AvocadoCatnip Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? Also you can have period sex, you just need a towel.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 10:29 PM
3	Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? No, not obviously at all. She likes him, is attracted to him, feels safe with him, wants to have sex with him, and for some reason, can't, yet. Find out why.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 10:28 PM
36	Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? yeah you know that's not quite even the problem here, it's that the voices of those who don't know anything get more upvotes, but other guys who don't know anything, but like reinforcing their view of women as an unobtainable foreign species.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 02:53 PM
451	Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? um, ASK HER. Also; SLOWLY escalate. See how she reacts. Does she kiss you? what else? If she's telling you she's on her period that means she knows that sex is a part of your relationship. Maybe she's been raped, or is nervous for some other reason.	/r/seduction	20/10/21 01:03 PM
1	Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet. This was actually vital in 2005, we recorded the number of approaches, phone numbers, and lays. It was about 10 approaches to get one solid number, and about 7-10 numbers to get a lay. Once you realise that, you are liberated. You can relax. You can have fun; just meet 100 women, get 10 numbers, see what happens. But guess what - once you are liberated, relaxed, and having fun, your numbers go up real quick.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 07:07 PM
10	[deleted by user] she matched your energy. Your text sort of sounded hopeless.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 06:09 PM
2	Todd V fake infield? I've had a girl call me creepy to my face, and because I didn't flinch we were in bed like five hours later. Before our second date she also found my pickup teaching website :) Being able to handle awkwardness is important. The guys who can't are just giving away their inexperience.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 05:35 PM
1	Todd V fake infield? btw these aren't high value women. Very generic clothes, average bodies, and I'm pretty sure that's O'Neills in London, which is the worst venue, full of tourists and people who lack culture and don't know where better to go. It's relatively easy to pull from for those reasons. Not dissing Todd - getting decent in-field footage is VERY HARD. One benefit of O'Neills is spots where you can hear people talk which is good for recordings.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 03:55 PM
1	Todd V fake infield? The best thing about this video is noticing how they start off UTTERLY CRAZY. Not acting normally and all over the place, and then they slow down to his pace and enter his frame.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 03:45 PM
2	Todd V fake infield? He has great game and is a good teacher. I think yeah, it's kind of stilted on camera sometimes. That's not really surprising.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 03:44 PM
3	Todd V fake infield? I've hung out with Todd in NY, LA and London. In fact, he got me laid twice, introducing me to his girl's friends. Fucking great guy!!! The weirdest thing about him is that he hasn't aged in the last 15 years. Probably takes vitamins or some weird shit like that.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 03:43 PM
4	Todd V fake infield? It's true, but it's the second best way to learn, after going out yourself and doing it, with other guys who are doing it well. RSD for a while would get a waiver from girls they'd filmed, dunno if Todd does.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 03:41 PM
1	Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet. you had a spreadsheet too?	/r/seduction	19/10/21 08:44 AM
2	[deleted by user] that's great. just put yourself in social situations, you'll meet someone who likes you sooner or later.	/r/seduction	18/10/21 01:25 PM
32	Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out? Never, ever, ever, "ask a woman out"! Totally agree with rewinder99. Say "hey would you like to get a coffee" or whatever. If she says no, who cares. If she says yes, go for coffee. If she says "are you asking me on a date?" say "I don't know you well enough, that's why I'd like to go for a coffee". Don't go on a date with a woman until you've slept together around three times. Never tell women that's your rule.	/r/seduction	18/10/21 10:52 AM
2	[deleted by user] Just for full transparency, Mr chicken_and_broccoli messaged me to say "I'll cave your face in you c**t" Definite teachable moment here - if you've listened to this guy's advice, spot where he is coming from. He has a lot of anger and negativity inside him. Women can smell that. They've evolved a million years of senses to spot that in a man and stay away from it. Sure, women want a strong man to stand up for them, but this guy isn't strong, he's the kind who will turn on a woman in an instant f…	/r/seduction	18/10/21 09:46 AM
2	[deleted by user] You are talking about a subject that you obviously know nothing about. You are speaking from your imagination. You are unwilling to learn from people, not just me, who clearly have more direct experience of the subject. You will continue to get the results you are getting, as long as you do this. It's probably for the best. You'll probably implode, and women smell it on you. That's the main reason they stay away from you, because when you implode you will try and take whoever is around you with …	/r/seduction	17/10/21 06:44 PM
2	[deleted by user] He's not interested. But, you could reel him in, if you just want a one-night-stand, or a relationship with someone who isn't really into you.	/r/seduction	16/10/21 02:29 PM
1	[deleted by user] Do you want the truth, even if it hurts?	/r/seduction	16/10/21 01:07 PM
5	[deleted by user] It really doesn't mean that. The only toxicity here comes from you. Last Minute Resistance happens when you're in a situation where you can have sex - i.e, you're alone, you have established that you like each other, and there is a bed or other convenient location available. If she didn't want to have sex she would NOT be in that situation. LMR happens because she doesn't want you or anyone else to think she's a slut. There is a difference between being dominant, and leading, and rape, which guy…	/r/seduction	16/10/21 12:37 PM
1	[deleted by user] The most natural thing in the world.	/r/seduction	16/10/21 12:24 PM
1	This sub needs a faq tbh what is "based"	/r/seduction	11/10/21 06:54 AM
3	This sub needs a faq tbh that's hilarious.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:21 PM
2	[deleted by user] I met Vin DiCarlo in 2009 in NYC, he used to be called Woodhaven! We didn't hang out much, but I spent some time with his buddy Sebastian Drake. They both have great game and were great teachers. They developed a very natural style that is easy to learn a lot from.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 09:00 PM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? Since I got game, I guess, and became able to deal with what people thought of me, and not mind if they rejected me, and generally developed social skills? Do you want to learn to meet new women and seduce them, or stay in your lonely bubble?	/r/seduction	10/10/21 08:11 PM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? Why don't you post about this and we can talk it through separately. I'm high-functioning autistic. I had to learn to talk to girls on the internet. If you like, I will tell you exactly what materials you need to listen to. I bet you're a fast learner.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:31 PM
12	This sub needs a faq tbh Like look at that "I just go in for the kiss" post - the comment saying "don't do that" got the most upvotes. Seriously. We used to go to big clubs and kiss five girls in one night this way. More sometimes. Just the comments on that post make it obvious people here don't know what they are talking about, and do not want to learn from people who do.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:07 PM
9	This sub needs a faq tbh Yeah there is a big issue here which is that the very shy, socially awkward majority have all the voting power. If you're inexperienced with women, it's part of who you are, and you cannot recognise good advice. You'll vote up what simply reinforces your current belief system. If you want to change, you must confront what challenges you. One solution might be to make sure that enough people have read some basic materials on the subject, to make sure that advice gets voted up according to that, b…	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:04 PM
1	This girl said she ‘doesn’t do this often’ but said she on the pill when I drew for the rubbers You don't know her. Wear a condom. All she said is she "doesn't do this often". That either means: a) she doesn't do it often. b) she does it often, and is lying, but wants you to think she doesn't do it often. Either way, it doesn't matter - wear a condom with a new woman, until you trust her, know her, and preferably you've both gotten tested. This is a rule.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 06:24 PM
3	How do I quit wasting my youth? In all seriousness, if you think there's something wrong with what I've said here, you do not understand attraction. How is a woman supposed to be attracted to a man who has been pussified into hypochondria by the television? "Oh well she will think I'm very responsible and care for others" NO. That's not how it works! That anger you are feeling is inferiority. Step up and show you're not afraid of anything. Ask questions if you want, but you've sort of demonstrated what is wrong with reddit for…	/r/seduction	10/10/21 06:18 PM
3	How do I quit wasting my youth? lol three mask-wearers voted this down.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 06:11 PM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? There are two types of guy. There is one who will say that it's hard to game in X city, and give all sorts of reasons. Watch them talk to a girl, they aren't fun. They don't even pretend to be confident and they don't smile. The other will appreciate women everywhere. Watch him talk to a girl and he has a huge shit-eating grin that tells the woman everything they need to know about how he feels about women and how he will make them feel.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 04:31 PM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? Rent a big house (like 5-8 bedrooms). Then rent the rooms out to another guy, and 3 girls. Friend-zone the girls. Have parties.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 04:29 PM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? Right, so you got beat up for doing something socially weird an inappropriate? You think that's someone else's fault?	/r/seduction	10/10/21 02:09 PM
2	How do I quit wasting my youth? I started learning pickup in 2000, ran several groups, have met all the top guys from the original scene, and gamed in the UK for around half that time - and also in the US, all over Europe and Asia.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 02:07 PM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? You should stop saying this, it's entirely in your head.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 02:05 PM
3	How do I quit wasting my youth? His game is fine, it's his lasagne making that sucks.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 02:04 PM
2	How do I quit wasting my youth? Start by reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 02:03 PM
-2	How do I quit wasting my youth? Because in the supermarket, public transport, etc, there's always the one chick who sees through all the bullshit without a mask on, and you just say "oi! where's your mask", and she's like "where's yours" and you say "I think it's all bullshit". I made some friends that way but tbh they haven't been girlfriends. Lockdown protests, other freedom events, parties. All the natural health and other communities that just kept going in secret, trying to understand the hypochondria and the scam behind …	/r/seduction	10/10/21 02:02 PM
2	How do I quit wasting my youth? Tom Torero made my ex a lasagne, and she said it was the worst she ever had, and that she didn't sleep with him.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:09 AM
2	How do I quit wasting my youth? wait how is promiscuity a problem?	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:09 AM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? But this is why you need something called "game". Like you'll be walking past, throw out a comment, keep walking as if you're about to vanish, she responds favourably, and you slow down, just enough to continue the conversation a little. Only if she is receptive do you engage. Or in a club you say "hey I can only stay a sec". Or do the direct day game compliment opener, and just be cool and polite if rejected. "Game". It's a "skill", that means you can learn it.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:08 AM
6	How do I quit wasting my youth? Most college groups are still open to graduates too.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 11:06 AM
3	How do I quit wasting my youth? It's easy to hit on girls without developing a rep. At worst you should develop the rep of being outgoing, social, knows everyone.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 10:51 AM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? I've met so many women at lockdown protests and other freedom-related events. They complain about men wearing masks and are anxious for attention from guys who can see through it all. Not sure why women are more awake to it than men. It is hard, but if the guy is from another country he can more easily move back if it's a good move. England is pretty decent I think, for most immigrants, he may as well stay, I was just putting it out there. America as a British guy is like shooting fish in a buck…	/r/seduction	10/10/21 10:50 AM
0	[deleted by user] You should be able to kiss 5 girls a night in a decent club. At least, you could in the 00's, clubbing seems to have gone downhill. Look, you can still (AND SHOULD, MUST...) get consent if you go for a fast makeout like this. Basically give her the chance to reject it or get out of it. Escalate fast but keep eye contact with her, pause long enough for her to figure out what is happening. Most girls are up for it.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 10:47 AM
2	How do I quit wasting my youth? I'm not being funny, but the OP should not listen to you. In fact, neither should you listen to you. What is dangerous about having a reputation of being a man who talks to women and lays them? lol	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:59 AM
2	How do I quit wasting my youth? you're not doing it right. Sorry, but you're not.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:57 AM
1	How do I quit wasting my youth? Definitely increase your social value, definitely do Tinder, and DEFINITELY cold approach. Why wouldn't you? If you see a cute girl in a coffee shop why not say hi? It is literally rude not to, especially if she is giving you the eye. Just say "hi, how's your day going?", and be laid back about it, give her the completely free option of engaging if she wants to or politely ignoring you.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:56 AM
11	How do I quit wasting my youth? I'm 43, chubby, balding, I've got no money and am living with my parents since the start of lockdown. Had two awesome girlfriends since the start of lockdown, when it suddenly became VERY easy to meet women. The weather is IN YOU. Firstly stop thinking that your physical appearance has anything to with it. Being good-looking will give women a little spike of attraction at the start, and any time she puts her attention on it later to affirm her decision, but it has nothing to do with how you make…	/r/seduction	10/10/21 07:54 AM
1	It's crazy how important social circle and status is How you talk about your employment status and social status/social circle, is important. The impression you give, is important. The reality, not so much. In the short term, anyway.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 05:52 PM
1	I quit You are not remotely special. Whatever error you are making, someone had figured it out and documented it by 2009, latest. That's when the PUA community really started to fold. Look; there are two products you need to study. IF you study them, and I mean completely consume them several times, you will figure out what the issue is and be able to fix it - then you can move on to the next issue. 1) Mystery's "How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed" - this is the Mystery Method manual. It was actually …	/r/seduction	02/09/21 09:25 AM