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| 3 | Is a man more attractive when he’s single or in a relationship?Single…not into taken men.. Playing the field isn’t favorable tjough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:01 AM |
| – | “Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented womenIf you’re pretty. Same applies to men. If you’re not, nobody gives a dam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:55 PM |
| – | “Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented womenThis is exactly how I feel, but as a woman Nobody gives a fuck abt me besides my mom. That’s it. Why do ppl think women get this special care and treatment? Maybe if you look like a model or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Where do women want to be hit on?Anywhere. Really doesn’t matter if I’m interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met?Thank god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met?I believe in true love. I’m glad there’s still others out there who want this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.No, I don’t have any problems with Bonnie blue I like people like her being around. She can satisfy all the men that we don’t want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 10:40 AM |
| 15 | What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership?Equal partnership for me, maybe a little more traditional or skewed in my favor in the recovery time right after childbirth (I’d want him to help cook clean etc over working, ideally we have enough money to both take off for awhile with a newborn), then right back to equal partnership. Give and take in general. If he’s sick and needs help then he gets extra help. I see a lot of women, my age wanting the same thing (30yo, American) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 10:37 AM |
| -3 | Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as wellThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menAs a lonely American woman, ima use this guide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Kentucky here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 08:20 PM |
| 9 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?There are plenty of women with money who aren’t as good looking and would be happy to pay for your date. Try dating one of those. We are lonely too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:23 PM |
| – | What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences?Countless men I’ve had the misfortune of dating, random people who make rude comments, plenty of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 08:39 AM |
| 1 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.That’s interesting bc someone else just commented saying he’s a straight conservative man and I’d make a perfect wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 08:36 AM |
| 2 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Thx I wish there were more men like you esp in Kentucky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 08:30 AM |
| 2 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.It’d be really nice if they could do it before we’re in our 40s cause I’m already 30 and the guys my age are not very hip to this yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:30 AM |
| 17 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?Friend everytime. I’m looking for a partner not a boss lol However, many of the qualities you listed under leadership are the kind of qualities that make a good friend so this is kind of a strange question Why pick between the two? Why not have a partner who is your best friend and also shares leadership qualities? Two best friends both of whom have strong leadership skills. They can easily alternate carrying the load when circumstances dictate it. Now that’s a marriage that will last | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.The fuck is a betabucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Are men and women even compatible in relationships?The ones who live like I do (lots of intense exercise and copious red meat consumption) all say so, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:10 PM |
| 2 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Well according to U/teflon08191 you must be a gay man 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 10:02 PM |
| 4 | What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences?That it’s not gay to be attracted to women with leg hair. It’s still a woman. We grow hair. It’s normal. It just means you’re a normal guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.None of those people were my friend. Just guys pretending to be my friend so they could get with me. None have remained friends after the breakup despite my offering to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Even when their best bro looks like a woman and gets them hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Are men and women even compatible in relationships?I’m a woman who would prefer sex 1-2x a day and has trouble finding men who can keep up What are you talking abt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.I don’t get that. I don’t know why men are so opposed to the idea of someone you enjoy spending time with and also get to have sex with. Like oh no. You don’t have to hide the money you spend on your hobbies from me. You can just tell me and I’ll be like “sweet bro, buy another gun and let me shoot it too.” And you don’t have to get away from me to be with the guys to feel like you keep your sanity. You’ll have one of the guys living with you 24/7. Won’t have to watch your tongue around me. Wont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 3 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.That’s why I refuse to call most modern “conservatives” conservatives. They’re anything but. They conserve nothing. They’re alot more like liberals than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.I hate romance. And dating. No. Dear god no. I want a best bro with benefits. Like having a brother you’re not related to plus you get to have sex and raise a family together. My dream marriage would be to fall in love with a platonic best friend that I also find physically attractive. I feel like a gay man trapped in a woman’s body most days fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:39 PM |
| 5 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Originally conservatives were libertarian. I have conservative values. That’s what we’re talking about. I am a conservative woman with conservative values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:04 PM |
| 4 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Why the obsession with the helpless woman? Why do these guys get off on their women not being able to survive without them? I don’t understand it. I would think that they want better genetics and a competent partner for their children over everything else. This isn’t even feminine or traditional. This is like some 1950s shit that was made up by propaganda. Traditionally women hunted too and lived in the bush off grid, they were never helpless or submissive like this they were just people Let’s l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:31 PM |
| 5 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.I don’t feel very different though I’ve always felt like one of the guys I’ve been a huge tomboy. I’ve never been into girly stuff so it’s really really annoying when they expect me to be something. I’m not. I don’t know why these guys even date me. They all asked me out. And then they try to change me. Just find a woman who wants to be girly and stay at home mom if that’s your thing and leave me the hell alone. They’re drawn to me at first bc we have so much in common usually (guns, political v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:21 PM |
| 3 | What do conservative women value? ... If there's any difference at all between progressive and conservative women in this regard.Treat me like a best friend with benefits. I like being “one of the guys” and don’t like chivalrous men much, gives me the ick. I like being treated like a peer, not a child. I struggle dating conservative men and have stopped for awhile now. So many obsessed with this protective role and having a “submissive” woman. So weird. Always trying to do things like grab me and stop me from crossing the street until they think it’s safe, won’t let me in the car until they open the door for me. It’s just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:28 PM |
| – | Are Women Becoming Less Attracted to Men in General?Yes. Have been celibate for awhile now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Are you smarter than your man?I have never had a boyfriend with a higher IQ. It’s in the 140s so pretty hard to find someone that can match or surpass. I’m well aware that I’m in the top 1% so I have no expectations for a man to be smarter than me. The real problem tends to lie in their ego. They are often upset about this, feel very insecure instead of just being glad their future kids will be smarter as a result. I would get offended at how they put their egos before our bond and relationship. This may be an issued tied to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalYea you right, I didn’t mean it quite like that Rules should revolve around consent respect of boundaries etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalFirst one led you on for validation. Not cool. That’s on her Second one was shy and really wanted it sounds like Third one is scared and has commitment issues This more of a broken human problem than a woman problem tbh. I’ve had men treat me very similarly too. People can just be confusing creatures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often HypocriticalIf I tell a man he’s like a brother to me, and I’m also attracted to him, that’s husband material right there. Would love to have a partner I feel that comfortable around. IMO as a woman that’s a high compliment. We often fantasize about being with our best friend plus benefits as the ideal marriage, at least I do. I basically just want a bromance with a guy I have a ton in common with/vibe with well, have lots of sex and kids together 😂 As for women being with men, they’re not attracted to that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:11 PM |
| 19 | Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often Hypocriticalthe rules aren’t rules. They’re vibes YES. This is spot on. There are no set rules. It’s all vibes and intuition. Learn to tune into that, and you got it. Women need to learn this skill too. Time to shift toward this mindset and the dating market will recorrect and heal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:03 PM |
| -5 | Newsflash: Even IF women approached more, not a whole lot would really change.The thing about it is, I don’t think that most men not being approached or that way because of something genetic that they can’t change Most guys would get approached all the time by women if they just worked out a little bit more watched what they ate and dressed better Get some sun get a tan brush your teeth get em straight make sure you’re looksmaxxing I think the real problem is that so few men are willing to put the effort in and women are massively turned off by that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 03:59 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Yea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 11:33 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Just don’t date women with double standards like I don’t date men with double standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 10:19 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Idgaf if a guy is richer or has more status or whatever. Just be kind and pleasant to be around that’s what we want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 10:08 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Why would women reject you for being virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 09:13 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?I think if the guy has a low body count himself it’s perfectly reasonable for him to want this. If he has a high body count and he’s expecting this in a woman then it’s just a joke and it makes perfect sense to get upset about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 09:11 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?They could have their own stuff back then, but there were still a lot of stigma against it. I think now that that’s changing and we see more women working. It’s just changing the game more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Women are no longer financially dependent on them therefore, the standards have gone up dramatically. I think that’s what it all boils down to and that’s why why men are so mad that women are working deep down. Yes there are some arguments that it’s not ideal for the family unit and many cases but neither is the man working at 9 to 5 for some corporation that doesn’t care about the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:42 PM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.I’ve beat multiple full grown men arm wrestling 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 12:12 AM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.0/10 ragebait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.American culture is very different from Islamic culture We can always make it a fight to the death by simply…fighting to the death! Sounds like you’re really rooting for the rapists here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Oh no, never heard that one before. Clearly every 16yo will outclass me, since they’re all the same size and trained the same 🤣 I guess I should just roll over and cower in fear, do nothing then! Is that what you’re hoping for? Lmao stfu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 07:48 PM |
| 22 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?I hope you’re honest with women about this if you are sexually active | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Honestly sounds better than being a slave 🤷♀️ worth the risk If someone wants to drone me for taking my power back, they sound pretty damn evil and like somebody I should be fighting against anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearMmm no, I don’t want to be with someone who is “kind of a dick”. You can date those guys. More for you. If he’s not kind to other women that’s a huge turn off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.What if all the women organized back and just fought to the death in a big war instead of being subjugated? What do the men get then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.And as a woman this is why I train often in lethal force and try to get other women to do the same. With guns today we can easily take our power back. We are not dependent if we get in incredible shape, become expert well armed markswomen, learn small unit tactics, organize successful militias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 09:24 AM |
| – | People do give men a bunch of chances before giving up on them.Preach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:33 PM |
| 2 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearGuess I love low status men then 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:41 AM |
| 18 | What (I think) Every Nice Guy Needs to HearNobody dislikes nice men. We dislike men pretending to be nice to get laid, who will drop the act in an instant once they realize they have no chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 11:43 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?I prefer it, since I’m kind of muscular myself as a woman. I hope muscular guys prefer muscular women… I prefer them natural though, not a fan of steroids Love a big chest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I never said I don’t understand why there’s so many fat dudes…I’m just not gonna date em lmao I stay in great shape so idc, they’re not my type, it’s not that hard to stay in shape despite the obesity problem. Nope zero makeup or synthetic products here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Ya I know I’m just not dating women so not as focused on them being overweight. I have good diet/skincare routine so no issue with tanning, id like the same in a man, and yea cologne makes me kinda sick esp when it’s heavy, synthetic fragrances not a fan of. Organic essential oils are soooo much better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?That’s gross bc statistically they also smell worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?lol fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Jeans or khaki pants with cowboy boots, a knife/revolver (all in leather sheath) on a leather belt, flannel shirt, hat, maybe a leather jacket Anything camouflage Idk I just like rugged and practical clothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I actually like men’s clothing more than women’s. More simple styles, more earth tones, better colors in general, better style overall, no pink or frilly dresses, nothing over the top. I wish they made men’s clothes in women’s sizes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Most men are not interested in romance. They just like to have a woman around and have sex with her. Thoughts?Have done this for almost every man I dated and they never appreciated or cared so I would just stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:53 PM |
| -5 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Yes. They don’t even try. Dress better, style yourself, SHOWER, don’t wear synthetic fragrances (essential oils or something natural that doesn’t disrupt hormones) and most important go outside to get a tan and workout. There’s so many fat guys and I don’t understand it. All you gotta do is eat healthy and work out and you can be ripped. It would make dating so much easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Being funny is not attractive to womenYep pretty accurate. I’ve made my mind up usually in first 10min of meeting whether a man is attractive enough to take interest or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorSounds like a sad lonely life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?I never ever hit on taken men. So that’s not the case here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 02:37 PM |
| -1 | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?What I don’t get is why men are so often friends-zoning women they find so attractive? This makes zero sense to me. I’d never friendzone a man I’m into. I wouldn’t be friends with him either if his personality sucked too much to be a deterrent. So idk what is going on in these guys heads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 02:22 PM |
| – | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?Dude, I’ve tried to read them and they are so confusing. I’m over it. So many mixed signals. These guys will act like they want to sleep with me. One even said he had a crush on me. So duh I asked him out, I like him back. Then the minute I showed that level of interest he got weird. I’ll have every green flag in the book, go ahead and ask them and they just freeze up. Two of them have told me they find me super hot and it’s just awkward to sleep with a friend. Idk. I give up, I just use the app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?Well success I could care less about if you mean money, I definitely approach men with no money and they’ve rejected me. Last three guys I asked out were broke. I’d take them out and buy them meals since they had no money. All said no. None of them were getting approached by women, one of them complained that women never approach then I did and he froze up. Handsome is a very subjective thing, as I’ve found plenty of men attractive who my female friends do not. One who rejected me this year had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:46 PM |
| – | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?What kind of question is that? How do you determine if someone is “in your league” or not? I’ve had boyfriends that look like supermodels and I’ve also been rejected by men who were barely considered attractive enough for me to hit on in my own eyes. That’s a wild thing to make assumptions about, since people can have such wildly different types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:43 PM |
| – | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?Yes but I’m tired of being punished in dating for making the first move | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingWhere are all these men initiating? I’m not seeing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:26 AM |
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