Available-Outside-19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do Oh, I have, he was about 5’3”! He was a civil engineer - very bright, charming, soft spoken, lovely accent and gorgeous! I found him to be plenty manly. He had dark hair, enormous dark eyes and a 1,000 watt smile. We are still friends but 4,000 km’s apart cuz I moved. :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 10:02 PM
1	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do I am sorry about your relationship with your aunt. Please try not to let “one bad apple, spoil the bunch”. Family can be a complicated business. I too have had to “cull” difficult family members as well (not cuz they were bitchy, but for very warranted other reasons). I have also admired and despised people simultaneously - even those I am meant to love (blood related). ;) I have also known smart people with good/great incomes crumble under debt (terrible money management). Sometimes the more yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:04 AM
2	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do I agree with you that both genders suck! 😂 I always wanted to be taller, at the very least model height (5’7”) but instead I am 5’5”. My daughter is a model 5’10” but then one day it struck me that those five inches is not a bad thing but a really good thing (for me) cuz she goes for men taller so at least six feet…me, I don’t have to! I can wear heels and still go for someone 5’8 or 5’9” - a much larger dating pool to draw from. :) In other words, there is always a silver lining. Height, weight…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 05:15 PM
1	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do Wow! You obviously think highly of your aunt? Not! 😂Baggage? Not always. By a certain age, men and women have accumulated experiences - some good, some bad. But these can also be opportunities to learn and for growth. No one walks thru life unscathed. Bitchiness? Guess you haven’t met the right one. I know girls that are bitchy at 15! 😂 PS I am not advocating here for cougar relationships - just simply pointing out what a shame it is that there are quality women that are overlooked due to ageism…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 02:09 PM
0	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do Many men never become fathers either. I am sure there are women that gave motherhood some thought and likely made a conscious choice NOT to have children. Not all women consider this a loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 01:57 PM
1	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do You flatter yourself. Who said anything about shacking up (as in living with)? Trust me, cougars rarely take the relationship seriously! They just want a younger man for sex - much the same way older men want younger women. Except they do not want to marry, have kids with or even likely introduce you to their friends or family. It is a purely pleasurable, often secret relationship with NSA - cuz sooner or later the cougars will get bored. 😂😂😂 A lot of cougars are already mothers, they do not wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 01:46 PM
2	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do What makes you think all relationships end in children??? Most do not! The man may also be middle aged and they could both already have their own children. Genetics are also more important than age. I know fit, “young”, beautiful, adventurous middle-aged women and out of shape, surly, boring, young (biologically) women with an attitude. Would always pick the first group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 12:42 PM
-9	[deleted by user] Absolutely not #2! Tons of women do NOT like facial hair! Especially if you ever intend on “going down” on her at a later stage. As clean shaved as a baby’s bottom and don’t forget the aftershave and/or cologne aka “cat nip”.	/r/seduction	11/07/21 05:40 AM
7	Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men do Ooh complete BS Re: physical attraction! Men can be extremely shallow in this regard. They all want the “hot” woman no matter how vapid - who are you kidding?! I know attractive, middle-aged women who are educated, classy, and pull in a six figure income - yet they lost their youth and some of their looks and only the ones looking for a “sugar momma” show interest. Truly sad. Not all of these women want to be cougars or mothers - in fact, some never were mothers, as careers came first. So why st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 05:30 AM
1	25 year old virgin here. Been with people a couple times but have never gone all the way. Have a date tonight and then Netflix and chill. Any advice? Anything is appreciated. What we are absolutely missing here, is whether or not she is also a virgin? If not, then she will know what to do! She may be less scared to initiate if she sees he is shy. Only one of you truly needs to be aware. As a female, I could probably do everything in the dark with one hand tied behind my back and blindfolded. You can even give out encouragement and direction. And women also carry condoms and other goodies - gum, K-Y, coconut oil etc. ;)	/r/seduction	08/07/21 12:10 AM
2	Frustrated when girl shows interest, but no date You seem awfully hung up on ONE employee. If she hangs out with coke heads it is likely that she does it too. They sound like a trashy lot - so why bother??? Go to work, be civil with the co-workers, but who cares about hanging with them when you are off the clock? Don’t you see them enough already? And yes, ignore her…completely! Also, make it known that you have boundaries and she can kindly stay out of your “personal bubble”. It’s all fun and games…until it isn’t. Good luck!	/r/seduction	20/06/21 11:16 PM
3	My best advice for people who are really struggling: Would you date yourself? I have been thru hell but I am a survivor and yes, I would date myself. I am healthier than I have ever been: no smoking, drugs, alcohol and recently vegan. I exercise daily and I am all about self-improvement and ongoing learning. I study French online and many other subjects, I am university educated, curious about people, analytical, capable, I am financially independent, witty, and fun! I am also a great dancer, helpful, resourceful and generous. I can be inflexible and argumentative and ove…	/r/seduction	19/06/21 03:49 PM
1	How do you transition to a fun and flirty vibe? That could be dangerous to your health…don’t do it! 😂	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:59 PM
-2	Just lost my v-card Honestly, what kind of values are these?! Anyone who touches your penis or vagina that is not a doctor, I hope they mean something! Sex is an intimate act but not in this world of porn we live in. If you have no feelings for a lover…then don’t worry about your heart…it is already gone! If you just f—k whoever you want on a whim then you are actually no different than an animal. If a girl is not “worth the pain” then maybe don’t use her as a sex toy?! You can still get her pregnant or catch an ST…	/r/seduction	07/06/21 11:48 PM
1	My first approach and why I'm an idiot Yes and no. Yes, to sporty and no, not 19. ;) Just a bit older, lol. My youngest child is 23. 😂	/r/seduction	07/06/21 11:31 PM
2	How do you meet more nerdy women? Ummmm…talk about something that reveals your knowledge and invites her to add to it. You will either be pleasantly surprised or quickly learn not to bother. Difficult to have a lively conversation in a library due to noise “bylaws” 😂 Talk about something nerdy, not shallow, and if it goes well ask them out right there to continue over a coffee (hot beverage) or Alcohol (assuming they are over 21). Universities have lots of people that pay large sums of money to learn stuff - hang out there. Mayb…	/r/seduction	07/06/21 09:06 PM
2	My first approach and why I'm an idiot Before…or else what is the point? Also, you could find yourself receiving a fake number.	/r/seduction	07/06/21 09:00 PM
-1	Just lost my v-card Not sure what type you go for - a “thot” as in a slut or whore? Wow! I got my heart stomped on after 24 years of MARRIAGE so I think I can qualify that as long term.	/r/seduction	07/06/21 05:25 PM
-1	Just lost my v-card ??? What are you saying here, it seems incomplete and makes no sense?	/r/seduction	07/06/21 05:13 PM
6	Just lost my v-card Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. We can learn from our losses it leads to personal growth! Everyone should have their heart ripped out and stomped on at least once in their life! 😂	/r/seduction	07/06/21 03:59 PM
2	Just lost my v-card Congrats, I guess?! When I lost mine, I kept it to myself. If you wish to keep getting laid, it would behoove you to learn how to NOT kiss and tell. ;)	/r/seduction	07/06/21 03:56 PM
1	How do I find people to sarge with Online dating	/r/seduction	07/06/21 12:44 AM
2	How do I find people to sarge with Nah, that was a long time ago and I have moved since then. I used to dance like a demon pre-COVID. But I have done NoTHING throughout the pandemic. May use OLD again when the time is right, which sadly is not now. :(	/r/seduction	06/06/21 05:41 PM
-1	How do I find people to sarge with What the heck? Ewwww. A mob of men trying to pick up women! In the “old days” we drove a cool car around - it was called cruising. There was this one long street in Vancouver (Robson Street) where it was narrow and so many people walking around and driving expensive cars. You drive slowly up and down several times. So fun especially on a Friday night (business men in suits everywhere - which appealed to me as I am female) or a Saturday night (dance/club crowd). Miss those days!	/r/seduction	06/06/21 03:59 PM
1	My first approach and why I'm an idiot I think as long as you are healthy, being old is a wonderful gift, no awkwardness, experience, and way more time to have fun than when younger and always busy and too much responsibility. :)	/r/seduction	06/06/21 02:58 AM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU I think you misunderstood…I am female and so is my BFF. That is why I let her be “the boyfriend” lol.	/r/seduction	05/06/21 12:53 PM
3	How to Have Women Come To YOU I have a friend that is too trusting. She thought that if a date was set - it was in stone. She would book the salon, get her nails done etc. Be all excited and blow $2-300 to get ready for said date. Ummmm…the day of, nothing. I would say so what time are you meeting again? She would get flustered as the time wore on. An hour before she would text and then again. You guessed it, he would not respond - just vanished. Sometimes she was blocked or discover his account was taken down. I felt that h…	/r/seduction	05/06/21 11:37 AM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU Depends how much time you wait between the time you set the date and then ask the day before. A few days is reasonable but a few weeks? Not really, it is even cocky and you may discover she made other plans with someone else that seemed more interested or serious. Feel free to test that theory.	/r/seduction	05/06/21 10:52 AM
-7	What to do when two girls give you their numbers at the same time? That’s shallow...but if she is more your type hopefully in other ways too, then fine.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 10:23 PM
1	What to do when two girls give you their numbers at the same time? Take both numbers, thank them and then figure it out later.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 10:21 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU I just think your advice is an oversimplification of what women want. It seems to be a broad generalization and I guarantee you that not all women are the same. What you think may add some mystery another woman may find annoying and even think they are being ghosted. What do I know? I’ve been a girlfriend, a wife and now I am back to being single.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:36 AM
1	My first approach and why I'm an idiot This was all great, but...just say “are you single?!” If she does not provide her number, just play it cool and then end on a positive “enjoy the rest of your day”. Too many missed opportunities because I was shy. :( That is why the expression “youth is wasted on the young” exists! When you are older you may have confidence in spades, but the opportunities and invitations may diminish. ;) Learn from this, move on, and better luck to you in the future!	/r/seduction	03/06/21 09:54 PM
1	My first approach and why I'm an idiot I’m thinking he is. ;)	/r/seduction	03/06/21 09:50 PM
2	How to Have Women Come To YOU I completely agree! It’s a risky tactic if the guy plays this non-communication cuz the stable ones will not waste their time on games. If I communicate properly I deserve the respect of a response. NOT in a minute, an hour even a day. Cuz I am not that clingy/needy and I have a life. But more than that (unless a reasonable reason, go a week if you must, cuz I know people live on their phones) then it is a waste of my time. And time is a precious commodity, and I, like everyone else is not getti…	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:48 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU My BFF over texts guys and it is pretty boring stuff honestly. I think she drives them crazy with the incessant texting. I tell her to hold back. I think it comes across as too desperate. Besides, I know that a man will move mountains and rearrange his schedule if he is interested. I prefer to be chased at least initially. ;)	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:07 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU Aren’t they just a normal person? Aside from Henry Cavill, I have yet to meet other “supermen”, demigods and gods.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:02 PM
7	How to Have Women Come To YOU If you leave women alone and leave them hanging they become insecure and assume you are not interested. The strong ones will move on quietly and find someone else. No one wants to feel rejected.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 04:15 PM
0	Is it really so hard for girls to understand we are in into them?! It’s a yes or no answer from her in THAT moment. Good lord, what is there to mull over? Forget her, and do what u said...find someone else.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 10:51 PM
1	Funny Cold Aproach Sounds exactly like Leonardo DiCaprio in “Catch Me If You Can”. 😂	/r/seduction	25/05/21 12:10 AM
2	Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be Approached Good god! Get her drunk? Brilliant advice...and it all goes spiraling downwards from there. How about you dance with her instead? Women love a man who can actually dance!	/r/seduction	24/05/21 05:55 PM
1	Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be Approached Do NOT stare especially if behind a mask! It is creepy AND freaky...she will think you are a serial stalker/killer!	/r/seduction	24/05/21 05:51 PM
1	Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be Approached Just smile and nod cuz you want to be friendly - Canadians are notorious for this. Then politely excuse yourself to the washroom...and find an open window and crawl out! 😄	/r/seduction	24/05/21 05:49 PM
2	Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be Approached Until you travel to Canada! 🇨🇦😀	/r/seduction	24/05/21 05:45 PM
0	Cold Approach I don’t think he is “doing” 5 to 10 girls a day! Chatting to them, yes. 🤣	/r/seduction	23/05/21 02:52 PM
1	Cold Approach This sounds like door to door sales! Yikes! If I was observing you doing this and then you approached me, I would not be impressed at all. Seems far too desperate and inauthentic. Women are not like a “run on toilet paper BOGO free sale”. Try the library instead - at least right off the bat you know she is likely literate and possibly smart. 😀 But just remember to tread softly and speak quietly. 🤫 Whispering can be sexy. ;)	/r/seduction	23/05/21 02:50 PM