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7	Question for men: If n-count is a dealbreaker for you when vetting a potential LTR, at what point and how do you bring this up?	Question For Men	AverageSweet2161	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 04:31 PM

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2	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? I liked each of them a lot and wanted things to work out. For example, one of my relationships was long distance and after a few months of long distance dating I was hoping to know if we could communicate plans to eventually end long distance and live closer. We were both done schooling and I was happy to move since I was still looking for a job and he was established. At first he was excited about me moving, started making all these plans and then out of nowhere he got cold feet and didn't want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 08:50 PM
1	[META] If you answered in the 'worst fear' thread, what can us men do to alleviate your fears? Please be honest about what you're looking for in the long term. If you want something casual, just say so. Some guys I've dated guys (and was intimate with them) were dishonest about their intentions in terms of where they say the relationship going. They just told me what I wanted to hear so they could get laid and/or not be lonely. When I started asking simple questions about the future of the relationship or things like the potential of long distance came up they ended things because they co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:59 PM
3	Q4W: When evaluating a man for candidacy as a sexual partner, do you consider the relative desirability of his previous partners (to the degree that you are able)? No. When I date someone I don't want their exes to come up. All I need to know is why their last relationship ended and what they learned from it. That's about it. If I never hear about their ex again, I'd be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:25 AM
4	N-Count Megathread Guess we wouldn't be a good match then. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:08 AM
3	N-Count Megathread I've observed the same thing as you. The girls who put out more often were the ones getting relationships with the highest quality men. Many of them are now married to those same men that wanted to date them. The most conservative girls I know are the ones who are chronically single since the men they seem to be encountering find their virginity and lack of experience unattractive and weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 04:02 AM
1	N-Count Megathread Everyone has different opinions on this. I honestly didn't know any of the n-count stuff was a thing until I started lurking reddit during quarantine. I was kind of shocked tbh, since I'd only been asked about it the one time 5 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 03:56 AM
3	N-Count Megathread Meh. That's fine. I'd rather be single forever than date someone who will be angry at me for things I can't change. I've only ever been intimate with guys I was exclusive with. I don't have any regrets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 03:23 AM
0	N-Count Megathread I didn't. If I had, then the number would be 8. I suppose that makes things too high for some guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 02:51 AM
2	N-Count Megathread n-6 is my factual count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 02:44 AM
2	N-Count Megathread I've been asked once by the second guy I had ever been with. At the time he asked, I was only n-1. That n was from a 1.5 year LTR that ended because of long distance. He was shocked that I had even had sex. Apparently all the guys on campus thought I was an uptight virgin and didn't think I was worth asking out. In general, I'm not one to bring up things like n-count or sexual history. When I'm dating someone, it's because I'm all in and I'm not thinking about my exes anymore. But if they want t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 02:36 AM
1	N-Count Megathread Is an n-6 too high for a 25 year old woman? Curious since that's my count. Mix of LTRs and steady dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 12:44 AM
1	Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands? Well.. I swiped right on my current boyfriend and I'd love to marry him one day. I thought he was perfectly handsome and I loved that he actually put time and effort into crafting an intriguing profile. If I had met him when I was younger and stupider than I am now (believing sex on the third date meant commitment, yes I was that completely dumb and stupid for 3 years), I still would have liked him and hooked up with him. He's charming AF and I'm a sucker for accents. Women who marry men they ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 03:05 PM
1	Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up? I don't care about sexual history and n-count. I only care if that history isn't really history. Meaning, the guy has an incurable STD or his ex is still in the picture somehow. Usually, it's that he isn't over her. If a guy doesn't have any diseases and has no hang ups about his exes, then I don't care to know nor do I want to know. The only time a guy has told me about his partner count was when I dated a virgin. I didn't care he was a virgin at all. We still had a great sex life during our re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/20 01:49 AM
1	Question for men: If n-count is a dealbreaker for you when vetting a potential LTR, at what point and how do you bring this up? Made an edit. Thanks for flagging!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 05:32 PM