AwesomeIshPossum Archive

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2	Smartest answers to pass GF shit-tests about "infidelity" ? I know this sounds so obvious but I would try just listening to her. A lot of issues like this can be solved by listening instead of thinking of what to say. The greatest neediest need of the human heart is to be understood. You find much more there than you think. Like try giving her 20 minutes of pure listening time where u aren’t really saying much. We all have insecurities. It makes us human and beautiful. It’s up to her to grow out of them. As her partner, all you do is support the journey.…	/r/seduction	21/04/18 06:02 PM
2	Bitter about missing out on sex in college. How can I get over this? The most basic question is asking why do you want to hook up with lots of girls. Is it because sex with lots of random women is something you value and being a deep fulfillment in your life. If so, that makes sense. But if it’s because you think it will validate you or bc everyone tells u it is what you would want, think about it a bit. There is no end to the need of validation and it’s a pretty sucky way to live life. So I’ll just be honest and say I think u are making excuses. Being a bit olde…	/r/seduction	19/04/18 04:06 PM
45	My dating experience as a short guy And zac is only 5’8” lol	/r/seduction	27/02/18 07:58 PM
3	Got a non-committed answer asking a girl out. Is my next move just to wait and be cautiously optimistic? Some suggestions: 1) free yourself up cause a date with me is gonna be more fun than than whatever you have planned😉 2). Sweet. I was thinking we should build pillow fort and make out. Or maybe dinner first 😂 3). Saturday. 🍣 🥑 🍷. Me+ you. Game? 4). Cool I got big plans too. My cat is turning 15 and we celebrating her quinceanera 👗 🎊 My general sense is that u should basically kinda ignore what she said and start making plans. Plow through with ur energy and make it seem like it’s ridiculous she …	/r/seduction	22/02/18 04:50 AM
11	Girl Stops Make Out - What Did I Do Wrong? you're probably never gonna read this but I was you 10 years ago, so I feel obligated to tell you. The fact that you are wondering what went wrong is what's wrong. I know that sounds counter intuitive, but she is just testing your frame, seeing how you will react when she pulls back. For some reason, i get this A LOT. Girls just saying things like "i am not ready for a relationship" or "i cant see us being more than friends" or "we can be hook up buddies but nothing more". I get this all the tim…	/r/seduction	25/01/18 09:39 PM
1	Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking help https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csnQWDPD9Ps In general you have to learn how to "Kino escalate" You are on a date - it should be expected there should be friendly physical contact. But it does depend on the girl. If the girl is Latin, most Latin countries they even kiss on the check when they first meet strangers. In the US and Canada, hugs are pretty standard and people give hugs all the time. The only time I have ever gotta a surprised response by a hug is with Asian women - they tend to be ve…	/r/seduction	26/11/17 06:43 PM
13	Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking help I think everyone here has great advice. I will chime in my 2 cents. First, congratulations on acknowledging your own issues. This is the first step to getting very good at something - realizing you need to improve. So many other men just blame women or society or whatever, and they never get better. You are on the right step. If learning game was like any other skill, lets take basketball for example, you need to learn some basic skills. If a 6'2" guy who is fit is not scoring in basketball, you…	/r/seduction	26/11/17 04:38 PM
34	Never drank before. Going to a club alone for the first time tomorrow. Not sure what I should do. I use to do this all the time - go to clubs and parties alone. After some analysis, I figured that I use my friends as a crutch when I went out (when it came to talking with girls, I mean I love my friends and always had a blast, but I would just hang with them and not talk to girls) Nursing a drink is not a bad idea. But I would say my one peice of advice is Start the night talking, and keep talking more and pushing more. That means if you go to the store and buy gum beforehand, talk to someone…	/r/seduction	24/11/17 12:27 AM
12	I'm so insecure about my lack of relationships and experience that it sabotages me from getting any Not sure if you are gonna read this but I am just gonna tell you how it is. Of course you are insecure. by your own very definition, you are not successful. You talk about "definition of successful alpha guys (sleep with girls every weekend, silver tongued, rich)". So you value the ability to sleep with lots of girls, money..ext. You judge yourself by those values as the measuring stick of your life, and you don't match up, therefore you will obvious be insecure. And women sense insecurity and h…	/r/seduction	22/11/17 12:37 AM
6	Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virgin Just one piece of advice: whatever you do, do not make a big deal out of it. If u are a 20 year old guy who cares so much and is embassressed about being a virgin, it can be weird - almost like a failure and desperate. But if you are because u haven’t had time to think about it because u are focus on other things, totally cool. Even almost attractive because are so quietly confident. Women will accept ur reality if your reality is strong. If u think it’s weird, she will think so. If u think it’s…	/r/seduction	08/11/17 04:08 AM
12	How do I connect emotionally with a woman over text, without the conversation becoming boring? Do not. I repeat do NOT try to get deep convos over text. Text is made to be funny, fluffy, and light. It's made to demonstrate your sense of humor, your "don't give a shit" mentality, provoke positive emotions in her and keep u on her mind. To cut it short, if u want to do something more, escalate through appropriate medium. I would suggest calling her, or video chatting. Or FaceTime random. Or start sending a bunch of pictures. You can even do emails. However texting tons of serious stuff in t…	/r/seduction	20/08/17 07:48 PM
1	Should i stop caring about girls until i improve myself If I understand your logic in "forgetting about girls", it's to take the negative energy that normally goes to women (anxiety, what should I text, does she like me..) and place it to something more productive. I think that is one way of handling it, but it's not deep change. As others have mentioned, the true change happens when you don't allow yourself to be consumed by that negative energy. You can still think about girls like how you think about working out, or your job - something fun, somet…	/r/seduction	23/11/16 09:55 PM