Axan100 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Need some Advice/ Support	Axan100	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/21 07:24 PM
7	Housing Issue	Axan100	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/22 09:32 PM
6	Marital Home and Assets Issues	Axan100	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/21 02:09 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	STBXW just dropped the news on me I was in the precisely exact same situation you were in at the same age a couple years ago. And I wish I had someone, even an internet stranger, to give me a couple golden pointers, so here they are. Take it for what it’s worth. When a woman you have been married to for one year goes from happy to “I want a divorce” in that short amount of time, you give it to her. The moment she said that is the moment you are no longer her husband, just a business partner in a bad business deal gone wrong. Pro…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/22 06:55 PM
7	Well, it happened to me boys. I know it sucks right now, trust me I know, but here are some silver linings to consider, which you absolutely should pay attention to right now for your mental health: 1. Depending on what state you live in, You dodged the 10 year Alimony bullet. You will thank whatever God you pray to that this happened now, and not two years from now, leaving you in a way worse situation financially. 2. Seems like you don’t have any kids. Another blessing. My lawyer said it best when I was going through my di…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/22 06:45 PM
3	Lessons Learned If her parents are far too excited to give her away to you in marriage, and constantly push the issue, just run. There is a very specific reason for their constant pushing for marriage, and becoming free of being "responsible" for her, and its not a good one.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/22 01:55 PM
2	If you were cheated on in your marriage what were the signs your wife/ex wife gave before you found out. Did we marry the same person? Idk how old you are but get out right now, with haste. Run silent and run deep, tell her absolutely nothing until you have that dissolution of marriage paperwork in hand, and have a solid lawyer in your corner. Oh by the way, yes, she is cheating on you. Married women don’t stay out until 3AM without their husband unless they are having an affair. Plain and simple.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/22 01:05 PM
2	Advice to a 28 y.o male? Family and friend pressure to marry is beginning I got married at 23, right out of college, to a girl I knew for 5 years. I could have sworn i knew this woman better than the back of my hand. We bought a brand new house together, bought her a new truck, got a dog together, the whole 9 yards. Quite literally had the American dream in our young 20s. I went on a short month long mission with the National Guard. I came back to the “I’m not happy anymore” speech, then found out a week later that she had a boyfriend who was a coworker at her hospita…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/22 10:40 AM
26	If you are newly separated, please heed this advice. 4 months out, here are my biggest regrets and the best things I've learned. In my personal experience, #4 (the pick me dance) was the most self depreciating and humiliating thing I ever did, and ever will do. My ex helped me cut that shit out by inviting the other dude into our house and bedroom while I was at work, where I caught both of them and summarily ended the pick-me dance and started divorce proceedings. If you’re reading this post, for the love of God, when your wife cheats on you in any capacity just walk the hell away and maintain your dignity and self respe…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/22 12:17 PM
3	Marital Home and Assets Issues Couple of variables answered to make this more clear. 1.) she words full time, makes $80k a year, same as me. 2.) we bought the house after we got married and have only owned it for a year. 3.) we paid the mortgage together out of a joint account until I left and split said account down the middle, 50/50. 4.) We have no children. (Thank Christ)	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/21 02:56 AM
3	Need some Advice/ Support No kids, thank God. And this has just made me nervous to ever do this again. Just felt like I had to share my story for others on this sub so they know this can happen at any age and for sometimes no reason at all.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/21 02:20 AM
3	Need some Advice/ Support I should have been more clear, we acquired all of that stuff before she cheated. Like over the 9 months, I gave her all of that because it’s what she wanted. I didn’t give her anything after I found out.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/21 08:49 PM