Avnas3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Question From A Confused Woman	Conversation	Avnas3	/r/seduction	06/12/21 02:11 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Leave girls on read M’lord	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:17 PM
-1	Leave girls on read 56% at the very most. Do your own research before making such bold claims, is all I’m saying. I had no real issue with what you were saying in the first place, I was simply providing my opinion on a post you made and defending it. You’re the one who resorted to personal attacks when you felt that your argument had been threatened. Wish you all the best.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:03 PM
3	Leave girls on read Ah a personal attack, the most intelligent form of argument.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:00 PM
2	Leave girls on read If you haven’t noticed he has edited the post since then, that implication was present in the initial post.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:59 PM
1	Leave girls on read A simple google search will reveal to you that the majority of surveys tackling this topic place the amount of women who want sex on the first date in the low percentile range; with figures ranging from 7% to 56% - look to Australian Mens Health, Illicit Encounters and other such sources if you would like to check this out yourself. This is far from a lot of women, so the claims you are making are not only potentially harmful but also you are spreading misinformation. All I am doing is trying to…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:41 PM
-4	Leave girls on read Oh, earlier you were saying “fair enough” to my comments, now you claim this to be the first “respectable” comment. Do you only respect arguments that perfectly align with your own?	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:36 PM
1	Leave girls on read If you re-read my argument, I am stating that leaving women on read is not intrinsically bad. Doing it for the purpose of building up your own value is not healthy for her or yourself :)	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:30 PM
1	She needs more time? From what you’ve described she’s not hesitant on you because she doesn’t like you, just because she is working on her own insecurities. I’m sure it won’t take long for her to overcome this, in the meantime remind yourself that she’s putting in all this effort so that she can comfortably be in a relationship with you, which must mean she’s very fond of you :)	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:24 PM
-1	Leave girls on read I appreciate the answer. Though, so I could gain greater clarification on your argument, could you provide any objective examples to prove this notion?	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:20 PM
0	Leave girls on read Slut shaming would be condemning sex in any capacity, what I said very clearly was that the way YOU constructed your statement resulted in very negative connotations. It works on a whole new extreme. It implies that women in monolithic sense, behave in what many would consider a slutty manner upon the first date. This leads to the possibility that men may expect sex on the first date, and can place many women in uncomfortable positions - not only that, but if a man is declined sex on the first d…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:17 PM
-1	Leave girls on read You didn’t say that. You said women refute arguments based on their biological nature. If you make a sexist claim, at least provide some argument to sustain it. Arguing that it’s not worth discussing this, you must admit, is a rather convenient way to get out of an argument you don’t believe you can win.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:12 PM
0	Leave girls on read It’s still a rather generalised statement to make, which I think has many negative connotations for both parties involved but I appreciate the concept of encouraging men to take care of themselves first and foremost before they can expect good dating results!	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:09 PM
-1	Leave girls on read Ah, what a very convincing argument. You must have many good arguments, so good in fact another human couldn’t understand them! So you won’t provide backing for your claim? Seems as if someone doesn’t have a cohesive argument.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:05 PM
5	She needs more time? Based on the nature of your relationship in the past, it seems very natural to me that this woman would need quite a bit of time to get over that. She might still experience feelings of insecurity around you, but it certainly seems like she’s attempting to move past these past problems. I would advise giving her the time she needs to move past these problems (which I’m sure you’re already doing) as it might be quite difficult for her to do so. Perhaps offer her reassurances - that you love her b…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:03 PM
-8	Leave girls on read Please explain to me how this has anything to do with a woman’s biological nature?	/r/seduction	06/12/21 04:50 PM
0	Leave girls on read What I think he is saying is that a sentence like that insinuates all women want sex on the first date, and if they don’t it’s an issue with the guy involved. This is harmful on multiple levels - it suggests all women automatically want sex on the first date which creates a very negative stereotype, and that there is a problem with the guy if this is not the case which could lead to dangerous self-esteem issues. This amongst various other issues. Im sure this wasn’t your intention of course, but…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 04:48 PM
7	Leave girls on read I'll end it with, if you had begun your post with the edit you made I would've taken no issue with it. All I'm saying is my advice would be not to value yourself at the expense of others, because I do not think the majority of women would appreciate this- which would be detrimental to your dating success rate. I think what you say in the edit section of your post is really good advice! And I hope your dating endeavours go well :)	/r/seduction	06/12/21 04:11 PM
2	Leave girls on read I would agree that this is a good message to send out! Conversations do come to natural ends and you're entirely correct in telling guys that this is natural and okay. I just think you leaving women on read so that she sees you have value, or to show her that she's just a regular woman to you, is not the correct mindset to have when approaching dating. To clarify, if you are leaving her on read simply because the conversation has died out it is entirely normal, and okay to come back to it later.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 04:00 PM
-6	Leave girls on read If your intention behind this post is purely to state that it's okay to be the one to leave a conversation sometimes then that's not an issue. Apologies if there's been any misunderstandings. The issue is you end your advice by stating that leaving her on read shows that she is just another regular girl to you. No woman, or man, wants to hear this from a potential partner, or get this idea due to someone leaving them on read purely to assert their own value. If you have to assert your value in t…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 03:56 PM
8	I’m 5’8 and bald. How fucked am I? You're not fucked at all! It's a common misconception that most women will only settle for 6ft and over, or men with perfect hair, a perfect jawline and cheekbones etc. Many women are interested in different appearances, so don't go thinking your physical appearance makes you fucked in the dating world.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 03:41 PM
-5	Leave girls on read Building value? You should certainly value yourself and build that up, but don't bring down another's value in the process.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 03:38 PM
70	Leave girls on read As a woman, I do not think this would have the desired effect for most. You would only irritate her and make her less likely to engage in any more conversation. Instead, find a girl who you can talk to, and the conversation comes to natural ends rather than one of you awkardly leaving the other on read! You deserve better than someone who does that to you and vice-versa. Of course, if you find that this method works for you then go ahead! But for others I would suggest refraining from such a met…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 03:37 PM