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| 20 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to. | Question For Women | AwardLimp2736 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 05:31 AM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone" | Debate | AwardLimp2736 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | "Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night. | Debate | AwardLimp2736 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:08 PM |
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| 1 | Some men need to wake up and realise that being single and being lonely are not the same thingThe only people who don't realize this are women on reddit I'm so over the whole male lonelyness psyop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 01:27 AM |
| 3 | As a guy, the "mysoginists" are not that succesful as you all make them out to beBP consider having standards for women as misogynistic. BP consider speaking about the observed reality as misogynistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 01:16 AM |
| 1 | People are inconsistent about masculine traits and behaviorsMen do have instinctual inclinations, but as humans, we never have to be slaves to our instincts ofcourse, ideally your instincts align with society, but often it's not the case, or at least not completely. You do the best with what you can and act accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?Not interested in your puritan shaming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?It really depends what you classify as "peaking" A young woman can leverage her beauty, leaving young men in the dust, but then so could some young gay men In terms of career success, it's equal In terms of physical attractiveness, both sexes decline from their 20s, with men seemingly become unattractive slower than women (not exactly peaking tho, just declining less) Biologically women have their peak fertility window in their teenage years, while men's contribution diminishes at a slower rate,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:23 AM |
| – | Chores are survival skills not gender rolesI look for a woman who can cook and clean, so she can provide a clean environment for a child and cook them healthy and tasty food for them I honestly believe guys that don't understand that these traits are an evolutionary indication of a good mother are struggling with arrested development | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 09:47 PM |
| – | To say that a woman is traumatized and hurt from her past any time she brings up a legit criticism of men is evil.Women complaining about their trauma, is kinda like Zionists complaining about anti-semitism to me at this point Sure, abuse is not good, but did you maybe make some choices to perpetuate it? And other people have bigger issues to worry about When men stop killing themselves at twice the rate of women, I'll start to worry about it. When women stop fawning over utter assholes because they are attractive, maybe I'll take your trauma a bit more seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:44 PM |
| – | The easiest way to have success with Women with the least effort, is to be in a enviroment or Situation where you meet a lot off Women. This sounds so simple, but most men dont realize this and claim its not true, but it is.I mean, yeah, bro isn't wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Did you learn and use certain strategies for dating?Either way. Just be seen in public with women, especially attractive ones There are a lot of theories on pre-selection, jealousy, safety. Women are also pretty vapid and need something to talk about like who's dating who etc. This is 100% in social groups, but I've never been privy to it from women I'm not somehow already connected to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Did you learn and use certain strategies for dating?Women feel whatever they feel, all I'm doing is showing up with another woman, be it a friend or a date It basically makes it much easier to talk to other women and make contacts. I've had women reach out to me after a party I attended to see if I was single again after going there with a girl etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Did you learn and use certain strategies for dating?I've used many throughout my dating history, and many of them worked. They give you a higher percentage of "closing" the girl The best one by far would probably be having a "pivot". Letting women see you with another attractive woman out in public, or to a bar you frequent. Sometimes it seems women can smell a girlfriend on you, and come out of the woodwork when you start dating someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:11 PM |
| 2 | A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationshipsThere is a plethora of women on reddit alone chasing after men who won't commit to them and keeping them in their roster, are cheating on them relentlessly, or have an open relationship There are also plenty of couples in the exact relationship you claim not to exist Sorry, but how is this even a debate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?If it's no alimony, it's child support or having most of you assets taken from you Sure, just marry someone richer than you. I agree. If you can find a woman who is richer and who'll marry you, everything I said doesnt apply. Otherwise don't get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 06:09 AM |
| 5 | If a man didn’t ask the right questions about dating, it’s not women’s fault he didn’t get the answers he wanted.The guys that want relationships, don't want to be treated like the guy a woman settles for after she had her fun Those guys often have sex held away from them, while the girl was happily getting bent over in the park by assholes who treat her like trash At this point men have woken up to the reality of how women act. There is just way too much evidence, and the cat is truly out of the bag. If you accept begin settled for and having a different standard applied to you but the woman you're thinki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 11:51 AM |
| – | Have you ever realized that it's better for you to be alone than in a relationship? (if that's the case for you)These days I only really care to be in a relationship with a girl I really get along with from the start I'm very easily annoyed by female BS, and very protective of my emotions and my time If a woman makes things easy for me, I'm willing to entertain things and see where it goes even if I'm not that into her, but otherwise, I next pretty quickly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?There are men going to prison daily because of it, but ok? Men like Robin Williams have killed themselves for it, because they were forced to whore themselves out for as much money as possible so they could pay, but ok? I mean, how is this an actual conversation with the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:56 AM |
| – | It’s willful ignorance on men’s part to think women never cared about physical attractiveness.um.... nope The cat is out of the bag unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | There has never been a better time to be a man"use red pill knowledge to level up and fuck some clueless guy's wife. Have multiple girlfriends and label it kink. Go for the divorced hoes who tend to be total freaks." Done all of them, lol I completely agree. My Grandparents didn't hold hands for months when dating. If you even had one causal fling, you've probably had more sex than most men throughout history I remember begin screamed at as a child for offering up my seat to a woman on the bus, and have been enjoying keeping my seat ever si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:53 PM |
| – | It’s willful ignorance on men’s part to think women never cared about physical attractiveness.It's just that men didn't have a full realization of how much women valued attractiveness over all other male traits, like being a decent human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessI've dated more women that wanted to lock me down into a relationship than I have who just wanted to have fun and be single, but I certainly don't think ALL women want partnership or a family Just from my observation men tend to get obsessed over a certain woman, while women get obsessed over the idea of love and relationship, with an *insert man here* attitude So a man can go his whole life never running into anyone desirable enough, and kind be content on his own, while for women to stay singl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?Western marriage contracts don't protect men in case of infidelity, so a woman can cheat relentlessly and still take half of the things you worked your whole life for, and then have you forced by the courts to pay alimony or face prison time If you still choose to enter into said contract, then you are an idiot, and if you take justice into your own hands, you are a criminal Do I care as much about an idiot beating a cheater compared to say, a random guy just clocking a random woman on the stree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:32 PM |
| – | Do you feel shame about desiring women?I do my best to not care about what society thinks of my sexuality, but it is a struggle sometimes, and I'm certainly not fully expressive of it in public and hold my self back sometimes from "male gazing" or approaching women When you travel to places where this puritan type culture doesn't exist, you realize how restrictive you truly are in the West, and how much shame is heaped on both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecyWe're on reddit, half of those "men" are probably women with nothing better to do I'm a 40 average looking guy, and I just went on a date with an attractive girl who was 20, and have had a very good dating life. RP has been good to me, so I question what these men were doing and what RP had to do with it. Maybe you can give me an example and I'll comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 09:22 AM |
| 6 | Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecyYou're never gonna know who is RP irl, and if you're a straight woman, you have most likely been fucked by them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsNo, there is one Red Pill, but there are many different individuals who took it There could be RP guys that are antinatalists, and the RP is just knowledge that would facilitate their ideology of human extinction, so the last thing they would be talking about is how society needs to have more kids The underlying RP knowledge stays the same because it is reality, but what people do with that knowledge will change based on individuals and circumstance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:15 AM |
| 4 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsFirst of all, there needs to be a distinction made between Red Pill, and Red Pilled creators The Red Pill simply means the acceptance of certain societal and biological truths, what someone does with those truths after that and how they explain it comes down to personal opinion For example, with your first point of: Polyamory, as in “men should have multiple wives and cheat as they please” There are just as many Red Pill content creators, if not more so, the believe we need stronger Christian va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+I went on a date with a much younger woman just the other day, and have younger women flirt and hit on me The attraction can still be there, and it's societal pressure that prevents women from dating older man rather than desire Just like men have kinks for older women, women have kinks for older guys, maybe even more so RE daddy issues There's also a factor of maturity. I've dated younger women that are too mature and "boring" for their younger counterparts, and do much better seeing a play or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:23 AM |
| 6 | What do you feel like hinders you most in dating?Probably my age at this point. I'm still attractive and look younger than I am, but seen younger women's attitude shift when my age comes up I also don't lie on my online profiles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:11 AM |
| 4 | Mixed cultural messages about sexuality create confusion around consent and expectations.I've seen guys being very forceful with women at clubs, and girls eating it up It's another thing that if women reward there will be more of, just like sending love letters to criminals, dating criminals because they get the feels etc. I got laid the most when I was dealing drugs and was a drop kick without a job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.What do you mean? What do you want. People are still having kids on a much lower rate, but the option is there if you really want it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.The world is blurred with people not researching what they're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.Pretty much this. I'm also confused by her comment. Maybe she holds some weird view of what RP is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:02 AM |
| 19 | Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive.It's just evolution. Environments will always change, and those who adapt, survive and procreate will continue the culture and their genetics Everything else is honestly above our pay grade to worry about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Men present a false narrative in dating"Would you like to marry a woman you’re not attracted to if she was a good caregiver?" Yes. Sexual attraction is teenage level of thinking. Only children, and apparently women consider this to be all and end all You have to be a complete numptie to think I would for example chose an attractive broke crack head, over a kind, loving unattractive woman who comes from a wealthy and secure family To me that question is so retarded, and that fact that you think it's some "gotchya" is so, ehhhh. Good l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Men present a false narrative in datingThey can do whatever they want, just stop bitching about the results that you get Pretty simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Men present a false narrative in datingYou can choose your in the moment hormones, but stop complaining when it leads to bad outcomes Heroin also feels really nice, but there are consequences to wanting to feel good emotions all the time Women choose abusive men for partners because of their feels, then project that horrible behavior to all men instead of admitting the reality, that they are children with no emotional self control or logic behind their action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Men present a false narrative in datingThat really isn't what's happening tho Men are looking at all these women having "situationships" and being used, manipulated and sometimes abused by men that have no long term interest in them They're seeing women go for men that, at least to men, obviously won't settle down with them, and just pointing out that they would have been happy to commit to a woman with that level of beauty, but here she is choosing to get therapy after being pumped and dumped I've been on both sides of the equation,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 06:22 AM |
| 10 | Who actually has it easier in everyday life, men or women?It's probably much more annoying to be a woman because of all the thirst, and all the hormonal and bodily issues they have The biggest problem for men is basically overcoming their urges to be with a woman. If you can do that, and get yourself a decent job, I think life is pretty sweet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.The older I got, the more sex became about the connection to me, and I don't really want to connect to someone who doesn't give me respect The urge to "get your rocks off" never gets under control unless you get it under control, and once you do that, you have way more freedom to do things that you want and don't base your self worth on how many warm holes you put your thing in Every woman I have sex with now is special to me, and the interactions came easily, and I make sure they are very enjoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:26 AM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerProbably not. Could be the same reason lesbians have high divorce rates There's a way to make non penetrative sex very loving and connected also, but from what I heard, most guys have watched too much porn and just want to get the girl "off" as quickly as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.I only put effort in now for women I'm really attracted to and get along with. Very low tolerance for anyone else, and would rather be alone or do my own thing I've had plenty of sex, experimented with all kinds of experiences, threesomes etc, and I learned that no matter how much fun you had you'll still want more until you gain control of it, which is what I did through practices like nofap and quitting pornography Once you get over the sex thing, you realize the majority of women have very li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:42 AM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.You said you had an issue with the using the term "pair bond" when it's in many, many studies, and then you jump to some straw man I didn't even begin discussing There are plenty of studies showing higher divorce rates and marriage satisfaction where a woman has had multiple partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:56 PM |
| 2 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.Men aren't wired the way women are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.We know what those terms mean within the RP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 04:47 PM |
| 2 | The biggest thing right now we can do to help men is to teach boys as young as possible, to drop as much as possible, any and all need for female validationI don't know how any man can base any semblance of their self worth while observing the kind of men women chose as partners I've been on both sides, and women have chosen me way more when I was an utter piece of shit, dealing drugs (AKA being "interesting") I'm seeing a woman now who cheated on her husband while he was on his death bed, so yeah, if you're going to validate yourself by how wet your dick is, be ready to throw all your other morals in the trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.lol, if anything we understand feelings a lot better than someone who chooses some vague poetic idea of love and ignores the well document chemical and psychological processes involved But ok, lover | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:19 PM |
| 2 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.It's not just the ability to form bonds, but also the "alpha widow" syndrome that leaves women always pining for the "love" they had Met women like this first hand, one who was married to a multi millionare high ranking judge, but told me her one true love was some waiter who gave her some good d one day. At least she's still married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 04:17 PM |
| 2 | RP “truths” disregard a key aspect of human relationships, bonding.How is that not part of RP truths? It's pretty much the main reasoning given for why women with a low body count are desired as their ability to pair bond isn't distorted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 03:17 PM |
| – | A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single.It boggles my mind the shit some men put up with I was also a simp and a pushover but thankfully grew out of that phase fairly quickly. It shouldn't take more than a coffee or drink and maybe a game of pool for a woman to sleep with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Forget the pills. The views expressed here represent a specific internet culture and don't reflect real life.Your claim is that things people speak about here don't represent real life, and I would argue that things said on the internet are more honest representations of what's going on, while in real life the obvious is often kept to yourself For a real life example, I'm currently sleeping with a woman who cheated on her husband with me while he was on his death bed. I now fuck her while his urn sits on the shelf, and her kids (both girls) are starting to suggest I should marry their mommy (I won't) S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Do you think you understand female dating perspective?I understand it and accept it, I just wish women would be open about it and didn't gaslight everyone, and stopped being utter hypocrites about it also | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Forget the pills. The views expressed here represent a specific internet culture and don't reflect real life.Our ideas come from real life experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.If you think only horrible people attract horrible people, go and read the countless stories of women talking about being with assholes or being with men who abuse them On the other side of those stories are men who would never fathom hurting a woman, and would bend over backwards for someone they love and who loves them back, but are ignored Women can date whoever they want at the end of the day, but it's the gaslighting and hypocricy that gets to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:57 PM |
| 24 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.I wouldn't say poison, more like revealing the truth Even when it comes to Loui manospere doc that I only seen clips of, but I saw that Marvin guy, who again, I don't listen to, but everyone was giving him shit because of his attitude and sexism, but what I saw is a hot, very feminine and lovely girl saying she is in love with him Yes, she left because of the pressure (who knows if she'll come back later) but the fact is she WAS with him, she WAS in love what they do works because they are rewar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Being offish or disinterested around women is not as attractive as men on here often think it isThis is one thing many RPers also get wrong It's because a better word to use is selfish rather than avoidant If you are selfish then you will naturally pay less attention to a woman and react to her less. You will also do and say the right things naturally when focused on the best outcome for yourself and not her When you are pretending not to be interested in a woman, but really you are and forcing yourself to hold back, it is the opposite of masculine I was just at the gym the other day and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:33 AM |
| 1 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipI think it's reasonable, but I wouldn't take a woman out for more than a drink or a coffee, and maybe a game of pool until we are sleeping together Once we have become intimate, it would depend on the persons finances, but if your partner is broke and you still want to be with them, you would in general pay for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:14 AM |
| – | monogamous relationships are overrated?Monogamy is a massive sacrifice for put together men. A good partnership can work, but to find a good girl these days is meh, and you should never settle for such a big decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:11 PM |
| 5 | RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own.I'd say RP guys understand women more than women themselves are willing to admit. We judge their actions, we understand their fantasy and things they only share privately. As for society surviving, women have been given the reigns and Western society is a direct result of them having power, for better or for worse, you decide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:07 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"My personal analogy isn't important, but I can talk about after you actually address the topic in your reply and not hyper fixate on the one story I told, that is my current personal observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Did you actually address the discussion at any point.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:12 PM |
| – | Women defend lesbian relationship instability and it exposes the whole narrativeWomen don't seem to have a high tolerance for being around other women. I actually feel bad for the very masculine, butch lesbians for having to deal with this shit as they seem like one of the guys to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:10 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Most men want to do horrible things to child molesters as opposed to the children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 09:47 PM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"I think anyone should be able to enjoy sex with whatever natural range they have. The point is that pornography and out of wack hypergamy severely restricts that range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 05:13 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"My point is that that chemistry and spark is affected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:14 AM |
| -2 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"My point is that her ability to be attracted to these other men is hindered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:12 AM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"It depends. It maybe that you had an amazing experience with a queer man, or many experiences, and you might have associated queer men with value through hypergamy. You may also simply value some trait that a queer man posses, like safety, or matching wardrobes? I think hypergamy would play more of a part in wanting the queerest queer man around, and would become pathological when other perfectly queer men want to be with you, but you are left unsatisfied by them in search of the uber queer guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:11 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Everyone is hypergamous just like everyone has a sexual desire, but that sexual desire is different in men and women, and expresses itself differently. So yes, technically everyone has hypergamy, but it's not at the same strength for everyone, pr presents itself the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:01 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"ofcourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:54 AM |
| -5 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Again, I address this. I like to debate issues and have discussions. Just because I bring up a topic, doesn't mean I'm personally emotionally attached to it. I don't know about these surveys, and I can't speak for all men. It's pretty shocking if men have surpassed women in wanting to settle down. "Cutting her lose" is not one me. Like many women said on here, I ultimately don't know what's going on in her mind, but simply speculating, so I'll just keep enjoying my time with her. I keep my integ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:38 PM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"hypergamy isn't about money alone. What the "best" man is for someone, is very subjective. Some women would preffer a Chriss Hamsworth Over a Bill Gates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:29 PM |
| -1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"You keep telling men women aren't a monolith, but apparently you speak for all women when accepting advice? If you don't want advice from men, that's cool, I wasn't speaking to you individually and there's no need to point it out or to speak for all women. And this is part of the answer for your first question. You hear a logical observation, and suddenly "You're just whinning" or "You're really an incel making up stories" etc. Many women are deluded into thinking men are complaining when most a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:27 PM |
| -1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Maybe the people explaining it aren't describing it clearly. Hypergamy is a feeling, and feelings by their nature are not objective. There are going to be subjective things that trigger that feeling then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:21 PM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"This isn't about judgment, but about seeing a pathology that negatively impacts someone's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:02 PM |
| -4 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Hypergamy doesn't mean finding the best guy objectively. I am reasonably wealthy, but this woman definately has wealthier guys after her. Even this broke guy can be an issue with hypergamy by simply making your sibling FEEL that he is a the best man she can be with. You can't just look at the money and judge imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"it sounds like you have a good, balanced approach. What I described probably isn't an issue for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"I think both men and women are quite capable of dying alone, it's just not ideal, in the same way as an pathology can be managed and the person can live a fulfilling life, but if they don't manage it, they will be negatively affecting themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:45 PM |
| -2 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"As in the desire to be with the best possible partner. There's nothing inherently wrong with this desire by the way, any more than a man's desire for certain physical traits in women. The issues arise when this system is distorted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:41 PM |
| -1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Just like every man should only get aroused by the types of women he sees in porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:38 PM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Whatever you want to attribute it to, it is an observable fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:37 PM |
| -11 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"Just like men who are addicted to porn and develop a distorted sexuality, I recommend women also examine their unique emotional distortions. I'm suggesting that a distorted hypergamy system is negatively affecting women's lives, and saying "it feels good, so I'm going to do it" is no different than a porn addicted guy setting unrealistic sexual and beauty standards because his mind and emotions have been affected. In both cases the "emotion" and attraction has become distorted. IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:35 PM |
| -10 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"That women get screwed over by their hypergamy, which lands them in less than ideal situations and relationships. I gave you a current personal example from my life, but it is very common for women to sabotage their relationships by seeking something better which is an illusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:32 PM |
| -8 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"I'm not sure what you mean by women being different, since it is generally men who are hardwired to remain single. This woman I am with currently, while I only see her rarely, as my choice, she messages me almost daily, has her kids call me. I am the one keeping this a booty call. I have been completely up front about it, but it is her who is allowing it to go on. And this is the thing when it comes to men giving advice to women on these issues. The knee jerk reaction is "I don't need no man", a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:28 PM |
| 2 | why do men act as if women aren't capable of doing stuff by themselves ?So that's two guys... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Most women screen for vanity metrics, not true compatibilityIt depends what a woman wants. Alpha fuks, Beta bucks, but Beta still technically fuks a little bit generally. So women do choose stability and loyalty on their own terms, when they are done "having fun". Most women screen for fun on the front end. It's just annoying when they hypocritically complain about doing otherwise. Nothing wrong with your choice, but stop insulting men's intelligence or projecting repercussions of your choices on all the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:43 AM |
| 3 | If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful?You can be in the unsuccessful percentile of men, and still know the truth. The very realization you're in that zone shows you understand what the zone is, and what you would need to get out of it, but may not be able /willing to do so. Also RP isn't just about being successful with women. Some men just want to navigate women, but have nothing to do with them romantically. Some guys simply like the intellectual discussions. You try to set all the logical fail safes, but the very nature of your q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsI agree. They haven't traveled to a foreign country where the women are more or less normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherThere's different levels of caution, but that would keep you safe. It would also probably severely restrict you. You're approaching protecting yourself as an all or nothing, as opposed to just mitigating risk. You don't need to see all men as predators, but maybe don't get drunk and hop on a bike with a random one you just met? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you find maintaining interpersonal relationships to be easy? Hard? Necessary? Unimportant?Men, or at least me, one man, think practically and strategically as well as emotionally. Our tolerance for an "Ick" is much higher, maybe because other men are just easieer to be around in general, so when there's a practical reason to be friend's with someone, like job progression, networking type thing, it's a lot easier for us to tolerate someone's bad habits. Men also don't need to constantly talk to each other or spend time together to maintain a bond. I have a friend who I go months somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 11:11 PM |
| 10 | How many of you have women in your life and would you ever tell them your views on women?I'm open about my views with the women in my life, but I just don't directly target any of them with my statement. When I say something like "women are often unsatisfied with the guy they're with because they think they can do better" I make it very general, hopefully making them reflect but not directly accusing them of this. I've had many times women say "yep that's me" when describing something. Online I'm a lot more sharp and matter of fact with my statements, so I wouldn't share what I writ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherNot all the people living in that area are going to be gang banners either. Some may even care enough to tell you when they see you to take those colors off and leave the area before you get hurt. It's got nothing to do with ALL of something, but the risk from a small, very violent majority in certain environments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Bad men are not analogous to the weatherThere are certain areas in America that are not only dangerous to walk around on your own, but where you can almost certainly expect a confrontation if you wear the wrong colored clothing. Now knowing this, if I went to this area and decked myself out in the said colored clothing that would facilitate me getting shot, and I get shot, who is to blame? Ofcrouse ideally I should be able to wear whatever I want, and walk around wherever I want wearing it, but that doesn't make me any less shot. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:19 PM |
| 1 | If attractive men use women as disposable with all that entails simply because they have options, then logically any man who will have options will behave like that, and others will just quietly want to, what makes a man a desirable to have in woman's life?Chads do settle with women and get married, start families with them. It's more so that the women who are disposable to these kinds of men have no self awareness and inflate their own value so high, they think the chad will settle for them. A guy who is more at their level might have loved to marry them and commit, but they continue going for the guy that uses them, until that guy get married to someone of equal quality to them. So if women actually dated guys on their level, then you would see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Rollo Tomassi says women shouldn't have been allowed to vote because voting is proxy for war and women would have lost in the case of war, what do you think about this?I don't believe in an egalitarian voting system, as yes, someone who is required to go off and die for the country should have more of a say as to how it is run. I think it's fine to give someone in the army, say, two votes, but still allow women and citizens to vote as they do. But just outright banning women? No. If you're going to ban women, ban everyone in a monarchy of dictatorship at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 01:04 PM |
| – | How should women “take accountability”?Taking accountability means earnestly stating the reasons for something happening, and if those reasons are a result of your actions, saying so instead of trying to weave some story around why it wasn't your fault, and blaming things externally. Ideally for everything in your life to a certain extent. I think both men and women should do this, and it's a healthy way for yourself and the community to heal and grow. I guess I would have to give a specific, RP example here, so I'll take the common … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueWomen love choosing the abusive men tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 05:11 AM |
| 4 | “Men will treat you as well or as poor as you let them” is a mindset that absolves men of accountability.Actual abuse happens in relationships, and relationships are chosen by women. Attacking men for thought crimes , which is what looking or objectifying a woman is, is just away to hurt good men who aren't being abusive but are still men and enjoy the female form, while women constantly choose to be in relationships with men who treat them like crap because it arouses their emotions. So tired of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.My disbelief was more about women not having an orgasm that often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.You got it, that's exactly what I'm asking. Thanks for your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.I'm asking not claiming. Looks are still a strong deciding factor for women choosing a man to have a relationship with, but I'm not clear about it when it comes to actually enjoying sex, hence the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Do negative red pill beliefs about men exist?You still haven't given me a gender specific trait or two when it comes to females. Can you write a few things you feel RP guys should be praising women on that aren't 1 and 2 so I get some idea what you're thinking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Do negative red pill beliefs about men exist?I just answered you, but feel free to list some gender specific female traits you're thinking of that aren't one and two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Do negative red pill beliefs about men exist?Women specific qualities, or just general human qualities? I can mention something like female higher pain tolerance threshold, or their ability to survive in cold water for longer than men. Maybe how their IQ is more stable overall, while men's tends to have a more pronounced curve, with more geniuses but also more stupid people. How their emotional and sexual world seems a lot more complex and interesting? Feel free to share some female specific traits however you feel are worth mentioning. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Do negative red pill beliefs about men exist?I'm not sure how so, unless you're just assuming you know what men write on those subs, but let me clarify what I mean. Western women are so abhorrent in their attitude, that any semblance of femininity and humbleness is taken as groundbreaking in the West, hence in the West you will mostly see men praising women for being feminine and humble, or looking after their bodies and not being morbidly obese. Once these things become the norm, and are almost a given, men absolutely become smitten over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 12:20 AM |
| – | Should men delete Instagram to break the singles-event “followers & likes” dynamic?I think you should delete instagram if you don't like using instagram, and I think you shouldn't follow people you don't want to follow. I have a friend with over 80k followers, and she is broke, so I really don't see how much effort to income some of these women are making, but maybe it feels nice to have so many follows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Do negative red pill beliefs about men exist?We have good observations about women also, but generally RP is concerned with navigating dangers and obstacles, so you probably won't hear about a lot of positive traits being discussed, but it does not mean we don't hold them. Being in the West however, I can tell you women here are severely lacking in many of them. If you want to see some RPlish men singing female praises, go over to a Passport Bro type of sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Do negative red pill beliefs about men exist?There are Red Pill observations on men, but seeing it as negative or positive is a personal judgement call, as it is with RP observations on women. I guess a common one would be that men seek sexual variety and quantity, AKA they want to fuck everything that moves. We are also generally attracted to younger, "fertile", physically beautiful women. As far as I'm concerned, so long as you're a consenting adults you can sleep with who ever, and how ever many people you want, and this applies to both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Agree That Men are Invisible to Women.Once a woman is sexually satisfied, she rarely seeks out other men to complicate things, while a desirable man could have multiple women on rotation. This naturally leaves many men in the dust. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 10:37 PM |
| 30 | Blue Piller beliving "dont drowns in pussy = bad human"Women like to think that they are great at selecting partners, and that their selections somehow bestows some kind of exceptional status in society. Seeing all the love letters and marriage proposals serial killers get in prison should clue you in to it being otherwise. Sometimes being a good human and being sexually selected correlates, but so often it does not, and if I had to place bets I'd say a guy drowning in pussy is likely to be a human piece of garbage more often than not. The whole ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 10:34 PM |
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