| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 121 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women. | Debate | Avocado-Toast-93 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 03:53 PM |
| 28 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing | Debate | Avocado-Toast-93 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:57 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Why are you an ex-redpiller?This transition is hard. The SO takes a bit to adjust. My husband and I had a rough patch when I started standing up for myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you support government programs for men ?Don’t help women. Don’t help anyone but yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you support government programs for men ?Aren’t men all about accountability and helping themselves? Why do you need women’s help to access programs meant to benefit you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingThen don’t. That was the point of the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingDo you think you will end up divorced? Then don’t marry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:32 PM |
| -12 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?A lot of taking bitching and whining from other women seriously. They think motherhood sucks. And it does but the benefits outweigh the suck most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingDocuments won’t keep someone married to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingI know that, but I’m talking more to the people who are so scared of marriage they put 1000 conditions on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thingI like being married but don’t pretend that everyone is cut out for marriage. Some people truly do thrive being single for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:01 PM |
| – | Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup?I would take it personally in that I would not continue the relationship. I specifically have personal relationships so that I can breathe and relax and not worry about being transactional. I am transactional in every relationship but with my husband and my friends. I understand the logic, I just don’t want a nickel and dime marriage. Being unmarried isn’t an option. My family is very religious and I care about making them happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:21 PM |
| – | Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup?It just makes things so transactional 🥲. I’m transactional in everything but my personal life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Do you support government programs for men ?Ok. Sorry I just don’t know how to help men take up the help. I’m not super up on the male mindset. This is probably best to the men to handle. Ok? Stop trying to get one over on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you support government programs for men ?I don’t think so. I think male feminists are kind of silly. They need better boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you support government programs for men ?I don’t know. That’s for men to solve. They don’t listen to women anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 04:18 PM |
| 14 | quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged?No. I’m sorry. I’m past that stage of relationships. I not patient enough to help and manage a man like that. He needs someone who is much more sensitive and tolerant than I realistically am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Do you support government programs for men ?If they’d actually use it sure. But men tend to not take advantage of stuff like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 10:49 AM |
| 4 | "Don't judge a book by his cover"?Frequently. To the point where I’ve been trusting my gut a lot more, it’s rarely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 10:34 AM |
| 21 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?Why not? Ladies like you are rare. Lying works here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:47 AM |
| 44 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?He should lie. People think you’re weird if you don’t have experience by 25. There is such a thing as being too hard working. You must socialize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Why do the majority of people find their life partner between the ages of 25-30? What happens during this time to cause this phenomenon?It’s when people grow up a bit and want stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 08:23 PM |
| 24 | If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be?An engagement ring/wedding date. Most women crave the legitimacy of marriage. Men will get a lot of wife behavior out of a woman using this incentive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Is having an income greater than minimum wage a prerequisite to dating past age 22? Or even past age 23?Grow up and do it. I don’t care how much it affects you. Moving out is normal in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 11:36 AM |
| – | Women who are thirty plus have a good amount of fertility left and if no man wants to start a family with them, they should have kids by themselvesThis is a decent solution if you’re 35 and no man is in sight. Only in that case though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:23 AM |
| – | Women who are thirty plus have a good amount of fertility left and if no man wants to start a family with them, they should have kids by themselvesAgreed! We only have so much time. Sometimes you gotta find other ways to make it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?The concept of Chad is 2D. Stop talking about Chad and talk about people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 07:19 PM |
| 4 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?Enough about Chad, let’s please talk about real 3D people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 07:16 PM |
| 26 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?He’s right. Don’t believe the thirsty losers on here who say otherwise. Decent men do exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 07:15 PM |
| – | Hookups by pulling girls into Uber / dragging home 27mShe just can’t set boundaries apparently. That’s not good. That’s not a common occurrence if you watch yourself and are conscientious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | For those who are looking for a relationshipYes I can see that. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?You need to be a bit more resilient friend. This isn’t personally trying to hurt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?My husband will go to girly shows and sports competitions for things he doesn’t even like. I always offer to go by myself and he says he wants to see me enjoy myself and spend some time with me. I return the favor by going to his sports and his concerts. I love seeing him happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 02:17 AM |
| 9 | "Pickmes never prosper" has a pointEasy to get and easy to lose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 06:17 PM |
| 12 | "Pickmes never prosper" has a pointThis is facts. A woman who submits too easily will submit to anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesThey confuse clear and frank with cruel. You can be both honest and kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.I don’t but I’ve always erred on the positive side of things where I don’t assume it’ll be terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.I don’t. I know that. I just don’t feel like catastrophizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.Maybe I’m naive or maybe I just don’t entertain a negative mindset. A bad attitude will ruin everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.Because I’m not a weak person. I have faith in my ability to bounce back. I might break down but it’ll never be anything I can’t overcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.None. I haven’t lived with anyone else but my family and my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.Hubby and I have been together 8 years this year. 7 years living together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:30 AM |
| 6 | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.How do they try to do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:12 AM |
| 33 | Relationships and Marriage is over. "Situationships" are the now and future and they are actually better than relationships and marriage.I don’t worry about the risk of things failing. If they fail, I will pick up the pieces and move on. I’m not so fragile that I can’t handle a breakup. I’m a grown woman who can process things and move forward. What’s the point of dating if you never feel anything? That’s silly. Life hurts sometimes and you need to learn to handle that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:11 AM |
| 10 | All the excuses used by age gap haters to interfere with age gap relationships can equally be applied to bigots trying to stop gay / lesbian relationships, as age gap haters use the same kind of infantalizing rhetoric, concern trolling and "we're doing it for your own good" gaslighting.Who is manipulating and threatening and controlling younger women in age gap relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 11:38 PM |
| 9 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyThat’s probably a good thing. This stuff is crazy making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingMine just didn’t look good and it was a ton of work. Short hair is a much better fit for me. I kept the straggly inches before because I had heard long hair was more attractive. Maybe it is, but I don’t suit it. My hair is way too fine and thin. Your wife is a blessed lady if she can grow all that and it looks good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingI did listen. I started wearing bright colorful makeup and cut off my hair. I’m much happier now. Fuck the long hair, it was a pain to care for and if I’m gonna be devalued anyway, I want my cute bixie cut that my husband hasn’t said a goddamn word about other than saying it’s cute. It’s really freeing honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.Yeah that’s what I think tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsI feel sorry for you. I hope you find peace soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:45 PM |
| 5 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.Oh ok. Yea this makes sense. Leopards don’t change their spots and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.Alright fair enough. So I’ll amend that to, they won’t do relationships with annoying women anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.Thank you for understanding the point about relying on looks. Ok. I’ll concede that they don’t stop being horny but do they still tolerate these unlikeable women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.I think you do. Most men have at some point in their lives moved on from the horny teenager stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.I’m wondering if this is a PPD thing. IRL I haven’t seen this at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:20 PM |
| 5 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.I never said on the whole. I think we all know a girl who coasts off her looks and is annoying AF. Those looks will eventually go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:19 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsI wasn’t. I meant what I said. A good woman isn’t gonna jump on dating apps on a whim. Please relax and enjoy your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:07 PM |
| 7 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.It’s not sexist to not wanna deal with annoying people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:06 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsI was trying to comfort you dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:04 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsA woman who loves you isn’t gonna fire up dating apps after a minor inconvenience. If she does that, great the trash took itself out. Stop worrying so much, you only have so much life to live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?The stigma lessens with age. It then transfers to people who don’t have kids. Because why don’t you have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:03 PM |
| 11 | Women DO fashion for themselves.The straight women appreciate my blue glitter cut crease in a way that my husband never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Women DO fashion for themselves.I love love love bright colored makeup! But I have to wear it when I go out without my husband or I never hear the end of it. Women love it though. I never get so many compliments as when I’ve got full glam on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:29 PM |
| 3 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menThen what advice do you want? This is what normies are gonna recommend. Go talk to other weird people then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 12:48 PM |
| – | At what age woman loses all her value?Some people do and this is why the RP stuff can be really dangerous. This sort of rhetoric isn’t harmless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 11:38 AM |
| 7 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?Oh my god I’m dying at the foursome comment because yeah sleep is better than any foursome 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Settling is not what you think it isLife has a way of humbling our sky high expectations and bringing people into your life you never expected. That’s what makes it fun! When people say settling, they mean the 35 year old who wants a baby tomorrow who relaxed her standards way far down who will divorce that sperm donor 5 years later when she doesn’t need him anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:05 PM |
| – | For those who are looking for a relationshipWe like sex but it’s risky and god forbid you make a baby with someone who doesn’t wanna love and marry you??? That’s worst case scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:20 PM |
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