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Solid advice. I've done this in the past and it does seem to boost confidence. The only additional tip I'd give is to not whistle tunelessly - pick an actual song that exists, even if it is an extremely obscure one. Making random sounds could backfire and make you appear like you're self conscious of the potential for awkward silences.
/r/seduction11/07/17 08:33 PM
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That's exactly what I'm talking about too.
/r/seduction22/05/17 03:50 PM
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The act of approaching is an immediate win, even if she ultimately rejects you.
/r/seduction22/05/17 03:40 PM
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I've had great success in my life with a female therapist. If you have issues connecting with men in general, then a male therapist is preferred. But I was still able to get a feeling of freedom from discussing literally everything I'm ashamed of in my life with a female therapist.
/r/seduction20/05/17 09:06 PM
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Yea I've had great success with self-deprecating humor as well. If you pull it off right it shows that you don't take yourself too seriously and you have a good sense of humor. Chicks love that. If you actually believe the self-deprecating stuff you're saying people will pick up on it though. They will definitely see that it's a plea for attention and you wont get good results at all. Interesting how that stuff works when you think about it.
/r/seduction15/05/17 11:49 AM
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Beautiful. Well written. Here's the most important line in my opinion: By the way, I'm not saying to ignore your flaws or areas of improvement. Self-awareness is key. But don't, under any circumstance, talk shit about yourself. This is so true. Don't tread into the territory of narcissism. You're not the face of perfection, but on the other hand, you've got a lot of good shit going for you. Focus on that good while you improve your weak points. I'm going to consciously put The Godfather Method i…
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:58 AM
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I am someone who was born without rhythm or dance skills. I started partner dancing 3 years ago and I'm definitely one the of the better dancers at my local swing dancing places now. The dance styles I've learned can be transferred to almost any other styles (including club dancing) so the more I learn the easier it is for me to pick up a new style from scratch. Dancing is a skill that can be learned like anything else. Get out of here with your closed minded bs.
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:54 PM
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That was smooth. Sarah seems very into you.
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:08 AM
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Sounds like a cancer town to live in. You're at a turning point in your life right now. Moving could be the ultimate change that paves the path of your future. It sounds like staying in that town has no benefits other than keeping an old social circle. I say move. Find a big city with a decently low cost of living and pull the trigger. It's for the good of your life.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:48 PM
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Why not all of those? Start simple and ask some girls on the street for directions to somewhere. When you arrive at the grocery store take the time to compliment women you run into on something they're wearing. Later go to the mall and approach women, tell them you think they're cute, then try to get a number. Finish the day off by going to bars and clubs and pushing hard for phone numbers and maybe an insta-date.
/r/seduction06/05/17 07:30 AM
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It's not wrong to approach women with sexual intent.
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:05 AM
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Sexual release. ;)
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:05 AM
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Stop jerking off. You'll get so crazy horny you'll be dying to talk to women just for the chance of release. I only masturbate about once a week. It keeps me highly motivated to keep talking to women.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:11 PM
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I've been practicing a wicked looking smirk in the mirror at home. Every time I lock eyes with an attractive stranger I flash the smirk (basically a smile with half my mouth) until they break eye contact. Usually they smile back before looking away. I haven't made any approaches after doing this (yet) but seeing a good percentage of them smile back is a huge confidence booster.
/r/seduction18/04/17 07:38 PM
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What do you think is better in your opinion? Just curious.
/r/seduction17/04/17 12:10 AM
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Yep. I 100% recommend it. I've read it about 3 times total and still get use out of it. It has really given me a new perspective on dating and women.
/r/seduction17/04/17 12:09 AM
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As far as seduction goes I think it's the best reading material out there. But like everything else, it's only useful if you take action on it. Don't bother picking it up if you're not going to do anything with the information.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:18 PM
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DOME
/r/seduction10/04/17 11:19 PM
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Great video. Now it's time to gather the courage to actually try it out. Sigh.
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:52 PM
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Other people's gain is not your loss So important to remember this.
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:55 PM
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I enjoy the content of your videos but I find the transitions weird and sometimes downright jarring with the rest of the video. Maybe take some time to study Casey Neistat's style or another huge vlogger. Right now the transitions feel awkward and kind of take away from the rest of the content. Not trying to bring you down, that's just my constructive thoughts after watching several of your videos. Keep up the good tips! As far as the challenges go, I enjoyed them. I tried a 30 day social anxiet…
/r/seduction21/01/17 01:53 AM
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Check your state laws. I know for a fact that type of thing is illegal in California. In Cali, all parties involved need to be aware and consenting to being recorded (or something similar to that).
/r/seduction31/07/16 05:24 AM
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I don't get it.
/r/seduction31/07/16 02:40 AM
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It's a reference to the Matrix movies. But the Blue Pill sub is a parody of The Red Pill subreddit. Other than that, I suggest you google the terms or spend a few days reading both subreddits to get the jist.
/r/seduction24/07/16 07:41 PM
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I upvote FR posts and downvote anything that leads to an external site. I'm not saying external websites are unhelpful, but I find posts where the community is sharing their experiences and tips to be more useful. But, I almost never post FR's myself so I'm almost part of the problem. Like someone else said: this sub's content is dependent on what the individual contributes. We all whine about annoying and unhelpful posts, but rarely post good ones ourselves.
/r/seduction22/07/16 12:02 AM
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This gets posted every few weeks. I don't know about anyone else but it hasn't helped me at all. It's just an advertisement for this stupid product.
/r/seduction21/07/16 11:22 AM
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If a bunch of gurus gave you shitty advice in real life I'd still be asking for their names so I could look up their other stuff on Youtube. The advantage of books (if that's where you got this from) is that I could read the exact wording from the entire chapter. If you couldn't be bothered remembering small details like where or who you got these quotes from then very likely you didn't remember the correct information in the first place and completely misunderstood it. Link me the articles, boo…
/r/seduction30/06/16 09:58 PM
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If you can't be bothered to remember the source (even just one of them) then it makes me think you didn't remember the context or wording of the advice either.
/r/seduction30/06/16 02:37 AM
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Who is giving you advice like that? I want exact quotes and sources.
/r/seduction30/06/16 01:23 AM
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He's not talking about literal exercise.
/r/seduction26/06/16 02:14 AM
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There's some sort of seduction going on for her to become your girlfriend, whether you're aware of it or not. It might be her seducing you or it might be you being inadvertently attractive in some way to her, but it's seduction regardless. Learning to recognize the signs and practice with multiple women is what makes seduction into a skillset.
/r/seduction22/06/16 10:08 PM
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Then you're doomed.
/r/seduction21/06/16 11:20 PM
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Can't? Or don't want to?
/r/seduction21/06/16 10:39 PM
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We understood it. You aren't understanding that you WILL NOT attract women unless you are social. Women are humans and humans are social creatures. You wont get women to like you unless you know how to interact with other humans. You have two clear choices: 1) Set out on the path of self improvement and learn how to be more social (like I did when I was in your position). 2) Continue being anti social and never learn how to attract women as a result. You've been told over and over in the comment…
/r/seduction21/06/16 06:22 PM
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After reading your other replies on this topic it's clear to me you don't want to make any efforts to actually attracting women in your life. It makes me sad because I used to be just like you a few years ago. The difference is, I was willing to put in a bit of work on myself. Good luck with your lonely life. :(
/r/seduction21/06/16 05:27 PM
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From what I've seen posted on the internet the better your pictures are in your profile, the better results you'll have. And by "better pictures" I mean "more interesting". Find a friend willing to take pictures of you doing your favorite hobbies (preferably a friend with photography skills). If you post a lot of bathroom selfies you wont get nearly the same results.
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:33 PM
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Stop thinking of it in terms of "faking a personality". Instead, imagine that the secret to getting girls is growing as a person and sharpening skillsets you already have. You don't need to change who you are at the core but you do need to learn to interact with other humans better. If you're not willing to look at it this way or open your mind to the possibility of change then you will not learn how to attract women into your life.
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:29 PM
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Yes I'm way more successful with women. I do cold approaches regularly (both during the day and during night life) with okay results. And my confidence is like a skyscraper compared to when I started this journey. That being said, I have a long way to go. But I doubt I would have made any of this progress if I hadn't been introduced to any PUA communities.
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:23 PM
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If you are not social, you won't attract any women, no matter what you do. Most of the people who start here are not social. Social skills are exactly what the name says: skills. Imagine playing guitar or skateboarding; socializing is a skill just like any other. You can refine your social abilities with practice and baby steps. Speaking for myself, when I first found this forum I was completely horrible at interacting with other humans. I was extremely introverted, shy, never made eye contact, …
/r/seduction21/06/16 02:53 AM
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Different locations require different strategies. Picking up girls in a grocery store is an entirely different skill set than picking up girls in a bar. If you don't like bars then refine your skills elsewhere.
/r/seduction20/06/16 07:35 PM
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These are limiting beliefs. 1) Generally our society says that someone in their 30s should have life figured out. But pick up still works exactly the same. And that 30-something's ability to get their life together is no different from ten years ago. Age is really not a big factor when it comes to dating women, seriously. 2) Social skills (or lack thereof) do outweigh physical appearance, that's true. But "If you're a loser in addition to socially awkward, forget it" is just absurd. If you're a …
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:22 PM
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Everyone gets a huge rush when they step out of their comfort zone the first few times. Your comfort zone expands and you now have to go to more extremes to get back out of it and feel that rush. In order to always feel it you have to keep stepping the bar up and setting new standards for yourself. So you've gotten to the point where you feel comfortable and confident approaching women. Now try something you've never done before like approaching a group of women in a supermarket. Or approach a h…
/r/seduction20/06/16 02:21 AM
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Hard for us to figure out what's happening when you haven't posted any details at all. It could be something as basic as too much texting them. Next time you get done with a date with a girl record every detail you can remember in text format (every move you both make and line of dialog). It might be long winded but chances are just the act of writing it will help you find a lot of problems.
/r/seduction19/06/16 10:14 AM
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It's a short term desire for sex and personal validation. But the bigger picture is about improving myself, living life to the fullest, and finding happiness.
/r/seduction19/06/16 03:14 AM
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This guy is such a boss.
/r/seduction19/06/16 12:54 AM
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Well thanks for contributing to #3.
/r/seduction16/06/16 02:49 PM
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Game normally. Your accent alone is enough to give you a significant advantage in a foreign country.
/r/seduction14/06/16 06:50 PM
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Be respectful and don't talk shit about them. But also don't give them any of your time and energy if you don't have to. If they ask for favors, politely decline. I'm thinking of obnoxious coworkers when I type this. It's important not to burn bridges with people you have to see every day. But you also don't have to go out of your way to please them either.
/r/seduction13/06/16 06:14 PM
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Approach people outside campus dude!
/r/seduction13/06/16 12:27 AM
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One of my favorite social anxiety tests. I did it in the middle of a sidewalk on a busy street in my city for 60 seconds (I counted each second loudly in my head so I would have something to focus on). Laying around in busy areas is a great way to overcome anxiety. The point is to put yourself in extreme situations and get out of your comfort zone. After doing exercises like this you'll become mostly numb to what strangers think of you and your overall confidence will skyrocket. I highly recomme…
/r/seduction13/06/16 12:26 AM
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Drop her and find someone single, man. Trying to get her to cheat or dump her boyfriend isn't going to be worth the time and effort. Obviously she chose him for a reason.
/r/seduction12/06/16 04:47 AM
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He's talking about naked chainsaw murder. shrugs We all have our own way of dealing with oneitis.
/r/seduction11/06/16 02:05 AM
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A series of field reports would have been more useful. What are you offering the community with this?
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:42 PM
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Condoms reduce the risk of herpes, but they do not eliminate it. Read up on it.
/r/seduction09/06/16 10:46 PM
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Excessive in what regard? Some people are at the stage of struggling to do the first 5 days.
/r/seduction08/06/16 06:18 AM
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Yea. Skip to the part where you're asking her father if you can have her hand in marriage. I find this method 1000% more effective.
/r/seduction26/05/16 11:37 PM
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URLs for the GURLS
/r/seduction21/05/16 03:59 PM
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There are a few women in my life I'd love to bang but they've made it clear they want nothing to do with me sexually. Normally I'd faze them out of my life but I genuinely enjoy their company and friendship. As an added bonus, they make me look great in front of girls who are sexually interested in me.
/r/seduction19/05/16 03:18 AM
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And I don't do this for the numbers game, I do it because there are specific people I want to have these relationships with. Well the tips in this forum are for "the numbers game". You're not going to be able to use much advice here with specific women or specific situations. Cut your losses and move on. Learn from it, grow, and improve on the next woman you meet.
/r/seduction19/05/16 03:15 AM
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"Hey honey, can I pee in your butt?"
/r/seduction17/05/16 02:27 PM
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Chances are she'll be able to tell you're inexperienced. Honestly I would just focus on being relaxed and making it seem like it's not a big deal. But don't talk about it unless she brings it up.
/r/seduction14/05/16 05:11 PM
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Talk to everyone. Approach everyone. Escalate with the ones you are attracted to.
/r/seduction13/05/16 11:01 PM
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Love this tip, I've been doing something similar for as long as I've practiced meditation. It's a great way to bring yourself down from an extreme emotion and overall a great exercise to practice at literally any time during the day. This guy deserves more subscribers
/r/seduction07/05/16 11:49 PM
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The most helpful thing I've found is to not target hot girls exclusively. When you go out, go out with the intent to speak to 10-15 strangers on your way to X location. Once you get warmed up with a few random people you can start specifically approaching the hotties with intent. Treat them like normal people and you'll do fine.
/r/seduction30/04/16 04:17 PM
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College campus/area. Beaches. Otherwise, yea it can be chancy in ordinary day to day life.
/r/seduction30/04/16 01:43 AM
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I kind of see the point you're trying to make, but this is just sheer laziness. It's baffling how you're getting upvotes. "There you go, Pick Up Artist solved."
/r/seduction30/04/16 01:41 AM
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Treat her like any other date. I've never had an experience like this but I imagine it would be obnoxious for her if you went into fanboy mode and drooled all over her.
/r/seduction27/04/16 10:55 PM
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She might be. You'll never know unless you give it a shot.
/r/seduction27/04/16 02:37 PM
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I would say most people definitely aren't doing these
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:16 PM
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This is excellent advice.
/r/seduction25/04/16 02:18 PM
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I'd second this. 10% done seems like a poor way to look at this type of goal
/r/seduction23/04/16 01:52 AM
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"Seduction is the ability to manipulate a woman's emotion and psyche to send her on a rollercoaster of intense arousal that makes her so hot and bothered she can't even go to work without sneaking off into the bathroom and masturbating to you." You're saying canned lines and routines achieve this? "Seduction does not equal attraction" Seduction by definition is to attract someone. Your personal definition of seduction seems to fall in line with "manipulation", which is completely possible to do,…
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:21 PM
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I'm cringing at the thought of being stuck on a plane next to a girl who's jerking the guy off next to me. Those poor people.
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:33 PM
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The best method of seduction is being confident. The best method to improve confidence is to develop on a personal level. Routines and canned openers aren't really pushed as hard these days because a man who's confident in himself can say anything to most women and get a positive response. So you can see why the focus of this forum has shifted. If your main focus is canned lines you're not going to make it far.
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:29 PM
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It's advice for everyone. When I started swing dancing I was far from "socially inept". To this day I tribute dancing to helping me on the road to a lot of my inner social improvements. Most of the advice you'll read here is about starting with "inner game" and this post is great for helping that. I just contributed my 2 cents. "when has your advice EVER helped a shy, introverted, awkward guy (autistic or not)" The answer is 3 years ago when it helped ME. I'm not the source of your problems, I'm…
/r/seduction18/04/16 05:59 AM
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My advice is not for the autistic. If you're autistic, seek advice elsewhere.
/r/seduction17/04/16 05:01 PM
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No. You can't summarize "quiet girls" into one group that behaves exactly the same. Every woman is a human with their own story and motives behind what they do. Some females may be quiet because they're shy and socially awkward, others may just prefer to listen. You wont know how they'll take being approached until you try.
/r/seduction16/04/16 08:09 PM
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I've been swing dancing for several years now. I've become such a regular at my city's swing dance events that dating is a no-go at this point because if a date or relationship goes badly the word spreads rapidly and damages my social circles. But dancing in general has helped me sharpen my social skills to a razor point and I've earned a wealth of knowledge about how to act and touch women as a result. My confidence is higher and I attract women from other areas of my life so I highly recommend…
/r/seduction16/04/16 07:59 PM
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I want to hear you approaching girls off of campus. Campus is easy. ;)
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:06 PM
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You're missing the point. Memorize the cards then and pull them randomly from memory. The idea is to do something extra to capture a stranger's attention.
/r/seduction12/04/16 02:16 PM
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Facebook doesn't announce anywhere that you're using Tinder, so just use your main Facebook. If you run into anyone you know on the app it isn't going to matter which Facebook account you're using because that person will SEE YOUR FACE. If you're afraid of being recognized on Tinder by someone then you might as well call the whole idea off. No one is going to swipe right on you if you don't have good pictures of yourself. Trust me, it's not that weird to be using Tinder. I live in a college town…
/r/seduction12/04/16 01:36 AM
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You know what subreddit you're in, right? Why would he ask anything else here? I'm sure he's doing plenty of other research about China on other parts of the internet.
/r/seduction06/04/16 11:21 PM
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I hate that you called this a "hack". loads shotgun ...But honestly this is sound advice. I'll give it a shot.
/r/seduction02/04/16 05:08 PM
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There's no new stuff because this "field" has already been broken down into the absolute basic elements many years ago. You're not going to break any new ground at this point. You can come up with millions of approach strategies and "tricks" for getting her attention but ultimately those will all break down to the same core factors everyone else is using.
/r/seduction16/03/16 05:40 PM
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Shut up
/r/seduction06/03/16 01:42 AM
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He's done boys! Let's shut it down, our work is complete. We can all stop trying now.
/r/seduction22/02/16 09:13 PM
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No. It's terrible. I listened all the way through just for the content but it was a painful experience. It has GOT to turn off new listeners from wanting to take it seriously.
/r/seduction24/01/16 08:54 PM
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Now I wish he would hire a professional to read the audio book. The current version is horrific.
/r/seduction24/01/16 01:27 AM
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Exactly. This list is for the rest of us still trying to become alpha, which is why it has its place here.
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:59 AM
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Insight into the process you go through to meet women. Especially ones you meet on the streets or at night face to face (meaning without tinder).
/r/seduction24/11/15 10:15 PM
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Post monthly field reports. Tell us how you met these women, got their numbers, how the date went, and what happened after. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would be interested in this. :)
/r/seduction24/11/15 03:03 AM
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Okay? I'm glad this worked for you, but you haven't convinced me to part with $3000 in my hard earned money. I could invest that time and money elsewhere and succeed in other ways. Convince me.
/r/seduction19/11/15 04:48 AM
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Free stuff, thanks. After I read it I will give you my honest review. I'm a beginner, and this book looks like it appeals mostly to guys like me. So if I get anything out of this I will let you know.
/r/seduction19/11/15 04:39 AM
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Yes, you just need an amazon account. You can read it online from your computer.
/r/seduction19/11/15 04:33 AM
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Find another girl and do it again. If you're lucky, she'll ignore you too and the experience will make you stronger. Repeat until emotionally immortal. Then, step it up a notch and try something a little more ballsy. Return to the top of this paragraph and start the whole process over. This is how you get out of your comfort zone, improve your confidence, and grow as a person.
/r/seduction14/11/15 07:07 AM
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Because it's easy to talk to women for knowledge and experience. It's very difficult (for the guys who come here) to sleep with most women. So you'll see almost all of the posted geared toward that. Don't base your opinion of the male gender on what you see here. The posts here are specifically biased towards sex. The name is even SEDUCTION. All that being said, a lot of guys come here to learn how to attract women for the sake of getting into a relationship (myself included).
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:37 PM
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Okay. Now do it again. And again.
/r/seduction26/10/15 11:18 PM
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The more people who follow this sub the more "mainstream" the topics become. The average reader just wants quick tricks to try to get laid. (Whether said "tricks" actually work is irrelevant, that's just what tends to get upvoted.) I'll admit it, when I first came here 2 years ago I was looking for hacks and shortcuts to convince women to want me. I stuck around long enough to appreciate what a quality post looks like. I really love a good field report. Maybe everyone who reads this topic (mysel…
/r/seduction23/10/15 04:55 AM
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Yes. Being "non needy" means you're confident in yourself and truly indifferent about the final outcome. So yes, you can be persistent with the same girl without being needy. But if you want to improve your overall confidence and outcome independence then you need to regularly approach a lot of women.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:37 PM
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Persistently go out and approach. Don't get attached to any girl in particular.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:11 PM
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Man, I crave that life so badly right now. Can you post some field reports to help us noobies get where you're at now?
/r/seduction08/10/15 12:41 PM
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Honest review: I bought the audio book so I could listen on the road. The content is awesome and I learned a ton. Mark Manson read it, however. And his reading skills are fucking TERRIBLE. Someone call Mark up and tell him to hire a professional to read his book. I will never listen to it again. I highly recommend the book.
/r/seduction07/10/15 10:38 PM
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Please post a field report after 30 days linking to this topic and the topic I just gave you. That way you can potentially inspire some other people to try it as well. I'm curious to see how effective it is on you, especially since you seem to have an extreme case of social anxiety.
/r/seduction07/10/15 10:36 PM
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Try this: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3lb8jf/a_workout_plan_to_become_a_pickup_beast/ Disclaimer: Even a 30 day challenge like this will be difficult if you don't make the effort to do the basic stuff. If you're having trouble starting conversations at parties (an already very social context) how will you ever start a random conversation in a coffee shop? My tip to you would be swap the coffee shop one with "start a conversation with a stranger at a party".
/r/seduction07/10/15 04:51 PM
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Nice guide. Offtopic: where can I download your app?
/r/seduction29/09/15 07:50 AM
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Asking the real questions here.
/r/seduction21/09/15 02:03 AM
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10 is great for a single day! How much time did you spend approaching? Where did you go? It sounds like you're doing everything right. You're doing better than me, which is why I'm asking so many questions. :P
/r/seduction13/09/15 12:30 AM
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The subreddit NoFap goes over the top. They think not masturbating will solve all of your problems. It doesn't. That being said, I rarely masturbate. The insane horniness drives me to be more social and approach women. It's a need for me. Even simple social interactions with random women I know are more interesting when I haven't jerked it in a few weeks. It's hard to describe precisely, but I love it. Give it a try.
/r/seduction13/09/15 12:26 AM
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I just got out of bed (currently 3 am) because of insomnia. I sat down to read this. The first challenge made me close my browser. I returned to upvote this.
/r/seduction28/08/15 09:42 AM
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When I did nofap it was a life changing event. It wasn't the act of not masturbating. It was the effort of pushing myself and resisting a basic temptation for a few weeks at a time. The challenge taught me a lot and I've overcome other obstacles because of it. That being said, this article is shit.
/r/seduction28/08/15 09:40 AM
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Do you have any advice to someone trying to start day gaming? I've read tons of posts on here about cold approaching but I just can't do it. It's terrifying because most women seem to go out in groups and I can't even figure out what to do when I see one on her own, let alone try to isolate one from her friends in a grocery store.
/r/seduction25/08/15 02:50 PM
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Very inspiring. How long ago did you first start making approaches?
/r/seduction25/08/15 03:23 AM
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Please do a more personal post. I'm curious what some of your first approaches looked like...versus the ones you did last week! Your first post was very inspiring but this one is just a bunch of rehashed info that floats around this subreddit regularly. I think most of us would prefer a more "personal" post with actual examples.
/r/seduction21/08/15 01:43 AM
3

Used dick salesmen.
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:13 PM
1

Women like confident men with interesting lives, regardless of appearance. Looks help get your foot in the door but ultimately matter very little.
/r/seduction07/08/15 06:54 AM
-3

If you listen to that other guy and sub the red pill, make sure you also sub r/TheBluePill to put everything in perspective. ;)
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:41 AM
2

Ok. How about day game?
/r/seduction28/07/15 08:41 PM
3

Graduated.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:53 PM
1

The mall is the only place I can consistently find young women in abundance. It works well. But if I go there every day with the express intention of approaches (because let's be honest, I'll run out of legitimate reasons to go) I'll begin to look and feel creepy. I suddenly become the recognizable guy who's always at the mall. All I'm saying is, I only have one mall. Where else can I go?
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:53 PM
2

Yea, I don't have massive game. I'm having trouble just finding women on their own to approach and practice on. I don't have the confidence to approach women in groups.
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:12 PM
5

I haven't been able to build my game up to the point where I'm able to do that without looking like a moron. If I could find a secret location where tons of single women wander around on their own waiting to be approached then maybe I'd have some skills by now.
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:11 PM
45

Where are you guys going you can approach 3-5 women a day? I can't do that without looking like a creeper in the mall... Once in a while I'll see an attractive woman while grocery shopping. With her boyfriend. What's THAT secret?
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:49 AM
11

Christopher Walken has spoken. /thread
/r/seduction22/07/15 01:08 AM
1

Unedited? Oh god. At least edit paragraphs into it. No one will fault you for that.
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:31 PM
1

Your attractiveness is irrelevant. Confidence is all you really need.
/r/seduction20/07/15 12:36 AM
23

Complimenting natural looks can definitely work. But beautiful women hear about their looks every day. If you point out something they actively had to do or wear then she's earning that compliment. Women spend a ridiculous amount of time dressing and putting on make up and love to hear they look good based on that. It sounds more genuine too because men rarely point these things out. "Hey your eyes are beautiful" sounds a lot more cliche than "that dress looks stunning on you". All I'm saying is…
/r/seduction19/07/15 03:36 PM
53

Compliment something she had control over (not her natural looks). For example: "Hey, I love that dress. That color is perfect for a summer day like today." She'll be flattered. Move swiftly to a question. It can be anything. This is just your excuse for talking to her. "Do you know where the nearest Starbucks is?" She'll respond. Make casual conversation and at some point introduce yourself. This whole time maintain decent eye contact and kino where possible. Gauge her attraction and IoI's and …
/r/seduction19/07/15 03:25 PM
9

A dildo salesman's got to start somewhere.
/r/seduction13/07/15 05:14 PM
3

Give us an update asap
/r/seduction12/07/15 03:24 PM
1

Do it anyway. I'd like to see.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:27 AM
3

Good to know, thanks.
/r/seduction04/07/15 06:17 AM
10

Awesome. This is inspiring. I might try something like this tomorrow since I have the day off from work. Where did you go to approach these women?
/r/seduction04/07/15 01:04 AM
1

The writer of this article is definitely one of us, yes.
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:44 PM
4

I knew as soon as I read the title that a guy wrote this. Women don't write from this perspective.
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:43 PM
13

Doesn't matter what women say on that subject. According to this subreddit, "even women don't know what they want" or "you don't ask a fish how to become better at catching fish; you ask other fishermen".
/r/seduction11/06/15 04:04 AM
1

Get out of here with this crap.
/r/seduction24/05/15 03:08 PM
4

I agree that meditation should be on the list. But saying that it nullifies the other points is pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction17/05/15 08:27 PM
1

Jesus. That was honestly awesome.
/r/seduction04/04/15 10:33 PM
1

This guy cracked the code. Everyone can go home. Job well done.
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:25 PM
1

Sauce?
/r/seduction31/03/15 12:31 AM
3

Partner dancing. I used to find it weird to touch other people, but after about a month of Swing and Blue's dancing I was over it. A year later and I touch everyone (guys and girls) in casual conversation and it feels odd not too. (On top of that, dancing is a great way to meet women)
/r/seduction30/03/15 12:35 AM
3

Why? What is your text strategy?
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:02 AM
2

It is, but "bumping" doesn't work. :p
/r/seduction23/03/15 02:56 AM
1

A bit off topic response, but it was a good read nonetheless. What places do you go to approach large amounts of women?
/r/seduction23/03/15 12:33 AM
8

Doesn't read article. Blatantly advertises his own.
/r/seduction10/03/15 09:08 PM
-2

OH YEA. So inspired right now by your humblebrag. No. This is annoying. If you want to inspire then post your field reports on how you got to a point where you don't give a shit. Give us advice. Give us something useful.
/r/seduction05/03/15 02:12 AM
166

First of all, I don't rate girls out of 10. They're either attractive or not. And if I don't find them attractive I find it impossible to fuck them. I literally cannot get it up for a girl who is physically unappealing. I have a friend who will fuck anything resembling a vagina. "Beauty is just a light switch away," he always says. I don't know how he does it.
/r/seduction05/03/15 02:07 AM
1

I don't understand why this is being downvoted so much. It's a completely valid comment; not texting is an effective strategy.
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:36 AM
6

browses topic "I bet this moderator has something wise and insightful to say." Oh.
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:50 AM
1

This is one of many points from that book that will likely stick with me for life. It's pure gold.
/r/seduction21/02/15 05:41 AM
1

Congrats
/r/seduction03/02/15 04:39 AM
2

Examples?
/r/seduction03/02/15 02:17 AM
81

Yea...you like that, you fucking retard?
/r/seduction25/01/15 10:53 PM
6

If you're a level 94 PUA you should know it doesn't matter what he's wearing to pick up women. Only confidence matters. I could stroll around in a diaper and a pirate hat and get laid every night, with the proper confidence to sell it.
/r/seduction18/01/15 02:13 AM
2

If you hope for success, yet expect rejection, you'll become outcome independent. Regardless of how the situation goes down, affirmation or rejection, you'll be prepared and therefor confident. The game teaches you to be ultimately indifferent to negative social interactions.
/r/seduction17/01/15 05:28 AM
2

You are staring her down. It's a form of asserting dominance. But, you can do it in a less intimidating way by smiling slightly, eyebrows raised, and say hello. Or "nod" hello. Still dominant, but less creepy.
/r/seduction17/01/15 03:38 AM
1

You'll find that most people are more scared of direct eye contact than you are. Make it a goal tomorrow to not break eye contact with any stranger you encounter. You'll find most break it immediately. Others will maintain...until you say hello or nod to them. Once in a while one will try to stare you down. So be it. Try to maintain for as long as possible, then smile and nod a hello and continue about your day.
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:46 AM
3

This is something I've just recently overcome myself. Holding prolonged eye contact isn't a social norm. But as far as your confidence goes, it's good to practice it regularly. Don't stare down your friends and coworkers unless you're trying to come off as intimidating or aggressive. Keep practicing on random women on the street and expect her to not look away. Just pretend it's a game. You'll probably never run into any of them ever again so use that thought to motivate yourself. Maintain eye c…
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:32 AM
2

I'm not an expert in this field by far... I'm still working on this like a lot of others here. That being said, regular meditation has really helped me with situations like this. Meditation improves your self awareness. I can maintain a calm demeanor in most situations because I'm very aware of what tends to trigger strong negative emotions in myself. The awareness alone helps prevent them in the first place. Also, a lot of celebs get interviewed and are on camera regularly so they tend to just …
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:24 AM
1

Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:18 AM
1

This is a great article. Short, sweet, and to the point. And the advice is solid. Now to go out and do these drills...
/r/seduction02/01/15 03:56 AM
2

Awesome. I like that vid, very inspiring. Edit: no field reports? Damn dude. I want to stalk your 2 year progress. :p
/r/seduction30/12/14 09:25 PM
16

"John. JOHN. John, shut the fuck up and put down the tequila. Pucker up, dude. These lips are starting the new year off right."
/r/seduction30/12/14 01:57 PM
8

You can't just make comments like this without explanation. You'll get downvoted to oblivion. Why stay away from Mark Manson? Explain.
/r/seduction27/12/14 05:10 PM
1

I would use it. Like someone above said, you need to name it something inconspicuous in case a friend looks at my phone over my shoulder.
/r/seduction15/12/14 04:35 AM
3

Tired of jerking off to attractive women.
/r/seduction01/11/14 01:23 AM
1

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=a+hypothetical+or+an+hypothetical
/r/seduction25/10/14 11:02 PM
4

They wouldn't. It's a hypothetical.
/r/seduction25/10/14 08:21 PM
6

And then make plans for later in the week and re-escalate? It seems like common sense, but my lack of dating experience is making me second guess myself :P
/r/seduction20/10/14 02:31 AM
7

This is a great guide. What if I don't want to escalate to sex on the first date BUT i want to keep her interested enough that she'll definitely have sex on the second? Example: I'm meeting a girl from tinder this week on my lunch break during work. I have no time to escalate and bang her.
/r/seduction20/10/14 02:05 AM
5

This. I personally hate texting. I assume anyone who sends me short, boring responses is just like me and hates texting too. I gauge a girl's interest on whether or not she'll meet up with me.
/r/seduction20/10/14 01:49 AM
1

I work full time. I make my approaches in the evening and weekends.
/r/seduction19/10/14 01:30 PM
1

Yes it is okay to be lied to. You lie. I lie. Everyone lies. But with that same logic in mind, you're not a better person by trying to make a liar feel ashamed or awkward.
/r/seduction14/10/14 03:13 AM
57

If the girl is giving you a fake number she clearly isn't interested. Why try to force the situation? Take the fake number like a man and move on to the next girl. Don't make her feel like shit just because she was pressured.
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:44 AM
5

He's a better man than me. I'd have spent it. :D
/r/seduction13/10/14 12:58 AM
0

That's why I made this topic.
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:52 AM
1

Thank you. This gives me something to aim for.
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:49 AM
1

Interesting perspective, thank you.
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:45 AM
2

That helps in the long term. But in the short term I want to make cold approaches NOW. I want to improve NOW. It's easy for me to sit back and say "yea, I'll totally start conversing with everyone I see when I'm out" but it's not going to happen. It's too vague for me. Note to self: small talk everyone.
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:00 AM
1

"No."
/r/seduction11/10/14 04:04 AM
1

This is very well written, and helpful. Thank you.
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:49 AM
3

It's fun to watch your progress. Good job. I need to log my approaches like this.
/r/seduction06/10/14 01:11 AM
27

Smooth, man. Smooth.
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:56 AM
2

Inspiring.
/r/seduction05/10/14 01:19 AM
1

Got a laugh from me. Might work on an unsuspecting lady. XD
/r/seduction05/10/14 12:17 AM
7

I read that first sentence as if there was no comma. It has a totally different meaning that way hahaha.
/r/seduction02/10/14 04:23 AM
5

People have seriously gotten Tinder dating down to a science. This is amazing.
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:35 AM
1

Thank you for posting this. It introduced me to conversation threading and reminded me that all my dance lessons will pay off if I get into a situation like this. :)
/r/seduction20/09/14 06:45 PM
1

Your clothing is part of how you present yourself. Make a good impression visually AND with your personality.
/r/seduction14/09/14 08:05 AM
2

Believe it or not, most people think you're wrong.
/r/seduction13/09/14 07:58 PM
2

I've literally never seen anyone say something like your first paragraph quote.
/r/seduction13/09/14 07:56 PM
6

No.
/r/seduction13/09/14 07:05 PM
2

Getting to the point where you don't give a shit is the hard part, I guarantee that's where most of the posters/readers here struggle. None of us can just wake up tomorrow and 100% not care. I suppose your advice here would be to practice? I'd say overall, you're right. But getting to that sweet level of confidence takes time.
/r/seduction27/08/14 04:53 AM
13

Weekdays: Wake up. Eat. Lift. Work all day until the evening. Crash. Repeat. Weekends: Go out with friends, socialize, approach women. I work too much during the week to really do much else. Fortunately my job pays for fun days off so I make up for it then.
/r/seduction24/08/14 07:09 AM
2

I completely agree with this. In my past experiences when I've gone out alone I get super pumped to meet women. But when I walk in I just stand around too afraid to approach anyone. Every minute that passes I feel more and more shitty until I leave at the end of the night, slightly drunk and pissed at myself. Get the ball rolling the moment you walk in the door. Build up momentum early.
/r/seduction24/08/14 07:06 AM
1

Yep, I've tried it. I'm currently on a 35 day streak. Increased testosterone and horniness increases your desire to get laid, and therefor, your bravery for approaching women. It's improved my game immensely, mostly because I crave sex so badly I just stopped caring about AA. Just beware of people giving you shit for "believing that NoFap-cult-bullshit". Try it first and see for yourself.
/r/seduction24/08/14 07:03 AM
5

SAY IT WITH YOUR CHEST, LITTLE ASS NIGGA.
/r/seduction24/08/14 06:16 AM
2

So you're giving us a THIRD HAND observation of these guys? This is like a bad game of telephone. Your perception and your friend's perception are completely different than mine.
/r/seduction21/08/14 02:42 AM
1

It never fails you? What do you do in the situation where the girl says "I have a boyfriend"? Or have you gotten coffee with girls in relationships too?
/r/seduction20/08/14 01:53 PM
4

I'd kill to have this "problem".
/r/seduction13/06/14 08:55 PM
2

Using the phrase "throwing women away" makes you sound like a dick. Like the women in your life are pieces of trash. You don't have to be attracted to every girl. Befriend the ones you're not attracted to, this will help you in the long run.
/r/seduction10/06/14 02:11 PM
1

Interesting. Do you have a source?
/r/seduction01/06/14 06:41 AM
62

I didn't realize confidence was defined by your ability to stare other people down like a douche bag.
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:51 PM
2

I cringed so hard reading this. I thought your texts were a joke but there was no punchline. You come off as super clingy, man.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:40 PM
1

The mall is one of my favorite places. If you have a dog, go to a park. I've heard that's a gold mine for meeting women, although I've personally never done it.
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:55 PM
1

Amen. Be direct. Skip the bs, most guys will be just as eager to get to the point as you are.
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:54 PM
26

This would definitely be interesting. There are a lot of videos like this on YouTube but rarely do they show the failures. Show it all and I will be very interested.
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:52 PM
1

Most girls find massive penises to be uncomfortable and turn-offs. Having a dick that's above average is great. A massive one will lose you women, especially if you're using it improperly and hurting her. (source: the numerous topics on this subject in /r/AskWomen) As far as your highschool years go...there could have been 1000 reasons why women weren't attracted to you. I don't have video highlights into your past but I'd assume you're not as great of a guy as you claim. Your first girlfriend..…
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