Available_Space_3361 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why can’t they just apologize? Yeah I don't get it either. My STBXW is like this, I don't understand it. Like, she can't even apologise to our kids if she's been over the top or mean and upset them. I know it's not all women because my exes weren't this bad (my first proper girlfriend was the nicest one actually, then went downhill after that, culminating in my wife - you would have thought I'd have learnt something 🙄)... but are most women like this? From my limited ex count, it seems like it might be? Or I'm just attracted …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 12:16 PM
1	Guilt is holding me back This is something I also struggle with but, from what I've read and learned, this is about setting boundaries... so not asking her not to but giving consequences for crossing your boundary. For example, you could leave the room, the dwelling, spend a night elsewhere etc. if she crosses the boundary you've set again. Boundaries are for you to set and uphold.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/24 11:25 AM
5	Food for Thought Dude, learn to love yourself first. Your ex may have had a lot of relationships, but is that fulfilling really? It wouldn’t be for me… use the time now to improve yourself and the rest will come	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/24 09:25 AM