AwkwardWebbedRalph Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Owning my shit just hope it’s not too late For what? For you to be a man who focuses on himself, with his shit together? Or for you to save your marriage? Because I’ll be honest with you, if you learn anything here it should be that YOU are (or should be) the center of your universe, and that nobody is too special to replace or too special to be dropped like a bad habit, even your wife. If you think your marriage is worth saving then so be it, but every moment you frame your efforts here as attempts to save yo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/08/20 01:16 AM
7	advice for my brother who has LTR with 3 kids that is about to go sideways My old man has a saying that goes something like “some people can be taught, and others need to learn”. Your brother sounds like he’s in the “needs to learn” camp. From what I’ve seen in this community, most people tend to refuse any red-pilling attempts from others, even when they need it. People are most receptive to red-pilled mental models when they feel like they’re so down and out that they need to force a change in their life. Others here are saying give him various books. That sounds lik…	/r/askMRP	11/08/20 10:19 PM
8	Let me know your options, thank you The boss is a nightmare Really? A nightmare? Is he jumping out of the closet with a meat cleaver at 12am? You sound dramatic and soft. You should understand that your drama and softness is supremely unattractive. She gives you crap to test how much it’ll rattle your cage. See, she wants your cage to be made of drop forged steel and she’s getting agitated when she finds out it’s made of styrofoam. I don’t know exactly what shit she’s giving you but if you don’t have any response (both verbally an…	/r/askMRP	09/08/20 07:29 PM
1	I am no longer interested in getting married and I need advice on what to do moving forward… You have the right to change your mind. Will you be judged unfavorably for it? Maybe, but if you live your life according to other people’s judgements then they own you. Don’t be spineless, man. If she doesn’t resent you for being spineless now your lack of spine will surely be exposed for the absolute worst during the course of a marriage you didn’t want.	/r/askMRP	09/08/20 11:23 AM
5	Keeping an LTR? A different perspective on what? Haha. You’ve ONLY given good things about her here and virtually no other details, in which case why would you ask anybody about your relationship or lack thereof? If she’s only good then it would seem your decision would be pretty clear cut...unless you’re leaving some damning stuff out so you don’t get torn to pieces here, which is probably the case. how to handle things You need help with handling a submissive girl? That’s a lay-up, you houseplant. You’re righ…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/20 03:01 PM
3	Keeping an LTR? I naturally have a lot of alpha characteristics also Said the guy asking strangers on the internet if he should date a girl. I don’t fucking know man, I don’t know you or her or how you interact. Are you incapable of analyzing if the juice is worth the squeeze?? Stop asking random people to do your thinking for you. Make a decision as a free-thinking adult and live with the outcome.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/20 02:49 PM
9	Drawing Lines/Boundaries Personally, I’m of the opinion that trying to control people with whom you’re in a relationship is a pretty futile effort. It’s okay to tell them you’re 100% not okay with something (or multiple things) that they’re doing, but they’re either going to listen or not, and there really isn’t much you can do besides giving her less of your time, affection, and/or commitment. Maybe that includes divorce if you think whatever she’s doing is bad enough, that’s your choice. Why would you want to give you…	/r/askMRP	04/08/20 10:04 AM
14	LTR jealous of other relationships You’re boring and she’s testing you. Tell her you have a great gift in your jeans, proceed to helicopter it for her. Don’t take her tests seriously. Be more fun so she doesn’t find more entertainment in dumb fucking Instagram.	/r/askMRP	02/08/20 06:44 PM
1	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend Enough analyzing now. Focus on building YOU for YOU.	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 05:19 PM
1	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend Stop with the labels dude. Jesus. First it was “codependent” and now it’s “Deida not” “MRP bot”. You seem to exhibit codependent behaviors, yeah, but by confining yourself to a label you’re just creating subconscious mental restrictions that say you HAVE to act a certain way now that you’ve labeled yourself accordingly. Cut the shit if you want to escape that. You know who you’re with through dating and vetting and all that. If who they are changes in such a way that makes living with them unbea…	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 03:04 PM
1	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend isn’t going along [with] frames without questioning them and making sure they represent reality, what got all of you here in the first place? I don’t know dude, I can’t speak for everyone here, but most people that come here seem to have a problem with their frame actually being their SO’s frame. They have no frame of their own. They aren’t their own mental point of origin. Everything you’re talking about in your post is in reference and regard to HER. It’s as if you can’t do anything without th…	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 01:51 PM
2	A little bit confused What exactly are you asking for here? All I read is that you acted like a little bitch smacking your girl around (probably because you couldn’t get your way) and some other filler jibberish such as “not being connected to yourself” whatever that means. If you know your way forward, then do that, or don’t. If you’re asking about which of your three suggestions you should take, I think you should use your brain to decide for yourself which one will put generous distance between you and someone you…	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 12:59 PM
1	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend During my time in the submarine service, we had a phrase called “nuking it”. This refers to the nuclear trained sailors who, although intelligent, would over-intellectualize relatively simple concepts. You’re fucking nuking this, man. Stop trying to hide behind labels like “codependent” and “narcissistic” to excuse and/or avoid certain behaviors and actions. It’s not hard. Read “When I Say No I Feel Guilty”. People will only be able to manipulate you if you allow it. Stop bullshitting yourself. …	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 12:38 PM
1	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend Your rules don’t matter one iota to her because A) you do nothing of any significance about it when she disrespects them, and B) she doesn’t respect YOU as a person enough to respect your rules. Is that normal for a woman? Depends, who’s the man? You seem to come off childishly, and that’s how she’s treating you. She wanted to date/fuck a man and she got a tall, pouty child. If I were in your shoes and I absolutely needed to salvage this thing (and you don’t if you don’t want to because you’re a…	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 01:29 AM
1	My Covert Narcissist Girlfriend she is putting up a serious fight for dominance She can’t dominate you if you’re not there. She’ll always win if you don’t demonstrate how willing you are to walk away as that’s the power you have (read: should have) in this relationship...or whatever it is. This is called having an abundance mentality. It means you have access to abundance and therefore one bad apple (in this case infested with maggots) doesn’t ruin your day. There are plenty of other apples. Develop THAT mentality. Looking at …	/r/askMRP	01/08/20 01:06 AM
7	Are these my only options? they are the only ones being presented to me I don’t know you personally, but I’m sure there are reasons that specific type of people gravitate towards you. Perhaps you’re a Nice Guy of whom women think they can take advantage. Maybe you it’s just the fact that you’re in college and therefore surrounded by dumb thots looking for some ween. Either way, it might be worth looking into what traits you possess that attract what you consider to be these dumpster fire women. The important thing here, l…	/r/askMRP	31/07/20 01:20 PM
25	Are these my only options? You’re allowed to have values, man. You have the right to commit to and withhold commitment from anyone you choose. Why do you think those types of people are your ONLY options? You can just fuck these women and keep it at that. You can also hold out for a single girl with a low or nonexistent N-count. The choice is totally yours. That said, the pool from which you choose women will, in general, significantly grow in both size and variety as the amount of attractive traits you develop grows...th…	/r/askMRP	31/07/20 10:55 AM
3	Keeping Frame And Dealing With Orbiters But she’s not shaking them the way I want. “Boo hoo, she isn’t doing what I want” is all I read. If you’re a man of value you won’t give a golden fuck about some internet dudes because you know another hole to fuck is essentially at your beckoning call. Stop worrying about internet nerds and “worry” more about things you can control.	/r/askMRP	18/07/20 12:56 PM
1	How to Handle a Compliment But any other response can also be OK. I disagree. No, not “any other response” can also be okay. Maybe those celebrities do it but it still comes across as soft as baby shit. The whole point is that you’re already supposed to be thinking of yourself as the prize because you ARE (or at least are becoming) the prize, and on the road leading away from betadom, making fun of yourself betrays the impression that you AREN’T the man.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/07/20 11:20 AM