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9

It may be more painful but not beneficial to your overall growth. Also, something can be painful and preferred at the same time.
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:24 PM
27

It’s immature and disrespectful to the other person whose time was wasted. I’ll ask you this: would you prefer to be left wondering or be told straight up?
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:03 PM
9

This is the lamest post I’ve read all day lol.
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:28 AM
2

Que?
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:59 PM
1

Don’t bother trying to understand, you’ll just break your head over it lol.
/r/seduction02/03/25 01:30 AM
1

You sound desperate/ weird behavior wise. Leave her alone and don’t act so attached to someone you just met
/r/seduction01/03/25 05:00 PM
3

Drop it and lean in on the 2nd date
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:25 PM
1

You could probably find out if God exists before you ever get a response lol. She saw it and likely knows who you are or asked around about you and said she’ll pass.
/r/seduction26/02/25 11:04 PM
1

Who cares? lol. You took a shot and THAT took massive balls. Just talk to her normally, like she’s one of the homies and don’t expect anything romantic over your conversations either.
/r/seduction26/02/25 10:02 PM
1

Call her. If she feels cold and beats around the bush, leave it and move on.
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:58 PM
3

Sounds like loser talk lol
/r/seduction24/02/25 07:45 PM
1

You’re too nice/ forgiving.
/r/seduction16/02/25 12:30 AM
1

Read or listen to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and do the exercises as well. Don’t try dating until you’re at least halfway through. Edit: also, why are you tripping on a 6/10? lol there’s just so much to unpack with you.
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:15 PM
1

Get over oneitis and work on other women
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:39 PM
4

There's an audio book on YouTube for this book. I wouldn't recommend YouTube for your situation because there's so many conflicting points and so many people repeating the same thing. You're going to be left confused and maybe even feeling worse or stuck. You can't rely on a cliffnotes version of how to better yourself. Asking for shortcuts just says you're not committed to putting in the work.
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:36 PM
7

Yup, can't recommend this book enough. I've read it twice and sometimes still reference it and my notes. OP needs to work on himself before approaching and getting mentally fucked by rejection.
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:33 PM
2

Stop putting them on a pedestal.
/r/seduction25/07/24 01:54 AM
1

Relaxing is a bit of a struggle sometimes lol
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:17 AM
5

Yes. Don't believe the stigma "real men don't cry". Those are the type of dudes you see yelling at their significant others in public lol
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:18 AM
-2

Try hard lol
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:15 AM
10

Expensive Charizard card got lost in a basement flood?
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:11 AM
3

You're fine, bro. One day, it'll be natural.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:54 AM
2

Seriously, he just needs to follow directions and set a date.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:34 AM
0

You can learn charisma.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:31 AM
0

It didn't work for you because you're boring as you said. Lol. Come on, man, there's millions of things to talk about. You don't need to connect with everyone you speak to.
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:21 AM
1

Look everywhere else to approach women as well. Also, it sounds like you're looking for validation in these women. Your confidence needs some work. It needs to be solid.
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:06 PM
4

Dude wrote a thesis on how he overthinks everything. Listen up, you need to work on your self-esteem and calm your dick. If you dated this woman, she will put you in an emotional roller-coaster and you will end up wrapped around her finger. She's making you question your value without even dating her. That's a HUGE red flag on your end.
/r/seduction05/07/24 09:42 PM
6

Flirty office behavior or she's generally playful with no sexual or romantic intention.
/r/seduction05/07/24 09:37 PM
4

There's your first mistake OP. You're thinking YOU should be pulling better than the guy you mention. The guy could be charismatic, positive, self-assured, great communicator, have a huge don't... The list can go on. I sense some low self-esteem so your confidence will take a dip, especially after your observation.
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:12 PM
0

Rinse off your dick immediately after sex and gently squeeze out any left over fluids from the tip. Don't sleep with sucias (hoes).
/r/seduction29/06/24 06:03 PM
2

Oneitis, I feel, comes from insecurity and desperation. Practicing mindfulness and working on some lingering insecurities will help with Oneitis.
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:04 PM
1

Never wine and dine a woman until you know there's something long-term brewing. Take them on simple dates that are cheaper or even free. A quick coffee, a drink at a bar, etc.
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:01 AM
1

Don't ever talk about body count. Redirect the conversation.
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:56 PM
1

Just walk up and talk to them. Stop thinking of perfect ways to approach women and just do it. The more you do it, the more you learn. Create your own style.
/r/seduction20/06/24 10:09 PM
4

Not true, that's an internal issue. Everyone gets rejected, what's important is how you deal with it.
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:03 PM
11

😂😂😂 Bitter AF. It's part of the dating scene my guy. Just because a girl looks at you and smiles doesn't mean she wants you. The more upset you get with rejection the more you show it when approaching women and they can see it.
/r/seduction19/06/24 06:42 PM
19

My hardest one was walking away from a one-sided relationship with someone I really loved. I learned sooooo much about myself and the importance of my own needs/ boundaries and STICKING to them.
/r/seduction18/06/24 02:18 PM
0

All you needed to say was the last paragraph, not write an essay with a mathematical formula for that conclusion lol.
/r/seduction17/06/24 05:33 AM
-2

"git gud" haha, ain't that the truth
/r/seduction17/06/24 05:21 AM
10

She's not that into you. Take the hints and move on to the next one. Don't break your mind trying to figure out why someone sends a boring text or won't respond.
/r/seduction17/06/24 05:20 AM
1

This is a really narrow-minded take. Value is subjective.
/r/seduction16/06/24 06:22 PM
1

Yup, text her as soon as possible.
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:53 PM
2

Don't pressure her or get all clingy. A lot dudes meet a hot girl and get sprung immediately. Gotta act aloof lol. A lot of women come off tougher than they really are, so don't fall for it and do your thing at all times. That is one way a woman gets seduced.
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:48 AM
12

Finish the transition phase of your life before worrying about what women think. Do what you need to do, women will always be around. Also, how frequently are you approaching/trying to date? More rejection= more self doubt if you're not equipped to handle rejection.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:24 AM
2

That's not an invitation for sexual relations.
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:21 PM
1

This is one of those instances where you just fuck around and find out lol. I suggest reading "No More Nice Guy". Excellent book and you can probably find the full audio book on YouTube, I just prefer the book in my hand.
/r/seduction10/06/24 04:04 PM
0

You don't lol. Avoid them, they're their own problem.
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:54 PM
2

Speaking from experience, keep your first dates short. That way you're not sitting around with dead silence. Some girls are shy and some are just plain not interested. Some may even be going on that date for a free meal or drink
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:46 AM
1

Speak with him about seeing each other for a quick meet up during the week (just once a week). Something simple like a quick coffee or really chill that doesn't require a lot of effort to do for an hour or two. If he's already spending the night at your place he may want that space during the week especially this early on. Don't pressure him either, but check his body language and his energy while you're with him. If he doesn't check off your vibe boxes, you might want to end things early before…
/r/seduction09/06/24 08:57 PM
25

Don't chase women, always keep yourself busy. Find a hobby, no matter what it is.
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:05 PM
1

How do you rate your self-esteem and communication skills (keeping a Conversation, charisma, ending a conversation)?
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:39 PM
2

It was meant for him lol, I don't even know why I wrote it that way lol.
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:40 PM
4

No, just become a man for yourself. Women should be the last reason for self-care/improvement.
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:46 PM
1

What if you're still upset at your ex and bump into her on public? How do you handle that situation without coming off as hurt or condescending towards her?
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:03 AM
4

I had an ex like that too, she would then randomly start talking shit to me for no reason every time we spoke so I blocked her lol.
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:02 AM
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