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LIFESTYLEAvaDestruction/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:59 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEAvaDestruction/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 11:41 PM
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As I said I’m not devout. We are not yet sure I’ll be able to have children as I had cervical cancer a couple of years ago so although fertile the surgery I had means I may not physically be able to. If he didn’t want any children to be christened I’d be okay with that. I didn’t particularly enjoy my time at Catholic school and wouldn’t want to put my kids through that. I’d very much want it to be their own choice. I’m aware we’ll be asked to raise them Catholic, as I said his beliefs don’t diff…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 08:59 AM
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Ooh that’s stunning! That’d be nice to look down at every day for sure! X
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 10:39 AM
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Oh wow I love it all so much! I think I’m stuck on the wandering star ring. I’ve seen a second hand rose gold and morganite version for sale $300 cheaper but I’m struggling to decide which gold I want. I’m pale skinned but also I’ve never owned any gold before so kinda wanted it yellow/rose gold. It doesn’t matter too much but I really love the idea of a morganite ring which looks better with rose gold. Alternatively there’s lavender sapphires but no pictures available of what it’d look like in …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 12:55 AM
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If you happen to know of any other jewellers similar to Sofie Zakia please let me know. I’m drooling all over those rings but can’t help but feel I’ve come to a decision far too quickly. I’m actually considering just buying some for myself now ha ha x
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 06:38 PM
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Thank you that’s very helpful. I may have a couple of questions later if that’s okay?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 02:04 PM
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That’s wonderful! What a great idea :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:02 PM
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I’m especially loving the Sofia Zakia, they’re like a more classy version of the rings I was looking at. It’d be nice to find a designer in Scotland, Spain, Japan or Eastern Europe that I could actually go visit one day (those places are where we’re most likely to go visit at some point in the future). I don’t want to take all the surprise and spontaneity out of everything but id definitely like to pick out my own ring. It’d be nice to visit a jewellery store together although there’s a fairly g…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 02:20 AM
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OOOH!! Thank you so much! Yeah I want a ring that looks like it’ll open a portal somewhere ha ha! My parents had custom rings made with glass eyes to resemble each other’s in them. Definitely want something over the top and spooky looking :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 02:02 AM
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GASP! I hadn’t really done any research until today but I’ve just seen so much jewellery I feel completely dazzled 😱 I’m kinda from a hippy dippy family. I just found Swank Metal smithing online and having massive jewellery craving like never before!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:44 AM
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That’s so sweet! Any links for Etsy stores I could look at? I think that’s definitely how I’d go though I think I’m going to make a folder of all the stuff I like so he can pick from it and still surprise me one day. My trouble is I’m very fussy yet still want to be surprised!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:24 AM
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I’m Dyspraxic but tend to do a lot of physical jobs so it getting damaged or lost would be something I’ll worry about constantly :/ Id never want a different ring either. I have my Fathers wedding ring which is partially made from antique glass and it’s a source of constant anxiety for me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:20 AM
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Are you Jehovah’s Witness if you don’t mind me asking? I’m Irish Catholic so tradition, ritual and superstition is important to me but I’m not strict on how it’s interpreted as long as it’s there. My sister married a Protestant folk singer and had a “blessing” rather than a Christening of their son and my Dad nearly hit the roof lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:16 AM
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Someone else mentioned that the three months salary thing was entirely perpetuated by the massively corruption Diamond corporations. I’m coming around to having something fancy and hard wearing enough but I’m such a skin flint it’s hard to get my head around ha ha. If I was marrying a rich guy with a pre-nup however yeah I’d be getting the BIG 3 month diamond lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:11 AM
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$500 seems like LOADS to me but in the scheme of things I think it’s a decent price.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:06 AM
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Thank you! This is very helpful :) Just so happens that I was looking at rings from Canadian stores on Etsy. Anything over £50 and it’ll be the most expensive piece of jewellery I’ve ever owned ha ha. Good point about materials, I hadn’t actually thought about that. My sisters engagement ring had a huge Opal in it as it was her favourite but I worried for her down the line as Opals dry out and don’t last (unlucky for a marriage too tbh :/ They got divorced last year :( ). I’m just being funny th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 01:02 AM
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Yeah we’ve been working on this and after living together for a year (together nearly 4 years) we feel like we’ve got this settled hence it’s marriage time now :) I’m not strict in my beliefs but want to respect tradition while doing what’s right for us. 3 months wages feels like far too much to me but also don’t want to undershoot and make it too little.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 10:28 PM
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I’d really prefer to get a cruelty free diamond anyway so thank you that’s really good to know :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 06:25 PM
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I’d wear it except I’d be worried about losing/damaging something so valuable (I’m an incorrigible klutz at the best of times). In our case it would mean setting a financial goal then working towards it. I wouldn’t want him to take out credit for a ring as I’d feel bad if he was ever stressed about repayment bills as now for a lot of us the futures very uncertain. I didn’t know “upgrading” was a thing. I don’t judge others for doing it but as I said the symbolic gestures important, doesn’t reall…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 06:08 PM
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There’s no shame in starting out a routine with low weights. I tried to get fit lifting but stupidly busted my knee trying to start with weights too heavy for me (I didn’t want to admit my limitations now I’m 36 and obese). I took the lowest weights and started on a simple routine of lifts for women I’ve seen on YouTube. It’s going okay and I’m building slowly. It’s more important to have a good posture and routine than being able to lift heavy straight away.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 05:05 PM
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Not everyone can be understood. Some yes but in some cases people have genuine personality problems and it can be dangerous to rationalise their behaviour as if it could be justified in anyway. I believe our human empathy and desire to be kind and understanding can actually inhibit us from moving on in certain cases.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 10:33 AM
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Hey! This is me all over! I was in a severely abusive relationship. You don’t say what happened (you don’t have to btw) so it’s not really easy to assess the situation. For example there’s a big difference between a relationship that just didn’t work out and someone who put you through emotional abuse and manipulation. Often it’s things that happened to us in childhood that can cause the deepest wounds. We play them out in our adult relationships. For me I had to go back and analyse my childhood…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 10:21 AM
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I’m encouraging him to move and come live with me but it’s tragic to have to leave your whole life behind because of one psychotic partner. He’d have to sell his home and leave his family & friends behind. She’s done this to at least two other men, I’m trying to persuade him to report her but it’s hard. We are in the U.K.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 06:10 PM
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P.S. she’s involved with Antifa so it’s “uncool” for her to get the police involved (that’s her excuse anyway). It’s more that other people in their social circle pose a risk to him now and the police will not do a damn thing about it.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 06:09 PM
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Thank you. He’s apprehensive about the police but I’m trying to persuade him to report her and press charges if he can. She has no evidence of wrongdoing on his part just false accusations. The main trouble is she’s gone to various people in the community claiming rape/abuse, the local feminist and anarchist groups too. He’s been ostracised and threatened with violence from people in his own neighbourhood. I’ve moved away and there’s only so much I can do to help from a different city. He’s got …
/r/MensRights12/09/19 04:40 PM
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What should you do with the recordings though?
/r/MensRights12/09/19 04:25 PM
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I have a friend who has recently ended a relationship with a woman like this. She’s been trying to get him beaten up and making false accusations of rape and abuse. I know for certain he is innocent. He’s recorded her being violent and threatening him with false accusations. We’re not sure what to do with this evidence and at present he’s scared to talk to anyone as he’s been threatened and ostracised. I was wondering if anyone could give advice about what to do with the recordings? It feels wro…
/r/MensRights12/09/19 04:17 PM
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