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Inferior to the women themselves or to your ideas of who these women might find attractive?
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:50 PM
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I’m 1.65m tall myself and I’m 28 years old. My height and small frame used to be big insecurities of mine. Do you feel inferior around these women?
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:26 PM
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Aren’t we all? Lol. How does that make you feel inside?
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:20 PM
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What exactly is it that you’re afraid of?
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:11 PM
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Something like this when delivered with strong masculine frame will light a woman up like nothing else. I once told a woman her attention to detail was impeccable because the mint green accents on her outfit perfectly matched her nails and jewelry. She was beaming the rest of the day and was always SUPER nice to me from that point forward.
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:08 PM
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Outer beauty is just packaging that says her phenotypic traits are proportional and potentially healthy. She could be a turd covered in sprinkles, so don’t eat the shit sandwich if she hands you one. You are allowed to refuse being treated like shit by anyone, and that includes yourself!
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:05 PM
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I don’t necessarily choose to have an outlook of “Input X = Outcome Y” when dealing with people in general, it’s just how my brain is naturally wired to see social situations. I’m not trying to be calculated or manipulative. My intentions are good. It’s just, I see human interaction almost like math, if that makes sense. I know nobody else does, and that’s the part that grieves me because I always end up feeling alone wherever I go. I instantly click with other autists, however!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:19 PM
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As an autist, yes this is exactly how I think and I wish I wasn’t like this because it causes me so many problems socially
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:26 PM
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In other words, the Halo Effect has a real impact on well-being and we cannot choose to enjoy it on our own.
/r/BlackPillScience16/03/26 08:05 PM
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Not like women understand what’s large anyway considering they gain so much weight after marriage lmfao
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/26 02:36 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:48 PM
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Again, it sounds like you’re spiraling. Are you on Discord? I know a server where other guys like us can talk with one another about these things
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 05:16 AM
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It's impossible to become the kind of man that seemingly every woman wants. That's not realistic, nor is it even feasible. I think where a lot of guys fall short is they believe that if they're just nice enough to everyone and do everything right, then they'll be loved by women and have a problem-free life. I think you're prone to spiraling negatively and that's okay. You don't have to have it all figured out. Maybe this will help you? Extra help here
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 01:23 AM
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My dude. What exactly are you asking?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 01:18 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy! by Dr. Robert Glover. Also, browsing r/NMMNG can really help.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/25 04:01 AM
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I think the OP posed a very interesting question and this comments section offers very fascinating insight! From what I’ve gathered reading other comments, it seems that a lot of women’s experiences here of their sexualities and fantasies are about the feelings of being desirable that the scenario in which sex happens produces within them; where in those scenarios, the other person is playing a role, and as such might be interchangeable or even faceless because the other person is not the focus …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:32 AM
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It’s either a “fuck yes” or a “no.” You should want to be with someone who enthusiastically consents to sex. It’s a sign they’re attracted to you on a visceral and animalistic level. Anything less than a “fuck yes” is a “eh, you’re good enough for the moment.” How insulting. Bad sex is not better than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:41 PM
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A culture where monogamy is the norm leaves men feeling entitled to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:22 PM
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A good YouTube video on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:20 PM
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“Bad in bed” is ubiquitous, but “good in bed” is also highly subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:58 PM
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In general, people are attracted to others that possess traits they wish they had for themselves, or traits and characteristics they can never have that the other person is really strong in and is most suited for by virtue of their birth. See Also: Men and Women needing each other for reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:41 PM
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I think at that point, the heart of the issue is why do men who want relationships try and get as much “casual” sex as possible? They’re pursuing the wrong goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:49 PM
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I dated non-monogamously for a few years. It got old quick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:33 PM
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I’ve got enough experience with women to agree with you here. Once you’ve been inside one, you’ve been inside all of them lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:29 PM
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I have worn eyeliner on dates. Nail polish, too. Those women tell me it’s hot because I know what type of woman I’m trying to target with it. Also helps that I’m into metal and goth music.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:27 PM
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We absolutely can do that with makeup and facial hair, just it’s “socially unacceptable” for men to wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:23 PM
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Women picking on unattractive men is a last-stand shit test because they desperately crave the emotional rollercoaster
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:20 PM
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A fuckboy is a male slut. Hot enough to bang, probably not LTR material. I think men fetishize this and get angry over it because they believe they’re missing out. Sex is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:15 PM
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I can relate to being passed up over my height in middle and high school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:13 PM
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I say internalized toxic shame prevents a lot of men from trying to change and become attractive because admitting you’re unattractive can trigger a shame attack. In my experience, I had to learn how to become more attractive. In a lot of men’s experience (and my own) when we don’t know how to become attractive, we tend to use sex as validation and we measure the hotness of the woman as how validated we can be. I think that’s why we brag among ourselves about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:09 PM
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Exactly. We all know that looks matter, but because socialization encourages us to be nice to others and “treat everyone as equals” we focus on other things about them that “should” be attractive. Socially attractive ≠ biologically attractive. Not all people are equally attractive, and we all know it. But apparently, saying some people are just born ugly makes you an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:06 PM
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Tone policing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:04 PM
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This reeks of Nice Guy covert contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:46 PM
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Extremely based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:40 PM
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That’s what I was thinking. Sounds like OP is having a realization about a covert contract not working out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:40 PM
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Men with lower self esteem will want a woman who has no life so they can feel significant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:39 PM
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Sounds like a covert contract tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:39 PM
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The only sensible take here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:35 PM
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This is the only correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:03 AM
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Also the Halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:54 PM
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Same old Red Pill talking points. Secret cuckold fetish for sure. Watch less porn and the brain rot will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:46 PM
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I’m saying this dude is strawmanning this person’s argument
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:57 PM
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Dating by its very nature is discriminatory
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:55 PM
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Straw-man fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:55 PM
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That third title is extremely dense. I strongly recommend starting with “No More Mr. Nice Guy!” and then graduate to “When He’s Married to Mom” next.
/r/seduction13/03/24 07:53 PM
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Might I recommend a few books to you? I call them the Four Horsemen of Nice Guy Syndrome. “No More Mr. Nice Guy!” by Robert A. Glover “When I Say No, I Feel Guilty” by Manuel J. Smith “Do You Love to be Needed or Need to be Loved?” by Shari Schreiber “When He’s Married to Mom” by Kenneth M. Adams
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:37 PM
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If you’re a Nice Guy, you’re going to be extremely confused by this. Damaged women tend to be drawn to toxic behavior because it seems like masculine strength. A Nice Guy is drawn to unhealthy women because then he no longer has to focus on his own toxic shame and can please and caretake his woman into sleeping with him.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:36 PM
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Only if they are compulsive approval seekers who need their buddies to stroke their egos after consuming women like objects
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 05:06 AM
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The only sensible reply. OP also has severe oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 04:55 AM
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Some people are compatible with you for something long term, but you’re not that attracted to each other. Some people are have extreme sexual chemistry but are completely different in how they see the world and live their lives. Some people have that wonderful combination of having the same goals and values while being insanely attracted to each other. Those are the ideals that everyone should shoot for. That’s where the best relationships and marriages come from. People who are only attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:14 PM
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On hookup culture or what this post is specifically addressing? Or some other thing? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:52 PM
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Because men love being hypocrites lmao if dudes aren’t honest about the fact they’re complicit in enabling hookup culture then they shouldn’t complain about its effects
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:35 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:54 PM
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You’d have a better time getting an answer in r/NMMNG because it sounds to me like you’re a classic Nice Guy. Your core paradigm in life is likely “If I can be a good enough person, hide my flaws and mistakes, and become what others (especially women) want me to be, then I can finally be loved, get my needs met, and have a smooth, problem-free life.” This means you will do anything to seek approval from women, and avoid women’s disapproval like the plague. You likely don’t have many male friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:41 PM
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They’re desperate to feel loved and get sex because they feel unable to do either of those things for themselves, then they blame women when they don’t get them rather than take responsibility for finding ways to meet their needs in healthy ways on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:24 PM
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Also blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:18 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:18 AM
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Can you define “the male gaze” for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:10 PM
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Criticism grows the masculine but kills the feminine.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 10:35 PM
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Bro. That is literally repressed rage you’re talking about. Were you on tren when you met her?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 10:24 PM
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Okay, so if you know the tren is coloring your thinking and making you prone to rage, and it’s ruining your relationship, then you need to start PCT immediately and stop taking tren. I took SARMs for a while, so I can relate to the feeling of knowing the substance is fucking with your thinking.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 10:15 PM
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Quit the self-loathing, dude. You should be working to get to the bottom of why your insecurities bother you. Are you jealous of her sexual past? When a woman is getting into a relationship with a guy she really likes, she’s not going to disclose her sexual history like that to him because she wants to put her best foot forward. She doesn’t want to risk losing him because most women know how judgmental most men are of female sexuality. You’ve got to have a non-judgmental frame. That makes her fe…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 10:07 PM
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Bro. Only use the dread game when shit has hit the fan. If she openly disrespects you or any other non-negotiable behavior you’d like to see much less of, use it. It’s simply removing your attention from the problematic behavior and doing something else for a pre-determined amount of time. It is NOT a tool for you to use to regain frame or shift the power to yourself. It is NOT a way for you to punish her so you can soothe your insecurities. That’s abuse. And abuse is NEVER okay. Your woman want…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 09:55 PM
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It’s easier to blame everyone else for your problems when you think you shouldn’t have to change to get a better result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:42 AM
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She dumped you but doesn’t want to feel guilty about it and doesn’t want to seem like the bad guy, so she suggested you two can stay friends so she doesn’t feel bad about herself for dumping you. Do you want her back? Do you want to just be friends? No? Then cut her off and tell her that you can’t be just friends after what you’ve shared. Leave the door open in case she changes her mind, but start reflecting on what might have caused her to dump you, then never do it again. Lift, go fuck ten oth…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 09:22 PM
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It seems obvious, but I’m saying it anyway. When women are describing what they want in men and how they want men to treat them, they’re saying the men to whom they’re already attracted to do these things and be this way. Men do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:35 PM
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You’re welcome
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:57 AM
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In other words, giving people what they really want. They just do it for a self-serving agenda instead of wanting a connection.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:18 PM
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In other words, they’re acting perfectly normal and just complaining that they’re punching above their weight, because the men they want don’t want them. No different than what the average frustrated chump (aka bluepillers, simps, nice guys and inkwell guys) complains about constantly. “The types of people I find attractive don’t want me.” Solution: become more attractive and learn Game
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:09 PM
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You can’t go from 0 to 1 in her desire, but you can go from 1 to 10 by making her feel shit and getting her hamster spinning
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:38 PM
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Self encouraging lol
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:37 PM
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Psychopathic tendencies can help because you’re not attached to the outcome, and you don’t have any real emotional investment. You think nothing of fucking with her feelings because you know that it produces results. We manipulate each other’s emotions all the time. We as a society have a terrible association with the word “manipulation.” The dictionary defines manipulation as “to handle skillfully.” Skillfully handle women’s emotions in both positive and negative directions. Give her positive e…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:36 PM
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Don’t let it make you hopeless. Be grateful she chose you. Also, she sounds kinda shallow. If you can manipulate a woman’s emotions, that’s all you need.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:17 PM
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She could have just been having a bad day. You’re interpreting what happened to you as “this must have happened to me because I’m ugly.” That’s a shit story to tell yourself. Shit like that has happened to me, and I’ve had to tell people “I’m sorry you’re having such a horrible day that you feel the need to take it out on some random stranger.” That always gets them to come correct.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 05:27 PM
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Based
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 05:06 PM
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Based
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 05:05 PM
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Spoken like a true coomer. What makes this cope-ridden coomer-doomer “she’s gotta be as hot as a pornstar” shit any different than complaining about hypergamy?
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 05:05 PM
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Based. Fuck what women think of you, your value as a human being is not tied to how many women you can sleep with or how many women want you. It’s this culture in the USA that lies to us telling us this is the case. Fuck that shit. You determine your value as a human being. Saying women determine your value is giving your power away and putting them on a pedestal.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:55 PM
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Based. You can be a “genetic dead end” only if your parents selected each other, which means you have attractive enough genes you inherited from the both of them.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:53 PM
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Projection
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:29 PM
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This
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:23 PM
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Why would she want to insult Chad anyway? It would risk her standing with him
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 03:12 AM
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The black pill is a narrative that seeks to explain why some men seem to get selected by women naturally and others either get ignored or have to work very hard to get noticed by women. I’d suggest taking a break from black pill spaces, for one. Secondly, delve into some of the red pill success stories (from simp to pimp type things) and read their literature about how to overcome the anger phase. How old are you, my friend?
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:48 PM
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Based
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 08:08 PM
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Based
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:11 AM
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All this crap about Chad having privileges normies don’t get sounds an awful lot like liberal/feminist rhetoric
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:45 PM
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I’m a 5’5” semi-handsome manlet who had to learn how to talk to women and stop being a Nice Guy from books. What I lack in the height and muscle department, I had to make up for in Game, intelligence, and looksmaxing. I was an incel who was always getting friendzoned or cheated on when I somehow managed to get a girlfriend. I poured all my efforts into leveling up when I hit 22.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 11:39 PM
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Not exactly. Lots of men love “bitches.” Nice Guys practically fall in love at first insult.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:56 PM
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You’re right. This “most men” demographic are simpy and will just worship the ground a woman walks on for having sex with them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:34 PM
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Based
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:33 PM
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You forgot 3. Steal his heart I’ve had women do both 1 and 2 and I’ve never felt compelled to commit. Why buy the cow when I get the milk for free? 1 and 2 only work for “most men” because that demographic is desperate to feel loved and wanted due to low self-esteem and body image issues. Cope and seethe.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 07:32 PM
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Men have no problem with women wanting Chad. False. Lots of men bitch and complain all the time on Reddit and other places that women never want to fuck them and only want Chads. Just this alone causes the whole rant to fall apart. And men most certainly DO lie about what they want, otherwise they wouldn’t end up in the friendzone by hiding their intentions. It’s lying by omission.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:31 PM
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This is like the seventh time you’ve posted this
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 11:31 PM
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Maybe women have it “easier” because us dudes are always putting them on pedestals
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 05:44 PM
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Women go with how they feel about you. It doesn’t matter how you feel about her. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:03 PM
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How dare you out us like that, we’ve just had lots of practice🥴
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:31 PM
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Buddy, you’ve GOT to get way more male friends who are doing the shit you want to do with your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/23 12:44 AM
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Lmao many younger women are on birth control too so…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:04 PM
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Making men angry at women online is a business, because if it didn’t work to make these content creators money, people wouldn’t watch their videos. As far as your relationship goes, it sounds like you two have some pretty big values differences. Not only that, he comes across as extremely dorky and socially inept. He calls you masculine for standing up for yourself? That’s gaslighting.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 05:40 PM
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Let me pick this apart. Your first point: Your first sentence is a flawed premise and a hasty generalization. The next sentence is evident of a mindset that Dr. Robert Glover calls a covert contract. It’s “I’ll do abc for you but I won’t tell you I’m expecting xyz in return and I’ll never say I want xyz because I don’t want to upset you or look needy.” Your third sentence, unfortunately is evident of the fact that we live in a society that promotes casual narcissism. Your second point: Good star…
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 08:34 PM
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Username checks out
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 04:38 PM
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Back when I was an AFC, I was always trying to get with women who clearly didn’t want me and made it known in no uncertain terms they would never want me that way. I occasionally find myself feeling the urge to repeat this trauma even today, but I know to steer clear know when I can catch myself doing it. Meanwhile, the women who wanted me were women I had absolutely zero interest in. Why? Because they just weren’t hot enough for my liking. They were incredibly nice girls and absolute sweetheart…
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 04:37 PM
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Chase Amante of GirlsChase always says, escalate as quickly as possible
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 11:35 PM
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Hidden in Plain Sight by Avrum G. Weiss, Ph.D. Men in Love by Nancy Friday
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 05:53 PM
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I have several types. I adore petite women (I’m 5’5”), women with wavy dark hair and glasses, goth/alt/emo/metal/punk chicks, tall white women/bombshell blondes, women with pixie-cuts, Asian women, Latinas, and Middle Eastern women. The types that are mutually attracted to me the most tend to be petite women, tall white women, Latinas, Asian women, and goth/alt/emo/metal/punk chicks. Sometimes, these demographics overlap. For the rest that are only marginally attracted to me right out the gate, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:07 PM
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“I can change her”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:54 PM
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“Just get plastic surgery bro” lmao
/r/AllPillDebate26/04/23 12:18 AM
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I’m average-looking for the record lmao
/r/AllPillDebate26/04/23 12:12 AM
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5’5” 25 year old here, I have never had a problem with the ladies because I’m a musician and have good people skills, anyone can get laid and get a hot gf and I’m proof
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 11:18 PM
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25, turning 26 in September
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 08:02 PM
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Agreed. A low-empathy woman will either be a narcissist or a people-pleaser. Those types of men and women tend to attract each other and a healthy man or woman will be repulsed by them.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 07:58 PM
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Core trauma turns anyone off, unless you’re a Codependent people-pleaser/fixer/rescuer type. When a grown man has deep insecurities he doesn’t know how to fix, it makes women feel unsafe. It makes women go “ew, his mother must not have loved him if he expects me to act like her.” That turns them off. It makes sense for her to take care of a helpless child, but calming a grown man’s insecurities is something that repulses her and often times she herself won’t even know why.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 07:53 PM
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Depends what you mean by “better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:12 PM
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Fuck no. How else would the sex between us already have been fantastic right out the gate? Ever slept with a virgin girl? I have. They’re awkward as fuck, they’re kinda scared, they don’t really know what to do, and they fall in love with you afterwards. I’m not about that. I like women who can let loose with me to the same extent I like letting loose. Give me passion, not “I don’t know what to do but now I’m in love with you,” stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:44 PM
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Initially, the control freak’s abusive tendencies are misconstrued as strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:21 AM
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People who don’t know themselves well in general, really. How many people do you see these days that just totally lack self-awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:51 AM
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Corey Wayne always put it as thus: What women say they want isn’t necessarily what they emotionally respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:45 PM
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No such thing as “good girls” or “bad girls.” They’re only “girls.” One man’s whore is another man’s Madonna. Whether or not you can bring that out of her is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:44 AM
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Most men can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:29 PM
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As someone (M24) who’s been meeting, dating, and seducing women his whole life (and who has been in a LTR for the past 2 years) I have this to say that will hopefully answer your questions: Generally, chasing someone implies they’re running away from you. When you chase a woman, she’s going to feel a little weirded out that you’re putting so much effort into trying to get to know her and show her you like her. In her mind, it should be easy and effortless. Women do not care about how much you li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:10 PM
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Many people lack standards and integrity. That’s why you see so many dudes say shit like “women break rules for alphas and make rules for betas.” Lots of them have flimsy standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:44 PM
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This is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:37 PM
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Realistic? Not at all. It is human nature, however. Everyone wants to feel like they matter to someone else, especially to someone of the sex they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:18 AM
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Every woman likes to feel she’s a man’s #1 at all times. No exceptions, even if she isn’t attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:10 AM
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Something something “she will love me for who I am!!!1!” LOL give me a break. Become great. You owe it to yourself. And any chick who bows down to societal programming is no chick you want long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:57 PM
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Bro what’s the TL;DR
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:01 AM
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LOL betas always tryna steal what should be given to alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:34 PM
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They probably talked about how your performance was in bed was bad.
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:34 PM
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All these people come here insisting they’re right. They just want to be heard and validated. They’re not necessarily looking for solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:16 AM
5

I’m 5’5” and never had a problem with the ladies, shorter or taller. They like me because I’m confident, I’m charming, I’m good-looking and I’m talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:02 PM
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She already mentally moved on from you long before the relationship ended and this other guy was groomed in the background. She stays with you out of convenience until she’s completely over you and then monkey-branches. Is it ethical? Maybe not. Does it ensure she is protected from the potential repercussions of you lashing out? Yes. Is she insecure? Highly likely.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:53 AM
2

24M, 22 N-Count. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:42 PM
2

It’s because the dick game was trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:54 AM
1

“Come on, man.” —Coach Corey Wayne
/r/TheRedPill19/05/22 12:41 AM
3

I believe in realistic love, not ideal love. Ideal love is just that: an ideal. Realistic love is true love and is much more consistent, dependable, and attainable than fleeting ideals. Realistic love is based in choosing to show your partner your devotion and appreciation every single day. It’s giving your very best because someone who loves you brings out the best in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:30 PM
28

“When a woman likes you, you’ll know. If she doesn’t, you’ll be confused.” -Coach Corey Wayne
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:40 PM
14

I really think the debate comes to what’s socially attractive vs what’s biologically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:29 PM
1

You know, back in the day they just called this behavior from both men and women “sowing your wild oats.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:06 PM
6

I enjoy Rollo’s definition of frame: “Frame is an often subconscious, mutually acknowledged personal narrative under which auspices people will be influenced.”
/r/TheRedPill01/04/22 06:40 PM
2

Simple. She liked you too much off the bat for you to see her as “Easy” so ASD kicked in and did the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:47 PM
1

If I invite a woman out, I’m paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:43 AM
1

There is no such thing as rejection. There is only momentary incompatibility caused by value differences and taste preferences. These are fluid and can change. The same woman who rejected you two years ago can all of a sudden be attracted to you now, two years later. That’s because now you have more common ground, a shared “demographic” if you will. When you don’t share a “demographic,” this creates friction which prevents her from becoming sexually and emotionally invested in you, even if she’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:37 AM
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Women are attracted to what they’re attracted to and they respond to what they respond to, especially when they genuinely desire a man. Attraction cannot be negotiated. A woman with poor character will most definitely take the opportunity to have the thrill of a good AF while remaining involved with the BB because he’s convenient. I’ve been on both ends of this, and it holds true both ways. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 07:03 AM
4

When you stop caring, results come.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:01 AM
2

I suspect English is not OP’s first language
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:00 AM
5

Trick question: a woman who loves the shit out of you also wants to bang the shit out of you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:25 PM
2

Yes, it is a lot of work for men. Women have always historically been the choosers in who reproduces and who doesn’t. That’s why the burden of performance rests squarely upon the shoulders of the male. A man owes it to himself and his entire bloodline of successful ancestors before him to become great.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:19 AM
1

Monogamy being the norm gave everyone the unspoken promise that there’s a mate for them and no one else can steal that mate. Complete and utter hogwash. It’s always been a competition to reproduce and anyone who tells you otherwise is trying to sell you something.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:16 AM
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Sounds like dudes are picking women who don’t choose them (by definition the wrong women) and use that an excuse to complain and continue to be subpar.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:12 AM
1

Those boxes get ticked only because most dudes these days are complete simpy morons with no standards. Ask the average guy what he wants in a woman if her appearance was a non-issue and he’ll have a hard time answering you.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:04 AM
1

I’m actually agreeing with you here. The average woman puts in effort to be visually appealing while the average guy doesn’t really do much.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:57 PM
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If you’re a woman and you aren’t beautiful, you may as well be invisible to 90% of healthy red-blooded men.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:15 PM
6

Reduce it down and it becomes: he’s emotionally strong, he’s socially aware, and he’s decisive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:22 AM
0

After my last breakup (which was absolutely awful because the relationship became so toxic and suffocating) I swore off monogamy. I use Blackdragon/Caleb Jones’ approach to “ethical non-monogamy.” As someone who is no longer monogamous, I looked back at my relationship history I’ve had with various women in my life and found I actually have much more experience in non-monogamous relationships initiated by me. Every time I’ve initiated monogamous relationships, it’s been god awful and gone to shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:07 PM
3

Corey Wayne talked about this exact concept at length in his first book, How to Be a 3% Man. He says that there are women who move on really quickly after a breakup because they’ve already checked out emotionally months before the actual breakup and the dude had no idea because he was clueless and thought everything was fine. He also contrasts that with the image of women he had dated in the past who are monkey-branchers and will rub it in your face that they have replacements lined up ready to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:14 PM
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As Corey Wayne has said, it’s a scientifically documented and verified fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings towards them are unclear. “He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not...” Women Are More Attracted To Men Whose Feelings Are Unclear
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:45 PM
0

ASD
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:21 PM
1

Only be with people you want to tear the clothes off of. If you aren’t satisfied with who you’re attracting, upgrade yourself until you can pull who you really desire. This prevents feeling like you’re settling, this prevents monkey-branching, and this prevents the need for hypergamous urgency. This goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:03 PM
2

You make them cum other ways. There are numerous ways a woman can reach orgasm. Vaginally is one, clitorally is one, anally is another one, cervically is another one and is one of the most powerful ones women can experience. Some women have even been known to orgasm just from having their necks kissed or their nipples sucked and you don’t even have to touch them! It’s wild, because as guys we have to have our penises stroked until we ejaculate to have an orgasm.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/21 07:39 PM
1

The great dividing line of the Manosphere!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/21 07:37 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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