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AxeJawn/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 12:29 PM
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AxeJawn/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 01:38 AM
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You are correct, but eventually there will be enough cash value to throttle back to a lower paying, low stress job. Right now, I am killing myself in a high stress job to pay everything for everyone and have majority custody even thought it’s 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 02:43 AM
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I started a whole life policy for myself when I was 23. I think the money I save going forward, post-divorce, I will overfund the policy and withdraw the cash value tax free later in life so that I show no income.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 02:34 AM
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Fair points
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 02:26 AM
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So you truly became a 1099? I don’t know this is a solution for me but appreciate you sharing a different view
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 02:09 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 02:06 AM
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Amen to that, Brother.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 12:26 AM
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I am trying to avoid luck and make it happen on my own terms. I think the answer is whole life insurance
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 08:05 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I guess it is what it is. Keep quiet and not be flashy with new earnings.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 04:13 PM
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Ha!
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 03:09 PM
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Couldn’t agree more and for that very reason, I am looking to be as low key as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 01:25 PM
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I love this. Thank you for the insight and feedback
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 09:17 PM
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Almost verbatim the same situation here. The STBXW wants all the same marital arrangements except for the MAN who got it all done. You are not alone, Brother. I stand with you in that this behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated. You and I will forever carry the guilt of loving someone with more than we ever knew we could while they planned their exit. I have no words to describe this feeling. Wishing you peace and true happiness for the rest of days.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 08:06 PM
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Dear Friend, please please please slow down. What you are contemplating only makes things worse for your boys. And I know you are not the kind of Man who would want to see your boys get hurt. We love you, Brother. Stay with us.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 08:34 PM
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Well done, Sir.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 02:34 AM
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I needed this one. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/25 06:12 PM
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And there it is….”personal accountability”. Nothing more to say after that. There is no accountability in some women today. Only entitlement.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 07:39 PM
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That is an amazing breakdown. Jesus, that was sobering to read!
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 02:43 PM
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Dude. We have the exact same situation. Happy to talk through things and where my head is at as well as how I navigating things. Only if you think it would be helpful. Let me know!
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 01:34 AM
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Love this last paragraph. I need that. Thanks for sharing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 01:14 AM
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My Friend, the issues from my wife’s childhood given her parent’s divorce and mental Illness in high school was brought into our marriage. It was never dealt with fully and has now ruined the marriage. Grant it, I brought my own junk in but apparently, I am just one of those Nice Guys who try to make everyone happy. Kudos to you for recognizing past trauma and hopefully you are able to get out in front of it before it gets to a really bad spot. Only question is, does she want to and is she willi…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 01:10 AM
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I love this. It’s my exact situation only I am in the early days. Thank you for sharing, gives me great hope!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 04:47 AM
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This is real guidance and much needed confidence that I was, honestly, lacking. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 03:19 PM
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Very helpful, thank you so much. Right now, given her guilt of being the one to end this, she is amicable and believing we can be level-headed and agree on terms. We shall see what she has up her sleeve.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 01:58 PM
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