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Or you know, like, the most messages the more likely you can gauge if you're gonna genuinely get along.
/r/seduction08/07/16 12:44 PM
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I think it's way too soon to be honest. Girls don't read /r/seduction, they aren't expecting a 3rd msg date, and it's abnormal to ask so soon. Asking that soon could easily interpret that as booty call behavior so it's no wonder they ghost. My best advice is just chat normally and then when you've had a good chat and you're comfortable with each other just ask if they'd like to meet up. It's really not rocket science, it's simply being normal and approachable.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:45 AM
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Well done mate, and even if you didn't get the date, she now sees you as a more confident person.
/r/seduction31/10/15 12:03 PM
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Then make a change, physically and mentally. Start working out, doesn't have to be at the gym, start doing daily exercise. If you look better you'll feel better, feeling better will foster more confidence in yourself. You've gotta play the hand you're dealt, being mentally and physically weak are things you can change. Sure, you can't change your height (easily) but 5'5 isn't even that short. I promise you, improve yourself instead of feeling sorry for yourself and life will start looking up.
/r/seduction11/06/15 08:18 PM
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In Mystery method the general idea is to quickly win over the friend to get her approval then go at the actual one you want. Maybe that can help you out on deciding what to say. EDIT: Aight, got downvoted for trying to be helpful and nobody wants to say why they downvoted. :S
/r/seduction11/06/15 08:12 PM
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Stuff related to my country :D! I've read on multiple subs and posts that NZ is the worst in terms of pick up because they're not great looking and pretty difficult to charm. Hopefully that's true and I can take off the training weights sometime in the future. I've done pick up stuff, even canned shit, it works on town nights but I've never done day stuff so this was interesting.
/r/seduction28/05/15 02:36 PM
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Yeah I used to practice my game when I was drunk and going to bars and clubs and holding eye contact was easy because I was drunk. When I decided to dabble in day game I tried holding intense eye contact and I did feel mental pressure and it felt weird but I'm 95% sure she liked it and it felt like some sort of moment between us?
/r/seduction16/04/15 05:10 AM
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I'm 20 now, I was 16/17 when started to hang out with some girls. Once I realised I could crash course all this stuff with pick up artistry it took me maybe a few months to become OK. Over the course of a year or two I got pretty decent. I'm pretty comfortable where I am now with any girl.
/r/seduction10/11/14 11:44 AM
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I went to an all boy school in high school which was probably a pretty crucial point to be excluded from girls. I didn't really go to parties either during that time so I saw next to no girls my age. When I started going to parties and such the first few times were absolutely terrible seduction-wise. It's been 3-4 years since first contact and i'm only now getting to be average/above average at this shit.
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:25 AM
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This is my mindset entirely for everything now. By all means be nice but do it within reason.
/r/seduction15/09/14 12:40 PM
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Being skinny might be something physical to improve on but it's also a good mental booster. You seem to not have confidence in how physically attractive you are. This is a work around and gives you something to like about yourself physically. Yes working out will make you more attractive to girls generally but it's also significantly to help your self esteem. There's no reason to just settle with how you interact with girls, there is tonnes of dudes out there getting girls that are way out of th…
/r/seduction12/08/14 04:31 AM
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One thing you can do is start working out. Specifically going to the gym where you see others. I do this and week by week I feel better about myself. Eventually I always had at least one thing over the girls I was hitting on which was a great body. This raises your odds of being better looking than the next guy that doesn't workout. I have an average face but I pretty much have a six pack/big chest/abs(I've been going for quite a few years but normally the first half year is a drastic improvemen…
/r/seduction11/08/14 03:45 PM
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Me and my friend go clubbing every weekend. I can easily say it doesn't matter as long as you're having fun. Me andy friend have this dance that we do together just to look stupid and often girls come dance with us. This happens like 70% of the time.
/r/seduction18/04/14 06:08 PM
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The book "The Game" is nightclub centred and it's not a bad read. I seriously can't stand reading unless it's reddit and I liked it. Also I guess simple pickup I youtube has a little bit on night game?
/r/seduction05/04/14 06:40 AM
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They do seem forced and pathetic but they do work, when I started off I actually just winged the opens and used the mid game stuff but I ended up testing the "canned openers" later on and they work too which is pretty incredible when you see it for yourself.
/r/seduction14/06/13 03:19 PM
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Ahh the first approach! I remember my first approach. I was on my way to town at night I had been watching "Simple Pick Up" on youtube. They sugested playing this game called "GO" which is a super great game for this. The whole idea of their channel is that you can say stupid shit as long as you're comfortable with it so the challenge of GO was basically go up to them and if you don't you get hit. The first time I did it I went in with the intention of possibly getting rejected on purpose becaus…
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:41 PM
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My thought process towards it is this: Night game They are going to flake most of the time unless neither of you were drunk that night. This is mostly because the second meeting is almost a blind date depending on how drunk you were. Even if she wasn't drunk and remembers how you look vividly she might still fear that you see her on your second meeting (this time sober) and don't like what you see. Day game The girls won't flake as much because none of what night game entails applies really. If …
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:48 AM
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I'm hoping what you say is true about the ugly ducklings thing. There's this girl in the dorm I live in at my university who was formerly quite fat but now shes probably top 3 hottest girls in the dorm. I plan to try my game on most of the hot girls once my exams are over which is in about 2 weeks :D. After a while it's really true that you do begin to see queues and girls you once thought you had no chance with are possible to attain. If I had to describe PUA in a metaphorical way I'd say going…
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:42 AM
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If you find a group you seriously need to win over the "obstacles" if you will. There is normally like a 95% chance you won't get anywhere if you don't win them over just because of sheer exclusion and self esteem issues.
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:58 PM
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I have this age problem except its me being 18 and the girls usually being early twenties. It's hard to find girls I don't know other than older ones... :(
/r/seduction02/04/13 02:29 PM
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