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OYS # 6 Mid to late 40’s, 5’10” 191lbs (no change 7 days, down 43lbs overall), kids youngest 18, married 22 years. Read, MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, RM1, RM2, 12 Steps Dread Currently - NMMNG Audio, WISNIFG Audio, RM # 1 Audio Physical Squat - skipped due to back pain Deadlift - 290 x6 and was easy Bench 195x6 and 200x4 - it’s finally starting to move up Weight was stagnant this week but got stronger in almost all exercises from close grip bench, lat pulldown, one arm row, curls literally every exerc…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 10:42 AM
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The truth is the circumstances of the affair which I cant get into now as it is just too unique. Everyone and I mean everyone including her friends, will think she has gone batshit crazy and she will be revealed for the hypocrite she is. I will share once divorce is over.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 03:33 PM
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Kids will not be turned against me when they know the truth. The truth is so fucked up its unbelievable. Its not the affair - its what she is getting herself into and if family finds they will all turn against her and think she is the mentally ill one - trust me on this. I have also been spending a lot of quality time with the kids one on one - more than ever before in preparation. They have said to me our relationship with them is the best its ever been. If they found out the truth they would b…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 03:10 PM
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She can accuse all she wants - without proof its all baseless.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 02:58 PM
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I have already resigned myself to the fact it will not be amicable. Oh well, nothing I can do about that other than move forward and get through this. There is no other choice. There are bad times coming but it wont last forever. There will be sunshine and blue skys on the other side. Also, please define how I am going to get fucked? Other than her trying to divorce rape me, which I have already prepared for.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 02:57 PM
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Can you elaborate what you mean by big trouble, other than a divorce battle - BUT I have indisputable proof of the affair. I am also going to leave all my evidence with the lawyer to share with her family if he doesnt hear from me regularly in the unlikely event something happens to me. You never know what happens in a domestic dispute. The interesting thing is she also planted a seed that there is something wrong with me mentally and mentioned to the family that she has seen me talking to mysel…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 02:33 PM
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Agreed and its something I am working on and becoming my own mental point of origin. Its uncharted waters for me but looking forward to what the future holds and excited. The old me is dead to me. Its like moving forward as a different person but I still need to internalize more of the sidebar as when I implement pieces, it works.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 01:00 PM
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Because I have lived a life focusing on others and looking after family and being the workhorse, and putting myself last. I am working on my opinion being #1 and living the life I want to live (still trying to figure out what that is). What this whole affair has taught me is I have to put myself first and foremost and be selfish as there is nothing wrong with that. Trying to undo decades of blue pill conditioing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:51 PM
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You are 100% correct and thank you for pointing that out. I see now how I should of handled it instead of DEERing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:08 PM
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I do have a cocky smile inside knowing the puzzle of the last 20 years of my life finally makes sense and is put together and I am not fucking crazy from being gaslit for so long. However, in that moment with close family, I had to enforce my boundaries and swallow my pride and keep my mouth shut about the affair. It wasnt the right time. That time will come soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 11:41 AM
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OYS # 5 Mid to late 40’s, 5’10” 191lbs (down 5lbs last 7 days, 43lbs overall), kids youngest 18, married 22 years. Read, MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, RM1, RM2, 12 Steps Dread Currently - NMMNG Audio, WISNIFG Audio, RM # 1 Audio Physical Decent week went up in some lifts, stagnant in others. Tweaked my back again slightly in deadlift with 285x6 x 3 sets, so took it easy with Squats later at 255 x 5. I need to be very careful moving forward to not severely re-injure my back as that would set me back mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 09:59 AM
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I also just remembered that when she gave me the ILYBINILWY speech, I also got the I am not physically attracted to you anymore speech as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 06:24 PM
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Although I hope for amicable, I know it won’t be. She has openly said in the past that she is going to get everything and it wont be 50/50
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 02:05 PM
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I have some serious leverage I can use if need be that would completely destroy her life if I used it. I prefer not to.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 09:49 PM
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She was a virgin but cheated 3 years in and then broke up with him 10 years ago, and then they got back together 1 year ago. She was alpha widowed from him.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 09:48 PM
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Thank you. I was in really rough shape 3-4 months ago and really bad shape last Thursday when I confirmed it, but getting better by the day. The big thing for me is I now have closure and a way forward. A spotlight has been focused on my life and I am getting flashbacks to a lot of small pieces of discussions we had which were strange at the tine in my gut, but now looking back, everything fits together and makes sense. Any one of those discussions could have been the one to help me discover the…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 09:47 PM
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You are 100% correct about not bringing up the infidelity. I had intended to bring it up but after reading your comment and a consultation with another lawyer today, I will not mention it and will keep it as levwrage for the future if needed. I think if I brought it up, there is a much higher likelihood of her going ballistic as this is a woman who is used to getting her own way all the time, and she has never fucked up like this before.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 09:43 PM
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No intention of any rebound relationship. FWB would be fine and some casual dating, but nothing exclusive. No plans to even start that until we sell the house and we are both on our own way. Focusing on business for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 09:39 PM
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Just purchased it...thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 09:35 PM
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Thanks Horns. I got the ILYBINILWY speech about 10 years ago but didnt recognize what it was at the time. I also read the divorce sidebar and will follow it especially the part about preempting the DV charge by warning the police in advance.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:46 AM
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Mental I reached out to one old friend of mine from high school as we both keep in touch once in a while and he just went through a divorce. Another good contact of mine who is more like a friend is my accountant and I basically spoke to both of them in the last 2 days which has been really helpful. My high school friend was shocked as he knew how amazing my wife was and thought I was joking. My accountant however, said Congratulations to me after I told him. He said you will be the envy of many…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 10:34 AM
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OYS # 4 Mid to late 40’s, 5’10” 196lbs, kids youngest 18, married 22 years. Read, MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, RM1, RM2, 12 Steps Dread Currently - NMMNG Audio, WISNIFG AUdio Backgound I posted here mid March another another user name claiming to be in a sexless marriage for almost 18 years. At the time I said I found a note on my wife’s phone that indicated an affair and I confronted her about it. She denied and I got a lot of great advice here, that virtually 100% ended up being completely accurate,…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 10:20 AM
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