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| 1 | Female suicide rising at fastest rate everThe literature agrees. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Female suicide rising at fastest rate everDo you think men who choose violent methods are not aware that the method will be more shocking to people? They are, but their pain is usually more acute so it doesn't stop them. Men choosing more violent methods is an expression of masculinity, the same way women choosing less violent methods is an expression of femininity. Neither is good, but only criticising women for how their they choose to commit suicide/ calling it 'narcissistic'/ egoic and ignoring that gender also impacts men and can b… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 12:48 PM |
| -1 | Female suicide rising at fastest rate everIt's not bs it's very much part of the literature on male/ female suicide methods. Violent methods are usually more shocking for the person who finds you and require more intense cleaning afterwards that is just a fact. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 12:36 PM |
| -1 | Female suicide rising at fastest rate everIn a bathroom, no, you're much less likely to need a cleaning crew than with a gunshot/ train. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 12:07 PM |
| -7 | Female suicide rising at fastest rate everWomen choose methods that make less mess because they don't want other people to have to clean up after them. It's not narcissism, it's actually the opposite, thinking of other people after their death. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceI don't usually find autistic people creepy, they can be awkward and staring feels wierd, but when they speak they are usually more upfront about their communication so they don't tend to do creepy things. Autistic people who have learned dating advice online and try to follow it rigidly are another story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..."Idk, if they find someone they like that way then I don't really care, but if they get scammed/ used then it's their own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceI don't think its fair for awkard men to be branded as creepy for a misunderstanding, but if you know you're awkward and don't read signals well and you choose to approach a woman, then you have to ask them and not just touch/ talk sexually to them. Women do tell men they're not interested because they don't want to continue the interaction. Playing mind/ giving mixed signals/ mixed answers isn't the same thing. Dealing with a woman who is not interested vs. one who is playing games are differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceIf an awkward man misinterprets signals it's not creepy, it's a misunderstanding and idc I like awkward people generally.. If a man doesn't listen when you say no/ gets close/ touches you/ says sexual things without asking, when they know they're not good at reading signals, then they're creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:06 PM |
| – | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceThey're not 'piss poor', people communicate via body language/ facial expressions 😅. If you're piss poor at reading other people's signals then don't push into their space/ talk sexually to them/ stare at them, you have to ask. People who can read body language/ expressions don't have to ask because they know how to communicate that way. We do tell these men we're not interested. Nobody wants to continue an interaction with a creepy man for any longer than necessary. The trouble is creepy men te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceSexual assault usually happens inside people's homes, so I don't know why someone would have to be in the Afghan mountains to fear that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:04 PM |
| 12 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceBeing awkward and being creepy aren't the same thing. Awkward people can still come across as very likeable to some women, creepy people do not. Awkward behaviour is things like stumbling over your words/ not knowing what to say/ talking too much/ too little but still respecting boundaries, being able to read signals/ checking in with the other person if you can't read signals. Creepy behaviour is things like sitting/ standing too close people, asking them inappropriate/ sexual questions/ starin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..."Misunderstood the Q, sorry. I think a lot of it is biological. Women are more sexually selective in a lot of species so a man casting a shallow net may have less chance of passing though her filter and by casting a wide net he may feel he is more likely to find someone (although if he understands what about him is attractive and looks in the right place, he will be more succesful than if he casts a wide net in the wrong place but it's difficult). If a man feels he's tried hard and always gets re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..."I'm not sure. Men can definitely be looking in the wrong place for the type of woman they want but equally women can be in the wrong place to be seen by the type of man they want so everybody sucks 🤷♀️. A man may have tried a lot without success and feel resentful as they have been rejected by 100s of women, a woman may have been approached by 100s of men but didnt like any of them and feel resentful of men. The problem is different people are in different places and looking in the wrong place … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.Ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.Yeah, I think if both are honest then it's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.It's difficult. It's better to have 2 parents who model a healthy relationship. The single mothers thing is pretty unfair as it's not necessarily the mother causing the problems with the child. It's also not necessarily the absence of the father causing problems. It could be genetic as if one or both parents are unable to form/ maintain a healthy relationship there may be more antisocial traits that are passed down to the child leading to higher incidents of antisocial behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:32 PM |
| – | The main reason why men like young girls is NOT fertility/beauty.Firstly, I have to address the title. Not an attack on OP as it is everywhere, but young women and young girls are not the same thing. Calling women 'girls' already feels wierd to me but I can shrug it off, but adding 'young' in front of 'girls' makes it worse, younger women/ young women is better. Anyway... the societal expectation of the "impresser" that is pushed on him I agree, but it's not just a societal expectation as males in most species compete/ impress for a mate actively while women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..."Imo men tend to cast their nets wide based on initial attraction so women tend to get more surface level attention from men who don't really know them. Women then filter this attention based on their own criteria for a partner, for an intelligent woman this probably includes 'values my intelligence'. The majority of men might not, but that is positive for the woman as it filters them out, hence 'the right man' would value it. The 'real man' thing is irritating, but they just mean a man who meets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:03 AM |
| 4 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communitytelling him people cheat in all kinds of place not just clubs. This is true though. A woman who enjoys clubbing isn't more/ less likely to cheat because a venue doesn't make you cheat, just like attending church doesn't make you less likely to cheat. their inability to acknowledge there are different world views not everyone is hyper focused on the individual capacity to perform a certain behavior without judgment Isn't this what you're doing? Nobody likes to be judged unfairly. The women you se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd say he's a 4 from that picture but in person he's probably a 5. He looks like a pretty average guy, but the moustache/ angle/ facial expression isn't helping him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:57 AM |
| 6 | Men do not respond to wordsI partly agree. It gets exhausting trying to talk to someone if their behaviour isn't changing. The best way to do this is to communicate to your partner what you are doing and why so it is clear to them. Buy yourself flowers and if he asks who they are from, tell him they are from a work colleague Just say you bought them for yourself because he doesn't make romantic gestures despite you asking for it. I think that gets the same point across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:34 AM |
| – | Why do women equate friendship with a romantic relationship? Is sex important, or not?if sex really wasn't that important, why wouldn't they have sex with men they do not view as romantic partners (kind of like a handshake)? Because you have to be sexually attracted to someone to want to sleep with them. Some women do sleep with men they don't see as romantic partners, but they're still sexually attracted. A handshake/ sex are not the same as you don't have to be aroused to shake hands with someone. they get so angry when a man asks, mentions, implies, or even hints, about someth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Saying 'literally' is like, literally a prosocial discourse marker common in women/ more conscientious people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 08:55 PM |
| – | So how do you deal with desiring deep intimacy?Go to therapy to deal with your trust issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Who is doing GM? I judge people in my dating pool based off my preferences. The men in my dating pool aren't going to suddenly shrink so, no I don't need to come to terms with this. And if in the future men are shorter, they will be judged within their own dating pool and women will still have preferences for taller/ shorter men within that pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?the "preference" for tall men is stupid and you do in fact need to get over it. It is a preference, you can prefer tall/ short/ skinny/ fat. You don't need to get over it. Stop being defensive about this I'm defensive about people's right to limit their dating pool based on whatever criteria they want without being told to 'get over it' because the people you excluded don't get a chance. I've dated both tall and short men and I have a preference for tall men. If there were 2 equally good men, on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Desire is only one part of the value of community. Becoming bitter because individuals don't desire you means you not only don't get desire but people also don't want to engage with you in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?They don't have to be happy about it, but if they choose to blame their unhappiness on the community and be anti social and bitter about it, then no one will like them in any capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Nobody needs to get over a preference. Yeah show me the math. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:35 PM |
| -1 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Yeah, but it is also human nature to dislike people who are perpetually bitter as it's an antisocial response. Feeling resentment towards others for not being attracted to you and not working on that feeling from within yourself is emotionally immature. Internal vs. external locus of control. A lot of people are not considered attractive, not all of them are bitter about it. They remain social and don't feel resentment to others for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Can somebody explain to me the difference between ghosting someone and giving them a vague rejection?It's common couresty to let someone know that you're no longer interested in them. A vague let down is often done to save the other person's feelings and prevent an argument about your real reasoning. Usually I give a vague let down, but a few times a man has pushed to know the 'real reason' that I rejected them after a date that they perceived as going well. After hearing the reason they usually want to argue rather than respecting/ learning from the rejection and moving on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:49 PM |
| 3 | dating isn't easier for womenA lot of women do decide not to date online, that is partly why many men are undesired by women. There are many more men on these apps as they don't see meeting as a threat, less women= less matches/ desire for the least desirable men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:33 AM |
| 2 | "Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are.I'm discussing deaths from old age, 60 is relatively young to die given the average life expectancies for men and women, so I would raise it to 70. I'm not saying everyone has to partner up at 20, but when they partner up if it is with someone + or - 5 years of their current age then they can reasonably hope to raise children AND live to old age together rather than one being left alone. A widowed 70 year old can partner with another widow around his/ her age. A 50 year old man (assuming his par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:10 AM |
| 2 | "Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are.No, as then the woman would be reversing the age gap leaving the man alone which is the same issue. + or - 5 years allows them to find someone they like who they have a reasonable expectation of growing old with, assuming no illness/ accidents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:42 AM |
| 3 | "Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are.Women live longer than men, so assuming a 'Prime' woman wants a healthy/ living partner for as much of her life/ her children's lives as possible she will choose someone + or - 5 years. Life stages aren't just for women, they're about how long you have left/ what you want to do with that time, beyond just breeding a 'Prime' woman and widowing her. Women aren't incubators, they don't cease to matter once they're past childbearing age, they also have their own goals for their life including how th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Thank you, it was a good question and important for everyone I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a woman to choose a man based on how he would treat her?This would be a red flag imo. If the woman is on a date with you then she clearly sees potential and there is no need to say something like this and it will likely scare her away as it seems too intense and honestly as if you are hiding something as talk is cheap, even if that is not the intention. People show you how they will treat you overtime with their actions. It is jumping a lot of steps ahead to tell her how you would treat her in a future relationship. If she's dating you then you don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:23 AM |
| 14 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?It depends how he deals with his insecurity (for both men and women tbh). You can be insecure and express it, but don't be bitter at people for not being attracted to you it's a victim mentality and other people won't commiserate if you're bitter towards others about it. As for preferences, if you phrase it as a clear preference eg. 'I prefer to date bigger/ smaller women/ men' or 'I prefer to date taller/ shorter men/ women' then it's not body shaming as those are clearly preferences. Saying so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Which Person Would You Choose To Date?It's difficult. All other things (morals, goals, career success, friends, family) being equal I'd say 1 if I'd been dating both for a while. Their flaws seem natural/ human and its someone you're very attracted to. I would say 2 but if there was no chemistry after a few dates it seems wierd to continue. My friends have good personalities but I don't date them bc I'm not attracted romantically to them and even an average looking guy would appear to be 1 if the chemistry was there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:36 AM |
| 2 | The Pew Relationships Survey Results Are Probably Wrong & So Is The 'Chad Harem' ExplanationLesbians ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:14 AM |
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