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Value is subjective, but there are certainly traits that are commonly preferred by a lot of people when looking for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:24 AM
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People typically practice monogamous/ serial monogamous assortative mating across various traits. It’s just not as interesting as other theories and beliefs so it’s doesn’t generate as much traction online. Hypergamy and harem fantasy is better rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:19 AM
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least delusional PPDer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:38 AM
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I think they’d be a bit autistic and i’d mogg them to the netherworld
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:53 AM
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How assets are divided up depends upon the jurisdiction in which the marriage takes place. I think a lot of women would consider their wedding day to be both their days. The legal creation of a family. Yeah there’s certainly risks involved in marriage, like all things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:09 AM
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Your comment appealed to emotion without regards for the facts. You provide one anecdote about a wedding that was over a million dollars in expenses which isn’t representative of the average wedding at all. I thought this sub hated anecdotes You go on to complain about alimony when it’s only awarded in roughly 10% of divorce settlements. https://wjlgs.law.wisc.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/1276/2014/07/McMullen-article.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:42 AM
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You’re telling on yourself when you say women never initiate. Women approach me often when the situation warrants it. If a women finds you attractive she’ll let you know in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:22 PM
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I see. I feel like maybe I should’ve said East Asia instead because I know white guys who live in Japan for example and women there seem to really dig them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:01 PM
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They certainly could, they just choose not to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:54 PM
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How can it be betabuxxing if they find the guy attractive? in that case every guy who pays for a date or provides for his wife is a betabuxx? this term has lost its meaning if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:53 PM
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You misspelt “buy”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:54 AM
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You keep referring to sex tourists or men who buy a foreign bride when that’s not who I’m addressing. Your first paragraph is what i’m talking about. You can look up the data yourself, certain races have an advantage in the dating market even in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:09 AM
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I hereby diagnose you with oneitis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:00 AM
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I was speaking about the men who strive to be what you describe in your first paragraph. Those men certainly have an advantage in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:54 AM
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You seem to be taking one type of situation that does happen and painting every man who finds a partner abroad with the same brush. Seems intellectually lazy and dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:34 AM
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It certainly does happen, but I don’t think you can deny that many asian women seem to have a distinct preference white men regardless of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:27 AM
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I think many southeast asian women are genuinely attracted to white men. They would likely be above average height in those nations as well. How is that betabuxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:19 AM
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Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:52 AM
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Agreed. Especially If you’re a white guy in those countries you have a desired phenotype, coupled with more buying power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:39 AM
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If a women finds you attractive in many cases they’ll approach you and let it be known. Especially in cases involving alcohol where inhibitions are lower. Have experienced it many times
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:38 AM
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As a man i respectfully disagree and have never viewed women this way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:48 AM
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Not personally attacking you at all man. I’m happy for you. I just find it dehumanizing to label a group as “discount” based on projecting your own views onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:46 AM
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Probably wise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:39 AM
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I see. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:39 AM
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Just be a man and post it on your profile like me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:37 AM
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Nothing wrong with going where your product has more demand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:35 AM
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I always viewed western men geomaxxing less about going somewhere the women are different, and more about going somewhere the men you’re competing with are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:31 AM
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You guys are your own worst enemy. You could attract a great girl who genuinely cares about you, but you’d fuck it up thinking she’s from the “discount market”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:25 AM
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Ok bro if you get off on bringing down women for being confident in themselves despite not being models go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:14 AM
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To you. Subjectivity exists. It’s not black and white, learn to see the shades of grey
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:10 AM
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Ppd men are absolutely not a representative sample of the average man. As long as you find your girl attractive who gives a fuck what others think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:00 AM
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Most men don’t want financially dependent arm candy, they want a partner. You should marry a gold digger, you two deserve each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:46 AM
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Backpedaling lol. I didn’t want to send you a novel. Anyways, I’m sure you’ve memorized all the rage bait one liners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:05 PM
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Yeah but c’mon dude almost no women think that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:59 PM
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Making sweeping generalizations eludes to a statement that is the majority of cases. The vast majority of women don’t think men want to use dating apps as free prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:55 PM
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I think neurotypicality is a trait that is extremely underrated when discussing this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:48 PM
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One individual women says that and you sperg out making it into r/womenbad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:45 PM
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Each individual decides what success looks like for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:18 PM
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I got a couple billionaires I can think of off the top of my head. Look up the wives Mark Zuckerberg and Jensen Huang. You can’t tell me those women aren’t average looking. They could easily dump them for a model, but they don’t. Because they’re smart and realize going strictly for looks is foolish. Cillian Murphy and Patrick Mahomes have pretty average looking wives as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:26 AM
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I think you have tunnel vision for a certain type of relationship which ignores the plethora of high status men who are married to women that many would regard as average looking. I personally as a guy think the best strategy is to choose the girl who chooses you. Going for the hottest possible women you could pull via leveraging status, money, etc is fools errand in my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:13 AM
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Ok people have whatever preferences they like. I don’t think men most men consciously analyze a women’s breast size like an autist or that it’s even a big factor. I also don’t only view the criteria for a women being attractive as being a model. If I see a women and find her attractive, then she’s attractive to me. Other men’s opinion of her means nothing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:56 AM
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This forum isn’t a representative sample of men writ large. Also, there’s plenty of taller men who prefer smaller chester women. Attractiveness is a holistic measure anyways so a guy bring taller doesn’t automatically make him higher mate value than a shorter man. You also seem to love talking about rich men so here’s a study for you. Men with highest socioeconomic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:45 AM
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Everyone settles to a certain extent. It’s called life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:54 AM
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Which is obviously true on both fronts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:50 AM
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Probably autistic who can’t see nuances and instead think in all or nothing terms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:34 PM
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You are dense. Of course the contract itself isn’t the cause, but the act of getting married is often a marker of social class. This lends itself to certain behaviours that contribute to successful relationships and healthier upbringings for children brought up in such households.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:08 PM
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I mean it doesn’t take a genius to see that there’s probably some causality at play. Childhood family dynamics impacting outcomes later in life doesn’t seem like a stretch to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:12 AM
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yeah seems the ideal lifestyle for the commitment phobic/ avoidant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:03 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:53 AM
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It doesn’t matter. I’m just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:52 AM
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What do you think of dudes like Michael Saylor, Alex Karp, Jack Dorsey in terms of personal life? Wealthy guys who’ve never married nor had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:47 AM
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There is mountains of academic literature supporting this view with decades of data and you’re gonna hand wave it away by saying it doesn’t prove causality at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:46 PM
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My counter is observable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:41 PM
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Successful marriages often times are made up of people with tertiary education, better future time orientation, etc. Smarter people make smarter choices. It’s no surprise children from these households fair better later in life. Broke people shouldn’t make babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:40 PM
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He’s absolutely correct. You’re a fool if you think single mother households have no worse impact on a child than successfully married ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:32 PM
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There’s nothing “wrong” with it in some cosmic sense, but the fact is children residing in two-biological-parent married families tend to enjoy better outcomes than do their counterparts raised in other family forms. source: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3091824/#:~:text=Children%20residing%20in%20two%2Dbiological,several%20domains%20of%20well%2Dbeing. People can do what they want, but it’s interesting when a certain demographic complains about wealth inequality, crime rates, etc, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:24 PM
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Doesn’t matter because there’s a market for overweight women and less so for similar weight men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:07 PM
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True, but at the end of the day sperm is cheap, and eggs are expensive. By way of biology women have evolved to be pickier than men. Burden of performance lies with men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:27 AM
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People “settle” for the best they can get. It’s like a market where people get a product (being their partners mate value) based on their own buying power (their mate value). It’s why relative lookmatches are common. That’s how I view it anyways. I feel like optimizing is a better term for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:55 AM
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The average guy is fat so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:44 AM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:31 AM
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JBW is law
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:56 AM
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There are tons of 6ft+ guys who struggle and plenty of guys below 6ft that are successful. It’s not either or, it’s a balance. It’s a holistic measure. Guys who are 5’10 with good faces aren’t going to lose out cause of 2 inches. A good chunk of the so called top 20% will be under 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:03 AM
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As long as you’re average height (5’9+) face reigns supreme for men. Face > All
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:55 AM
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B. I like em a bit bigger anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:51 AM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm There are also studies that say the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:33 AM
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All solid points. Thanks for taking the time to write that
/r/BlackPillScience22/01/25 01:21 AM
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What if the man has the opportunity to marry? I see a lot of redpillers and mstows saying marriage is a bad deal for men
/r/BlackPillScience21/01/25 10:57 PM
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So from the black pill perspective is a male pursuing marriage wise or not?
/r/BlackPillScience21/01/25 10:30 PM
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After reading that it’s no surprise you’re in this predicament
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:14 AM
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Water
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:52 PM
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Nothing to do with what I said. Vetting partners is important and you are free to have whatever standards you want. The point of discussion was bringing up abortion rights and somehow relating them to women carrying fetuses influenced by past partners DNA (telegony) which is bad science. Caring about your potential wife’s sexual past if any is smart. Using the fear of telegony as one of those reasons is stupid because it’s not a biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:44 AM
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Of course it does. The fetus contains DNA from the man who fathered the child, not any past partner of the women bearing the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:39 AM
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Making any correlation between women’s desire for bodily autonomy and reproductive health with the false theory of Telegony is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:05 AM
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r/badscience There is no reputable research showing this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:43 AM
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Caring about your potential partners past sexual behaviours certainly could have evolutionary reasons like paternity certainty for males. However, your point about women retaining DNA from past partners for an extended period of time has never been proven regarding humans. Telegony is largely discredited
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:41 AM
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Pick the girl that likes you not the one you like. Let the principle of least interest work in your favour
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:42 PM
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Everyone has flaws so in a sense everyone settles to some extent. Don’t make perfect the enemy of good is what i’d say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:04 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:59 AM
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truth hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:52 AM
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We live in meaningless universe, and nothing we do matters. Some people can’t accept the nothingness that is their life so they create fictions, scripts and project them as if they are real ie religion, god, love, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:49 AM
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It’s called future faking. Just pretend you care to see where the relationship goes, but just view it as practice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:08 AM
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What is all this love me for me shit? I know if I didn’t find my girlfriend physically attractive I wouldn’t give a shit about her and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:05 AM
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What I wonder is if anybody is with anyone for who they are? Like would my girlfriend be with me and care about “who I am” if I didn’t look the way I do or vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:43 AM
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Anyone who thinks they settled is delusional about their own relative mate value. The market determines a persons value, not what they think they deserve. Your league is who you can attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:45 AM
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Rational wiki is obviously mocking the idea of the Alpha male. a man irresistible to all females without exception is hyperbolically impossible and clearly written to inspire laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:23 PM
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One thing I think a lot don’t grasp is that alpha doesn’t = good and beta doesn’t = bad. They are sets of traits both with pros and cons. The imbalance of one set over the others is where men can run into trouble. Like many things, those who can balance both sets of traits effectively probably have the most favourable outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:15 PM
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There is certainly some truth to this view, but you have overestimated the extent to which it’s true. The majority of men are able to successfully attract a women. Only minority of men never find success at finding a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:18 AM
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Can’t relate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:14 AM
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If a dude is like 5’9+ it ain’t his height that’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:46 PM
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The truth is often boring which doesn’t generate clicks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:42 PM
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Ghetto couple can’t maintain a stable marriage and creates a broken home for their children. News at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:40 PM
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What sauce do you prefer with your chicken nuggets?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:58 PM
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Whenever I read Question for Redpill posts I feel like I’m watching the turbo autist olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:00 AM
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oh sorry I supposed to say woe is me, it’s over, women bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:17 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/4gInMwgxv9 i posted my face one time and you gave me a rating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:10 AM
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Social class is a function of values not cash wealth. All UMC and higher will be college educated and will Marry. So yes valuing a college education is correlated with upper middle values
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:54 AM
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People that live in the trailer park have different values than the PhD across town. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:19 AM
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Love tinder. Always worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:13 AM
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Yeah like all the tall dudes on ppd who couldn’t get laid to save their life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:13 AM
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education is a proxy for social class which correlates with certain values
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:30 PM
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Exactly the opposite. College educated couples have the lowest divorce rate. This is backed by peer reviewed research. Sources: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3340888/#:~:text=College%20graduates%20are%20on%20average,Raley%20%26%20Bumpass%2C%202003). https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/12/04/education-and-marriage/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:19 PM
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Humanity facing extinction within a few decades! Now this is the kind of insight I come to ppd for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:16 AM
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That was Paul McCartney
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:49 AM
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I can’t believe some redpillers are denying that people date, marry others of similar educational, class backgrounds. Assortative mating is common knowledge backed by decades of empirical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:03 AM
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If you honestly think most UMC, educated men don’t care about their potential wife’s education, family, etc you are delusional. A wife is someone you bring home to meet your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:47 PM
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Lol i love when people are confidently incorrect. Look past your own solipsism and research the statistics on marriage pairings yourself. The data speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:43 PM
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I don’t care how much money you have, you clearly have prole values if you don’t care at all about a potential partners education, which is a decent proxy for IQ and class values.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:36 PM
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Yes it does. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3340888/ https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/12/04/education-and-marriage/#:~:text=While%20more%2Deducated%20women%20have,high%20school%20diploma%20or%20less. https://www.census.gov/data/tables/time-series/demo/families/marital.html
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:32 PM
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Agreed. And no, I am not a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:26 PM
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Your personal anecdote aside, it is a statistical fact that most people marry others who are of similar education, class background. These are the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:23 PM
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Of course physical attraction is important, but people absolutely do generally pair off based on similarities in class, education, income, etc. Birds of a feather flock together
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:16 PM
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People tend to assortative mate based on similarities in socioeconomic class, education, etc. As someone who’s going to earn their masters degree in the spring that is not what I have seen. Almost all my friends have partners who are also in professional programs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:03 PM
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If you think UMC guys are going to marry those girls you are hilariously clueless. Maybe for fun, but that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:55 PM
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I anticipated a comment like this. My point regarding my parents wasn’t to say I’m sensitive to their opinions or that it’s a dealbreaker if they don’t like my gf’s career, but if I’m going to potentially marry someone, yes their eduction/career matters to me. It’s not greed, but similar values that are important to me and my family. If a women doesn’t have a college degree we probably don’t share similar values. My girlfriend is in grad school as well as me so it’s a great match in my view. UMC…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:52 PM
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It matters to me. My parents are physicians and if I brought home the cute bartender as my girlfriend I’d never hear the end of it. Sure, I don’t find a women’s job/career sexually attractive in itself, but education is important to me because it’s a marker of IQ, status and future time orientation. There is mountains of empirical data which demonstrates that higher education correlates with successful marriages (see below) https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3340888/ https://www.pewresearc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:28 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/8z3eqkd0wi9e1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c9f403aacd7dcd5cf45fcf2b68a71cdf680417cc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:10 AM
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img this is my passport pic. gonna delete this, but here ya go
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:06 AM
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You may be right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:55 AM
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I would bet women on average prefer a swimmer bod over a burly man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:53 AM
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Every male model ever was under 200lbs. Probably got rejected by a skinny dude and is coping
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:44 AM
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The most attractive body type to women on average is a swimmer bod which is likely to be under 200lbs. She coping hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:40 AM
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It’s ok i’ll take all the big girls off ur hands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:34 AM
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Received my new National identity card yesterday and I gotta say I Mog in it ngl. *Also congrats to Latvia beating Canada, didn’t see that coming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:33 AM
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Face > height, unless ur really short. If ur close to 5’10 just LARP as 6ft chicks can’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:29 AM
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Yeah idk. you can pm me if you want and ill show u idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:13 AM
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Fair enough, I don’t get how 7.5 is good, but 8 is overrating tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:34 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:33 PM
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I got 7.5/8 when i posted there last year
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:30 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zfb9c8yj649e1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d3b9a8a973670e1411255170a29bb813dfc2c0a We had a pretty sweet one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:42 AM
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Don’t worry it’ll get its downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:27 AM
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I could post that i donated my paycheque to the children hospital and i’d still get downvoted on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:21 AM
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Creep (2014) is my favourite movie on netflix. It’s so weird i love it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:53 AM
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At my college house we put all the empty whitney bottles on top of our cabinets. Enjoy ur shot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:52 AM
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Pink Whitney. Lady of culture i see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:43 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/a4xfq28zg39e1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef2980aabc082ec3a17cdeb36e71029603ef75a2 Love a nice J
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:19 AM
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Building off u/Icy-Criticism-9722 post about face reveals I’d love to see some. All you dudes who think pulling a girl is some herculean effort for average dudes are definitely just ugly asf larping as average
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:15 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:13 AM
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It’s adam lanza lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:51 PM
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I’ve done it before and then dudes here get mad and say i’m fishing for compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:48 PM
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Alimony is only awarded in 10% of divorces so odds are you wouldn’t get “divorceraped” anyways. Also, mgtows were sent their own way. you can’t fire me i quit type cope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:40 PM
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Idk I met my gf on tinder and so did a bunch of my buddies. I think I’m above average looking tho so i’d say tinder was fairly easy to get quality matches. It’s anecdotal, but still online dating can work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:01 PM
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I don’t completely agree with the chad or bust rhetoric, but your point about girls making it very clear when they’re interested is a good one. They’ll give clear IOI’s and approach you/strike up convos
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:43 AM
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*better for them. People assortative mate based on similarities. Birds of a feather flock together
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:13 PM
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Sorry, not autistic enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:14 PM
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Yeah i’m sure women are chomping at the bit to get with an anime nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:06 PM
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I think we somewhat agree. All i’m saying is performance in the SMP is your SMV. A stocks value for example is a based on performance. A basketball players value is not based on their physical metrics alone, but how it translates in game. A dude could have everything on paper, but if he’s incel he currently has low SMV. Having certain traits certainly makes it more likely to be high SMV, but those traits alone don’t determine your value, the market does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:51 PM
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He won’t generate much genuine desire i those women tho which is what redpillers cry about. They’ll want him for money/clout. Hunter is literally sub 5 in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:29 PM
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Their performance in the SMP is what dictates their SMV not their tangible measurements
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:07 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:26 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/urayikrobi8e1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b311334db894e3b35b8e06787b96470b6ea2e549
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:12 AM
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And us guys are any different? Everyone loves others for what they do for them. If my girlfriend stopped having sex with me or starting disrespecting me i’d certainly fall out of love with her. Love is conditional and it’s better that way. No such thing as a free lunch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:09 AM
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So your argument is that because fairytale love doesn’t exist that means love itself is a farce? transactions taking place and love aren’t mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:05 AM
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Love is conditional and all human relationships are transactional. With that being said, chemical reactions in the brain are more real than god ever will be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:51 PM
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I would say that class is a function of values and not cash wealth. For example, a redpillers could be a millionaire, but they have prole values
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:31 PM
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Big girls give the best head
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:58 PM
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How’s your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:57 PM
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How’s your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:56 PM
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The average person in the US is over weight so I agree to a certain extent. I honestly think not being short is more important than being tall if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:47 PM
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This whole idea that you can determine someone’s SMV through their stats is ass backwards. What matters is real life performance not what ppd decides. If a guy is 5’7 and many women want him that’s a good sign he’s high in mate value. Similarly a guy could be 6’5, educated, whatever, if people don’t want to date him he’s probably low in mate value. What matters is what happens IRL, people that make up top % of desirables may often times have similar traits, but it’s their performance on the dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:29 PM
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lol this sub is full of dudes who are 6ft and college educated and can’t pull a door handle. It’s not this silver bullet many pretend. Face> height in many cases. Also, Intangibles matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:23 PM
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Usual suspects
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:48 PM
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I’ll pm u but i ain’t posting it here again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:43 PM
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So an average lookin dude? I mog that guy into the netherrealm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:29 PM
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No cope soliloquy for your face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:07 PM
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Tales from the trailer park
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:23 PM
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If you still believe in “true love” you aren’t blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:22 PM
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That is true. If you want children one day, however, like I said marriage or the intact family is the best way to do that effectively
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:35 PM
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This is all fine and dandy until it comes to something important to many people: having children. The nuclear family is the building block of western civilization. If you want to build wealth and raise healthy, well adjusted children I don’t see any way around commitment. Vet potential partners well, but don’t eschew long term relationships. That’s my advice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:19 PM
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Exactly. Always been in good shape and a white t shirt from Walmart works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:45 PM
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You may be right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:07 PM
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Yeah this sub do be autistic asf. I gotta leave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:43 PM
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Yeah it’s wild. Good for her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:35 PM
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Yes relative to him. She’s literally a billionaire so it ain’t his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:57 PM
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Haha in knew there’d be a couple wall cope responses. I guarantee she still has tons of desirable options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:52 PM
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She’s better looking, richer, more famous. This relationship is like the anti-red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:23 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ogx7w721se6e1.jpeg?width=300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=563e03fb2c0adbda803fecfe2a81e27c039b8b0f It’s pretty amazing this is the dude engaged to Selena Gomez. She’s a billionaire and looks mogs him into the netherworld. Dude is literally below average looking and short. Props to him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:13 PM
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It’s a defense mechanism aka splitting. Create a false dichotomy where the outcomes are either all good or all bad. It’s a cognitive distortion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:07 PM
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1 is atavistic masculinity where as #2 has a lot of civilizational high beta traits. So #1 is more masculine i’d say. 2 is great for serving the female imperative aka husband material so a lot of women will say #2 is more masculine, but they are incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:18 AM
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1 is atavistic masculinity where as #2 has a lot of civilizational high beta traits. So #1 is more masculine i’d say. 2 is great for serving the female imperative aka husband material so a lot of women will say #2 is more masculine, but they are incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:13 AM
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1 is atavistic masculinity. #2 is pro social civilizational aka high beta. so #1 is more masculine. 2 is great for serving the female imperative so women will say #2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:10 AM
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1 is atavistic masculinity. #2 is civilizational aka high beta. So #1 is more masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:46 AM
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I see. Aaron rodgers is my 10. That career passer rating 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:21 AM
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Being a “10” isn’t the marker of being attractive. The dude is clearly above average in the most important feature which is the face. Therefore considered attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:03 AM
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Attractiveness is relative. Just because there are male models who are better looking than him doesn’t mean he’s not attractive. Compared to the average american male (overweight) he’s well above average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:58 AM
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Yeah lol have the personality of a turbo autist and let me know how that works out for you. Personality matters, looks just matter more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:56 AM
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I’m a grad student in my early 20’s. I currently live with my girlfriend who is also in graduate school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:09 AM
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People are more attracted to those who look like them. It’s not narcissism, it’s biology https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S109051382300051X?via%3Dihub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:35 AM
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Go where you have a competitive advantage relative to your competition. for example: 5’9 white guy in southeast asia will be taller than most men in those nations and especially if he has blue eyes he will be in high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:32 AM
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I always viewed beta and bux is independent variables. bux is investment, provision and beta traits are things like supplication, uxoriousness, selflessness. Trump has bux and imo he doesn’t have many beta traits. I think the most successful are men good at balancing alpha/beta traits. Too alpha you might end up in prison. Too beta and you have no hand with women and will be dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:50 PM
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When I go out to bars for example the girls into me make it blatantly obvious. IOI’s from far away and usually move into my general vicinity and start convos. They touch you, make strong eye contact. It’s impossible to miss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:15 AM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:09 AM
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Face trumps all 3. Given the man is average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:06 AM
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Face trumps all 3. Given the man is average height. 5’10+ with a good face is top %
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:06 AM
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As long as you are around average height, face is king.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:56 AM
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Love that dude. His average redditor shorts no doubt represent a lot of ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:30 PM
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Redpillers after reading this trying to figure out how it’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:00 AM
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Chad is a boogeyman. But i mog him ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:59 AM
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redpillers after reading this trying to figure out how it’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:57 AM
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Soccer is just another sport for those who can’t skate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:43 AM
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They would have voted for a jar of pickles if that’s who was running against Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:21 AM
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This whole gender war nonsense only exists online. Most well adjusted people don’t despise the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:45 PM
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Your comments and responses are often hyperbolic to the point of retardation. Your assessment of reality is incorrect and clouded by echo chambers such as this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:32 PM
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You believe in a fantasy. Most people have low body counts and pair up based on similarities (assortative mating). These are the facts. Stop believing rage bait manufactured to garner clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:20 PM
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I disagree Our decisions are influenced by a plethora of factors like Biology, Hormones, Childhood, Life circumstances, Genetics, Quantum mechanics, etc. Dr. Robert Sapolsky made a great video on this exact topic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rv38taDUpwQ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:01 PM
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first
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:01 AM
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That’s a fair point. I’m not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:34 AM
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Or just marry a women in your socioeconomic class. Anyways, alimony is only awarded in 10% of divorces so it’s a bit of a paper tiger https://wjlgs.law.wisc.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/1276/2014/07/McMullen-article.pdf As for child support, I’m all for it. You make children you should be the ones paying for them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:30 AM
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If by short you mean like 5’5, sure. IRL a 5’10 good looking, fit guy > taller fat guy in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:42 AM
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No nuance allowed on ppd. Only all-or-nothing thinking please. thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:31 AM
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Ok but IRL a fit good looking 5’10 guy > taller fat guy in most cases. I don’t care what chronically online blackpillers think they’re wrong. Face > Height
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:15 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/6z5c79yntj4e1.jpeg?width=805&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=61fd1186f5452281c9c9feae5fa2e5a8ccbd802a
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:58 AM
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Lol says who? By this logic a literal model with no fighting skills is not above average. Also, a fit 5’10 guy is easily above average. The average person is overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:11 AM
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I don’t make sweeping generalizations using hyperbolic caricatures which is what gets upvotes on ppd so i’ve just accepted the inevitably of downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:11 AM
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I agree. Attraction is step one, but it’s not enough to sustain a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:51 AM
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Love is always conditional and that’s a good thing. If someone were to abuse their partner the love would dissipate unless mental illness is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:44 AM
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It’s supposed to mean a women who is only with the man for provisioning and that alone. There is a difference between wanting a man with money and wanting a man for his money imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:28 AM
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You are correct. Let them chase this perfect, fantasy relationship that doesn’t exist. Relationships and love are hard work. It’s a choice you make everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:19 AM
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Wait…you two disagree? I thought all women are monolith and find the same men attractive across the board?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:08 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:05 AM
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Yeah I feel that. Mine are gettin pretty small 🥲. I’m kinda leaning towards blacksteel blades when I get new ones cuz I’ve heard they’re good quality. Not lookin forward to dropping the cash on em tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:02 AM
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Probably a 5ish, but i sense promiscuity and high maintenance so 0/10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:42 AM
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I’m convinced most of you guys who whine like this are actually below average and think ur average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:15 AM
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Yeah can’t go wrong with either brand. Skate prices are getting crazy unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:58 AM
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Yes ma’am. Need a new pair cuz mine are pretty beat up. Might opt for a pair of GRAF’s next
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:31 AM
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It’s a cognitive distortion stemming from his low self esteem causing him to project a sour grapes fallacy. Those guys were able to pull women and he’s not, but he’s able to spin it in a way that makes the grapes look sour. You can’t fire me, I quit!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:25 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/ccybnf3pob4e1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14f2b177a67c55d6e8ef0670e75a4b1180b56cdb What a chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:36 PM
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Just get a bigger girl and whip her into shape. Call it an investment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:29 PM
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<image> Nothin like a good Sunday skate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:19 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:54 PM
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Yup. When a girl is into you they’ll let you know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:39 PM
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Understandable. When i was single I would usually hookup with whoever approached me (if i found them attractive enough) cause then I knew she was into me. Never was interested in jumping through hoops. Choose the one who likes you, not the one you like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:32 PM
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Can’t relate. If a girl approaches me at the club/bar it’s usually a girl around my age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:20 PM
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This sub thrives on caricatures, hyperbole, all-or-nothing thinking, sweeping generalizations, you name it. Nuance has no place here. You’re either a Chad Casanova who women can’t resist or you’re “unattractive” across the board and no women will ever love you. All backed by numbers pulled out of the sky (muh top 5%, 80/20, 95/5) whatever your flavour of the day is. The best antidote is to simply get off reddit and observe reality and it all falls apart pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:18 PM
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I saw your comment. Very classy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:54 AM
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Lol we’d never be in the same room to begin with. I don’t hang out with incels
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:47 AM
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Good rule. thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:46 AM
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I don’t live with my parents. I’m a big boy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:41 AM
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Yeah skinny jeans are a tough look. My body filled out more and some pants are starting to fit a little tight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:39 AM
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Ah yes that’s why autism has no effect on dating right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:38 AM
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Cry more bro. I’m asking for advice on my wardrobe. just ignore if you don’t like my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:37 AM
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Why was your comment necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:36 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/wdp2bq51hk3e1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f01e5003df4f5ca4e1055ef24d425f1cd755f9ca Ladies, do you think these jeans fit well?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:06 AM
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Could pull her with ease
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:31 AM
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Everyone seems to know these autistic slayers on reddit. The fact is autism is a huge disadvantage in the dating world. According to this survey, 44.6% of adult males with autism reported being virgins https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5789215/. That figure may be high over the entire population, but it is undeniable that neurodivergence like autism and asperger’s are generally seen as an undesirable features in a partner. If your story is true, those guys are extreme outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:04 AM
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Despite what many pillers think, attractiveness is a holistic qualitative assessment made by individuals with many variables, not some qualitative on-paper formula. Personality is part of that assessment and compatibility matters. Why would I date someone with autism or asperger’s when I can date a neurotypical girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:06 AM
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No doubt about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:13 AM
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Fair enough. I’m just saying I think GreatSmashPlayer has a point. I’m relatively good looking and have certainly hookup and dated girls below my looks level. Not as uncommon as people may think
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:12 AM
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I have a gf. Just saying that outside observation and giving people number ratings doesn’t always align with reality. Attraction is holistic imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:09 AM
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Doesn’t always work this way. Look at Cillian Murphy’s wife. Bro could easily bag a model, but chose her for whatever reason ie unconventional taste, love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:07 AM
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What I plan on looking like i’m 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:01 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/77qrlw3r9d3e1.jpeg?width=817&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bfb6ac304a0883cc10bc88ea6a4b3607c463de4f Then there’s coupes like this. Saw this married couple on my insta feed today. Looksmatch my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:53 AM
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The issue I find with this kind of rhetoric is that it’s often not this black and white. Many relationships start off as you describe with fun, spontaneity, etc and both people mature into “marriage material” together. You can be both fun, sexy and also be long term material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:08 AM
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Love is always conditional. Relationships of any kind are a value exchange at their core.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:03 AM
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Like almost all mgtows
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:00 AM
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An AI girlfriend (can’t believe i’m writing this) cannot replace the real intimacy of a strong, loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:19 PM
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If it’s the best you can get it’s not settling, It’s reality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:13 PM
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This was a funny read
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:45 AM
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Yes its an RMV trait
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:03 AM
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Your anger makes me moist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:21 AM
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Try losing a parent in childhood. I feel it really impacted my attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:20 AM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:33 AM
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They just love to hate me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:32 AM
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Ur cute when ur mad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:20 AM
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I look so much better in the summer when i’m tan and my freckles come in. Fall/winter I’m so pale, I look almost sickly at times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:13 AM
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Maybe I will. I’ll let you know if I do brother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:56 AM
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To live
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:18 PM
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Hockey for both. Played all throughout childhood and still try to get on the ice as much as I can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:15 PM
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If I’m feelin frisky I’ll slammer, but usually a straight guinne does the job
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:31 AM
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The lad loves his Guinness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:03 AM
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Factual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:33 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/2dp4nl5zxs2e1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f588bc53d423e87d2dac42dd43c061f81ec05fc0 Me and the gf are wasted. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:30 AM
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you’ve inspired me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:29 AM
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Agreed. Me and my gf are both in grad school and when she talks about academia I always enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:29 AM
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You devil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:21 AM
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Intoxicated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:53 AM
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I smell the best
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:02 AM
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Do you think a good looking guy should do such and sleep around, having multiple baby’s mommas or establish a family via marriage with one educated, attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:36 AM
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Anyone have opinions on Bitcoin? I find myself watching a lot of Michael Saylor videos and i’m intrigued by the whole thing. Right now I’m just Index fund and forget it kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:32 AM
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I appreciate that, definitely would agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:27 AM
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Yeah you’re probably right, i appreciate the feedback. I’ve got a bit of a drug habit which certainly makes me look unhealthy at times. Gotta kick it and build better habits no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:15 AM
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Ok i’ll delete it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:09 AM
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Man’s got his priorities straight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:07 AM
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That was my first time going out to drink with friends in America so I was excited. No diddy lol I like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:03 AM
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That is all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:41 AM
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Yeah bad angle my bad. I’m gonna put up a better angle one sec
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:37 AM
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I see. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:36 AM
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Yeah shit angle I’ll repost another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:35 AM
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Hoemath?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:23 AM
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I continue to hate the way you write sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:18 AM
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Posted a selfie on my profile. What would you rate me? For context I’m fit, 178 cm so fairly average height and currently in uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:14 AM
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Because he pulled those numbers out of thin air
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:38 AM
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Great insight. Shit like this getting upvoted is why this sub is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:21 PM
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Because maybe there was no connection? dude if all the women you encounter found you unattractive you wouldn’t even get to be told there is no connection because they’d swipe left before any interaction even took place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:35 AM
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Why would women like your profile if they found you physically unattractive? doesn’t compute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:25 AM
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Obviously I don’t know what you look like so I can’t give advice, and yes i agree looks are super important, but i’d say that deep down I think you know this all or nothing thinking not to be true. There’s more nuance than a man either being attractive to all 4 billion women on earth or unattractive to all 4 billion. It’s just not possible Good luck man I hope you don’t give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:18 AM
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No i agree. I mean based on their observable behaviours like approaching me and being overtly sexual. Look man i’m just saying I disagree. Despite some preferences being universal women clearly have different taste in men ie race, style, facial features (big nose, small nose) body type (slim, buff). Rating Attractiveness: Consensus Among Men, Not Women, Study Finds https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:05 AM
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Ok well based on my experience i’ve had girls genuinely attracted to me based on behaviour (my current gf) and girls some weren’t. Most people are in the middle of the bell curve where some people will dig then and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:51 AM
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So all the men you see in life with gf’s are attractive to all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:36 AM
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Being people aren’t a hive mind and preferences differ. This is strange if you actually believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:25 AM
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Obvious trolling lol c’mon man you can do better than this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:19 AM
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It only exists online
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:05 AM
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I think like many happy relationships me and my gf don’t keep score when it comes to gestures, it’s genuine because we care about one another. I’d say 4 and 5 are the big ones we prioritize a lot if i had to pick a couple. She often can’t keep her hands off me when we’re out running errands and vice versa which is fun foreplay. We both love to cook and try to hike every weekend given we live in a rural area. We’ve been together since the end of HS and all through undergrad and grad school. We gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:27 AM
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Same here. You seem to be a rare breed around these parts with your well adjusted and nuanced views on relationships/dating. So much hyperbole and extreme black and white takes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:17 AM
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Ah yes real “alphas” are so risk adverse they stoop to pathetic things like surrogacy over a real relationship with a women lol. Odds are I won’t get divorced. And in the even i do, at least my children will have a mother over whatever disaster you’re cooking up due to your own cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:34 AM
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Very emotional you are. Good luck with your broken family, cretin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:18 AM
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Lol good luck with your bizarre risk averse plan (very alpha) I’m sorry for any children you have and impose your retarded beliefs upon. Further destroying the black family, idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:07 AM
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You don’t even have a basic understanding of divorce statistics or how demographics impact such rates so debating you is pointless. Alimony is only awarded on 10% of divorces, marrying someone of similar income what most people do aka assortative mating. The divorce rate is like 15% for people of my demographic so i’m not worried. Good luck with your surrogate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:33 AM
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I agree. A lot of fringe beliefs on here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:24 AM
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I think i’m relatively well adjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:22 AM
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It’s hilarious how hyperbolic and bizarre many comments on this sub are. People literally advising finding a surrogate mother because divorce is too risky or dudes being literal 30+ virgins pretending they represent any sizeable % of men. This sub certainly makes me appreciate my gf i’ll tell ya that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:07 AM
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You want to avoid marriage and a life partner and instead opt for surrogacy because you’re afraid of child support and i’m void of any critical thinking capabilities lol. Go tell a well adjusted person your idea and see what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:46 AM
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Lol you are clearly low IQ with a tough time at seeing nuance and employ a lot of splitting defences aka black and white thinking. Enjoy posting ur weird nonsense black king! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:39 AM
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Delusions of grandeur I see, on par for a redpiller. If you actually grew up wealthy you’d know the value of family ties and the nuclear family and its positive influence on a person social and psychological well being. You may have cash wealth someday, but you have prole, lower class values.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:29 AM
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Man i guess me and all my friends who have gf’s and past hookups are top 10%! lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:11 AM
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Ok man have at it. Eschew a literal building block of wealth and civilization i don’t care. I guess the vast majority of wealthy people are mentally ill then because they will continue to marry. Your surrogate idea is beyond retarded and your children with pay the price for your cowardice via being motherless (the most important figure in an individuals life)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:51 AM
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Elon’s playing to his strengths. Smart in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:34 AM
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Of course there are no guarantees in life. My point is if you want to give your children the best chance in life a nuclear family set up with 2 parents is objectively superior to whatever nonsense you come up with. Getting a surrogate and purposely becoming a single parents out of fear of alimony (10% chance) and child support (children cost money, i know, shocking!) sounds like mental illness to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:31 AM
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I’ve seen you comment before that men compete for access to women. Well, Elon Musk has 12 children so i’d say he competed pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:14 AM
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Divorce has to do with that individual relationship. The divorce rate means nothing you have to look at the demographics involved. The 50% stat is for people who didn’t finish high school. If you look at educated people who marry 30-34 the divorce rate is far below that. Which makes sense smarter people make smarter decisions. https://preview.redd.it/6cp1cs9kk52e1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4ac80b8b360db395ddf2bcbbb9e56c0c0911256
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:54 AM
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Ok. Jamie Dimon - Married. Larry Fink - Married. Bill Ackman - Married. George Soros - Married. Trump - Married. Literally almost every high status man - Married. If marriage is such a bad deal why do these intelligence, successful men continue to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:34 AM
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The problem with discussions in this sub is they often lack nuance. So much all of nothing, black and white takes. The fact is the following: “ The vast majority of women secure genes and direct benefits from the same man, therefore most women will attempt to secure the best combination of all desired qualities from the same man”. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/147470490800600116#:~:text=A%20minority%20of%20women—notably,trade%2Doff%20model%20predicts).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:31 AM
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Lol objectively false. Women disagree all the time on what types of men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:25 AM
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Shhh don’t let facts and observable reality get in the way! Sweeping generalizations and hyperbole are more fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:19 AM
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You are rationalizing cowardice and risk aversion. The fact is most first marriages of college educated couples DO NOT end in divorce. Also, how exactly do you think the wealthy protect their wealth? They marry each other and consolidate it. Have fun with your surrogate and being a single father lol very high status. Single parenthood is a mark of low class. Look up wealthy individuals and what do you notice? they all MARRY. Emulate the Upper Class aka marrying. 2 Parent households will always b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:08 AM
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You guys can hamster all day and rationalize your cowardice all you want. The fact is marriage will continue to be the way to give your children the best start at life and consolidate wealth. The Upperclass with continue to marry because they are smart. Bonding with a maternal figure is extremely important and you guys are gonna rob your children of that because you’re afraid of child support? ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:28 PM
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“Sorry you don’t have a mother, but I just didn’t wanna risk paying child support” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:19 PM
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“Sorry you don’t have a mother, but I just didn’t wanna risk paying child support” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:18 PM
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Pathetic that you will rob your child of the plethora of benefit that having a 2 parent household presents due to your fear of paying child support
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:29 PM
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Let me ask you, if you want children (as many do) how do you plan on having such children without marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:16 PM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:11 PM
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Your logic is unsound. Tom Brady’s personal life has no bearing on anyone else’s chances in forming successful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:41 AM
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No worries. Post-Secondary Education
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:28 AM
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MGTOWs were sent their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:56 AM
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The fact is alimony is only awarded in 10% of divorce settlements. https://www.reuters.com/article/markets/wealth/how-bread-winning-women-are-driving-alimony-reform-idUSKCN0T61O8/ I know TRP likes to push the 50% of marriages end in divorce which is only true if those who didn’t finish high school https://www.bls.gov/opub/mlr/2013/article/pdf/marriage-and-divorce-patterns-by-gender-race-and-educational-attainment.pdf The divorce rate for the tertiary educated is around 25% https://www.census.gov…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:55 AM
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One cherry picked example of a celebrities relationship means nothing. I bet many on this sub can think of numerous examples of successful, happy couples comprised of average, everyday people. Normal people will continue to mature and pair off normally while you guys will continue to complain about a paper tiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:26 AM
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Just shows you that you can’t buy and statusmax your way into a strong relationship. I know many normal, everyday people who have successful loving relationships which includes myself and I bet most people on this sub to do. I know plenty of quality girls my age (mid 20’s). I swear I feel like I live in a different reality than some of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:55 AM
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My advice is to reject the fantasy of a “perfect partner” because no such thing exists and insist on the real which involves compromise, accepting that whatever girl you go after is flawed just like you. Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:21 PM
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Just tell yourself he’s an average man and she settled for him like you always seem to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:27 PM
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I love when you spew your “based and redpilled real men” bullshit. So autistic god i love ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:21 PM
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Idk Korean culture is way different than western culture. I’m in the west, and met my gf on tinder. started as hookups and evolved into a relationship. I think that’s a way a lot of my friend’s relationships started as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:59 PM
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I hear prissy pickiness is very alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:22 PM
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Everyone settles for the best they can get for themselves. These are the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:21 PM
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Hope you find that idealized women who woves you for you unconditionally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:03 PM
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Enjoy your fantasy false dichotomy stemming from your own insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:55 PM
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It’s incredible the cognitive distortions you can believe. Classic case of splitting defence. Either your an alpha and unconditionally loved (All good object) or beta and settled for completely(all bad object). The world is more nuanced than you believe. Have fun with your obsession with “settling”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:42 PM
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Everyone Settles. Coming to terms with your own limitations within the bounds of reality is called life. Love is conditional for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:30 PM
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These kind of threads demonstrate how weird this subreddit is. Talk about AI girlfriends could change everything to a well adjusted non redditor and they’ll think you’re a weird autist, but on ppd it’s just another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:35 AM
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Water
/r/BlackPillScience14/10/24 11:50 PM
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Both genders compete for mates. In this case, It’s a form of female intrasexual competition to denigrate another women’s reputation by alluding to her being a “slut” which signals she’s potentially a bad investment for potential mates to make
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:58 PM
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The fact is personality matters but not in the way you think. “Niceness” never got anyone laid. Put two guys side by side all things being equal if one is autistic and the other is neurotypical the neurotypical one will do better in most cases. Denying that individuals personality plays a role in human mating dynamics is a denial of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:40 PM
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Yup. A man having a wife or ex wife and children is a form of pre-selection in a sense. It shows he was able to pass the filters of at least one women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:21 AM
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Bullshit pulled out of thin air
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:11 PM
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You guys act like a “good personality” is a moral judgement. You can be a criminal with a good personality aka fun, attractive, dominant personality. The proof that personality matters is that men with autism do terribly with women generally speaking. If they had a neurotypical personality they would much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:35 PM
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That should be the slogan for all organized religion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:54 PM
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God doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:41 PM
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This Jets/Broncos game has been sloppy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:04 PM
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idk i’m pretty twinky ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:59 PM
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Relax man, i love u (no homo)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:53 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. Still pulled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:48 PM
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Just tryna give some guys here some hope that’s all. Don’t deny looks are important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:47 PM
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Don’t make me post my face and mog u again bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:45 PM
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What not knowing about ppd does to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:43 PM
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American college students
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:34 PM
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It shows that dealing in absolutes when to come to complex things like human relationships is absolute low iq
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:32 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/o19fpithusrd1.jpeg?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e07fd71abe8830a6d5be1eb7d726454cb6718ff3 Saw this couple on my insta reels today. Made me think of ppd rhetoric “muh 6ft+” “muh 80/20”. Good for bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:28 PM
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Yes. Smart, college educated people with UMC and UC values will continue to marry and consolidate their wealth while everyone else eschews the literal pillars of western civilization. Intelligent men know the value of monogamy and marriage so don’t worry (Kanazawa, 2008b). Low rent trp will continue to cry about the risks of marriage despite alimony only awarded in 10% of divorces (McMullen, 2015).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:54 PM
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You believe in a fiction. Alimony is awarded in only 10% of divorces - https://www.reuters.com/article/markets/wealth/how-bread-winning-women-are-driving-alimony-reform-idUSKCN0T61O8/#:~:text=Unlike%20child%20support%2C%20which%20is,of%20law%20at%20Marquette%20University.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:49 AM
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And this is exactly why guys should have no qualms about leveraging resources, status, etc to gain access to women. We are nothing more than mammals, no shame in using your competitive advantage. Adapt or die
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:57 AM
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Exactly. But when men use status and resources to attract women as mates (as they should and which many species do) you guys cry muh “it’s not genuine desire tho!!” “betabuxx!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:39 AM
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Ultimately, it is the desire, not the desired, that we love. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:02 AM
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A lot of people here want something for nothing. No such thing as a free lunch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:52 PM
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The ironic thing about “betabuxx” imo is guys who lean more “alpha” personality wise are more likely to leverage their assets and status to access women because they dgaf. Do you think guys like Epstein or Trump gave a fuck as to whether the women they’re fucking love them for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:36 PM
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Chad ≠ Alpha. Charles Manson was undoubtedly an alpha and was 5’2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:20 PM
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An ugly wife is a treasure in the home
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:58 AM
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Someone’s gotta let the 5’10 slayers know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:36 AM
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Mess with the chick that likes you, not the one you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:19 PM
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Numerous academic studies show that genetic cuckoldry in human populations is extremely rare ~1%. https://www.cell.com/pb-assets/journals/trends/ecology-evolution/tree2086.pdf https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3813347/ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/299839892_Cuckolded_Fathers_Rare_in_Human_Populations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:28 PM
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Baby, don’t hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:08 AM
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Lol as if
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:40 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/nqtsgQHYjO people on ppd seem to think so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:23 PM
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So if i’m attractive to one women, i’m attractive to 80% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:03 PM
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Cause that one study judging a group of men’s faces said so huh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:49 PM
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I made a sandwich. It was pretty bomb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:19 PM
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When i’m bored from slaying all that pussy obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:19 PM
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Pretending that all women find the exact same subset of men attractive or unattractive is complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:15 PM
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You act like you need to be some super motivated, high achiever to get women. There are dudes in the projects pulling women with ease
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:56 AM
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Everyone on this forum is alive because their lineage of male ancestors successfully reproduced. The idea that women are only picking the best of the best or top 20% because of one ok cupid study of them judging mens still faces you all cling to is utter nonsense. Debating this however is useless because even though it’s observable in everyday life that average and below average looking men are in relationships and having children you’ll move the goalposts and go “they settled” or “it’s not genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:32 AM
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Avoid those women and focus on those who aren’t like that. Tons of quality women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:30 AM
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Paint the jail white
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:10 PM
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I respect the half reveal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:12 AM
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That’s nerd chad to you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:22 AM
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alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:49 AM
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tl/dr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:49 AM
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Interesting…I’m gonna give it a look
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:10 AM
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respects for making your pfp ur face lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:02 AM
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Fair enough brother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:00 AM
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Had to do it bro. Now show me ur beautiful face
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:54 AM
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<image> Now you. You won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:53 AM
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Ur all high inhib cowards. I’ll do it anytime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:39 AM
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2 days til i fly to the land of the free home of the brave and mog all of you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:46 PM
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I guess myself and all my friends who have gf’s are gigachads if even the top 20% aren’t “good enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:24 PM
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But i thought personality doesn’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:10 PM
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Life is good as chad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:11 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/efmcyxlsy23d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7cf45bb32ab596e4f5b9ae81482b7719e7ac7a53 fuck it. selfie i’m feelin cute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:43 AM
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Maybe i’ll do it again if i’m feelin cute. btw bro you got a good eye area no homo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:18 AM
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She ain’t a lady if she ain’t 180 ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:00 AM
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You remember my face? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:47 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/48jhypkt223d1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d46261fccb13d1591da91c78a3143714da2fe72
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:44 PM
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Same experience. Or a group would migrate and stand right in front of you making quick glances. Shootin fish in a barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:33 PM
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When i was single my game was literally go to the club and stand there talking with my boys and at least one chick would approach. She’d never be a 10, but she passed my looks bar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:16 PM
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Going to the US for the first time next weekend. I look forward to mogging you all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:33 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/GLQT9UuReW like 2 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:55 PM
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thanks boss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:38 PM
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Yeah she’s said shit like “you can do anything to me” and stuff like that so she’s pretty ride or die. But there’s no guarantees in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:34 PM
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I see. Time will tell
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:20 PM
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Thought the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:20 PM
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Well I’m rooting for you brother
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:09 PM
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You must love when guys here make it seem like being tall is a silver bullet. Face > height always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:57 PM
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Show me bro. You saw my face a while back it’s only fair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:54 PM
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And still only won by 3. T-Wolves in 7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:48 PM
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How would that be a bad deal for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:45 PM
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I was diagnosed with borderline this past fall and I honestly am starting to think it’s helped me with women. Maybe being crazy has its benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:27 PM
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She said she would get one saying: Property of insert my name above her ass. Definitely potential for regret lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:22 PM
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Bruh she was 18 not every girl is getting turned out in hs. Virgins exist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:16 PM
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Popped her cherry, looked like a murder scene after. Believe what u want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:09 PM
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I took her virginity so i’m first first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:01 PM
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My gf wants to get my name tattooed on her. Doesn’t seem like a great idea, but the desire is what i like about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:49 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:23 PM
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yup met my girl on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:19 PM
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You misspelt mstow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:38 PM
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Plenty of guys less physically attractive than elliot find partners just fine. His biggest issue was being Neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/2cckv8i7812d1.jpeg?width=375&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9544c86fed1a8c75247513faa006dfe780de5327
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:48 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm Rating Attractiveness: Consensus Among Men, Not Women, Study Finds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:38 PM
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Neurotic, high inhib redditors who turn dating into a math equation don’t have the constitution for criminality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:37 PM
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At 5’10 it’s not your height that’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:34 PM
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Neurotypical’s usually understand life is all about shades of grey and nuance. Autists and redpillers implement splitting defences and cognitive rigidity like dealing in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:29 PM
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I honestly believe neuroticism and high inhibition is underrated in these circles when discussing lack of dating success. There are guys on welfare, not exceptionally good looking in the slightest who never have trouble finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:19 PM
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Maybe so. I just know that many times a girl will show her friends a picture of the man she finds attractive and they completely disagree or are outright baffled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:16 PM
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On the extreme ends of the bell curve of physical attractiveness yes, but in the middle where most people lie personal taste comes into play when it comes to judging others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:08 PM
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On the extreme ends of the bell curve of physical attractiveness yes, but in the middle where most people lie personal taste comes into play when it comes to judging others attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:08 PM
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Yes you have to pass an individual women’s looks threshold, but my point is an increase in status give a man a wider pool of potential mates and will only increase his perceived attractiveness if he passes that threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:49 PM
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Yeah in a world where you’re either dog shit or hot your argument is strong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:28 PM
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Nothing to do with what i said. increase in perceived status makes any man more sexually desirable than had he not attained such social capital. Whether or not he loses out to a more physically attractive man isn’t the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:20 PM
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Correct. Determinism is the truth and free will is an illusion. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rv38taDUpwQ You may find this video interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:07 PM
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This is false. Take the same man and put him in the middle of the attention structure ie. high status position and women genuinely do find him more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:00 PM
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Women’s attraction triggers are more context dependant than men’s. The attention structure is a key determinant of status. Take the same man and put him in the middle of the attention structure e.g. leader of team, seminar, party, etc. he will be perceived as more attractive generally speaking than had he been just another guy in the group. So i would guess status. Status leads to more mating success, and more mating success leads to higher status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:45 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=k1oOrd2N9WI
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:29 PM
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https://www.reuters.com/article/us-women-divorce-alimony/how-bread-winning-women-are-driving-alimony-reform-idUSKCN0T61O920151117/. Only 10% of divorces in the US involve alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:28 PM
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Determined: Life without Free Will with Robert Sapolsky https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rv38taDUpwQ. Watched this clip yesterday and found it interesting. Any thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:37 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1v372xibgpsc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12c675909b6e7366294da2f890a72629d2587caf Like shooting fish in a barrel. Gonna start collecting them like infinity stones. I’m coming from you Mr. Huberman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:36 PM
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Some people just aren’t interested in having children and want something different for their life. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:48 PM
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Yeah some academics disagree and propose the mate switching hypothesis due to the prevalence of women becoming romantically in love with their affair partner which wouldn’t make much sense if you just wanted “good genes” and nothing more. https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/The-Mate-Switching-Hypothesis-FINAL-PUBLISHED-2017.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:22 AM
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A minority of women—notably those low in mate value who are able to escape male mate guarding and the manifold costs of an exposed infidelity—will pursue a mixed mating strategy, obtaining investment from one man and good genes from an extra-pair copulation partner (as the trade-off model predicts). Since the vast majority of women secure genes and direct benefits from the same man, however, most women will attempt to secure the best combination of all desired qualities from the same man. https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:08 AM
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I hate admitting when i’m wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:02 AM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:58 PM
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Materialistic nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:58 PM
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Switch faces with me and you should be good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:53 PM
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My comment the other day comparing my experiences to others on this sub was out of touch. I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:51 PM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:21 PM
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Wish i could see what some ppd users look like. Even though i’m a young man i have trouble relating to a lot of the struggles talked about here. I just wanna see if it really is their looks holding them back or somethin else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:49 PM
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Wish i could see what some ppd users look like. Even though i’m a young man i have trouble relating to a lot of the struggles talked about here. I just wanna see if it really is their looks holding them back or more neuroticism based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:46 PM
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It’s almost as if people have differing tastes in what they like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:07 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/7n7a1zmp1qrc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6b13b9f469ca8255e6825204e83d14e074e4fccc I’m in college and enjoy collecting/listening to vinyls, typically rock bands. My gf surprised me this afternoon with a new one. She said she thought of me when she saw it (i rly dig this band). She’s pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:41 PM
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Getting high and painting is a great combo. enjoy ur saturday
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t post, but i commented my pic on the daily thread last night so dw bro i’m real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:07 PM
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Observably false. IRL there are tons of couples under 25 where the guy isn’t tall or rich (given the chances of that are low). I see average couples everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:58 PM
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Jeffrey Epstein, Alphabuxx? or betabuxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:26 PM
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Ok, thanks for the clarification. I feel like behaviour should be more of major part of betabux. Like imo Trump is married to a women who’s with him mainly for Money/Status but i wouldn’t consider him a betabux. Same with Jeff Epstein. Both leverage money & status to get with younger, hotter chicks but honestly i would consider them alpha despite using resources to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:23 PM
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taxes are the price we pay for civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:07 PM
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What part qualifies him as a “betabux”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:04 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere-exposure_effect or it could lead to you liking that someone even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:21 PM
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False. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm Rating Attractiveness: Consensus Among Men, Not Women, Study Finds
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:03 AM
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Supermodel is a fraction of a percent not 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:38 PM
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Ah yes women only go for tall supermodels lol. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:35 PM
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made my pf pic my face cuz fuck it amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:27 AM
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These are the kind of comments that are so extreme and bizarre that it falls under Poe’s law. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe%27s_law
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:16 AM
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Because he’s chronically online and has no idea what he’s talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:11 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/rXBXdsxlMA I literally did that lol. Probably was a bad idea given this is PPD but i was being an attention whore. I deleted my pic cause it probably wasn’t my brightest idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:25 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm Rating Attractiveness: Consensus Among Men, Not Women, Study Finds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:57 PM
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You may be right. I’m above average looking and i know it’s allowed me more leeway than had i been average or below. That being said i don’t think being average or even below is an absolute death sentence, but certainly more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:56 PM
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I agree. Assortative mating is the reality of human sexual dynamics. Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:42 PM
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Definitely. Looks get ur foot in the door. The majority of people find sexual partners so i do believe most pass the looks threshold for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:16 PM
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Easier to blame your lack of success on a retarded made up fantasy than to look at yourself eh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:02 PM
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There’s a difference between saying looks matter & autistic blackpillers saying ONLY looks matter and unless ur giga chad it’s over for you. The latter is what annoys people because it’s observably false
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:57 PM
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Just fuckin with you bro. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:36 AM
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Probably means a man having a healthy interest in a particular women vs redpill obsessive, neurotic, paranoid interest while making up bizarre theories about women instead of looking at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:03 PM
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True, didn’t want my pic up anymore. Just the responses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:29 PM
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It all make sense https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/v0PDP8vuw5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:47 PM
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I see. Yeah being good looking is nice no doubt https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/v0PDP8vuw5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:59 PM
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mean normal guys. I don’t believe men are divided into 2 categories, chad & beta. Life isn’t black and white like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:42 PM
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What about guys who meet their girl young and settle down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:29 PM
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The rest does matter then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:00 PM
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If the threshold is impossible to meet how do most men find partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:40 PM
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You were discussing how women work IRL. Making broad generalizations about a demographic suggests we’re discussing a majority of cases. The guys women have fun with and settle down with are often the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:28 AM
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That pew link says 23% of children live in a “single parent” household (single dads included). The norm is still a 2 parent household where both are the biological parents. Doesn’t negate anything i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:47 AM
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I obviously didn’t mean children are aware of the legal status of their parents. The fact is children born to married parent do the best in life on average. Also, because you never met a women who doesn’t have causal sex therefor they don’t exist? You guys hate when “bluepillers” share personal anecdotes, but when you make sweeping generalizations based on your experience it’s fine. I’m “hot guy” too. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0Uu7j8oZJg Just a few days on this sub people were c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:24 AM
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I don’t understand the mystery. Marriage is an economic relationship. You and her combine your assets, create connections with her family, and leave your wealth for your children and they continue to marry, increasing the family fortune each generation. Many careers also often have a hard ceiling for unmarried men. The nuclear family is literally a building block of civilization. The redpill often describes the behaviour of lower class women. UMC or UC women aren’t single mothers, high body coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:20 AM
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Most women do not become single moms. They meet a guy within their age range + or - 2 years while in their early 20’s. They grow together and experience the last of their irresponsible years together which often turns into marriage around 27-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:09 AM
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So now not only does body count make you a ho, but fucking you too quickly does too. Nice moving of the goal posts. Your second paragraph is a complete straw man of the point i was making. I never advised marrying an ugly girl no one wanted. Just like you cherry picked Jeff Bezos i could cherry pick successful, loving marriages as well. Good luck finding your very hot, virgin, forever girlfriend. You’ll need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:04 AM
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Ah yes you denizens of the manosphere are expert sociologists and have a keen insight into the nuance of human sexual relationships. You certainly don’t rely on hysteria, splitting defences and surface level psychology haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:26 AM
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You think having a kid is less of a commitment than marriage? Once you’re a cohabitating couple in many jurisdictions you may as well be married. Marrying creates a legal family which is the environment children do best in. If you’re really a “top level guy” you should have no problem finding quality, educated women. If you’re selecting for the hottest women possible, you’ll miss out on a lot of good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:22 AM
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Most women are not hoes. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm The median body count for a women is 4.3 with most falling in the 2-4 range. Besides, smart men vet women well beyond how the women looks. Education, career trajectory, etc. The Upper class is having kids inside wedlock, consolidating their wealth, while risk averse people afraid of divorce will eschew marriage and have kids outside the nuclear family weakening their social bonds and leaving them with less. Emula…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:10 AM
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“real man of the manosphere” haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:37 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Splitting_(psychology) All or nothing thinking seems to be commonplace around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:55 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ Some else commented this same study, but roughly 1 in 6 women out-earn their husband as of 2022. That’s a large number of women, hardly “over” as you stated. Strange tactic if all women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:46 AM
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You seem to delve into black and white, all or thing thinking a lot. This is a cognitive distortion. Ur either the all good object (chad) or the all bad object (beta. bob). Neither of these characters are an accurate representation of reality. Relationship dynamics are nuanced and have a lot of grey area like all things in life. “Sexy time” as you put it and relationships aren’t mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:40 AM
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I wouldn’t get into a relationship with a women if she was homeless. Does that make me a gold digger too? Wanting a self sufficient partner who pulls their own weight doesn’t = being a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:56 PM
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Ridiculous claim. Some of you guys have overdosed on the “redpill”. You can’t seriously believe 100% of LTR’s have a gold digger dynamic? it’s definitely a small % of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:14 PM
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Thanks! i try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:26 AM
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Put it back up for a bit just for u lol ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:18 AM
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Had to Hiroshima the link
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:22 AM
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I see. I don’t use it often, but sometimes I find it interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:26 PM
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I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:23 PM
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That’s true. I just wanted to see if I was up to this subs standards for this mythical being
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:13 PM
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what’s so funny mr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:00 PM
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Yeah my hair was a mess lol and ur right i gotta shave
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:59 PM
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I see all these comments about only Chad getting hookups. So either that idea is bullshit or i’m a chad. https://imgur.com/gallery/bmHAwwG
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:49 PM
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TIL i’m chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:25 PM
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This subreddit makes me appreciate my gf. Also, laugh of course
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:40 PM
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This place has rotted your mind. You’ve jumped from one dubious OKCupid study of women rating men’s faces on a screen and misinterpreted it to mean all women find the exact same 20% of men attractive. You’re gonna eschew the benefits of a relationship with a women because of this bullshit? Touch grass boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:38 PM
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I think a lot of people find that serious, committed, long term relationships are absolutely worth the costs involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:22 AM
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Beta doesn’t mean ugly/repulsive you’re thinking omega. Betas are supposedly normal every day guys who have trouble maintaining attracting due to slipping to far into their beta comfort traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:58 PM
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The term has always been a part of this sub. “High Beta” aka betafux was a term that meant a man who’s a provider, family man, with a good mix or alpha & beta traits and can maintain attraction. Alphabux isn’t an attractive provider. Alphabuxx would be a Tony Montana for example. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/N7TercFmYM here’s a link to what i’m touching on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:51 PM
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Look up old threads with the term i used
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:40 PM
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You don’t think women lust after men who could be considered unconventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:19 PM
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My only point is the 20% often brought up here is not the same for all women. Yes lots of crossover, but not absolute. Women often disagree about a guy being physically attractive or not. Per this research https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:51 PM
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Ah yes the Ol OKCupid study. Women strictly rating men’s faces on a screen means nothing. I’ve met multiple girls through Tinder/Hinge so guess i’m top 20% then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:30 PM
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Providing for a family financially does not immediately make a man betabuxx. The term betafucks was meant to illustrate a provider who is also attractive to his wife. I don’t believe most men are betabuxx. Women aren’t en masse marrying/dating men they aren’t sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:25 AM
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Do you consider any man who is providing for a family to be a betabuxx regardless of the relationship dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:16 AM
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So in your view the conscious attempt to leverage social status in order to get women is betabuxxing? Do you think the character Tony Montana is beta? He clearly uses money/power to attract women. Also, how is increasing your looks in order to get women constitute betabuxxing? That would help increase your sexual attractiveness which is what the so called betabuxx lack according to the pill subs I understood the term as meaning a man who is wholly sexually unattractive to the women he encounters…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:13 AM
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So now self improvement is betabuxxing? lol ur wrong. The term is supposed to mean a man who is ONLY attractive as a nesting partner not SEXUAL ATTRACTION. Doing things for your gf/wife doesn’t make a man betabuxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:08 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm Rating Attractiveness: Consensus Among Men, Not Women, Study Finds. The idea that women have a fixed 20% of men they find attractive without variation between individual women is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:08 PM
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The thing is when it comes to this sub is you guys often make up numbers in your head and pretend like it’s an accurate depiction of reality. The 10% figure you stated ultimately was made up. What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:05 PM
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