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Purge Week!Aw0lManner/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:58 PM
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The issue is that women say things like "I just want a good guy that makes me laugh", but then they actually go for bad boys with moral issues. In your example, the correct option would be someone like Neville Longbottom, but he's just treated as a laughingstock. Instead, women fangirl over James Potter (in Lily's case), or Snape who has Dark Triad tendencies (women crushing on him irl).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:11 PM
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Would the sexual attraction have been better if (1) and (2) weren't an issue, or was it basically zero no matter what he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:18 PM
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At a frat party I was super sloshed, not thinking straight, etc. Ending up talking with this hot small mixed chick about how my buddy (good guy) had a huge schlong. It must've been at least 10 minutes just talking about how big his dick was. She ended up hooking up with him that night lmao. Both are very cool, one of those fun college things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:13 PM
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Not just you, but it seems like you take for granted dates where the guy pays for you (and which have gone nowhere). It's never good to invest anything (time, attention, and effort) in someone who has no investment in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:56 AM
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if he does for you then he's a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:36 AM
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"[E]ach new partner increases the risk of fidelity". I did not say that, please re-read my comments. "[S]uch increases in risk are grounds to exclude potential partners, then no red piller could...participate in casual sex". Men and women are different, what a man finds valuable in a woman is different than what a woman finds valuable. Are you correct? Yes, as mentioned above; there is a risk with higher partners, which is why lots of women say they don't want to date a manwhore. ​ However, a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:36 AM
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TRP doesn't say anything about men and promiscuity, nor does it actually condemn promiscuity. TRP, which by definition is a framework men use to make decisions in dating, mentions what I said in the first comment. I'd agree that marriage for men with a high number of sexual partners is more likely to end in divorce as well. Your mistaken assumption is that a premise of TRP is that you have to get married. If anything, it emphasizes that marriage is a choice, and there are certain characteristics…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:49 AM
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The main concern is that when settling down for marriage, studies show that those with promiscuous women are the most likely to end in divorce. TRP highlights this, among other relationship dynamics, so that men can make good decisions about entering (or not) long term relationships and/or marriage. Of course, TRP advice for casual sex is to use a condom and not get her pregnant, but this is also just common sense. ​ So yeah, from my interpretation of TRP you mistakenly equate risks marrying pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:37 AM
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Hah I feel like we're the same rating-wise but flip-flopped in dating characteristics. I'm a solid 7 and fit, but am 5'9 short dude so have to make up for it with interesting hobbies and a great job (250k/yr). Still only get 4-5 women a year. Usually end up with a couple fwbs every 6 months or so. When I see these screenshots of dating apps by women that have hundreds of notifications, it's very humbling, almost soul-crushing. I put in some effort not just in my profile, but generally to cultiva…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:22 AM
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Is your use of males and women intentional?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:45 PM
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Hmm that's interesting. I've had the raw passion and satisfying a deep innate desire part of sex, leaving a desperate hunger for each other. Though, I think there's always an element of restraint, for better or worse (e.g. no going off the deep end into kinks and what not). Though the interesting thing is that it's different with different partners; I'm leaning toward it's a chemistry thing rather than a "this guy is the alpha-giga sex chad" vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:40 AM
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What made the sex amazing? Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:28 PM
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^ this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:26 PM
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I think this is a minor reason why dating a women with a high N count for a relationship is a bad idea. The other one being they are way more likely to walk out, since that's just their history. But if your vibe with a girl is solid, it doesn't really matter what the n count is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:25 PM
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I got 16 % (18 - 33 yrs old, e.g. couple years above my age or younger), any race, shorter than 5'10, no children, and not overweight. Also, I'm somewhat picky when it comes to looks, so the reality is probably a quarter of that (4%). Guess I'm just as deluded as the ladies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:23 PM
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Quite the catch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:21 PM
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How many of these guys could you get in a long (> 3 years) relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:19 PM
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" is as precise as saying that men are rapists" Which many (online) women do say..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:01 AM
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Most people think it looks bad on whoever is doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:45 PM
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/r/womenandmales
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:55 PM
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Nope, I always use a condom unless I'm with an ltr for a while. And then, I've basically accepted the risk of unintended pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:52 PM
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There are some women that are highly toxic serial posters here. Best to just ignore them and their hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:50 PM
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If we can't think abstractly then yeah I guess there's no common ground we can make in this discussion. Also, you have no idea who I am, what my beliefs are, or how I feel. Have a wonderful day, and keep spreading joy to the world! You are a beautiful ray of sunshine. ​ By the way, I think it's important you still reflect and work on that bit of awareness because it's clear there's a lot you need to work on even at age 40: > form of anger unto those who I justified in my mind as being the people…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:27 AM
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What don't you understand? The guy explained what AWALT is; are you just trying to argue, or do you truly want to understand the Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:17 AM
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Yeah that was a wack take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:14 AM
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Actually, sure let's do it. First, we define AWALT as how heterosexual women behavior or have the potential to behave, broadly speaking. Then, AMALT in the sense that, maybe not all guys will rape you, but most guys when alone will make a move and want to hook up with you. They're also generally strong, and can overpower you, so women should keep AMALT in mind when going to a guy's place alone. AWALT, means just because the woman you're with may be the kindest, sweetest person in the whole world…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:12 AM
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Np, nah the incel shit is worse lmao. The extremist stuff is very violent and disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:38 PM
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I've lived in liberal cities, and went to a liberal university so my perspective is probably skewed. Most feminists I've met are for equal rights, but some of them use feminism as a facade to hate on men and direct a lot of inward bitterness, resentment, and negative energy onto them (similar to what incels do to women). One person isn't bad, but an unfortunate phenomenon is that this person is usually unchecked by their friend group, and kind of tacitly endorses this energy out of fear. You kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:00 PM
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pov: your husband comes home one day with a japanese sex robot and says "hey babe, want to try something new tonight?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:47 PM
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It depends what she's like. There's times where we can playfully go back and forth then yes, if her whole personality is being a feminist and unironically hating men then no. Basically, if it's mostly banter with a little bit of seriousness that's cool, but not the other way around. Edit: it's also a dealbreaker if she constantly says "men are trash"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:41 PM
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Women choose opportunistic guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:41 AM
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That's a rather rude edit, maybe you need some semen in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:02 PM
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The issue is that women prefer sex with higher T men when they want to have sex (e.g. during ovulation). They prefer a softer man for an LTR for the commitment and security, but don't really want to have hot sex with them. Since most men like hot sex, they don't want to be the LTR guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:24 AM
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Women have more external pressure to be beautiful, and men have more internal pressure to be successful/get women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:25 PM
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No, you just need to be driven, disciplined, willing to change what's needed, and have an interesting passion for something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:33 AM
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I don't think your as mean as you put on. If you behave like a good little girl I'll let you stay the night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:32 AM
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Thank you baby, didn't you know you liked providing sex and physical intimacy ;) now start sucking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:11 AM
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You can choose to insult the women I'm with but that's rather mean; I get along fine with the women I'm with. Not really your business, nor do I think that you care. But I appreciate the vacuous insult, and how you validated my above comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:32 PM
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He is repressing himself sexually, there is a dissonance going on that is causing this discontent and hence "odd" question. OP needs to express himself sexually authentically, and not hold back. It probably manifests in subpar experiences with the women he's dating even if he's successful "on paper" (eg gets laid)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:00 AM
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most incels have bad hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:18 PM
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No. Feminists are huge sluts that love getting sexually dominated, fucked hard, and being submissive in private, but like being equal or whatever in public. If she's being reasonable in her points publicly feel free to agree, but if she says some crazy shit it's good to call her out on it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:30 PM
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was he high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:34 PM
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damn bruh, facts Behind every man is an interesting story, we just don't care enough to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:19 PM
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People can philosophize a lot, but at the end of the day I just get really horny a lot of the time. People (esp girls) always try to psychologize me ("oh it's a lack of fulfillment", "maybe you have some childhood trauma that manifests itself blah blah blah"), but I honestly think it's just me being horny. ​ Like randomly during work, boom all I can think about is fucking some hot chick I saw on the way to work. In between sets at the gym? Holy shit that one girl in the yoga pants radiates sexin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:57 AM
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Agreed with you on most points king, but there is loss of life: look up suicide statistics -- men commit suicide far more than women https://afsp.org/suicide-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:33 PM
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First of all, the only time I've heard "AWALT" in the past year is from people criticizing TRP, not from TRP itself. In fact, most of the criticisms against TRP are things people from TRP literally never talk about unless it's to correct the out-of-context misinterpretation (like saying some goofy shit like "AWALT" is the "raison d'etre" for TRP). The raison d'etre for TRP is to recognize, and overcome the challenges of and predilection toward being a mediocre man -- PERIOD. If you want to talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:28 PM
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I think this is something both guys and girls have to experience and learn/understand. In the past I would push for sex sooner rather than later without really getting into the "why", and sometimes that would lead to makeout with benefit hookups that were only halfway enjoyable. Other times we'd be fwb, but every time there was this expectation of sex, so instead of it being something fun and spontaneous, it became somewhat of an obligation which wasn't enjoyable for either of us. Looking back o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 08:48 PM
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You're angry and missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:59 AM
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Why are you in this thread? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:48 AM
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Ned was actually pretty tall
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:38 AM
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Men are more willing to take risks and do dumb shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:27 AM
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RP does not argue this; RP argues to become the man that incites genuine attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:52 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:46 AM
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Sucks to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:07 AM
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Yeah, he's a scrub. Beta bucks not alpha fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:06 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:06 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T\_lh5fR4DMA
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:12 AM
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When she says "I'll love you forever", she means "Right now, I love you enough to say I'll love you forever"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:20 PM
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Ok but then they want to fuck you, but you don't want to fuck them so it doesn't happen. Men and women generally think differently sexually; like guys are more ready and willing to do it. You don't just look at a sexy lady in a low-cut top and think "hm wow that looks nice, but there's no way I'd fuck her senseless"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:49 AM
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There is no point to get married as a man, and women are fine with not putting in the work to make it worth it, which is fine. Honestly, even relationships aren't really worth it. Hit it, enjoy it (and make sure she gets hers too!), move on when you feel like it. New pussy is a beautiful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:24 AM
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Hm, guess it is just me that has a weakness for low-cut tops
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:05 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:42 AM
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"f I wear a low cut top will they check out my boobs? Sure. Most people will. But that doesn’t mean they’d fuck me." But they want to lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:41 AM
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woo this one gon be good :grabs-popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:57 PM
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Girls are much more interested and drawn toward social interaction and relationships than guys. Even since elementary school, during recess the girls would all talk to each other (exchanging in fun drama about guys or social dynamics -- "did you see how mad ms. davids got when sally forgot to put her backpack in the cubby?") while the guys would play tag or football. I remember a time in hs when a girl that kind of liked me invited me over for her birthday along with a bunch of friends. An ex th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:53 AM
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It's a flaw of RP forsure, and it's an area where RP is evolving. For example, RP used to say "oh girls don't approach" and double-down on it, when the fact is girls approach less often, but they do approach guys they have genuine desire for. The problem is lots of RP content creators have this fixed view where they consider themselves right 100% of the time, and that's where they stall out, make no progress, and become mid. ​ Now are we going to not be hypocrites and acknowledge that most bp/ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:06 PM
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what is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:38 PM
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Haha excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:03 AM
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"I'll pass" And that's your prerogative; happy for you. "is just survival that everyone has to do" No like, as a RP guy I'm actually in the top 20% of common dating criteria: I'm in the top 1% of income for my age bracket, have a shredded physique (like 10 - 12% body fat), and am a decent musician. Statistically, I blow a majority of guys out of the water because the RP impels you to become the top 20% of men. "all bare minimums" Right, being top 20% in income/physique/interests is the bare mini…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:10 PM
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The RP men that aren't jaded/black-pill generally want to do well in life and as such figure out why they're not doing well and work to fix it. As far as dating this means they work hard in fitness, care about their looks/hygiene, and are attentive during dating (can banter back/forth, pick up on cues, and are pretty responsive as to whether you're actually interested or not). In terms of career, they aspire to get to the top and make enough money to achieve financial freedom and whatever else t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:24 PM
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It's many orders of magnitude easier to achieve a chad lifestyle than it is for middle-class people to become a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:48 PM
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Yeah I agree with you; it's tough for me because RP has helped me a lot, but it has such an edgelord pseudo-scientific vibe that does get a lot of young impressionable men into anger, resentment, and isolation. I really don't like identifying with it or even having to defend it (hell in most cases I can't even defend it bc they're just wrong), but at the same time I feel like I owe it because of how it's helped me. Hopefully it will lead to the creation of other communities which use the good id…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:42 PM
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Holy shit dude you ignored everything I said. (and drug advert always have wild side effects, but they cure people from illness and save their life so your analogy doesn't work?). And WHY do you think they are angry after hearing this information (hint; read my second paragraph)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:55 PM
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Right, I agree that the evo-psych stuff is bullshit. However, RP concepts overall (after applying critical thinking and not succumbing to some of the toxic bs which is largely the minority) have helped me get into good relationships, whereas a lot of the couples I see exhibit unhealthy dynamics and the men are miserable. ​ RP helped me realize that things like having her talk over you, gush over her hot coworker, leave with her girlfriend the second your friend group enters the club, dance with …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:49 PM
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I think a lot of the issues ppl have with the RP (me included) is the rhetoric. The basic concepts are centered around the 80/20 rule which is an imperative to improving yourself, as well as identifying and not putting up with girls that treat you poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:59 AM
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Rhetoric aside, what exactly is lying about this? The basic concepts are not allowing her to push your boundaries, not overly investing in her when she hasn't shown interest in you (which guys have done since the dawn of Western culture, e.g. romantic gestures and what not), letting her go when she's not interested (flirting with other guys, disrespecting you, drunkenly humiliates you in front of all your friends etc.). Guys will put up with so much disrespect from their SO, and this guide tells…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:39 AM
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It kind of sounds like you overestimate your value (eg women-are-wonderful). I'm already living independently and have enough money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:48 PM
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The point is that Lateranouncer demonstrated a current mainstream example of the beta buxx dynamic. Of course Will Smith as a person is much more complex than one dynamic (and used to get laid a shitton), but in this dynamic/example he's acting like beta buxx. ​ No one really gives a shit whether he's a good or bad person, it's just to illustrate a specific point that you can apply to your own life (does she use him for dates, attention, and chore-play, or does she genuinely feel attraction for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:39 AM
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But most women aren't an honor to be with; they're argumentative, demanding, and don't bring anything to the relationship besides sex/physical intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:22 AM
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I don't understand where people find the time/interest to date one woman who wants to take it slow for the hope that "one day" they might have a real relationship. Sounds like a gigantic waste of time/effort/money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:29 AM
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being a boyfriend isn't an honor; it's an obligation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:24 AM
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Look at where he is now though: treated like shit by his wife who publicly sleeps with other guys while he rolls over and appeases her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:20 AM
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Went on a date with a girl like this recently: basically she'd been focuesed on school/work and had mainly only been on first dates. I would've been down, and she asked if I wanted to go on a second date, but when I texted her a couple days later she said we weren't compatible. I mean, she didn't even give it a chance, which is fine but she's going to have a more difficult time meeting someone if she's super closed off and reserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:08 AM
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This ignores all the fundamental natures of gender: women are the gatekeepers, men have to work harder to have sex, etc. Sure, if we're all hermaphrodites then we can hold everyone to the same standard, but the fact is that men and women have different standards because they are different and want different things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:31 AM
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The main risk for a guy when prospectively dating a girl with a sexual past (e.g. ime ages 24 - 30) is a) AF/BB (alpha fucks, beta bucks) E.g. she doesn't actually find you hot, but she finds you secure. So she gets with you for commitment, comfort, money, and security. However, she keeps putting off sex while you're taking her out on dates, dinners, shows, etc. You eventually do get sex. But the sex is unenthusiastic, rare, and she doesn't want to do much besides starfish sex. Eventually you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:23 AM
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"doesn't answer why it's an insult" Because (healthy) guys are horny and want great, mind-blowing, uninhibited sex. And women only want to have that with guys they find hot. HOWEVER, she will give sex to someone else that is "stable" for commitment (e.g. it's a transaction). But this sex is not good: it's boring missionary and when the guys suggests something like a blowjob or acts dominant this actually repulses her instead of turns her on. So the sex sucks, and it also happens less often (rati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:50 AM
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A better analogy is a guy that she has sex with quick is like pizza, and a guy that she makes wait for is like raw spinach. She says she loves it, but she actually goes for the slice of pizza after a night out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:44 AM
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The truth is, if you want to get laid you have to actually *try* to get laid. Most of the "bad boys" have negative qualities, but they're also fearless when talking, hooking up, and having sex with women. Contrast that with the nice guy who only talks about surface level topics, and is scared to make a move leaving him in the friend zone and sexually frustrated. But his problems begin with the fact that he won't even attempt to have sex in the first place. The nice guys that actually approach an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:10 AM
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In my experience, women (and men) that say things like "oh I just like being direct which people feel threatened by", "I'm just a confident person that is blunt and honest, and people don't like that", usually have some perspectives that are misaligned with the real world, and refuse to listen to others when they point that out. ​ As an example, one such person criticized my grammar, then insulted my education because of it (probably an insecurity because she went to a "lower-ranked" college). W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:37 PM
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What's the argument? I agree, red pill didn't invent self-improvement, but self-improvement is a large/formative part of (healthy) red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:34 AM
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No, love yourself is feminine-centric (you are fine just the way you are; which is cool for girls because they have intrinsic sexual appeal). "Love your best self" would be bp advice for guys, but that's never said (I just invented it). RP tells you to improve yourself bc on your own you're not going to be successful unless you are already top 20+% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:27 AM
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It's red pill in that they live their own lives, and don't make women the focus of it. Rather than making sure their marriage is perfect or they are trying to find "the one true love", they live their own life, don't really give af about whether women want them or not, and do whatever the fuck they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:49 AM
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He wears a medieval knight's helmet while doing the deed, and is sad that girls won't take it off during sex to see him for who he truly is. ​ To them, he is just a generic knight, instead of the individual he is underneath all the armor. He is too shy to reveal himself so he wants his lady to take it off in a moment of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:31 PM
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No, replace with a relationship and only have children with women who have undying loyalty and deference for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:51 PM
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Facts man, so easy to forget
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:36 AM
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Well no shit it's good for prostitutes: it's free blackmail and an obvious double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:47 PM
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"Men seem more hostile to the notion of less/no sex after marriage" Well, yeah because the one woman controls literally all the sex the man can have. My friends constantly wonder why I don't get into a relationship, and I'm like "isn't it obvious?" Why does a mutual liking for one another imply I have to completely surrender my sexual agency to her? It makes no sense the more I think about it (fwiw, I'm okay with her sleeping with other people)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:14 PM
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https://pigeoncoopdotblog.files.wordpress.com/2019/08/what-the-goddamn-hell.gif?w=1086
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:45 AM
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Right, which is why he's taking a break. Seems like a mature, emotionally healthy thing to do actually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:54 PM
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This is a natural part of the process, keep working on it and you will improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:15 PM
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I agree with you about the parts that counter RP. ​ The part I find accurate about RP is the disingenuous part where mainstream wisdom (and most womens' default answer for what's attractive) is that "communication" and "taking it slow" and "chore play" is sexy, but what's actually sexy to women is getting railed by a dominant but refined, cut rich dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:21 AM
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Women will specifically flirt with people they're not actually interested in to give that person the illusion that she is into him. That's manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:07 AM
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Men have 10 - 100 times as much testosterone, so we have the urge to get laid, even if we have to do something we don't want to do (e.g. get rejected 10 times approaching)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:06 PM
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Women manipulate men all the time by leading them on: just look at the friend zone. You're mad at men for your own mistakes while dating, take some responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:47 AM
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I see, yes let's restrict her sexual choices because we know what's best for her. Seriously, how do you not see the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:39 AM
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"on a very small subset of women" Disagree there; from nice girls in high school who would sneak out and go to college parties, to the chill girl who hooked up with the smoker while she was going out to lunches with a friendly guy, there's a lot amount of women who display hypergamous behavior. Hell, even my innocent gf ended up grinding with some dude at a party when I left to go to the bathroom. If I left her to her own devices she could've very well cheated on me. The point of AWALT is that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:06 AM
4

You're misunderstanding the fact that shame, by definition, is *publicly* criticizing one's behavior and holding them up to the community as an example of what *not* to do. The vast majority of men today, at least younger ones and ones that aren't in christian communities, aren't shaming women for sleeping around. The ones that do get posted on /r/publicfreakout, upvoted thousands of times, and posted on the front page of reddit *shaming* them for that behavior. In my group of friends, men would…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:03 AM
0

I don't know, because I never experience it. Keep frame playas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:48 PM
1

Being skinny is luck of the draw. Some guys to be skinny/ripped need to have a strict diet, which means no mexican ice cream trips lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:36 AM
3

He's a hard man to please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:23 PM
16

When you wrote that `women have gotten the short end of the stick for all of history`, did you think of the millions of men that died in world war 2? Or the thousands that mined for oil, built the railroads, and settled the Western US? Or the lost generation of millions of more men that died in world war one? You should read `All Quiet on the Western Front` or `Call of the Wild` and see the difficult circumstances and incredible character that men in the past exhibited so you could write the abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:52 AM
1

Thank you bro 🙏 Congrats on your successful marriage! It is definitely difficult, but the way I see it, throughout history life has never really been easy and the best part is being able to solve/triumph over the challenges life throws at us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:29 AM
2

Who me? Or the parent commenter I was responding to? I just responded to someone who was making ad-hominem attacks against me as well as sweeping negative generalizations against a belief set which admittedly does have its faults. My fault though, I shouldn't have engaged with someone who's clearly acting toxic and in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:13 AM
4

I know more than a few and uh hate to break it to you but we're pretty successful, well-adjusted men across the common axes of society (financial, dating, fitness). But feel free to keep drinking the "RP men are useless failures" koolaid if it helps you feel better about yourself. You are so much better than us!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:05 AM
6

Huh? RP is about improving yourself so you can achieve the dating life and identity you want as a man. Mischaracterization
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:47 AM
2

Actually he's exactly right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:48 PM
1

She's not as attracted to you. Run dread, or up your SMV (style, body, personality/ambition/status etc.)
/r/askMRP30/08/21 02:44 AM
1

Hold frame, get some good OLD photos ready
/r/askMRP30/08/21 02:39 AM
1

Guys naturally want to have sex with lots of women. In this regard, women/men are different: I think women have this idea of "what did she not have" because that's what they think of in men (they want one man with "everything"), but men will sacrifice their natural desire for "every women" for a women that provides them with a stable life, good family, etc. Now, not every guy is like this; some believe that their best option is this one girl end-all be-all, but guys that have been more successfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:32 PM
4

"I don't know any woman that I follow on Instagram that is posting half naked pics" ​ This is actually true; most of the women I actually know post pics with their bf or on trips. Thirst traps are pretty rare, unless the girl's single
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:25 PM
5

https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum/handbook-posts/males-monogamy-and-mate-guarding
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:23 AM
1

Eh, the thing is high-value guys with options aren't desperate and will walk if old ladies cause drama. In this case shaming hurts the younger woman bc she genuinely likes him. Or it just places more stress on her, bc the guy will put the onus on her to defend their fwb/relationship. But it seems like you're borderline trolling with your absurd language; it's always cute when girls try to do "guy talk" *pat pat*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:20 AM
1

Some women trade notes, which is encouraged. Some women -- typically older, jealous women -- shame which is controlling and not encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:49 PM
14

This is actually simple: (generally speaking) guys that are FWB have more SMV than guys in LTR, unless the LTR started as FWB. Basically you need more game to get into the FWB category. For guys, the FWB category is undeniably better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:43 PM
1

LOL the delusion I can't *wheezes*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:41 PM
5

This comment only makes sense to women: guys want sex. If you tell a guy up front that you are looking for (him to provide) emotional intimacy and partnership, he will run the hell away. Or he will say yes and secretly try to get pussy bc he has no game or options. That's when you get the "omg my male friend tried to hook up with me".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:39 PM
1

When it is shaming, it is by definition controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:32 PM
1

Shit dude, I think you could use a education
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:46 PM
1

Yeah, the flip side for guys is when you'll have a great date, drinks, flirting but you invite her back and she's like "nah". It is what it is. Btw most guys aren't interested in friendship, esp. if they're pretty lame
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:49 PM
3

I enjoy being single; there's a certain drive, edge, and hunger I have that comes with having to get something. You wake up every day having to earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:25 PM
1

The point is ppl dont walk over me and I enjoy working hard. But feel free to talk shit over the internet kid
/r/TheRedPill22/05/21 01:20 AM
5

This some bitch-made bullshit. Keep typing, I'm headed to the gym. What I like about being Asian man is that I have to throw down better than any other race -- and I consistently DO ​ Edit: incoming "but Aw0l white guys all things equal have it easier than you"; show me who's equal to me at my age in terms of money, fitness, and finesse. I don't see him, unless he's onstage performing for thousands in which case respect & credit to him
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 09:00 PM
2

"I don't fuck on the ___ date" is like at the end of commercials where they say all that fast shit "offer available for a limited time only, may cause diarrhea, internal bleeding and nausea..." Like, ok but we both know whats going down Hos gotta say that as a disclaimer to make sure your cool with not smashing. Of course, they're ok with smashing most of the time, so you're basically getting the green light when you hear that. She's just gotta say that to check it off her list; fast-forward and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:08 AM
23

They still got the beta in them. It's a tough mentality to shed
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:44 AM
2

Losing weight is 90% diet, 10% gym
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:43 AM
32

Did you miss the part where OP said taking it up the ass? Hold frame and take them drawers off boy!!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 03:41 AM
1

What world are you living on man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:34 AM
2

Yep, esp. if your with a chick that doesn't know you well. Having a girl talk you up helps you out a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:34 AM
3

yessir
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:13 PM
10

tf u mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:28 AM
1

watch the whole vid sweetie ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Or7V5QUzxAo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:27 AM
6

exactly, whys this guy trying to tell women who they can or can't date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:26 AM
2

Tf u mean lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:24 AM
17

tf you mean plotting? if hoes wanted a nice guy I wouldnt mind being one. lmao @ the negative histrionic language, drama queen in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:23 AM
10

Hoes mad. Simple answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:21 AM
1

Was this during a conference call? Seems like an easy challenge to dismiss if you actually have the knowledge/status within an org, in which case you don't even need a mentee to interject. Regardless, I believe you that it's good to always have patrons
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 09:23 PM
3

When you get to the level where politics/patrons are more important (I'm assuming middle management?) how many hours a week do you work on average? Right now I'm pulling between 40 - 50 hours a week and am pretty happy with low 6 figures, but I'd imagine (maybe my mindset is wrong) that you'd have to really give a shit and do 60 - 80 hours a week to get to that next pay band (e.g. 400k+). Guess that's ok, but just have to figure that into my life plan (e.g. reduce time for hobbies/fitness/girls)…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 01:36 AM
1

let the man enjoy his mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:40 AM
3

I answered this in the OP: simp case is they will tolerate bad behavior or things they don't click with in her if she has some positive qualities, alpha case is convenience (e.g. right time/place). I can't speak for guys that have absolutely no interest in a chick but still date her. I'm getting a hint that you're asking in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:33 PM
2

"He's a wonderful human being and not trash" ---- "He...actually practices some satanic rituals" ​ LOL, can't make this stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:27 PM
2

Some girls are abusive, so they will give him affection/intimacy like treats, but then insult/degrade them at other times. Guys are also generally less emotionally intelligent, so they won't recognize this as abuse, whereas others from the outside (e.g. in social settings) may notice it immediately. Kind of like a love/hate/codependent dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:21 PM
3

Simp case: It's incomparably harder for most men to get a ONS/intimacy than a woman. In this case, a guy may like sex/sexual intimacy/intimacy (let's not sexually objectify men), but not like other qualities of a woman. There's also a frog in a boiling pot of water phenomenon where a woman who recognizes this acts WORSE as she continues to date him rather than better. So one day the man realizes that all the good qualities in her are gone, and all he's left with a compusively rude/mean person th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:00 PM
3

simp
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:13 AM
3

Women in their free time do 3 things: - make fun of men - complain about men - gossip about men
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:05 AM
8

girls: "i hate how guys talk to me i just want to be left alone" also girls: "he didn't want to talk to me, there's something wrong with him; he neurotically fears normal social interaction" gotta love it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:32 AM
1

If you think narrowly in terms of sex, then sure your premise (women leaving impoverished men) is wrong. But if you're thinking in terms of future and socioeconomic status, then yes they're left behind because it's much easier for a women to marry a rich dude then a man. Or even just get mentorship or attention. I also think women are more willing to ask and receive help
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:33 AM
3

Hypergamy, global sexual market place, and women want a winner. "[I]mpoverished" populations apparently aren't winners according to their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:32 PM
4

Women that are interested in you offer to go dutch and I let them. When we end up dating, I'll pay for them if we go out and what not. In the past, of all the women that never offered to pay, a good amount of them would ghost, so ironically I have better odds of a 2nd date if a women goes dutch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:10 AM
1

Goddam it, I send heart-eyes sometimes. Does that mean I'm a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:59 AM
1

Yeah dawg, there's so much weird psychologizing, mental jumps, and broad generalizations in that comment that it leaves nothing really to say except -- as a swe w/a compsci degree -- I don't identify with any of those situations or viewpoints that these supposed straw-men "IT" guys think. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:32 AM
2

Nice man, good luck. Lot of opportunity in the medical industry forsure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:41 AM
1

Right, yeah I think social pressures/public humiliation are much heavier on women unfortunately (and guys when they are in their teens). I can't really help that, besides being discreet after hooking up with a friend (or at least when I used to haha, it's been tough in a new city during the pandemic). Don't like it when guys brag to the social circle about hooking up, seemed kind of crass (though of course I expect her to tell her friends, what are you gonna do lol). I miss overly flirty girls h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:39 AM
2

Thanks bro, about to get back to the grind tbh. I ain't about the "rule the world" stuff tbh, just want to make apps ppl enjoy instead of hate, be there for the fam, live financially free, help the community, live healthy, achieve goals, and enjoy dating every now and then. I think you're right about the jealousy part, been seeing that in some of my friends unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:35 AM
1

I'm not scared of a woman who speaks her mind boldly. I'll respect her if she's speaking sense, but it comes across as try-hard if she's trying to intimidate me. Hell, most women talk so much shit behind people's backs I assume basically any character flaw is spread to the entire social circle next time I see her. It's the rejection itself that's difficult to take. Partially because it can be so many reasons why and you're really in the dark. Some things you can change about yourself. Other thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:28 AM
2

Oh please, a buddy of mine in college was accused of rape bc he had sex with a chick who was in a relationship. Next morning her friends told her boyfriend, and she says the magic word: boom, cops involved, all over the university newspaper, dude had to leave college. And the night of they were laughing drinking, and giggled as they went up to his room holding hands. He was cleared of course, never even went to trial, but his reputation was shot. You have to be aware that there's risk as a man h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:21 AM
7

Why are you attacking 20-something STEM grads? Curious, as one myself. Seems kind of unwarranted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 02:58 AM
137

Aw0lManner's "319skew's FR summary/review of FR" critique: Excellent satire with good use of capitalization and bold to emphasize the banality of the OPs message. Comical celebration of mediocrity was amplified by the emptiness of the post title. Good use of paragraph breaks and the use of the formal 'B' in 'Breasts'. 9.5 / 10 satire, made me laugh out loud, chortle even. 319skew shows real promise in comedic reddit commenting. My mom is telling me it's late and that it's my bedtime so I have to…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 04:25 AM
1

"[M]ake it" implies that they weren't there initially. Sure, wealthy people continue to be wealthy, but that's a complaint whose source is capitalism, not gender dynamics. Jocks where I'm from (lower-middle) are largely in the same socioeconomic ladder that their parents were in. It's much more common to see men move down or stay stagnant in their socioeconomic status than it is to see them move up. However, men definitely exist who weren't sexually successful in high school and put in the work …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:50 PM
1

I guess to risk going off-topic, a ubi based off property/land value tax would nuke the US economy off the face of the map. UBI is incredibly expensive, a vat tax might bring us close.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:14 AM
0

women are commie by nature, no surprise here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:11 AM
1

Date an older guy. I don't mean like some super old 40 year old dude; there's plenty of men 27 - 32 who have their shit together and are in good careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:09 AM
8

Sometimes I'm just incredibly horny. Like, it'll be a Wednesday night and I'm supposed to be studying/reading or some productive hobby, and all I can think about is getting some (even though I'm like in my living room alone). There's times where I just whip out my phone and I'll have 10 or so matches/convos going on in online dating, and I'll blow through all of them with wyd-type texts haha. Only time it's worked was with a chick that was less than stellar to be completely honest, and overall i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 04:20 AM
2

Good shit brah. Systemzatize these hos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:12 PM
1

You literally did not read what I wrote. The point of my post was about the "burden of performance". :eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 12:05 AM
8

They are to blame, but it's a harsh realization to men that they have to be in the top 20% to have sex on an occasional basis, and to be in the top 5% to have an abundant sex life. Pile onto that the fact that men have higher sex drives than women due to testosterone and it's a difficult truth to swallow (hence the bitterness of incels). It's no wonder that many men fall into the porn/video games cycle. But yeah, I agree with you; men that give up like this are losers. Interestingly, it's one of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:51 AM
0

SMV is unrelated to making BP decisions (marrying bc he loves her).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:30 AM
-1

Insert Brad Pitt for James Bond
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:29 PM
-3

TRP points out that there is a "burden of performance" for men. The reason "men age well" is bc women's sexual strategy is about finding a "hot guy", where a hot guy can be James Bond (e.g. in his 30s/40s), rock star, high status, has worked to build a cool/interesting/successful life/skills etc. For men, speaking generally they pretty much find young physically hot women attractive. For example, 40 year-old James Bond is banging just as many as 23 year old James Bond, but 40 year old Scarlet Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:32 PM
17

bro do not watch porn. Worst thing you could do imo
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:32 AM
2

I feel you man. I struggle with this too. Ultimately, you gotta have mental toughness and resilience. There's shit you're not good at, things you're not doing right now. You have to form a long-term mental picture, and work on what you can do right now to get there. For me, it was a transition into one of my hobbies. It gets depressing sometimes when I'm alone in my room doing the same thing day after day without any external validation or significant progress (kind of like how you won't grow hu…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:31 AM
0

Generally, no. There's a few exceptions, but I've found that Patrice bit (women are not likeable they're lovable) pretty true. The women I get to know on any deeper level around my age are annoying, bitter, and misandrist (they hate men but also want to be like them, e.g. penis envy) -- they're just good at putting on a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 07:38 AM
1

luv u sassy bb
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:29 AM
0

Yeah, and most girls with high N counts usually move from guy to guy, and have trouble maintaining long term relationships. E.g. she is not a good candidate for a lifelong partner. Though for some reason I usually end up getting with women with low N counts without explicitly knowing it -- promiscuous girls aren't really interested in me so things work out perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:14 AM
1

Over 10, maybe I'd wife her up if she really proved herself, but off the bat someone that's slept with more than 10 people is a bad candidate for the rock
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:49 AM
1

It's like saying smoking is bad for your lungs, and then responding "but Joe smokes a pack a day for 30 years and he's fine". There's exceptions, but in all likelihood a woman with a low-n count will be a better long term partner than a high-n count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:16 AM
1

Exactly, it's an emotional response. And women are incredibly good at picking up on emotional messages. It's better to practice the mentality of "it's okay she's not into me, I hope she does well" then that of "I'm going to pretend that I don't care and keep up an aloof facade". There's no benefit in holding on to anger and bitterness: learn from it then let it go
/r/askTRP19/08/20 11:59 PM
0

Men constantly have to maintain "power" whether it's conscious or not. For me, I have to think about it, because otherwise I act way too lovey-dovey and lame. It's like eating dessert: if I wasn't conscious about the consequences of eating a tub of haagen-daz for dinner every night I would do it until I died of diabetes at 40. Similar with women, if I wasn't conscious about holding frame, being a masculine role model, and running dread when I see waning attraction, I would be unsuccessful in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:52 PM
1

Would your rather marry the innocent cute virgin, or the hoe that's slept with half the town? Wtf is this question. NEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:45 PM
1

Rp man here: you should ghost because she's not meeting your standards (not putting out, annoying you, etc.) and put more effort into other women. Your pipeline should be full enough that you have several other potential plates, or you should spend time filling out your pipeline. When you get to the point that you're ghosting as a ploy to get her more attracted and she's one of your only plates, then you lack an abundance mindset. You should really only ghost bc you're not interested in her (obv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:42 PM
6

This is like an aspiring basketball player asking something like "how do I hit a jump shot consistently" and you, as a D3 player answering "don't focus on jump shots, I've hit thousands of them -- it's more important to be a good shot caller. Anyone can hit a jump shot, but a good basketball player can lead everyone on the court." It's kind of correct, but it doesn't address the fact that OP still has a fundamental problem (can't seduce), and the solution doesn't directly address the issue (plen…
/r/seduction06/04/20 08:24 PM
9

bizarre, masturbatory shitpost
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 06:36 AM
1

She was horny and absolutely wanted it; next time a girl acts like this (that you like) escalate sexually and dont be a pussy. You missed your chance with your female friend; maybe there's a low chance she'll be down another time but I wouldn't count on it. Also, I'm not a women
/r/seduction02/02/20 03:52 AM
4

wtf OP are you stupid?
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:50 AM
2

Irony is that this behavior, at least to me/men that think like me, is a huge turn-off. N-count among guys is a point of pride because it's not inherently easy for most men to sleep with lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:25 PM
1

I guess not, it's a sticking point forsure
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 05:55 AM
3

you have a good point bro; lustiness = thirstiness
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 05:54 AM
10

Not sure why, but even if I have a couple plates sometimes I'll see a hot girl that's my type and go into thirsty mode.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:30 PM
2

Masculinity is primarily an instinctive or innate force and, now that there is (1) more ability to move across socioeconomic classes and (2) a cultural movement that encourages femininity toward "my body my choice", men who embrace masculine principles like logic, objectivity, discipline exercised towards some ideal (some ideal besides a woman, that is) will attract women more readily than than one with a similar temperament would have in the past. I'd argue that the "real man" argument is what …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 07:23 PM
3

Meh is good (essential, perhaps), imo, for the first 15/30 minutes of the first meetup before you've banged and when responding to shit tests. However, constantly fixating on this "meh" mentality is at best lowering your state (why be "meh", if she is crazy for you and you like her -- ie why try to be "meh" about enjoying a dry-aged ribeye steak) and worse case being a constant buzz kill. ​ An example of this, and a line I found surprising is "when you and her are alone and naked, usually she lo…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:29 AM
4

Get out of the house every once in a while; it's good for you ​ https://www.instagram.com/p/BpDfYz0AiGn/?hl=en
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:50 AM
4

it's pretty obvious advice said with a out-of-place attitude. Ie "great example is Brazilian Jiu Jitsu which a lot of you fags are too scared to do". No one is scared to do jiu jitsu lol, the comment and other aggro callouts just seemed out of place and attention-seeking
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 07:23 PM
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