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Looks requirements for dating are definitely lower for men, but they are a lot higher for the looks requirements for attraction. Like an average woman will be desirable to most men because of looks alone, while only very attractive men would be desired by most women for looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:58 AM
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It's a spectrum from what I've seen, the more attractive someone is the less that social competence is required. A moderately attractive guy will still have to have at least a little game, but for a model-level guy it will be very hard if not impossible to fuck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:53 PM
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Yeah plus there are monks and such who don’t have any relationships and barely have any social interaction and are still happy. It seems common that people who haven’t had sex idolize it a lot but people who have see it as nice but it doesn’t fix any problems and borderline isn’t even worth the effort unless you areally care about someone. I don’t know why sex is included at the bottom of the pyramid of needs on the same level as food and shelter, because there are plenty of people who don’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:11 PM
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Gender roles are still very much part of the culture in the east, like men are expected to provide for their family alone and women are expected to marry and have kids young. I think it might be because gender roles seem somewhat tied to religion in the west while in the east it is not, so it has not changed much as people have become less religious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:55 AM
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It's super interesting how our biology prepares us for bad times in history, there's this and also the fact that more girls are born in times of crisis (likely because having more of them helps a population rebound quicker, and having a girl is more of a safe investment in terms of passing genes down than a boy, which is more high risk/reward)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:52 AM
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Attractive people are more likely to be conservative also. Maybe it’s because they were always treated well by society so they favor the conservation of it as is. https://www.susqu.edu/about-su/newsroom/research-finds-attractive-people-more-likely-to-be-conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 05:02 PM
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You have to be a special level of lonely and horny to agree to that, the girl literally knows nothing about you except that you have money to pay for a relationship, it can’t possibly be a fulfilling relationship. I watched a couple documentaries about them and the men are usually old and unattractive, but delude themselves that just being American and having a lot of money compared to the 3rd world will make them attractive to a 20-30s woman who is way out of their league. One guy I saw got sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:49 PM
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When did I say that? We were talking about a very specific situation about people touching strippers and how men are in control of women that touch them and not the other way around, how do you get that sexual assault of men isn’t a big deal from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:25 PM
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I mean those are the people who would know the most, but just knowing the differences with men and women should show that it’s different. They are both sexual assault yes, but most of the damage that comes from it is the loss of any kind of control, not the sexual aspect. You just have to look at them to tell that male strippers are still in control of the women touching them and could end the situation if they wanted, that is completely different from female strippers and the men that touch the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 05:29 PM
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I don't think anyone is arguing that you need to constantly ask for consent or be 100% passive, there's a middle ground between that and the guy just doing whatever he wants. It's really not hard to not assault someone, in the few situations where she's not comfortable but doesn't say anything it should be obvious from body language. The vast majority of men have healthy sexual relationships and are never accused of anything they haven't done, and the average guy definitely isn't 100% passive. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 11:34 PM
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Yeah, it’s the fact that women place value on things other than looks that gives them very high standards when it comes to looks. It means the guy has to be extremely attractive to override the desire for other traits and get casual sex/ be successful online
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:31 AM
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That’s like saying women should prefer shy virgins because they want committment and that’s how they can get it. Desire is a biological thing, and most men have an aversion to women who sleep around a lot and that’s a lot stronger than the logic of wanting to beat other men at something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:51 AM
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It’s not specific to gender alone, I’ve heard girls talk about dating really attractive guys and they’re also boring and annoying a lot of the time because they didn’t need anything other than looks. It’s just that the bar is way higher for men to get by on looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:49 AM
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Exactly, there are good people and and bad people regardless of gender or SMV. But in my experience a lot of the “nice guy” behavior and aggressive advances are tied with a lack of options. I knew a guy in college who probably has the highest SMV of anyone I met (tall, model level looks, ahead in his career for our age) and was one of the most respectful people I knew. He got a reputation for never hitting on anybody unless they were friends who started liking each other over time. It actually m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:59 PM
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I think people are focusing too much on exceptions to the rule, yes there are male models that get as much benefit from being attractive as women do, just very few of them. The "Chads" people talk about are usually average to above average looking guys with good social skills. Also femcels say that unless a woman is attractive the benefits don't apply, while it's only a small amount of women who are unattractive enough to not get the benefit of being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:46 AM
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Yeah I kinda have a problem with the whole "Chad" image people have, like just being attractive doesn't mean that you can go around and get with anyone you want. It definitely does help, but the whole "20% of men get all the women" thing makes no sense. I would guess that only the most attractive men can get with people easily like people think "Chads" can, it's probably less than 1%, who can be male models.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:52 PM
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Yeah from what I've seen super attractive awkward guys can hook up with people but when their personality comes out they stop being interested. There's like a 9/10 guy in my college program, he's probably the most attractive guy I've seen in person, and yes he is successful sexually but he can't just get any girl he wants, a social extroverted girl will not be willing to get into a relationship with him just for looks. There's also an 8/10 girl who is not feminine at all and pretty awkward, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:03 AM
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Women handle rejection badly too, I saw it happen with one guy at my school who is tall and probably the best looking guy I've met (like to the point that girls have had crushes on him just seeing him in class everyday without ever talking to him). Anyway this 8/10 girl was friends with him and gets a huge crush on him, and for whatever reason he wasn't even interested in hooking up with her, it was probably the first time it ever happened to her. After that she refused to be friends even though…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 02:14 AM
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It also depends on where they are in their cycle, they've found they pretty much do care about looks/height/physical fitness solely when they're menstruating. It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint, the best possible outcome for your child is to mate with the most genetically fit person when you're fertile but do it the rest of the time with a long term partner who will provide for your child, hence why emotional connection is needed most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:49 AM
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Honestly I don't think being attractive makes people any happier overall, same thing with money or even status. Sure it makes it easier to get who you want but that only makes you temporarily happy, then you return to whatever your baseline is after a while. Same thing with suddenly getting a lot of money or moving up in social status. So if you're not happier overall and you still have to deal with attention from men you aren't attracted to is that really better? I know some attractive girls an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:28 AM
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Why? It says that genital arousal is not connected to psychological arousal in women the way it is for men. Women do watch porn just much less then men, because they are usually not turned on by seeing male bodies the way we are by female ones.
/r/BlackPillScience19/07/19 02:21 AM
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They did that study already, they found that women's genitals are aroused when shown any slightly sexual situation, even when watching people outside their sexual orientation or animals mating. It's separated from actual mental arousal likely because rapes were relatively common when we evolved, so they adapted to self-lubricate when not aroused to prevent permanent damage during rape. Men on the other hand had genital arousal only when they were mentally aroused when shown people who they were …
/r/BlackPillScience19/07/19 12:45 AM
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Its 2/1 when looking at the whole population, but after like age 30 there's way more men then women. From 18-25 demographic it's much closer to equal. There's still more men of course, which will drive up female standards, but it's still a very popular way for people to meet.
/r/BlackPillScience19/07/19 12:17 AM
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Exactly, I've always thought that sexual arousal feels the same in both genders. It isn't really fair to call male sex drive stronger, it's just activated in broader circumstances. Women have much higher standards but they are as horny for chads as men are for most women. Same thing with orgasms, brain scans look identical with genders, they just are rarer/longer for women.
/r/BlackPillScience19/07/19 12:11 AM
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