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You can try making a move but if she doesn’t respond positively you pretty much got your answer. I don’t think there’s a negative in keeping her around as a friend but if you still have feelings might be best to just cut her off.
/r/seduction27/03/26 11:24 PM
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Put yourself out there either through dating apps or cold approach. Practice getting numbers and calling girls.
/r/seduction19/03/26 05:19 AM
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All you should be thinking about is logistics. Take her to a place you can be alone or even your car and just go for it. It would be very silly to not just do what the girl most likely wants. Very silly. Good luck brother.
/r/seduction03/03/26 10:28 PM
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Because people lack the ability to close when the opportunity presents itself. Yes you can build great rapport by talking etc. which will work on the right girl, but really most women I’ve met just want to have sex and well if you aren’t giving it to them they will tell themselves they must not have liked you that much.
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:25 PM
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I’ve either gotten the validation I needed or learned to live with them.
/r/seduction01/03/26 01:55 PM
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You’re better off finding someone who can legitimately get women on YouTube or taking some of the better advice you can get here. All of the cliche pickup artist stuff doesn’t work 99% of the time. There’s a million little things you can learn when it comes to cold approach, closing, texting, physical game etc. I can’t go into everything here. They will all improve your chances at getting women. Focus on making yourself look better than average and then mass approach women.
/r/seduction27/02/26 10:23 AM
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If you really are this social savant you claim to be why aren’t you a billionaire? Bait
/r/seduction24/02/26 03:19 PM
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I think with some of the drama back in the middle 2010s it took a huge hit. But honestly it’s probably better if this stuff stays underground. I’ve also seen a lot of people on TikTok and instagram doing cold approach and a lot of my friends know what it is so maybe it’s making a comeback.
/r/seduction23/02/26 06:52 AM
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I would focus doing cold approach and use the dating apps to supplement. In my opinion you should have at least a few fuck buddies before you consider dating anybody which sounds like that’s what you’re looking for. You’re probably in the upper echelon of most guys based on what you said so all you really need to do is put yourself out there and talk to women. Good luck brother.
/r/seduction20/02/26 05:48 AM
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I’m gonna rephrase what I said so I don’t piss anybody off. There is nothing bad that will happen if you interrupt someone to talk to them or you humbly talk to a girl and ask for her number. If a girl is single why would she not give you her number or hang out with you? Could you live with yourself if you did nothing your entire life for these reasons? It’s a cool thing to not care about what people think, and I mean genuinely.
/r/seduction20/02/26 12:06 AM
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It’s okay to be rude and disrupt someone. I don’t know why you have it in your head approaching girls is creepy or rude. If a girl is single or horny why wouldn’t she give you her number or go back to your place? It’s completely normal. Really dude what would be the worst possible thing a girl would do if you approached her? Especially if you’re humble about it. You could probably even say some really aggressive things and nothing bad would happen. The worst I’ve heard happen is one of my friend…
/r/seduction19/02/26 11:59 PM
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Your number one goal should be beating your approach anxiety. There’s a lot of stuff that could help you but if you can’t do that you will regret it for the rest of your life. What’s going through your mind when you can’t go up to a women and even try and get her number? Forget the most advanced stuff you just need to learn to say hi and you’ll get laid more from that.
/r/seduction19/02/26 09:29 PM
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lol this comes off as angry confidence. I do some nerdy things and still get girls. I’ve never considered myself a dork though.
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:57 PM
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Yes you need to have a level of social awareness that you’re not crossing any lines. I feel like with how people are nowadays you can’t even teach the stuff that actually works without getting an insane amount of hate.
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:14 AM
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Confidence comes with experience. You just have to go for it. There is not going to be a situation where you feel perfect or the girl actually asks you for anything. You will have a higher success rate if you know how to have a good conversation and warm her up to the idea but at the stage you are at I would just pull the trigger. “I thought you were really cute, what’s your number? I don’t do this that often.” If you can say that, even if you don’t succeed, it will put you on the road to succes…
/r/seduction17/02/26 08:26 PM
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I fluctuate between skinny fat and skinny and honestly there was almost no difference. I was still getting girls both ways. They would complain I had a stomach but I was still getting laid consistently.
/r/seduction17/02/26 06:51 AM
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I wouldn’t worry so much about being called a creep. Pickup/cold approach in general may get you labeled as creepy. I hear people calling a guy who approaches any girl creepy. This stuff will get you laid a lot. You never know what someone is thinking until you talk to them and even then until you initiate some sort of physical touch you can’t tell if she’s actually available.
/r/seduction15/02/26 09:48 PM
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You’re number one goal should be getting past approach anxiety and being able to talk to the girls you want to talk to. Irl game is much easier. There’s girls that never go on a dating app you will approach. You’re competing with an entirely different group of guys so it’s easier to stand out. Accomplishing this goal will set you up for all kinds of success in life.
/r/seduction13/02/26 10:26 PM
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I would practice cold approaching as soon as possible. You will regret it if you don’t. Get your style and looks to at least above average and you’ll get the women in the tier you want.
/r/seduction13/02/26 05:06 AM
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What is your goal in this stuff? Are you just trying to get laid? Don’t aim to be witty or funny. Excitement outweighs all of that stuff. Mike Tyson wasn’t trying to win fights on points.
/r/seduction12/02/26 09:01 PM
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For all you know the girl might have slept with you if you were the one to text her. Unlikely, but still a possibility. Focus more on screening girls if you want better odds of closing.
/r/seduction12/02/26 07:45 AM
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I don’t have a six pack but when I had a lot more muscle it definitely didn’t hurt.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:46 AM
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He called the person a “her” and then referred to them as “him”.
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:05 PM
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Best place for that would be the mall or a college campus/city if that’s your age range. The more gentrified areas if you live in a big city.
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:03 PM
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I guess your banging some dirty girls then bud
/r/seduction07/02/26 08:47 PM
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The odds of you getting a life long STD is really low. I’ve never had any sort of cold sore my entire life so I’m assuming I don’t have it. Just wear a condom and don’t put it anywhere that stinks.
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:41 AM
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Relationships literally every girl I’ve banged more than 2 times eventually wants to start dating.
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:14 PM
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It’s gameglobal.net if you go to their group pages there should be one for every major city
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:24 PM
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Check the game global groups. I found some people in my area a couple years ago
/r/seduction04/02/26 06:39 PM
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A bigger mall, walking around the streets if you live near a big city, pretty much anywhere while you’re going through your daily routine. If you don’t live near a city with a lot of foot traffic it can be pretty rough.
/r/seduction03/02/26 03:47 PM
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I think you got some good advice but I’d like to add you usually get higher quality girls from day game. I usually only go to bars if I’m looking for quick sex.
/r/seduction03/02/26 03:28 PM
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If you’re having trouble getting going you can walk up to a girl, tell her your nervous and don’t do this often, and then ask for her number. It’s lower success rate but you have to start somewhere. Once you get more comfortable you can start mixing in other stuff.
/r/seduction03/02/26 03:27 PM
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If you play off of excitement and physical attraction it is still the best way to consistently get high quality women. If I’m on tinder almost every girl is passed around and the decent ones only want extremely good looking dudes. If I do cold approach I get hotter girls that haven’t slept around as much.
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:53 PM
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I’m not going to use any examples because you already know guys in your situation have success. Making more money will make it easier but it’s not the end all be all. If you are approaching women and doing the numbers game you will get women. All you have to do is just take the girl home and bring her to your room. It’s only embarrassing if you make it that way. If you truly don’t give a fuck about it then she won’t either. Do you really want to have success with women? Because it sounds like yo…
/r/seduction01/02/26 06:05 PM
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I really don’t know what the question is. If you don’t have the balls to take the girl to your car then take a number. Work on your social freedom and dude nobody cares how old you are at the bar.
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:51 PM
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lol that’s the big question. You could try talking to her for a bit to warm her up to the idea but eventually you’ll just have to ask. Just ask her dude.
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:55 PM
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Yes. We don’t do this to make friends dude. Tell her you find her attractive. Talk to her and when the opportunity presents itself close. When you first start you can just go for numbers/snapchats and instagrams, but sometimes the girl will want you to do more than that.
/r/seduction31/01/26 02:50 PM
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What is preventing you from developing social confidence? If you provided some more information as to what’s making you nervous or less confident in general I might be able to help. I either go to the bar or club near my house. It’s really an entire lifestyle. At the gym, the grocery store, the mall, literally anywhere if I see a girl I like I approach. I do this stuff to get laid. It doesn’t matter if the conversation is awkward. Depending on the girl it might always be awkward. If a girl is at…
/r/seduction31/01/26 02:38 PM
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lol whatever you do don’t actually try the stuff in that book. I read the book when I was in middle school and it captivated me. Any dude that actually fucks hot girls will tell you how bullshit most of the pua stuff is. The only positive is it might give people the confidence to actually talk to women.
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:54 PM
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It’s so easy compared to cold approach it almost feels like cheating honestly. It doesn’t get me as excited.
/r/seduction30/01/26 04:27 PM
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Any big city. Closest city you can find. New York is probably the best possible place to do it. Besides that I’d do malls. You have to incorporate it as part of your life. If you’re at the grocery store and you see a girl approach her, at the gym, and really as you’re going through your daily routine. Bars and clubs would also be an obvious option.
/r/seduction30/01/26 04:27 PM
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I disagree with the trying to hard thing in general. You shouldn’t treat every girl like a relationship because yea that’s just a sign you have no experience and maybe you got some anxiety going on. But you should definitely be trying your hardest to become good at pickup and all aspects of dating. Focus on figuring this stuff out and then you’ll have a better life in the long run.
/r/seduction29/01/26 05:54 PM
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You have to throw yourself into the fire. Even if you’re nervous you have to talk to that girl. Once you get started it’s actually really fun. I’ve done hundreds of approaches and nothing bad has ever happened. Do what you want to do and talk to the girls you want to talk to. Keep your head up you have the tools to succeed you just need to take action.
/r/seduction29/01/26 05:44 PM
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Find someone who knows how to do those things and learn. Just because it’s in a book doesn’t make it a perfect read 100% of the time. Do whatever body language you want, talk in public how you want, and talk to the girls you want to talk to and learn.
/r/seduction29/01/26 01:27 PM
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If you’re having success with IG you can keep doing that. Unless you have an impressive IG profile it can hurt you more than it helps. If you have like 10 followers it isn’t that great but if you have pictures that make you look good maybe with traveling/some girls I could see it being decent. As a grown man I just prefer the phone numbers and any chick that is serious about you really should be giving out their number.
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:12 AM
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I strictly ask for phone numbers. If a girl likes you she will give you her number. They usually just give IGs to guys they don’t want to say no to or they’re just trying to boost their followers. If you’re doing cold approach and you don’t ask for her number over IG/snap it’s just a bad look. Makes you seem immature. It’s gotten to the point where I even refuse to take the IG from them if it’s a dating app. I would order it like phone numbers>snapchat>instagram. That’s the order you should be g…
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:12 PM
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So I don’t really DM girls on IG. I usually just go for their phone number. I’m really good on the phone so I do whatever I can to talk to them and it’s pretty hard for them to ignore you at that point. A lot of people would say to try and schedule a phone call via text but I usually just call them as soon as they respond to me. It lets them know you got balls. Editing to add this. No matter what once a girl starts ignoring you it’s a low success rate regardless of what you do.
/r/seduction28/01/26 10:40 AM
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I think double texting is great because long term it will yield you results you didn’t get. I usually try to make a splash if I’m losing a girl by calling or just making a joke. If a girl is going to be super disrespectful and straight up ignore my previous text I’ll get her on the phone that would be my number one priority.
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:55 AM
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I just don’t think the assistant would be that insanely hot where it’s ever worth taking the risk. It is definitely a possibility that she would fantasize or have feelings about you. But if word gets out it looks really bad to the company if they find out you’re banging your assistants.
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:44 AM
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There’s so many people out there I wouldn’t jump into that grey area. I’m sure a lot of people do it and nothing happens but technically you’re in a position of power over them so it’s messed up IMO.
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:56 AM
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I think indifference is a really good thing like you pointed out. I would also like to add that even if you aren’t necessarily a natural, the guys who put a lot of effort into learning this stuff and truly dedicate years of their life to cold approach will be the only guys that can match or most of the time exceed the naturals. Great work.
/r/seduction28/01/26 06:22 AM
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You’re better off just saying “follow me” or another version of assumption. If she acts weird after that I’d just chalk it up to dead wood. Something similar happened to me and well when you swing for homeruns sometimes you strike out. There’s a million girls out there I wouldn’t let some weird chick mess with your head. She clearly was confused as to what she wanted. You triggered her ASD to use a pickup term lol.
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:05 PM
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It comes with experience. I fell hard for the first couple of girls when I was a teenager but after you’ve been through a couple heartbreaks it gets easier. What helped me a lot too was having things I’m passionate about. Find a hobby or something you truly love and the girl becomes a side thing, not your whole thing.
/r/seduction27/01/26 04:16 PM
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I agree it helps because if a girl is physically attracted to you there’s not much you can do to fuck that up. But if people get to absorbed in that aspect they might give up or stop approaching. Even if you don’t have the looks you should act like you do.
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:27 AM
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I don’t think looks matter as much as people think but once you reach a certain size you’ll have dudes approaching you instead of women. Not saying you do this but there’s a few influencers who ruin their health with steroids just to get women. Pretty dumb stuff.
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:15 AM
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You can shake someone’s hand or offer to grab it and depending on how they react it would tell you if they are available and find you attractive. It’s a tough line though these days some women are really weird about physical touch. Yes I would consider it flirting so go ahead and try it with a girl you like.
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:20 AM
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You have to use some scripted lines. Tell a girl you are nervous when you talk to her. She will be a lot nicer even if it hurts your success rate. Script out a some questions and if it gets to be too much to handle just instantly go for a number close and move on. Good luck man usually the later you start the farther you take it once you get going.
/r/seduction27/01/26 01:40 AM
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From my experience when a girl lives that far away she won’t waste your time. If you’re in the middle about things I’d say you should go. Ask her what bars she likes have a drink or two then go back to her place.
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:22 AM
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I’ve never slid into DMs with dating apps. If you do it too often word will get around friend groups that you’re pretty thirsty. Cold approach and dating apps or my 2 methods.
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:41 PM
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There’s a lot of small things you can refine to sharpen your game. Something I did when I was younger was often shorten words or use slang. You really don’t want to do that once you’re out of college. If you’re a bad texter like me you can always just call them. Also helps them build a better connection that way. I’ll call a girl and pretty much just converse and connect for about an hour and it’s a sealed deal after that point.
/r/seduction26/01/26 10:56 AM
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If a women has sex with a man without planning for it they will almost always say something like that. It is still on the man to lead the interaction but in a way that seems natural and not forced.
/r/seduction25/01/26 11:10 PM
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Congrats bro I hope it goes well for you. Only thing I’d be worried about is how things would go if it doesn’t work out. Definitely let her end things if you aren’t trying to date this girl long term.
/r/seduction25/01/26 09:35 AM
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It’s a little tough because you said she’s in the same class as you. Definitely don’t want to do anything that would hurt your reputation with other girls. She’s giving mixed signals. She may have been a little nervous when you talked to her. You usually want to go for a girls phone number and not instagram. They usually give their insta to guys they don’t want to outright reject and be mean to. The biggest sign here is how she rejected any touching. A girl can sit there and talk to you all day …
/r/seduction25/01/26 03:41 AM
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After a while you will get enough numbers to where you can text 10+ girls once a week and decide which one you want to hang out with. If a girl stops responding I usually put her into that category.
/r/seduction24/01/26 11:52 PM
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I agree the first couple times you go it can be intimidating. Interesting theory. I think after going 1-2 times it goes away. My main gripe is them blasting shitty music and you probably won’t find a girlfriend type there if you know what I mean. I gotta be super drunk just to vibe with the music.
/r/seduction24/01/26 11:50 PM
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I agree about the night clubs I don’t fancy them myself. Maybe grab 1-2 drinks and look for a girl you like and do some approaches. Thats the only reason I go. Don’t get overly drunk. It would kill your chances at anything. Most of the time I don’t stay more than an hour or two.
/r/seduction24/01/26 11:02 PM
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What are you talking about? I’m trying to teach this guy. I have no problems whatsoever getting laid. The girl usually wants sex more than me. You think women don’t have these conversations with each other talking about how long they’re gonna make the new guy wait because she got fucked over by the last one? I actually talk to women and have a lot of them as friends. I don’t know what your point is but I must have said something to ruffle your feathers.
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:49 PM
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If a girl makes it obvious she is not into you, you know we could just use common sense and stop talking to her. God forbid a dude learns skills to turn a girl on or realizes the long game the girl is playing.
/r/seduction24/01/26 10:29 PM
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Every girl has a timer they go by as to how long they will make a guy wait before sex. It could be an hour or a month. You can try to shorten that by going for it without being a creep or you can wait her out. I would also like to add that sometimes it takes women a while to get turned on. You can always wait and then try again.
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:47 AM
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Some guys play the slow game texting a girl for months sorry I just cut the games and call them. Works pretty damn well for me. I can only give advice on what works. A girl will text you or talk to you for hours and is just a massive time waster. Just because my game is different from yours doesn’t mean it doesn’t work.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:05 AM
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Wait until she texts you and then call her right away. She will know you mean business. If she doesn’t answer or stops talking to you chop it up to dead wood. This is a numbers game. You can’t get stuck on one chick.
/r/seduction23/01/26 05:12 AM
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I highly suggest the old GLL videos. They also had an approach anxiety program tailored for people just like you. I remember my first approach. My legs were literally shaking. The girl turned me down. I felt like everybody was looking at me. I felt humiliated. In reality, nobody cared. In fact they were probably jealous because I had the balls to talk to the hot chick in line. After 10 minutes I felt amazing. Like a whole new world just opened up to me. I could now walk up to any girl I wanted a…
/r/seduction23/01/26 04:56 AM
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If you can actually walk up to a girl you don’t know and talk to her I’d consider that a success. Even the people who are the best at this stuff only convert like 10% of all approaches into getting laid. I’d start by getting numbers and building up a rotation of girls you can text. Once you get to that point then you can start closing with kissing/instant dates.
/r/seduction23/01/26 03:03 AM
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What’s been best for me to avoid flaking is calling them. 90% of guys just text them. Talking on the phone helps you stand out. And there’s always going to be a direct correlation as to how long you wait to set up the date and how often they flake. Try to go for same day or next day meetups if possible. If you wait a week she might meet another guy who didn’t want to wait a week.
/r/seduction23/01/26 02:04 AM
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Dude whatever you do don’t start referring to things with outdated pua terms. 90% of the battle is filtering through the bullshit with these women. Aggressiveness and confidence. But also use common sense and if she seems crazy call it dead wood.
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:46 PM
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I still remember the first approach I did when I was 20. My legs were shaking I was so nervous and the girl rejected me. Afterwards I felt amazing. I found some friends and would spend days walking around the city approaching. I’m glad you overcame your anxiety.
/r/seduction21/01/26 10:28 PM
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The goal should always be to escalate and go for the whole thing. If you make out with a girl and it doesn’t lead to sex she might be thinking “oh I kissed that guy but we didn’t have sex maybe I don’t like him that much. Or you could just be bad at kissing who knows.
/r/seduction20/01/26 01:16 AM
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