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| 1 | Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men?It seems like a person doesn't really have the choice to avoid promiscuity if he cannot find compatible women who consider him husband material... for example an attractive man without impressive financial prospects or stability. There's a catch-22 but it's a trick question- women want to know many, many, many women want your bone, wanted your bone, have had the wanting of your bone, have boned you and left 4+ stars, or heard tales of your boning or echoes etc... it is a matter of genetic uncons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people.Though, the clearest theory as to why these guys obsess over these people is that the guys are toxic and dysfunctional themselves, but arent aware. Yeah, people can lack self-awareness, and replay dysfunctional scripts they adapted as a youngster to deal with obstacles. I just realized I am doing this since I find myself seeking certain women who are terrible for me... I think it relates to early childhood issues: I couldn't self-individuate emotionally as a child, like normal , either because o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:17 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?So then it isn't about STD exposure, past risky or self-damaging behavior then, or gross factor? I suppose non-sexual dating of a prostitute is probably a common icebreaker. ...Because she wouldn't be able to quit supporting herself without alternative plans in place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 01:12 AM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?$20 bet you also would never date a man who "would never date a woman who was an escort." Classic double standard of partnered women wanting to post thirst pics on social media but considering their partners out of line for liking other women's pics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:09 AM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?I think you are making fair points, which I will still disagree with, but I retract former accusations of unreasonable nature. I think you seem personally reasonable, and wish you well. To be clear I thought your previous replies were capricious and glib, but perhaps I imputed some malign spirit. This is antagonizing and agitated text. Maybe so, though protagonism and antagonism are matters of perspective, such that criticism accusing of antagonism is itself perhaps similarly subjective. Therefo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:04 AM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Yes, dates are romantic / sexual context Yes, paying for "dates" is sex worker lingo Used YOUR DEFINITION of: lack of enthusiastic consent: when women would not have slept with men who didn't spend money You have made error in logic, perhaps: I am dating for love, but recognize I cannot pay women or be generous, because too many women will date a man for experiences, sex, attention, boredom, inspiring competition in desired men, intrasexual social competition, etc So I try to spend as little as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:19 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?People are individuals, and you are Veruca Salt, a 'bad egg.' Can't answer a single question, bad faith, likely cluster B personality disorder traits. Nothing so "antagonizing and angry" as enthusiastic consent? Wtf? As my stated opposition to sex work exploitation? I see you fully endorse sex work and are defensive over other people living their life without paying women money for sex? Why do you care if men refuse to pay women for romantic company? I think you should value yourself, not sell y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:09 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Ha, you use men to their death, it is less ghastly than sex work, but men are crushed to early grave every moment of every day, men are success objects and used for their time, money, labor, sex and other resources. Dating a man and allowing him to spend money... that was not love, but rather covert sex work, using a success worker man, not loving him. So the better metaphor is men getting ick about covert sex workers, that is, non-traditional women who accept men spending money on them. That mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersMen bond and have loyalty, and women usually start wanting less sex... Also men your own age will always appreciate your references. Young people should try to be virtuous and seek excellent and virtuous companions to date and eventually marry and have kids. There are definitely great people out there, and the best way to encounter them is to work on being great ourselves Just put on some sunscreen and stay healthy, learn to be pleasant aside from look or sound or smell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:14 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?That's awesome, there are a lot of varieties to choose from in God's green garden. I'm curious if you think you would have been fulfilled if you had found the monogamous long term partner you sought? Or if the variety you had not yet known would have eventually led to discontentment? I would like to form a family but need years to prepare, so I relate to feeling an inability to attract a compatible long term partner. It seems common nowadays for many to have trouble finding a suitable long term … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:05 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Usually men pay for most expenses, earn more, are more educated, have higher resources... Such women are not giving enthusiastic consent? Usually the women would not be having sex if they weren’t getting paid. I suspect there is a wide range of sex work and in fact it is considered quite equitably dignified in virtually all non-USA developed countries. I would imagine glamour of 'high class hookers' often, but not always, can cover up some wounds and scars like addictions, mental illness etc esp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 09:31 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Hello Yak, I have a question for you that may be evocative or irritating or gross... ... ... Okay: How would you feel about men who think the same way about women who have engaged in promiscuous, casual hookups, beyond once or twice out if curiousity. The commodification you mention most notably has connotation, and denotation, of ethical violation, not present in the "reverse" situation. The "ick" factor for men remains, a non-ethics based ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:47 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?I think women would be willing to date men who keep up a health / appearance regimen, and can afford to be clientele of high-end escorts, eg paying for hotels, meals, booze etc. It seems futile to me for men to not seek women who want to date them, unless extremely busy or always moving from place to place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Why People React Less Positively to Research Favoring Men... because they're f****** c**** | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 06:40 PM |
| – | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectiveThat's why we wouldn't tell you bad things about women. Men in their early 20s are simply not nearly as sought after as women in their early 20s or men in their late 20s and early 30s. It is wise not to date weirdo misanthropes who regularly denounce wide swaths of people. For example, in your generation, commentary about how women are discriminated against by patriarchy despite having better outcomes in probably all areas men are capable of being considered. Young women report commotting more d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Formula of successfully attracting females at a high %Yeah but... it's way hard to be so much better than all the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 11:28 AM |
| 0 | The negative impact of red pill ideas on women?People speak different dialects, you want me to translate your words so I understand, formulate an answer, then retranslate my answer back to your way, so you expect me to do three times the work. How about you speak more precisely? I accept your deficiencies, you can accept others'. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What, according to you, can a man do, so he can become the kind of stereotypical bad boy that women lust after ?I was told I have an "edge" and always resented this comment as discouraging, like the mark of Cain. Thanks for reframing it I guess. I suppose it was meant as disparagement, but hey, I'm a bad kid now! I mean a bad boy. Well a bad Man, but not really bad, a decent man, not a bad guy. I'm a good man, a bad boy... * * * | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 08:05 AM |
| – | Q4W: When/How to approachYou say they are damned if they do, damned if they don't, can also be having one's cake and eating it. It seems more like a biological adaptation to allow women more control in reproductive info signalling, just because humans have conspicuously ambiguous fertility, though I concede this inductive argument does feel ape-like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:52 AM |
| -4 | The negative impact of red pill ideas on women?I've got an idea so crazy it just might work: Premise one: you accept that on other side of the looking glass, in the maniverse, are men who are like you trying to grasp the perspective of a gender they are not. Premise two: for whatever phenomenological metaphysics at play... a lot of people seem to go wildly black & white as if there is some cognitive bias, such that you genuinely believe a moderate view is realistic in contrast to what you see as radical ideology. That is, you see much negati… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/24 10:28 PM |
| 10 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreWomen who want to be approached should learn how to communicate receptivity to approach, through: eye contact, open body language, and light & friendly conversation. Presumably women need to target this at appropriate times, places and people. It really isn't that hard- a woman can convey in platonic chit chat that she is open to conversation, which is step one. It is possible for the woman to signal to the man, and if necessary, initiate contact, and thereby eliminate his initial question of re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreI haven't tried Bumble- don't the women message men there? Surely then the women there are pursuing and courting men, asking out men on dates they have planned and cover? What's the problem? Or do women instead only ask men to ask them out, basically kicking men in the shins and acting coy? And what men do these women want to approach them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:48 AM |
| 9 | Straight men face stigma for being feminine. But feminine straight men are still mocked in progressive places though.Can you clarify? What is a feminine man with masculine personality. I'm not the brightest. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/09/24 02:38 PM |
| 7 | Straight men face stigma for being feminine. But feminine straight men are still mocked in progressive places though.Sure women like masculine men, generally, and the hordes of low testosterone proletarians is by design. There are too many men, not enough wars and disease or slavery, so the men are to be figuratively castrated to domesticate and make passive. Like in One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, or Get Out. But cooking isn't feminine, the top chefs have always been men. Also food is part of health and anyone who cannot cook is likely neglecting themself and will have lower quality and quantity of life. Esp… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Researching a Youtube Documentary on ManosphereThere is already a documentary called 'the red pill,' I haven't seen it but it was a person like you who set out to make the same documentary. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/09/24 12:07 PM |
| -1 | Update: My Cousin was an Andrew Tate FanSo you are over six feet, have wealthy parents who gave you a great childhood, you are not disabled, not ugly, and are attending a school indefinitely to be a lawyer or other high power career. And you have a girlfriend and some friends in this time of no accountability in your life. Your parents, how many square feet is the house in the nice neighborhood you will inherit? That every woman who sees your braces-straight teeth and hypernutritious statute, your having all your problems solved befor… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/24 08:32 PM |
| -4 | My Cousin (14) is an Andrew Tate fan, how do I show him the truth?Easy: What he is learning about being masculine and muscular and strong and productive and popular won't work with women or with life. So show him how you succeed with women and are on the path to being a millionaire soon through courtesy, poesy, pickleball, veganism etc | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/24 09:42 PM |
| 3 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.How would you feel driving such a nice vehicle that you know people stop and stare, and wish they had what you do? Probably all kinds of ways. I know I'd rather go to a restaurant with many satisfied customers, verified to be alive afterwards. We also see toddlers want the toys that others play with. Women are very trendy, they follow fads. Especially young women. Women who think they may lose a desired man can be very eager to please, exacerbating this super-halo effect of popularity, and makin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:04 PM |
| 2 | I think there's a simple way to get people to understand why men shouldn't risk their lives for strangers.Yes, reframing any issue to focus on how it relates to women is persuasive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 03:51 PM |
| – | Question for the Red Pill Community (Fresh and Fit or Tate Version) regarding perceived inconsistent demonstrated values and stated values.It's more like I don't want a dog with a history of biting people. It probably isn't easy to be left so people want to minimize the chance of falling for and investing in a partner unlikely to reciprocate. I suppose a woman can give some time and love, a man can give resources and love. At least for me I would want someone who values intimacy and sex in an exclusive way. If I was with a woman who sees sex with a stranger like eating sushi, then she could think nothing of breaking a heart. I supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?Haha okay. If you have a really long line at the grocery, do you just bang the people ahead of you and behind you? Like on the train do you just drop trou and sit on people's laps, if you see a pregnant lady and there are no seats available, do you just unzip and offer a firm handhold? Do you ever get stuck in traffic and look over at the double-decker tour bus of Singaporean grandmas from Macau, then the next thing you know you're taking the "Train to Kathmandu?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 09:55 AM |
| 6 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?How many months would you need to wait before you could KNOW you cannot transmit HIV and Herpes to me? About 6 months after your last new partner. So... never. You literally never know if you have HIV or are currently actively highly infectious via viral shedding. That's cool, my sexual health is important to me, but others are free to set their risk tolerance according to their values. See how I don't shame you for your preferences while you claim my sexual health and boundaries are oppressing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?Nothing strange at all about sleeping with dozens of prostitutes. That is no different from having 100 ice creams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 09:21 AM |
| 7 | Single men over 30 would you date women your age?Eh, it is true though. I don't want to bang random strangers, and I don't want to LTR people who consider banging random strangers to be something akin to going to see a movie or try a new restaurant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 08:13 AM |
| 54 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorThat's a nice idea. I wonder how you'd explain the "not want you as a hook up or a fwb," with implication other guys are better for that. I could see it as saying he is too sweet to be sexy, that she chose him for safety and non-sexual things, not realizing that might not be a compliment to a guy. Or that he is a make love type tyoe of relationshio sex guy, while obviously women select more masculine, muscular guys for hookups especially when ovulating. I think she didn't mean to, but her subcon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 09:51 PM |
| -3 | Manosphere: how I slipped into it, escaped and learned the truth - Peterson, Huberman, Tate.Huberman was exposed as a secual predator. Remember, all male feminists are suspect. Many sexists here like to defend secual predators. This Huberman guy is worse than Aziz. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/24 12:14 AM |
| – | It seems to be a popular opinion that single mothers are not the best parents. Would you open to encouraging women in the case of divorce to pay child support and give primary custody to the father?White people do, why don't you cite the average White child support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 10:03 PM |
| – | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Women don't mind a man unloading his wallet. Maybe you and yours and all your girlfriends and their Plan B guys are liberal idiots? Do you raise kids not your own from another dude? You seem like a nice guy. Wow I'm sure you'll find the one, just keep being friends with antiman sexist idiot troglodytes. Also, never check a woman's STDs or expect monogamy or honesty or even ask if she has screwed 15 people in the last 6 months. Don't even bother getting tested I guess. Let me guess, you are a ner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:40 PM |
| – | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Well I'm day drinking, I have nothing to do... but it pleases me in my stupor that you are completely screwed and have zero chance of a man you would like choosing you for a relationship. Kinda embarassing I'm cleaving your heart out, but I guess we seek proxy experiences, internet + alco is not a great combo, but the music evens out, I'm on Rod Stewart now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesIs that an insult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:36 PM |
| – | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Just want to insult ya, sorry if you're nice. Don't read if you are a good person. Anyway you stated that you spend more on therapy per year, with no end in sight or ever, you spend more on useless therapy that explicitly will never cure any of your "mental disease." You could easily save 10 dying kids per year for the amount you charge on credit card for an idiot to "listen" to your dumbassery, they aren't even listening, and you will die in the cold as a homeless person, and the neoliberal soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:33 PM |
| – | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Your Hinge seems to be working. I'm a dude in late 30s, these dumb ugly women are interested in me every second I am about. I would hate to be a woman, to realize the horror when you emno man will ever want to take you out to a meal, except as part of your sexcompensation. And ooooooh oww ow ow it is only going to getbworse for your literally everyday... Men have endless opportunities to improve. I can't blame women for being bitter over the shite hand they are delt. Even the most basic thing li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesF U | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:06 PM |
| – | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?do You spend > $10,000 a year on your mental health? Can you cite one single example of a me tal ill ess ever ever ever ever ever ever ever being cured? Sounds like an expensive habit you have, especially since there are literally zero positive cure experiences. So therapy is basically €$500 / month constant expense with literally zero examples pf positive outcomes. Why not try scientology? Really, there is absolutely zero differ ce between debting yourself for BS mythical ZERO KNOWN SUCCESSFUL … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:04 PM |
| – | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.What of you, hypocrite? Do you commit the sin of ONANISM? And... peep like Tom at nude women, strangers... CORN? Oh... so YOOOOUUU don't care what these women's favorite books are? Wow! We, no you will go sell out a stadium. You think you can't because you are not famous, high status. Listen close, and remember: You don't have fame or high status because you could not sell tickets to your show. I bet if you practice your singing and also keep as fit as a model and can dance then give a performan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: affluent bachelors who refuse to marry are selfish cowardsYou seem sensible, I think if you make yourself a solid financial catch, like if you have an 'estate' in pride & prejudice terms, and are only looking for good virtues without pre-existing assets, and look for a man from a community and family and culture amenable to the values you espouse... you should have a good probability of success! Income doesn't matter if it is not passive. If you have no debt and $300,000 invested in income producing real estate and retirement savings, then a man won't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: affluent bachelors who refuse to marry are selfish cowardsHave you heard of single mothers by choice or single fathers by choice? An affluent man or couple wanting children can pay ~100k to have a surrogate carry and deliver the babe. Then a single man would have the child and a guarantee they would not lose the child custody, etc. A wealthy woman would not be happy contributing her income anyways, and a poor woman would need to be supported anyways, so there is little difference for the man to pay fir a housecleaner, meal preparation service & nanny. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Feminists’ Definition of Coercion is too broad this is one main reason TRP is necessary.Haha many smart people can read effortlessly in moments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Feminists’ Definition of Coercion is too broad this is one main reason TRP is necessary.Wow you can't be a great engineer with thoughts like that: Emotional abuse is both a medical and legal designation. That means there is a consensus, not just my opinion. Do you mean the medical system that 30 years ago thought babies are insensate to pain, and did surgeries without anaesthetic? Or the medical system that officially declared marijuana use a mental illness and it still by MEDICAL & LEGAL CONSENSUS has "no known medical benefits" and extremely "high addictive potential." Meanwhile … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Feminists’ Definition of Coercion is too broad this is one main reason TRP is necessary.The day men treat other neglected or abused men with the same withering disdain they treat women trapped in abusive relationships is the day the earth switches poles. Men talk the talk, but they sure as fuck don't walk the talk. Lady, there is plentiful evidence that both men and women have group bias for women. The official dogma of abuse is "Duluth Model," which states the fault of every conflict or disagreement is always always always the man. There are literally thousands of shelters for wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Feminists’ Definition of Coercion is too broad this is one main reason TRP is necessary.Most women aren't engineers, and are making much less money. Imagine marrying a dude who stopped having sex, paying bills, and was simply happy playing videogames knowing you will need to pay to fully support that man and your kids, who will stay in his Mojo Dojo, you will pay for court and lawyers for him too, also you will barely get to see your kids and have to live in a roach motel, also your kids and all media will be told and believe you are a lazy deadbeat. Marriage sounds unsafe without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Are polygamy laws outdated?I know exactly what you mean, breaking up with one gf is treated as a divorce as in you would have to give her half your net worth appreciation and pay half her debts since dating!!!! But 2+ gfs = no obligation! What rich coffee snob poly dude condo owner thought up this law? I wonder if precedent will be set for poly women to co-file, will someone please think of the poly women? Unreal, I guess also if I date a retiree I can also claim survivor social security benefits after a year, 80 year old… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 12:30 AM |
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