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Yes!! Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:43 AM
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That's right! You deserve to be treated right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:37 PM
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Stop talking down about yourself. Would you let someone say "you're insane" to your best friend? To a little kid? No. NO. Your feelings are real, even if they're all mixed up. You are whole. Now go shore yourself up, follow the advice these other Queens are dishing out and put on your crown!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:57 PM
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Mine have their dad's, because that's the custom here. I don't have an issue with his name! I had an issue with changing mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:00 AM
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My hubby would, depending on the situation! If it was more polite to just answer and smile, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:57 AM
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I went through the exact same thing when I got married. And decided not to change my name. My fiance couldn't have cared less. My kids know I'm their mom. I answer to "Mrs. (husband's last name)" without a peep, but on paper I am legally the same name I've been my whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:47 PM
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I wonder if she's finally processing this because he's a safe partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:55 AM
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I do disagree with the eye contact, personally, because I happen to have a fair number of friends with Asperger's - who can find eye contact difficult. However, I get that this red flag is contextual. They show me they're listening by engaging fully in the conversation, etc. So for me, eye contact isn't a deal breaker as long as I'm not feeling dismissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:06 AM
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Oh, I know!!! Without asking the parents. It was so she could be a "peer model". Which is a great program, don't get me wrong, but everyone has to be on board. She has a severely disabled sibling at home and needed to have her own space where she could develop her own self, and not as a caretaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:23 AM
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I'm still mad! This was years ago!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:31 PM
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Solidarity. I skipped the polite letter and sent my husband in to talk to the principal after my discussion with the teacher. Sadly you need to send the dad to be heard properly... But it stopped finally. I finally said: " don't put them together. Don't make them play together. Put them at different tables. DON'T pull her from class for his therapy sessions." Aaaaarghhhh I'm still so salty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:26 PM
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Oooo this burns me UP!!!! I went in, swinging, when I found out my daughter was being pulled from class to be a peer model for another kid. They were seated together, and he glommed onto her all day and she didn't make any other friends until I made it abundantly clear to everyone that they were not to ever be in class together again. It took 2 years. It was all "she helps him!!" What about helping her?? What about her making friends? What about her nurturing and development? No. No. NO!! *Edit:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:22 PM
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My man takes it all off. Now I couldn't care less about body hair, I like men with or without. But going down on a smooth d is pretty nice. No little hairs in the throat. But I wouldn't fuss if he wanted to keep it, no biggie! As long as it's trimmed and clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:26 AM
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In my experience, the best vegan cookies are made by using top rated regular cookie recipes with egg/butter substitutions. I had far too many "healthy" tasting vegan "cookies" made with applesauce in my day. Sub: 2 tblsp cornstarch (or powdered egg replacer) + 2 tblsp water per egg, whip in with earth balance (it looks a bit weird) and bake your delicious cookie. You may need to reduce water a tad. *Edit: amounts were doubled because I usually use 2 "egg" recipes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:37 PM
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Yes! I learned basic plumbing, and it's so satisfying to fix a running toilet or replace a faucet yourself! I actually learned because my kids were at the age where they flush everything. An emergency nighttime plumber (this always happened at kids bedtime) costs a fortune. After the third $300 Friday evening plumber, I decided to get my own auger and do my own fixing. Anything you have in your house that breaks, there's a granddad on YouTube who's made a great step-by-step video on how to fix i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:25 PM
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Hey, I would encourage you to report this to the front desk. I worked at a family gym for awhile, and the trainers I worked with were fantastic. And no gym monkey is going to push the point when a gym trainer comes over and tells him to knock it off. Anyways... Sorry you had to deal with this. I loved the guys I worked with. But again, this was a family gym, I'm not sure about the gym culture where you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:28 PM
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Exdancer pilates enthusiast here. Use this image: imagine you have a hundred dollar bill you are sucking up and into your vag. A kegal is great, but this adds the "up and in" feeling that will help support your pelvic floor. Another image: that your pelvic floor is like a web attached from your pubic bone to your tail bone, and another one attaching your sitbones to reach other. Imagine pulling those lines closer together. Making the web smaller. It's a very weird, deep non-feeling. There aren't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:37 PM
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I want a housewife. Please? I hate cleaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:14 PM
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When the nurse came for our 1 week home visit, I mentioned the house being really messy. She dropped this gem: "if the house is clean, we worry that the baby is being neglected, or the mom is neglecting herself. It means something is wrong."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:49 PM
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That's fair. After writing this, I realise I went on a bit of a tangent: I see a lot of people anthropormophizing (is that a weird?) their pets and I went on my soapbox. I realise there are nuances that I didn't pay attention to in your post! Clearly this was your ex just pulling a power play on your cat, and not listening to you. Sorry I went off topic into general cat training.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:16 AM
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I disagree. Cats aren't humans. I spent a lot of time handling our little kittens and socializing them so they were used to being held, even on their backs. I clipped their claws very regularly so they were used to it. Prior to these guys, I'd had a rescued, feral cat that hadn't been tamed or socialised to be with humans as a kitten, and she would just randomly bite if I touched her side, or tail, or feet, or even if she was annoyed about anything. Even if she was purring and giving all the "ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:45 PM
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"A man may work from sun to sun, but a woman's work is never done" (Jean Little) is a saying for a reason!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:31 PM
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What the hell is up with Uber drivers?? I've had to act as a therapist more than once because I was afraid that if I didn't, the guy was going to go unhinged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:13 AM
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This is very country - specific. In Canada, the medical costs aren't there for pregnancy and childbirth, so you have younger parents. That has changed in some areas depending on cost of living, but when I had my first, 15 years ago, it cost me very little because my only actual layout was for cloth diapers and a few other things I couldn't get free from friends. I also had decent maternity leave. I wish the USA could push towards decent maternity leave and care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:42 PM
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Exactly my thinking. It feels like women are better at hearing other opinions without necessarily agreeing. I do like reading and enjoying other points of view. What this subreddit has fostered in me is a better idea of what I think and acknowledging my own views, to myself. Which has made me a stronger person. So much of my life, I've tried to fit into what I thought was expected, and going along with others, and people pleasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:05 PM
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The first man who ever, ever told me that women were oppressed was a gay guy I worked with. I'd read feminist books and taken women's studies in my late teens, but it was the first time a man had ever said it out-loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:27 AM
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Agree. It's taken years of therapy to even know how I feel in certain situations, instead of how I am supposed to feel. My church upbringing taught me to completely disregard my feelings and actions to fit with how I should feel, and should behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:26 PM
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What. His world sounds neat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:48 PM
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I swear that started with Dan Savage. I used to love his podcasts just for the entertainment, but about 8-10 years ago he started on "withholding sex from your partner is emotional abuse" and advocating cheating??? I was having such an awful time during those years, serious depression, child with severe disabilities, no sleep (part of the disability was that he couldn't sleep for longer than 2 hours at a stretch, until he was 7) and I still, STILL felt guilty for not giving my husband enough sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:13 PM
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I straight up told my husband if anything ever happened to him, I wasn't going to bring another man into the house until my kids were moved out. I've read enough horror stories that I'd never risk my kids' safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:37 AM
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