PM
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Imagine thinking walking around a back alley street at night after doing shots at a club is a good idea and that anyone who tells you that you shouldn't is a rape apologist. Women are both unaware of their own mortality but also shun you for your good intentions and trying to make them aware of it. ​ It is like swimming in the ocean with raw whale meat strapped to your chest instead of staying on the boat. Predators only attack the vulnerable. If you reduce your vulnerability you won't be attack…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:25 PM
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Yeah, Women are not as aware of their own mortality as men are. They do some very dangerous things thinking that they are safe. The police are not likely to ever respond in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:13 PM
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I don't recommend this. But it happens to often not to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:11 PM
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Yeah. We went down hill. Luckily I don't have to live by societies standards. I can live by my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:10 PM
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I dunno, My marriage at the moment is exactly that. As soon as the kids come in the wife stays home and looks after them. The only time I would ever even consider sending them to childcare is if I was on the bones of my ass and we needed more money. Otherwise a full time parent is the best thing for them. I gave up my wifes large earning potential just to be a better parent as did she. It is not a fantasy version. I have lived both versions. Having a stay at home wife is much preferable than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:08 PM
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What job is not soul crushing? Please outline a list so I can go spend 9 hours a day there away from my family instead. ​ Anyone who has a job no matter how good (And mine is pretty good) knows how horrible the grind is. I am almost at a point where I can live off my cash flow investments alone and be comfortable. However giving up 6 figures does not seem wise. So please outline a Job I would enjoy spending 71 percent of my weekly daylight hours at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:00 PM
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Haha like I said above. Extra points if you stop doing all these things and only do the bare minimum required for him to not divorce you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:49 PM
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If a man and a women entering into a voluntary transaction is prostitution then this pork roast I just bought owes me some a good dicking. ​ I am married happily to a woman with very high earning potential both in the past and now, with 3 children in what most if not all people would call a loving relationship. We are both pretty happy. My definition of marriage is not really prostitution but I was replying to the idiot above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 10:01 AM
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Becoming a single mother through a series of bad decisions mostly for your own self interest makes you a bad mother. Becoming a single mother through tragedy or due to something that is unavoidable or out of your control does not make you a bad mother. Putting yourself before your children makes you a bad mother. ​ If you plan to be a single mother, Prefer to be a single mother, Or intend to be a single mother for any reason that benefits you then you are a bad mother. A good mother can only be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 09:37 AM
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I have 3. Being a stay at home dad would be a dream come true for me. Unfortunately my wife was offered that role by default based on her gender and ability to produce milk. I maintain it is easier than spending every day at a soul crushing job even if the money is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 08:54 AM
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The first scenario I described was literally modern day marriage. The second scenario I described was how most single mothers are made. ​ If your definition of marriage is prostitution then that is pretty funny. Yes women are prostitutes for security. Men are prostitutes for sex. What they pay each other is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 08:37 AM
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I feel you. How do we fix the issue? Without going full incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 07:03 AM
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Honestly genes and looks are important. Especially for first impressions. But I feel like attitude is the deal breaker for most. I had mates who had a faces like a smashed crab. They still get women every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 06:39 AM
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Step 1. Find a man willing to provide for you in exchange for sex. (aka most men) Step 2. Get him to pay for your education, hobbies and interests. Step 3. If you like him enough raise his children and be a stay at home mom. Step 4. When he has finished working for 40 - 50 years use his retirement savings and the wealth he has accumulated to live worry free for the remainder of your life. ​ All of this in exchange for sex, chores, a home cooked meal and looking after children. You get 80 years o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:34 AM
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There is a Chad in all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:23 AM
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When I was 14 - 16 I hung out with mostly older kids. This sort of forced me to mature faster. Wasn't a bad crowed just horny teenagers. Being 6ft1 at age 15 helped as well. I think each relationship lasted around 4 or 5 months except 1 which was 8ish. I would meet a girl bring her home to hang out. We would have sex for a few months whenever possible. Rinse and repeat. They were just short relationships. Looking back on it I never really liked any of them. They were mostly my age. 2 were just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 03:43 AM
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They did. The most prolific males had access to the most women. However even the strongest male could not protect all his women and children by himself. So the kept most of them and distributed them to other men in exchange for their loyalty/protection. Tribes are formed this way for survival. You need other males in your tribe for protection. They need access to females to remain loyal or satiated to prevent them revolting against you. The stronger men still had access to more women than the we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 03:18 AM
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It is because men at a biological level wan't to protect women. So for good men it is very difficult to reconcile the fact that women on a biological level want anything outside of that scope of protection. For some men it is natural to understand the nature of both sexes without any external input. I was 90% of the way there at 16 with the way I treated and acted around women. Some men need not only guidance and the initial learning required but also constant reminders. Women do not have to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:45 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:28 AM
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Been with the same girl since I was 16. Married with 3 kids now. Prior to 16 I think it was 5 not counting casual hookups that did not result in intercourse. Wife has a total of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:27 AM
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He is trying compensate for all his insecurities in this 1 post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:08 AM
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Manlet is used to shame men who try to compensate for their height. men who wear shoe lifts and the like are seen a weak willed. Classic small man syndrome. Quick to anger, Quick to be defensive, Quick to be violent, Quick to try to display superiority, Quick to boast, Spends 2 hours a day in the gym and compensates with an expensive car. That is what a manlet is to me. Not someone who is just short.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:07 AM
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Penis size: most women don't care about penis size and most don't want big penises because they hurt. It's men and their porn obsession that makes them insecure. This is wrong. They certainly do. Women laugh when it is small. Women gasp when it is big. I am sure porn has an impact but to say women are not attracted to penis size is deluded. Women can be afraid of a large penis because it might hurt but that does not mean they are not attracted to it. Men know this, they would rather you be afrai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:03 AM
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Married with 3 kids (Hopefully more on the way). Been with the same girl since I was 16, I did alright before I met her as well. We are both Pretty happy about it. All the information I outlined above was applied to this relationship mostly before I knew anything about RP. I was fortunate enough that at a young age I could recognize behavior I didn't like and fixed it. Shit tests and the like. Not many men have this opportunity. I think I mostly learnt it from my mother and father who have a gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 01:09 AM
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I think your fundamental understanding of how relationships work is more ideological than factual. Women and men both elect to be in relationships with each other. Men are attracted mostly to the prospect of sex. Women are attracted mostly to the prospect of security. ​ This by default becomes a transactional relationship. This is why most men find younger women attractive and most women find older men attractive. Older men can provide more or better security and younger women can provide more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:50 AM
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haha I get it. no homo tho amirite.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 09:23 AM
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Wow, we have the opposite friend groups. We insult and fling shit at each other more than anything else. Sometimes I honestly think the only thing keeping us from ghosting each other is how good we are at insulting each other. Every second sentence is a dig or an insult or some banter. I have never received a compliment from any of them and if I did i would make fun of them for doing so. Maybe it is an Australian thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 09:18 AM
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Unfortunately the people of reddit in their infinite wisdom seem to enjoy censoring things they disagree with regardless of whether they are true or not. The sub wasn't even that controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:53 AM
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I am happily married with kids. So I don't really care. But just because I don't care does not mean it isn't true and that I shouldn't understand and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:17 PM
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Don't know how you can even draw that comparison. ​ Also you glossed over the part that said: Having access to women is very different from getting regularly laid. If I am in the bottom 10% of men I can regularly get laid. I just have to look for the bottom 1 - 10% of women. This does not disprove the 80/20 rule. It is about access and attraction not how much sex you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:46 PM
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80/20 rule was pretty much proven by tinder metrics. Having access to women is very different from getting regularly laid. I know blokes who are in the bottom 20 percent of men who regularly get laid they just have very low standards. ​ Also there is something to be said for the equal distribution of women in the public sphere. Just because society has slightly changed does not mean our nature has.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:26 PM
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Do you have a link? r/TheRedPill And what have you gleaned about my view of women exactly? That it is lacking. As per your post history on this sub which unfortunately is my only way to gauge your position. That isn't an expression of an opinion at all. True. This is Purple Pill Debate right? I mean, it's not Purple Pill Echo Chamber, is it? Or do you think that's wrong? Engaging and asking questions is one thing. Probing someone by asking frivolous questions is hardly engaging nor is it making …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:16 AM
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I think you need to visit TRP and do some reading. Your view on women and your contrarian attitude towards any argument made about womens natural social behaviour is not going to do anyone any favours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 01:58 AM
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Men compete for womens attention. Women compete for mens attention. ​ How we men and women compete is very different. You could argue womens methods are far more frivolous and you would be correct however it is part of their biology and it is necessary. The 80/20 rule is natural eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 01:50 AM
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Now that most of us agree that: All of the conflict just comes from being uncomfortable with the idea that we aren't all equal. Let's bring race and culture into the equation. Thats when the real questions start. This isn't only a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 01:34 AM
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The estrogens are strong in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 07:10 AM
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Women lie about what they want until they find something they never knew they could have. They might be completely and totally happy and satisfied. Until they figure out they can do better. She is just satisfied right now. The same can apply for men, However our objective is not to discard and transition but to hold onto more. So there is a key difference. There are exceptions to every rule though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:33 AM
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Yeah, The money makers. let's be real though. The only way to actually make money is to own a business. otherwise 99% of people are stuck at less than 200k a year. And 90 percent of those 99% are stuck at below 100k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:11 AM
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I have been Involuntarily celibate for the last 36 hours. If this goes on any longer I am going to start a war. Desperate times call for desperate measures. War brides are the only option.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:11 AM
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Agreed. it truly is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:40 AM
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This is pretty easy. What a women sees as High value can vary dramatically. Hippy girls might think Ultra spiritual Chad is a high value male. Most women see status, power, wealth, stature and other things as high value hence the overlap. All these things are utilities to women. Women are attracted the the utility a man provides. Hence females and hypergamy. ​ In men it is different. We do not find utility attractive. Therefore there is no hypergamy. ​ An argument you could make for a males attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 07:06 AM
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Whatever you say love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:28 PM
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Well its not just breakouts. I haven't had a breakout since I was 17. And my Wife has not had any issues since she adapted to a high fat diet. She had horrible back acne as a teen and in her early twenties. As soon as she switched it was pretty much gone. Just a bit of scarring. But that has reduced about 90 percent over time. Copied from google because I am lazy: Symptoms of an impaired moisture barrier include: Redness Rosacea Flakiness Peeling Dryness (from lack of oil) Dehydration (from lack…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:25 PM
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"essential" oils. Nothing essential about essential oils. I am well aware that chemicals work and produce affects we find attractive. That does not mean they are good for us. People like to bleach their skin? Does that make it good for them? even though they like the results? ​ Yeah I tend to err on the side of nature. However I never appealed to it. Also anyone can bring up the appeal to nature fallacy. But if we are going on about fallacies then there is also the Fallacy Fallacy. I mean is it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:08 PM
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Well, I don't wash my hair with conventional shampoo. The shit I use can be drank from a cup if I wanted to just might taste a bit funny. Clothing is a little different. However you can eat cotton. Deodorant and antiperspirant would have been a better example for you. Unfortunately although unhealthy I use a lot of it. If I didn't have to spray antiperspirant and deodorant I would be able to eat everything that I lather onto my body. ​ My whole thing was skincare products do nothing in compariso…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:55 PM
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I did not say it caused dry skin. I said if it is destroyed it is pretty much akin to having dry skin. Flaky, Itchy and the like. I put in in quotes to single it out not because it does not exist. If you want to protect the moisture barrier eat a high fat diet. was my point. Considering I am a IT/Software Dev guy working in Agricultural data/software I would certainly hope I use science or deduction in my work. Hence I am all to familiar with active ingredients and the effect they can have on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:49 PM
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Well, Not that you are inclined to believe me. But destroying the "moisture barrier" is pretty much akin to having extremely dry skin. Something I have never had. because I have a high fat diet. I scrub my face and body every day. I have great skin. Maybe its just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:24 PM
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Do you have some source or study that’s proved that all skincare ingredients do nothing? Oh god, I never said they do nothing. I said they do nothing compared to high fat diets. The results are real. However I will admit. Most science has a real issue with dietary fat. Even if you google high fat diet skin care studies. You will see lots of negative results. But don't let that fool you. Look a little deeper. You want Retinol? Eat raw beef liver. As for the others. Better digested than rubbed ont…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:19 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:08 PM
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You realise though that scrubbing your skin with a brush does more to exfoliate than any chemical. Also if you want alpha hydroxy acid just put greek yoghurt or lemon on your face. Lemons are very very cheap. No need to buy a product. I don't really care that you know the "Active Ingredients". I assume most people would. However that does not detract from the fact that diet has way more of an impact than rubbing lemon or alpha hydroxy acid on your face. Diet is preventative care for your skin. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:07 PM
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Having a skincare routine is buying into it blindly. First of all the need for a routine lies in the marketing. Second of all having a routine implies you need multiple skincare related products. ​ Most acne or skin conditions can be fixed with diet. Preventing aging can be done with low carb high fat diets. Raw lactose as a carb is probably the only thing that does not age you as much as other carbs. Hence milk being very low GI. The only skincare routine you need is a scrub with a scrubbing br…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:59 PM
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I live in Australia so I am well aware of the need for sunscreen for most people. But I don't use it. I prefer to cover up. However, Spending 3 - 6 hours at the beach is probably not the healthiest thing for your skin regardless of whether you wear sunscreen. Apart from obvious Vitamin D benefits. ​ The difference here is Sunscreen is preferable to alternative to skin cancer. Skincare products are not a preferable alternative to anything. ​ A lot of people here seem butt hurt about me thinking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:45 PM
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Yeah, If i could drink 4 litres a day like I used to as a kid I would be happy. Unfortunately the amount of calories in milk keeps me at 1 - 2 litres a day instead. I don't exercise enough to drink that much milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:38 PM
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Whatever you say. My wife, Friends and I have a very different experience with "SkinCare" products. Mostly they are targeted at impressionable consumers. But whatever works for you man. Placebo or otherwise. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 11:59 AM
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Bodybuilders - low fat diets. Are you for real? As someone with years of intimate experience within the industry I would simply say most body builders are High Carb, High Protein and Low fat. Prepping for a show/Cutting phases are different. Also I smell another keto advocate. I don't care about keto. I just advocate eating a variety of animal products. Including Milk witch is definitely not Keto.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 11:57 AM
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I am well aware. Vegans like to point out unnatural living is healthier than natural living all the time. We can have a fallacy war. I mean, Just saying something is a fallacy and therefore hold no weight falls under the Fallacy Fallacy. Vegans tend to forget the appeal to authority fallacy when quoting health organisations which is quite funny. But oh well. When I say chemicals I mean: Phenoxyethanol Benzyl alcohol Formaldehyde Petrolatum Oxybenzone But I see your point. Maybe I should have spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 10:19 AM
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If you eat correctly you will never need skin care. Unless your rubbing butter or animal fat/oil on your skin you are wasting your money and time. A high fat low carb diet is better for your skin than anything else you could possible do. Eat high collagen and elastin foods as well. Rubbing chemicals on your body is not going to give you the long term results you desire. If anything it will give you a short term placebo affect. Ever wonder why body builders and vegans have such bad skin? Low fat …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 08:11 AM
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This read like a Pakistani romance novel during a mid life crisis. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 09:17 AM
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As you say, Women are attracted to men for their status, utility and looks. Men are attracted to women for their looks, youthfulness and fertility. What people don't understand is that is the initial attraction. That is what binds you together before you build a relationship. ​ If you fit each others criteria for initial attraction a relationship can be built and nurtured. It takes years of hard work and personal sacrifice to maintain a relationship but 1 stupid decision can end it. When people …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:41 AM
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Only if I was rich and didn't have to work. I am not supporting anyone. Nor do I like fake people with agendas. This type of women does not exist and therefore the answer is no. However as a hypothetical if this women existed and her motives were pure and she was not using you. Then yes. But only if I didn't have to work either. Otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:25 AM
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First thing i expect people to mention is marriage and vows. But people still do it with gf/bf. Nobody really cares, It is just stupid to have multiple marriages saying the same shit when it is meaningless. Instead of death do us part change it to until I change my mind. Then I have no issues. Second is kids. Kids get messed up even if unhappy parents stay together. Ands kids can come out divorced household perfectly normal. If you are to selfish to suffer in silence for the benefit of your chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:07 AM
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Looks matter. You should be asking men this question. Most women will never give you a straight answer. Even your own mother. Ever seen a girl visibly froth at a celebrity or movie star? Not only is it looks that matter but also status. You can have one without the other but both are preferable. Women care about looks more than they let on. Some are honest. ​ People that are ugly know looks matter. They experience it. People that are average don't understand that looks matter because they just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 01:21 AM
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Mostly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:57 AM
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Yeah, My wife might disagree. Kids as well. ​ Why do single people always try to give advice about relationships. (Not that I am calling you single) Just something I noticed. Whenever I make a point someone assumes I am single or wont find a partner that way. I have been with the same girl since I was 16. We are pretty happy. ​ I think compatible is subjective, Me and my wife are super compatible. You would not be compatible with me. Hence our serious disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:08 PM
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Well... you might go to a free art exhibition? yeah nah. Or maybe hop on a bus or train and be at the beach for sunset or sunrise I live on the coast of Australia. You see it once you see it a million times. Or maybe there's a river near you that has a weir that they open when the flow is heavy If I wanted to see water flow I would turn on the shower. Or you could be a member of a board game club? I play chess online? Does that count? Or you could go to the local show of the Dahlia society and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 08:55 AM
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Im an extravert. But I maybe go out a couple of times a year. The rest is just family birthdays and family BBQ's. What do people do when they go out? I can't think of anything more boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 07:15 AM
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A couple times a week? Jesus christ. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 07:14 AM
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Unfortunately yes. Hookup culture in its current state is terrible for both men and women. Women set the standards. You have do adhere to their standards/demands in order to get anywhere with them. Their standards could be certain traits you possess, certain mannerisms you display, your current profession and so on. If you do not meet these standards you have to lie, manipulate or trick yourself into believing you do to get access to these women. This is where your mentioned undesirable traits i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:05 AM
1

I think my main point is that RPW is about manipulating your spouse. TRP Used to be more about self improvement and helping struggling betas. Granted not many people that frequent TRP are actually alpha, Like you said its a natural state and something quite difficult to learn. All I am saying is, TRP was never about manipulating your wife, More about how to get laid. Dread game and pre selection are still used on women you have only just met. Sure you can use it on your wife but this was not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:52 AM
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I am not saying either are okay. I understand the need and want to use these tactics. My point was simply RPW was founded on quite literally the objective of changing, trapping and manipulating men. TRP was not, It was first about self improvement, Understanding and learning about masculinity. I understand both genders are perfectly capable of manipulation. But RPW was founded on it. TRP just outlined it for educational purposes and then started using it. Regardless you could argue the result is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:10 AM
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Men and women can both manipulate and both self improve. However in the case of RPW a lot of acting, purposeful submission and manipulation is involved and encouraged. This is not true for TRP. I don't think it is hypocritical to draw this distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:21 AM
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I hate to break it to you but almost every woman does this I am well aware. But RPW goes public with it. Seeing it put into words is quite disgusting. Ironically you're failing to see that trp can be just as selfish and self serving as RPW. Like I said, There used to be a difference. RP was about exposing womens true nature and educating men to become better. Not for women but for themselves. It slowly became sex and score orientated. Men definitely use this knowledge to their advantage in the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:11 AM
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It is all about manipulation. The men on RPM are all about making yourself attractive to women. Improving yourself and gaining the rewards associated with it. RPW is all about entrapping a man by lying to him, pretending to be submissive and naive and then manipulating him over time to procure what she wants in life. It is evil. Leave it to women to turn something about self improvement and leading a happy life into something so self serving. That being said, A lot of RP men seem to think RP is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:46 AM
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Makes me hate blue a lot more. TRP sub is just circle jerk at this point. This sub is just constant information about how deluded the blue pill is. It has cemented me as more Red Pill than TRP sub ever did. Red Pill Women is even more eye opening. The level of manipulation, lies and how fake these people act just makes me cringe. I feel sorry for their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:02 AM
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Anecdotes of one do not discount decades of medical research. Medial research hasn't done much good. The government still thinks obesity is a disease. It is a cultural disease. Out natural diet is animal products. If you go through my post history about debating vegans you will see massive posts on the medical research. I can assure you diet and health are my number 1 concern in life. (after my family). Oh yeah. I've heard about that fad. There's not much science to back it up. Good luck keeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:53 AM
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I dunno about that. My wife dropped kilos real quick when we went carnivore. Between 1 - 2 kilos a week. Generally we have only 1 meal a day. Even if we share a large pork roast between us, But the morning we will weigh less even with the pork roast still in us. You can honestly lose 6 - 8 kilos a month just by eating 1 high fat meal a day. After 3 days you won't even be hungry. She at as much as me and she lost a higher percentage of her body weight than I did. We are both down to healthy weigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:14 AM
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Incorrect. Highly opinionated, dogmatic, dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:16 AM
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We are getting a little deep here. I can see your reasoning. For me I firstly would state there is no purpose in life. So our only real "purpose" is to continue our existence as long as possible. I dunno man. I sincerely believe what I said above. I can't derive happiness from the things mentioned above. I thought I was happy before I had these things. But then a wave of relief or a new sort of emotion comes along. Im not sure if I can describe it properly. It is not pleasure and it does not fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:56 AM
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I honestly believe some people do not want this. You are correct. Some people on this earth simply can't be happy. Classic tropes include rural people dreaming of the city and city people dreaming of a rural life. It has actually been shown women (being the main consumers) gravitate towards cities for material goods as well as utility and security. Where men as a whole do not prefer these things and only gravitate towards cities because of women. But the overwhelming majority if not brainwashed …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:33 AM
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I consider alpha men to be confident, Take what they want and do what they please regardless of any TRP, TBP, TPP influence. If a man wants a relationship with a women and he gets it. That is alpha. If a man want's more money and he acquires it. That is alpha. If a man lives his life achieving what he wants and doing what he wants to do then he is Alpha. Not everything is about sex. When I was a teenager my n-count was actually quite high for my age. Upon realising sex was not all it was cracked…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:24 AM
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classic. If you think men don't want virgins you are deluding yourself. You are to wrapped up in n-count to realise that men with high n-counts are not picky. They choose the easiest option. Some men have higher level options due to their SMV. High n-count men do not seek high n-count women they just congregate in the same places and it is easy to find each other. Jesus christ imagine actually being a high n-count women. I could not imagine anything more unattractive not just because of her sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:13 AM
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It is ironic that Western Men allowed women to have the rights they fought for and now Western Women are choosing who will take them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:07 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately our preferences must have a deeper and "undesirable" reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:06 AM
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it is plain to see. It can't even be denied. You are correct. Most women will attack other women for not being as trashy and degenerate as they are. If they bring all women down to their level or try to make those women outcasts it becomes the norm. Unfortunately it has worked on the West to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 01:46 AM
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Alpha is exactly as you say. Refusal to submit or compromise. A resistance to being dominated or deterred or defeated in the pursuit of a goal. What is the compromise? That is up to the Alpha. What is the goal? That is up to the Alpha. ​ Beta is exactly as you say. Willingness to compromise for social agreement and general life terms less than one desires. What is the compromise? That is up to the beta. What are the terms? That is up to the beta. ​ Alphas will not settle for less than they think…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:31 AM
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Such is life. The equal distribution of women "In Public" is only a recent phenomenon. But it has always been the classic 80/20 rule and still is behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:22 AM
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I did not miss the point. He did it for years. Easier said than done. He failed but got the opportunity through power and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:26 AM
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No thanks, The US just pulled out. I am much more of an advocate for what western culture used to be. Not what it currently is. But it is still greater than all other cultures. I just wish we could go back to when men were men and women were women. The West has lost its way and needs to come back on track.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:24 AM
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The point is to become well adjusted. So you can live and be a part of a happy and healthy relationship. Not to give up by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:22 AM
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Probably because they are to busy being corporate drones hell bent on living for hedonistic tendencies and warped by the media an entertainment industries to follow the pack that believes the same. It is all about self gratification for most people. Your biological mission in life is to breed and take care of your children. If this does not make you happy then it is due to the modern issues in life. Don't know how I can explain it any better. If everyone had a nice plot of land, green grass, hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:21 AM
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It's actually fucking hilarious watching them froth at the mouth. They thought they could get away with it. In reality most decent men wont even touch them when it comes to a relationship. They have to settle for betas who don't know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:06 AM
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Incorrect, Highly opinionated, dogmatic, dead wrong. Incorrect. Highly opinionated, dogmatic, dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:04 AM
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Common copout. As long as I make my relationship last until my children are old enough to take care of themselves I will consider myself a successful father. Those were different times when there were social and legal.mechanisms designed to keep people together. Those are gone. All that's left is human fickleness. You are absolutely correct. This does not mean men can't make this happen through competence. ​ Relationships are easy if you are well adjusted. Most people are not well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:03 AM
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Yes, Power and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:59 AM
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Hardly, More projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:57 AM
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I suppose you could tell yourself that. If it makes you feel better. I dont want any dicks in potential partners. I dont care if they are pin dicks or submarines. This is a common copout by women and beta men who project their own insecurities about themselves or their current partners. Depending on each individuals SMV some men may not have access to inexperienced women. Some men might love experienced women. Some men just pick the first girl that gives them attention. But most want virgins. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:57 AM
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It has nothing to do with insecurity. What possible reason could I have to date a women who has been around the block a few times. It makes no sense to me. What I find attractive in a partner is everything but what "sluts" bring to the table. Maybe we have vastly different versions of what Alpha men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:50 AM
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If you are time poor, Then you do not have a lot of free time in between your responsibilities. An example is working fathers are time poor compared to stay at home mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 12:47 AM
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Sounds like I am hearing either projection or stupidity. Any man worth his salt can keep a relationship from falling apart. The responsibility should not solely the mans but unfortunately due to the nature of women it is. If you divorce unless due to infidelity or some other egregious issue (which is avoidable if you know what you are doing) you are essentially resigning your good parenting card. Preemptively planning to coparent and live separately is just garbage. Children should not bear the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:37 AM
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It is not advisable for your children's well being and their mental health. As long as both parents are present and live under the same roof. I said nothing about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:07 AM
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You can convincingly train your virgin wife to be your personalized slut To some extent this is true. You can convince your wife to be happy and loyal, while you conquer other women for your harem ("Women Love Getting Cucked — It Assures Them They Have Found An Alpha Male Who Will Pursue The Formation of Harems. Women Would Rather Be A Bottom Bitch Concubine of an Alpha than a First Wife of a Beta"). She'll probably become more attracted to you through the process. Easier said than done. But som…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 08:50 AM
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In 1944 over 85% of Americans owned refrigerators. So I think this is entirely incorrect. What luxuries? These devices allow us to have significantly more free time yes, But we pretty much had everything today that we did in the 1950s, Minus maybe a few items here or there. Why with all these luxuries are we all so time poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 01:08 AM
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And in Australia 1 in 14 men father children that are not theirs? Divorce rates are not indicative of which gender cheats more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:23 AM
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I want more money, But I would rather my children have a mother in the home at all times. Men want to adhere to traditional values. They want the natural roles played out. Women also want this they are just brainwashed by society. Many high profile speakers have made the point that the more freedom women have the more likely they are to follow their genders stereotypes, nursing, being a mother, teaching, sewing and so on. This is especially seen in Scandinavian countries. But we all know they wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:38 AM
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yeah, I honestly cant believe this. If you grow up with a person, Learn and experience life together I honestly think you are better off relationship wise. If you find yourself wanting to stray it is better to fix the issues than to do so. But if this does not work or you are not cut out to lead the relationship in that way then I guess you didn't pick the right person to grow up with. I still stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:05 AM
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Most good men will engage in degeneracy when it is presented. But they would always prefer some sort of wholesome alternative if one was presented. Porn quite literally changes the human brain in terrible ways and the literature on this is clear. Casual sex also has a part to play in this as well. As people we should all strive to find a partner, raise children and work together to protect our family and community for those who wish to do us harm. This is the essence of healthy, happy and sustai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 05:14 AM
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This is so fucking dangerous that it's disgusting that people are getting downright censored. This is the main reason we are seeing an upward trend in the Right Wing front. When it becomes taboo to express an opinion is when we have more numbers join our side. This can be seen in Europe and Scandinavia at the moment with the constant censorship and media blackouts. As well as the Trump effect in America. Brazil, Philippines, Hungary, Poland are also seeing the light. Italy may be the next countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:17 AM
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Apologies, What is even the point in answering the question asked if you can't be truthful. Once again, The opinions of our side are not publicly allowed. I understand this is a Reddit problem not a sub specific problem. It is just infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 01:37 PM
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Jesus fucking christ that makes it even worse. I thought it was just a girl projecting. Which is at least understandable. Then he must be projecting. Either he is Homosexual. Or he is trying to justify why he has no choice but to go for low value females. Either his current or past partners have been "sluts" he is a borderline cuck. Either way I guess we will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:47 AM
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Even though it is true you are not supposed to say it friend. They will just call you an Incel for bringing it up. You have to dance around the topic a little bit or face being ostracised and cast out. Men especially don't like to hear this truth. Makes them think their current relationship can end at any moment when another high value male with better utility comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 07:12 AM
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Economic stress makes having children a luxury rather than a necessity. Having many children can be attributed to poverty in this day and age so it is natural for women to avoid having less utility in their lives. Women and men have been brainwashed to believe that working 9 - 5 for life to make more money for a company than they pay you is normal and good. Hence all these "career driven" women and men do not have children. Women who do not have to work generally have more children. At least in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:37 AM
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Not going to even try to understand what you just said. But I reread your post just to make sure I got the full picture. And looks like I did. You sound like high maintenance regardless. Just know that to any man worth his salt. You are probably a very low value female when it comes to your sexual history. The post pretty much just tells me you are trying to justify being a slut or trashy. Thats fine, But know that your conclusion is incorrect. You will have to settle for a man who either does n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:36 AM
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I honestly don't know if you are purposely being stupid or just condescending. My kids are all above the age 6. Are you trying to imply that your "age" or "experience" is somehow relevant to this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:00 AM
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I have a wife and kids. Not the youngest of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 03:38 AM
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I have a wife and kids. I am speaking as if I was single and how I was when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 12:51 AM
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I don't doubt it. Common knowledge in the red pill community, Shes not yours it is just your turn. (Red Pill betas anyway). However can you please link me the study, I feel like some reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 01:12 PM
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Why automatically feel you have to comply with other's complaints? I don't What happens if you don't comply? Doesn't matter Does complaining have a purpose? Usually looking for a solution. Or attention. What's the better alternative to complaining? Being intelligent enough to find your own solutions to problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 09:28 AM
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This is not really a Red Pill topic. Sure Red pill philosophy has a lot to say about it but not directly. for instance Islam is great for men. You pretty much get a free pass with women because they have little to no rights. But you don't see white supremacists like me advocating for it. In fact quite the opposite. Unlike Western women. Western men actually care about the safety of their females. Where Western women seem completely oblivious to the dangers associated with their political alignme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:29 AM
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I don't know whether you make me cringe or just depress me. What the fuck did you even just say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:15 AM
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If I am looking for a women, I am looking for someone young, fertile, beautiful and a virgin. These unicorns don't exist for most men. They are also out of most mens league. This is what I am specifically attracted to. This is not because I am afraid of certain women (Which people try to tell me) I am just not attracted to older women who have had multitudes of other men before me. Every time you have sex with a man your Sexual Marketplace Value drops for me. This is not because I am petty, or I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:03 AM
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This is classic. Women prefer high value men. When a women no longer considers her man high value she will be inclined to stray away from him and move onto another. Women like to be safe so they will string man along through this process to make sure when they finally make the jump they are safe but also have someone to fall back on. This is an absolute truth. The only thing that varies is what a particular women finds valuable. With men it is different. We just want many women. Our love does no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:02 AM
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Where I live the highest paying job around is TIG Welding. I can pay 1500 bucks and get paid $80 an hour down the road. I still think business is the better way to go. I don't want to spend my life making someone else money. Time is my most precious resource. Spending it in an office for the sake of money seems beta to me. If your hell bent on money, Why cap your earnings at 100 - 300k a year by working for someone else? Start a business. Potentially uncapped earnings.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 08:43 AM
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Goth girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:52 AM
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If it is a box it is a very insignificant one and one that is often skipped if the bigger boxes are ticked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:16 AM
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Only beta men have to wine and dine women. When a women meets a male that ticks all her boxes she does not even require any extra effort. In fact womens attraction relies solely on how effortlessly a man can tick all of her boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:11 AM
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No, Unfortunately women do not love the same as men. All love is conditional, However Mens love require significantly less conditions. Loyalty is the main one. Womens conditions are more material and fickle in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:09 AM
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When my misses was on the pill from high school (7 years in total) I nutted in her at least 3 - 9 times a week. Never once got pregnant. As soon as she got off the pill to have kids we waited 6 months at my demand. (she was so maternal it was a scary experience) before trying to have kids because lets be honest, The pill is one of the unhealthiest things you can take hormonally and we did not want our child to have any issues, She was pregnant as soon as we started. Getting pregnant is really ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:20 AM
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Masculinity demands it in the form of societal standards like "Real Men don't cry" or "I don't have feelings cause feelings are gay". I disagree. Everyone knows they have feelings. This is not the problem. It is how we act on those feelings. It depends what men show emotion for. No person would consider a man crying because of the death of his child less of a man. If you are crying because of first world problems then yes you should be viewed as less of a man. The societal idea that men shouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 09:36 AM
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Those are straw man arguments, I never made any of the points you debunked? "there is no such thing as a bad movie. There are only movies" Google "Subjective". There are only movies. Whether they are good or bad is highly subjective. What's natural about the idea that pink is unmasculine? There's nothing biological about this and it has been the other way around a hundred years ago. Straw man. I never made this point. What's natural about the idea that men should wear jeans, but not a dress? A d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:10 AM
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There is no such thing as toxic masculinity, Only masculinity There is no such thing as toxic femininity, Just femininity. It is all subjective from that point onwards. What you consider toxic others may consider vital to their masculinity or femininity. To think something naturally occurring through evolution and natural selection for thousands and thousands of years could be termed with such stupid and ill placed phrases is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:00 AM
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I think we are in agreement mostly, Except for the need to make women feel good. I would not invest the effort into a women i don't intend on being with for an extended amount of time. You were correct I meant strictly through penetration it can be difficult to get a girl to orgasm. Some find it easier than others, But if I am gonna run a marathon it is going to be on my wife not on a random casual hookup i don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 08:03 AM
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As funny as it is. I also believe he is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 07:47 AM
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Unsolicited dick picks next to your lake side mansion seems to do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 07:46 AM
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Ill be honest here. When it comes to my wife, her sexual needs come first to me but my sexual needs come first to her. We just like to play it that way. But if I was banging random club girls why would I care about their needs. They mean very little to me and if I am not going to see them again why would I care? Women are not innocent in this either by the way. I would say over 50% of women are pretty much starfish in bed. If you want to orgasm you better put in some effort. Just getting dicked …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:17 AM
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I would choose physical pain over severe mental pain at all times. Anyone who has experience severe mental trauma, Like the loss of a brother at a young age (me) or a having a partner you have been with since primary school into your late twenties cheat on you (Close friend of mine) would tell you that physical pain has nothing on mental pain. The pure inability to fix something and the frustration of losing what you had with no way to get it back is pain i don't wish on anyone. Physical wounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 01:53 AM
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I never strictly said that men love unconditionally. I implied the way men wan't to be loved is unconditionally and women can't provide that. Of course men have conditions Loyalty is probably the main one. Your definition of love and my definition of love are very different. Every relationship has dread naturally and without even knowing it. Whether you purposely play dread games to increase your relationships potential is up to you. It may backfire, it may work well in your favour. You would on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 01:26 AM
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Objective logical truths for you by definition means they are subjective. This is exactly what I was implying. They are subjective Subjective, But I would argue they are objective truths only seen as subjective by people using emotion to guide their thought. Hence the disconnect. Whether that emotion is fear, sadness, angst or joy I think those are heavily charged political points. I would argue they are objectively true from a 0 emotion standpoint. I would argue when emotion is brought into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 12:43 AM
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I would agree with you. Essentially, Men have less to offer women in exchange for sex. I would also make the point about work conditions and how people are more time poor. But I think this is more of an effect rather than a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:33 AM
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Hence why I stated they were Objective Logical Truths for me. yet subjective to others. I cannot for the life of me grasp how someone could possibly disagree with those 2 sentiments. But alas lots of people do. I attribute that to emotional thinking. Others may not. I still stand by everything I said. We will have to agree to disagree my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:23 AM
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The reason is extremely obvious. Women are transcending the need for men due to the state or government replacing mens roles. We have police, Welfare, healthcare, Public housing, alimony, child support, Technology like Security systems and copious other things replacing the male in homes. This was all previously handled by a man in the home and women acquired it by providing sex. Women do not need give men sex anymore. All of their needs are taken care of. Women have now determined that the male…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:05 AM
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Unfortunately when it comes to politics mostly everything is subjective. I believe in objective truths that some would consider subjective. An example of objective logical truths for me: Unhindered and complete freedom of speech is required to fight tyranny and to secure freedom from oppression Unhindered and complete freedom to bear arms is required to uphold freedom of speech against tyranny. Although these seem like complete logical and rational positions to take. Some would argue against the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:01 AM
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Nowadays you would be correct, Men can not compete with the role government and the state play in womens lives. go back 500 years ago to 100 - 200 thousand years ago and it is very different. Women required men to survive. men were the only thing that could protect them form predators and other men from different tribes. Men only got sex and children from women along with menial chores like berry picking, gathering water, child minding and tending to the camp. All the while men were off hunting …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 01:47 AM
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That just is not your definition of love. But Love is different for everyone. How they want to be loved and how they love does not exclusively fit 1 definition. Love can be possession, Love can be rejection, love can be selfish and selfless. I think our definitions are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:03 AM
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Okay, I will challenge that point. Let us look at the voting patterns of women and men. Here is just one example of the differences between male and female voting. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/gender-gap-near-historic-highs/ Given left wing politics is more attuned to the emotional side of voters than right wing politics. (Healthcare, Welfare, Open borders, Relaxed immigration, Gun control and all the feel good stuff). And given how women in "General" use more emotions or feelings than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:12 AM
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What part of An upset or angry man will make different decisions than his calmer usual self. Implied that they only make emotional decisions? People who are more in control of their emotions are less prone to emotional decisions. People who are less in control of their are more prone to emotional decisions. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 03:19 AM
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People dont actively seek to possess things they hate. Of course wanting to possess something requires a liking or love for it. Humans can use possession in more nefarious ways but in general men and women only want to possess things that they like or enjoy. In some cases people can be possessive of something in reaction to someone else wanting it. The classic childs toy comes to mind. They might not play with it but if another kids grabs it they suddenly want it. When we are possessive with mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:42 AM
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As I said. I won't pretend to know anything about your specific situation I did not say he was older. Younger women however do always prefer older men. If you look a the relationship age distribution its evident. There is actually a lot to be said about everything you just said. If anything it cements my point about dread and utility even more so. I understand not everything is a cookie cutter as our basic primal urges. But what can be said is our basic primal urges influence everything we do. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:23 AM
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It does nothing of the sort. Men do all these things to be loved by women the way they love women. But women simply can't love men the way they want to be loved. Of course men and women have preferences for what they naturally find attractive. This does not mean they can't love a single women. ​ This is seen in monkeys. Dominant males will always care more thoroughly for their main female over their other pool of females. This does not mean they are not attracted to them. There is something to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:09 AM
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If you really want to fix men and women in the west, You need to remove the government or the "state". The state has replaced almost all male roles in society leave a lot of men disheartened and confused. Welfare, subsidised child care and gender quotas are just some of the functions used to replace men. Either that or install a real patriarchy. Not the fictitious one we currently have. But a real one. Restricting the female vote and removing their influence in politics would be step one. Almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:01 AM
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It is also full of a lot of things men need to retain confidence from their women. Strength, Physique, Money, Social dominance, Sexual Market value, Making women happy, Emotional security, Physical presence, Logical grounding and many more. I think you take it the wrong way. TRP is a bigger burden on men than it ever will be on women. Look on r/RedPillWomen. Plenty of older women there doing fine. The whole "captain" thing makes me cringe but the underlying principal is correct. Understanding me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:40 AM
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I am sure there are people who show emotions and still make logical decisions. However if you ever I think in general showing emotions leads to emotional decision making. An upset or angry man will make different decisions than his calmer usual self. An upset or angry women will make different decisions than her calmer usual self. I do not really believe logic alone stems through RP theory, Nor do i care about either side. Im married with kids so the RP singles game doesn't affect me nor do i co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:31 AM
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First of all lets clarify that there are exceptions to every rule. They are rare but they are still exceptions. That being said. I can almost diagnose this as a classic case of "Dread". You fell into this trap. This is talked about all the time in TRP circles. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7crqfy/what_is_dread/ Above is decent explanation in simple terms. Men do this unconsciously as well as consciously. I won't pretend to know anything about your specific situation but heres what…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:21 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 12:57 AM
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I have a wife and kids, I am in a romantic relationship. So yes I am very much aware. This has only been a valuable part of mens life since the very recent equal distribution of women in public life. When we are talking about humans in their primal state. Women offer nothing to men but sex and children. Men hold all the responsibility, Have to provide the safety, Need to make sure their women and children are cared for provide the food and essentially do all the dangerous. In a primal situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 12:55 AM
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Someone needs to brush up on their evolutionary psychology. We will have to agree to disagree. You are not well read on TRP or even TBP literature if you are saying this. ​ If anything you are just parroting low effort posts on TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 08:37 AM
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Incorrect. That is far too shallow of an explanation. Although there is "some" truth to it. Women do not love unconditionally. Their love is opportunistic. They attracted to utility. Men have nothing to gain but sex and children from women. Women have everything to gain from men. Women use men as a means for survival. Only recently has the government in western countries been able to replace the role of men so effectively. The only reason women are self sufficient today is due to good men they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 08:00 AM
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We already do encourage women to carry tasers, Mace and in some cases knives. That is the current narrative. However if this was the norm, Men that are still willing to do harm would only become more resourceful. They themselves would find ways to circumvent any risk. They already do this with date rape drugs, knocking women out and even in extreme cases hiding the body. This is all done to reduce the risk of being caught. ​ Armed women will deter predators. But predators adapt. They already hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 06:43 AM
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I completely disagree. A spine implies you have control of your emotions, They do not impact your decisions or your actions in life. I am a very friendly person to all people. But emotionally sensitive? no way. I am in complete control of my emotions. That being said i also recognise I have emotions and I try to understand them the best way that I can so i can deal with them the correct way. I never let anger, frustration, sadness or even happiness get the better of my judgement. Those of the bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 06:14 AM
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I can agree with that mate. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 06:07 AM
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Risk management it is not as simple as this blanket approach. ​ Would you let your daughter walk around Pakistan wearing a summer dress? Would you let your daughter walk around in Ottawa, Canada wearing a summer dress? Which one is more dangerous? My point is different areas, With different people react differently. What you wear in some places have a massive impact on your likelihood of being raped or sexually assaulted and some areas have very little impact. Regardless what you wear has an imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 04:49 AM
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100% not trolling. I promise you. I am immune to stress and work very well and calmly under pressure. I just dont feel stress or pressure because I just dont care. I have the right insurances and safety nets in place to know no matter what happens my family is safe and happy. I had a stable family growing up, Decent genetics, I make good money, have a great wife and good kids, Am generally happy but everyone could be happier. All of these things are what I call success. At least to me. As I am v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 04:31 AM
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You are missing the point. He obviously does not tick the boxes for you and your losing attraction for him. You may manifest that as him being to domineering for you but if he laid down the ground work to begin with you would not be in this situation. All people feel anger when spouses leave. Especially when doing so in bad faith. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 03:46 AM
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Not trying to be condescending or anything negative. I did a lot of work as well. Studied like everyone else. But I still feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 03:39 AM
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TRP- Evolutionary biology dictates men are attracted to multiple women and women are attracted to high value men. Women can't love men the way men want to be loved. ​ TBP - Evolutionary biology and the strategies used by human males to attract females for the last 100 000 years are wrong. Men and women can love each other platonically. ​ TRP is hard to swallow. TBP is societies default setting. Pick your poison and regret it either way. The red pill will ruin your happiness but will allow you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 03:22 AM
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I have a wife and kids so I am pretty sure I am fine around women. Things my daughter will not be doing is going to unsafe areas, being out at night by herself, wearing provocative clothing, associating with questionable people and she will have a form of self defence on her at all times. Just saying clothing does not have any effect on your chances of being raped does not make it true. You are parroting left wing feminist talking points that have been debunked. If I Jump in the ocean I have a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 02:55 AM
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Just me then? I feel like most of my sexual success is due to me being tall. I also feel like a lot of my professional success came with being likeable by other women and men in my line of work. I attribute it to being tall and modestly attractive. People like to play on how hard it was to be where they are. I have quite the opposite experience. Like everyone I hate the day to day grind, but I feel a lot of my success is a direct result of my physical traits. I am sure I am not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 02:41 AM
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6 ft 5" guy here, As I am sure you are all aware. Since childhood being mostly attractive, athletic and very tall has handed me a lot more than most prior to my wife. This was all without much effort, All i had to do was show up and say the right things at least a quarter of the time. I see this as almost a disadvantage. Shorter or uglier men have to really refine their skills with women and I really think this gives them a life advantage. They end up a little smarter, have a little more wit and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 01:03 AM
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What I am talking about is ways to decrease your chances of being harassed, sexually assaulted or raped. This can include wearing less provocative clothing, arming yourself with a weapon, avoiding places you know are dangerous, limiting your time outside at night by yourself, being around a male you trust or in a group. All these things will repel predators from seeing you as an easy target. And if you think a predator who goes out looking for targets is not going to be more likely to pick you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:52 AM
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Yeah i guess. As long as you are a strong or aggressive male you can pull. But as women age and you are still out rallying against racism, misogyny and income inequality she is probably going to get sick of it. From what I have observed and understand the majority of women find themselves very left of centre in their politics when young and impressionable, However it seems that the men with Right of centre beliefs and moral structures tend to do better with women than there left of centre opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:42 AM
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Men are physical sharks more so than women. Women are mental sharks more so than men. Both are sharks in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:27 AM
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You have to be stupid to not understand what I said. You will always have a chance to be attacked, raped or sexually assaulted. It is a very low chance in western countries but there is still a chance. The point was if you want to make sure you are safe you need to reduce your chances by not dressing in a way that will provoke predators as well as being mindful of where you are and what you are doing. Be safe not stupid. This applies to men as well. Men are the primary victims of assault. We hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:26 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 09:21 AM
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If you are ugly, women find your gaze or advances creepy. If you are hot, women find your gaze or advances attractive. This is for initial points of contact only. This is biology and theres a reason for it. If a women finds out the ugly guy has other high value qualities (money, utility, confidence) then her initial reaction simmers down. Ugly men need to show off their other assets before engaging with women so their initial reactions to their sexual advances are better received. If you want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 09:01 AM
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Men use women for sex, Women use men for everything else. I think we earned the privilege to use them for sex. I never did this and still don't. (moral reasons) but my above point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:53 AM
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Women like to be set straight by man. It shows confidence and tells them you can handle yourself. This is a trait they value higher than if you were to just mindlessly agree with them. Also stop being a progressive, You will never do well with women if you think in terms of feelings rather than logic and reality. This does not mean be a conservative either. Just don't be a progressive. That is a one way ticket to beta orbiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:47 AM
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This is so stupid. Another parroted talking point spoken by people who have not put any thought into the topic at all. Simple answer is: Of course men are capable of controlling their sexual urges. Western civilisation was built on us men controlling our sexual urges as well as us controlling womens sexual urges. ​ Just remember the only thing keeping bad men from raping or sexually assaulting you is their fear of good men trying to stop them. If all men just suddenly decided act on their urges …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:38 AM
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Can you not see how this is dehumanising if not infantilising? You are thinking in modern day terms where in the western world modern day women are relatively safe and can go through life relatively harm free. Also you would only say this if you did not fully understand the male and female roles in the development of societies. The fact is throughout history men and women have worked together in exchange for each others strengths. Men want sex and to protect something, Women want safety for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:16 AM
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What part of same crime did you not understand? And tell me exactly how the math works with this -- because black men commit more crime relative to their real numbers in the population, that justifies a judge giving a black man a longer sentence than a white man for the same crime? You excuse bias in the criminal justice system the punishes people based on their race and not the actual crime they committed? Looks like this was lost on you. I am well aware of the "Same Crime" myth. It is a myth f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:02 AM
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Wow, You are so deluded and misinformed. Take a history class. I am well verse in history, Oppression? more like tribalism. Men fighting to the death to protect women and children. In recent history there was no oppression. Women gave up rights in order to be supported and protected from people who wish to do them harm. Not to mention trading freedoms, rights and sex for overall security. This is anthropology 101. Shouldn’t be the case at all. It also shouldn’t be the case the blacks get longer …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 03:11 AM
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It's just odd to me to think about a man's attraction "eroding" because he is monogamous and not for other reasons. There is a scientific term for it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect I will try and explain it simply to help you grasp the reasoning and biology behind it. you have to understand 2 points of the human evolutionary strategy. This is anthropology 101. Men find multiple partners attractive. Women find high value males attractive. Multiple is defined by many, High value is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:20 AM
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I second this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:00 AM
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My wife also goes out with her friends for lunch and occasionally shopping. I have asked if she takes that long ordering when she is with them and she does, She says the girls sit their talking for half an hour not knowing what to order then they finally decide. She has sends me photos of decisions she wants me to make. "What should I order from the menu it all looks so good" "What type of dress do you want me to get." "What do you want for dinner" This is every day. She never chooses. I have as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 01:46 AM
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I have had this reply to. Someone usually insinuates that she is just doing it to make me feel good. aka (im the stupid male falling for this obvious ploy). Quite the contrary. I would have noticed, A lot of women get their men to open pickle jars and do heavy lifting but my wife is perfectly capable of that on her own. As far as I can tell she could not care less how I feel about the situation it is all about her. Now I am 6ft 5" and bigger than most men so she could easily use that to her adva…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 01:05 AM
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yes. I believe women in general just want to be guided. The hard part is getting them to think you are the best person to guide them. Apparently 90 percent of men have trouble with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 09:01 AM
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Women consume to much anti male and pro female media. They get a false sense of self importance. Not to mention women being put on a societal pedestal since birth. Most men don't have this simply because we deal with more of the grunge in life. We do this so that women can be on that pedestal. This brings me back to year 10 camp. All the boys had to build a raft and get the girls to the other side. The winning groups didn't have to clean the dishes. We literally did all the work and the girls sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:56 AM
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Children are developing, Women develop faster than men for reproductive reasons. This is why all the 8th grade girls date the 10th grade boys and the 9th grade girls date the 11th grade boys. Testosterone does not truly kick in until the boys are a little older and this is where dominance is seen. However some kids are early bloomers and lat bloomers so you get a weird mix. I knew a bloke aged 13 with a full beard. Mine did not fully grow out until I was 15. So I was 2 years later than this guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:50 AM
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Very true, I limited it to 1 example but it is true with almost all the decisions I make for her. She wants me to tell her what to eat, What to wear, How to act, What to do for entertainment and even what her next little hobby should be. She loves knowing i have all the answers so she does not have to think about anything. If we go shopping (rarely) I pick what dresses, shoes, clothing she buys and she even enjoys when I say she can't do or have things. I think for us it transferred from my domi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:33 AM
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Abortion should only be considered in cases of rape, incest and safety of the mother. Everything else is murder for convenience and rewards bad decisions with a solutions and no meaningful repercussions. I am not religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:01 AM
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I would argue that western culture is somewhat the betterment and amalgamation of the best parts of many cultures. And that being content, Joyful, satisfied and happy with life is the ultimate goal. At least for me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:12 AM
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When referring to all it is a generalisation. A women can have any number of those traits you listed or non at all. Also being an INTJ significantly makes you more of an exception to the rule. That all women are fine with one-way monogamy favouring a man if he has high SMV. I know a few women who are open to and enjoy one way monogamy, That high self-esteem women react the same as low self-esteem women, and women of all social classes react the same. I know for a fact that regardless of self est…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 02:52 AM
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Unfortunately women will never love you like you want to be loved. This is the hardest thing to realise when understanding female psychology. Their love for you is conditional. Once you truly understand the meaning of this you will understand that this is all a game. Unfortunately for you some people are better at the game than other. To answer your question "Is love really worth the trouble?". The answer is yes. TRP is more like guide lines than rules. Everything they tell you to do increases y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 02:15 AM
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You have got it all backwards, It is the chauvinists and misogynists that have the most success with women. You are effectively trying to teach men how not to get laid. If you are talking strictly about the work place, Men are best taught not to shit where they eat. Even if you succeed in teaching men not to say or do certain things in the work place, they will form their own groups and do it anyway in secret, All you are doing is showing them women are not safe to speak freely around and dividi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 02:04 AM
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I speak in general terms, There are always rare exceptions to the rule. The simple answer from a red pill perspective to your question is weak men who get even more mellow over time can't keep their women in line. Women more so than men are fickle about their lives, They need grounding, security, safety, entertainment, excitement, emotional regulation, relaxation, sexual satisfaction and more. When a man spends 40 - 60 hours a week at work how can he have the time to provide all these things tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 01:30 AM
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If you are not "confident" in your ability or what you trade for money then no one will buy it. Money is not hard to make if you get your head out of the 9 - 5 and sacrifice a few weekends. Money is not the ultimate goal, Happiness is. At this moment I have financial freedom for at least the next 10 - 15 years. The amount of money/assets I have does not dictate my level of success. It is how happy i can make my wife and kids while instilling into them good moral structure. And to me that is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:14 AM
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If it takes you effort to maintain your femininity or masculinity it just means you have not been doing it long enough. Males who are not confident, unwavering, strong or don't have deeply held convictions will not get anywhere in life. These masculine traits are key indicators of success. ​ Look up "agreeableness and success" in google. Thousands of examples of feminine traits not being indicators of success. Mostly because success is dominated by masculinity. Not that I agree with what most pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:12 AM
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Essentially you are arguing from a position of black and white effort. We look at things with a more goal orientated vision. For example, If you want to be alone, eating junk food and living off welfare your entire life and your content with this then your goals are easy to achieve and do not require much effort or much masculinity. if you want to start a business, Sleep with multiple women and dominate your social surroundings then your goals align with masculinity. If your goal isn't in align …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:03 AM
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Being feminine as a female is simply more attractive. You are more likeable, Men can get on with you better. Being Masculine as a male is simply more attractive, You are more likeable, Women can get on with you better. ​ This is why people tell you to act masculine or feminine. Simply to make social situations easier for you and them. If we played our predictable roles in society well, The navigation and difficulty of engaging conversation would be easier for both sexes and people would get more…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 06:17 AM
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