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| 0 | Do you feel like punching a bitch when they use too much tongue? | AxP3 | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:33 PM |
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| 22 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.That's a fine range of sources to draw from, but there's a steep slope of diminishing returns with each, and there's an infinitely expanding amount of content out there. I know way too many lifestyle bros with surface-level knowledge on a thousand topics who haven't the slightest idea on how to get their knowledge to work for them. Learn algebra. Learn geometry. Learn to interpret statistical results. Learn to read and analyze scientific articles. Learn personal finance and investment. Learn and… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 0 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?I'll just whip my dick out and tell them they're making me lose my boner. They'll apologize and be on their way. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:02 AM |
| -5 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?I personally have no patience for plausible deniability. I usually just take them in my car after the date and drive straight to my apartment while talking a bunch of shit and they just comply. If they say something, I might tell them not to worry, I'm just a sex trafficker or some BS that comes to mind. If the vibe is cool, they just laugh and go along with it. If I use an 'excuse,' I might tell her I'll take her to my apartment to watch a movie, but I absolutely don't have sex on the first dat… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:28 AM |
| 9 | How to be DominantYou're giving out too many statements in a short span, so reader comprehension and retention of material will be low. I don't like the narrator perspective. You're speaking of the alpha male as if from afar, but not humanizing the idea. You're starting with take order/not take order as the main idea, but I don't see that very well connecting to the other parts. You have to direct and redirect their attention to the higher perspective you're offering. I'll rewrite your introduction to give you an… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | the red pill absolutely worksI don't hate him. I just find him to be effeminate, and often the opposite of what he preaches. He has an outsider perspective on gender dynamics, but he's never been THE man. Fucking a few means nothing. I'm not even talking about Tate's accomplishments. I'm just talking about his approach with women. You won't get hoes on your side by being rational and arguing, because one topic leads to another, each more zoomed in the microstructure until the entire discussion loses sensibility and they sti… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | the red pill absolutely worksPeople who buy his courses may be the clowns, not him. Go check him on the Freshandfit podcast. Have yet to see Rollo in his element seducing or attracting a woman. Instances I've seen of him close to women is him blushing, being quiet and occasionally combative but backing down after. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | the red pill absolutely worksThank you. I'm happy for you, my man. I wish you the best of luck. My experiences with women have ranged on countless points across the spectrum. The only lesson there was that women are always submissive. It just depends who they're submissive to, be it individual or collective. Cheap tricks temporarily distract, but the mirage crumbles eventually. Being is the answer, not doing. This guy, for example, teaches you to weaponize her imagination by stimulating it. You take his advice, find ways to… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 03:16 PM |
| 4 | the red pill absolutely worksIt's your life, dude. You'll outgrow him, whether sooner or later. It's better sooner. I live the truth. 8 figure net worth, neuroscientific equipment more sophisticated than my country's and on the verge of breakthrough. Rollo scrapes the bottom of male hierarchies and achievement. Lose the false prophets. All you need is the book of Pook and developing your business skills and passions/interests. Anything beyond that and you're just stalling. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | the red pill absolutely worksFever fantasy of a hater lmao I have gone through this shit a long time ago. The manosphere PUA shit only gets you so far. If you want an example of a man, check out Andrew Tate, not a guy who only provides ideas to embitter you. Hypergamy is one of his main selling points, that's why I mentioned it. Rollo has the physiognomy of an incel. Thank God for his glasses and hoodie to help him mask it a bit. He has talked in support of the black pill countless times: "See, there is no “Black Pill” – th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 5 | the red pill absolutely worksBro, Rollo is a borderline incel who turned resentment towards his wife and women in general into books and a career. He can articulate and write well, explains concepts like hypergamy well, but then goes on extreme interpretations based off that to polarize his audience. Yes, hypergamy is real. Does that mean women will dump you without a second thought? No. Women will actually think long and hard before breaking up with a guy they've been with for some time after having given him a thousand ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/22 11:03 PM |
| 14 | the red pill absolutely worksIf I was you, I'd heavily focus on self-development and making money. I hope you've already made some progress on those considering you're 30. That aspergers will at least be an aid in tunnel visioning. I doubt you can become a player, but you can become a serial monogamist and get one woman at a time obsessed with you. You have to be impressive in some ways, have interests that can be attractive and learn to sell your interests. You need to carry across a level of self-importance, not be too as… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Stay In Red Pill RageRage is natural at first, but they stay in that state because they can't wrap their heads around the fact that romantic love is not inherent to human beings. It is a social construct to bolster monogamy, which I'm okay with to some degree. It serves society as a whole, and provides a structure that best nurtures children. Why is it so hard to give romantic love up? They will have to give up the security and comfort that an "eternal love" is supposed to provide them with. They overlook the fact t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Aspire To Become An Alpha Male--Game For BetasEmotional strength is definitely the determining factor. I recently had a girl over. First date. We're hanging out in the living room and start to make out. She had told me she wasn't going to have sex with me that night. I had agreed. I lift her in my arms to take her to my bedroom. She yells at me to put her down. She starts going off on me. I decide to switch my approach, but I just knew I was gonna fuck her. I tell her: "You're a beautiful woman and I was caught up in the moment. I apologize… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 10 | A talk with my mom last night.The guy must have had his problems, but it's naive to lay it all on him. This heart-to-heart with his mother is going to start confusing him more and more. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/21 06:23 AM |
| 34 | A talk with my mom last night.Don't let her fill your head with too much crap. Your father did his part better than most fathers out there. He provided and he was there. Don't be too quick to judgement. She could easily be trying to make herself look good at his expense. Caution is good. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 10 | 1 Approach a DayWhy can I just tell you've never actually had this conversation and are just daydreaming a scenario? What's next? She goes out of the coffee shop, and as a car is about to run her over, you jump in with your superhuman instincts and save her? Dude, believe me, real life is so much simpler than the life you create in your head. I agree this guy's opening approach is low IQ, and only leaves a good impression on depraved women. Women will sense the low IQ from miles away. However, as cringe as it i… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/21 10:34 AM |
| 7 | My Insane 1 Year Muscle Building Journey With SteroidsIf you plateau at 75kg bench while doing everything right, there's a little bitch in your head that's keeping you from truly challenging yourself as a fail safe. If you take steroids as a solution to that, the little bitch has taken over. "When you think you are done, you are into 40% of what your body is capable of doing." - David Goggins Your decision has nothing to do with high risk tolerance. It has to do with low pain tolerance. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/21 01:29 AM |
| -2 | The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutesI don't know what you have against women. You seem like quite a drama queen yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/21 01:17 AM |
| -2 | The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutesIt doesn't matter. Who's going to listen to his stories? His nurse on his death bed? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 9 | The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutesI think what you're doing is a coping mechanism, not a lifestyle. You can't go your entire life fearing half of the population. If you stopped building them up in your head, maybe you could actually see them for what they are. You're already well set financially. You lift. Why do you want to deny yourself the experience of women when it's within reach? Rejection won't break you. You must have learned that in your life by now. Every achievement comes with challenges and rejections along the way. … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 5 | I feel like I woke up at 30. How do we save other men/boys from this fate?Focus on building your life. If you find enough success to be looked up to, boys in need will find you. Otherwise, there are enough preachers already. Words are cheap. People need to experience themselves so they're able to internalize the necessary lessons, not just memorize and have them escape their brain as soon as they're out of their comfort zone. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/21 01:18 PM |
| 2 | A guide to capturing her mind (based on sleeping with ±150 girls)Good post. I do most of these things naturally, but I don't force myself to do things I don't feel like doing for the sake of playing the game or keeping her interested. Go out on a walk and act distant and mysterious when I come back? Nah. Get the fuck out of my apartment. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | I am 28[M] generally successful in life, yet inexperienced guy who needs your adviceFirst of all, stop masturbating. A numb penis is like a dull sword. You can whip it around, but it won't do any damage when it matters. You need to get out of your head. You're a successful guy. Do not be afraid of announcing your desire. It can only be a compliment to a woman. I recommend looking up a few 1 hour speeches from Zan Perrion on youtube. He does an amazing job describing male-to-female dynamics. Tricks and techniques can only get you so far. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Physical Appearance Alterations: Cheating to win - Lets discussEvery guy has to look well-put together. That means working out, eating healthy, being groomed and stylish (you could perhaps go for a few sessions of teeth whitening - it'll make you smile with more confidence, and women love it). I don't see a point beyond this looks-wise. You don't want to be the tool who takes longer to get ready than women and competes with women on who's hotter. Women don't generally prefer guys whose only concern in life is their looks. They might fuck you, but that just … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | After a 5 years relationship and now in the market again, I have to rantYou're probably acting needy, which is what turns them off. Women like a guy who lives a complete life outside of them. What do you have to show about yourself that's interesting? What do you expect out of her? Nodding yes to everything she says tells her you have no standards. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 24 | Onenitis experience - Report or how I fucked myself emotionally and shot myself in the foot.You don't need patience. You need balls to acknowledge the red flags early on, even when they go against your pity feelings. Her mindspace was in an open relationship while you viewed her as a future wife. This only happens to you because you did not confront or leave many red flags ago. The red flags only get worse if you allow them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/21 04:29 PM |
| -16 | LTR Calling me out on dread?Wrong approach. Your response will keep her engaged only for a while. Just think about it. You went out and had an entire night of fun on your own. The bitch dares to make it all about her, and you played to her response. You should have dismissed it altogether. "If I get pathetic enough to want to make you jealous, please dump me and save me from myself." "I get that you're jealous by default. That doesn't make it my problem. It's just a given." "Did I fuck your best friend?" "I had a fun night… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Group of girls from my class hates my gutsIf you're a woman browsing this subreddit, the RP is the least of your problems. You're a femcel. Sort out your priorities - first, you need to lose weight, plastic surgery, wash your hair, learn how to put on make up, decent wardrobe, etc. You get the point. I bet there are thousands of beauty tutorials on Youtube. Watch them instead of lurking around here. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Group of girls from my class hates my gutsDon't be a bitch. You either hurt their feelings, one of them likes you, or they're trying to be a part of your "moment of fame." Now think - if you didn't take their comments personally, would they be funny? If yes, join in on the banter. If not, point that out and make witty comebacks. Still, they're girls. If you attack them, you'll also be attacking your rep, as you'll be seen as the feminine guy that gets in beef with women instead of being the masculine guy who seduces women and approaches… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Any advice dealing with BPD in men?To be honest, that's not the part that scares me. Yes, people can be downright vile, but so can I. Evil comes easy, and I can always give more than I get. In this regard, I don't need to evaluate how truthful others are, but how dependent they are on me. If they're dependent, I can break them and coerce the truth, which is what also tells me I need to be less dependent on others than they are on me. What scares me is forever being stuck scared of myself and my thoughts, unable to move on and giv… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Any advice dealing with BPD in men?Read "The Drama of the Gifted Child." I bet the book will outline your emotions and experiences even better than you can. You have a Narcissistic disturbance, which ranges from Grandiosity to Depression. You can also take LSD or Shrooms. I'm in the same ship as you. I'm not decidedly evil or a bad person, but I tend to be a burden emotionally, and I find it extremely easy to play with others. I lie and manipulate, but I have never been caught lying. Taking mental notes of that alone is enough to… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Got friendzoned, but she doesn't want to get rid of me. Why?Are you settled in your profession? How can you climb up the ladder? Can you build a side income? Do you have enough guy friends who aren't losers? You can learn anything you need about women elsewhere. You don't need her to teach you. She'll just give you a skewed look of things, because she wants to keep you around as an emotional tampon. The second she feels she's losing you, she'll show a tiny bit of affection to get your hopes up and reel you in again. She rejected you. She knows it, and sh… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:51 PM |
| 7 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?It's a shit test. Women aren't that comfortable or public with guys they're thinking of fucking, but ones they friendzone. Still, for me, it's the type of shit test I don't tolerate or let go easily. Here's what I would do: Don't bring it up with her at all. In your mind, demote her to a plate. Don't tell her about it. You don't need to have a conversation where she confirms you're jealous. Let her keep thinking you're exclusive. Act as you would have when she was just one of your plates. Fuck t… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Got friendzoned, but she doesn't want to get rid of me. Why?8 hours? You talk to her on the phone for 8 fucking hours? Bro, it's no wonder you're feminine. Start building a life of improvement and do some hard work, so that you can't afford to talk to someone for 8 hours. I could have 7 wives and I wouldn't talk to them for 8 hours in total. Women draw you into their stupid little worlds, and before you know it, you're excited about the gossip of the day and your bad hair days. Man the fuck up, and stop having your life narrated through a woman. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | How bad is being a garbage man as job in the eyes of woman?It is easier for casual flings, especially if you know how to navigate. As for settling down, it's best to lower your expectations. Aside from this, unless your IQ is lower than 80, there are always ways to find better career options. Further, IQ is not the only problem. Your self-esteem and anxiety might be to blame partially. You could have ADHD. Check yourself for those. If you can't afford doctors or shrinks, look first for resources online. I have a very high IQ but wouldn't be able to hold… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What is a good reason for getting marry?Having kids More responsibility and commitment - a divorce is harder to walk away from, and more stigmatized than a break up. Collective celebration grounded in tradition. As for the divorce rapee testimonials, feel compelled to listen to them only if you're a bitch of a man. If you're masculine and grounded, you will have enough sense to choose the right woman so you won't need to get divorced. Even if you do, she won't divorce rape you because she respects and fears you. Divorce doesn't just h… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 02:39 PM |
| -1 | My LTRs either die in the first 2-3 months or live long enough to have no sexual attraction in them (not even long, 8 months). How do you keep sexual attraction alive when the relationship is good?I started reading and thought this was gonna be interesting. Disappointed. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | In middle school people used to slap me on the back of my neck...now I grew up as pushoverIf you can't fight, then catch one by surprise and knock him out cold. The others will stop fucking with you. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 38 | Eye contact when NOT talking to a girlWhen you're talking to a girl, you feel comfortable maintaining eye contact because you feel you have her permission to look. A stranger intimidates you. Look at it this way. You looking at a woman is an indicator of your desire, an indicator that you find her attractive. A woman takes hours to get ready before she goes out so people find her attractive. Her looking beautiful IS your permission to look at her. Why would she go through the effort of looking her best if she did not want for people… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?I'm talking about 10s. Money comes and goes. An experience with a beautiful woman becomes a bit tainted from that. This is just my opinion. I think you also rob yourself of the gratification of masculinity a bit. If you ask her on a date, it's reasonable for her to assume you cover the bill, at least where I come from. However, I do get that the world has changed. In the US, women work and get paid the same as men. If she has similar earnings as you, it's not sustainable for only you to pay. In … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Plate says I’m too stoic, why?Keep it going. She craves your approval and is seeking assurance. You could have replied with something like: "if you were to dissapoint me, you wouldn't be able to tell." It keeps her on hook, and sends her to search for tells of comfort that aren't even there. Less work for you, more reward. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Emotional dependencyYou're giving him too much strength. If you get a LTR in the future and he meets her, your emotional dependency makes him feel superior enough that he'll act as the superior in front of her, which might end up with him fucking her or her resenting you for being weak. If that doesn't get your blood boiling, get in touch with your masculine self, because it should. A friend is not a brother, and even brothers sometimes suck. Some things it's better to keep for your view only. I hadn't seen a unive… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?Personally, I'd never let a woman pay. If I'm low on money, instead of going somewhere I pay 50/50, I'd take her someplace my 50% is enough to cover the bill. If I wasn't able to afford it in the long run, I'd stick to casual dating instead of a LTR until I'm well-off enough not to have to worry about the small things. However, I'm not from the US. Women here are not as much part of the workforce as they are in the US, so the financial burden falls on men. A bit of tradition and a bit of economi… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | High status vs Low statusDon't expect hot women to approach you even then. It's just that when you approach them, if they know you by association, you get an easier in than you would otherwise and you might have a topic to go on from. From that point on, it's the individual you that's seducing her, not the group. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | High status vs Low statusNo, all women must be sacrificed to the group leader for rain and crops. C'mon dude, of course you can get female attention as long as you're interesting enough. Why are you even thinking in terms of leaders? A few people live their individual lives and occasionally get together to have fun. Why does there have to be a leader? Stop watching high school movies. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?Personally, I wouldn't go for a PHD unless I fully believed my thesis could have a great impact on my field and I'd become a household name in a span of 10 years. It is very little rewarding for most, and most PHDs just seem miserable. Aside from recognition, the pay is shit. You must have a really good reason, or a safety net to fall back on. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 2 | High status vs Low statusUnless you're trying to create a cult in which you're the supreme leader, go with the high status people. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 25 | The Only Way TRP Actually Works - A Story You’ve Heard BeforeA weak man turns a good girl into a hoe. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?Instagram and bars. I come from a small country with a somewhat conservative culture. Women in their early twenties who have slept with more than 5 men are considered hoes, so women on average tend to be more wholesome. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?Most of my dates go like that. Sometimes, 2nd or 3rd date. That doesn't need to be a perfect scenario. If you make it your standard, you'll see what's necessary to work up to it. You always lose some, but who cares? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 5 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?I don't mean getting into a relationship with a hoe from Tinder who comes over to Netflix and chill. Picture it this way. You go on a first date. You take her to a nice place. She initially has her defenses up. She's not used to fucking on the first or second date. You immediately create rapport and tension to which she responds and opens up. The night is over, and you pay the bill. She doesn't want it to end. You invite her to your place to watch a movie, listen to music, open a nice bottle of … | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?Why does sex ruin the something real? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 4 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?What man doesn't want sex on the first date? That's just coping. Create a connection? The connection is made on the first date, and sex can only enforce it. You're just intimidated and want to feel safer with her before you make a move, so you ensure you don't get rejected. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 22 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?I'd rather get a LTR I fuck 3 days in than one who'd make me wait for months (Not that I'd ever wait. Made that mistake once.) The first has genuine attraction, the second is playing power games in which you're losing. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?Is it unfair if you find a 10 hotter than a 6? It's just natural. The attraction is either there from the start or she's settling for security. If she's not a virgin, give her a maximum of 5 dates. Regardless, keep in mind that it's not her fault, it's yours. You can't rationalize your way into sex. You don't have sex within that time-span, you fucked up. Move on and do better next time. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls getting pregnant in their party years?Rollo got pregnant in his party years too, so now he has to overcompensate and live through his readers. It's not like a woman says: "These are my party years. I will only use men as toiler paper." A woman is ready to settle down at any point if she finds the right guy. Rollo gives a vague general picture, but how could he ever get the intricacies of party years while stuck in the basement writing as he secretly resents his wife upstairs? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Do you feel like punching a bitch when they use too much tongue?It could be your mom's clitoris. Save up for her surgery. She raised you, bro. It's time to give back. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:36 PM |
| -1 | Do you feel like punching a bitch when they use too much tongue?I'm pretty sure. A dog's tongue wouldn't be as stiff. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 05:56 PM |
| -1 | Do you feel like punching a bitch when they use too much tongue?No, bro. I need mating advice. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Moving on after 8 year relationship with obese womanGetting rejected stings. Going through life with could/should/might haves is worse. Look up Zan Perrion on YouTube. He'll put things into perspective. There is no need for tricks. You know when you desire a woman. Your body tells you. It's your duty to approach her and let her know you desire her, or as he says, extend an invitation out into the world and leave it there [unapologetically]. No takebacks. No woman will ever shame you because of your desire for her if you don't shame yourself first… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Moving on after 8 year relationship with obese womanShe's moving on because her fertility window closes every day, which means she has absolutely no standards at this point. You have no fertility window. You have standards, even though you've ran away from them since you were a virgin. You can only go up from here. You could go out every night for a year and have drinks thrown at your face by every woman you approach and it'd still be an upgrade. You get free alcohol, at least. I mean, she could be the greatest person on earth, but 90+ kg? Your l… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | how to respond to ltr denying headYou don't need to tell or convince a woman of anything if you get her horny enough. Work on your foreplay. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 08:40 AM |
| 13 | If you go in to kiss a girl and she tells you "I don't kiss on the first date" then pats you on the shoulder, does this mean she's already put you into the beta provider category instead of the alpha?"Too bad, you don't get a second chance." She thinks she has all the power. She's treating you as a pet. Flip the script on her, damage her self-esteem, and cut her loose. Learn from your mistakes so you don't repeat them again. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 6 | What in god's name is FemaleDatingStrategy and why is TheRedPill quarantined but not this clown fiesta of men hating people?As many members here, women can be incels too. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Is LTR Branch Swinging/Cheating or am I paranoid?She is your LTR, you are her plate. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | FOMO on casual sex at its easiest point to get in my life, but I don't know if that's what I wantGo ahead and try it out. It's not just about the sex. It's about the different people and experiences. Why be left wondering years down the road whether you could have or couldn't? | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do married men intensify bachelor men to marry?Losers with deep seated hatred of themselves and their family don't want to reproduce and have their lineage die out. Marriage isn't important. Kids are. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend was banging her landlord in college and he still lives in our town.My thought exactly. She fucked for rent then and she withholds information now, which means she's a slut who isn't in his frame (and never will be). There is no more to it. This dude sounds like he jerked off writing this from his parents' basement. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?I hope you find your peace. No one is worth having nightmares over. It's never too late to back down. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?I hope he at least built a good life otherwise. Sometimes, people get caught up in things, and before you know it, a long time has passed you by. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 13 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?An old man once told me marriage is like a narrow tunnel. Whichever gets in second can never get ahead of the other. This guy still gets night sweats, which makes it hard to believe he is the one with the control. It could be that he just thinks he has the control, and the wife simply got smarter on how she goes about things. You can sooner turn the biggest slut into a subservient housewife than you can a good woman who has cheated on you once. A woman who once cucked you can never see you as yo… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm scared of loud bad guys and I feel more comfortable talking with womenHow can I respect you if I can't trust you? How can I trust you if I know you're willing to disrespect yourself to gain someone's validation? How do you expect to alchemize disrespect for yourself into others' respect for you? If you have no boundaries, no enforced sense of self in interaction with others, you're much more likely to stab me in the back, because you crumble under pressure. No one likes a servile person. The most you can get is pity, but is that a way to live? Speak your mind and … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 04:04 PM |
| 5 | How do you treat your plates?If you lack substance, the more they get to know you, the more their illusion of you as the alpha idea you've created is shattered. This happens because you're not rooted in who you are, but in playing a role that you think is most beneficial. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 22 | Plate of 7 months says she felt “used”I wouldn't meet a woman's parents unless I knew I was going to marry her, but you met a plate's parents? Did her father give you tips on how to casually fuck her brains out once a week? She arranged for you to meet her parents, and you agreed. That's where you mislead her and yourself. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 36 | Friend got plate pregnant helpShe will probably want to keep the baby and raise it by herself. A 34 year old single woman sleeping with 20 year old men.. That kid's life is down the drain already. Your friend doesn't need to get caught up in that mess. He can reach out to the kid when he's like 20 because he has had an epiphany and now suddenly wants the kid in his life, all apologetically. Don't lose hope. He might become the next Eminem, although chances are slim. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 3 | What is the most NUCLEAR SHIT you have heard/said from/to a girl.Woman scary beast | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 16 | What is the most NUCLEAR SHIT you have heard/said from/to a girl.Seemed funny at the time. I chuckled while saying it. As long as you're unapologetic, you get away with just about everything. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 12:59 PM |
| 59 | What is the most NUCLEAR SHIT you have heard/said from/to a girl.She was 25. I was 20. I lied I was 24. After we had sex a couple of rounds, I told her that I lied about my age, and that I'd call her a taxi because a new episode of Dragon Ball had just come out. She lost her shit, started calling me inexperienced. Lo and behold, a week later, she asks to be FWB. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Sex is on a pedestool. I use sex as validation. Advice?It is a form of validation. Prowess. Your biological mission. It's not supposed to be overcome, but embraced. You have to chase your desire, not let it build up. When it builds up, it seems as if everything is at stake, which opens up negative tendencies that make the experience worse. A worse experience then makes you believe chasing your desire is bad, which then leads to letting it build up more. Women don't validate you. It's their beauty that nurtures you. It's your appreciation of beauty t… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to stop thinking about ass?Why do you want to stop thinking about ass? Your mind and body are telling you what you need to be fulfilled going forward. You need to work on fulfilling the need, not wiping it from existence. Next time, don't look at her ass. Engage in eye contact. Don't just focus on her ass, or her nose, or one of her eyes. Take it all in - her as the center of your vision, and the environment around her as your peripheral vision. This roots you into your senses. It'll be a challenge at first. You'll feel a… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut?Because you're willing to fuck her, which is a commitment of sorts. This gives her two options. She either thinks she can reel you in through seduction or she can blame it all on you (so she can avoid being called a slut or admitting to herself she's a slut) while remaining innocent to the world. The fact she enjoyed the ride becomes a secret she does not share with those whose judgement hurts her. Through wilful ignorance and denial, she gets the best of both worlds, until she doesn't anymore a… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Need help getting over guilty feelings for my asshole actions in past LTRThink about it. At some point, she was probably getting her brains fucked at the same time you were feeling guilty and thinking about her. If this has even some slight chance of being true, don’t you think you’re being a retard by not letting go and moving on with your life? Women are only loyal and preoccupied with the next best thing. Her friends trash-talked you enough that you don’t need to do that to yourself. Call it a cycle of life. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many people here fucking during the quarantine? It completely different to the main RedPill subredditIt doesn’t have anything to do with Alpha or Beta. There will be red-pilled and blue-pilled who will break quarantine for pussy. Unless you put on a superhero outfit and lock their dicks in dick cages, there is not much else to do or think about. With this in mind, your post offers nothing of substance particular to this sub or the other. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many people here fucking during the quarantine? It completely different to the main RedPill subredditThese two subs are frequented by more or less the same people. The RP sub is focused on themes; this sub is focused on detail. The RP is about ideas, asktrp is where people have questions about execution of said ideas. It’s obvious that people will talk more about sex on the day-to-day on this sub; you just need more than 2 brain cells to make that connection. Perhaps if you use your brain, you can focus on your own priorities and stop looking at others. You determining who’s Alpha and who’s Bet… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 12:08 PM |
| 2 | TRP advice on a family situationSeduce her. Jokes aside, if your father plans to leave the company to you and your sister when he retires, your sister has valid concerns about losing her share if your new business goes to shit and you lose your father’s company. Why would she take risk without any reward? Make it beneficial to her somehow. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here have a serious mental illness and take medication for it?This is not the place to ask such questions. How would a commenter here know the impairments OCD causes in functioning? If you aren’t functional without medication and see that it incapacitates you from daily routine, weaning off them is destructive. I went through a period of more noticeable depression and anxiety. I was prescribed antidepressants. My mistake was in thinking antidepressants could fix everything, so I did not work in improving myself in my day to day life. In the end, I quit the… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | The times in my life where I had a girl obssessed with me, it's when I'd least expect it and was just acting totally naturally, with all my weird mannerisms and shit. What's the logic in this?Where do you put the line though? What mix of actions between alpha and beta do you do to keep the balance? How do you keep count of each? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Pattern I’m noticing on this sub.I agree. You either didn’t vet her as you should have at the beginning, or lost your frame throughout. It is true that women can sometimes be vile, but it’s better to get hung up on our mistakes and improve them rather than on theirs and lose faith in women entirely. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)You’re correct. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)Exactly. Look at the relationship between what’s true and what’s real. For something to be true, it had to have been real at some point, it had to have happened so it was grounded in reality. The real is what is always flowing and changing. Truth is only small sequences of what is real. For example, it is true you’re a virgin. It is real, because you remain so. HOWEVER, it is also real that there is action you can undertake to get laid. Once you do, virginity is no longer real to you, even thoug… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)Stay true to your words. Follow up on intended action no matter what. The more you do it, the stronger you become. The more you fall for your impulse, the more you convince yourself that you’re weak. It’s a choice, not a puzzle. You want to talk to that girl. Talk to that girl. You want to escalate, escalate. You don’t want to eat an apple, you don’t eat an apple. Your frame is essentially the unity of thought and action. Whatever weird imaginative shit you have going on in your head about yours… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Im missing something, cant seem to put my hands on what exactly (rant, kinda long)You’re missing the balls to admit to yourself and others that you’re a pathetic virgin. You may have a thousand other attributes which make you attractive to women, but as long as you see yourself as a pathetic virgin, she’ll see you as a pathetic virgin. You will have no frame, because you fear being exposed as a virgin. You feel you’re on the defensive so you are not able to right the ship. You’re terrified others could find out and make fun of you. Grow the fuck up. If you got out on the stre… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Why did I have better luck with women when I lived as a degenerate loser?Also be careful not to look for the validation of women whose priorities are fucked. Your previous behaviors were validated by women who themselves are torn and look to escape through momentary pleasure, as you did. Now you don’t, so those women are not of much interest to you, outside of the most casual. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 11:13 AM |
| 15 | Why did I have better luck with women when I lived as a degenerate loser?The reality of your new life hasn’t set in quite yet, because you have not fully replaced your previous behavior with similar behaviors in nature minus the drugs. You’re still that guy, aside from the fact you don’t do drugs. Now you will need to do other things so you can again stumble upon the part of you that’s more into risk, danger and challenge. A woman finds the guy standing at the edge of a 5-story building attractive as she finds the guy who takes her skydiving, because they both expand… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 11 | Why would a girl care if you next her?If you’re fucking women that swing to any branch, that’s on you. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 01:19 PM |
| 27 | Why would a girl care if you next her?This is great. You can only let them run the show if you believe there is a show to be run without you. In most cases, women are scraping the bottom of the barrel, because the men who could have them at any second don’t want most of them. I’ve had female friends over the years and they either stuck it out with men they didn’t ultimately want but think there’s nothing more for them, or they’re left forever chasing a guy who merely ticks a few boxes so they can be somewhat content. The bar is set … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 08:17 AM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of my ego and petty mindset with people?You probably think a lot about other people when you’re alone. Everything seems to relate to them. You feel small and impotent. There is an endless distance between you and those you think of, yet your anger explodes towards them. You know it is fruitless, and only cements your weakness. We’re all alone constantly. We come out to meet others from time to time, but our place in life does not stem from there. It comes from our time alone and how we invested it. You will need time. Just know that e… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of my ego and petty mindset with people?This reads like satire. You complain of the person you used to be and how you’re doing things differently now. What you’re doing now is much better than what you did, and you listed nothing concrete about why it’s bad. Give yourself some credit. You may feel like you’re fake, and that everything can start crumbling down at any second when you’re inevitably exposed as the fraud you are. Life doesn’t work that way. It is a marathon, not a sprint. Few things can happen that can change the entire tr… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 11:13 PM |
| 18 | The Unbearable Femininity of NazismYou took a tangent and ran it through the grinder. There’s confirmation bias all over this post. Given a few hours, I could probably make a post on how nazis are aliens, or that my dick is a tracking device implanted by a secret government living on the dark side of the moon, but to what avail? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Group of friends says I make other females feel uneasy and uncomfortable.He seems like he packs power behind his punch. The women probably complained. It might be you starting to change that threatens them, or you came off too strong trying to act all RP over them. Probably both. At this point, you can either continue to fight for them to accept the new you, or ditch them. If you particularly value them, continue to fight, just be careful of not slipping back to old habits. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:13 PM |
| 4 | GF has old friend that wants to hang out with her alone. How do I approach this?At this point, she’s already convinced she’ll be hanging out with him, so she has crossed the deadline. If you confront her, you’ll be acting from a position of weakness, because she holds the cards to make the ultimate decision. Meet up with some of your old friends, and don’t give her any explanation. You should already mentally check out of this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 10:50 PM |
| 7 | GF has old friend that wants to hang out with her alone. How do I approach this?If you have to ask her not to do something she should know not to do without even bringing it into question, walk away. She has to be trying to mirror your thoughts and matching them, not blatantly disrespect you by going with something she knows blurs the lines. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Would the following mindset be considered toxic and not useful to have?Most of the data you input is irrelevant. How many of the things you think or take into account actually go through someone else’s mind to be able to hold true outside of your own worldview? You can’t predict the future, and you cannot have full control over an interaction with another complex human being whose life differs vastly from yours, yet is just as rich in content. It’s easier to just tune it down and work with what you get. Not all interaction will have the same outcome, but that’s not… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Why being an asshole is necessary while being a leader!You come off as obnoxious yourself though, with your “Biblical values” and the stiff notions of right and wrong. You may be imposing, which is what could make people not like you in the first place that then creates the need to be an asshole. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else uses self-delusion to stay disciplined and win? Never been this focused in my life holy shit.You can throw away everything else and keep the “your word is your bond,” whether it is a word to others or yourself. That’s the part that propels you towards action. You don’t identify with your emotions because you are not your emotions. That’s how it should be. Your emotions are there as an indicator on whether certain things are positive or negative. Sometimes they get in the way, as the hard work you must put in the gym, for example, may give you negative feelings although you know the posi… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 02:48 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys stay so disciplined?That’s a great point. If you can consistently do something which is damaging, you can also do what’s better in the long run, although with a caveat. The first takes time, while the second takes time and effort. If you’re not putting effort (the raw material) day in and day out, expect your mind to take you anywhere but to the real answers. The answers are out there in the world. The product stands to be gained after the conditions have been met. Everything else is just irrelevant mental baggage … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Where did i fuck up my text game !If you do decide to stick with this, don’t come back to this sub after you experience 1 or 2 rejections to ask questions. Let the number build up. You’re in a learning process which you have to witness first-hand, and looking for advice after every rejection might make you think you’ll get there faster, but it’ll only make it more difficult because you’ll be receiving information you’re not ready to understand yet, which will just confuse you further. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Where did i fuck up my text game !Look at your first sentence. How did you come up with it? Was it the first idea that came into your head or the 15th? Go with your gut. Say what comes to your mind first and pretend, at least for the time being until you get it, that she will feel attracted to you no matter what you say. The thing is that ACTING uncaring usually means you try to fabricate it by overthinking what she might perceive as cool or not. Get rid of that hurdle. Say your first thought no matter the result, and keep sayin… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Where did i fuck up my text game !He means you. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Where did i fuck up my text game !You tried to come off as uncaring and way too cool for this dating app and as if you already know whatever she may be up to. You tried to attract her but you ended up making her feel self-conscious or made her realize it’s all an act. Cut the bullshit and get to the purpose of the app. It’s a bit cringe. You start a conversation with a woman by looking down on the platform you’re desperate enough to visit anyway. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | My GF won't have any sex with me after 3 months because I am virgin.Oh God, if you continue this way, you will only be falling further and further into her frame and losing yourself more and more with time. Don’t you see she only wants life on her conditions? She is actively rejecting yours. Also, why would a woman remain single until 27 years old and then look to get in a relationship with a younger guy? She definitely has control issues, which stem from insecurity and neurosis, and you did not do much to set the tone early on. I’d save myself the trouble of in… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearThat’s quite insightful. When you start to be in control, you frame things differently. Instead of the diminishing number being an indicator of your self-worth, it is rather a phase you entered and started to grow out of once you learned the lessons necessary to be able to propel yourself even further, which can only come with time and effort. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearGreat story of ascent. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?It is not shit. It is a pathway. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?Why? Because you have such a high regard for yourself? When your head is in the clouds, your legs aren’t touching the ground. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearThe supply never runs dry. When people understand it doesn’t, it immediately becomes less inspiring and satisfying. You can just tap it at will. What else could then inspire us except for a more challenging pursuit on which we’ll have to work hard towards to achieve? There are few things which are more gratifying than this for a man, and women certainly fall beneath it, although are supplementary. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?You’re applying the thinking that ‘if I allow her to say this to me now, it will get even worse in the future and I will be humiliated.’ This type of thinking should typically be applied to what she does (her actions towards you). It should not be applied towards what she says. Women are quite malleable. Their emotions and their moods are less stable than men’s, which is why their words are not to be taken at face value. She might say a thing and act totally opposite to that. You have to ride ou… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearYeah, that’s what I said. People get too stiff. I like what you said at the end. No numbers are set in concrete. If you’re a guy who makes it work with 1, but would get sidestepped from your goals if you have to juggle with more or have a tendency towards destruction, then go with what fits you. No guru has found (or can find) something exact such as an ideal number, only the important theme. How we work around the important theme is up to us. Be careful on how you ride out a high which is lead … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearBrother, what you wrote truly moved me because it resonates with me deeply, especially the being the opposite of my brother due to things which would have given you solace being out of your control. I have gone through the same hardship. I was the kid with everything I could ever desire, except one thing - being able to talk. I stuttered and I still do sometimes. I used to be (still in some ways am, although now I’m actively working towards them) locked up. I knew the answer to the question the … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?Good approach, my man. Failure does not spell eternal inadequacy, but our inevitable fallibility in life, and subsequently the opportunity to prove through our will that we rise after we fall. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearHow do you define super limited? My father, at the age of 14, drove 350 km and back weekly to buy cables which he could sell for the family to survive. He was accompanied by his paralyzed uncle who could not drive on his own. He fucking put a pillow under his ass to be able to see the road. His mother died when he was an infant. My grandfather had 7 children. My father’s uncle was unable to have children, so my grandfather gave my father to the uncle to raise as his own. He was ridiculed by othe… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 22 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?This is how I see it. Women want a man who is ready to take on the world, and takes things in stride. If you get offended by being called a faggot, it means you’re a bit self-conscious, which is not an indication of the assuredness of the man who does not take the world as seriously as the woman does, because he knows how to play and navigate within it, thus she could hide behind him to protect herself from the cruel and vast world she lives in. If you’re not a faggot, why be insulted by that wh… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?If you get offended by a woman’s playful remarks, you’re weak. It means you’re falling into her frame. I’d have replied with something like: “I might turn hetero after I take those for a ride. You have to impress me first though.” | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearNo. As my third paragraph writes, there is something to garner from the count. It is not something to be taken lightly, as is indicated by OP’s interest in my brother. He is better connected than most people at this point due to his social skills in a good measure. My point is that sex is NOT all there is. Women are not all there is. Fun is not all there is for the man. There is so much more. You sound a bit bitter. In most cases, life is not a sum zero game. If he doesn’t win in the end, it doe… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 10 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearBro, I told you where his experience led to, yet you’re still hung up on the meaningless sex. Nevertheless, I’ll entertain you, although I doubt you’ll gain much insight. It might only accentuate your weaker beliefs, such as ‘you have to be good-looking, you have to be born with it, etc,’ so be wary of that. I’d say he’s at least a 9/10, maybe 10/10 regarding looks. He was a rebellious, charismatic, and very intelligent kid, who by the third grade had a girlfriend in the fifth grade, which is wh… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearHe’s a temperamental guy who’d certainly not appreciate my making him a “case study” to show to the world. I can answer in his spirit, if you’re interested. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 11:37 AM |
| 46 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearHaving sex with many women is a positive thing when it is a byproduct of your lifestyle. Having sex with many women, having set it as a LIFE GOAL during your twenties is idiotic. The next woman you bang won’t make you feel better about yourself. Your real goals and how you move towards them is what determines that. My father always told me that even animals fuck. It’s not as glorified as the hook-up culture makes it out to be. However, after they do, they go about their day and eat grass or what… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Where are the mods? This sub needs to be culled.I instantly lose respect. If you post this, I just assume you’re in a lesbian relationship. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 02:40 AM |
| 2 | An alpha guy gets cheated on before & after weddingFrom what I have witnessed, you can’t be an Alpha if your girlfriend fucks your best friend. You’re a blue-pilled beta cuck who lives in such s delusional world that you never see it coming, although there are always signs. You’ve probably ignored many red flags when you entered the LTR with the whore, you’ve ignored red flags regarding your friend’s loyalty, you’ve ignored escalation that happened between them even when you were present. You can still be blue-pilled and have a successful career… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | My friends gf hitting on meMake it interesting. Assuming you just met her, they must not have been in a relationship for a long time, so the stakes are not as high. A blue-pill is not dissuaded by words, but by obliterating their worldview through disappointment which comes from realizing how they see the world now is simply not enough to cut it. If you’re the type of guy who wants to live not surrounded by blue-pilled betas, you have two choices: convert him or distance yourself from him. The people you surround yourself… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Cry for Help -- life is in shamblesI would need to ask you a few questions to potentially determine how you should proceed forward. I have gone (still am in some sense, as demons always lay dormant until they find the right time to strike) through some lows which even made me lose touch with reality. There is a way back. It is up to us to take responsibility to save ourselves in the end, but the guidance and assurance of another can help lay the grounds. DM me. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 05:45 AM |
| 2 | How to stop myself from getting depressed over girls?Look at it life this. So many things are out of our individual control. With this in mind, there are two ways to approach life: You focus on doing your best, on the PROCESS, and at the end of the day, you’re content with the fact that you gave your utmost. Considering the extenuating circumstance outside of your control, sometimes you succeed, sometimes you fail. You do not take it personal. You know that all there is up to you is to focus on the process to maximize the chances of success, but n… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 07:58 AM |
| 3 | After deleting social media, what’s your take on the chicks who reach out to see where the fuck you’ve been?I’d say something like: “It’s been a while, we should meet soon.” If she doubles down on the soon, I’d say you’re good to go. I am assuming she’s still in a relationship from what you said, and may be going through a rough patch, so strike the iron while it’s hot. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 02:10 AM |
| 5 | After deleting social media, what’s your take on the chicks who reach out to see where the fuck you’ve been?Her being nosey would imply her asking other about you. If she reaches out like this, she is definitely interested. I wouldn’t let the conversation drag too long. Meet her. She might want to be in for a quick one as early on as possible. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 9 | “You don’t get jealous at all”If she wants to make you jealous, she wants to control you. It is especially when she can’t despite trying that her attraction to you rises exponentially (because she understands deep down that she is of so little relevance she could be replaced anytime). She will forever be left chasing what can’t be caught, and that’s what occupies her entire attention. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Cocaine is hell of a drugYep. Cocaine is much more intense, yet much less sustainable. Psychedelics are more of a personal growth type of thing rather than do them before going out on a Friday night. So yeah, it is not the same thing. If it makes you hyper-active (if you also mean in a productivity sense), and there are not too many downsides to it, why do you avoid it? What do you think are the downfalls? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Cocaine is hell of a drugConfidence is a byproduct of one’s own actions and the identity they then shape. No drugs will ever work on a vacuum devoid of life-bettering action. In fact, they make it worse. When you see the ‘artificial’ highs, your regular lows feel even lower. When I say psychedelics are a better alternative, I say so in the context of the exploration and acceptance of self (the sensation of being grounded OP referred to). Of course there are risks to psychedelics, which is why no one should take them wit… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 11:36 AM |
| 22 | Cocaine is hell of a drugBe careful. There is a dangerous appeal to it. I bet most who try it go in with the intention of it being their first and last time. I had the same thought - strive to replicate that confidence while sober (most do); the problem is that coming to that point takes time, while cocaine is accessible and gratifying without putting in the work. I took cocaine for the first time recently just to try it. I did so for a second time a few days later, something I would never have intended when I first tri… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Where to start with Philosophical reading?Sanction - Roman McClay is picking quite the traction in TRP circles lately. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Why should men be like the father-figure type to the woman in the relationship/marriage?It’s biology more than it is culture. Instead of blabbering on about how your take on society (and how it must behave to fit your narrative) is much more superior than the way society behaves, how about you study the actual rules (there’s the sidebar for that) you will never be able to change and strive to become a better overall player within the hierarchy accordingly to reality? I have been there. Playing God and suffocating people with your well-articulated, albeit insufficient, values and th… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Here's Why Many PUA's End Up MiserableThere are always good days and bad days, but the mood and emotions (highs and lows) of a highly successful man differ radically from those of an unsuccessful one who merely seeks female validation through variety. OP did not comment on variety in and of itself. He talked about one’s own call to power and how only that is fulfilling. The successful man can then experience the variety the PUA does, but with a much more solid frame as he does not rely on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/20 07:31 PM |
| 12 | Here's Why Many PUA's End Up MiserableIs the goal to be less miserable than the more miserable people, or to fight your way out of misery? I do not see how he is overthinking. It’s more like you’re underthinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/20 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Here's Why Many PUA's End Up MiserableI agree. It depends on whose hands it is. If a man is not grounded in himself, he will look to perfect his pick-up skills to never experience rejection, because of the fear it will invalidate his worth. Most who flock to PUA fit this description. We all need validation. It doesn’t come magically. If validation does not come from the daily improvement of our self and working towards fulfilling our goals, it will start to come from others, and that’s a slippery slope. If you’re able to pick yourse… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Mega Glossary #1 - The Red PillThe problem is that what comes from your mental point of origin is not always genuinely you (a blue pill has a mental point of origin, yet it is gravely mistaken). It is social conditioning. If there is another way of life (TRP, in this case) which entails the undertaking of a process that increases the probability for a better outcome in the future, then you abandon your current points of origin and adopt the new ones. Being better than others and comparing yourself to others are different thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Mega Glossary #1 - The Red PillThe quoted statement reads as morally relativistic, as in you could go either the Red Pill way or any other throughout your life and still attain the same ends because your personal preferences lead you down that path. I agree with your second paragraph - we all are a work in progress. However, I do not see how you’re addressing the quoted statement in your second paragraph, and it is not for a lack of trying. Be more concise on that. I do not state all the rest of the posts are shit. If they we… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Mega Glossary #1 - The Red Pill“Taking the Red Pill does not mean one is better than than those who took the Blue Pill, Purple Pill, Black Pill or even those who choose to go their own way, it all comes down to personal preferences and choices.” Yes, it does. When it comes to embracing your own nature, you’re always better off embracing vs non-embracing even if it’s your “preference” not to. Yep, this subreddit has gone to shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/20 11:51 AM |
| 4 | How to NOT argue with feminists.Extremely great point. My comment is vague because it tries to address and encapsulate a topic which is broad and older than time. I have to say now that this applies much more to males than females (as read from the first encounter with it). In my opinion, the notion of success between men and women differs greatly. A man is successful through career and outward achievement (outside of himself, family or social circle), while a woman’s definition of success comes from inward achievement (inside… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 04:42 AM |
| 5 | How to NOT argue with feminists.I am not OP, but I see it like this. The second people who are not in control of themselves start talking, there are bits and pieces which give them off. When you first meet people, you want to give off a good image, i.e. leave a good impression. They think it is only up to what they say in a social setting to leave a good impression, but not up to who they are and have been up until that point, which is the biggest mistake people make and overthink. Words are irrelevant. Action is everything. F… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 03:12 AM |
| 64 | How to NOT argue with feminists.It does not matter whether she goes back to who she is. Chances are she will. She does not know anything else. However, he broke a feminist, because it is not about changing her entire worldview eternally; it’s about witnessing their fragility at your presence. It’s quite empowering. What she does out of his presence is in no way relevant to him or his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 92 | How to game women so that they offer proper devotionThe only woman that offers proper devotion is the daughter of a successful man with red pill principles. She has to have been raised into that sort of mindset. If I want to judge a woman with the intention of a LTR, I will look into these things: Who is her father? How does she view her father (does she simply love and respect him because he is lenient or because of what he’s done and craves his approval in her life)? How does her mother view her father? This type of woman usually comes from a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/20 08:37 AM |
| 13 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringIn the human context, considering the evolution of society, navigating the definitions of alpha takes a very complex form. I see the idea of the Alpha in humans to be aligned with Nietzsche’s Übermensch. I found the following texts off of a google search just to give a sort of definition as to what the Übermensch constitutes. “Nietzsche's idea of "the overman" (Ubermensch) is one of the most significant concept in his thinking. ... In other words, an overman has his own values, independent of ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 0 | why you have approach anxiety and fear rejectionI also suffer from depression and anxiety, but I do not agree with you. You may be overthinking it a bit. There is no need to self-soothe. You go in knowing you will be doing your utmost, but sometimes it’ll not be enough. There are no consequences, because you simply get to move on to the other chick, understanding that you are getting better and better with each encounter/experience. You do not rationalize yourself into expanding your comfort zone. You only do that by intimidating action outsi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I don't buy the idea of Eastern European girls' superiorityThat’s what I did, Spank King, but you would have probably seen that if you actually knew how to read. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I don't buy the idea of Eastern European girls' superiorityI come from South-Eastern Europe. I broke up with my girlfriend of three years like 5 months ago. I had suspected she was cheating, so I dumped her. I had to meet with her brother to give him the reason why I broke up with her. Now see, in long-term relationships or marriages, you don’t deal only with your partner, you also deal with her family. It’s a form of accountability. At first, I despised this and thought of it as primitive. We hadn’t even been married or engaged. After stumbling upon TR… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 7 | The tragedy of Mike Thalassitis. Even Chad can kill himselfIn and of itself, making money and getting women is not an achievement with substance which sustains you, especially in becoming famous through a reality show. It is more about how you live in your day-to-day, what you work towards, and becoming better and more powerful every passing day. Pre-fame, this guy probably thought money, women and fame would be the apex of existence. When he reached it, he thought life can't get any better, yet he did not feel any better. There is an underlying essence… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 03:08 AM |
| 7 | As a man, you do not get sympathy, but you can get respect.Great post. I am realizing this day by day. The man cannot rationalize or try to talk his way out of responsibility, no matter the circumstance. He might try to do that, others might even make way for him for a while, but he will be left behind. As civilized as we have become, there is and always will be this lingering call to becoming the unapologetic brute who heads down his own path. Be sensible in mapping out your future. Become the brute when you encounter obstacles along your path. Wisdom … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/20 12:26 PM |
| 15 | The higher HER smv, the more shit tests YOU can expect.I feel you, brother. Almost three years into the relationship, I went through a particularly rough stage of depression. I was talking to my now-ex, and I passingly mention something about our shared aspirations into our future. Bitch laughs in my face, and mockingly says “shared aspirations,” all while I was the one to pay for every social outing, expensive vacations and such. Though I had been doubting being with her, that was truly the beginning of the end. She threw away every female empowerm… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | What Smart Guys Fail to Understand About Beautiful WomenYou are right on the self-development aspect of the post. However, I have my doubts about gaining women’s trust through being her friend first. Why? Because while we, as men, are constantly working towards fulfilling our potential, we embody who we are going to become, and women see that. I am a 23 year-old who still has much to achieve, but in knowing my goals and working towards my goals, I am already them. The mindset is that it’s only a matter of when, not a matter of if. A worthy woman is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/20 02:13 AM |
| -1 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamThat’s scarcity mindset. Why the fuck does the ratio of males-to-females matter? You did not count for fun. Even if unconsciously, you counted so you can rationalize to yourself why you’re not getting as many women as you should be getting, because the world is at fault, not your flawless approach. Get over yourself. You see a good-looking woman, you approach her. You don’t see a good-looking woman, you go on with your life. Then good-looking women come around again. Do not give thought to that … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/20 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamSocial media is not a scam. Social media is about getting the women you may not have an in with otherwise. In this regard, it’s an investment and an art. Most guys’ failure in social media is due to doing the equivalent of ‘cold approach,’ which lacks the presence you have in real life. If you’re not in a girl’s social circle, or acquainted in any way with someone she knows, you have to be extremely good-looking, or rich and have the profile to show for it. My brother describes the process as so… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Pain Over AcceptanceFucking beautiful. The only way to kill the wretched self is to let it witness you in action, doing everything it tries to rationalize you into not doing because it’s threatening. It might break the fragile ego. That’s exactly what it should fucking do. Leave weakness behind, so you can actually live and not “rationalize” your life away - ugly on the inside while you and most people try to convince you that you’re beautiful. A life of mediocrity is so much more terrifying than a life of risk and… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Any exercises to become more grounded (in your own reality, as RSD would say)I am working on it myself. Courage to withstand any consequence as a result of your behavior is the key. You try to be spontaneous and in the moment. Don’t think about what you’re going to say next, or how it will be perceived. You simply say it. If it’s positively received, good for you. It it’s negatively received, you’ll survive. I thought of this example the other day. Let’s say you’re given a multiple-choice quiz with 20 questions. You don’t know any of the answers. Every question has 4 opt… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 12:30 PM |
| 10 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckcervativesThere are more liberals now than conservatives for the same reason there are more blue pilled individuals than red pilled individuals. It is easier to blame your shortcomings unto the world rather than unto yourself. A true conservative is relentless, ruthless, and accountable. He takes charge of his own fate. Liberals are virtue-signaling creatures who will draw every like-minded person who seeks to blame his shortcomings upon the structure of society, his decided place in life, which we easily… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Don't Talk about Fight Club (Or, Most Men Aren't Ready and Ask Men is a Blue Pill Infested Cesspit)Most people posting for advice on reddit are already set on a course of action, so they will filter out any advice that does not coincide with their already decided-upon path because they’d have to put in more effort. I see this every day. They don’t really want advice. They want to get affirmation on the wonderful person they already are so they feel better about themselves. Even if they want to give a shot to another approach, they want to feel as if they arrived to that off their own volition… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | How to get rid of limiting beliefs if they are true?Limiting beliefs are a frame you set for yourself through which you see the world. You are afraid of taking action, getting rejected, and becoming better over time, so it’s easier to find a reason you’re like this, however unjustifiable. You say it’s harder for non-white men to find women. To what extent? 5%? 10%? 90%? It is something you would never be able to determine, which is why you throw it out of the equation completely and only focus on things that are in your control. I’ll bet you had … | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasFirst paragraph you say “the president could’ve not been nice about it, so WATCH OUT.” In the second paragraph, you state it’s all about soft power. So what’s the watching out for, really? We’re not in the medieval period, but it’s not all about soft power and social skills. You do this to a guy in front of his girlfriend in an everyday situation, and I bet, given he’s not a wimp, he will resort to aggression if you’re relentless. It’s just that this situation had no nuance of aggression given t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasYou’re correct on one thing. There’s so many ways to answer and still maintain the Alpha status. Passive-aggressive threat? Really? A threat is a statement of intention. Obama and the guy are crystal clear that a playful situation like this could never culminate to aggression, because the President is untouchable, but also wouldn’t stoop as low as touching the guy. How is he butt-hurt and vengeful if everyone here came back home with a funny story? Just because Obama signified Alpha behavior her… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betasHe took his frame and made it his own. Look at his comments. First, he playfully acts as if he embarrassed him, which by his cool demeanor signifies the opposite to the woman. Then, he banters about how she’ll go talk to her friends about HIM, and how Mike is such a fool. Then, he says she was mortified because of Obama’s presence, which, all in all, show the woman how much revolved around him he views her to be. Then, he goes to her, gives her a kiss and hugs her. I mean, he was the POTUS, whic… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 01:12 AM |
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