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| 4 | I have no idea what to do.Sounds like there's someone else in the picture you don't know about. I was blind sided in the same way. She started distancing herself one day, it wasn't until years later I found out there was a secret serious relationship she'd been maintaining with someone else. None of this will feel good and it will be awhile until you find peace again. Sounds like she has a plan and you dont, it's time to start looking out for yourself and lawyer up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Coping without knowing the full truth, needing some help badly.I snooped and found out her "friend" was a guy she'd been cheating on me with. She was hiding a double life with the guy for 5 years...it wrecked me but I healed from it. Becareful what you wish for it may devastate you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 4 | My new lowest lowYou messed up big time by pleading with her to take you back. Women hate a "pick me" kind of guy she realized she still has you wrapped around her finger. Just imagine her telling her friends how you were threatening suicide to keep her, take more pride in yourself. From someone who has been where you are the best thing you can do now is move on with your life, be excessively selfish and put self care and your relationship with your son first and foremost. The best revenge is living well but for… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/21 12:12 PM |
| 10 | Snooping on ex, resisting the urge?Listen she cheated I'm telling you and what you will find out will devastate you I almost wish I didn't snoop and find what I found it wrecked me for awhile. Usually when a woman leave suddenly like that there is most likely someone else in the picture that's how it happened in my situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Over a week separated, I keep asking her questions.You want the truth and she won't give it to you I was in the same position you were in and then I found out 5 years after her leaving suddenly that she had been in a secret relationship with a "friend" the entire time. She hid a relationship for 5 years without me knowing although I had suspicions. Eventually you'll stop asking questions trust your gut your assumptions are probably right. Time will reveal all things good luck to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/21 08:46 AM |
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