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| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?And apparently all women have daddy issues since they're checking out the old dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?I have a very low opinion about women that wear make up every day or get hair extensions, but I don't share that openly because doing so will get a ton of hate and it's not worth it. But honestly it makes me think less of them. However, I am a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?No. I've dated inexperienced men before and had a ton of fun making their wildest dreams come true. My husband is so over threesomes now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:47 AM |
| 5 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Men spend a lot more time thinking about what most women want, women spend a lot more time thinking about what men other women find attractive want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.Because the pay is so low. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:29 PM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceYou're 18 and understand everything about how the world works. It just so happens to sound exactly like the same tired old manosphere nonsense polluting various corners of the internet. Go ahead and believe that men become more attractive when they're in their 30's and waste the best years of your life being jaded and cynical before you die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingIt's the performative aspect that reinforces gender norms. Women are typically expected to cook and clean, so what's the message here? If she had just changed his spark plugs that wouldn't get the same response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means?People in general tend to be less empathetic with anything they have not personally experienced. That shouldn't be news to any adult on planet but here we are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:32 PM |
| 10 | Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means?That's considered the result of better health/nutrition, not genetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:24 PM |
| 7 | Do (some) women realize what going after masculine men means?Dude, you see the same trends when looking at people that are successful in business. People that are attractive, have charisma, and are taller do better in almost every situation. That includes dating, and applies for women as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:23 PM |
| 9 | Men simply want virgin women because of security and feeling of being special.No. Men that do are insecure or do so for cultural reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 10:14 AM |
| 2 | We Talk About Women’s Biological Clock. But Sperm Quality Has a Clock TooYou're grossly overstating the effect. Fitness won't make an appreciable difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:00 PM |
| 1 | We Talk About Women’s Biological Clock. But Sperm Quality Has a Clock TooYou can't prevent aging. At best, you can age better than your cohort, but even that is limited. Especially at the molecular level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 11:23 AM |
| 8 | We Talk About Women’s Biological Clock. But Sperm Quality Has a Clock TooThis is all complete nonsense. Fitness doesn't do shit to preserve telomeres, reverse oxidative stress, or undo genetic mutations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating is in the state it is today due to Women’s romantic interest and attention now essentially becoming the most dominant if not only currency (in The West)What trp fails to acknowledge is that the "looks threshold" is malleable for most women. I have dated men that I had zero interest in at first because they were so witty and fun that they suddenly became desirable. That's not something most men are capable of, so it's not easily monetized, and therefore won't be pushed by trp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 04:37 AM |
| 0 | Why do age gap preferences in men and women differ so much?The type of woman that go for much older men typically want to be taken care of or objectified. Most women prefer equality in relationships. Some women do prefer younger guys because they like the excitement or enjoy the sugar mama status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 09:39 AM |
| 5 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.How often do these groups produce a mass shooter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 10:56 AM |
| 13 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?That's your phrasing, not mine. Apparently it's completely devoid of pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:31 AM |
| 13 | Women that are 25+ who are looking for long term commitment from men but do not want children. For what purpose or goal are you looking for a LTR? Why not just hook up forever?So having kids = miserable but "worthy" life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:30 AM |
| 4 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?You don't know anyone with an actually large dick. There is such a thing as too big | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 09:14 AM |
| -1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsNo, what they really mean is they're either incapable of doing some basic math or understanding the concept of marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do?I paid for all first dates with my now husband because I earned significantly more than he did and thought he was irresistible. He later supported me through part of my time in grad school so it balanced out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | RP/BP ppl on PPD say women should choose better, but they really don’t want that.I dated a few guys that I thought were ugly at first. A sense of humor is a great aphrodisiac. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Many men are fine with “misandrist” stereotypes as long as it targeted towards men they view as an out group.That's only true if you count the church as a charitable organization, which you shouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourLike dissolves like. What you're experiencing is selection bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 09:54 AM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".It doesn't, though. Thinking it does demonstrates ignorance and an inability to understand any sort of context/nuance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:01 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".So you think men are ignorant, illogical creatures? Seems sexist imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?Men in relationships are happier, because the wife takes care of things. Most people would be happier if they had a maid and cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 12:34 PM |
| 8 | Do you actually care about not being able to go out with your tits out?If everyone did it nobody would care. It's like wearing shorts: shocking and provocative in the 1800s, but something you'd do without a thought today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Why don't you approach men?Because I'm married to some guy I approached years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 09:49 AM |
| -9 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themWhy would anyone care about someone as bitter and hateful as you sound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:42 AM |
| – | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationif the parents are convinced that there is no medical justification, but that there is a cultural or just an aesthetic justification, as if circumcising the baby is the same as piercing its ears. This is a false equivalence. Piercing ears can also go terribly wrong and there's also no medical reason to do it, and I would support banning this practice until a certain age as well. My mother got my ears pierced as an infant so people would know I was a girl, and I did not suffer in any way because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:27 PM |
| – | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationMore importantly, if there's nothing wrong (and there are times when circumcision is recommended, such as phimosis) then why not let the person decide when they're an adult? I couldn't get my tubes tied when I was 26 because I "might change your mind" or "what if you get married and your husband wants kids" but it's totally fine to carry out an unnecessary and purely cosmetic surgery on an infant? Especially since every surgery has risks? No, I don't see why anyone is still defending this practi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:20 PM |
| – | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationI agree with your sentiment and wish you didn't have to have negative feelings, but think you have every right to feel the way you feel. When my nephew was born I asked my sister if she was planning to circumcise and had prepared talking points in case she was, but was relieved to know both her and her husband agreed it wasn't the right thing to do. Saved me from some awkward conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:13 PM |
| – | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationIt doesn’t make a difference to sex at all. Actually, I disagree. Uncut is SO much better. I think that women that feel otherwise just don't have a significant sample size to know any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:07 PM |
| 24 | Hot Guys I’ve Been Friends Want To Use WomenWhat, you've never had imaginary friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueYou hear the most from the people that have reason to complain. This is true for both men and women. People that don't have relationship issues just complain about other things, so you don't pay attention to them regarding relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do divorced men seem to struggle so much even when financials are not an issue?Any moderately attractive woman has 5-10 orbiters pestering her at all times Um, no. The "nice" ones do. It's really not a problem at all if you're assertive and don't mind being perceived as a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.That's why this sub is still up. The reason the other subs got banned was because they were inciting violence, and there have been multiple men with a grudge against women and a gun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.And how many of them have tried to kill a bunch of men for being men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?Yes. A friend of mine hooked up with a woman while they were both drunk, and she somehow felt like she was victimized despite being the aggressor, then somehow managed to drive herself home after. I had to point out that if she was able to make that (much worse imo) decision, and nobody would excuse that, then she also needs to own up to all the other decisions she made that night. The idea that women shouldn't be held accountable for the decisions they make while willingly intoxicated is bullsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Women should be taught that they too can find joy in providing for their partner.Don't worry, this dude is clearly full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsThat’s a major factor, girls have much more free rein to exclude men because the availability of their options. The use of "girls" and "men" in this sentence is super creepy. Girls should date boys, women should date men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsThere are too many other men who aren't saddled with all that baggage. Why can't you just accept some accountability for your actions and focus on raising your kids instead of trying to convince women to lower their standards so you can laid? It's gross, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 03:14 PM |
| 9 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menWhich is why maybe men need to be more wary of other men instead of telling women to be less wary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 04:13 AM |
| 4 | The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular menHow many of those men were victimized by other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityLmaoooooooo ok buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityI don't see what this has to do with my comment. Did you accidentally reply to the wrong comment? Do you have severe ADHD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 03:07 AM |
| 3 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityThis reply indicates that you don't know what Evo psych is or what science is. Probably both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:18 AM |
| 5 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinitySo ironic that you would say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 11:10 AM |
| 12 | The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinityEvo psych is all bullshit dressed up as science, so yeah, definitely red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 11:07 AM |
| -5 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityNo, I'm referring to men I know that were in my cohort in my physics phd program. Your attitude is typical for the misogynists here so not surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 12:33 AM |
| -6 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityYour post indicates you're unable to judge intelligence. None of the above-average intelligence men I know are single. Even the unfortunate-looking ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 10:25 PM |
| 5 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityNo, there are guys like this. Just because you can't fathom something doesn't mean it doesn't exist, it just reveals your bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 10:19 PM |
| 3 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityThe most handsome man I know IRL is dumb as shit and is desperate to get married. He complains that women treat him like an object, and will date him for a bit to show off to their friends but never stick around. His personality is definitely the only issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityThe irony in this statement LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Unironically the dating woes of young woman would be much better if they actually dated men their age, but we can't have nice things"Sexually patient" means weak/no boners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Women will defend women no matter whatIt's depressing for sure. But I will say that I know only know a few guys like the bad ones that frequent this sub. Most of the men I know are not at all like this, and are actually decent people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Women will defend women no matter whatI agree with you, and think OP supplied a perfect example of your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women will defend women no matter whatThat was my point. OP and others like him are so ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Women will defend women no matter whatBecause of your bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.No, you're using typical man logic. "Because these rappers exist and I think they're mediocre clearly mediocre women can be successful." That's not even related to the point I was making. Mediocre women know they're mediocre, mediocre men are completely unaware and think they're great. They then shit on women for making any mistakes because they expect women to be terrible. You don't see this much for men in women-dominated fields because women don't actually hate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.It's not more normal for men than for women. The difference is that women are scrutinized for any mistakes in ways men are not. Men are looking for women to be inferior, while giving other men the benefit of the doubt until they show they suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.It's not normal for men. There are tons of mediocre men that think they're better than they are, though. The problem is that men are just too emotional. A war zone? LMAO, its a corporate office. There's AC and snacks in the lounge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 11:39 AM |
| -7 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Women in male-dominated fields are constantly belittled and demeaned by the males in their cohort. Your points are all bullshit you just make up to make yourself feel better about your own inadequacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 10:57 AM |
| 0 | Does our media actually reflect our tastes or should we be offended by how the other sex is portrayed?Men aren't portrayed as wearing suits all the time, even when impractical. But y'all do complain, constantly. That's basically the theme of this sub. Bros mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Does our media actually reflect our tastes or should we be offended by how the other sex is portrayed?I've never heard anyone mention batgirls attire. It's the overall theme of women fighting in what's basically a bikini that is argued is sexist. If it's a style that facilities movement you would assume it would be similar for men and women, and in this case the outfits are similar for batman and batgirl. The sexist thing would be referring to her as batgirl instead of batwoman, but maybe she's a child idk. It's like if men were portrayed as constantly wearing suits, even when at the beach or pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Does our media actually reflect our tastes or should we be offended by how the other sex is portrayed?That's still skin-tight, but also not the image most associate with bat girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 11 | One of the factors of the male loneliness epidemic: women not dating down emotionallyAh, having spent too much time on this sub I think I can translate for you. Basically, once women hit 30 they become repulsive to men, so any man willing to spend any time in the presence of such a beast should be worth investing money in lest you die alone eaten by cats. Never mind that unless you're marrying a much younger man you'll still die alone, but at least you would have proved your worth by finding a man willing to marry your pathetic husk of a person. This is your fault, because befor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 02:11 AM |
| 9 | One of the factors of the male loneliness epidemic: women not dating down emotionallyYes but something something walls and cats and dying alone... manosphere logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:56 AM |
| 0 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesIt's so nice to realize that most men are not as horrible as the ones on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesMeanwhile, reproduction, women’s innate advantage is untouched. Advantage? You mean burden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesit's really too bad we don't have a physical outlet for young men to revel in their superior strength Oh, if only someone would organize some sort of organization where men could compete against other men, perhaps something like manipulating a ball across a field or something... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Men should avoid dating sexual assault victimsYou clearly have no idea what you're talking about and should stop talking. Do some research. You're completely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Men should avoid dating sexual assault victimsSeriously. I'm so disgusted by these comments. There's a big problem with both genders not taking male victims of SA seriously, and it needs to stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Men should avoid dating sexual assault victimsThis comment is infuriating because you clearly have NO idea what you're talking about. Male victims of SA can have severe and long-term issues, and because of a lack of support or recognition of their issues (comments like yours) they can suffer so much. SA can absolutely DESTROY a man, and it's horrific that you would minimize their suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:41 PM |
| 0 | How does FDS and TRP compare with each other ?Same as RP men. They deserve each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 07:58 AM |
| 15 | Dating (not "modern dating", dating in general) has been a failure, and is leading to the downfall of societyCrisis? Where's the crisis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 10:36 PM |
| 16 | Modern Feminism is a giant shit testThe question you asked is so profoundly stupid you should expect to be mocked. If I heard you say this in public you better believe I'd call you out to your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:19 PM |
| -1 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedNo. You're just blind to men doing the same shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:37 PM |
| – | ““I think it is you, the women who have had the most diabolical lies told to you,” - what are your thoughts on the Harrison Butker commencement speech scandal?I would argue he was right about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Dating advice by men, for women?Funfacts is a raging misogynist that desperately wants to go back to a time where women had no rights. Don't waste your time engaging with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 09:42 AM |
| 4 | Dating advice by men, for women?If you are a psychologist (doubtful) you're demonstrating one of the many problems with the field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Dating advice by men, for women?This is exactly what kapoue was referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 09:26 AM |
| – | Many women don't realize that emotions are not reality.Why is it that so many boys are blind to the behavior of other boys? Is it that your misogyny clouds your ability to recognize faults in anything with a Y chromosome? Men do the same shit all the time ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 10:51 AM |
| 0 | Men being okay with women who are insecure or have low self esteem is not due to them being easier to push around, this is false and plain misandry, at the same time women dont date the male counterparts, not because of righteousness or virtue, but because they find those men unattractiveMen don't know what they want. But the agreeable women get used like trash while they chase and try for the bitchy ones. You can't listen to what they say, watch what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Men being okay with women who are insecure or have low self esteem is not due to them being easier to push around, this is false and plain misandry, at the same time women dont date the male counterparts, not because of righteousness or virtue, but because they find those men unattractiveThere are a lot of desperate, pathetic men on here that would date any woman that's dumb enough to give them a chance. The thought of actually making a choice is completely foreign to them, which is why they have such ridiculous takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 11:58 AM |
| -9 | Men being okay with women who are insecure or have low self esteem is not due to them being easier to push around, this is false and plain misandry, at the same time women dont date the male counterparts, not because of righteousness or virtue, but because they find those men unattractiveMen don't want a difficult woman to deal with. LMAO WRONG. Men LOVE bitchy, difficult women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Why is the danger sense of women very confusing.We all know that women like blonde hair and will dye their hair blonde. But then we all know that goth girl in high school that liked to dye her hair black. All women are inconsistent!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?Darwin's theories weren't accepted for a very long time because they couldn't be verified. You seem eager to latch onto malarkey and consider it science because you agree with it and want it to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?Is it less "verifiable" than evolutionary hypotheses for the origins of other traits? Yes. Evolution is traced back through DNA. What's the psychology equivalent of DNA? Other great ape species fight other males to secure mating rights. They don't cry on the internet then occasionally pop off and shoot a bunch of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?You literally describe anthropology then segue into developmental psychology. You don't seem to know what evolutionary psychology is. But it's trash and not real science because you can't TEST THE HYPOTHESIS. What's the probability you're making a type I or type II error? It's literally just a guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 10:11 AM |
| 5 | Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 10:04 AM |
| 0 | Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism?That "risk free" life required taking on the massive risk involved with bearing children. https://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/topic_display.cfm?tcid=70#:~:text=During%20the%20seventeenth%20and%20eighteenth,infection%2C%20hemorrhage%2C%20or%20convulsions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:02 AM |
| -1 | Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism?I'm a feminist and I married a "manly man" with a beard and everything. We don't subscribe to traditional gender roles and he's also a feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism?The words you are looking for are 'presumption of innocence', we don't believe anyone until facts are presented. If this were in any way true gossip wouldn't be a thing. Religion either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism?No. It's meant for the court of public opinion, not the court of law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism?Maybe because there hasn't been a feminist mass shooter. It's weird that men struggle to either remember that these groups tend to churn out homicidal maniacs or struggle to connect that to why people don't look too favorably on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:30 AM |
| 18 | Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism?The irony is that RP guys are obsessed with something they apparently know nothing about. Feminism is an umbrella term that encompasses many different groups with different goals, ideas, and theories. There's a lot that feminists disagree about. It's like Christians: there's catholics, eastern orthodox, baptists, etc. Not very "hive mind" at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:26 AM |
| 1 | How would legal prostitution change society in America?The sexually frustrated men would start complaining that it's not fair that the top 5% of men get the best prostitutes, while all they can afford is fat street walkers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 09:44 AM |
| 3 | How do women maintain mental consistency dating men while believing in "the bear pill"?I guess you don't know that if your sibling gets married and they have a brother that he would be your brother in law? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to menThat's your opinion and driven by your feelings. My premise rests upon the idea that men and women are not the same and that rape should be gendered because of those differences. Also rape is a form of sexual assault but not all sexual assault are rape. So you don't think having sex with someone that's unconscious is rape? You don't think having sex with a child is rape? Only violent force constitutes rape? I forgot where but I read somewhere that women who were victims of violent rape tend to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to menThis is not an accurate statement and spreading this type of misinformation is harmful. Men absolutely can be raped by women. Erections are not consent. Period. If a man is drunk he cannot give consent, if he's coerced that is not consent, if he was tricked that is not consent. I'm sure there are some women that have lied about birth control, which is rape. Also, some women are stronger than some men. And of course, it should be obvious that children cannot consent. It's hard enough to get men t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingI'm fine with the "dire consequences" because there's much worse if we continue along the current trajectory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingOk. And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingThere's way too many people. A sustainable population (not stable population, which is what you refer to) would be around 2 billion, assuming everyone enjoys a high quality of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 10:51 AM |
| 15 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingOh no, we might eventually have a sustainable population! That sounds horrible! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 10:37 PM |
| 4 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?It’s not societal bias, nor is it negative. It’s nature. It's natural for men to kill each other to secure mating rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 10:05 AM |
| -3 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Most men that age act like children. This isn't for them. The mature ones should definitely go for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 10:02 AM |
| – | Men should NOT have to "fight" for his kids.Ah so you'll just keep spamming "bad faith" because you know your answers will reveal your misogyny/ignorance. Typical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:12 AM |
| – | Men should NOT have to "fight" for his kids.Typical man "logic" here. "Let's make an unnecessary law that will put women's lives in danger because waaaaaaaaaah it's not fair!!!" Have you ever bothered to pay attention to what happens to women when abortion access is restricted? Do you even care? Or just think of women as incubators? Yeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:04 AM |
| – | Men should NOT have to "fight" for his kids.Then after the baby is born men arent encouraged to do the bonding activities women do like latching. What do you want the baby latching to on a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Biden's due process thingIt's ironic that you're complaining that men don't care given that there is opposition from women's groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Billie Eillish and double standards in sexualityThe woman that ends up having to clean it because he "forgot" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 12:01 AM |
| 0 | What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late?It’s all in the vien of how does this man benefit me or make my life better. Why else would anyone be in a relationship? And women being self sufficient and independent doesn’t mean they still do not measure a man’s financial status/situation when viewing through the lens of a suitable partner It means it becomes much less important, especially if you're child-free. When I met my husband he was broke. I paid for everything the first couple of years we dated because I could and he couldn't and I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 03:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late?Do you really think women are all taught to expect a man to provide for them? Most people over 50 had a working mom, and now most mothers work full time %20of,Bureau%20Current%20Population%20Survey%20data.) Why do you think so many women are getting degrees and focusing on their careers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 03:14 AM |
| -4 | What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late?You think all women are the same and incapable of empathizing with men. Women and men are more similar than different especially in the context of your original comment. There's no reason to believe that this is a uniquely male experience other than it's the same shit that's constantly repeated to brainwash by the RP cult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 02:34 AM |
| -9 | What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late?You're sexist, of course you don't understand women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 02:17 AM |
| – | What is a realistic amount of sexual partners a single 30+ woman is having per year?Mature response. But since you asked, statistics should always include a confidence interval. For example, if you're looking at average home prices and see that the average for an area is $100, this could be due to most houses costing close to $100 or 9 houses that cost $10 and one house that costs $910. Averages don't tell you much unless you known the standard deviation, etc. It's more involved when you're estimating for a large population, but the math to do this exists. It's very nuanced and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Would you consider the following dating complaints to be valid if they came from a man?Men don't HAVE to do anything. They could try being happy with themselves, but refuse because they feel entitled to women. It's pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Acts of Chivalry like paying for the date are from a bygone era and aren’t relevantHolding the door open for a man can hurt his self esteem https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/15534510.2013.869252#.UwURK87y2jc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:21 AM |
| 0 | All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships.No, the while "women need to stop yapping" when you never notice the immense amount of shit the men constantly spout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 02:55 AM |
| -1 | All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships.The gross, pathetic dudes on here need to stop with the blatant misogyny and just accept that they're going to die bitter and alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkIt's no more or less meaningless than being a parent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkThe reason why so many people have kids is because sex feels great. Half of all pregnancies are unplanned. Lots of parents regret having kids, none will publicly admit that. You know what doesn't produce a healthy high? Slogging to work every day. Like I said before most people hate their fucking jobs and spend most of the week looking forward to the weekend. Most people don't have any passion for anything and have shitty jobs. Not everyone, though. I love my job, it's very challenging and rewar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:34 PM |
| -1 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkHuman babies are insanely difficult to take care of. They require a tremendous amount of time, effort and resources to raise. It's not that hard. There's plenty of idiots with kids. By teaching people this nonsense that their TPS report is the meaning of their life. You are fucking them over. You are creating these drug addiction and depression epidemics. If you're in middle management, you're not exactly setting the world on fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkThat is also wrong. Your purpose is to make a family and reproduce Only if you add nothing to the world so feel like you need to create something to justify your existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 11:51 AM |
| -2 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.Examples? Because that has not been my experience at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”If you're constantly failing that would imply you're severely lacking in the second element | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”If that's true then I guess we're overdue for WWIII. Let the men fight it out until there's so few that they're hot commodities. Everybody wins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Idk, if I were in that situation I'd try to have some self respect and learn to be happy alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:38 PM |
| 4 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.You'll still end up doing more housework even if you earn more lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 12:59 PM |
| -1 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itWhat is something a man can do that a woman is incapable of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkNo, he's single because women bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketLook, an angry man that hates women wants to date women too inexperienced to notice red flags! That's surprising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:51 AM |
| 2 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.There's no definitive answer. People cheat for a whole bunch of different reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?What's the better deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedIt's not misandry to point out that this particular group of men is flawed, just like it's not misandry to point out that many men expect women to do most of the housework. If you think that's misandry, what would you call the constant comments on here about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Nanny does that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedAre all men on this sub? No. Pay attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Butlers don't cook, and doordash/Amazon will deliver any shopping you need to get done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Butler and driver? So you expect your wife to be your butler and driver as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Why wouldn't you pay to outsource domestic labor with either option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?Going through pregnancy and childbirth is terrible for your health. So even if your silly notion that the man is always "higher value" is true, which I'm not saying it is, it would make sense because if you're going to destroy your body to bear someone's children the very least you could expect is for them to have some decent bone structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedYou are saying that you have not stated anywhere that women are superior to men, but this whole section is about female superiority, not stating it explicitly doesn't change general message. This message says - men are incompetent, women are competent+men are sexist, women are not. Did she edit her comment or something? Because that's not what it's saying at all. The men on this sub are always so emotional they just lose any reading comprehension | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?So you think being slightly more conventionally attractive is more important than long-term health? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?How do you measure the worth of a man or woman? If a man exceeds in one area but is deficient in others do you still think that's an example of hypergamy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:53 PM |
| 10 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?Isn't the idea that relationships require a herculean effort for men a red pill idea? I'm confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?Why do you consider the relationships unequal? Is it just because you think women are inherently worthless? Or because money is the only thing of value and the male is the breadwinner in a majority of heterosexual relationships? Studies have shown that in most heterosexual relationships, the woman bears the children and thus suffers the burden of pregnancy and childbirth. They also still do a majority of the childcare. Does that factor into your "analysis" at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | A double standard i’ve noticed with how a notable amount women react to online dating content directed at men vs womenYawn. "Studies" sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | A double standard i’ve noticed with how a notable amount women react to online dating content directed at men vs womenThis type of nonsensical, unhinged post is what makes this sub so fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?Idk, when I met my husband I thought he was so gorgeous I was literally speechless for a minute, and he is still an amazing person. I was cute and all, but no way would I have considered myself a perfect 10 that would steal someone's breath away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:21 AM |
| 1 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?"Average, down-to-Earth guy", the equivalent of dry toast. Never offensive, but not anyone's favorite food | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 09:01 PM |
| 3 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?Soldiers are undatable, that's why he's salty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:05 PM |
| 13 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?Empathy is freely given to men that don't make hating women their entire personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?It's more that many men end up as replaceable, generic copies of one another. They try to look and act like some stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?It sounds like you've watched way too many romance movies. Turn off "the notebook" and go outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:38 PM |
| 16 | What is a deal breaker you think the opposite sex should adopt?You literally don't have to take whatever you're given. You could literally stay single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"So you and your buddies manipulate the women dumb enough to associate with you? Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"The only women that do that are the ones that relied on getting sexual attention for validation when they were younger. That's not most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:27 PM |
| 2 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisYou just don't know how to cook them if you think this. Remove the stem, cut in half, toss in oil, and roast them in a hot oven until they're almost black on the outside. Add some salt and that's good eating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:44 AM |
| 17 | Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men?By other men. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerWhy not foster? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 08:45 PM |
| – | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.You've written paragraphs full of nonsense. Do you think you're being profound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:24 PM |
| -8 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.Yes, you're a perfect example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:06 PM |
| -4 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.The men here are already abhorrent and devoid of logic, empathy, reason, or humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:59 PM |
| 13 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?Reddit has a much larger faction of men that have never been in love and don't understand relationships as anything other than transactional. Most of what they understand about relationships is derived from social media and movies/TV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 02:34 AM |
| 7 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?For real. I had a guys take me to very expensive restaurants for first dates and I've never ended up fucking any of them. Most of the men I've been with have been guys I ended up hanging out with that were so funny you end up being super wet for them. The problem is that most men adapt a strategy where they try to appeal to ALL women, instead of focusing on the women they appeal to. The guys I ended up with were always funny to me. Usually also not funny to everyone. But when I found a guy like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:47 AM |
| 20 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?Men on here can't understand women's sexuality at all. There have been guys I've met that I did not find at all attractive at first, but they had something that made me literally wild with lust over time. One of the guys I was crazy about was 2 inches shorter than I, made less money than I did, but was so fun to be around that I was crazy about him. The guys that buy into manosphere bullshit cannot fathom what an awesome personality can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Women, what do you bring to the table?The one article I read from the list specifically addresses that and said literally the opposite, that less healthy men were more likely to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Why are men encouraging women to settle for men they aren’t attracted to when they know that women aren’t going to pour into a man she doesn’t like ?These guys are delusional. They tell these stories to make themselves feel better about being undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are men encouraging women to settle for men they aren’t attracted to when they know that women aren’t going to pour into a man she doesn’t like ?It's fine to hate all people equally. Equality matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 11:49 AM |
| 8 | The myth that single women are happier according to polls, is just that, a myth.All such studies are worthless. The field is rife with issues that are only starting to be addressed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Women want trad for thee but not for meWhy do you think I'm mad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Women want trad for thee but not for meMy mother met her husband when she was in her 50's and he's amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Women want trad for thee but not for meAnd many times it's not. If you never act feminine that's a good indication that you're just emulating a stereotype and not very confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I've never heard of it from anyone that I know. I have never heard a woman say anything about a man she was in a relationship with crying or saying something personal/vulnerable, nor a man say he felt like his woman lost respect for him for doing so. Many of the men I've dated have been vulnerable with me, including my husband. That doesn't make me lose any respect for them, it endears them to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I've never known this to happen to any of the couples I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 11:07 AM |
| 5 | Women want trad for thee but not for meIt's mostly just during the initial phase of dating. Men are trying to attract and woo women because they're the thirsty sex. Once you're in a relationship you should both be contributing. If you're not both contributing to the relationship that's a big red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:26 AM |
| 6 | Women want trad for thee but not for meMen that strive to be masculine are very sensitive to being emasculated. Men that are confident aren't concerned about how others perceive them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:11 AM |
| 14 | Women want trad for thee but not for meThis sub is full of vile, toxic men. Don't believe their bullshit. Most men do not hate their wives, look at relationships as purely transactional, or try to marry virgin teenagers so they're easily manipulated. Most men are actually good and want a partner, not a bang maid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:10 AM |
| 5 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneThey literally do not say that. At best you could argue that most women can orgasm from penetration but not just penetration. These types of studies are very unreliable, given the replication crisis so I wouldn't put much faith in them anyway. You still haven't given any example of why thinking that clitoral stimulation is a viable way to achieve orgasm is harmful. Where's the harm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:37 AM |
| 7 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneIt's not false information to say many or most women don't come from penetration alone. The articles you shared say as much. Telling them they should be able to orgasm just from PIV can cause more stress/anxiety when it doesn't happen, which would cause more harm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:28 AM |
| 6 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneDid you answer my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:20 AM |
| 8 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneHow is it harmful to understand that most women don't orgasm from penetration alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Part 1: The future is femaleMarriage comes with tax benefits and rights that are difficult to set up otherwise. I want to know my husband can make end of life decisions for me, inherit any property I own, etc. We saved a lot of money on taxes when I was in grad school. Lots of reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.There are a TON of men saying heinous shit all the time on here, and the mods do nothing about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 05:20 AM |
| 2 | What is it like for locals in non-Western poor and conservative countries?It doesn't "prove" anything. It's all conjecture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 05:11 AM |
| -1 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.Because men are more prone to violence. Those subs breed mass shooters and it's easier to ban them than guns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.They do they because left unchecked it would be another breeding ground for a future Elliott Rodgers. That's why those subs get shut down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us?That's not your claim. You say it's the SAME WOMEN. Do you have any evidence to support that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us?So you correlate all posts, and have numbers on how many of the posters are women, have commented on both, and take the positions you assert? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:27 AM |
| -3 | Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us?So you don't know that they are the same women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us?How do you know the women are the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:09 AM |
| – | A tankie approach to the imbalance that straight men are facing in many countriesWar. Let the men fight it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 12:11 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?This is so true. I'd be fine without my husband, but he's my favorite person and makes me so happy. Relationships can be hard, but it's more than worth it for the right person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:41 AM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Yep. My BIL had a "widow maker" heart attack and the only reason he's alive is because my sister threw a fit when he didn't want to go to the doctor. The doctors said he would've been dead by morning and he just wanted to take the day off and chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:36 AM |
| 2 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Except most women aren't on the apps very long. This idea is such nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.That's clearly different. People that have the burden of being in charge all the time crave being totally dominated in bed, and as long as everything is consensual and doesn't hurt anything it's totally fine to have whatever kinks you want. Giving someone else control over your ability to make decisions about your life is too risky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.I hate sexist assholes, not men. I also don't care for people that don't understand a tongue-in-cheek comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 08:38 AM |
| – | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?Men DO have a choice. More mothers than fathers request custody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?Men don't lie, they just believe literally anything no matter how obvious that it's total bullshit. They don't LIE though, they're just dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?What is your deal? Why do you keep asking about how many people someone has slept with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 03:05 AM |
| – | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?It would be 50/50 if most men wanted to take care of their kids. They don't, which is why there's a disparity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 02:09 AM |
| – | The gender divide has become undeniable , can anything be done to solve this?Women can and do work in all those positions. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what made you choose your boyfriend?He's my favorite person in the world. He's funny, charming, and a great conversationalist. He doesn't disrespect me or try to make me "submit" to him. He's actually much better at being open and vulnerable than I am, and I've learned how to open up and how to build trust and emotional intimacy because of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 01:26 AM |
| -1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Nope. Just bitter, angry, spiteful men that congregate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.This is total nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Being submissive to a man is literally the unhealthiest choice a woman could make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.The men on here don't know women irl and follow the worst thirst traps, then decide all women are like that. It's pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Using social media does not mean agreeing with everything on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:20 PM |
| -1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.Men have such fragile egos that holding the door open for them lowers their self esteem and self efficacy. This is why I make sure to always open doors for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Missing such an obvious example that boys do the same shit indicates you're either hyperfocused on "women = bad" or checking out kids. I gave you the benefit of the doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Ah, because the difference is so great that you think this example doesn't apply? The thought of a sexist teaching high school is nauseating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Have you ever heard of a fraternity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Why do most of the women don't date younger?My husband is 10 years younger so I really can't answer it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalWhen did I say I wished for men to die? An observation is not a desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalWhere was I being hateful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalMen say actually horrible shit on this sub all the time. Also, what rules do you feel I am breaking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalThe real problems in society are not caused by there being "too many" men, but by the disgusting promiscuous behaviour of men and women. Monogamous societies are clearly more stable than non-monogamous societies. Yawn. Oh, you're one of these. Ironic username. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:56 AM |
| 5 | Men and women are not equal and will never be equalMen are disposable. All the problems in society now are because we haven't had a good war for a while and there's just too many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?No. None of what you said is correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?So what would you consider a difficult major? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?Physics and chemistry and easy majors? Sure, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?No. Even if the entire department is exclusively male there are electives and core requirements. I met my husband (a CS major) in a math class. In fact, a lot of my girlfriends ended up with CS majors because there's a lot of collaboration with the physics department. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 11:33 AM |
| -1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?Exclusively with men? Did you go to college 100 years ago? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:08 AM |
| 0 | I honestly just don't get the complainingNo. You don't see amputees with the same vitriol towards others that aren't missing any parts. The unhappiness of the angry, bitter, resentful men is well deserved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:23 AM |
| 2 | I honestly just don't get the complainingNo, it implies that men feel ~entitled~ to a relationship. Women aren't obligated to date men just because. If you can't attract the women you want that's your problem, not anyone else's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:49 AM |
| – | Do men even like women anymore?Even a lot of the men who do express sentiments which could reasonably be interpreted as aggression and hatred never wanted to hate in the first place, they were just denied any love or opportunity to love, they're scared, they're confused, they're angry, because they feel lost and locked out, they don't know how to fix it and nobody's providing any practical, relevant help, or even positivity, encouragement, and understanding. How could you expect them not to feel defensive and upset when they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?Yeah, it's just like the men's rights groups and many of the men on this sub. Always crying about everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:50 PM |
| 6 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI agree. We should find a better term that would be more palatable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Slutshaming is objectively good (?)Yes, let's blame ALL men for the actions of the few Yet you're taking all the credit for the actions of a few | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Slutshaming is objectively good (?)Do you work those jobs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Slutshaming is objectively good (?)Quality men don't care about body count. The ones that bitch about it are the ones nobody wants anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Slutshaming is objectively good (?)Hmmm, my husband knows all about my exploits and we're still very happy together over a decade later. Almost all the sluts I know ended up happily ever after. It's the non-sluts that get divorced/cheated on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:47 AM |
| – | Debate : Claiming that most People wouldn‘t cheat if a perfect replacement came is complete delusion.I can't imagine a more perfect person for me than my spouse. If there was, I still wouldn't leave him because we've invested so much in our life together and that's irreplaceable. We have years of history, and to develop that with someone else would be literally impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:48 AM |
| -1 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantThe majority of women want a man who is taller and stronger than them and able to provide them with a feeling of safety. Most especially don't want a man who is submissive in the bedroom. This is only true for weak women. Stop fishing at the shallow end of the pond | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Ladies (non-exclusively), what are your thoughts on population collapse?Some women love gangbangs too. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 04:24 AM |
| – | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.This kind of talk is from the type of people that worry about "white replacement" and don't give a shit about women. They think women have an obligation to serve as incubators to the next generation of white wage slaves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:26 AM |
| 5 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantAny such crisis is the result on building a society on exploiting the youth and then extending life beyond expected averages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:38 AM |
| 6 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantMost men, most women, want someone they're compatible with. The difference is that most men are now getting indoctrinated with manosphere bullshit at younger and younger ages, then blame their failures on women as a group because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:35 AM |
| 5 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantMen don't have access to make up? Where do you live that this is true? Also, the low standards of men don't mean anything more than they're only more interested in casual sex. Women are looking for one guy they'd happily fuck AND build a life with, and if they want to make kids happen that will also come a severe detriment to their health. Kids for men mean not pulling out a times. It's not going to be equivalent. Also, there are plenty of women that don't expect men to be any of those things. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating apps are becoming the only socially acceptable way to get a relationshipIf you're in the middle of a dessert your main concern should be diabetes, not water | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”?I think if you're able to get in a car and drive you own all the other decisions you would make. If you're passed out you can expect to wake up with a dick drawn on your face with a sharpie, not with one in your ass. But there's a wide berth between what should be and what could be so people should protect themselves and not get into situations where they rely on the kindness of strangers. Likewise, don't fuck around with people that are inebriated unless you trust that they're opinions about wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 03:22 AM |
| 3 | The most important thing a man can bring to a woman, is attention (and sex)My husband and I had a LDR for several years and the spark never went away. I think if you're both perfectly matched and weird enough that it's unique to be so perfectly matched distance doesn't matter. I also think a lot of people believe they have that kind of relationship when they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 12:44 AM |
| 4 | The most important thing a man can bring to a woman, is attention (and sex)This is true for me. I literally cannot remember why I ever thought any other man was worth even looking at. My husband is the best, most amazing man that has ever existed and likely ever will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 12:42 AM |
| 12 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?It's the same difference for women that are cute or pretty vs gorgeous. Pretty girls get nice dinners, gorgeous women get flown to the Bahamas on a private jet for dinner and drink $800 bottles of wine. It shouldn't be shocking to anyone that attractive people have a lot more opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 01:03 AM |
| – | “the divine feminine” is a manifestation of toxic femininityI imagine girls have similar identifiers for boys too. Yes, any sort of manosphere content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menI'm a woman. But I see it all the time with my husband's friends. They get super competitive when a woman shows up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:42 PM |
| -4 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.Not being blue pilled doesnt mean you that there arent women in your life that you love, respect, or admire. I thought red pill was the opposite of blue pill And do you think the women who come here are representative of women? Not sure why this is germane. Did I say or imply that? Or are you just making an assumption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 06:50 AM |
| -4 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.This sub is an echo chamber for the men nobody wants and hardly representative of men in general. Most men have women they love, respect, and admire in their life and might fall victim to peer pressure to pretend otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menClassic observation bias. Women that have other women in their life have a support system. The ones that put everything into their husband have no sense of identity outside of the man in their life, so when that goes south they latch onto the only one they have that can't leave them. Men are more encouraged to have a life outside of marriage/family and less likely to be as invested in their kids, given the discrepancy between male/female SAHP. know for certain that before I decide if a guy is go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menExactly. The women that don't have other women as friends are the ones pushing these narratives and typically causing the problems we all get blamed for. They think of themselves as "one of the guys" and don't realize that the men only pretend to respect them when they're shitting on other women and enforcing their stereotypes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menMen are friends until there's a woman around... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:58 AM |
| 0 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menHave you ever worked in an all-male workforce? I'm in stem and it's disgusting. I've worked with all women before and had no problems. Working with all men? Disastrous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menDo you understand what science and facts are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:55 AM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willSure, bud. Clearly you have a perfect understanding of everything and totally get laid allllll and women can never really be friends with one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:49 AM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willSure. Maybe you're sooooo irresistible that all women go wild with lust or jealousy whenever they interact with you. Or maybe you're just making stuff up. Maybe maybe maybe... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:39 AM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willDid you check his history? This has happened to this guy before and CLEARLY the problem is all other women in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:04 AM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willMaybe, just maybe, they wanted to spend time with the friend they went out with? Can you imagine going out to spend time with friends instead of looking for someone to have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:59 AM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willYep. If she didn't offer her number or ask for yours she wasn't into you and was being rescued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:51 AM |
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