AxeOfWyndham Archive

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1	How do I stop getting angry at “men are trash” “I hate men” etc. comments People who talk like that tend to be saying more about themselves than others. Do you know any people who seem to insist that they hate drama despite being the person who starts it all? It's kind of like that. When some woman makes those comments about men, it's really just them saying things like: "I am a female incel" or "I treat men like crap and play hard to get so the only men I hang out with are creeps." The problem is not with all men, the problem is with how she interacts with all men. A…	/r/MensRights	14/08/21 06:57 AM
5	Magdalena Skipper (Nature EIC): what did it take for her to start caring about suicide? It's the "especially among women" part. It's similar to the "1 in 4 homeless people are women!!!" bit where the conclusion is women are essentially most effected by homelessness. I mean, homelessness is an issue no matter who it is, but if you see that figure and determine women should be your primary focus for a crusade on homelessness you need to get the worms out of your brain. The only fair take with the OP is that technically only the female number saw an increase in that graph while men co…	/r/MensRights	29/05/21 01:15 PM
2	TIL of a Chrome Extension called "Reddit Masstagger" which is used to track people who are members of r/mensrights. Strangely, no. It made it a lot easier to ignore clickbait when it's about how "The snake people are ruining X and here's why!" or "You'll never believe what this snake person does." And then every few months it would appear on something I actually intended to read, stuff about the housing market or something like that, and I'd get a laugh when halfway through something completely serious it goes full on reptoid conspiracy.	/r/MensRights	27/05/21 08:36 PM
1	TIL of a Chrome Extension called "Reddit Masstagger" which is used to track people who are members of r/mensrights. Yeah. I guess the other thing too is that it may have the perverse effect of ending the game of "chicken" that goes on with forming actual IRL action. The thing that the nutjob mob banks on is that everyone they disagree with is stuck in some inverted variation of the prisoner dilemma: if everyone comes out we'd probably be able to win support. If only a few do they get mobbed lose everything. If nobody does nothing bad is likely to happen. As a result, nobody in these communities actually knows…	/r/MensRights	27/05/21 04:53 PM
1	TIL of a Chrome Extension called "Reddit Masstagger" which is used to track people who are members of r/mensrights. The issue is these tools are used by the sorts of paint huffing losers who get off on doxxing and harassment. If there is a massive data leak at reddit that contains personally identifiable information, the database of scraped data they use for this tool WILL be joined with that leaked information and other data to create indiscriminate IRL blacklists. Deleting comments, profiles, etc. will not save you. If you have posted in this sub or any sub in their blacklist, they have it archived. If you …	/r/MensRights	27/05/21 04:14 PM
2	TIL of a Chrome Extension called "Reddit Masstagger" which is used to track people who are members of r/mensrights. I'll say it is definitely adequate and competent. I've never had problems using it. That said, I never really used many extensions and features on Firefox and Chrome. The only extension I really remember using for Chrome is the one that replaces any instance of "millennials" with "snake people". That said, it's not as funny as it used to be because people don't complain nearly as much about millennials as they used to now that they are all over 25.	/r/MensRights	27/05/21 03:53 PM
9	When complaining about problems you have doesn’t work Individual accountability? What the fuck is that?	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/09/19 12:34 AM
1	They need to just rename it Stepdaddy Finder at this point. The legs in the Jacelyn photo threw me off there.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/08/19 10:47 PM
1	Beautiful We need to stop this arms race, soon we will be in a standing room only world.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/07/19 11:24 PM
1	The last 3 women who showed interest in me, asked the exact same question each time: Why would you think any less of a single man who doesn't own a house? In this day and age, houses are for people who have settled or are in the process of settling down. Maybe 20+ years ago it was a sensible thing to expect of a fiscally responsible single man, but now homeownership is not an automatic consequence of good financial planning. I have enough saved up to either make a down payment on a decent house or live unemployed for 2 years without sacrificing any of my lifestyle. I'm not all t…	/r/MGTOW2	25/06/19 11:04 PM
1	This is why men don't show emotions Look mate, you know who has a lot of feelings? Blokes who bludgeon their wives to death with a golf trophy.	/r/MensRights	25/06/19 10:42 PM
1	Men should apologize just for existing, I wonder how people would feel if you replaced men with black I'm the big men. I keep an eye on everyone else because they think I'm going to attack them and I might get assaulted for walking in the same direction as someone else.	/r/MensRights	24/06/19 04:57 AM
5	Enough is enough In my book, I don't care if it doesn't hurt-you don't hurt demonstrably helpless people, even if they are trying to hurt you. The first one that actually hurts is free, it's a misunderstanding we can walk away from. I'll lay you out if you do it a second time, though, since at that point you're evidently asking for someone to fight you. I think it's a decent unisex policy. Of course, I don't get into fights. Partially because I don't really enkindle much ill will to begin with, but also because …	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/06/19 10:58 PM
1	[Meta] Solving the problem of hate in sexuality related sub-reddits and how to avoid it I think it's more that the balance needs to be readjusted. I don't even consider myself mgtow because the resentment and mean-spirited rhetoric that festers in these communities is more or less the same kind of crap that made me ditch feminism. I'm here on and off because I am not overly eager to spend time and resources on relationships. We have reached a time where the cultural dynamics of sexual relationships have become woefully mismanaged, and it's something I don't want to invest in. I thi…	/r/MGTOW2	09/06/19 11:34 AM
7	Good men want CONSISTENT women I think it comes down to "be the type of person you would want to date". I don't think there is anything patently wrong with sleeping around on a moral level. Live the way you want to live. That said, if you ARE the type of person with a revolving bedroom door, you can only expect that kind of person in return. Maybe you will luck out, but... Look, if you don't go to the gym, don't cry when the only people you seem to attract are out of shape. If you start tons of drama, don't be surprised if yo…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	08/06/19 11:21 PM
1	Healthy or toxic Relationship with your mother? And how did it affect your relationship with women overall? Better than my relationship with my dad. That said, my parents raised me in an authoritarian manner that rivals tiger parenting, and unlike most people who manage to rebel against it, they managed to keep me down until I went off to college. Mom basically drove my life in the day-to-day, and dad was more of the hammer when it came to bigger decisions. Then it just kind of turned into a rapid pattern of disillusionment in college. I was a closet libertarian when I went in since I had a quiet rese…	/r/MGTOW2	20/04/19 03:03 PM
2	Professor uses feminist buzzwords to successfully publish entire pages of Hitler's "Mein Kampf" in academic journals Wanna say it was feminist... But I forget.	/r/MensRights	30/03/19 10:43 PM
55	Professor uses feminist buzzwords to successfully publish entire pages of Hitler's "Mein Kampf" in academic journals It's very similar to the old alt-right vs radical leftist game people played a few years back. Rather than a straight find/replace, people took quotes from a combination of alt right and feminist personalities, blank out keywords related to race, and then you had to guess which kind of activist said it. The best ones, though, are the quotes that don't even need words to be removed. One of the most challenging quotes was something like "black people shouldn't be police officers." It may have been…	/r/MensRights	30/03/19 12:52 PM
17	My ex-wife does all of these This sounds like my ex gf. She managed to press me into the relationship by implying nothing was going right in her life and she would be suicidal if she didn't get what she wanted out of me. She originally started hanging out in my dorm through my roommate who was a mutual friend, and it's almost like she was even using him to force her way into my life. She alienated all of my friends (which she made her friends) by incessantly crying that she was suicidal because it wasn't the fairytale relat…	/r/MensRights	19/02/19 05:57 PM
3	How will she feel about this in 10 years? I would never get married, but if I did I would propose with an axe or knife. I think it says more than some dumb rock, with the explanation that I trust her enough that she would never use it to hurt me. I think engagements should be more personally meaningful than "yo bitch here's a fuckin rock". You should be able to get a controller if you play games together, or a nice set of sunglasses if you like to go to the beach together, or a nice stapler if you met because you are both drones in the …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/02/19 04:53 PM
15	Feminist mum hears some hard truths I mean, if the kid WANTS to wear a dress, sure. Otherwise, it's messed up just like it would be messed up to force your kids to go to school dressed up in other stuff that goes out of the way to be different. Would it be acceptable to force your kid to dress like Rick James or a 19th century prospector? It's not to say a kid should just be able to stomp all over the parents, but if you are going to limit your kid's wardrobe, limit it to what you can get in pretty much any common apparel retailer…	/r/MensRights	15/02/19 05:41 PM
1	Feminists rage against an ad that "shames women", immediately forgetting their responses to men critical of the Gillette ad, eg: "If you don't do those behaviors, then the ad isn't aimed at you" & "If you're upset by the ad, then you're part of the problem". The numbers she is giving have some ridiculous or antithetical implications. For the sake of argument , lets assume a college has a 50:50 split of 100 men and 100 women (this is to make math easy, disparities come in the conclusion). To keep the numbers easy, we are going to assume everyone has sex at this college, women with exactly 1 partner on average and men with 3 on average (once again, even with decimal averages or fractions of the population, ratios are maintained throughout so we may as…	/r/MensRights	05/02/19 12:56 AM
3	Feminists rage against an ad that "shames women", immediately forgetting their responses to men critical of the Gillette ad, eg: "If you don't do those behaviors, then the ad isn't aimed at you" & "If you're upset by the ad, then you're part of the problem". My $.02 would be that people who have nothing to report will report nothing... Feast or famine etc etc.	/r/MensRights	04/02/19 10:34 PM
9	This article sums up why so many men are angry about Gillette's ad perfectly, in my view it should be spread far and wide and used to rebut any of the usual "if you're upset, you're part of the problem" bullshit (initial post was a bit long and awkward. General gist is I was in an abusive relationship with a feminist who claimed I was the abusive one for making her feel bad by no longer taking it lying down, which upset her. Feminist talking points got everyone on her side.)	/r/MensRights	18/01/19 02:18 AM
9	This article sums up why so many men are angry about Gillette's ad perfectly, in my view it should be spread far and wide and used to rebut any of the usual "if you're upset, you're part of the problem" bullshit Is ok friend. I was a little kid in the 90s. Wasn't aware of jack shit outside of home and school until 9/11. I got to experience the animated television Renaissance and furbies. Wasn't even aware of who the president was until Bush was elected. Being a kid is great. That's why nostalgia is so bankable.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 11:52 PM
12	This article sums up why so many men are angry about Gillette's ad perfectly, in my view it should be spread far and wide and used to rebut any of the usual "if you're upset, you're part of the problem" bullshit I wasn't even alive then, but it kind of seems like one of those decades that gets washed over with a saccharine family-friendly narrative that avoided talking about problems. Bad time to be gay, we were still in the twilight of the cold war, inner city gang violence was on the rise with the war on drugs, and a few other bits and pieces. You know how the 50s is reputed for being painted over with Leave it to Beaver and feel good nonsense while we still had segregation and were building the first…	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 10:57 PM
15	This article sums up why so many men are angry about Gillette's ad perfectly, in my view it should be spread far and wide and used to rebut any of the usual "if you're upset, you're part of the problem" bullshit If you Google Gillette ad on YouTube, you'll get most of it. The general gist is that the ad is preaching about how "men" as a collective have to be better because bad men exist and all men are evidently responsible. Words can barely do it justice, it's so dumbfoundingly misandrist.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 05:50 PM
94	This article sums up why so many men are angry about Gillette's ad perfectly, in my view it should be spread far and wide and used to rebut any of the usual "if you're upset, you're part of the problem" bullshit I can't stand the "if you're upset you are the problem" thing. If that's how things actually worked, what does that say about the people who get upset by the deluded bullshit that incels talk about? What does that say about people who get upset when Trump talked about criminals coming over the border? That's not how it works. It's not how anything works.	/r/MensRights	17/01/19 05:20 PM
1	Let’s Make Gillette’s new ad the most disliked video on YouTube I don't disagree, but I think the first step is sending the message that the ad sucks. If they nuke the department responsible for the ad, the message has been received. Demolish the business if they double down.	/r/MensRights	15/01/19 01:25 PM
18	Let’s Make Gillette’s new ad the most disliked video on YouTube I already know that there are going to be a bunch of articles from the usual suspects using the downvotes as apologia for why we need feminism. The problem with this ad is not the entire message, which is kind of obvious to anyone who isn't completely clueless or disingenuous. Rape, assault, and harassment are bad. Men are role models for their sons. This is elementary stuff here that every decent person is aware of. Decent people also know not to steal, murder, and talk during movies. Doesn…	/r/MensRights	15/01/19 04:25 AM
8	Let’s Make Gillette’s new ad the most disliked video on YouTube I'm pretty bad at growing facial hair. I shave on Monday mornings with single-blade razors from the grocery store and I'm good for a week. It actually stays tasteful until Sunday, which is uncanny and convenient. My shave budget is something like $10 per year. Don't even use cream unless I'm bored.	/r/MensRights	15/01/19 03:40 AM
4	I love woman who go on a anti men rant when I say I'm mra, and then I reply that I'm a woman. I don't like labels other than "someone trying to treat other people with some decency and respect". I don't consider myself an MRA because I don't do activism. Still, I associate with the MRM because more often than not they actually have consistent interests in women's rights in addition to men's rights. Also the memes are actually funny. People who claim you need to be a feminist to believe in human rights are like people who claim you need to be <their religion> to have morality. Uncannily, …	/r/MensRights	18/12/18 06:01 PM
12	We should be careful to not become like the sexist feminists we hate, and not to let rage and anger control us so that we don't become mysogynistic, and destroy this sub and this movement from within. I agree. That said, I think it's important to separate the ideology from the people. I hate feminist rhetoric, but at worst I'm just annoyed by feminists.	/r/MensRights	04/11/18 03:57 PM
2	Can you imagine hating men this much? I would not conflate being anti-mrm with man-hating. Like how you can not like feminism and not hate women. Of course, when you say you can't be sexist to men, that's almost the default apologia for someone who is sexist to men.	/r/MensRights	04/11/18 02:19 PM
25	Study by women concludes that they are oppressed. Because men are forcing them to work hard to compete with each other for the 20 % of eligable men. That was infuriating to read. 1) The insistence that men need to work more and it's not an issue with female expectations is astounding 2) the insistence that men are participating in low amounts because they're just lazy. The data they had went through 2016, the tail-end of the effects of the recession in rural areas where economic recovery stagnated (you know, the part of the country that voted for a guy who promised them jobs). 3) The insistence that human productivity is an absolute good. Th…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/10/18 05:19 AM
1	Double standards Personally, I always thought it was funny that feminism may as well be a pormanteau of Female Chauvinism. I think feminism has followed the same pattern as every other socially affluent ideology-you start with some fringe moral community, and then when it presses into the elite echelons of society it becomes this huge pissing contest. You know, the social climbing game has become a game of out-feministing everyone else. If you espouse the most pure and virulent form of the ideology, you can conq…	/r/MensRights	28/10/18 05:32 PM
2	Double standards I've said it a bunch, but... I don't date, but if I did I'd put out profiles looking for women who are no less than 6 inches shorter than me, within 2 years of my age, and make my salary +- 15k. This means you need to be at least 5'10", at most 27, and make at least 50k per year (special exceptions for doctors/nurses, accountants, and engineers). These are realistic expectations for a woman, right? In my case I would say it's fair because I'm not making a standard I myself don't live up to. By t…	/r/MensRights	28/10/18 12:56 PM
1	Thick chick is not interested in hook-ups! She is open to long term polyamorous relationship. That's a bit too cynical, even for me. In order: -she wasn't fishing for sympathy, I was pretty depressed myself and one night a conversation went in that direction. I would agree with you if she was a grownass adult who should know better, but I think she just really had nobody in her life whom she felt really cared for her, and the fact that I was willing to listen was a huge deal for her. this was more highschool drama than anything, though I still wouldn't disagree on what you said there. -B…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/10/18 07:35 PM
2	Thick chick is not interested in hook-ups! She is open to long term polyamorous relationship. Only Wiccans I knew were people who seemed desperate for attention. Like this one time (during the golden age of flip phones), at band camp, I somehow had a strange summer romance with this wiccan girl. I broke up with her at the end of camp because it was before social media really kicked off, I didn't have my driver's license, she lived 150 miles away, and my parents would assume the worst about what happened at band camp (when really we just kind of sat close on the couch in the common room, …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/10/18 05:18 AM
2	Feminists who demanded that girls be allowed to participate in Boy Scouts now starting “all girls” Cub Scout packs. Insanity! The whole atheist thing is why I just wound up ghosting out of scouts. I had plenty of friends from working on summer camp staff, then I got sick of being forced to lead prayers I didn't believe in several times a day so I just didn't reapply the next year. I would have been fired if I insinuated I was an atheist, like that guy who came out when that was still against the rules. The funniest thing is that the lion's share of eagle scouts I know wind up becoming atheist center-liberals/libertaria…	/r/MensRights	11/10/18 11:25 PM
4	Repost for personal info... My friend called out his mom... not sure how to approach I mean, I had a clean home and regular meals... but maybe TOO clean and regular at times. My situation was almost entirely a psychological one. A constant fight to live up to an unhealthy set of expectations that gets tossed in the trash when I reach it. I think I came from an entirely different direction only to wind up at the same place. I know from the outside a lot of people would envy my situation, but it's the insidious crap under the surface that's messed up. Still, I think they realized …	/r/MensRights	09/10/18 04:25 PM
31	Repost for personal info... My friend called out his mom... not sure how to approach It's a total mindfuck that takes a while to deal with. I've been seeing a shrink for over a year for a similar issue. When you deal with this stuff from early childhood through adulthood, it creates this indoctrinated notion that you can't shake because you never experienced anything to the contrary. At a visceral level, I still feel like no matter what I do or how it will be a disappointment, that everyone hates me by default because I'm a fundamentally terrible person, and whenever I earn some…	/r/MensRights	09/10/18 11:14 AM
3	A white skinned muslim and a brown feminist triggered by Kavanaugh's election cyberbegs for therapy. People donate a cent only to comment how pathetic she is! The gimmick could be based on the notion of putting in 2 cents...	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/10/18 10:19 PM
2	Alberta man changes gender on government IDs for cheaper car insurance \| CBC News This is the line of thinking I was getting at. The stat may be true, but statistics aren't deterministic.	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 11:37 AM
4	Alberta man changes gender on government IDs for cheaper car insurance \| CBC News Right. I think it's stupid to judge by age when you can go by years driving. Sure, there are plenty of kids who do stupid shit while driving and there may be some kind of biological thing at stake, but there are also plenty who are absolutely paranoid and stay the speed limit in case the cops appear or you wreck your parents' car and then they have to kill you. I guess you could choose not to drive, but there are places where you need a car to work and you need insurance to be able to legally dr…	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 03:53 AM
3	Alberta man changes gender on government IDs for cheaper car insurance \| CBC News I'm not saying to measure individual risks, but that immutable traits should be off the table. Instead of targeting men or women, you could look at occupation, where they live, hobbies, criminal record, or the things people actually do instead of the fact that they are born with a certain configuration. I don't like when statistics are held against individuals in demographics that are not a consequence of their decisions. It's a cornerstone of toxic identity politics. Well X group is statistical…	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 03:42 AM
31	Alberta man changes gender on government IDs for cheaper car insurance \| CBC News I'll be frank, it always kind of shocks me how insurance companies are able get away with discrimination against immutable characteristics like they do. I know they use statistics and stuff, but that's kind of the point: they're allowed to use collectively extrapolated data to apply it to individuals in a manner that is wholly discriminatory. Men may be ON AVERAGE more aggressive, but it kind of seems like they can apply that assumed characteristic to the most soft spoken men on earth and pass o…	/r/MensRights	27/07/18 01:45 AM
3	Study finds male divorcees are worst affected, ABC concludes that female divorcees are worst effected. It most certainly does make sense. If I were living in England, I'd be converting to pounds, and the monetary value would remain the same. That is a lot of money pretty much anywhere, and as I stated in another comment, if the costs of things are different wherever she is in Australia, it would be because there is a lot that is offered where she is living that you can't get elsewhere. It's cheap to live in some places and expensive elsewhere is because there is value in the location. It could be…	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 05:25 PM
3	Study finds male divorcees are worst affected, ABC concludes that female divorcees are worst effected. Yes, in addition to those pesky dollaroos and the dollabies.	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 02:09 PM
5	Study finds male divorcees are worst affected, ABC concludes that female divorcees are worst effected. Mind you, the reason that these places are more expensive to live in is because the quality of life is higher. It's not like it's arbitrarily more expensive. People compete to live in these places because life in general is going to be all-around better. If it's so unfairly overpriced, it's a lot easier to move to a poorer part of the country than the other way around. People choose to live in these expensive places because it is a major convenience to the best paying jobs and access to some of …	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 01:58 PM
22	Study finds male divorcees are worst affected, ABC concludes that female divorcees are worst effected. I wound up looking up the numbers thinking that maybe several Australian dollars come out to a US dollar, but it comes out to roughly 0.75 USD. So, doing quick math, it looks like they had to look for some incredibly well-off upper class people to cherry pick a situation where the woman winds up worse-off. You just know that she was after half of what this guy earns, if not everything. I used to have a wealthy grandfather. He got divorced and lost a lot of his fortune. Then he got remarried to s…	/r/MensRights	26/07/18 12:32 PM
1	This is what pure bigotry and creeping fascism look like. I think I meant Latino.	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 11:38 AM
56	This is what pure bigotry and creeping fascism look like. I always say they are like a bunch of klannies back at their height. They are a bunch of chauvinistic assholes who go around domonstrating just to make noise and intimidate the rest of the population into accepting their presence. The only running theme through every demonstration is feminist power. They even have goofy costumes: pink hair, pussy hats, and fishnet shirts with duct tape nipples are the white hoods and robes of today, just watch. Do we have a feminist version of Birth of a Nation …	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 01:14 AM
73	This is what pure bigotry and creeping fascism look like. IN THE CONTEXT OF SOCIAL JUSTICE Asians are white, Hispanics are black. Native Americans don't exist unless it is convenient. What DO intersectionalists think of Native Americans, anyway? Aren't reservations basically ethnostates inside the US? History is history, it's messed up how many short ends of sticks the first nations have gotten, but I'd like to see how they narrate around that can of worms. (edit, put caps statement at front in case this is removed from context. Also, I thought this wa…	/r/MensRights	16/07/18 01:03 AM
5	That pesky adjective"Men" but less than 3 seconds later... the double standards is outstanding, not to mention the cherry picking of the clips... It is 2018. You had my curiosity, but now you have my attention.	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 12:23 AM
1	Even when I file for financial aid. Without bothering to look at numbers, that's a fair enough observation. Though I still have yet to hear about womens' limbs being blown off during childbirth... And I mean that seriously--if that is something that actually happens please point me to some literature because that is bound to be a fascinating read.	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 12:07 AM
3	Even when I file for financial aid. yeah, selective service is kind of fucked up as a concept when you take into account how much is held against men while women get all of those things without any kind of commitment. It's possibly even more fucked up than if women had to sign a document stating that in a time of war they may be drafted for forced reproduction... although with modern medicine that at least would have a lower mortality rate. Obviously I advocate for neither. I think that the draft is an archaic idea that has no pla…	/r/MensRights	03/07/18 04:17 PM
59	Judge Judy on child custody. Simple, Straight and Quick! It's important to point out that these televised court shows all deal with civil, not criminal law. One option to settle a civil dispute is to go through someone known as an arbitrator, basically an independent third party whose judgement is legally recognized by both sides. It's a cheaper way to settle a dispute since it doesn't involve court costs. I'm pretty sure it could be run in someone's kitchem. This is according to what I learned in high school way back. Here's where I get into my specu…	/r/MensRights	10/06/18 10:29 AM
1	Just remember when people say “well this isn’t the oppression olympics”, triage 101 dictates you treat the worst victims first before I begin this rant, I'll point out I'm not a doctor. It's not due to lack of resources. It's because people aren't aware of the problems or else believe in zero-sum solutions, if not solutions that outright harm one group for another. In a situation where triage makes sense, say a plane crash, the problems are pretty easy to notice and the fixes are more often than not straightforward. When you see blood rushing out of some unconscious person's head, you don't exactly need to poke and prod…	/r/MensRights	02/06/18 10:38 PM
7	Just remember when people say “well this isn’t the oppression olympics”, triage 101 dictates you treat the worst victims first Triage assumes you have a limited number of resources to work with. If there were just 1 - 10 people assigned to solving all of the social problems, then triage rules might make sense. This is an entire society filled with millions of activists. We don't need to funnel all of the attention at one place at a time. It's possible to help X group without any damage done to Y group. There should not be an argument over priority because there is no need for priority. The problems, arguments, and lack …	/r/MensRights	02/06/18 08:32 PM
3	Thought of the day: “Mankind” is discriminatory because it isn’t gender neutral, but “feminism” represents equality for both genders? If you're not a Mank, you're a Wank.	/r/MensRights	06/02/18 01:15 AM
5	Feminist rhetoric If you move over to IRL arguments with feminists, they also like to stack their side/gang up and resort to Gish Gallops. It's uncommon that a feminist will ever confront or argue with you alone one-on-one. They will deliberately try to have a "dialog" by engaging the individual with a collective. It's first and foremost an intimidation tactic, a bandwagon to try to appeal to popularity. It also serves as a way to amplify each other while shutting down the target by doing basically patting each o…	/r/MensRights	02/02/18 05:45 AM
5	Delusional Feminist gets hit on at gas station no. I think the entire situation is just idiotic. He's not just "making his move". He's hitting on the customers, which is kind of inappropriate. But she's also being a bit of an idiot by acting like he's going to stalk her. If that's actually happening, tell the manager or the cops. It's like I was saying with swearing or being rude-it's inappropriate, but if a clerk tells someone to go get fucked, it wouldn't be reasonable to act like he's a violent lunatic who is going to stab you if you come…	/r/MensRights	11/01/18 12:45 PM
4	Describe something you encountered which shows society/social media gaining more acceptance and arguing for men’s rights. I think that acceptance is a lot more widespread than people realize, it's just one of those silent majority kinds of deals. I hate to sound like a feminist, but I think that the rejection the legitimacy of mens' rights mostly exists at an institutional level, primarily due to the entrenched feminist agenda of rejecting mens' rights as misogynistic. I think sensible people are receptive to the fact that men have problems that are not handled. That said, sensible people tend to be more concerned …	/r/MensRights	11/01/18 10:53 AM
6	Delusional Feminist gets hit on at gas station I would just say it's unprofessional. I know it's a gas station, but I think it's kind of trashy to hit on the customers while you're on the clock. Basically, I see it as similar to wearing a torn up shirt with profanity written on it, or acting rude to customers. I guess I see the exceptions in a similar way to how you would handle swearing at work: make sure the store is empty, and only do it if either you already know the customer or the customer has demonstrated a laid back and receptive att…	/r/MensRights	11/01/18 09:00 AM
2	Excellent description of feminism. I would add that a large part of the difference is made up by only children with helicopter parents. A way disproportionate number of the nutjobs I've met came from families where either they were the literal only-children or else they were the only children whom the parents give a shit about (ie, 2 children, but the elder totally fucked up by becoming a junky, going to prison, running away to pursue some career the parents didn't approve of, or sometimes the parents just hate one). They aren't …	/r/MensRights	07/01/18 04:31 PM
2	French Class-Positive Adjectives for Girls, Negative Adjectives for Boys It kills me inside, I hate spelling and grammar pedants, but I feel like I'd be doing you a disservice not to point out that a collage is the art project where you arrange a bunch of images together, and the academic institution is a college. You sound like a responsible person with a good plan for the future, so I'll hold you to a better standard than most people on reddit. I'm not saying that privilege and sociology are total bunk as concepts, but they are often spun into these fully blown abs…	/r/MensRights	17/12/17 02:42 AM
2	French Class-Positive Adjectives for Girls, Negative Adjectives for Boys It will probably be wrapped in your core requirements. Basically a waste of a course that you could spend on something useful. At my college I had to take a diversity course (ie, something related to brown people or women in America), and I had to take a global course (anything outside of the west). It's not always so bad. I got away with a class on jazz history (I play jazz, was a lot of good listening), and a Japanese film class (I wanted to do German film but that's not exotic enough for the …	/r/MensRights	16/12/17 07:27 PM
2	PSA: Look out for misandrist/radfem bias in Wikipedia The lion's share of gamergate was center left, as am I. It's not explicitly "right wing" to oppose feminism-unless you are a feminist who believes everything to the right of marxism is right wing. I wasn't even in gamergate proper, but I completely get what was going on because in the same timeframe I was combatting the nasty feminist shit that was unfolding on my college campus (gaslighting, "Reichstag Fires", editathons, mansplaining, a psychopathic charlatan spreading Peoples' Temple rhetoric…	/r/MensRights	09/12/17 08:29 PM
1	When did nerds become dude-bros? I think that it is mostly a reaction to the boom in popularity of "nerdiness" about 5 years back. You know, back in circa 2011-2012 when suddenly out of nowhere everyone was wearing hideous clothing, bragging about how they are SOOOO GEEKY because they dumped 30 cumulative hours into a mobile game over the course of a month, and claiming that the Big Bang Theory was a good show underrated by the stupid people (I guess now it is Richard and Mortimer). This is basically like claiming that you are …	/r/MensRights	08/12/17 06:13 PM
1	When did nerds become dude-bros? It's where you go when you come from a privileged family that coddles you into completely lacking useful skills and abilities. Tell the world: "no wait, please, I'm not useless I SWEAR - simply being (some female identity) is a SKILL. I am better than working as a waitress/cashier for the rest of my life." It's frantic straw-grasping that takes place during the threat of downward social mobility from the upper-middle class. Basically, buying a degree to tell people that you have a degree and the…	/r/MensRights	08/12/17 05:25 PM
2	PSA: Look out for misandrist/radfem bias in Wikipedia It's already been said, but there are these edit-a-thon events that were massively popular a few years back, and I think they still happen. They're hosted by pretty much every college feminist group to LET WOMENS' VOICES BE HEARD. It's easily one of the more insidious things feminists have been doing over the years. It's wrapped in apologia about a majority of wiki articles being written by men, and how that automatically means it's written from a male perspective that excludes women. Oftentimes…	/r/MensRights	08/12/17 04:11 PM
1	I’m curious... Feminism is a buzzword used by disingenuous charlatans to push personal agendas in a public space. On paper it may mean some romantic ideal that sensible people should agree with, but in reality "feminist/feminism" is used very similarly to how the words "patriot/patriotism" were being tossed around 15 years back. Patriots are supposed to be people who serve the greater interests of their country and countrymen, but it was tweaked slightly to be anyone possessing unquestioning loyalty to the act…	/r/MensRights	25/11/17 05:02 PM
3	Feminism as a supremacist movement - a devastating condemnation Feminism may as well be considered a pormateau of FEMale chauvINISM. Not my original idea, but I wish it had more traction nonetheless.	/r/MensRights	12/11/17 05:15 PM
8	The American medical establishment’s business model on infant male circumcision, formulated 100 years ago I think it's more how the circumcision narrative seems to play out in public. The main reason circumcision was introduced in the US was so little Billy doesn't touch himself at night. Turns out, no, we're pretty much arbitrarily mutilating little boys and there's still cum all over the place. The apologia has only changed, now it's some crock about how it increases chances of certain illnesses in filthy neanderthals who never clean themselves. And to add insult to injury, foreskins are pretty lu…	/r/MensRights	04/11/17 02:16 PM
3	I don't like to tañk about this but my female friend forced me to have sex with her ^^<sup>Pretty</sup> much this^^^ -Not Rape. -She DID touch him when he didn't want to be touched. -That all said, if this was a story posted to certain feminist subreddits with genders swapped and OP was a girl who decided to "get it over with" when a guy gets her alone in her room, refuses to leave, and starts feeling under her clothes, they'd probably be sounding the rape sirens and textscreeching at anyone who says otherwise, compared to here where the people calling it rape are unpopular. -S…	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 04:59 AM
1	If feminism were a religion, who would their gods be? I always saw feminism as an animistic religion. No gods, but a lot of beliefs that mirror how nebulously spiritualistic faiths behave. Patriarchy is bad energy, feminism is the middle path, etc. Unlike other religions of that sort, though, it's faith and shame based like a more western religion. It's what I would imagine it would be like if you combined something like Confucianism with something like Mormonism and then flipped the script so the ideology privileges women.	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 04:41 AM
1	Why do feminists say women mature faster than men? It ultimately comes down to finding an excuse to permit a double standard of female chauvinism among girls. The measures of "maturity" are a bunch of arbitrary measures ranging from ages of the onset of puberty to behaving more like an adult by some contrived and convenient metric. Would it be acceptable if gym teachers were smugly telling their classrooms that the boys are better because they're taller, build more muscle, or gain less body fat as a part of the human maturation process? Would it…	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 03:52 AM
1	There are no girls on the internet: 4chan, a beacon of gender equality? I've never been on 4chan, but I've inhaled at least 13 years worth of secondhand chan over the years as a result of being into PC gaming and the "actual" internet (you know, the parts outside facebook, twitter, etc). I can recognize chan when I see it is what I'm saying, and I comingle seamlessly with people who do chan. Only reason I haven't gotten on at this point is because I know I've overhyped the idea of my first proper 4chan shitpost and it's a setup for a massive disappointment. Anyways,…	/r/MensRights	23/10/17 11:16 PM
38	What's Not Taught In Sex Ed Same here. That sounds a bit... odd. Though come to think of it, I would never be willing to do a "one time fling" with my ex GF because I'm next to certain that at some point she was conspiring to try to fulfil both her wish to desperately keep me in her life as well as her wish to become a mother.	/r/MensRights	23/10/17 10:27 PM
13	Why do women still earn a lot less than men? When they do the same job, though, their salaries are practically the same \| Once again the Economist accurately reports that the wage gap is a myth I think equality of opportunity is good, but equality of outcome is ridiculous. People are measuring outcome and assuming it is caused by opportunity. A group of kids go to an ice cream shop for a birthday party, each kid gets $1. The price for a scoop of vanilla, chocolate, strawberry is 49¢. The price for a scoop of wacky flavors like birthday cake, rocky road, etc is 69¢. The price for toppings is 29¢. This being a group of small children, the girls have a clique and the boys have a clique. T…	/r/MensRights	22/10/17 02:12 PM
2	Pregnancy, the new Merit Badge I was in the scouts from 2003 and left as an adult around 2013. I did a little research to double-check what I had heard, and even I found a recent development I was unaware of, but more on that later. The Mormon church had always had pretty strong ties to the BSA from the start, and apparently Latter Day Saints (LDS) boys are pretty much signed up for boy scouts by default. That said, they managed to get a seat of real power in the 90's with the rise of the uber-conservative Christian right (yo…	/r/MensRights	16/10/17 04:02 AM
0	Pregnancy, the new Merit Badge As an Eagle Scout myself, I believe that girls should be allowed in the boy scouts. I've known a few girls who were in the girl scouts, and it's just not the same over there. The boy scouts are much more meritocratic and challenging. The boy scouts will teach you how to prepare yourself for just about anything and constantly improve your skillset. The girl scouts are basically a big friendly circlejerk that's riddled with a lot of participation-trophy-like rhetoric. If I'm not mistaken, I don't …	/r/MensRights	15/10/17 04:23 AM
10	More cancer from the feminist media ...at least they aren't counting dimples on skulls yet. Gotta love clickbait science.	/r/MensRights	10/10/17 10:45 PM
15	Most men don't know they have a circumcision scar I still think the most glaring instance of cognitive dissonance is the lack of outrage over what happens to foreskins. They don't just go out as medical waste, they're used for all kinds of applications, most notably cosmetics. Foreskins are used as "cruelty free" means of testing makeup and skincare products. They're also used to farm collagen for a lot of high end moisturizers. We all know how absolutely outraged people get at female genital mutilation (And rightly so. What I mean, though, is …	/r/MensRights	08/10/17 02:33 PM
8	Fuck this. When hundreds of men are killed, tortured or mutilated in movies, then it's "acceptable" I haven't seen it, but I would have thought it would be "feminist" for these things to happen to women in a movie. You know, because "women are normally killed in a "pretty" way on screen, then something something for the male gaze something". Women rarely get shot in the face or gutted on screen, and when it does it's treated as an exception that proves the rule because it's supposed to be more shocking than the dime a dozen scenes where men get decapitated, bloodied up, headshot, disemboweled,…	/r/MensRights	08/10/17 01:39 PM
36	Fat women are "plus sized" but fat men are "overweight" I mean, go after what you want... but understand that there are some caveats when you want these kinds of people and things: 1) Your expectations, while not impossible, are unrealistic. You are doing the relationship equivalent of looking for a house that is selling at half market value, and it's way more likely than not that when you finally get what you want it's not going to be the fairytale you want to live in. It's incredibly likely you are going to wind up with a guy who has lost any feeli…	/r/MensRights	08/10/17 12:56 PM
4	Menprovement. Tinder cracking down on men and their behavior on the dating app. Exactly. When I was saying men just kind of linger wherever there are women, I was mostly speaking to the likely motive and perspective of companies that over-cater to women and use muh-feminism for publicity. I think most men have a limit to what they're willing to put up with, and a lot of companies are pushing it (though you could probably still make that aforementioned fortune because there are some people who will buy any experience you put a premium label on). I think the truth is that as …	/r/MensRights	07/10/17 12:30 AM
12	Menprovement. Tinder cracking down on men and their behavior on the dating app. It reminds me too much of what I've always heard about the club scene. They use discriminatory admission policies and try their damnedest to get as many women in there as possible with free drinks or whatever. Then the high number of women is used to draw in gaggles of men who are not only expected to buy their own drinks, but also pay for the women. It's kind of twisted how they are basically exploiting everyone involved. Anyways, I think the motive here is disingenuous and altogether more sini…	/r/MensRights	06/10/17 05:00 AM
1	My Girlfriend won't quit trying to force me into taking her birth controls She really sounds like she's abusing you. Has she told you you aren't allowed to talk to other women? Has she kept you from your friends in general? I don't mean once or twice being insistent about something she REALLY wants to do. I mean that she contests plans with your other friends more often than not-that you have to be accounted for like you're an employee working from home. I'm assuming she's not just sarcastically saying you should take pills in an unfunny worn out gag if it's something …	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 11:38 PM