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three
/r/seduction16/08/26 05:20 PM
1

they pull back like literally after the first text or approach/interaction usually
/r/seduction16/08/26 03:02 AM
1

every single one pulls back though
/r/seduction15/08/26 10:49 PM
1

right now be alone sexless and just hope for the best
/r/seduction15/08/26 06:01 PM
1

they go out of their way to get with men that are taller than other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:29 PM
1

why is 18-24 considered being picky
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:24 PM
0

Because who the fuck does he think he is thinking I should risk being in danger just for him? You yourself do that anytime you interact with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:22 PM
2

How do you know that it's your "baby face"? Has any woman told you that? yes lol multiple have told me I look like a kid so I can't take them out
/r/seduction15/08/26 05:18 PM
2

same thing for me bro I'm 20M have a baby face and women my age aren't all that attracted to me or take me seriously. I've had multiple women younger than me remark that they're too old for me upon approach. doesn't help they usually prefer older men as well.
/r/seduction15/08/26 05:15 PM
1

nope women purposefully select for taller men (in comparison to other men, not themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:39 AM
1

yeah because they can't all date them, they're either not desired by them or they're not available to them (not in their circles, already taken, using them for sex) etc. but they all desire the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:37 AM
1

Because they both are to different women. They're outliers so they have more "allure" than an average joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:34 AM
1

new york city
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:19 AM
1

not many parties either all of us live with our parents
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:11 AM
1

not many clubs at my school
/r/seduction12/08/26 04:06 AM
4

if she's telling you bad jokes she's probably already attracted to you
/r/seduction04/08/26 01:01 PM
6

That's only you and explains why you're so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:18 AM
4

university or school still requires approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:18 AM
1

crazy I just came off a post of a dude saying absolutely don't use social media to date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:16 AM
4

Someone who can understand the bear vs man discourse. You really tried sneaking this in there like no one would notice 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:17 AM
2

rather spam cold approach tbh
/r/seduction02/08/26 03:23 PM
5

and if we were to approach ourselves, that would give us a better chance of finding non fake and fickle people? I can attest that that's not true. If a woman does the approach herself it's a pretty high chance she's not fake and fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:12 AM
1

My profile has good photos to me 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction01/08/26 11:13 PM
1

yeah that's if you can get girls to swipe on you though
/r/seduction01/08/26 10:11 PM
1

I'd consider that a success
/r/seduction01/08/26 09:51 PM
3

online game is easiest how?
/r/seduction01/08/26 09:49 PM
-2

You don't have to date people to understand if they're basic and boring or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:41 PM
5

Men want non fake and fickle people to start a conversation with them if they're interested, it's not a hard concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:35 PM
10

How are women, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:05 PM
6

You're the one that mentioned fake and fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:46 PM
2

The apps and social media haven't benefited me in my 8+ years of using them to try and date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:32 AM
7

starting a conversation maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:23 AM
-1

It is an option if you're not interested in them, you just turned it down. That's the optionality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 11:45 AM
0

Reason? Or you just didn't like how he said that?
/r/seduction30/07/26 01:18 PM
2

100% of women coerce men into sex. They put on make-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:15 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:22 PM
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Nope I have no female friends and my male friends don't know any single women my age at all apart from their girlfriends. Maybe cousins but how would I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:14 PM
6

You could always just withhold sex until deep into a commited relationship. Would filter out most of the men leading you on but also all the men that prefer sex before commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:50 PM
1

That's something that usually happens by luck or chance though. It's not really actionable advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:44 PM
4

Except the aggressiveness is welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:40 PM
1

This can be avoided pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:39 PM
-3

No they're a nuisance if they're not attractive to the aproachee regardless of sleaz or creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:37 PM
2

some men didn't, the vast majority of men never started.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:45 AM
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I acknowledged your comment with the first sentence of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:37 PM
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Well if you don't want to nobody's forcing you. We're saying it would make this a whole lot easier though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:19 PM
2

news stories of men lashing out vs the vast majority of men saying they would love to be approached and acting appropriately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:02 PM
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you first need a society where women can approach without being labeled desperate, easy, or promiscuous, and where they don't have to worry about their safety after expressing interest. Congratulations, it's here. Women are scared nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:10 PM
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where do I find girls with the "attracted to me" trait?
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:27 PM
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well I am 18-20
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:26 PM
49

Women aren't attracted to men? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:26 PM
19

because it's difficult and doesn't always work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:28 PM
4

Nope just the reality of some men trying to date women who get disqualified before anything can occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:11 PM
5

I can't bring value to others if I don't get the chance to in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:41 PM
4

they do it for sex
/r/seduction17/07/26 07:07 PM
-5

Wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 AM
-5

I'm not convinced y'all aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:16 AM
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So how are y'all attracted to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:11 PM
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So why don't they take initiative and approach the guys they're attracted to instead
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:29 PM
3

Hookers aren't attracted to me, guy.
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:57 PM
3

what would you rather
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:56 PM
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ALL of them?!
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:56 PM
1

how are you supposed to deduce what it is that needs changing
/r/seduction14/07/26 12:10 PM
1

wow, genius! how have I never thought of that 😅 fuckin dumbass
/r/seduction13/07/26 02:45 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction13/07/26 02:44 PM
1

I already don't and we already have to level up to meet regular women's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:54 PM
1

What would that accomplish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:43 PM
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i don't see incels or men who claim "no woman EVER want anything to do with me!" I do. The fat women and single moms don't even want most men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:41 PM
0

That's because men like all sorts of women. That's our point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:39 PM
1

From my observations, she is. Women will say they don't care but really do get turned off by vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:35 PM
1

Sure I'll agree with you on that point but most women don't agree or will say they agree but actually get disgusted when a man shows any sort of vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:48 PM
2

I know what women go for because I see what they go for. They're not attracted to crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:41 PM
1

I know this from observing women's behavior. You can't listen to what women say and take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:33 PM
1

You're in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:27 PM
1

People gather to have fun at lectures?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:30 PM
3

Social life option only works if you already have a rich social circle of people your age include opposite sex that are single or know single people, as well as the skills to form romantic connections as well as meet new people. Cultivating a social circle to form romantic connections is a losing endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:59 AM
1

I'm furious about covid but what can we do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:57 AM
1

I’m married to a man who helps with housework and makes me cum. Guys like you call him a beta simp. Nope, no we don't, we'd all be able to accomplish that your husband isn't rare or superman or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:50 AM
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Women select for guys who are fun, can generate a connection, and have some balls. So a fuckboy. Making him seem altruistic doesn't help.
/r/seduction08/07/26 11:28 AM
2

So there's no practical difference
/r/seduction08/07/26 11:25 AM
5

Every male in each species in existence in history has had to "do a song" to get a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:41 AM
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Men gotta realize most people dont want to soothe their insecurities 24/7. Is that what you hear when you hear be desired? Then...BE A BETTER OPTION. Kinda goes against your argument... we are trying to be better options by being more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:20 PM
0

In order to attract women, yes, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:18 PM
2

You're an extreme exception. There's nowhere for most guys to go to just find someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:46 PM
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And why do you think we stopped approaching and are afraid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:22 PM
3

Lmao, like where? Where are these pua women approaching average guys hiding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:14 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:22 AM
10

Okay...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:07 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:57 PM
12

Ironically, this is why we don't open up. When we do nobody understands us and it leads to ridicule of our wants/needs. "Open up, but only about the things WE want you to."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:54 PM
2

What you posted can be explained in a few sentences. We care about our brothers more deeply than we do women (that are not our wives). Nothing to do with sex or romance. Brotherhood survives because it has had to. When a man only talks about women as cum receptacles who can clean then talk about other men and turn into breedable gushing admires that is more than brotherhood. He's a misogynist. What breedable gushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:26 AM
5

Brotherhood and companionship. What do those words mean to you? Are those homoromantic concepts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:17 AM
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Another weird femcel rant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:40 AM
2

Literally, I don't know how this would be possible. I don't have money or time to go out so it would have to be daygame.
/r/seduction29/06/26 08:59 PM
2

yea but the overall commitment is 18-21 years for the both of us if done correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:14 PM
1

Yeah, believers in God's ability to make a woman (or girl) pregnant with his child immaculately, not a woman's ability to impregnate herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:09 AM
1

Wow, God's human son/incarnation. The one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:07 PM
10

Women can't birth without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:29 AM
2

"God-like ability to create life" Do God's typically rely on humans to use their abilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:24 AM
3

I think that's an antisocial behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:02 PM
1

So your unironic opinion is we should adopt North Korean thought crime law
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:43 PM
1

"Actually, they do that in North Korea, so, it's okay."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:29 PM
1

Nope, why would I? Use your eyes and ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:15 PM
1

I hope you realize an inability to fix these issues preventing social connection isn't the same thing as choosing to have no friends. Treatments for depression and anxiety are available but don't always work and are typically long term commitments. ND can still have fun hobbies but it may be a barrier to social connection. These men have been excluded and rejected by every single person and social group? Every single one? Repeated rejection and exclusion leads to self isolation and hesitation to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:14 PM
3

I'm saying what if they are nurturing relationships outside of romantic to the best of their abilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:56 PM
6

Depression, anxiety, neurodivergence, lack of opportunity, lack of financial freedom, lack of independence from parents, exclusion by peers, rejection, social isolation caused by external factors, regressed social development.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:41 PM
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What if they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:22 PM
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Not for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:21 PM
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No, doesn't mean they chose it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:21 PM
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Perhaps there's something about being denied sex and relationships that causes an anger that obviously wouldn't be experienced by women since they never have that issue. The amount of testosterone we have and social conditioning probably exacerbates this condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:38 PM
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Women aren't fucking evil rotten men to placate them though. You're just attracted to them. You're not actually on any mission to placate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:34 PM
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the fact that it needs to be faked is the issue we're having
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:29 PM
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You can't lock people up for thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:27 PM
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When did they choose that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:26 PM
2

doing absolutely nothing - disrupting her peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:31 AM
14

not really
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:15 PM
1

Lucky, where were you when these happened typically?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:31 PM
1

were you regularly approached as a single man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:55 AM
3

so far on 2026 6 approaches. 3 instagrams the rest are rejections or non asks. I'm 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:53 AM
1

Rule 6 guys aren't necessarily the same type of guys as those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:30 PM
1

Men don't require women to do that. Matter of fact we declare time and time again we prefer natural beauty but women get those surgeries for themselves and to attract rich men with status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:47 PM
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I think a lot of us grew up in an era where we were told to stay out of the way and not bother people. This. I rarely have the ability to start conversations with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:44 PM
2

Damn is that considered small?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:38 PM
5

Do you ever post anything not critical of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:09 PM
1

They do that. The men that don't, are usually the ones they complain about being too nice or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:19 AM
0

It's generous since it's realistic in comparison to women's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:58 AM
2

you all focus on a smaller amount of women that attract more men because they are above average. Haha, no, no. That's women. Let's stop it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:55 AM
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It's hard not to if you have a brain that thinks things.
/r/seduction23/06/26 05:38 PM
0

Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:25 PM
0

so that goes back to the question if they actually like you... what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:08 PM
1

you're confusing desperate with insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:01 PM
1

you can be both. you have to be both actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:59 PM
2

I'd date anyone I'd sleep with if they're up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:47 AM
2

I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:06 AM
1

You're trying to turn me against my own body. I will not be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:45 AM
1

Do women on a whole routinely? No clue. Will a given woman for the right Chad? absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:37 AM
5

kind of sociopathic to treat women you date as sex workers you don’t have to pay for. "It's insane to treat a consenting adult as a consenting adult"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:30 AM
2

What if there is no audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:28 AM
5

Simply making friendships with the opposite gender in these workplace or classroom settings cannot be this hard. As a college student it's kinda hard bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:37 AM
7

I've tried that approach before. It's a massive time waster when the other person doesn't feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:36 AM
0

they're correlated with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:21 AM
1

No I've never asked my friends to set me up. My friends are awkward needs that know no women just like me, they just happen to know a women that finds them palatable. Someone from the group initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:21 AM
1

I go out with friends but don't do anything conducive to meeting women (they're mostly taken). My outside hobbies are male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:52 PM
1

We're looking for relationships, getting a relationship isn't any easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:36 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:34 PM
2

Why shouldn't women solve this problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:15 PM
2

Why are you assuming it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:42 AM
1

common sense thanks for agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:50 PM
-1

pretty girl who goes 50/50 but takes care of you, births your kids and does chores for you. is this supposed to be a lot to ask for? after all the ridiculous shit you have to do as a man to even be considered as a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:53 PM
-1

then don't go on dates if you don't want sex to be expected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:49 PM
2

You can't even quantify getting better without some sort of analyzing
/r/seduction16/06/26 12:11 PM
2

I have a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:54 AM
7

Nice I'll do this and instantly disgust them because I'm 5'7 and look 15 at 20
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:20 AM
0

Sounds like a cool fantasy but in reality women don't have a sixth sense like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:34 PM
0

What would sufficient emotional depth and transparency from a man look like to you and why is the current version of they give you insufficient in more depth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:14 PM
0

So what if the answer is yes for all four and women still aren't approaching you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:35 PM
1

This isn't a good approach because getting to that top percentage of men that actually receive female attention is incredibly difficult and impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:33 PM
-2

I don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:01 PM
1

the 1500 men you slept with is still a small sample compared to 4 billion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:18 PM
1

I've been sexually assaulted by more than 50% of the people I've been naked with. Anecdotal evidence, men you've been naked with is a small pool with potential biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:02 AM
2

Where a man is likely to do unspeakable, heinous things "likely" 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:53 AM
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I knew this was a Lilith post before I saw the Lilith post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:44 AM
1

0!
/r/seduction07/06/26 05:46 PM
4

Have her being comfortable with you taking her home. Hardest part of it reduced to one sentence
/r/seduction07/06/26 05:36 PM
2

It's incredibly difficult to just go up to someone and start chatting with zero indication that they would be open to it.
/r/seduction07/06/26 05:33 PM
3

Yeah I actually try to ask questions about them all the time. It like turns them off or something.
/r/seduction07/06/26 03:37 AM
2

"Women are hypergamous and therefore men have no options, but men are too picky even though they swipe on the bottom 90% of women more than women do men".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:19 AM
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Just because you're willing to date down or settle doesn't mean the majority of women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:52 PM
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We'll believe it when we see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:30 PM
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You're in a vast minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:30 PM
4

Underestimating? If so no you're the one underestimating the amount of women who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:19 PM
3

Well I would use my knowledge of the English language to ask more about the movie to see if I would like it first obviously.
/r/seduction06/06/26 02:01 PM
8

You're grossly overestimating the gap in social skills between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:00 PM
1

I just don't encounter enough attractive women my age in settings where approach is acceptable.
/r/seduction04/06/26 10:25 PM
1

wtf 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:21 PM
1

The compliment can he sincere and still take effort. Expecting a thank you as part of social contract isn't bitching about the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:18 PM
1

So if something takes effort it isn't worth doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:33 PM
2

It varies. Maybe a socially anxious person would require more effort. It atleast requires a small amount for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:10 PM
6

You can already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:11 PM
2

But, doesn't that create a bias for people who are born good and never are lied to and mislead for an easier path being considered good? Or does being lied to and mislead have no negative affect on morality at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:23 PM
1

But, doesn't that create a bias for people who are born good and never are lied to and mislead for an easier path being considered good? Or does being lied to and mislead have no negative affect on morality at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:23 PM
1

But, doesn't that create a bias for people who are born good and never are lied to and mislead for an easier path being considered good? Or does being lied to and mislead have no negative affect on morality at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:23 PM
1

Not in my experience.
/r/seduction31/05/26 06:50 PM
0

Says who? Why must good people stay good people after being lied to and mislead?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:36 AM
-1

was thinking of making this post myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:50 PM
5

I can only display how useful I can be in a relationship if I was able to get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:53 PM
4

practice
/r/seduction21/05/26 02:14 PM
1

that's the main issue
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:09 AM
3

wouldn't be necessary I believe
/r/seduction21/05/26 03:47 AM
29

how do I become a smooth black guy
/r/seduction21/05/26 02:47 AM
6

Woman don't like it when you ask them directly for sex, maybe you do but on average they don't. Activates their anti slut defense.
/r/seduction20/05/26 04:29 PM
4

My God just don't go out with people you don't wanna fuck
/r/seduction20/05/26 04:05 PM
2

The nature of women is to be hypergamous. Whether or not that's a good thing is up to interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:13 AM
1

There is no issue. I'm simply stating the truth of women's "attraction" to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:54 PM
-2

It's real I see it everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:23 PM
-4

I'm saying women are only attracted to certain percentage of men and the rest are invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:23 PM
-1

Didn't say there was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:58 PM
-7

They're straight but only attracted to men with above average height, looks, money, or status most times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:41 PM
5

Women can walk outside and find someone. Men, it isn't that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:15 AM
0

A. because I am a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:08 PM
4

I feel like I never see women my age around. And I live in new york. It's usually old women or highschoolers, never college-aged 18-22 unless I'm at school obviously.
/r/seduction18/05/26 09:20 PM
1

so show interest in a guy it doesn't make you a nazi
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:47 PM
6

my steak is too buttery blah blah blah
/r/seduction18/05/26 04:15 AM
36

is there something wrong with women's brains where they think showing interest in a guy is akin to being a nazi
/r/seduction16/05/26 03:24 PM
2

Do you think matching with 5 people is equivalent to finding a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:14 AM
0

Good one.
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:50 PM
-1

the horror.
/r/seduction14/05/26 03:51 PM
4

yet they go crazy for violent criminals, abusers, cheaters, scumbags and assholes, literally all the time.
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:58 PM
19

well where is it jackass
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:27 PM
2

Lmao Hinge is terrible for that reason I get genuinely zero matches instead of close to it bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:20 AM
1

You can do everything right and the people you're attracted to or pursue just never like you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:11 PM
4

Yeah same. I get looks on the street and at my college campus but I don't have the balls to say anything 99% of the time.
/r/seduction12/05/26 01:00 PM
1

When I do nothing happens.
/r/seduction12/05/26 04:08 AM
2

What about money you want to spend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:10 AM
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even if she's not interested in touching your penis any time soon? why would I be in a relationship with a gay? asexual? not attracted to me? woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:08 AM
3

Yes, but that would be it's own thread or a topic of a specific thread not the overarching about of the sub itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:31 AM
2

They hate it when you disagree with them over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:17 AM
3

Is that what this sub is about? I thought this was just gender threads sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:16 AM
6

The internet is the only community most men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:13 AM
0

Are the incels actually saying that? Or are you reading their valid complaints as misogynistic criticisms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:11 AM
0

It just isn't as simple as "figure out what's wrong and fix it".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:10 AM
5

I find it pathetic that men need so much guidance. Also, why can’t they just be themselves, literally. If just being ourselves worked then we wouldn't need guidance. Since it doesn't, well...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:06 AM
1

I've glown up significantly and it has helped much. Women will look but nothing further.
/r/seduction11/05/26 10:59 PM
1

But no one swipes right on me on Tinder
/r/seduction09/05/26 04:44 PM
1

A lot of things go into being a good man more than just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:08 PM
1

So we're ignoring the kill all men movement of 2020? Name a manosphere talking point where they want to inflict harm on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:07 PM
1

I treat people well in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:21 PM
-1

Yeah, when they're comfortable, they should have sex with good men over the abusers. "Maybe you should stop having sex with abusive men and instead the good men you keep requesting" isn't the same as "You owe yourself to the good men. Give yourself to any good man who desires you."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:54 PM
0

It's not that women owe sex to anyone. I never used that terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:50 PM
0

They can but they will rarely so no. Women's bodies are their bodies. Sex is a completely separate thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:47 PM
1

Giving something doesn't mean it's not enjoyable for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:46 PM
0

It literally is something women give and men get. Whether you like or not women are the gatekeepers to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:43 PM
3

Not talking about you in specific, the keeping up was short lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:23 PM
-2

Well if you agree that it's enjoyable and rewarding why is a bad thing to say it shouldn't be given to abusers and should be given to good men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:22 PM
14

They’ve never met the boring normie women who work retail and go home to smoke weed and play board games with their roommates, or the ones who garden and host brunch parties etc. We have. Rejected over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:10 PM
-4

Something enjoyable for two people can't be considered a reward? Semantical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:07 PM
-3

Yea thanks for keeping up, stop fucking the abusers and start actually rewarding the good men you ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:46 PM
5

As a universally ugly person you're having success on the dating apps?
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:23 AM
0

Atleast you got the hookup.
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:22 AM
2

What's the difference between seducing a woman and simply having a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:54 PM
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Great argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:48 PM
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University ever heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:38 PM
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Studying Biologist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:18 PM
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You just described 21st century feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:46 AM
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He posted that as evidence that incels aren't more prone to violence...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:38 AM
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What males are you meeting that are extremely violent? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:36 AM
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Men have been seen as disposable since the beginning. It's nature. We can breed many women but women can only carry one child every year or so safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:34 AM
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Damn I wish I wasn't afraid of women before my glow up so I could have something to compare to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:28 AM
1

Nope no one's saying that. We're saying sex and romance are needs for a successful relationship. Nothing about deprivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:09 PM
1

Yes? No? Kinda a trade off I forget about. They come back when I go a T-break though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:11 PM
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Well I'm saying that in a relationship (the context of the situation) romance and sex are needs not wants. Is that not relevant to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:23 PM
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What's that gotta do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:18 PM
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It's a need for a relationship. So is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:57 PM
1

Well she approached you, so it's not could be easy it is as easy as 123.
/r/seduction05/05/26 06:02 AM
3

It could if the person was interested in basketball and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:14 AM
3

Well, I just named a couple if you didn't see that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:11 AM
4

I play and watch basketball. I play video games. Learn new interesting things. I do things that I find interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:04 AM
5

I'm the most interesting person I know. Women don't agree though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:41 AM
4

So should we all try to act like this blue pill dude that fucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:31 AM
2

What events? I don't even hangout with my friends with their girlfriends, we typically just go to the park or movies or something else as a guy group. Like what would I say, let's go to this place but make sure you bring your girlfriend and tell her to being her friend? Seems weird.
/r/seduction04/05/26 09:28 PM
1

be a whole different person?
/r/seduction04/05/26 09:23 PM
2

Damn isn't that what I am though
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:19 PM
1

So am I supposed to pester my friends to somehow put me in contact with their girlfriends friends on the off chance we may fancy each other?
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:08 PM
1

But it's only good if you can actually connect with someone So I've heard, idk though I think it would be pretty good either way. Can you actually see them without contracting into fear or projecting into fantasy? Yes. Where is the desire in your body, and does it arise in relation to every woman In my head, no. Or do you just desire the idea of them, or some of them? I desire getting laid. Or a relationship with a woman I get along with, if that exists.
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:04 PM
4

Because I have a sex drive like a normal healthy human being and rather not goon myself to death
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:47 PM
2

Are they actually easier to get with?
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:24 PM
1

Friends with girlfriends how does that help?
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:23 PM
4

Meanwhile this question for men: "Last time a woman spoke to me was before Obama was elected the first time..."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:17 PM
1

maybe we are but that alone doesn't mean much at all
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:49 PM
1

yeah cuz that would be weird...
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:58 AM
3

chicks dig that
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:12 PM
-1

I don't wanna do my male friends weirdo.
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:01 PM
0

Yes, with male friends. I don't have female friends.
/r/seduction03/05/26 10:25 PM
2

Gang if they're already watching TV with me one and one I've already done most the work...
/r/seduction03/05/26 09:28 PM
4

But I wanna get laid
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:47 PM
16

If I can't get laid trying then I definitely won't get laid not trying
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:58 PM
1

and he's okay looking. idk why people always say him like he's ugly asf.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:14 PM
1

I'm not basing it on attraction. I've seen women choose assholes/cheaters/abusers/criminals, have them do their whole sha-bang, and STILL take them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:03 AM
1

Not true. Just because the product isn't being bought doesn't mean the product is bad. Reservations have to be made for positioning, targeting, and timing. Also the product may be good but not valued by the current market. I have no idea what women choose? What do I not have eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:45 AM
8

On a bus? Teach me.
/r/seduction03/05/26 01:00 AM
4

I'm not for forcing anyone to dance with anyone. I'm for allowing there to be spaces where people can find dance partners that mutually want to dance with them. Also the child in this analogous situation isn't an actual child but a dating aged person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:50 AM
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Unfortunately I sacrificed my dreams when I became a stoner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:57 PM
46

excitable? 😭😭😭😭
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:53 PM
3

and they’d appreciate it in men. Maybe. Not all the time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:51 PM
1

The right things vary for each individual and even further for each potential prospect. So the majority of men aim to be more universally attractive. Fitter, healthier, richer, and better socially. However this takes time. So you can't just say the efforts are being put into the wrong things, it's more like "your effort is seen and appreciated, however you're still not attractive enough, so keep trying."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:48 PM
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Nope, you said women were dramatically more open minded. That includes all women. If women were more open minded than men none of us would have trouble dating, because men are vastly more attracted to the average woman then the vice-versa. The only women men see as sub human are like 1-3s. Where as the majority of men are invisible in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:40 PM
0

If women were dramatically more open minded this conversation wouldn't exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:25 PM
0

Why would that be a bad dude thing if we're specifically told that good dudes get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:23 PM
1

Effort should bring results, however effort doesn't magically make women attracted to you. So therefore you can but effort towards all the right things and see no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:20 PM
1

You're assuming unattractive women have lower standards than attractive women. Nobody's guaranteed a fat chicks love more than they're guaranteed an attractive chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:18 PM
0

It's about women trying to survive with men like you around. Ah yes, the unselected horny man. The greatest threat to women worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:13 PM
3

The majority of us are worth choosing or working towards that. Especially when you look at what women choose and see that it's not much anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:10 PM
7

What would you consider seeking a dance partner for everyone and why would that action be harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:44 PM
13

They choose abusers/cheaters/criminals/assholes all the time. But god forbid the guy is a little neurospicy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:46 PM
10

A community should seek that every child has a dance partner. It's better for the child and the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
1

I have a group of friends and get no play
/r/seduction02/05/26 03:27 PM
0

I do all of this but they never want to go on the date, bail, or ghost.
/r/seduction02/05/26 03:24 PM
1

You also don't have to do this, right?
/r/seduction02/05/26 03:23 PM
1

audibly laughed at this one 😭
/r/seduction02/05/26 09:35 AM
5

and what do you do it they don’t wanna take your lead
/r/seduction01/05/26 12:08 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:23 AM
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So how are you speaking to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:57 AM
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I play basketball. Now you can name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:31 AM
2

So it's an ideological thing? Or does the latter behave differently in their approach or treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:11 PM
1

What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:39 PM
0

So if you agree that sex is part of relationships why are you against seeking relationships with sex in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:04 PM
3

Funny you think that's even accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:57 PM
1

So sex shouldn't be part of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:51 PM
2

Is this being presented as an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:48 PM
1

Unless you're Lebron James or someone like that you won't get the mass of people to worship you like a king brother.
/r/seduction28/04/26 08:15 PM
-7

Sex is an equivalent exchange. You can't have sex with someone and expect more from them just because you had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:09 PM
-1

How does this analogy work at all? What agreement did you enter with the man that you were scammed out of?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:03 PM
1

If the men are anything like me, no.
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:46 PM
5

Nobody knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:34 PM
4

At what level of refusal to work on their social skills would you consider lazy? I agree that outright total inaction is lazy in most cases. But other cases where a man is working with what his life situation provides and maybe isn't seeing any results yet, that wouldn't be lazy. Like for instance signing up for their university clubs, but nothing further than that, would you consider that lazy? This whole argument also assumes that working on social skills absolutely leads to more dating succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:29 PM
5

"More"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:21 PM
5

So you see how it can't be true then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:43 PM
7

You claimed refusing to work on social skills means you're lazy, which can be considered true in some cases but not in others. There's no way to debate against a statement like that where such nuance exists. It's flattening of a more complex issue. It’s also unfair to assume that all men who struggle socially are unwilling to improve or are unaware of their shortcomings. Many are actively trying, consuming advice, practicing conversations, and learning from mistakes but progress in social skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:25 PM
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It isn't written well. If you refuse to clarify on your points, why even make a debate post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:09 PM
5

Is that what you mean? Well if that's what you're trying to argue I don't think anyone disagrees. People who are jackasses are just jackasses. There's no social skills work to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:51 PM
7

Well, "work on your social skills" is a massive simplification of what actually needs to occur, and it isn't easy to accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:42 PM
1

As long as your motivation gets you to do good for yourself and others I couldn't care less what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:05 PM
4

We were born to chase vagina for reproductive purposes. It forever will be the greatest motivator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:45 AM
1

Sex and companionship. Why does anyone want a relationship ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:43 AM
1

What does anyone gain from being in a relationship with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:55 PM
5

Are you a representative of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:33 PM
3

The reason this viewpoint is so popular is because the media portrays sex and relationships as something normal people have. This coupled in with seeing couples in public and friends getting sex/relationships causes alienation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:26 PM
7

"Hey guys, don't rape people!" "Um okay, already knew that, wasn't planning on it".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:22 PM
6

Oh please, women are cold and standoffish when they're not attracted. Stop tryna make it complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:18 PM
-1

I don't believe that the average women doesn't have many more passable options for both sex and relationships than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:16 PM
14

Every time you tell a joke you run the risk of it not landing. Maybe people associate this continual risk taking with high status/confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:23 AM
3

Yes, game is more fun once you're good at it, universal thing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:57 AM
2

So social circle game is a lie?
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:42 AM
10

knowing how to attract women doesn't guarantee them being attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:06 AM
1

It could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:08 PM
1

You said to this other guy that the reason he doesn't hug his girlfriend and friends the same is because he wants to have sex with his girlfriend. That's the difference you chose to contrast the two relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:07 PM
1

Taking a critical look at something usually requires it existing and being noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:17 AM
2

You assume they're more sexually open.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:15 AM
1

Because you want to fuck your girlfriend. Well yeah, wanting to fuck someone is what makes them your partner, exactly. You're saying it yourself relationships are about sex. You can't say relationships are about sex and then get weird when they're about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:13 AM
1

Playing basketball with someone I want to have sex with could be considered romantic. Playing basketball with my friends just isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:09 AM
0

Cool, been doing that 4 years now. Still not High T Mr Confident.
/r/seduction20/04/26 04:51 PM
1

Which comes with being older
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:51 PM
1

Romance, okay, but is sex not relevant to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:43 PM
1

And why should someone's sexual preferences/habits not matter in a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:54 AM
1

Why would it magically not matter then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:52 PM
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New around here? here being the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:57 PM
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The same reason women are mean to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:55 PM
2

have no sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:51 AM
1

you can’t even tell us what year any of your “friends” were born let alone anything else about them Why is this such a common talking point? Completely made up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:25 PM
4

It's not an insult if you don't take it as one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:53 AM
2

I'm scared.
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:05 PM
7

You just made this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:16 AM
-1

One man out of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:02 AM
5

I disagree that dating is easier today. It's easy, maybe even easier, for women, because technology, like you said, has women have access to many different options. Men, in the meanwhile, are forced to deal with the little options they can get. You said most of is weeding through non options, but men also have to do the same thing. The chances of 5/5 options being shitty are higher than 50/50 or 100/100. It can also be assumed that due to supply/demand women are allowed to be more "picky" with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:20 AM
6

So it isn't easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:59 AM
4

As a woman, you naturally have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:48 AM
9

So dating should be easy from your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:41 AM
7

You're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:26 AM
0

And what reality are those wishes based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:24 AM
7

I mean, the chances you get a match with 50 are obviously higher, that's how numbers work. That's why they make you pay for unlimited swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:13 AM
6

3 swipes that won't match back 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:39 AM
4

Unfortunately, I don't think a random woman coming up and kissing a dude is a thing to rely on.
/r/seduction08/04/26 07:59 PM
91

Still a virgin and a gooner, but I notice that when I don't masturbate for a day or two before going to school or going out I'm more motivated to talk to women, yes.
/r/seduction08/04/26 02:47 PM
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exactlyy, like why can your boyfriend not guard me? something must be wrong with you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:26 AM
3

Trust me y'all can still pull Gen Z despite what they might claim
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:16 AM
2

Attraction isn't a yes or no thing, varying levels of attraction exist. So women make men they're less attracted to jump through more hoops than men they're more attracted to. For most men, some sort of hoop jumping will be required if they want to sleep with their type. To answer your question directly, some men will sleep with women that are less attracted to them because they simply can't spark that burning desire. And these women will make these men jump through hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:44 AM
4

They do but they vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:30 AM
7

It's not about that, it's about attractiveness being the barrier to everything that comes after. If they're attracted to you, no/very little hoops are necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:27 AM
5

Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:37 AM
14

If they're attracted to you, that'll work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:36 AM
13

The hoops vary from man to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:36 AM
-1

no and technically yes but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:16 PM
9

So if you were white in the 1800s you would just let slavery slide
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:50 PM
4

Yeah. People can rob you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:51 PM
6

Use apps if you want 1-2 matches a week with no text back*
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:34 PM
2

I'm 19 and get zero matches
/r/seduction31/03/26 06:52 PM
1

Examples? Like what would a good boyfriend offer that these products aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:32 PM
6

SEVEN YEARS?! I was in 7th grade when she started doing this 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:29 PM
15

this is a shitpost 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:22 AM
-3

Can't "earn back" a taken dick. Nothing is lost from taking a dick. It may only make you seem more "whoreish" to red pill type guys. That's the only "loss".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:32 PM
-4

The money you earned is permanently lost. You have to earn it back. And you lose perceived value from a subset of men that care about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:19 PM
-12

Money is lost permanently you can always have more sex without losing anything of importance or having to gain it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:48 PM
2

I mean obviously some women do just let us fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:47 PM
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Dating apps suck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:33 PM
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Hey, she's allowed to avoid half the population of the world if she wants to, leave her alone!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:30 PM
2

So where's the part about you giving him attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:20 AM
2

What did you say to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:54 AM
1

Only way to know for sure is to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:33 AM
3

yeah ppl act like being yourself is a magic formula for attraction
/r/seduction27/03/26 06:10 PM
1

I'm able to do all of that and it doesn't work, so anything more would be considered jester work right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:35 PM
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get money and fuck bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:55 AM
1

So basically I have to do jester work in order to make sure people are enjoying my company if I want people to like me better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:00 AM
2

Preselection is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:47 AM
3

antisocial doesn't exactly mean introverted or socially anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:46 AM
2

Not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:43 AM
1

Maybe most of the guys you've been with, or the men the complainers have, but that doesn't speak for the general population of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:18 PM
1

Most men understand that and atleast make an effort to get a woman there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:45 PM
1

It's because their lives are void of actual problems so a thing like lack of orgasms bothers them deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:47 PM
1

It's a parallel, but we're talking about sexual attention from women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:41 PM
1

Good thing that's not what the situation detailed in the OP is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:44 PM
4

If they're the type of woman to give me sex while the others won't, kinda have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:35 PM
1

More surface area the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:34 PM
10

I wouldn't mind it. I wouldn't not like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:26 PM
2

Damn. Each and every time I leave the conversation alone, that's the end of our conversation. 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:06 PM
1

Women text first?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:56 AM
6

Yeah, safe guy took longer to take her panties off than the other guy. What are we missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:37 AM
1

If you catch me looking at you from across the room like I'm trying to work my brain into something to say, I probably like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:11 PM
1

I don't know what they are.
/r/seduction18/03/26 03:46 AM
1

How do you identify being spineless is what I'm asking. How do you spot the behaviors and how do you change them once you do. I'm not asking for specific advice, very general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:38 PM
0

Well then give an example of a man being spineless and people pleasing then give what he should be doing instead. I don't know what that looks like so I can't give you one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:24 PM
3

Why must I define spineless if she's the one who uses it first? If you're gonna say men can't be spineless, you must have an idea of what that looks like and how the person could change it. My question was perfectly fine and answerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:03 PM
5

If you're gonna recommend something, atleast make the advice actually worth something. Otherwise there's no point. Grow a spine is a meaningless euphemism that doesn't help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:00 PM
5

A spineless man pursing a woman isn't a tangible situation to give advice on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:04 PM
6

yup, as I thought no tangible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:59 AM
5

What are the main things you suggest changing in a spineless man's behavior when pursuing a woman to turn them into a vertebrae instead
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:35 AM
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Framing consensual sex between adults as abuse is genuinely degenerative to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:40 PM
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I mean it's a sex therapist. That's what he's paying them for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:39 PM
6

Yes, but we can't enforce what people's preferences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:13 PM
2

Same way you'd describe a man that's a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:08 PM
2

Have you ever considered that whether your dating patterns, preferences, or lifestyle aren't conducive to finding actually good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:49 PM
13

There are good men to choose from. You're just not attracted to/compatible with the most of them, and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:23 PM
1

Central Park maybe, the mayor I don't see. And Cench is kinda far.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:52 PM
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are those things supposed to be positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:12 PM
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I don't even know where to start looking for that kind of thing tbh. And I'm in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:52 PM
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Student, content creation, gym. No job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:04 PM
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No time and no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:00 PM
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But I don't wanna
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:59 PM
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Easily, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:05 AM
6

it's pretty rare he'll get an outright rejection if his approach is honest and vulnerable. we must live in two different dimensions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:05 PM
12

It's the way you worded the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:00 PM
1

I understand my own subjective understanding of reasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:59 AM
2

"Reasonable" is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:39 AM
2

We understand reasonable standards. Not dating dangerous/potentially dangerous men for example. It's when standards become delusional or start altering how people see each member of the other gender that they become problematic for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:20 AM
0

Two things can be true: men value love, men value sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:29 PM
0

Why is seeing relationships as a barrier to sex degenerative or toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:58 PM
1

This would only work if there were lines of good women to choose from ready to reward themselves with my cock, like it would be if I were a woman with the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:58 AM
1

What makes it a lie to desire the more desirable thing before the less desirable? Casual sex for men is desirable. Relationship without sex isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:39 AM
1

chasing women who clearly aren't that interested for one reason or another. This one, women just aren't all that interested in most of their potential suitors so they look for all those "beta bux" things before they give up their prized possession (sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:31 AM
2

No, it's a reality that's been documented many times on this very website, but good try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:22 AM
2

You can want a relationship and still be mad someone got to fuck with no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:20 AM
3

You desire to be physically wanted as well, it's just not an issue because it's already present. Men are always going to physically want women. Men, like you, also want to be desired for their personality as well as wanting their physical desire to be atleast partly reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:15 AM
1

If men having sex with insufferable bitches isn't reward for the insufferable bitches Who says it isn't? Why else would they be doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:02 AM
1

Okay cool, relationships are a barrier to sex. degenerate and filled with toxic ego. Yeah no, it's completely natural to want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 07:41 AM
0

I didn't call you a femcel, I called your rant a weird femcel rant. A femcel rant doesn't have to come from a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:38 PM
1

Well typically people have expectations for how the person they're going to be dating is going to act. Which is perfectly okay unless it's a man expecting something of a woman apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:11 PM
0

Are you real? You were the same person making absurd assumptions in the exact comment I replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:08 PM
2

Well it's not what we're asking for, and this is part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:01 PM
-3

There’s cuddles, cooking, hanging out, dates, etc. All of this can be done after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:02 PM
0

Well men like sex. That's never gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:01 PM
1

Everyday and no sex, absolutely unheard of right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:00 PM
-1

Yeah, women shouldn't be expected to do anything at all, we get it after 10 comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:42 AM
6

So this is what you hear when men ask for respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:33 AM
-4

Weird femcel rant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:31 AM
1

Initiation, desire to be in my company, acts of kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:28 PM
8

If that was really the first filter how do women end up with abusers so often?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:02 AM
1

For 5, I genuinely don't get any matches even swiping on everyone though. How am I supposed to be able to tell who'll match with no sample size?
/r/seduction06/03/26 08:03 PM
6

I'm 5'8 and make $0 a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:18 PM
1

I only go for women who show a significant level of desire At what point in your pursuit is that desire typically shown
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:10 AM
7

How can the power dynamic ever be in my favor if I still have to ask for the contact info, set up dates, initiate sex etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:55 AM
1

how are you meant to feel great about yourself before the success? confidence comes from success.
/r/seduction04/03/26 04:21 PM
6

I refuse to exhaust my time designated for other things or my dignity. Everything else, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:07 PM
1

It's a dyphemism for intersex hangout. I assume hanging out with a woman friend is similar to a platonic date. And if I could meet women that play basketball or play video games I wouldn't have an issue being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:01 PM
1

Yeah my friends have their own hobbies as well but we still hop on the game and link up and play basketball. With a woman...? Platonic dates just don't seem too interesting, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:37 PM
0

Because I want sex? lmao okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:01 PM
-1

Why would I make friends with women if they don't share my hobbies? I want someone to Netflix and chill with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:46 PM
4

Is it "simply talk to women" or "simply know whether or not this woman is single and open to being pursued romantically at this moment then talk to her"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:08 AM
3

Men like women that make them feel desired. Same as women and their men. We're not all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:20 PM
6

Oh yeah, for sure it's a sausage fest of very much real meat. Just don't see many real women there at all.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:34 PM
6

Do you actually find real people in those subs? The New York ones are typically all bots and onlyfans models. And don't get me started on the apps.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:25 PM
4

I agree, women love sex with men that are attractive, safe, and care about their pleasure. My issue is that that type of man (in the eyes of women, I disagree) is so rare that it just seems like overall women are disinterested in the idea of sex with most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:41 PM
1

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:33 PM
1

If you take because out, the main idea is still women don't like sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:26 PM
4

But they're not, and men usually enjoy sex with women. You just said it wasn't the same for women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:25 PM
1

Yeah, never pretended otherwise. All I'm saying is that that means it's not equal, sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:24 PM
2

So basically, you don't like sex with men because it's often bad and unsafe. So you don't like sex as much as men. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:23 PM
3

Men are only seen as potential threats and/or financial comeuppance by most women today, it seems. Actually getting a woman to give your personality a genuine chance is a hassle in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:26 PM
1

Whatever happened to sex being a mutual thing? Guess that died with the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:22 PM
5

If they require safety to be horny, then they want sex less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:19 PM
2

If they didn't want to be seen as puzzles maybe don't be so puzzley 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:16 PM
2

I don't like coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:17 AM
2

My guy, who has the funds for all that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:34 AM
3

That men shouldn't be expected to want more than sex with women? Literally what I wrote down?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:14 PM
2

That just isn't what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:12 PM
2

Yeah, it is. I basically stated the opposite opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:08 PM
-1

Not really. you said men wanting only sex is too common, and I just disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:04 PM
1

you said it's more common than it should be, is that not what you were referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:59 PM
-3

Men don't owe wanting more than sex to women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:57 PM
7

Why would Tim invite someone with poor social skills and who is new to the hobby to his party?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:33 PM
3

basketball, but only men show up to the court. video games, but it's only men in the lobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:30 PM
8

Like what? Most woman hobbies are largely boring. Why can't I just find someone who likes tv shows and video games like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:29 PM
10

Yeah I'll take the 1000 options and run my chances, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:35 PM
1

yet the apps work for you?
/r/seduction24/02/26 12:13 AM
2

Well, no, not really, fine, no, and no. But it's probably more an anxiety/self-esteem thing than a poor social skills thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:29 PM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:55 PM
4

How can you tell if you have social skills or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:53 PM
3

dating apps? clubs? bars etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:01 PM
86

"It's actually pretty easy, just follow this multistep process to even have a chance at it."
/r/seduction20/02/26 11:40 AM
1

we = the dudes you may describe as being perpetually sodomized by a stick. tried = "being aloof, letting go".
/r/seduction20/02/26 11:03 AM
2

Understood, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:21 PM
1

So sex after first date can only mean only looking for sex, but sex at any other point after can mean looking for a relationship as well? Men can have sex with a woman on the first date and still be romantically interested, it isn't unheard of. I think if I were a woman looking for a relationship, I'd be more interested in whether or not he seems interested in me as person and not the specific timing of his sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:08 PM
1

If you cannot make me feel special via your sexual attention unto me, then why am I expected to make you feel special via my sexual attention unto you? Good point, so if a man is interested in a relationship and wants sex early on how would you expect him to make you feel special in order to earn your sexual attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:11 PM
1

But you just said sex is a mutually enjoyable experience? So now we have to have things in order to acquire it? Is it not inherently mutually pleasurable?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:06 PM
0

I'm not familiar with that phrase, but maybe it refers to men feeling more loved when fucked, not that men instantly fall in love with whoever does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:52 PM
0

Men can fuck people they don't love. But if you love a man and want the same you should fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:44 PM
4

Well yes, things are easy for people it comes easy for. I could dunk if I trained vigorously, Victor Wembanyama doesn't even have to jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:03 PM
6

Well if it was that easy...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:55 PM
0

It's really not that simple "just let go of all of your anxieties and inhibitions", like we haven't tried that.
/r/seduction19/02/26 07:54 AM
4

You're right, the idea of being loved for one's self by it's lonesome doesn't exist in practicality, however, the bar for women's self to be loved is disproportionately lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:09 AM
0

What effort is being put forth with that? Just don't go out with lunatics, it's pretty simple idk why women act like there's some secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:04 AM
3

Below average, at what? Finding compatible partners or being a compatible partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:57 AM
5

Well women have vaginas. So you all have inherent value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:49 AM
6

bar to be passable for a woman is so low that anyone that fails to be above it is doing it to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:47 AM
2

There needs to be more respectable people in the world, so as a respectable person I owe it to the world to raise more respectable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:22 AM
1

I'm in NYC and do shitty
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:20 AM
0

Just because in your opinion men were worse to you than in your eyes women are to the average man, doesn't justify holding negative views for the whole gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:40 AM
-2

I can list off every bad thing a woman has done to me as well. Still not "wary" of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:47 AM
-2

It depends, was this young man abused by a woman when he was younger? Just because it's less common doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:45 AM
0

well what's the difference between becoming that guy and becoming someone who gets laid?
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:57 PM
10

he's studying rizzonomics
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:43 PM
3

bcuz that guy gets laid
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:21 PM
17

How would people know if I'm good at sex if I can't get laid
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:50 PM
1

In college, how do you do it? Like what do you say?
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:17 AM
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Are you straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:11 AM
1

How do you meet girls in classes?
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:42 AM
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Woman? Body? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:13 AM
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Nope, women my age almost exclusively go for older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:46 PM
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No, if a man wants a relationship with you it's because he likes you, why else would we tie ourselves to you? What's convenient about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:44 PM
5

Women aren't as dumb as men. Literally, no woman talks like this. You are a man pretending to be a woman. What are you rambling on about? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:14 PM
2

I like this one. If I wasn't broke I'd give you an award. Just kidding, I definitely wouldn't.
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:15 AM
1

Aren't they supposed to give you shit and pull your leg like that when you join the army?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:13 AM
1

You realize men are victims of sex crimes as well right? 😂
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:08 AM
1

We would rather do that, if it worked. Sadly the patriarchy invented courting and things of that nature. Suck it up and deal with it like the rest of us.
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:05 AM
5

Is it really the comment history keeping them undesirable though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:44 AM
2

what made those strangers "safe enough for sex" strangers and not strangers danger like the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:22 PM
3

thought it was just me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:21 PM
6

As a incel who talks to women as people and doesn't seem them as inferior, I can confirm that doesn't work either.
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:52 PM
1

There's a middle ground lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:32 AM
2

Most of you of are serial narcissists and don't even recognize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:21 AM
0

The law? What hypothetical did I make up and why was it ridiculous?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:59 PM
-1

So what exactly is wrong if they leave then after you have sex, if they don't share the same values as you anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:34 PM
-1

So you withhold sex so they can't leave after?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:37 PM
2

It's commonly referred to as "sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:00 AM
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She's definitely gone mad with reddit sickness. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:47 PM
7

Women have no idea how many shitty women men encounter out there, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:00 PM
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I'd like to get rich either off streaming or something else, maybe dabble into designing clothing, have someone maybe fall in love with me on the way, retire (preferably early) move away and live alone (or with wife).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:45 PM
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Why would/should I change my behavior to conform to this though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:24 PM
1

Sounds easy enough once you've done it enough times.
/r/seduction28/01/26 09:00 AM
1

the free version is hard asf to get success on imo
/r/seduction28/01/26 05:12 AM
1

In an effort to do this, as well as to not say anything stupid, I end up saying little to nothing at all and giving them the ick anyway.
/r/seduction27/01/26 01:06 PM
3

her cleaned up not looking crazy and fanned out would actually be decent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:17 PM
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but it's really comments like these that create dudes like him though
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:03 PM
1

Must be nice being older and having a babyface. At 19, unless i wanna be on a list, my babyface is nothing but a disadvantage.
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:02 PM
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Yeah. It was right after our second date. Our first date was when we were seniors 2 years go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:41 PM
4

Most recently got ghosted by my highschool friend. Last message was "Wanna video call later, around 6?" Must have been too scheduley.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:07 PM
1

Girls are supernatural creatures that can smell your insecurities, your overthinking, your phony lines, your forced bravado. Oh, you were being serious.
/r/seduction23/01/26 10:32 PM
3

No, it's "why should I bother playing when the game is rigged and some people are born with hacks".
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:49 PM
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Sex, when not for reproductive purposes, IS (mutual) masturbation 2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:57 PM
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Lol, and watch misogynistic Chads score again and again? I'd rather chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:57 PM
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No, y'all actually invented that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:51 PM
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"Or, men or evil instead of having reasons why they do things."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:09 PM
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normal dudes don’t like women all that much, they like sex and putting in as little effort as possible Yes, men like sex. Yes, men like sex with little effort. Yes, men like women. Yes, men like relationships with women. You only have to find the man that likes you. A person who actually likes you is rare, Yes, this is a reality we all have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:16 PM
1

Exactly, that was my first sentence. Refer to the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:50 PM
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If you CHASE men out of your league that don't really like you, sure. If you PURSUE a man in your league and/or that really likes you, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:37 PM
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You're never going to understand and you're intentionally not understanding. Pot calling the kettle black. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:28 PM
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Exactly. Men want relationships for quality time, making babies, etc, sex just being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:25 PM
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There is no relationship without sex, for any self respecting straight non asexual man. So to try and separate the two ideas make no sense, especially for a man. What is the goal woman have anyway, take a man on 6 dates and then ghost him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:19 PM
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Women are trying to vet out guys with hidden intentions Why is sex always referred to as a hidden intention? Do women not automatically assume a guy they're speaking to wants to have sex with them? Men don't enjoy long vetting processes because it feels like being strung along in hope of something they've wanted from the beginning. Long vetting processes almost always come in place of low sexual desire as well, which is obviously a turn off. Men want women with burning sexual desire for them tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:02 PM
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I can want the coat but still desire the money because money allows me to buy nice things in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:45 PM
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Or perhaps you lack the ability to see things from a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:42 PM
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So why is getting it through a relationship being demonized again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:55 AM
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"Men can want sex AND relationships". NOT "Men can want to do relationship activities and the vetting process without any prospect of sexual attraction or logistical chance at sex". I dont know how many times I have to say this: If you see relationships as the cost of sex rather than the goal, you don't want a relationship. If I want money to buy a nice coat, do I still want money? Or just the coat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:51 AM
1

so a dog can be a fish?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:24 PM
2

so the lgbtqidgaf community created all those labels and sexualities for queer/bi-curious men to be still labeled straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:14 PM
1

some women like casual sex whereas no straight guy likes their penis in another man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:50 PM
17

Women only require jester work from men they're not really attracted to to compensate for their lowered physical appeal. Only this doesn't guarantee said jester any added romantic or sexual appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:25 PM
1

arguing and mansplaining Where does discussion about empathy for men's experiences devolve into arguing? How do you expect men NOT to mansplain their own experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:31 AM
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So, in the case that a man is in fact working on his mental health, studying, practicing mindfulness, communication skills, etc, would it be appropriate for him to request empathy/sympathy/approval from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:26 AM
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Empathy or sympathy would personally make me feel validated since that means the person I'm talking to can more easily understand my experiences, personality, mannerism, etc. On top of that, empathy in general is attractive. All subsets of simply being respected as an equal and fellow human being, of course. Wouldn't you value empathy or sympathy as a character trait in your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:04 AM
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Validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:40 PM
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Not when knowing that value takes the form of arrogance and condescending behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:38 PM
1

Is that what you hear when we ask for empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:36 PM
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going to therapy, taking care of their health, working on their personal skills... trying to earn what they want. Who says they aren't? Rather, what I see are the men demanding that approval be given without doing anything to earn it. I disagree. Can you give examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:35 PM
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And to answer OP's question, simply understanding this makes a woman so much easier to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:28 PM
1

Nobody knows why she did that except her though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:15 AM
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You're right I wasted your time completely by responding in a slightly satirical way to your reddit comment. I deeply apologize and it won't happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:14 AM
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Dude, I didn't even mean to interact with you in specific, I was just adding my thoughts to the thread (agreeing with you?). You wasted your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:10 AM
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They LOVE doing that, must be part of being bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:02 AM
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Thing that gets me though is like OTHER people seeing me I hate my brain, even though I KNOW they're gonna forget within the hour, it, or the thought of it, still feels so damn humiliating in the moment.
/r/seduction18/01/26 09:48 AM
1

In the same vein it should also be normalized for young men to not be required to meet hyperidealized standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:17 AM
1

In the same vein it should also be normalized for young men to not be required to meet hyperidealized standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:16 AM
1

She'd think I'm some virgin loser, and she'd be about 75% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:30 PM
1

If I'm not talking I'm thinking of something to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:24 PM
3

apparently men need dyslexia testing though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:05 PM
1

No, as long as you aren't ridiculous about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:28 AM
1

Isn't that what courting is all about though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:08 AM
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but WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:09 AM
2

Impotent frustration at WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:56 AM
1

who initiated at college and how
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:36 PM
6

So how come every girl isn't with the hottest available guy available?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:15 PM
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He only does it so quickly because she allows it since she's vastly more physically attracted. There is no doing it quickly for non hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:20 PM
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Do women actually sexually respond to being courted, though? It seems they respond better when not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:14 PM
1

talking shit about people requires a social circle that just doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:34 AM
4

Make it easier for people to partner up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:43 PM
6

Where's this idea that minimal effort is being put forth by men come from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:22 PM
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"They" = egotistical losers, don't associate with these types.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:46 AM
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Your life is completely void of dopamine traps? You're on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:49 PM
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Realize easier access to sexual partners also by way means easier access to viable potential partners. Basically the other cases. Not to mention the obvious that some women do care for it, seeing as it would otherwise never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:27 PM
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Isn't this a broad generalization. So no woman benefits from easy access to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:45 PM
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can you not be a cocky idgaf nice soft spoken man who attends therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:42 PM
2

Sub par? What exactly makes a man sub par?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:56 PM
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Lol, well if you're not a willing participant in dating culture than this doesn't apply to you, and your participation in the thread is confusing at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:42 PM
2

What's the relevancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:35 PM
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I'd rather the smartest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:34 AM
5

Cool, but when do we know to start dancing or prodding if it just depends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:53 PM
2

There are multiple
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:03 PM
3

Yup, common synonymous term for that, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:26 PM
6

Men absolutely have social consequences for acting stupid with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:10 PM
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By getting to know women in social settings so that she actually knows you before you ask her out. Much easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:03 PM
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Humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:02 PM
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varying emotions
/r/seduction16/12/25 06:13 PM
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They are by men with self respect, simps will still simp though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:03 PM
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Antisocial? How'd that work out? They're obviously some form of charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:25 AM
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Plenty of nerds aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:24 AM
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Just objectively untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:18 AM
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Women want bad boys that are "good" (largely puts up with their shit and will vaguely stick around) and men want good girls who are bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:15 AM
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That's what you guys believe, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:23 AM
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Mutual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:28 PM
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When you're already pre-selected it's much easier to come off as genuine versus a less successful and therefore perceivingly more desperate guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:47 AM
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You're basically rolling a die for the chance the woman is attracted single and open to being approached, which depending a number of factors is slim to slimmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:51 AM
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No, OF is porn. It's the same thing. You can't argue against porn and it only be the professional slave trade type of porn you're arguing against.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:04 PM
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A place other than home and work/school. Bars, clubs, parties, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:56 PM
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Not interesting =/= don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:51 PM
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your friends: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:43 PM
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It's magical how some people genuinely never see things multiperspectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:23 AM
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And/or women can have the mental capacity to stop generalizing men based on the actions of a few, anecdotal or not, and therefore be able to have conversations without running the risk of traumatization. And this is more feasible than asking "bad" men to stop doing bad things since we already ask that, and it's easier to have "good" women just simply stop having prejudice against respectful courteous men. Seems like a good start to healing today's damaged dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:39 PM
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they never do
/r/seduction03/12/25 05:43 PM
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I mean that's what we have to do anyway regardless of setting. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:23 PM
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What if the only place you see women aren't exactly approach friendly (college campus, gym, etc.) would it be okay to run the risk in that scenario, since you're out of other options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:55 AM
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Does the setting matter as much as being respectful and taking no for an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:47 AM
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How would a woman know your friend has a huge dick from a dating profile? Does he mention his huge dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:44 AM
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Wow you ended up doing exactly what he said you would do. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:51 AM
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No he's right. OP is just comparing the video game difficulties to dating since they're widely recognizable and straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:23 PM
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No it does because it's the same concept. Why does anyone ever want to experience something for the first time ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:11 AM
2

Why do people want their first job? Or their license?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:30 AM
2

who's to say the woman isn't looking for a meat stick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:22 AM
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Only if the woman also sees the guy as a potential relationship partner, I'd assume. Which to your own logic is improbable, since this is the same person that can't even be used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:41 PM
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So no man has ever lost his virginity outside of a potential relationship partner. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:29 PM
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we've gotten to the point where consensual sex between adults is being demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:54 PM
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Who would also in all likelihood be using op for sex as well. Let's move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:53 PM
3

You see the students that are doing fine and don't realize the same or larger quantity of students that just aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:22 AM
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It's easy for tall people to reach things that are higher than short people. Is that a reason to hate tall people?? I've unironically seen this happen before lol. "Victor Wembanyama is 7'4, of course he should be blocking 5 shots a game"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:31 PM
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Well obviously a woman has to first be on a dating app for us to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:21 AM
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Maybe the ones that approached often became the attractive ones and the ones that didn't subsequently stopped due to lack of experience built? Therefore, I say the difference is persistence not actually attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:19 AM
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If the numbers are already out of my favor why would this be a smart move?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:12 AM
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There is simply no way for me to feel liked there. The amount of men who didn't ask me questions and i had to carry conversation would surprise probably anyone. There is no effort and if it's expected they try to negotiate the reward, and there is no way to feel liked or that he is open to it from that. I don't like to feel piece of meat. I hate to repeat the common "choose better" sentiment, but there exists men that do ask questions and start conversations. And I'd argue that they're bountiful…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:59 PM
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Women discuss whether or not to have sex on the first date all the time. It's just they're the decision makers that decide whether the sex happens or not.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:51 PM
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Feels like no one does that anymore
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:40 PM
1

all of what you just said doesn't stop you from taking action
/r/seduction14/11/25 01:53 AM
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Women almost never plan dates. Rarely do I text a woman and they actually ask questions back. Women also don't ever text first in my experience. There's shitty low effort people on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:06 PM
2

That's a your friends issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:01 PM
6

So no man has ever wanted to have sex for the sex according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:51 PM
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Seems like a whole bunch of work. How does anyone ever seduce a woman man.
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:09 PM
1

What would this even look like in a talking stage
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:04 PM
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Not me = too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:07 AM
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she says no we have to go on three dates first, that is NOT ON YOUR OWN ACCORD. That is ON HER OWN ACCORD Not a huge fan of arguing semantics but that wouldn't be "not on my own accord" unless I don't voluntarily do it. The term you're looking for is "at my own demand". Painting the picture that woman should be subservient and nonautonomous is something I'd expect from the likes of you, though. Why would a woman want to fuck a dude who can’t even talk to them? I can "talk" just fine. Being shy d…
/r/seduction08/11/25 11:05 AM
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on your own accord, how the fuck would it not be on my own accord Why the hell would women be sexually attracted to a shy person? Women are attracted to criminals, abusers, scammers, cheaters, but I guess being hesitant to start conversations is a universal deal breaker.
/r/seduction08/11/25 10:37 AM
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This is ridiculous. Otherwise women REALLY don't like me.
/r/seduction08/11/25 10:06 AM
1

I like video games and basketball though
/r/seduction06/11/25 04:46 AM
1

Well if that's what you're into and it's a committed relationship by all means. In the context of casual sex it's considered foreplay typically. And I have a feeling it's not that hard to come by as you're making it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:03 PM
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Is it really that hard to find a guy that does foreplay lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:44 AM
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And if he has tried the advice and it hasn't worked what then? Is it still his personality doing the repelling? What makes you so sure his personality is repellant in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:37 AM
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New personality slop dropped, OP point proven 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:06 AM
5

"predatory" what's predatory about pursuing young adults
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:36 PM
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younger doesn't mean minor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:04 PM
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Standards are too high to be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:46 AM
2

It does in the context of finding compatible partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:47 AM
0

My PHYSIOLOGY? Are you familiar with my physiology?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:46 AM
2

When you simplify it it's the same requirements. Until you consider that women consider less men pass the baseline than men do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:44 AM
4

Men aren't desired in today's society. Men want to be desired. Being desired for many men means sexually desired by a willing partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:30 PM
2

Well thankfully just because a dead guy said something doesn't make it universally true. Either way, if you see it as a bonding activity then it's clearly different then taking a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:26 PM
2

That's true but we're talking about sex here. An action enjoyed between two consenting parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:31 PM
2

What if they're a virgin or haven't had sex in 3 months anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:35 AM
3

If taking a shit wasn't an action you can take at any moment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:27 AM
1

It's not, but it may seem like it's the latter from an outside perspective, especially when most the things women find sexually desirable coincide with common life goals for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:20 PM
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Alot of the time it does take effort to get laid though. That's just how human sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:55 PM
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Daily "male sexuality is bad" post is here guys, hooray.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:52 PM
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At 5'9 you're average height. It shouldn't be an issue since most women are shorter than that. If it is an issue, move on to someone where it isn't.
/r/seduction23/10/25 10:30 PM
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If they existed, either I or they were too dumb for me to realize it.
/r/seduction21/10/25 07:44 PM
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There is no easily finding connections, even if you're generally liked/fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:59 PM
6

So are they really redpill then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:20 AM
2

Regardless of anything. Seeing as you are able to terminate the relationship if the terms seem too unbearable. Your partner, a presumed straight man, is naturally going to want to have sex with you, a presumed straight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:19 AM
3

If you're in a relationship you should be prepared to put out cook and clean regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:12 AM
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Never tried to argue that sex obsessed freaks don't exist or aren't walking around doing freaky things. I just said social media blew it out of proportion and now women in general just are afraid of men. Like you can't approach a women in person anymore without her assuming you're a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:41 PM
1

Two things can be true at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:42 PM
5

Women are scared out of their minds of interacting with men because social media convinced them we're all sex obsessed rapey freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:43 PM
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Talk about sex itself sure but male desire for sex is still seen as taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:05 AM
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What is it about most men that makes them incompatible with you? Or vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:37 PM
1

I mean there could've been people a virgin was mutually attracted with but never had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:51 PM
1

he makes up stories for reddit, maybe, but you scroll reddit looking for stories and posts to snark at. cheeks of the same ass buddy.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:06 AM
1

Why try and appear pre-selected if I'm not? Is it that important?
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:02 PM
2

I go to a commuter college (no dorms), how can I start a social circle? Currently know maybe one person there, I'm a sophomore.
/r/seduction19/09/25 01:37 AM
1

Wdym you waited 3 years for your wife?
/r/seduction18/09/25 12:37 PM
1

Yeah, for me, it's the initiating the conversation part that always gets me. I always feel like it's a bad time, or I'd be too bothersome.
/r/seduction17/09/25 08:42 PM
1

did he act out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:33 PM
4

See, not that hard to understand, straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:17 PM
1

According to women on reddit, you should've met a violent reaction to 2 after one or two times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:14 PM
3

I'm better in big groups that's the thing 😭 One on one conversation, especially when I gotta do the approach/opener, is where I get anxious.
/r/seduction15/09/25 02:01 PM
0

what if you never really hung out or talked befors
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:03 PM
2

Thing is when I'm doing shit I don't usually stop to take/have my boys take photos though.
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:40 AM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:48 AM
2

Men have to go through this whole moral back and forth dilemma just to attract women 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:37 AM
5

Huh, that's vastly different than the "looks don't matter just be nice" rhetoric you always hear. Who would've thought.
/r/BlackPillScience25/08/25 03:03 PM
1

everything you hate all in one huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:11 PM
1

Or just choose a partner that loves you and avoid all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:27 PM
-2

there*
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:55 PM
31

They're chadsexual only. Average men get the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:11 PM
0

They... don't? Men are the gender known for high suicide rates, loneliness, high stress, and neuroticism. What about that screams high self-esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:28 PM
1

Wouldn't I have to first bed the women to display I'm good at sex? Does that fall under be Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:17 PM
1

Whatever happened to "just be nice and respectful"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:09 PM
1

People don't really talk on college campuses anymore. Many people, including me, have voiced frustrations on how everyone seems more isolated in their own bubbles since the pandemic and how difficult it can be for organic interactions to happen or for organic connections to be built. You could always go the old pua route, but that's become increasingly more scrutinized and less rewarding, especially with college-aged women.
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:45 PM
1

rizz = game. "charizzma"
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:41 AM
2

regardless of how you split it the overall abundance of options will mean more "holistically attractive" options either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:34 PM
2

I know virtue isn't the right term but I was just using the term used by OP. So I'll ask you as well, are you saying the average woman is as attracted to her options as the average straight man to gay men? As a straight woman that presumably likes straight men, why wouldn't having many options, good and bad, be seen as a benefit? Just ignore the unserious or psychopathic guys, then take your pick of all the good men who would love to have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:12 PM
0

Lol, when did I ever say you have to take all 500 options out on a date, or even entertain the majority of them? You simply choose the best of the 500 and date them. Having the luxury of choosing from such a large sample when you're ready to is, in fact, a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:49 AM
5

Well, the idea is you're looking for someone to date. If you're not, then I don't know why you're even interacting here? The point of passable options is that you get to choose one to date, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:32 AM
6

That doesn't mean having more options of your desired sex isn't a virtue. Nobody's saying fuck guys you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:00 AM
5

Ah, there it is, our keyword "most." Having more options will naturally mean having more passable options as well. Would you rather have to choose the best option out of 5 or 500? Are you saying the average straight man is as attracted to gay men as the average straight woman to men? Or, are you saying that the average woman's options consist entirely of unserious men only wanting to have sex, and the average woman is completely adverse to that idea? Also, if there wasn't enough proof of the 80/…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:19 AM
1

doesn't address the fact that naturally having more options will also mean having more passable options. would you rather choose the best option out of maybe 5 or 500?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:09 AM
7

because we're not attracted to men? lmao what a dumbass argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:04 AM
–

So why keep trying to convince us otherwise? I think every man knows this, but women always try to act like it's untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:06 PM
1

Why else they you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:59 AM
17

if she likes you, anything you say will be flirting
/r/seduction30/07/25 09:22 PM
1

Lmao, are you trolling? A man's honor and reputation can absolutely be damaged by approaching women. Women treat men whom they're not attracted to that approach, like garbage, in most cases. Sometimes, they even go as far as to attack their character, accusing them of being creepy or rapey. How come you say when a woman approaches it makes them a slut? Not only do I not think that, I've never met a man who thinks this either. Unless you're approaching exclusively psychopaths, it seems like you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:57 PM
2

Lol so men afraid to approach are worthless but women who are are just fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:36 PM
15

When men say choose better they mean sacrifice money, looks, and status for good character traits and non-abusive tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:09 AM
32

bold of you to assume undesirable women want undesirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:25 PM
2

how is that the case when as a man you're already doing 90% of the initiating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:43 PM
–

ah yes, the classic "women hate sex with men" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:11 PM
2

It's the only way to acquaint yourself with women you'd may want to date on the regular if you're not meeting them from social circles or through friends/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:10 AM
3

dating apps are as good as fishing by hand in the ocean for your average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:04 AM
1

some dudes don't have those options
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:02 AM
6

but does that make their character "bad character"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:57 PM
4

and why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:04 PM
2

An 18yo woman actively seeking older men? Yeah?
/r/seduction17/07/25 01:21 PM
1

alright but still y'all aren't being very specific
/r/seduction17/07/25 01:03 PM
7

Is proving you're a real person a difficult ask? Then you got banned, maybe you are a robot and just don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:37 PM
2

Yes, OP, the amount of effort I've given to get nothing is reason why I've been discouraged from dating in general. I believe though once I find the right woman there won't be as much friction and things will flow smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:17 PM
7

Yes, OP, the amount of effort I've given to get nothing is reason why I've been discouraged from dating in general. I believe though once I find the right woman there won't be as much friction and things will flow smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:14 PM
9

So what was the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:43 PM
16

Young doesn't mean children though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:13 PM
8

Stop being purposely ignorant like you don't understand when someone says "get" they mean formulate a long-term sexual or romantic relationship. You're trying to spin a completely new narrative out of word choice which helps absolutely nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:50 PM
4

Time for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:49 PM
20

Huh? You're the first person to mention pedophilia here buddy. Nobody was talking about children until you said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:38 PM
1

And women will hear about this and think it's perfectly normal and their standards aren't ridiculously high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:30 PM
9

You "get" gifts for Christmas, but you're not entitled to them. Stop with the semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:27 PM
5

If it was that easy everyone would have a girlfriend. I've made women laugh before, they didn't immediately rip my pants off like you make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:12 PM
5

I like women, they don't like me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:05 PM
8

Well, die in your complacency, then. You already let it get this bad, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:37 AM
1

Get better in what aspect? it's easier to get better in some aspects than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:50 AM
3

she wasn't being serious she was making a reference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:03 AM
2

Most people (at least that I know irl) want to get married and have children, so there's that. If you can't attract the opposite sex that's going to be difficult, so many people put time and effort into doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:50 PM
5

Couldn't you visit the Bahamas through a VR headset?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:37 PM
1

I want to know that I'm able to be desired by the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:34 PM
1

Since when is being a socialite a prerequisite for getting into a relationship
/r/seduction09/07/25 11:10 AM
5

my initial reaction was absolutely terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:23 PM
2

Yup. Arrogance just equals confidence in a woman's eyes. They want the guys that make them feel something, even if it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:20 PM
4

Yes, because you, as a grown woman, have no possible way of finding out whether the guy you're seeing is an asshole before committing to a long-term relationship. But I get it. The guy was too attractive otherwise, so you just ignored it until it was right in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:00 PM
31

So how come you always hear women complain about their asshole boyfriends if they value good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:36 PM
3

I just don't see how anyone can win the game with these kind of rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:08 AM
1

I just don't see how anyone can win the game with these kind of rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:07 AM
2

Yeah, other characteristics such as being a good person/father, caring about the relationship and their partner, giving effort etc. Only difference is the women they meet don't write them off for being short/broke/unattractive immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:03 PM
1

because it doesn't help THEM if women aren't tolerating and enabling THEM
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:56 AM
1

We call them out by suggesting you choose better so they're left out to dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:51 AM
2

Because some find women who's standards fit them and some don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:49 AM
1

Thank you. Nobody's saying have no standards at all and let a man-baby impregnate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:45 AM
1

fucking around, or a lack thereof, apparently.
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:47 PM
6

We were told looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:49 PM
3

and that would be your typical eye contact or extended proximity right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:11 PM
1

so then you're in agreement with the other the guy that men don't receive validation lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:08 PM
2

When you say "have friends," do you mean "have friends that are into things that women do and do said things with them often"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:57 PM
6

are women the ones initiating these interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:49 PM
1

the most attractive men still get less compliments/attention from opposite sex than a sub average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:29 PM
2

how do you get through the door though?
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:48 PM
0

What if you're too young for the club/bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:18 AM
1

start casual gauge interest then ask out casually
/r/seduction26/05/25 04:45 PM
0

I understand that but if where do these girls exist at and how would I find them haha
/r/seduction26/05/25 10:26 AM
7

they'll only let you do this if they're attracted to you in the first place
/r/seduction26/05/25 09:30 AM
6

This is my argument as well. It's not like we're going to play pickup basketball at the park together or chill in the house and play 2k.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:28 AM
3

what do I do with this information though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:38 AM
13

I've done it a couple times but still freeze up most of the time, any tips?
/r/seduction23/05/25 03:20 AM
1

I'm born and raised so I just live with my mom for the time being until I save up for an apartment
/r/seduction21/05/25 05:12 PM
2

Typically no but I'm trying to do it more and more. I'm turning 19 this week sometimes it's hard to gage whether or not they're in the same age range as me.
/r/seduction20/05/25 08:05 PM
2

I don't know maybe it's my lifestyle. I go to a commuter college where people aren't often socializing and at my gym there's rarely any women my age, like at all. Other than that I don't really do much other than play basketball with my friends. I'm on the apps but I don't get many matches on there. Although I see many women on my day to day the chance to naturally become acquainted rarely arises.
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:38 PM
3

I'm in NYC and still struggling, I'm cooked 😭
/r/seduction20/05/25 06:33 PM
19

Is the gym and college enough
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:44 PM
0

why would my heart be closed off? I have friends and family and whatever and they seem to love me just fine and vice versa. most times I'll get the number or Instagram and they'll just simply show no sort of interest back when I text it's strange.
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:50 PM
3

most times they don't even give me the chance to create an emotional connection
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:40 PM
1

I'm there now, still not working.
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:20 AM
3

elaborate?
/r/seduction05/05/25 04:02 PM
0

heavily but it's never reciprocated :(
/r/seduction01/05/25 11:15 PM
3

Step 1: Have sex
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:42 PM
0

Trust me, guys are always thinking from the female perspective with how their approaches may seem to them. Nobody wants to be seen as a creep. That being said, there's nothing we can do when you're claiming something as simple as standing in front of someone is going to make you uncomfortable and cause you cuss someone out. What would rather the guy have done then? Nothing?
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:33 PM
11

You're projecting yourself onto this woman
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:26 AM
8

that would be good advice had I had knowledge of these parties and invitations.
/r/seduction25/04/25 08:39 PM
11

I'm in college now but I have no social circle would you have any recommendations towards how I could build one
/r/seduction25/04/25 03:23 PM
1

Well, I'd be for settling down with someone who either doesn't care about sexual history and/or has their own. And they exist, otherwise people would rarely ever get married.
/r/seduction19/04/25 07:34 PM
1

Do you think women don't have sex/sleep around as well?
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:53 PM
2

Well you're partially right, If I ever do get good enough at this stuff to be a whore maybe I will partake in a little whoring. But at the end of the day I'd still love to settle down.
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:20 PM
4

I'm not a whore I'm here trying to find my first girlfriend
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:13 PM
10

Uh oh, the femcels found the seduction subreddit.
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:12 PM
1

subtlety can work in your favor
/r/seduction16/04/25 12:28 AM
3

either find someone else or beat off lmao
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:51 PM
6

lmao, "smile and nod" = "earth is flat" okay buddy
/r/seduction31/03/25 11:07 PM
33

It takes too much brain power to speak to more than like 3-5
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:05 AM
15

Sometimes I wish I could give myself a lobotomy.
/r/seduction28/03/25 02:26 PM
3

yeah nobody I know who isn't a virgin had to read articles to learn how to get pussy
/r/seduction25/03/25 03:08 PM
2

Whenever I try number one I end up getting friendzoned
/r/seduction24/03/25 09:56 PM
1

but you still have to pursue women.
/r/seduction24/03/25 12:10 AM
2

bro had to spell it out
/r/seduction20/03/25 06:29 PM
3

only thread people need is right here tbh
/r/seduction19/03/25 09:00 PM
0

just remember this isn't the squid game where it's one mistake and your life is over, we're here to take risks and make mistakes.
/r/seduction19/03/25 10:26 AM
1

in a library?
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:55 PM
1

just get a hooker lmao
/r/seduction10/03/25 11:50 PM
1

Once you notice the girls want you what exactly should you do about that?
/r/seduction06/03/25 09:16 AM
-1

sorry, I'm straight.
/r/seduction25/02/25 09:32 PM
1

easier said than done
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:56 AM
4

I figured this was common sense
/r/seduction17/02/25 09:03 PM
1

Do it again.
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:46 PM
13

why aren't you? instead of complaining do something about it
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:37 PM
3

lmao what are you even talking about
/r/seduction08/02/25 05:34 AM
16

never in my 18 years has a woman just magically appeared for me
/r/seduction07/02/25 09:22 PM
11

gotta be lucky and befriend a party guy, I assume.
/r/seduction04/02/25 03:54 PM
38

ask them over to make music, make music with them, then have sex with them.
/r/seduction04/02/25 03:53 PM
3

I honestly get it. I've noticed this with women I've dealt with and have said it myself. Doesn't make much sense to me but it's how y'all work.
/r/seduction17/12/24 09:17 AM
6

he basically saying just be yourself and not try to be someone you think you should be in order to get her
/r/seduction05/12/24 03:12 PM
23

call her out for having shit taste in music
/r/seduction04/12/24 11:21 PM
26

can't fuck less than zero
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:27 PM
2

I usually just go with I make content on Onlyfans.
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:04 PM
2

you're not actually afraid your brain is just tricking you into think you are. try to reprogram your brain to remove the fear.
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:00 PM
7

There's no pressure to talk when I'm just hanging out with friends. We could sit there in silence and still have a good time. Doesn't really work that way when seducing a woman.
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:49 PM
1

What's your go to slide in the DMs message?
/r/seduction13/09/24 02:04 PM
0

just talk to more people I guess
/r/seduction11/09/24 08:54 AM
2

nope.
/r/seduction11/09/24 08:46 AM
1

So become friends first but know when or if to escalate?
/r/seduction31/08/24 05:30 PM
1

Don't think "this is a potential partner" to every girl you find remotely attractive. You're gonna trip over yourself. Think "this is Stacey, I fw her vibe". No offense dude, great post and great advice overall, but I can't help but think that if I do this that I'll just get friendzoned and have no chance at an intimate relationship.
/r/seduction31/08/24 05:12 PM
4

no one was taken advantage of. two adults consensually had sex.
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:11 PM
1

So what practical steps do you suggest I take to become a non-loner?
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:48 PM
10

Happened to me. It wasn't even on purpose I just couldn't bring myself to make moves.
/r/seduction28/06/24 03:44 PM
0

10xmoney=100xwomen. 100x zero is still zero 😔
/r/seduction11/06/24 09:05 PM
1

Just let him know if you're dtf or not it's pretty simple
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:26 PM
2

what if she doesn't?
/r/seduction27/05/24 02:16 PM
1

I'm just bad at reading boundaries, or so I think because I'm never confident enough to test them anyways.
/r/seduction27/05/24 01:24 PM
1

So basically you really do have to be somewhat of an asshole?
/r/seduction27/05/24 01:20 PM
1

how can you tell though
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:56 PM
1

Man, is this shit complicated. 😭
/r/seduction21/05/24 01:46 PM
0

no because I'm a virgin
/r/seduction07/05/24 06:20 PM
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