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I don't disagree...."when speaking to their friends." Ladies Night Out at the club is a different story.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:00 AM
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IME, most married male nights out are fairly tame affairs and (at least my group of friends) enforce boundaries if someone gets out of line with the females or is getting unwanted attention. Usually consists of getting drunk, bitching about life, work, family, sharing parenting skills, tactics, etc., talking about investments, and reminiscing about times that were. On the other hand, with women, it seems to be a "turn back the clock and pretend we are sorority sisters again"--lets go out and get…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 01:23 AM
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This isn't a problem I've experienced with just women. It's more a commentary on how most people seem to memorize solutions rather than grasp the governing concepts. This is a fundamental problem with our education system and a reason why many truly "smart people" wind up dropping out. I will just use myself as an example. I was bored to death in high school because rote learning was so easy and did not challenge me. Anytime I tried to be create or think independently, I was shut down or discipl…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:28 PM
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I have done this as well, but now routinely get accused of "treating me like a 2 year old" by my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 03:40 PM
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I've acquired a better insight on where my therapy has been lacking: Setting goals. Thats because therapists have a vested interest in you coming back. If you set goals and achieved them, they would lose business. So, instead of trying to make things better, they just make you "TALK" about your feelings ad naseum. Therapists = totally worthless IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 08:24 PM
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To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:26 PM
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Still, if I can save my marriage, I'd like to, and after what I've read in NMMNG it's hard to discount some of her accusations. That said, my question is this: Newbie here, so take this with a grain of salt. (I am sure the more experienced MRPers will put me in my place if I am wrong) As someone in a similar, but not as drastic situation, this is tough because it often seems like saving the marriage and improving yourself are at odds. That is, it seems like the more you try and implement TRP the…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 09:38 PM
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I have "regular time" and "wife time." "Wife time" requires an extra 30 minutes minimum to be added. I take this into account when planning dates (dinner/movie) or departure times for an event. I really think women have a different conception of time. When i was asked when i was coming home from work the other day, i told her 6:30. She expressed surprised that I arrived precisely at 6:30. I explained that I have my commute time timed out and averaged and new when I would return by adding the com…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 05:50 PM
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Not a spanking per se, but rather a single swift swat in the butt.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 03:49 PM
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Wife wanted to go for a "nice dinner" and kid needed to eat. She had been to this place before, so I said we'd give it a try. That was probably my first mistake and really something I need to work on. I HATE deciding on a venue for dinner because I hate eating out...the food is overpriced, service is usually terrible, and rarely is the food worth writing home about--and, I dont really enjoy "eating" as a social event...I eat quickly because I need nourishment and then move on. In this case, my w…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 09:31 PM
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Thanks for all the responses. I realize I am more concerned (and shouldn't be) about how my wife reacted than my toddler. I guess just as I realize that "kids will act irrationally and do stupid shit" I have to realize that "wife will act irrationally and get emotional" and not be bothered by it. From her perspective, I "ruined" dinner because I got visibly (not audibly) angry, had to take the boy outside in front of other diners, and we didn't have the nice perfect family dinner she wanted. It …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 06:59 PM
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My dad would take us out of the restaurant and smack the shit out of us. As would mine, but they jail you for that nowadays.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 06:49 PM
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We were in a small vacation/tourist town. The restaurant wasn't "fancy" as in dress in a suit/tie, but was above your chain-level shit food store and bar food we had been eating. I would call it an older "supper club" type place with overpriced steak. Mostly old folk in there. But, your point in general is well-taken.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 05:00 PM
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Well, the "tantrum" started with refusing to eat the mac'n cheese we ordered for him and fusing ("no dadda, no"). This is when I tried distracting him with the coloring stuff. When he started crying and screaming I took him outside.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 04:58 PM
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If there is any "lack of boundary enforcement," on my part, it is because I work a lot. When I am at home, I certainly enforce boundaries and don't put up with his bs. My wife is more likely to try and give him a new toy or play a new game. With me, he gets 1 timeout, and then a spanking. The vacation as a whole was challenging, earning me the nick-name "Daddy Dictator"--I mantle which I gladly accepted.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 04:53 PM
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What in the fuck is a campus court? A.K.A. "Rape Tribunal" Accused men are generally: Not allowed to have an attorney May or may not be allowed to cross examine their accuser. Generally are not allowed to present evidence re: text messages or past or future behavior (seriously, one case a guy was expelled for "raping" a girl for "forcing" her to give him a BJ in the morning, when she admitted voluntarily fucking him later that night at a party) And, this is the most important--Need to PROVE they…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:00 PM
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