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Red Pill TheoryAutonomy_Economy/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:30 PM
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First OYS. Techinically not married yet, but engaged and living in separate dwellings. My choice, not hers. Agreed to move in together within a month of the wedding date, but no sooner. I'm 30, she's 25. Been RPA for 1.5 years, still trying to swallow every day. Fitness I don't want to post stats, but I'm forcing myself for accountability sake. Some of you here are absolute monsters. I'm 6'2, 180lb, 13% bf. ORM squat 180, bench 155, deadlift 240. Lifelong stickleg-itis, but trying to rectify. St…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:34 PM
1

Captain save-a-nun to the rescue!
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:09 PM
6

Lazy fuck. Learn how to write concisely.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:07 PM
5

"drag it there" makes it sound like you're dealing with a carcass.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:39 PM
2

If they chase, let them chase.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:13 PM
4

I almost totally agree with your premise, but I would pose that it's a test to take more for men who are having trouble with ED, sex drive, gym progress, and other symptoms of low T.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:47 PM
1

Don't mate guard. Read sidebar instead.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:07 PM
20

We don't know your family. Do what you want to do if you're prepared for the consequences.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 04:30 PM
6

Don't confront. Women instinctively know what appropriate behavior is in a LTR. Something is just wrong here, and it's not on you to set her straight, just set her free.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:02 AM
48

What sad aspirations.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:58 AM
1

Sounds like they may be smelling your neediness
/r/askTRP08/09/17 03:03 PM
28

this is a long distance relationship Stopped reading there. Eject, and start reading sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:58 AM
1

It's a sidebar basic buddy
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:15 PM
1

Then don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:16 AM
1

Do you still work together?
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:13 PM
1

We hear that time and time again, and yet "journalists" still strawman us and misrepresent TRP to no end. Do some actual reading of these forums. Until you do that, fuck off.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:27 PM
2

How about you just read the sidebar over at TheRedPill? You'll have 90% of your questions answered, minus the personal information from our members.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:21 PM
22

"you deserve better"
/r/askTRP29/08/17 08:40 PM
2

brainwashed me in to being overtly paranoid towards her Not that it tries to brainwash, but some members here certainly have that effect on newcomers with their comments, and thrust them into a world of paranoia and controlling behaviour. I wish people would paint less with a broad brush, because yes AWALT, but some women hop on dicks faster than others. Evaluate your woman's actions, that's the best way to know if something is up. Best of luck my dude. If it's going to eat you up being with som…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:59 PM
7

It's hyperbolic, but sure.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:05 PM
26

Well then, I wash my hands of this.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:58 PM
1

Do you live together?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:40 PM
4

Why are you doing vagina-person things? Stop being a little bitch and virtue signaling on social media.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:11 PM
1

Whatever goes down, keep your composure. Don't lose your cool.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:00 PM
29

Whatever goes down, keep your composure. Don't lose your cool.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:00 PM
1

The rational male
/r/askTRP28/08/17 01:14 AM
1

Could mean A) she's not met enough Chads, or B) he tried and failed to dip his wick, or C) she's got a penis... Honestly we'd all be shooting in the dark with the sparse details we've been given.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 12:59 AM
4

"Rooting through the garbage." By TRM
/r/askTRP28/08/17 12:56 AM
3

I don't use a condom bc birth control You should double up and wrap it up. Never put a woman in full control of the contraception, unless you're going to be checking her pills. One missed pill is all it takes for the landslide of life to start.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 12:53 AM
6

Probably jizzing sand by number twelve
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:06 PM
1

You can even agree and amplify to diffuse. Plus it makes him look even more like an asshole to bystanders while you appear to have solid frame.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 02:27 PM
6

Definitely. Could you also touch on setting boundaries vs controlling? I think a lot of users need a refresher on that as well.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:52 PM
12

If a woman is not adding value to your life, next. Actually this could be said for people in general. Is her pussy worth the headache?
/r/askTRP25/08/17 07:51 PM
1

Dafuq?
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:46 PM
3

Two points I've taken to heart as well. Once lifting, it's amazing how well some women respond to a well-fitted plain T.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 08:15 PM
17

Poor you. Feel better now?
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:16 AM
7

Don't be so trigger happy my dude. If a girl offers an alternative date without you having to pull teeth, she's definitely interested. People flake, and she at least told you, and gave you a reason why (maybe her friend was on her ass about it, who the hell knows). Keep dicking her down and enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:14 AM
35

Never go with the goal of pulling someone home. Go with the intent to have fun, learn, and get better at game.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:11 PM
6

Wrote my crush a 3 page hand written love letter in high school. Couldn't even muster up the balls to arrange shit in person.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:08 PM
8

Just because you can't lift for a month doesn't mean it's all over dude. What's one month compared to a lifetime? Relax. Rest. Hit it hard when you've got the all-clear from your doctor. Use the next month to work on your social game.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:49 PM
1

Why debate at all? Seems like wasted energy.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 11:04 PM
1

Blender. If you use a juicer you'll lose a lot of the fiber.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:25 AM
1

Have you even spent time with him? Maybe he's a beta bitch? Don't ever consider him competition, bc the moment you do, you lose. Consider him an equal, and if he turns out to be cool...new gym bro.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:17 AM
1

Indeed. Life's too short to live in paranoia.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:15 AM
1

And the question is...?
/r/askTRP18/08/17 09:30 PM
9

She might be retarded. But seriously, stop over thinking things. Some people think about what they're going to say before they say it. How are we supposed to help with almost no information given?
/r/askTRP17/08/17 10:25 PM
3

Try to engulf her head completely. That will prove your dominance and she'll have no option but to be submissive as she tickles your uvula.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 02:50 AM
3

Is your chick into chicks? That will really change the dynamic. If it's just you fucking another girl with your woman watching, be prepared for resentment down the road.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:15 PM
3

You don't go on trips with plates.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:12 PM
2

This. You could be spending 1200 a month on a studio apartment in LA, or 300 if in bumfuck nowhere. As for a car, they're really money-pits, but convenient to have. Again, cost depends on the car and maintenance.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 10:56 PM
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Go read up on the sidebar, TRM has a blog post on it. In summary, shit goes downhill, mostly sex dries up because there's no competition anxiety anymore. Your woman wants to lock you down so she doesn't have to try as hard. You also lose freedom, and the ability to maneuver.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 12:45 PM
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Lunges bro
/r/askTRP13/08/17 12:39 PM
3

When I was in senior year of HS, I was a BP virgin incel who had oneitis for the fun, outgoing, seemingly classy girl of our grade. Highlight was when I danced with her at prom. I then wrote a letter to get after school was over confessing my love for her, hoping she would be thinking of me. A LETTER. The fucking cringe... She probably showed it to her friends and had a laugh before throwing it in the garbage. Never heard back from her again, and I finally deleted her from Facebook when I found …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 05:35 PM
1

Sounds like a question better suited to a different sub. There are lots of health subs out there.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 05:07 PM
3

A&A
/r/askTRP12/08/17 05:05 PM
3

You remind her of her brother. Would you fuck a sibling?
/r/askTRP12/08/17 02:48 PM
2

Being perceived as a "creep" really depends on how you physically present yourself. Dressing well, being fit, good posture, and an air of IDGAF go a long way. 'hawt' guys are 'hawt', not creeps. Then you can approach with no reproach.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 02:19 PM
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This. It comes off as needy when a man states a time to meet, then constantly texts to arrange meeting slightly earlier. Stick to the time you set. She's upset because not only were you a needy texter, but then you flaked when you couldn't wait a bit. Next time, go kill that extra 30min doing you. Hell, even arrive a few min late if you've got important shit to take care of.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 04:22 PM
1

So... She's a plate then?
/r/askTRP10/08/17 01:52 AM
2

Hello there, let's do the intercourse.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:33 PM
1

God, this reeks of scarcity. And why do people even post about their LDRs without reading the side at?
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:27 PM
2

Yup, sounds like a time-whore to me
/r/askTRP07/08/17 11:33 PM
3

You can still chime in and not come across as secretive, while not tipping your redpill hand. Frame things positively, and talk about things that both world views share. E.g. "yea this one girl is pretty cool, we did x the other day and she seemed to appreciate when I just lead our date, planning x and y. She came over, and didn't leave until the next morning." Etc.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 11:29 PM
1

Something doesn't quite add up. Are you rubbing it in people's faces? Is your culture one that discourages it? Where I live, people are praised for their indepedence.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:53 PM
3

It's a movie. Why give a fuck?
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:29 PM
2

Most people don't want to see you succeed, but why would you care?
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:29 PM
1

Yea, sounds like he might not be pinching his shoulders back, or is shrugging them.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 11:53 AM
1

Not at all. I'm about 4 months into lifting, and making slow steady gains. Up to 180lb from 172, maintained about 12% bf. Wasn't out of shape to begin with, had just done a lot of cardio like ultimate, squash, cycling. My diet consists of whole grains, nuts, seeds, fresh produce, tofu, almond/rice milks, hemp protein, occasionally mock meat if I'm short on prep time, and 5g of creatine daily before workouts. I've been vegan for several years now, and though it was a struggle at first, I eventual…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:15 PM
1

I'm vegan, so I can't help you there brother
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:00 PM
1

Is what?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:55 PM
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Why settle for something that "might" eventually happen? Some scarcity mentality hamstering going on here.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:20 PM
4

You can be a healthy or unhealthy as a vegetarian and as an omnivore. It's ignorant to paint people with a broad brush. But, like in TRP, if he's not looking for advice, don't give it. STFU and focus on your own health.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:34 PM
1

She provided alternatives. Yes it's a bit flakey, but it seems she does want to see you. Beware if this becomes a pattern.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:15 PM
4

You may never know, and it sucks. Perhaps another Chad came along. Perhaps she had a mental breakdown. Perhaps she doesn't want to waste time with someone who doesn't fuck her by the 2nd date. Point is, don't dwell.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:24 PM
1

Yea, that's called a "pop fly".
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:15 PM
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You don't owe them an explanation. Just soft next them, and if they ask why you're being so distant and don't want to get together, just say "been busy". Don't engage in long conversations to explain yourself. If they really are plates, they'll get it.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:41 PM
1

England is my city
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:01 PM
2

What is a "pot fly"?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 12:55 PM
1

Oh. Well then. Perhaps add this to the original post?
/r/askTRP28/07/17 10:50 PM
1

Gesture, "if you're unhappy, there's the door". Then watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 12:17 AM
3

Sounds to me like you need more of a mentor to take you under their wing. In either case, good luck.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 05:33 PM
1

Just withdraw attention and don't validate. She's looking for you to say it was okay, and you're glad she had fun. Reinforce her good behaviors with a bit of attention and positive feedback. Think of it like training a dog.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 05:21 PM
3

If she is really wanting to make a change, she should be doing it without having to put your relationship up as the deciding factor. I'll bet now that she 'has' you again, she'll just get fatter.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 05:20 PM
2

Agreed, you're going to have to stay on top of her with that shit until death do you part.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 05:18 PM
2

Hahaha I had the same reaction watching that movie last week! In reality, it would have ended with the wife running off with her machete-cock six packed brother-in-law.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 02:57 PM
1

You proved her right with this post.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:02 PM
1

Ride that train boii
/r/askTRP19/07/17 12:48 AM
6

If you read Rollo, he explains that other girls don't find her trustworthy, especially around their own guys. High likelihood she's the group bicycle.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:54 PM
4

do you know what a plate is? Spin it until the plate flies away.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:30 AM
7

Circumcising you with a cigar clipper while you are sleeping. But really, could you be any more vague? Have you read any of the sidebar?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:31 AM
1

It really depends on how you say it. If you have solid frame and give a sly smile while maintaining eye contact... Well, you get it.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:13 PM
10

...but then saying "you too" makes you sound like a supplicating faggot
/r/askTRP08/07/17 01:46 PM
3

Well this info is what I was digging for. Go lift and get your physicality in order, confidence will flow from there.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:17 PM
6

Roxanne: So? He wouldn't find out haha. Girlfriend: Hehe. Maybe Roxanne: I doubt it.. mine never did. Girlfriend: heheh :p She doesn't respect you to even talk well about you behind your back, or condemn the cheating of this terrible friend of hers. She doesn't keep good company, and she's not LTR material. You know what needs to be done.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:39 PM
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Time will make this feeling pass. Give yourself this time. To pass the time, throw yourself into hobbies, reading (start with No More Mister Nice Guy), exercise (whatever you can manage to do right now) and improve yourself. Once you start gaining that self confidence, slam pussy after pussy until you realize that she did you a god-damn favour. No sex is better than bad sex.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:44 PM
5

Good insight. As always, watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 11:35 PM
1

Poor choice of words there on my part. I get what you're saying, and I shouldn't have made a theory post so personal. See bottom of post for an edit.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 11:27 PM
1

People use each other, that's a fact of life. As long as you're getting something out of it and not orbiting in hopes of some pussy down the road, no harm in having some social capital to tap into.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:44 PM
2

Heh, I think the term "friend" is amorphous at best, since it means very different things to each gender.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:13 PM
7

Thanks for your comment, and sorry to hear about the shit she put you through. I'll keep this in mind, though I do have the mentality of "I can walk away any time". I know it would still hurt, but oneitis no longer has its claws in me. Maybe your right, you can't train trustworthiness, and though some are more trustworthy than others, it's too draining to worry about if she's jumping on a dick that's not mine. I'll keep my eyes peeled for flags, and until then, I'll enjoy my turn.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:11 PM
1

Don't root through the garbage. Your relationship was trash and she didn't desire you. This will likely never change. Read more of The Rational Male, lift, and move on.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:50 PM
1

Keep your isolation exercises in the higher rep-range (8-12), don't treat them like your compound movements if you're strength building.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:00 PM
4

Bullet. Fucking. Dodged.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:29 PM
1

Is there any way to find some common ground, or connect with her on a less business like level? If this wasn't a work/boss situation, DGAF would be applicable, but your job hangs in the balance. Sometimes you have to learn to feign interest in someone's life to push past something like this. Maybe she needs someone to give some gentle guidance and encouragement. You can do this without being a beta bitch. Hard to gauge her without meeting her of course, but this has worked with my job situation,…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:29 PM
8

Like a cherry pie.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:21 PM
1

This. There's this myth that soy will give you tits. Fact is, unless you're ingesting gallons of the shit every day (not even sure then), it won't. I eat tofu several times a week, drink soy maybe every other day in coffee, and haven't noticed a difference in personality. Still making gains in the gym.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:32 PM
1

Honestly, if your gf is not meeting your needs, try working on your SMV first, or ask her to open your relationship. Read through 12 levels of dread. If you just want to be a scumbag and cheat on your LTR, just do you both a favour and end things with her. I'm not going to aid you in your douchebaggery. Seems like you're not ready to be in a committed relationship.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 07:07 PM
3

Not all women are like this, but sluts are gonna slut. What can ya do? Keep ghosting. You don't need this crazy in your life.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 06:07 PM
2

And if she shuts you down, DGAF. Don't let it phase you.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:25 PM
1

To piggy back on what he said, don't get butthurt about it. Let it seep through that you don't need her, and can function fine and be productive without her around. Welcome her back and dgaf. I know if I were on a nature retreat, I'd turn my phone off completely.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:23 PM
2

I think I can offer some advice, having "successfully" pulled this off myself. That said, it wasn't an easy process. When you ask her to move out, you should be prepared for her to see you as ending your relationship, because it's very hard for women to regress in relationships. What happens after really depends on your SMV, the tingles she still has for you, etc. Keep frame, know why you're doing this (unhappiness?) and stay the course. Go into this transition knowing that your relationship is …
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:31 PM
1

This girl is not LTR material, and maybe you never set boundaries with her. If you feel like bringing it up before you dump her, then explain, "a woman in a relationship should act like it, not like a single woman. If you are bent on acting single, I can help you along with that."
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:31 PM
1

Well that sucks.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 05:25 AM
5

Yea man, walking lunges do wonders for dat ass. My woman grabs my ass now - she never did before
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:11 PM
2

With girls at the gym you have to play it much less aggressive. Be the guy at the gym that socializes with everyone, and realize that yes, you will see people again. Don't snipe women out. Whole foods is just a classier grocery store. Basically you won't find many fuckups shopping there. Mostly women who have their shit together.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:09 PM
1

Sorry, why is eating whole fruit a bad thing? You're forgetting that it comes along with fibre, water, vitamins, among other essentials. The fact that fruit has sugar doesn't negate the health benefits. Did you know vegetables are technically carbohydrates? Better watch your vegetable intake.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:04 PM
2

Gym, cooed sports leagues, flea markets, University campus in the summer (when grad students stick around), whole foods.... You get the idea
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:05 AM
2

I would recommend you read through this firstly https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/30/intergender-friendship/ Secondly, how are your intimate relationships with women? Being able to form meaningful relationships with other men is important - more so than friendships with women. I'm no Rollo, so I'm not going to try and pinpoint why this is harder for you, but more details about your own journey in masculinity may help.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 05:42 PM
1

Smirk and say "You'd win Miss Paraplegic America hands down."
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:36 PM
2

What's your question?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:19 PM
1

Where was the part where you escalated in the movie theatre and jizzed out of an empty box of popcorn?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 11:02 PM
2

This could be a powerplay to see if you'll commit. Just be ready to walk away if shit starts to spiral.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 08:06 PM
6

Tell her she can't look at books anymore and inform her she is now your LTR. what?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:48 AM
2

Good frame, good boundaries. Let us know how things progress.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:29 PM
2

Definitely possible. Look at it this way too - she offered an alternative time. That bodes well for you.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 02:10 PM
1

Normal betas?
/r/askTRP07/06/17 12:44 PM
5

Really? My broccoli doesn't keep long. Carrots. Now those suckers last for years.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:46 PM
2

Agreed, compatible lifestyles are more important for LTRs from a man's perspective, if that's your thing. Remember from hers though, tingles are still important.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 12:40 PM
1

If you've got the cash to hire people for a purpose, then you'll be on track faster. Do it.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:09 PM
8

If he doesn't make you wet, then do him a favour and stop wasting his time. He's got some issues to sort out.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:00 PM
7

Oh well with knowing that history, she's definitely getting other dick on the side. She doesn't want to be labeled as a cheater so she's avoiding being committed to someone.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:58 PM
3

That's kind of the most important thing. You can be a big-dick slinging 6'4" baller with a Lambo, but if you're a needy bitch with your woman that's all she sees.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:57 PM
5

A lot of women have inflated self image, she probably thinks she can do better because he's so all-in
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:54 PM
3

Hmmm, seems like his neediness is putting her off. She may just not want to be seen as an item with Mr. Beta
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:53 PM
1

Next up - dick in a box
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:50 PM
6

He's definitely got the oneitis bad, but I don't see enough details about her and her interactions with him to warrant a "cheating" diagnosis.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:47 PM
1

You're giving her sooo much power in the relationship. She has you by the balls. Stop being so afraid she'll leave you, and go live your life.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:06 AM
1

If you experience this a lot, maybe you rub people the wrong way somehow...or your friends have shitty friends. Try to think back on the antecedents to their behavior. Were you correcting them? Being condescending? Acting like a know-it-all dick?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:48 PM
9

I've been there man, and so I'm going to suggest you don't meet up to hear her "explanation". Whatever bullshit she spouts, if she can spit out anything sensible, will be round-about and indirect. You need to accept, like I did, that you just became less attractive over time. You were a boring blue pill tard. Own it, hit that sidebar, hit that gym, and look at the road ahead.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:44 PM
3

You'll find a lot of answers in the sidebar
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:30 PM
1

Should you look for LTR? Honestly, it depends on what you want and what point you're at in life.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:41 PM
3

"your offer seems kind of shitty"
/r/askTRP23/05/17 12:35 PM
1

No, is work comrade
/r/askTRP23/05/17 12:07 PM
0

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 12:01 PM
1

Ask girl if she enjoys the sexual intercourses -> BOOM she's wet.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 12:01 PM
1

Read "No More Mister Nice Guy" and "The Rational Male".
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:58 AM
1

Where's the question?
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:11 AM
1

You're assuming the Chads take time to "date". Pump and dump is a significant percentage.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:44 PM
2

Isn't there usually a guy here who says something about playing her out for anal and then sneaking out the bathroom window?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 01:48 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 12:11 AM
2

I like this guy
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:06 PM
2

If you're waiting at the bus stop, then turn around to suddenly find a girl swallowing your hot beef injection, you're probably attractive.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:25 PM
2

I'm no chemical biologist so...wait a while?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 02:16 PM
2

Oh, that's fucked.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 10:02 AM
1

I think he meant there were 8 people on the bus... But yea, phrasing.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:33 AM
3

Not every man is at the same point in his life and looking for the same things. Sounds to me like you need to find someone who has LTR on the horizon, and is not looking to pump and dump. Thing is though, if you continue treating the two genders the same, you won't be happy with your man. Men are polygamous by nature, and women are hypergamous. Again, go talk to RPW. They're who you really need to talk to. But if you want to go slut it up to "gain experience" and "find yourself", then go do it. …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:31 PM
1

Totally understandable. I assume you're fairly young? I, being in my late 20s, have begun to ponder these things more.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:40 PM
7

Relationships with other men are absolutely necessary. NMMNG writes a lot about that.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:34 PM
1

Not saying you can 'defeat', it's never gone, but you can keep it in check with the right frame and right woman. They're only a "goal" if raising children is something you want out of life. Women are supreme nurturers, and men are supreme providers. Until you know you want that, don't LTR.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:32 PM
67

Good to see a solid FR with lessons learned. Good frame sir.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:29 PM
3

Should add that women CAN add value to your live, IF they know their role as a women.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:20 PM
15

Sounds like you're on your way to MGTOW, or at the very least need to Monk mode for a bit to focus on yourself. There is certainly a lot of vitriol and pessimism on this sub, stemming from a very real place of men having their share of toxic encounters with women, and breaking through that image of how inter-sex dynamics society at large provides them. Yes AWALT, is true, but use that broad brush to paint women's psyche. Women behave on a large spectrum, so realize that there are some out there …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 06:19 PM
2

Tinder is just garbage for meeting quality women. This is true. OkCupid and POF are only slightly better. My suggestion to get past this, is to engage socially in places where you're more likely to meet higher-calibre people, because they do exist. Join a recreational sports league, go take a museum tour and chat up the staff/patrons. The more you can meet and get to know people in person, the better your chances are of making genuine connections with people and women especially. Even making fri…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:32 PM
-1

This is awful advice. Please don't try to fight this guy. Be the cool fun guy that his shit rolls off of. A&A.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:09 AM
1

Get thin
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:40 PM
2

I love lamp
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:34 PM
1

I love that channel. It's run by a physiotherapist who trains athletes. That guy is serious about fitness and training.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:08 PM
2

It has over 10k subs. You mean people online?
/r/askTRP15/04/17 01:51 PM
5

dude...relax a bit. You're going to burn out, unless you're Dwayne Johnson.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:08 PM
2

Start with quality food, then up the quantity. Shit in = shit out. You also need to have your workout down pat. Not just talking about volume but form.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:46 PM
3

Careful, rape culture will be knocking on your door before long.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:44 PM
6

This guy knows what's up
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:41 PM
1

Really needs TLDR
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:16 PM
14

Fucks her cousin? Next step is fucking the horse. That flag is bleeding profusely.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:11 PM
3

Move out ASAP. This is all too familiar to me, I've been here buddy. It doesn't end in anything but tears and resentment.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:51 PM
7

"And I'm not that kind of guy, you'd better not be taking advantage of me" said with a smirk
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:38 PM
2

Red army unite
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 04:29 PM
1

Sounds solid m8, keep doing what you're doing
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:33 PM
1

Idk, how about everything?
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:43 PM
2

You're going to have to tell us a LOT more about who you are, and what these girls are like. You think we're psychic or some shit?
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:39 PM
1

I'll let you in on a little trick that worked for me back when I started my sexual journey - fap session a couple hours before you get together with a plate. It will lower your libido just enough to be: * outcome independent, and * not jizz all over her shirt when you whip it out Try not to get into the habbit of replacing sex with fapping though. Your attitude should never be, "why go get pussy when I have my hand right here".
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:24 PM
2

The shitty part is, if he stops fucking her (assuming she's nuts) she may fuck up his employment too.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:08 PM
1

It does, give it time.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:01 PM
2

Stop staring, because she definitely knows you're staring, even if you think you're being sneaky. Making solid eye contact is one thing, but creepily staring time after time is not productive. Be social with other people at the gym, not just her, and she'll get to know you as the guy that everyone knows, and that everyone talks to. She'll even start wondering, "why isn't he talking to me? I'm fun, I'm cute!". Certainly don't snipe her out and make it obvious you're trying to pick her up. Only se…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:45 PM
6

Time to drop that one-itis. Stop being her bestie, because it certainly won't lead you inside those sugar walls. If you see her around school, maybe completely ghosting/ignoring is not the best way to go. Stop reaching out to her, if she ever approaches you and wants a genuine conversation, fine. But don't let her agenda get you off course for what YOU want. Example: Don't walk with her to her class, or choose a seat near her. If she wants to approach and sit next to you, or follow you to class …
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:40 PM
2

You sir, are a gentleman and a scholar.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 03:01 PM
2

Rest is definitely important, as is nutrition, don't forget to eat well. I wouldn't recommend doing 5 days right off the bat, but I was already semi-athletic to begin with, playing squash and ultimate a lot. My routine is legs/chest/back/rest/shoulders/arms/rest. I've got my recovery routine down, and on rest days I do a bit of light cardio for that very reason. Every 2 months I do a rest week where I do a push/pull/legs 3 days split so I don't burn out, then go back at it hard the next 7 weeks.…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:54 PM
3

Don't ignore her for too long, maybe a day. Then hit her up again and pretend like that interaction didn't happen. If she brings it up, brush it off. In my experience, ignoring an innocuous conversation that was open ended shows you're butt-hurt. It's one thing to soft next for bad/crazy behaviour, but in this case I don't think it's completely warranted. Don't make a big deal about it. Depending on how long you've been plating her, you may need to show her a bit of comfort to reel her back in (…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:50 PM
3

I started lifting 5 days a week, about 6 weeks ago. Having a routine and seeing my physical progress definitely lifts my spirits, and it helps that I've got a gym buddy to go with most days of the week. My body feels strong, and my confidence bolstered, and my woman has noticed. Not doing this for her of course, but it's a good bonus. I don't go to a big-franchise type gym chain, I found a local gym that I can walk to (this is really important, find a gym you can get to easily) that costs me hal…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:45 PM
2

This is a good way to look at it. It's something I've been giving a lot of thought as well, especially as a new possible LTR develops. You want to maintain your power position, and always be able to walk away, but you shouldn't be dreading her so hard that she's losing her mind thinking about what you're doing without her every moment you're not together. Theory in progress - give her your undivided attention when you're alone together, but be as social as you can when out in public. Show her th…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:39 PM
2

Both really, but in my opinion, EVERYONE should lift. There are zero downsides to strengthening the body in a consistent and progressive way. Even if you don't go the power-lifting route, lifting weights is just plain necessary. Even people who do kinesthetics are lifting - their own body weight. Ever seen those bar park dudes on venice beach? Ripped. Lifting is not the end-all-be-all of raising SMV and getting women, but it's a solid foundation that can, at the very least, boost your confidence…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:35 PM
3

"Yes I do have an accent, it's parked out front. Want a tour of the back seats?"
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:57 AM
2

Do you actually have one, or just a speech impediment?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:52 AM
2

this
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:27 PM
1

Sounds like he isn't happy with the man he is. Has he swallowed TRP?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:30 PM
20

Good on ya bud. Giver t' boot an look fer the next eh!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:44 PM
1

I'm in the same position as you. Ended a 4 year LTR. If you are indeed working on yourself - time. Just give yourself time.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 07:49 PM
5

I'll weigh in on this bc I was in the exact same situation recently. My LTR of 3.5 years started becoming unhappy, just generally speaking. Looking back I know it was partially due to my giving her EVERYTHING she asked for and needed, and there was absolutely no dread and no reason for her to try. Wonderful person she was, a hornless unicorn I suppose, but she was quite damaged from childhood sexual abuse, and I didn't realize just how damaged until the last few months before I ended things with…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 05:35 PM
9

All the girls I've been with haven't said shit. If a girl ever does, just next her.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:19 AM
1

yup, happens a lot. Gives me a bit of a chuckle when someone completely different picks up.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 01:44 PM
2

Isolation work is best done as supplementary stuff after your primary compound movements, if you still have juice left in the tank and you really want to hit those spots for a bit of extra work. I would recommend doing isolation stuff that hits parts of your body that's lagging behind the rest, as everybody's bodies are different and respond a little differently to the big lifts. For me personally, I've always had small calves and weak hamstrings, but strong quads, so after my squats and deadlif…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 01:38 PM
4

T
/r/askTRP25/03/17 01:32 AM
1

My late fiance was as close to a unicorn as I've encountered, but I ended things because it turned out she was still dealing with a lot of childhood trauma, and therefore her self-image was a bit broken. Wonderfully kind and loyal woman, very compatible lifestyle, but bedroom was dead. At this point in my life, I wasn't willing to spend years in counselling to maybe salvage a good LTR down the road in my 30s. Might make a full thread on my story later, but that's my 2c. There are no perfect unic…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:49 PM
52

Truly happy for you bud, keep red-pillin, and never stop one-upping yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:23 PM
3

Well, the sex god method is a pretty well-written book and a good read too. I'd suggest reading it.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:20 PM
2

I wouldn't read too much into things until you've actually seen them in person. It's harder to gauge IOI over text. Try to setup a meetup and see where things go. If you get the "I'm really busy" kind of excuse, then she's not into you.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 01:17 PM
2

Sorry dude, but girl 1 isn't that into you and is probably just aiming to keep you in orbit should you ever cross paths. As for the back and forth, not sure what you talked about or what kind of person she is, but it seems like you may have just bore her. Question and answer is pretty beta. Statements are much more intriguing. As for girl 2...Have you fucked, or even escalated physically? If not, then she's not a plate yet. But, it also sounds like she's just not that into you either. Without mo…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 10:53 PM
2

Read the sidebar at TRP
/r/askTRP19/03/17 12:57 AM
20

Dude, run.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 12:38 AM
3

Text her tonight, be casual. "Hey" or "last night was fun" Don't over-communicate, just a few texts and then go to bed. Keep using the 2/3 texting rule, and I'd say wait a few days before trying to establish a meet up.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:35 PM
1

What part of Canada do you live in? Colour me curious.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 10:17 PM
2

Shaving is too risky, try duct tape. Rip that jungle right out. jk don't do it ass-hair actually plays a pretty important role in chafe-prevention.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 05:50 PM
4

I whip my duck out and everyone quacks off quickly
/r/askTRP16/03/17 05:46 PM
1

Do you lift regularly?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:17 PM
1

The only other thing I can think of to maintain frame, is to occupy yourself with something else, talk to someone else, and generally DGAF about it. Turn it so that when she's done talking to the guy, she has to come find you and enter your frame again.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:14 PM
2

This. I used to be the beta cuck who just watched the convo, and now I steer the conversation, and subtly refuse to be the spectator. Think of every conversation (whether your girl is there or not) as an opportunity to network, practice, and up your SMV.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:39 PM
1

Sounds like you can just trust your gut on this. Keep doing the DGAF, just ignore her snaps n shit, and next her. She's definitely trying to get you to chase her, or at least orbit her. If she hits you up one day wanting to come over, go ahead and smash, but don't ever start playing her game. Don't cater to her booty calls, don't validate her social media.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:48 PM
1

Have you even read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 01:21 PM
9

I don't see this working out well long term. Move on. It might just be the kick in the ass he needs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 06:13 PM
7

As a man on his RP journey, leaving a 4 year LTR where I was engaged. I can tell you there are RP guys out there who will want to settle down eventually; it just won't be earlier than 30 usually, since our dating prime is about 28-35. What I look for in a woman, if I want to date her and possibly develop a meaningful relationship, is someone who is submissive, supportive, and affectionate. Obviously a compatible personality and a motivated approach to living life well go without saying, but it s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 01:36 PM
1

It's really hard to give some concrete feedback without a lot more details about what you're saying, how you're saying it, holding frame, etc. What kind of shit tests are they giving? We could start with that.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:35 PM
4

Agreed. I've gotten fake/wrong numbers before, and you have to reach a place where you chuckle, and then delete the contact from your phone and move on. No benefit to dwelling on what-ifs.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:32 PM
7

That comment about marriage 1.0 was an interesting one. I never considered how strongly the dread game played a factor in marriage decades ago, before divorce favoured women so heavily. Upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:03 PM
3

Honestly, these guys sound pretty blue pill, and likely have an SMV waaay below yours. Find someone that makes you a bit nervous/excited to be around. That's going to set you up for a stronger LTR down the road. If you try to make it work with these guys, you're going to eventually be unhappy, looking for a Chad all the while.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 02:57 AM
5

RATM, Watsky, Polyphia, Daft Punk, Coheed & Cambria, Jaga Jazzist. Try some of those.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:30 PM
18

Valid point, but some people take lyrics more to heart than others. You're right in that a lot of hip hop is really about self-empowerment and depedestalizing women, that's what I've been getting into lately if I need to really motivate myself and get myself into the right headspace. A second thing you could do though, is listen to some bitchin' instrumental stuff, like Polyphia or Intervals. Good way to clear the mind imo.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:27 PM
4

Some people I know go the tattoo route, but they have shitty tattoos bc the art was not as important as the ink. I'd suggest going with a fictional zoo story where you fought meerkats.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:26 PM
2

Yea...if you're talking for the first 30 seconds, she'll probably lose interest. Need to give her a chance to reply and show an IOI at least.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:10 PM
2

I think you need to stop asking, and tell her she can't stay anymore. If I had someone like that, they either pay rent, or do a shit ton around the place to keep it pristine. If she's doing neither, she has to go. No leeches. Get your roommate on board, and make it clear that this shit won't fly. Most people will submit and accept when dealing with someone so assertive and firm. If she and your roommate still don't budge though, you will likely have to look into getting your landlord involved, o…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:07 PM
1

Just read an interesting article that might help you https://therationalmale.com/ The first bit is most relevant. It's goes over how women are only satisfied through hypergamy, so when you consider this, it's only men who ever settle. If you're punching above your SMV, you're wasting your time. Raise that SMV first.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 10:23 PM
4

Exact same boat here. Cool to see someone else embrace their difference in a positive way as well! Just because you're vegan doesn't mean you need to throw it in people's faces. People respect someone who graciously and unapologetically declines food or drink.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:16 AM
1

It's very important. Do it.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:10 AM
4

Honestly, get off tinder. It's kind of toxic to most guys who aren't Chads, and gives you an easy excuse not to put yourself out there with real people, making real mistakes. Read more sidebar, refine your attitude. If you lived near me (Ottawa) I'd take you out to the local watering hole to just practice the social scene and habituate to talking shit with whoever. You got anyone who can take you under their wing?
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:48 AM
2

Aye, who you keep company with can profoundly change your behaviors long term.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 11:40 PM
1

Man weighing in here. It sounds like you need a break at the very least so this guy can learn to become the best version of himself before going really long term with you. Is he informed about TRP? Not sure what yours or his SMV is but you may be able to do better than him. I also feel like you'll become unhappy long term in this situation. I know this sucks, and breakups suck. Having just got out of a 4 year LTR where I was engaged, I can tell you that time apart (and time to self reflect) can …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 06:37 PM
-1

Another tip for guys who want to easily get into some panties, and have some good frame and decent game - go to a pub/club between 1am and closing. There are usually several women just hanging around the doors, looking for last minute opportunities so they don't have to go home alone. Lock eyes with one, if she smiles, beckon her over and eat some face. If you look unconfident and desperate though, this won't really work. You need to be bringing that DGAF attitude hard. Side story, earlier that …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 12:30 PM
14

Nah man, sex shouldn't be something she dictates or something SHE rewards you with. Your dick should be her reward for being a good girl. She wanted his dick, she didn't get it. He played it well.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 01:00 PM
4

Preach. I hate vacuously presented situations. How the hell are we supposed to give any applicable feedback?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 12:13 AM
5

Honestly getting in whatever shape you want, if you're lifting hard, comes down to nutrition. Stuffing your face? You'll probably get bigger (maybe a bit fatter too). Eating a minor caloric deficit while still getting your macros and nutrients? You'll slim down and lean out. I've done both. I was skinny fat, then muscular fat, and now fairly average/athletic. Still have some gains to make, but I'm dialling it in and it's a day by day process. Just look to improve yourselves a little bit every da…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:15 PM
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