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| 8 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?And for every tall woman who likes short men there's 100 tall women who likes tall men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 11:07 PM |
| -1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?To me it's a really easy thing to do, and it means a lot for the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to birth rates, "improved parental leave policies" is a red herring. The nations with the best parental leave policies have the lowest birth rates.I think it's pretty established that industrialization and women working leads to a decreased birth rate. First it's about not needing spare babies in case a few dies during childhood, and in poor countries you rely on your kids to take care of you when you're older. I don't really agree with your facts that the countries with the best parental leave has the "lowest birthrates". Yes they're still below replacement and compared to a country like Chad, which has a fertility rate of 5.75 births per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Should cosmetic surgery be encouraged more for men struggling to meet the physical attractiveness threshold with women?If there was good cosmetic surgeries for men people would do them more. Hair transplants are relatively common and you can get good results with that. Dental implant are also widely used by people who need it and can afford it. You can't really do surgery for muscle, but in bodybuilding and male modelling using PED is extremely common. Like many big actors use PEDs to get in shape for roles in movies. It's very clear from their results that it's not natural gains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:36 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attractI've definitely talked to women like this, and it's really annoying. It's like they've lost the ability to generalize. If 90% of people are one way, it's okay to say that everyone is like that. It's understood that it's an approximation and not literally every person is like that. Like "Humans have two arms and two legs", in that statement I don't give a shit about people who've lost an limb, it's not important to include them. Imo it's some women wanting to be super inclusive of everyone, to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 07:06 AM |
| 6 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?I don't understand, you think saying there's no physical differences between men and women to be absurd. But then you question the neurological differences are actually real. Clearly the answer to both of these questions is the same. Like, a person who is physically bigger would also need more calories to sustain themselves. It makes sense that the person who needs more calories would also be hungry more often and feel and urge to eat more. Hunger is something 100% neurological, regulated by the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 16 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?We're talking about today though. Nobody is arguing about feminism is 1848. Maybe it was worth it to invade Afghanistan in 2001 to get bin laden, but after he was killed in 2011, you run out of stuff to actually do, so you invent new problems to solve. That's what we're talking about here. The last item on your list was in 1974, I'm sure you would be able to come up with a few more recent ones if you tried. But what big feminist milestone will happen in 2022? If the goal is really equality and n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 7 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenAll innocent civilians are victims of here, including the women and children as well as the men. This is what I keep thinking, I really don't know enough about the country to know how things work there, but I'd imagine there's a lot of people who don't like the Taliban, men and women and who's lives will get a lot worse under Taliban rule. "Paradise for men, hellscape for women" sounds like something that only exists in people's imagination. If you don't follow the rules, you're likely get punis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"It also helped plummet birth rates to catastrophic levels. What is a rich a prosperous society if nobody is making babies and 100 years later you're headed straight for societal collapse? It seems very egotistical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"The Red Pill crowd often seems to idealize the traditional society, but they have yet to prove that these societies are better than equality. Why should they have to prove that it's better when patriarchal societies is the norm across cultures and history? It works, it's on to you to prove that the alternative is better than the convention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.When you're old enough you need someone to wipe your ass for you, and there's nobody around to wipe your ass, it's a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doYou're not predicting shit though, at least that's not the entirety of it. Also where did this "from day 0" come from? You just added that out of nowhere. In the moment you can still just try shit and see they respond. Eventually you'll hit something which does it for them. You can very accurately gauge if someone is having fun or not, and you still don't depend on them telling you exactly what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Women are way more guilty of the things they accuse men of than men are.Oh yeah, and ants are just violent as white sharks. I actually watched a documentary on ant recently and they're brutal as fuck, they'll go to war with nearby colonies, they will team up like 8 ants on one and after cracking their carapace they will inject acid to melt the internal organs of their victim. Once they're dead they'll carry them back to their nest and eat them. Still, a shark can just like bite your entire arm off in one chomp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.I really hate this sentiment. It's the same people who are like anti consumerism and just want to live in the forest as a hippy. Today buying things is bad for the environment, having kids is bad for the environment, but guess what breathing is bad for the environment as well. The natural conclusion to that sentiment is that you should just kill yourself for the environment, that gets you the lowest CO2 impact possible. It's really dumb actually. Like your CO2 per captia in the US is 16 metric t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:04 AM |
| 0 | If you want equality like equal domestic responsibility, then you should want equal financial responsibility in the relationshipI kinda like this point about equal effort. I'm not sure if I agree that 1 hour = 1 effort though. Work smarter, not harder. I don't think working 40 hours as a janitor or security guard is equal effort to working 40 hours as a lawyer or engineer. There's a reason the first two earn around $30k while the last two earn around $100k. Being an engineer requires A LOT more effort than being a janitor. Translating this to house work, certain types of house work require more effort than other. Like sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.People really need to stop fooling themselves. It's a tough world out there. You can still be happy about what you do have instead of focusing what you don't have. Why should people praise you for looking like a landlocked whale? It's disgusting, it's unhealthy, you can't be as active, and probably there's mental issues underlying. Frankly nobody cares about you in public, random people on the street aren't your friend and don't care if they hurt your feelings, you're blocking the street. They d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The term "Alpha" is offensive to me. Saying it about me is not taken as a compliment but as objectifying, patronizing and demeaning.This is some beta shit, alpha is literally just the first letter of the Greek alphabet, same thing really as calling someone number one, a winner, or on the A team Everyone knows Team A is better than Team B. I can't really be bothered going into this argument since you literally compared a letter of the Greek alphabet to the N word. However, yeah there's no "immutable hierarchy" in humans, because we're complex creatures we can handle more complex social structures that depend on the situation.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consentWe're still talking about reading body language here right? If she looks good, assume she's good. If she looks uncomfortable, either ask or just stop. It's not that difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Okay, so I get why people were stay at home wife "unemployed" in the past. Washing clothes used to be a huge task before washing machines. Now you got roombas, washing machines, dishwashers what the hell would your wife even do home all day? Sit around a be unemployed? Spend 5 minutes per day tapping on a screen to order food? I get that when you have kids they need a lot of time and attention, but kids grow up. Here you get 390 days of parental leave with 75% of your original income per child, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Results from the CDC's Youth Sexual Risk SurveyMake new antibiotics and treatments with science instead of going back to the stone age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Should guys get vasectomies until they are ready to have kids ?Yeah, I'm pretty sure this is the entire issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Are you willing to happily sacrifice your career in order to support your more successful wife?Personally I wouldn't care if the woman makes more. I make $120k, they make $250k, big fucking deal. Most of the wealth will come from assets anyway. You sit on your ass with a $2.5 million portfolio growing 10% per year and this somehow gets you out of actually putting any effort into the family? That shit have to be equal priority. First of all I don't really care if the bank account is growing by $150k or $300k every year, it doesn't make that much of a difference. But to make a monetary argu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do men and women wear different clothes and rather than wearing the same clothes and what femimine clothing items could become commonplace for men to wear in the future? And what about all other gendered products?If men wanted dresses manufacturers and stores would stock dresses made for men in the men section. It's a free market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Do some of you actually not care if a guy has hobbiesI mean, what is the qualification for hobby here? Is everything productive automatically not a hobby anymore? It seems like most things you can either start getting productive and make money doing, or put in no effort and just slack off doing. Like is building bitcoin miners, building websites/apps, freelance graphic design, youtube channel, gym, research/learning, stock trading, investing, home renovating is that all work or a hobby? At the time you have unproductive stuff like social media, wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Why would a woman lie about their n-count to her partner if "insecure", "misogynistic" men are the only ones who, in her view, would care about a high n count in the first place?"You can't weed me out if I weed you out first." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Do Men actually want women to take the lead when it comes to dating?How does this make sense with the world's largest automaker in the world currently not spending any money on advertising? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/20 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Men should be nicer to slutsListen, I get your point about just wanting to be treated with the same respect they treat everyone else they interact with. If they started talking to some random on the subway they would probably be very polite, even if they don't care about the person. Now this random person is in your house, that person would get the same "What are you still doing here? Get the fuck out." Pushing away people who have gotten to close is a pretty standard thing. Being rude and mean is a effective way of doing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Liberal Feminism is as whole good for every man who is even slighly above average looksLook at birth rates though. Japan Spain Clearly isn't working out very well since you need 2.1 for the human race to survive. Also the age pyramid takes a while to adjust. But it's getting pretty serious already, Spain Japan In the last 10 years from 22% of the population being +65 years to 28%, that's a staggering increase. I don't know if it's bad for men in particular, but a "free choice" to be with someone or to be single looks pretty bad for humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Women are 1,000x more sensitive than men to economic status cues when rating attractivenessAny dumbass can start their own business and come up with some unnecessary idea. I don't think most people really give a shit nowadays about that. By education I would assume we're talking a proper education in something worthwhile and actual useful, high value in the real marketplace. ie STEM + med, econ, law. You can educate yourself on your own personal interests, but you will never have the status and respect of someone actually educated in a field. Look at like Bill Gates, he's a bit of a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to dating"Just be yourself" does not mean "Stop putting in effort." You want to be yourself at your best, not yourself when you just don't give a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on video: "What men find 'honorable,' women find disgusting."You can have plenty of options without flirting with more women at the same time. Not looking like you have options would be like, "I won two tickets to a concert, please come with me." Vs, "I was thinking of going to this concert with a friend, but do you want to come instead?" Really, that friend could just a homie of yours. It's the fact that she would actually have to put in some effort to take you up on that. It's just conveying that like, If you're gonna play some hard to get game, I'm jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be given a PS5 or be taken out on an expensive dinner?Are they really in the same price bracket? Are we talking a $500 dinner? Seems like a bit of a waste of money, but spending $500 on dinners is vastly superior to Playstation 5, kinda obviously for me. There's limited opportunity going out to dinner, requires effort and commitment. You can order a PlayStation yourself super easily. You spend all your money buying tons of PlayStations. There's limited amount of money to be spent on dinners, max out the dinners, then buy the one PlayStation, let th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 11:11 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how society is meant to be declining?In a way, yes. But we're using our resources in a unsustainable way regardless how many people there are. Really, I would say we need more people and more engineers working on making the world sustainable. Once everything is sustainable, we make like airplane engines, food farming, everything 10% more efficient, and we can sustain 10% more people. More people to make things even better, to support more people. There's also plenty resources on Mars nobody is using. Population grow should keep up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Why are modern women still unhappy?I think if you actually look at how humans evolved, men and women shared a lot of the same tasks. Men are stronger, women have kids, but in a tribe of 30 people, it doesn't make any sense to lock half of them to a specific task. When constantly on the move as a hunter gatherer you would want flexibility, everyone can just do what's needed. If there's berries to be picked, trapping small animals, hunting larger animals, caring for injured, sick, children. If some dude gets injured and have to sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 08:56 AM |
| 5 | We don't need to solve the relations between the genders.How can you say this now? This feels like a really bad time to say we don't depend on each other in society. Yeah we like individualism and freedom. But one virus comes along and shows us how interconnected everything is. What happens to one person in society affects us all. If more people get sick, everyone pulls together and become more careful, wear masks, lock down non essential businesses. If it's not for "we" who are you wearing a mask for? It's not like anyone under like 50 is in any real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?That is what makes sense to me, like "You are the master of your destiny". There is some thing that can be said about like, if you're happy about what shows up at your doorstep then you don't really need to go elsewhere to look for something better. You can get stuck in some loop of always looking for better, at some point it's good enough. If that's what shows up at your doorstep, I guess ok. Hypocritical in some way yeah, for every approach, one person is going to be approached. If everyone ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 09:40 AM |
| 6 | Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableIt wasn't really meant as the cliche "everyone has their own subjective opinion about what's attractive" Really just "How attractive do you need to be?" being subjective. Being rich means having a lot of money, how much? Is rich having $10k, $100k, $1 million, $1 billion? That's subjective. You could frame OPs title as "Every rich person will have their own private island by 2030" Exactly how rich are we talking here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?Population growth in Chad, Uganda, DR Congo, Pakistan is unsustainable. Population decline in South Korea, Spain, Italy, Japan, Canada, Norway, United States, China, Russia, Brazil is unsustainable. But you realize even if overpopulation is a problem, if everyone just stops having babies, there are no more humans born. Then in 40 years the species, and 2 million years to evolution would be completely wiped out and extinct. What happens in the future is unknown. Also the interesting part of that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 18 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?It's obviously easier to sit on your ass and wait for everything to come to you. If some fucks are out there actually putting in effort and taking the good stuff before it trickles down to you, that's a huge threat to your entire way of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 13 | Discussion: Do people put enough effort into targeting the types of people they want as partners?Send unpersonal, generic shit resume to every job you find? -> Zero interviews. Go to career fares, specialize resume to stand out, focus on jobs you're actually qualified for -> Many interviews. It's not that complicated dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 71 | Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableI mean, you already solved this in your post. Every attractive young woman Attractive is subjective. The average salary across the world is $1,480 a month, or $250/week. How dense can you be to think that every woman would earn $1,000 a week on Onlyfans? You can't run a world economy on Onlyfans subscriptions. On Twitch there's 45k partnered streamers, who have more than 75 viewers on average when they stream. Yeah sure, the 45k most attractive young women will all have Onlyfans accounts in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 15 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?What is this boomer nonsense? Or do you live in like sub-Saharan Africa? The entire western world is struggling with a growing inverted population pyramid, aging population and unsustainable population decline. Most countries populations are a time bomb right now. "More than 20 countries, including Italy, Japan, Poland, Portugal, South Korea, Spain and Thailand, will see their numbers diminish by at least half by the year 2100" The Earth will be home to 8.8 billion people in 2100, two billion fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 12:51 PM |
| 4 | How picky should you be when picking a life partner?I don't think you need to be very picky really. Making a evolutionary argument, throughout human history and across most cultures and societies today serial monogamy is the norm. For the most part pair bonding, raise a child, if partner dies or sucks go find a new one. In the last 10,000 years we've started living in more complex societies with a lot of people around, but the first archaic human evolved 2 million years ago, first homo sapiens about 300,000 years ago. If you time traveled and sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Do y’all like women?I dunno, I kinda like how women tend to not really talk as deep about interests and things, and can be a bit more superficial and talk more about people. Talking to other guys can sometimes get a bit cringey with how much they talk about things. If I want to know about a thing, I can look it up myself, don't need to have a conversation with another person to do that. We all know the things dude, we don't have to repeat knowledge to each other. Talking about someone's thoughts, feelings, ideas ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Why is the fact that men make up most suicides/homicides/occupational injuries reason for concern, but men making up most violent crime and pedophilia not reason for concern?I guess you could say that everyone already thinks as men as way more violent and rapey than women, it's not really news to anyone. Not as many think of men as more hurt by mental health, homicides, lifelong injury compared to women? Obviously both behaviors is really the same thing with more impulsive and higher risk taking from like testosterone and stuff, but if you're gonna acknowledge the rapey part of that evolutionary trait, you should really acknowledge the part that deserve some sympath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyI don't really know what track your on here, but I do think there's something to that accomplishment thing. 10,000 years ago it would go something like this "Hey, I banged two rocks together and now rock pointy" "Wow dude, you genius, we use pointy rock to hunt animal." Nowadays, to do something that Society actually considers an accomplishment, and not random stuff you consider personal accomplishment, nobody really cares if you banged a few chicks, worked at a Amazon warehouse, rent your own a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"I mean, then it worked, no? Did you actually consider all the flavors or was it just too much choice so you just picked one thing that's always good, first thing that stuck out to you? Maybe blueberry cheesecake is really good if you had the chance to try it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 07:56 AM |
| 14 | Online Dating has Changed Approaching and Women's Standards "in Real Life"Choice overload is definitely a thing, Pick your favorite flavor out of these, https://i.pinimg.com/originals/77/31/0b/77310b543bee1a880220e01d8cff393a.jpg Then do the same again for this, Then pick again from this, Either you'll get stuck just picking chocolate, or you'll just fucking pick something random. Most probably won't be even bothered reading all the flavors in the last one, just pick something. You're gonna use some tactics to eliminate things down to a handful of options. More choice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | The amount of risk and investment a woman puts into the dating process is the same she will into a relationship.Alright sure, I guess that's fair. From my previous example, if the store has something I'm happy I'd just go with that and not waste my time looking elsewhere that does make sense. There's still some level of, putting in more effort to seek out more options, like going to a bigger store or just waiting for door salesmen to knock on your door to sell you stuff. I guess just living normal life and not really going out of your way is enough for you to find a man you're happy with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 07:49 AM |
| 4 | The amount of risk and investment a woman puts into the dating process is the same she will into a relationship.I don't get this, why would you take whatever shows up on your doorstep, instead of actually going out and seeking what you want? I mean, I'll go to the local store and check if they have what I want. If they don't have something that would fit my wants, I wouldn't just buy the best closest thing they have, because fuck it, it's what's on offer. I would actually go out of my way to figure out how to find what I want and like order it off Amazon, some other site. The random stuff I pick up at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?It's "I want to have sex with you, just not right now" vs "I don't want to have sex with you". Angry and upset would be temporary things and you need a moment to cool down and reflect on, maybe together. If you're angry for a long extended period, I mean, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with that person then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Are we on the verge of a Thot Market Crash?I don't see how anyone could say OnlyFans is any different from Youtube, Twitch, Instagram, movie actor, sport athlete. It's all the same, performing in front of people for money, or just performing because it's fun. Really biggest reason people always complaining that Twitch, Youtube, OnlyFans isn't real jobs, just think people are making way too much money too easy, and kinda wish they had the talent to do something like that. Sport athlete is a very saturated market, a lot of people want to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?Well, I guess pointless was a bad word to use, since that implies there is no purpose. It's more everything you could ever do will all ultimately be destroyed by the heat death of the universe, and it makes no difference, it will all just be nullified by death anyway. The absurd part is that you can choose to find meaning in the transient, even knowing it's all ultimately for nothing. So it would be you who determines what is "pointless" and what is "meaningful", and it's you who determine what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?Even if it's toxic, that doesn't really change the fact that most of fish IS farmed today. https://www.aquaculturealliance.org/blog/what-is-aquaculture-why-do-we-need-it/ Even if it's toxic, buying fish today means most likely eating farmed fish. That is how fish is made today, like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?What do you mean? You just have machines and robots do that? Why the hell do you need to catch fish in the freezing waters of Alaska, it's 2020 dude. Almost all fish today is farmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?That's Absurdism though, nihilism just says no meaning, no inherent meaning, no pursuit of mening, no point in mening. Absurdism is you can find joy and meaning in one's own life, but the only "resolution" is in eventual annihilation by death. Finding mening in something completely pointless is the absurd part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:25 PM |
| -1 | CMV: All men are misogynists. Read the full text before posting.Ok, I'm with you if you change one thing. If instead of it being in men's nature to use violence, laws, forced social structures, ect, to control women. Instead men just do all those things to women, because they can. You're trying to make an evolutionary argument, but you only go back like 3,000 years, for as long as human civilizations has existed. That period is kinda irrelevant for evolution, we wouldn't be adapted for life in those situations it's still all just brand new. Even agriculture … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Couples should not have kids until they've been married for a few years and have made sure their marriage is completely stable.Mostly just social safety nets. Paid parental leave, healthcare, free education (university as well), Child benefits, extensive youth programs. 55% of single parents here have their kids every other week. Here you get $140/month with 1 child, $300/month if you have 2 kids. A kid is like $170k a pop, that covers at least $30k of it. 480 days of paid parental leave and the government pays 90% your salary, with a cap if you have a salary higher than 54k, that's another $64k in benefits if you have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Couples should not have kids until they've been married for a few years and have made sure their marriage is completely stable.Birth rates are a catastrophe every except sub-Saharan Africa. If we want any future generations, people really need to start cranking out more babies. Being even more picky only really leads to our extinction. Instead of telling parents to be more careful having kids, why not make it easier and more stable for people to have kids in less than super ideal conditions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?So in theory, I'm thinking there must be some ways your bodies fit best when the woman is 6 inch shorter, but there's also gotta be different things you can do best when they're both the same height, likewise some things only really work if the woman is 6 inches taller than the man. What makes you so sure the things that work when the woman is 6 inches shorter is better than when the woman is 6 inches taller? There's gotta be some deeper thinking in that, like OP was talking about. Although, I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 08:04 AM |
| 23 | Is Gen-Z's dating and sex problem actually just caused by them not having many friends or much of a social life?Like I remember even when I started high school, this wasn't that long ago, like 7-10 years ago. We had some field trip thing to visit popular landmarks in our city and navigate to them by ourselves in groups of like 2-3 students. We didn't know where the fuck the "Great Church of some random dude" was, our like second generation iPod couldn't tell us. Some rich kid had an iPhone 3G, the first generation with an built in compass, it was near useless though, ran out of battery right away. The onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Studies are for people with no practical real-world instincts, and there aren't as many of them as you thinkI mean, I think you're right. I'm pretty sure there's studies that say humanities studies are generally of worse quality than most other fields, their reproducibility sucks. https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-018-06075-z The team found a statistically significant effect in the same direction as was observed in the original study, for 13 of the 21 papers. But the strength of the effect was often smaller than what was originally reported: by about 50%, on average. https://www.nature.com/news/1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Men are inherently born with no value, and need to demonstrate value to women and society.If you want a slightly a slightly different spin on this, it would be that men have to work way harder to demonstrate their value. As a fetus I think regardless of sex, nobody thinks you're that important. It's legal to abort a fetus and they don't have any rights, it's pretty clear we don't put much that value in a fetus. I think there should be a distinction between current value and future value though. I doubt a lot of people would consider a one year old a valuable member of society. But ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Men are inherently born with no value, and need to demonstrate value to women and society.Connecting this to the original point, even if men have to prove their value in society, it doesn't get logged in a universal book everyone keeps track of. When meeting someone new that value still has to be communicated to the other person. If a client walks into a meeting to 10 men sitting around a table, they still have to figure out, which one here is actually in charge or holds the most power? So they can focus their attention on who can pull the most strings for them. If that person happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the billPeople can be trusted to take responsibility for their own actions, you don't really need external consequences. I know the way of thinking you described is a convenient way to justify treating others like shit when it benefits you, but it's really not how the world or people works. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/27/OECD_incarceration_rates_by_country.gif If you impose artificial consequences and hardships and generally treat someone like shit for doing something bad or even aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the billMaybe not likely, but if you fuck them over for it, then the chance is zero. We want as many people as possible to contribute to society, so why not try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the billDo we have to do this whole thing with punishing people for stupid fucking mistakes? Can the government just pay for the kid? The kid will get a better upbringing and get a better education, the dude who fucked up and actually live to do something with his life and maybe contribute to society. Regardless how this kid came to be, maybe he got left at the border control by some immigrants, investing in this child and making him a valuable member of society will benefit everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on women who decide they want to go childless?I think we're mostly on the same track. There is a limited amount of resources. But you're really looking at it as zero-sum while I see it way more like non-zero-sum. Yes the total resources on earth is limited and completely zero-sum, but regardless if we're using all of them or not ( I don't really think most of Russia's land area is being used effectively for example), it doesn't really matter. The limited resources we do have can always be used more effectively, by having scientist and engin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on women who decide they want to go childless?How are we going to transition to renewable energy without any new engineers to build it? Building and driving an electric car for 10 years releases the same amount of emissions as just driving a normal combustion car for 3 years. Just driving an EV with home solar is near zero emissions. Building an electric car is not easy. We're still in the middle of solving the batteries and getting rid of expensive, exploitative minerals like cobalt and to some extent nickel out of the batteries and replac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Is being nice equal being weak?late 13c., "foolish, ignorant, frivolous, senseless," from Old French nice (12c.) "careless, clumsy; weak; poor, needy; simple, stupid, silly, foolish," from Latin nescius "ignorant, unaware," literally "not-knowing," from ne- "not" (from PIE root *ne- "not") + stem of scire "to know" (see science). So like, someone that doesn't know they're being taken advantaged of, or pretends like nothing is wrong, even though someone is clearly exploiting them. Or also acting friendly, doing favors because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How would radical life extension affect dating?Society will be so fundamentally different in 40 years, you really have no context for what people living to be 500 would even do. Like are we talking for people living on Earth or on Mars? On Mars it would probably be great, because colonist can live longer and it would make it easier and faster to populate the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on women who decide they want to go childless?We're actually heading right for societal collapse. In the majority of the world we need to be pumping up those numbers. https://www.bbc.com/news/health-53409521 Countries like Japan are fucked and at real risk of societal collapse over the next 100 years due to underpopulation. Unless you live in Sub-Saharan Africa, you should be concerned about this risk, because there could be no people left to care for you when you're older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between having a height preference and having a weight preference?Ok, so lets look at the reasons for why people find these traits attractive. People don't just prefer lean and tall people "because it looks nice", there is some underlying reason for why we think being lean looks nice. Historically, way back, being overweight was very prestigious. In a place where food is scarce, showing everyone that you have access to a lot of food and can eat like a king, that's showing social status. Simple peasants wouldn't be able to eat that much, this guy being the size… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Men would not hold that Marilyn Monroe quote in such contempt if women were consistent about following it.I don't think the quote itself it that bad, it's just the people who tend to use it and the behavior they try to push using that quote. Being accepting of someone's flaws in a relationship is something most people tend to do. Taking this for granted is first of all a bit exploitative, but it also sounds like someone could purposely try to be as terrible as possible and still want people to accept them. If your worst crosses the line, then you're out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 09:17 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women do not truly loveI think you're just confusing what narcissism is dude. Narcissism is classified as possessing at least five of the following nine criteria, * Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g. exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements). * Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love. * Believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women do not truly loveI don't really even see what the problem is. Of course everything is ultimately always about you yourself feeling good. If your brain stops firing, you don't exist anymore. You need to exist to care about other people. Everything can be routed back to your own interests. You want to make a man feel loved by me, because him feeling loved makes you feel good. You could dig deeper and say, that you know when he feels loved he is more likely to do more favors for you in the future, therefore you kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | If a woman's value decreases with age and n count, how is hypergamy possible.I don't know how true these two things are in actual reality, there's probably some element of truth to it, but not at all that simple. Still, don't you see how 1. would start becoming a natural reaction to 2? A man following 1 will counter the behavior of a woman following 2. If having multiple partners is seen as worse, there won't any better options to jump to, since every jump will decrease the quality of future partners. Being really careful and picking 1 good partner from the start, would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 08:36 AM |
| 0 | Why are men bothered that they wouldn't be a woman's first choice?The thinking is, as I understand it. The dumb high school jocks is who she's actually always wanted. She's just with some "beta bucks" out of necessity. Given the opportunity she would go right back. They are worried about cheating. And yes, it definitely sounds like a inferiority complex to me, but that's what most of the guys like that struggle with. They've been sexually inferior their entire life, so is it really surprising? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Juggling men/women is a shameful practiceWell dude, you still have 100 profiles to swipe between, that's still picking between 100 people, you aren't treating each profile as an individual, learn to associate their name with their face. Just quick cognitive biases to make a decision yes/no swipe. Next day you swipe through another 100 profiles. Point is, for most of human existence, those initial 100 profiles would have been all potential mates you encounter over your entire life. You would think way differently about it if that was th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Juggling men/women is a shameful practiceSo... Then you have the next problem of societal collapse due to aging population and low fertility rates. South Korea is at 1.05 births per woman, it's insanely low, they will be gone in no time. We need 2.1 to continue existing. US is down to 1.77 from 2.12 in 2007. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I think actually most primates are into polygamy and all that. Sleep around so much you don't know who's baby is who and force all the males to protect all the babies. Our society is definitely structured around monogamy. We don't have tribes that can take care of the tribes children anymore, two people team and care for a child. The problem of potential taking care of someone else child is also solved by having genetic testing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 21 | Juggling men/women is a shameful practiceOur brain is evolved while living in social groups of 100-150 people max. That's been the largest groups of humans for most of the last 200,000 years. You should be able to find a partner to have kids with out of 150 random people. That's what the brain always have been trained to do. You can have some social connection to all of them, like remember names, ect. Explore your options within this group, maybe narrow is down to 1-5 people to pick between. Really, just 20 years ago most people just m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 07:40 AM |
| 0 | When picking a mate, selecting for genetics is actually a more "long-term" approach than selecting for resources/stabilityPeople who deliberately choose to be childless are scum of the Earth. Dependant on future generations to keep them alive when they get older while contributing nothing to that generation, all the while watching our civilization die out. Have you seen the fertility numbers most Western countries? It's real fucking bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Women might not necessarily have it easier on dating apps; here's whyIt's kinda weird how you become more invested in teammates you get matched with by a random matchmaker for a game than potential matches or most matches on Tinder. If you're healer turns out to be garbage, you usually give him a chance, even if it's just a slim chance he'll be able to do it. If he kills everyone, it's often easier to just try again and maybe give him some advice then successfully kicking him and finding a new healer. If someone disconnects waiting around 5 minutes for them to re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: Women might not necessarily have it easier on dating apps; here's whyYeah, I'm not a fan of Match group owning Tinder, Match.com, Meetic, OkCupid, Hinge, PlentyOfFish, OurTime basically having a monopoly on OLD. The only dating app in the top 5 apps not owned by Match Group is Grindr, and well, that's not for everyone. They pretty much just buy every competitor. Each app is meant to fill it's own specific niche, but can't help to think they influence how these apps are run so they all kinda align with Match's overall business and philosophy. It's the network effe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Do women lie more than men?bald-faced lie Big lie Blue lie Bluff Bullshit Cover-up Defamation Deflect Disinformation Exaggeration Fake news Fib Fraud A half-truth An honest lie Jocose lies Lie-to-children Lying by omission Lying in trade Memory hole Minimization Mutual deceit Noble lie Pathological lying Perjury Polite lie Puffery Speaking with a forked tongue Weasel word White lie It's all forms of deceptions and really all in the same category. Men and women may prefer slightly different flavors of deception for their p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 4 | Do women lie more than men?Isn't that just called lying by omission? "the failure to correct pre- existing misconceptions" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?So someone has all that but wants 3 kids and you're out? I dunno, doesn't really seem like a open mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?There's some upper limit where it's just a point of no return, but I went from 160 lb to 205 lb to 150 lb in the span of like 1.5 year (medications). If you have the mind losing the actual weight is very easy, you really just eat less. Discarding someone for something that's like 6 months - 1 year work seems harsh. If someone makes no money but has 1 year of work left on their degree, most people seem fine with that. It's definitely a con, but it's not like permanent and there could be other thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 13 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?That puts you as severely underweight. Kinda fucked up. I don't even know why you would want someone to be a walking corpse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:23 PM |
| 3 | The difference between a girlfriend/boyfriend and a friend is NOT just sex.You are kinda right in that, if everyone accepts you as king, you will be the king. It doesn't even have to be everyone, just a large enough majority to silence out all the dissenters. However if only one person says that, you're not really a king. I do think it's really the exact same thing that applies to what is or isn't a relationship. This is kinda starting to dig deep in language, but words have a accepted meaning to people. For two people to say that they are bf/gf and in a relationship a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | The difference between a girlfriend/boyfriend and a friend is NOT just sex.I can call you my king, doesn't make it so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I just think that's something you have to deal with. Personality and like actually having done something or are doing with your life isn't everything, it all kinda have to be presentable as well. Nobody is like "just ugly", there's things you can do to at least improve how you look, both long term and short term. Likewise, nobody is "just poor", but telling someone that's dirt poor to "just get rich" is kinda of similar to telling someone ugly looking to "just become attractive". Point is, most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | The lack of sexual equality between men and women proves gender equality is a fantasyI think I get how people want gender equality to work now. I'm gonna ignore like 90% of this post and just post this quote from the recent Supreme court ruling on the Civil Rights Act. In Los Angeles Dept. of Water and Power, an employer required women to make larger pension fund contributions than men. The employer sought to justify its disparate treatment on the ground that women tend to live longer than men, and thus are likely to receive more from the pension fund over time. By everyone’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you guys think men naturally on a biological level are more prone to loneliness?Wouldn't be that men are just ignored then? They aren't shamed, they aren't praised, they just kinda exist and nobody gives a shit. Hence why they're more lonely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you guys think men naturally on a biological level are more prone to loneliness?Men will compete about anything among themselves as well. Literally anything can become a competition. Women just seem to do a lot more comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyThat ratio I think is a lot more nuanced, My university is required to publish all their numbers for genders and stuff, I think you can figure out most of the Swedish, but number of new undergrads each year with total applicants on the right. Women in light blue and men in dark blue, https://i.imgur.com/DeF6f7O.png Like 50/50. The application process is also purely based on high school grades or standardize testing, the highest grade people just get accepted first and the education itself is fre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyHow is other types of examination handled? Like in almost all my courses there's also in person lab work (not during covid), assignments and project work. Often it's all just pass/fail, but even if you get an A on the exam a professor that really hates you can just fail you on some assignments and make you retake the course. In my first year all examination was anonymised, then I transferred credits to another university where they just do everything normally. The whole anonymization thing just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 11:01 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyIn middle and high school for sure, you have a way closer relationship with your teacher. You can start to second-guess a lot of their decisions if you know they just generally dislike you for doing something in class and feel like the testing isn't fair. Like in English I got an A on the standardized testing, but my final grade was B, that is bullshit. However in uni you're already pretty anonymous in a class of 60 with 1 person grading the exams. He won't know anyone's name, is he really gonna… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 10:53 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyI think kids just realize pretty quickly that women have to be treated more "princesses" like all on their own. When playing you can't hit a woman as hard, they are weaker and have to be treated more carefully. In PE fitness tests they get the same grades for slower run times and lifting less weight, requirements are just overall lower. It seems like a pretty natural thing to develop some level of this mentality. You're really just talking about segmenting the special treatment to only certain c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 12:38 AM |
| -4 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyI've had anonymous grading for some of my exams (which was the entire grade). Really just a pain in the ass, I have to remember some random number to put on my exam instead of my name, sign another piece of paper with the same number when I just want to be writing my physics exam. Plus, this girl in my class still got a higher grade than me, so what's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 12:20 AM |
| 8 | I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining womenYou understand society influences people to become MGTOW/incel or attention whores/Instagram models right? You aren't born an attention whore. If you can get paid $50/month from being a Instagram model, who cares. Anyone being to start making $1000/month from putting a few pictures online? I mean, that's not bad. Get paid $10k/month for no effort? Everyone would be a Instagram model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.I mean, I can totally see it. I think anyone can fall into the same trap really, if you have 50 people all trying to talk to you that's impossible for anyone to deal with. You need a quick way to filter that down to something manageable, 2-5 choices you can deal with, picking between 50 different unique options is impossible. Overchoice and Analysis paralysis are real things in psychology, Asking someone to consider all of those 50 people is exactly the scenario that triggers this, First, people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:32 AM |
| 0 | The level of student debt a girl has should be more prominently considered by men when choosing a girl to commit to.I dunno, picking women by their datasheet sounds even worse. Debt : $70,000 Intelligence [IQ] : WAIS-IV 107 Verbal Comprehension, 94 Perceptual Reasoning, 87 Working Memory, 109 Processing Speed Personality : ESTJ Income : $22,500/year Education : Associate degree, Graphic Design Religion : Pragmatic Atheism Political Affiliation : Democrat Like you're deciding on a partner, not a car. A child will run you about $285k each, why does 70k debt even matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 02:39 PM |
| -5 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)Female billionaire Male billionaire? Male nurse Female nurse? There's a lot of nuance you're completely removing when you just swap the genders... If you want a perfectly constructed example or where it could matter, "AITA for telling my roommate he's weak after not being able to lift 30kg?" "AITA for telling my roommate she's weak after not being able to lift 30kg?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 04:31 PM |
| -7 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)A man bench press 300 kg. A woman bench press 300 kg. You don't understand how a 1:1 copied post where you just change the gender makes it into a completely different situation? Like it's the differences between an extremely impressive powerlifter and literally smashing the world record with near superhuman performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 0 | If you view yourself as a prize, you're a narcissist.Just because you're the top percentile in everything doesn't make you prize and others should be thankful of you blessing them with your presence. Even if you literally get rated nr. 1 in a magazine of top 100 attractive people, I still wouldn't care if you're gonna be a dick about it, I'd rather just go with whoever is second on the list. Know your worth, don't get let yourself get bullied around by people who don't appreciate you, but even if you were the highest value person ever, it doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Is “man up” and “grow the fuck up” the same? If so, how?I mean, kids aren't born men, they grow up to become one. If you're not a man (and have a penis) it's implied you're a child. Telling some to grow up implies they're acting like a child and that they should grow up and become a man. "Man up" maybe implies more comradery, as in you know the person can do it they just need to try more, like "Listen up", "shape up", "straighten up". "Grow up" is a lot more condescending, because growing takes time and it's something they would have to do on their o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill was a response to an unbalanced dating market in favor of women. R/ Female Dating Strategy serves to swing it back in their favorEveryone who actually falls for the FDS stuff just gets called a simp now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do people(YOU) ghosts?Would you just straight up ignore and walk past someone asking for like directions? Over the internet it's a lot easier to ask 1,000 different people for directions all at once. It would be impossible to be a decent human being to all of them, but I think you should at least try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do people(YOU) ghosts?To be a decent human being? If someone went through the effort of asking you something in real life, you wouldn't just ignore them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 8 | Why do women value careers so highly?Have kids, just so those kids can have kids and those kids have more kids. That just seems like being slave to evolution, where's the endgame? If the next generation isn't better than the previous, then what's the point? If the next iPhone is exactly the same as the previous one, with no improvements, it's useless. With a career you can try and make the next generation a little bit better than the current one, that generation will make another slightly better generation, until we eventually take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | What types of women struggle the most with relationships?Sounds like textbook narcissism, from that comment alone, all these probably apply, Magical thinking: Narcissists see themselves as perfect, using distortion and illusion known as magical thinking. They also use projection to "dump" shame onto others Arrogance: A narcissist who is feeling deflated may "reinflate" their sense of self-importance by diminishing, debasing, or degrading somebody else Envy: A narcissist may secure a sense of superiority in the face of another person's ability by using… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 11:06 PM |
| 7 | Using Male disposability to men's advantageWhat is your endgame here? What are you hoping to accomplish with all this? Just to have more sex? That seems kinda pointless. I'll tell you one thing, if you treat women disposable, they will only start to treat you as even more disposable. I don't really care if people view me as disposable, I still wouldn't treat people like that, mostly just for my own psyche. I think you also kinda know this, because you say all these things like you want to believe them, but don't actually believe them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?How many people are you bringing to third dates? Fuck anyone you think is worth committing to. I mean going to 100 3rd dates and fucking 100 people in a year is probably both just as bad. For men getting a 3rd date is a pretty rare and special occurrence, if a girl shows up and says "oh you're my 15:00? This is my 3rd, 3rd date today" that's the type of people guys who don't want high n-count are trying to filter out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority."All women are different" So it's impossible to know what's okay and it's better to just stay away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.Mike Pence rule | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Imagine how easy dating would be if average/ugly people stopped chasing attractive people.This whole "He used for me sex and broke my heart" is pretty interesting since at least to me it's a new thing that's been gaining a lot of popularity lately. I just see it as a consequence of how the direction men have been moving in recent years, ie redpill. I really have no idea where this will lead and where things will eventually settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Women who have surpassed childbearing age should be eliminated from society.Insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think texting makes women more angry towards men than talking in person / on call?You can't have an argument or back and fourth over text. It's too hard to express yourself properly and it's just impossible to read into their response because they could seem angry but just be busy with no time to talk. If you say something over text which starts an argument, either they write a long text explaining their side, you write a long message explaining your side and leave it that. Or just leave it until you meet in person. Kinda why people can be ruder in texts. 1. Is that they aren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] It doesn't take years of lifting for men to have an attractive body.Pretty much the same, went from 200 pounds to 135 lb to 150 lb in the span of like 18 months. I'll bet you anyone that says this post is bragging haven't tried seriously going to the gym for more than a couple months. Going to the gym 2-3 times/week for a year gets you a good looking body in no time. That said, Women definitely don't understand the dedication and time it takes to get an amazing body from lifting. The first year is like a freebie, easy quick gains for relatively little effort. Go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 01:31 PM |
| 10 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.Agency is the capacity of individuals to act independently and to make their own free choices. Our agency is limited by social structures like social class, religion, gender, ethnicity, ability, customs. But hopefully we have some level of agency left and even if all men should be fighting each other to compete for respect... We could just choose to not do that. In ‘goal directed action’ an agent implements a kind of direct control or guidance over their own behavior. Because we have agency we c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.Yeah, there's some bad words being used here when talking about evolution. by design. - as in evolution have found that printing a few extra males is beneficial for our survival. And now with, used for - I don't really know what "for women" means in a evolutionary perspective, "women can be used to produce males... for men". Like what? All it is, is evolution has found that having men fill a more expandable role is overall beneficial to society. Evolution has adapted to this by making men less r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.I would like to think that people have some kind of agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio In humans, the natural ratio between males and females at birth is slightly biased towards the male sex, being estimated to be about 1.06 males/per female born. The sex ratio for the entire world population is 101 males to 100 females (2018 est.). Since you need 1 man and 1 woman to make a baby, with 106 males born per 100 women, those 6 males are expendable by design. The fact that the overall sex ratio the population is 101 males to 100 females kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 01:28 PM |
| 26 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.Well that's part of it. It's men who's given women all the power in dating by being so fucking thirsty. If you have a hundred people swarming you, trying to chat you up, then that's way too much to deal with for anyone and you need to filter things down to a manageable handful of people. The best way to do that is by increasing your standards and immediately discard anyone who doesn't meet the standards. I think the point is men is at fault from giving all this power in dating to women, and wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women who believe they're with a High Value Man, what value does he bring you?Why are you getting so defensive instead of just owning it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be ok with this discussion of a violent assault if the genders were reversed?A man beating a woman in boxing is not news or noteworthy, a woman beating a man in high level boxing is very noteworthy. Reversing the genders just turns it into a completely different situation that has nothing to do with why the original story was noteworthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be ok with this discussion of a violent assault if the genders were reversed?"reverse the genders" is not even an argument... Like, "wow, a woman just beat a well known heavyweight boxer in a match, that's amazing!" "Well, reverse the genders and nobody would care" This is not like some clever thing to point out or an argument you're making. You would have to go deeper to actually make an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Men don't like feminine women, they like feminine LOOKING women with "masculine" energyWell there's a lot of other jobs that are also undervalued, like pilots. The training takes forever, long periods away from home, highly skilled and technical job with 100+ lives on their hands every day and extremely high demand. Their salary is kinda undercut because a lot of people just dream of flying planes and will take the job regardless of what they get paid. More money can make a shit job "worth it" but how much the job is intrinsically worth to you. Like if you choose to take a $50k jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you react if your boyfriend lied to you about his financial situation?So is framing and the implication important here? Saying you're broke means you're insolvent and just unable to pay. If you just replace broke with another phrase like "I don't want to spend money on this", "I don't think it's worth the money", "waste of money", 'afford' also has some ambiguity, so are those things fine? Or does that just mean he doesn't respect you enough to actually spend money on stuff (even though he could), and basically be the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Women Don't Make Men Wait for SexThat's how I read it, "Women, listen up, stop with this shit." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity.How is making fun of someone's looks and making fun of someone's aesthetics different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Men don't like average women, despite what they say. Men are irritated by the very existence of average women because they don't fit men's standards of femininity.how they look and, aesthetics and poor taste, is not the same thing? aesthetics, perceptible things look, to see, behold You have bad taste and so pick a look with shit aesthetics and people mock you for it? What is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | At what point do people need to be accountable for their faults?Why are people so terrified of making mistakes? Some dude has a real awkward conversation with a girl, so what. What is he liable to be called to account for? What is he supposed to make up for, to explain, justify. Same thing with having been a flat-earther, why should I have to explain myself and be at fault for having been led to believe something stupid? We're all victim of circumstance to some degree, really I just think holding people accountable for their failures and flaws is kinda point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 07:24 PM |
| 0 | What the research paper says about "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"Well, now we know that anyone who cites this study have absolutely no idea what they're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Do you think these 2 male tv host have a point with women not wanting to "date down"?Maybe it depends on how you see it, But my point was, black people weren't happy with slavery and wanted change. White people at the time kinda liked having slaves do all the cotton picking for them. Just because black wanted a change in their role, White people would be forced to change their roles too. White people don't want to change their roles, and no one can force them, not having slaves to do all the work anymore would be a huge inconvenience. To anyone that's big into the whole women's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 10:03 PM |
| -1 | Do you think these 2 male tv host have a point with women not wanting to "date down"?This is a really, really bad argument. Try replacing men with white people, and women with black people, during slavery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?Conscription works fine here, that checks a few of the things you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?I think most people who wish for Sharia law or whatever women hating, white supremacy ideology they've bought into, is not actually what they want, neither would they stop being frustrated with society if everything they wished for just happened to come true overnight. They are frustrated because they're outcasts and been treated badly by society. Whatever they say they want is mostly just an outlet of their frustration, in order to be able take all the complex reasons of why their life is a fai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?I don't think it's a good idea to just discard some percentage of society for any reason. Piss them off too much and they can really fuck things up for everyone. 9/11 was caused by 19 people with box cutters, that's how much damage a handful of pissed off individuals can cause. I wouldn't put responsibility on any single person to deal with these people, but as a society it's in our best interest to help these people out so we won't have to deal with the consequences. In Japan they've long had a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Women are just as horny as men. It's just that women don't show this to low value men.Yes, neuroplasticity is a big thing and how we are raised and what society expects from us play a big role in our behavior. The underlying needs may be similar but men I think will always express a higher sex drive due to testosterone. There's been a lot of research on what testosterone does and that like if there's a woman watching a male do skateboard tricks they will attempt higher risk tricks and their testosterone levels will increase versus if a man is watching them. In general it just red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Women arent too demanding and dont have high expectations, its about lots of men wanting something only a few women are willing to offer.Except it's not 50/50. It's 48.5% / 51.5% at birth since 1.06 males born per female. Men die younger so in your mid 30's it's around even and at like 85 it's 2:1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.I'm thinking something more like this, https://fitnessvolt.com/2019-olympia-results-bodybuilding/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Can women fill the productive void left by men?WWII has shown us just how easily men are replaceable. Plus a higher ratio of men are born after a period of war. In the USSR 27 million people (men) died with a total population of 170 million. 33% of men gone and it didn't really effect that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?Diversity hires, most companies want female executives and a good gender ratio, mostly to good look on paper and good in the media. Any time a woman fucks up on her job people will jump to her being unqualified and a diversity hire. Instantly dismissed and not taken seriously, yet holding a important role, on paper. There's no real defense either, because there's a lot of people who did get their job or were promoted only because they're a woman, to keep good gender ratios in the company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or soYou see the same person every day, you aren't challenged as much compared to someone who has to constantly meet new people, change their habits and adapt to new relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 01:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or soWhy do you need a toy catch capable of being launched, projectile style into a concrete wall without damage? If it's a toy for toddlers, then it only needs to be strong enough to survive everything a toddler can do to be virtually indestructible for all practical purposes. If you think of all the possible age gap relationships, 25-30, 30-50, 50-75, 18-25 then most of them we consider fine. So in general people don't have a problem with age gaps. If you take that toy and put it in a hydraulic pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 08:50 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or soThere's so much research in this area and currently being done. Here's one paper I found just now, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3622463/ We review evidence which suggests that engagement in an environment that requires sustained cognitive effort may facilitate cognitive function. Ie if you make an effort to challenge yourself and learn new things even as you get older then you can reduce the decline in brain function with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.Exactly, for most people, if they have access to food it's not something you spend your life thinking, or even caring about. This doesn't mean having access to food isn't significant, obviously it is, but you just move on to other higher needs. This actually pretty perfectly follows Maslow's hierarchy of needs also usually shown as a pyramid of needs. Food would be part of physiological needs, Sex would fall in Love/Social belonging as the third category. From what I've seen in this thread many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 12:01 AM |
| 13 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.Does food make you happy? Probably not a ton, but try going without food for a week and you'd realize how significant it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out.It depends on how confident you are in the response. If you have 3 bodyguards escorting you then you don't really care if someone tries to attack you, it's just a dumb idea on their part. You would assume that they can see the 3 huge bodyguards next to you and figure out that it will end badly for them if they try to jump you, and just not do it. during, maybe not to the same effect. This is probably not the case in US but at least here if you steal something under $100 you just get a fine, if s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out.Behavior influences your thoughts and your thoughts influences your feelings. This is kinda the entire point of CBT. You can't change your feelings, but you can change the way you choose to think about things, which will overtime change your behavior and feelings. You know, you're usually attracted to someone who you associate with a bunch of positive traits and few negative traits. But who's the person that's actually in charge of deciding what's a positive and what's a negative trait? You sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out.I mean, we have laws in our society that ensures people who break the law get punished. If we want to remove as far as possible from other people, take for example when you walk into a store and buy some random pharmaceutical then you can feel safe that your aspirin, or whatever is not spiked with LSD. If there was no regulations or laws to stop people from mixing random shit in with the aspirin then I doubt you would feel as safe taking it. So just knowing that if someone fucks with you, they'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | HuffPost ... it’s only “sexual harassment” if it’s done to women, silly 😝Societal norms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 10:21 PM |
| 10 | As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"?Weight is such a temporary thing though, you can screw up your perfect health or lose most of your fat in 6 months (unless you're like omega obese), all it takes is a shit ton of effort and will power. If someone is super dedicated, has an iron will and done lots of cool stuff, I don't really if they're fat or not. However for a lot of fat people it's really obvious to tell they just don't give a fuck about their body, life, ambitions and completely lacks self control. Just sayin, if you can sni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you want to get laid, don't go into stemYou're thinking of STEMM, which is a completely irrelevant term nobody uses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: How long could you go without being in contact with your partner?Exactly, if you're going to the Amazon (the rainforest) and there's no cell reception then of course I wouldn't expect you to contact me, go do your thing. But I know for a fact you won't be sitting studying for 10 days straight without playing on your phone or relaxing for a couple hours once in a while. Oh you have time to talk to me, you just don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How long could you go without being in contact with your partner?The thing is, yes school comes first and like skipping out on an exam to go on a weekend trip or something, I wouldn't even think was a serious question. But, sitting locked up for 5-10 days won't bring you the best results. You will get better results and have higher productivity if you make time and go to the gym and exercise at least one of those days. Not having time to at least talk to you is just in their head, it's not reality, they think that's what they need to do, but it's really not t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Swedish sex survey seems to confirm RP basic conceptsThey had a chart that kinda looked at that as well, https://i.imgur.com/A5cTSsy.png Percentage of people who have searched for a sexual partner over the internet, smartphone, apps For age bracket 16-29 (f/m) Yes once (5/8) / Yes, several times ( 9/21) / Yes, regularly (0/3) / No (85/68) This was data was from 2017 so it may have changed a bit since then, but not a ton. Search interest was like 50-60% of 5 year peak in 2017, in 2019 it peaked and interest has stayed around 65-80% of peak. That 3%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/19 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Swedish sex survey seems to confirm RP basic concepts15 is age of consent here, median age to start having sex is 16.5 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 11:07 PM |
| 11 | Swedish sex survey seems to confirm RP basic conceptshttps://i.imgur.com/QrDhXBc.png I think you can figure this one out. Percentage satisfied with their sex lives past 12 months. There is a lot of shit here but, Problems during sex https://i.imgur.com/dEjbRkP.pngin percent (f/m) multiple choice question,no interest (33/15) / orgasm to quick (2/15) / hard to maintain erection(0/17) / no orgasm (16/7)/ dry vagina (13/0)/ physical pain (11/2)/ lack of enjoyment (9/5) / No libido (9/4)/ anxiety during sex (5/5) Also https://i.imgur.com/UjUOXaZ.png ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Swedish sex survey seems to confirm RP basic conceptsIn the study in says "Least satisfied with their sex lives was the youngest age bracket of men (16-29 years) with 32% being satisfied" So that would be 68% of men age 16-29 are unsatisfied with their sex lives. Most satisfied were women age 30-64 (63 percent) and men age 30–44 (67 percent) chart, https://i.imgur.com/QrDhXBc.png Also interesting, "Twice as many women (33 percent) as men (15 procent) reported having lost interest in sex." and 29 percent in the 16–29 age bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Video games are low-status because of their amazing cost effectiveness.I think this is kinda hitting on the same point, with gaming someone can spend 1000 hours and accomplish nothing. It's just a huge time sink, when I hear gamer that reads as "I spend all my time wasting away and haven't done anything with my life". There's limits to how much time a person can spend running, the body needs to rest and the absolute max would be running for like 2 hours every day. For the remainder of the day they still need to figure out something to do, so you can assume they pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Is dating harder for men today (in general) than it used to be? Or are men today less motivated (in general) than they used to be?But people who advocate for climate change while flying private jets gets shit on constantly, Nobody would take a fat personal trainer seriously, Working for Apple and using a android device would 100% be seen as hypocritical, An official Samsung twitter account once posted a tweet with "via Twitter for iPhone" and there's been several times where companies have been seen using their competitors products and it always causes a huge social media shitstorm. If some politician was pro immigration a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 07:34 PM |
| 3 | What are some things good men do that are turn off for women?I'm nailing this so far, although maybe I need to start drinking more to really bring it to the next level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | The Guardian - Following the #MeToo movement, men are significantly more reluctant to interact with their female colleagues...It's pretty funny, I saw in the annual report for my university that there is a government issued goal that between 2017-2019 33% of recruited and promoted professors should be female. By just pure chance they nailed that goal and managed to find exactly 33% qualified professors this year after overshooting and recruiting 65% female professors last year. Even though the actual gender ratio of all professors is 6% women and 94% men. It wasn't a government enforced gender ratio though... it was ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Are men more unhappy than women nowadays?This study is a bit unrelated, but it has the exact data you are looking for https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article/figure?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0218704.t001 Men had slightly higher life satisfaction, pretty much across all categories, same with quality of life. Men were less satisfied with their social network but showed less depressive symptoms than the women asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Currently 41% of working women are single. Cnn reports by 2030 this number will rise to 45%. Do you think this trend will keep moving forward?That would go against this study that came out last month Full paper, https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0218704 Chart : https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article/figure?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0218704.t001 Married women with 2 children who no longer live at home was the happiest group of people. The result was pretty much the exact for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do I have to lie to womenSo structure a new relationship like if it was a Netflix series... Got it, don't show the monster and all that, allude to a deeper mystery while slowly revealing aspects of your personality, maybe throw in a big plot twist somewhere. Make sure to keep things bite-sized in 1 hour dates that always ends just as things start to get really interesting so they feel like they just have to know more and continue watching seeing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships?Lastly, a person can choose to embrace the absurd condition. According to Camus, one's freedom – and the opportunity to give life meaning – lies in the recognition of absurdity. If the absurd experience is truly the realization that the universe is fundamentally devoid of absolutes, then we as individuals are truly free. "To live without appeal," as he puts it, is a philosophical move to define absolutes and universals subjectively, rather than objectively. The freedom of humans is thus establis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Do men and women just have completely opposite attitudes towards sex? (for some aspects)Listen, say you're playing a online game and there's one team attacking and one team defending. You can be randomly assigned to be the attacking or defending team, and how you play the match will greatly depend on whether you're attacking or defending. You can play however you want, but there's an optimal strategy for each role and how you think about the game will depend on what role you're currently playing and if you practice enough you can become a really good attacker, but still be a terrib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/19 03:54 PM |
| 4 | The biological determinism that many prominent Red Pillers promote is nonsense.Yes, Neuroplasticity and all that, but when the strongest woman can deadlift 600 lbs and the strongest man can lift 1102 lbs, differences like that is going to play a role in society. One gender being almost 2x as powerful as the other will create a lot of gender dynamics. Most of our behavior is probably a social construct, we can be made to adapt to whatever circumstance we are in. Evolution did not intend on our body ever being in space, yet we still function just fine in zero gravity after a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Are your beliefs backed by actual Scientific Evidence?There's some basic things that I just know to be true, physics, history, reality, if someone goes against one of those beliefs I just make a mental note that I'm talking to a retard, or that the person actually has no clue what they're talking about. If my retard alarm havn't been tripped then everything just goes into the "alright" bin. I don't really care if it's true or not, there's too much shit in there and it would take too much effort to actually care about all the random garbage facts th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why people rape?This is never going to get you anywhere. Why do people drive drunk? Why do people commit murders? Why do people commit suicide? I'm sure you could try and come up with some rational reasons and try to explain it, but in 99% of cases the real reason is that the person's brain is not thinking rationally. Their reasoning is just seriously compromised by something, be it alcohol, drugs, mental illness, bad childhood experiences. Trying to explain it with logic is never going to work, because at the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t men and women see what each gender brings to the table in terms of dating?Bonobos is a type of chimp. Modern day Chimpanzees and Bonobos separated from a common ancestor 2 million years ago while humans separated from that common ancestor 8 million years ago. Genetic analysis shows that Bonobos has evolved very little since they separated from chimps because they only live in a specific area and are very isolated. Modern day chimps is quite different from the Chimpanzees we separated from. Therefore our closest living relative is best said to be Bonobos since that's t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t men and women see what each gender brings to the table in terms of dating?That's a really interesting paper, Male reproductive skew was higher in bonobos than chimpanzees because high-ranking bonobo males more effectively monopolized reproduction. Rather, the low levels of sexual coercion and the comparatively higher dominance of female bonobos may allow them to selectively mate with high-ranking males during periods when they are likely to conceive, thereby gaining ‘good genes’ or some other benefits I was going after the Wikipedia article and it sounds like we don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Why can’t men and women see what each gender brings to the table in terms of dating?Our closest relatives, Bonobos live in a matriarchy and they do almost no competing. They use sex as a greeting, a means of forming social bonds, a means of conflict resolution, and postconflict reconciliation. Since everyone has sex with everyone and everything it's kinda impossible to know who the father of a child is so females control the social hierarchy and their offspring while males take care of the tribe as a whole. Really they don't compete at all, they just have sex with each other ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 07:41 PM |
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