AwarenessOk9754 Archive

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1	Meeting someone in a different city for a first date. How do men see it?	Outer Game	AwarenessOk9754	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:31 PM

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2	How do you do a "choosing signal" approach, without coming across as a desperate, opportunistic bottom-feeder This is such a bizarre way to think about it. It's be like rejecting people who swiped on you on a dating app... So that you could hunt down the ones that didn't. People can be dinterested in you for any number of reasons: they are married, gay, celibate, or you're simply not their type	/r/seduction	27/03/25 05:56 AM
2	Meeting someone in a different city for a first date. How do men see it? I don't disagree he's probably hoping for something, but isn't that what drives most men to do most things? I've been on entire trips with men without having sex (insisting he get me my own room). They have been disappointed but did not stop pursuing me. I only get intimate when things are official with a man. Although I appreciate and notice all the gesture, I will not change my values just because money is being spent.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 11:29 PM
2	Should I wait for her to plan the next date? I indeed cannot speak for all women. But you can count on what I'm telling you for very beautiful high-value women. We don't ask men out on dates because there are men who would never dream of expecting that. In our experience, quality men like to do the chasing. It is part of the fun for them. Men I have dated have outright told me it's a turn-off for them to have a women doing the chasing. And for me it's a turn-off to have a man expect it. So you and I are in two entirely different dating poo…	/r/seduction	26/03/25 09:09 PM
1	Should I wait for her to plan the next date? That's fair but keep in mind you may be discounting women who are interested but are more comfortable "following" as opposed to "leading" If you want a woman who is more modern and less traditional (think about her views on sex, family, and housekeeping) then your strategy is fine.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 08:01 PM
-1	Should I wait for her to plan the next date? Some men prefer effort in more feminine ways: physical affection, looking beautiful/hot, raising his social status, encouraging his dreams, nurturing. There is no "right" or "wrong" way, but feminine women with options do not ask men out on dates. Period.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 07:50 PM
-3	Should I wait for her to plan the next date? Dear God, men are waiting for women to plan dates now? Put on your big girl panties and ask her out. Instead of worrying if she likes you, be someone likeable.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 07:19 PM
1	Meeting someone in a different city for a first date. How do men see it? Can you tell me more about the types of men who would fly a women out? I am concerned it will make me look desperate or even escorty if I accept. As if I am meant to be overly impressed by someone paying for my hotel and inviting me to a fancy party. Even though I think this man is respectable and respectful, I don't want to give him the impression that he can say jump and I'll ask, how high	/r/seduction	26/03/25 07:17 PM
1	Meeting someone in a different city for a first date. How do men see it? Expect or hope? I know I'm probably an outlier, but I typically don't have sex before I've been dating someone for 3-6 months...	/r/seduction	26/03/25 06:44 PM
1	Meeting someone in a different city for a first date. How do men see it? He's already said there are zero expectations and I'm not a sex worker, so I think that might be unnecessary?	/r/seduction	26/03/25 06:17 PM
1	Meeting someone in a different city for a first date. How do men see it? Haha, I admit I'm decently fortunate and am pretty selective with the type of man I go for. (Not just his material success by any means but that is absolutely a factor.) He just apologized and said he'd still like to come to my city to meet me, so I think I have my answer. I don't think he was expecting sex, but his invitation was a little escorty for my comfort. Getting ready for fancy events takes a lot of time and money for women (hair, outfit, makeup, etc) and I have my own life... I'm not r…	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:54 PM
2	A woman decides in the first 5 seconds if she likes you or not, True or False? Sometimes but usually not. If it's a HELL NO, that's hard to come back from But attraction often grows with time as you get to know someone Similarly, the most attractive man can fuck it all up as he reveals who he is	/r/seduction	25/03/25 01:43 PM
3	Advice for when a girl lives very far away You will only attract women with low self-esteem with that strategy. Some of us only date men who visibly show interest and make gestures. I'd weight the pros and cons OP. You don't have to spend a whole three days with her. Plan ONE date at the beginning of your stay and if it goes well you can ask her out for another date on your second day. I agree a 3-day date is nuts.	/r/seduction	23/03/25 05:14 PM