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| 10 | What's the best way to say RSVP when inviting somebody out via text? | AwesomeSexyGuy | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 06:48 PM | |
| 4 | Favorite Ear Plugs for Clubs? | AwesomeSexyGuy | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 04:41 AM | |
| 4 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go? | AwesomeSexyGuy | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 10:20 PM |
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| 6 | Making Friends with Popular People (Discussion)Since PuA_Jeff has talked about making friends generally, I'll add one sure fire way of making male friends in clubs. In clubs, guys don't seem interested in talking to other men they don't know. Until you introduce women to them. Then you're a buddy. A pal. A friend. This strategy has gotten me clubbing buddies all three times I've tried it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 02:34 AM |
| 5 | [FR] How to get a number in under 2 minutes.Numbers are great. :-) Good job, dude! It's awesome you've got more confidence now. Let's go get more numbers/dates! | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 01:45 AM |
| 19 | [FR] How to get a number in under 2 minutes.Hald and Høgh-Olesen did a study in 2010 on getting numbers. They had averagely attractive men walk around campus asking women "Would you go on a date with me tonight or during the week/weekend?" Excluding women in relationships, 43% agreed to go on a date after one sentence. Numbers are easy. Confidence is king. Edit: They didn't find out how many of those women would have flaked. Spending more time with women initially will reduce the number of flakes. Agreeing to a date in person will also re… | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to say RSVP when inviting somebody out via text?I like that. It still assumes she wants to meet, but maybe she doesn't have that time slot available. It's also simple. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:17 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to say RSVP when inviting somebody out via text?Flyer-like texts are really bad. That's almost the opposite of what I was going for. Empathy, value, confidence, novelty, and simplicity are the keys to a good date proposition. My first sentence was meant to show empathy. My second sentence was meant to offer value. A flyer isn't empathic or novel. "Want to meet?" isn't confident. I'll need to do better. That was a perfectly reasonable comment. Let's get your comment back into positive numbers. :-) | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:14 AM |
| 3 | What's the best way to say RSVP when inviting somebody out via text?You have an attractive way of looking at this. I didn't misunderstand social expectations. She did. Unless this starts happening often, I'm going to adopt your outlook. Thanks for the advice. I'll give that a try. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Favorite Ear Plugs for Clubs?That makes sense. :-) Thanks for the advice. It doesn't sound hard to remove at all. | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Best Day Approaches (Coffee shop, walking dog, etc)That's a sad story. I remember you being really excited about a girl not too long ago. Good thing there are so many beautiful women in the world. :-) | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 08:38 PM |
| 3 | How do you ask a girl out when you're new to the area? (more context inside)You're near the university. Pickup there! There are tons of places on campus to meet women, and dozens of events every day. It's a huge university. Alternatively, hop on a bus and go down to sixth street. That's where the bars and clubs are. Oh, and don't forget your city's numerous parks. Women in parks love talking to you. Borrow a friend's dog; park game just got a whole lot easier. Austin is one of the greatest cities in the States to live in if you're a single guy. Enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Body language: just standing up and talking to someoneOne hand holds my beer. Elbow at 90 degrees. At least 60 degrees away from my belly. My other hand holds the girl I'm talking to. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Favorite Ear Plugs for Clubs?I saw you post almost this exact same comment in a thread about loud clubs. When I said Mack's comes highly recommended, I was referring to your recommendation. You got me thinking about protecting my hearing. I'm pretty sure you're referring to Mack's Pillow Soft again. I was going to buy them based on your recommendation until I read this on their Amazon page: Warning: Use whole earplugs. Do not cut, break apart or elongate. Cover only! Do not force plug into ear canal! Misuse by failure to us… | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Favorite Ear Plugs for Clubs?Invisible is the magic word that caught my attention. The Etymotic's have tons of positive reviews. I'm glad ear plugs are cheap; I'll try them both. :-) | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 05:59 AM |
| 9 | Riding SoloI've only gone to bars solo. So far, nobody has treated me as creepy. Be comfortable and have a good time. Enjoy the band and have a drink. Don't focus too much on women. When a hot girl starts trying to make eye contact or brushes up against you, say hello. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Correct dress during night pick-up?Rounded toes. Square toes are formal. These look similar to what I'm wearing. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Correct dress during night pick-up?I've been wearing a button-up collared shirt, jeans, and casual leather shoes. It feels perfect. I'm better dressed than half the guys there, and definitely not overdressed like a few guys I've seen. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Club GameTonight I treated the bar as my sofa. I sang along with the band and danced very slightly. Women came up to me all night. Even with plenty of room around my section of bar, they rubbed up against me while ordering. It was only my second night at a bar, but I don't think you need to approach women. If you look comfortable and look like you're having a good time, they'll approach you. Sometimes with gusto. If you do this, guys will start emulating you. Guys with bad game. And as they get drunk the… | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever taken a bootcamp? Who was it with and what did you think?How expensive are they? I've watched some boot camp videos that are free on YouTube. They seemed really good, but I can't imagine paying much to listen to a guy for an hour. | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Question: How can I be both assertive & hard to get.Great post. You answered his question very well. I don't think playing with her hair is more debatable than any of your other indicators of interest. Preening is definitely flirtatious. The important thing to remember is women flirt even with guys they aren't interested in. Source: Body Language - Indicators of Interest | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 01:30 AM |
| 12 | Filler Words like, "Cool!" and "Umm," Will Kill Your Verbal Game. Here's a tip.A woman may consciously say she wants you to listen, but really, she wants you to relate to what she said. Show her you're listening by relating to what she says. This is like the game telephone, isn't it? My quote isn't quite accurate either. You also need to show genuine interest in what she's saying, and asking her questions about what she's said is one way to do that. Source: How to Hold Conversation Like a Man | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Saw a pretty girl at the laundromat. Got incredibly nervous to approach her that I just didn't. How can I fix this?Zero second rule. You see a hot girl, you approach her. Don't wait. Don't give yourself time to think and second guess yourself. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go?I just moved to a new city so I'm going out solo. Being adopted by a mixed group seems ideal. Do you have any advice for being adopted? | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 02:55 PM |
| 2 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go?"Last call for love!" Bar themed. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 02:52 PM |
| 0 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go?The street with bars runs between two hills. I parked on one hill and strutted my stuff to the far hill and back to my car. Men moved out of my way. Women checked me out. But ultimately I was too shy to go into any club or even make eye contact with anyone. I was hot, sweaty, and defeated. I figured if I didn't at least go into a club tonight I never would. So I went back. The club whose music I liked best had developed a line. It was the only club with a line. So nudged the guy in the back of t… | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 04:46 AM |
| 1 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go?Maybe not. Well shit. I'm dressed nice and ready to go out now. Time to go pick up some caffeine pills I guess. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 11:55 PM |
| 1 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go?Really? Lame. Maybe I'm just getting old, but by 10pm my bed is looking awfully nice. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 11:47 PM |
| 3 | [Club Etiquette] Best times to go?Okay. Fuck it. Tomorrow isn't my first night going to a club. Tonight is. I'm still going at eight, because more practice is better, but I'll stick to one beer all night. After college my tolerance is off the charts anyway. I'll be sober at closing. | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 11:32 PM |
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