AylaDoesntLikeYou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women you have 5 points to create your ideal man. What are you picking, 1, 3, 6, 8, 12 🙈	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:23 PM
0	Where have all the good men gone? Marriages and sex shouldn't have to be arranged for men. Men just have to do more of the peacocking part of relationships now than women. For hundreds of years it was women who had to seduce men, who had to keep up appearances and attract them. Now many men are realizing it's getting reversed and they have to put effort into attracting a girl. I think men just need to adapt to that. Not to mention dating apps are literally built to prey on men, to get the most money out of them as possible, that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 01:11 PM
1	Where have all the good men gone? they may do better in single sex classrooms. Yeah separating men and women would definitely make it easy for men to get women right... I mean it's not like a lot of people find their wives/husband in school....	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 12:51 PM
4	Do women find large semen volume attractive? 😂 oh my gosh 😅🙈	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 03:33 AM
3	Do women find large semen volume attractive? Okay to be honest... Kinda 😅😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 03:29 AM
2	Are women more content with being sexless? If you say so....	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:26 PM
2	Are women more content with being sexless? Sure I have no conscience when you're the one out here saying some of the most generalized crap, trying to make us look like psychopaths in a sub full of borderline incels. Anyways though, I say those things not because I'm trying to attack you, but because I think you should really reflect on yourself and maybe see a therapist. I'm being serious...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 02:10 PM
2	Are women more content with being sexless? It’s funny when other women try to sabotage my efforts at saving the world. Delusions of grandeur with narcissism mixed in, no wonder you think relationships are entirely transactional because that's probably how you view/ed them, but sure, keep projecting your own personal feelings like they're fact... I still question if you're really who you say, because the things you talk about sound like something a 14 year old boy would put together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:49 PM
9	Are women more content with being sexless? Are you a woman though? You talk about us like we're a monolith, a typical outgroup mentality that shows a personal disconnection from the group you're discussing. So all of us women are sitting there conspiring to keep men "sex obsessed?" Our relationships with men are entirely transactional and resource based? That's a ridiculous talking point and is a psychopathic view of relationships. Talking about being in the "matrix" parroting an Andrew Tate talking point too... You either have a lot of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:21 PM
1	Are women more content with being sexless? I want intimacy, more than I want sex. Stuff like cuddling and stuffs. Maybe there is something where men chase the end goal of sex and orgasm more than women, but I'm not sure because there are plenty of high libido women too. We are just used to guys not being able to make us orgasm, so it's not something we expect out of sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 01:11 PM
5	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I think you need to see a doctor, are you hearing voices?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 05:42 AM
3	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. Life won’t exist in a society where men choose to have affairs with men on the side and resent women. So gay men are the end of society? Why because they like taking it up the ass? So a nuke is gonna go off when a dick goes into a man's ass? Lol You're part of a death cult that tries to prophesize about the collapse of civilization based on religious grounds that have no basis in reality. Homosexuality is a natural product of nature, it's not some sign of the apocalypse. Biological sex is diverg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 05:38 AM
5	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. This person is drunk on Jordon Peterson. It's just a bunch of vague concepts sewn together into a convincing enough word salad so people will latch onto it as gospel. It means nothing, and the conclusions are just reactionary nonsense masked as some "intellectual" ideal. To maintain a cohesive idea they have to do mental gymnastics which leads to meaningless tangents about "honor, nobility, stoicism, energy," etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 05:26 AM
7	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. I see this going where people stop caring about what other people do with their own bodies, and hopefully start focusing on things that actually matter, like policies that economically uplift everyone or improve our infrastructure. Why must you feel the need to control what other people do with their own bodies? The correct position is believing in freedom and human rights, not acting reactionary about 1% of the population that has no impact on your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 05:18 AM
7	The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs. We're all gonna die, who gives a f about noble and honorable? You're deciding what is honorable for other people that's your opinion, not a definition. Just live your life the best way you can, enjoy it, stop worrying about what other people do. You're stressing yourself out for no reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 05:09 AM
1	If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do? Die, because we'd all be dead..that's kinda what happens when nukes are involved. There is no ground invasion or troops, just mutually assured annihilation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 05:54 AM
5	CMV: There's nothing wrong with this picture and Red Pillers are losing it for no reason. This can't be real 😂😂 what "Cock shame"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 05:47 PM
1	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? If guys don't automatically know how to be a man, then maybe this whole "ideal man" thing should be thrown out the window. There is no ideal man, there is no ideal woman, everyone is different and we have the power to make personal decisions that improve our lives without focusing so heavily on how men should or shouldn't be. Even psychopaths know right from wrong, it's not that difficult. This whole focus on role models for men makes you all sound like children who can't make decisions for your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 01:27 PM
1	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? This whole role model discourse is stupid, it takes away the responsibility of the individual male to be a better person on their own. Men should stop looking for a daddy they can suck up to and emulate. Just focus on what you like, don't be an asshole and treat people with respect. It's not hard. Why do men constantly need someone to lead them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 01:21 PM
1	Have you heard about the Epicurian Withdrawal? This is happening to men, Alexander destroyed the notion of city-state and the immediate consequence was radical individualism setting people apart from social bonds reflected in all areas of life, disillusionment made civic commitment impossible Capitalism causes alienation and encourages a highly individualized society. It doesn't really have anything to do inherently with men though. As women, we face this too, we are just more resilient to it because we have stronger social bonds with eachother. Men it seems like, never delve beyond surface level stuff with eachother so they feel like they have nobody to turn to, or that nobody cares. So I guess maybe men are more vulnerable to feelings of alienation, but ultimately the root of this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 03:53 PM
0	Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been broken Latin America has faced coup after coup backed by the CIA. The US made these puppet states in Latin America for corporate exploitation. Think the banana wars, the coup in Chile, Brazil, Bolivia. Look at Peru, look at the Panama canal, the drug war where drug lords were paid to funnel drugs to black communities in the 80s. Think of the Contras in Nicaragua who were backed and funded by the Reagan administration. Latin America is the result of US foreign policy and intervention, it is not because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 08:21 PM
3	Women have a looks barrier for friends too. Idk about guy friends for me. But I do subconscious do this with other women.. I think it's just because I feel the competition to compete with them physically. I would say a lot of other girls think this way at a young age because we feel pressured to look the best of the best, some of us grow out of it, for some it takes a little longer.. For guys I could care less really, I've had guy friends who go from 2/10 to 10/10, it's not something I think about very much unless a guy smells or acts wei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 12:09 AM
0	Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships. Hasan piker, that is my ideal guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 08:22 PM
2	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important No, believe it or not but we don't revolve our entire lives around what would make us more dateable. We care about those things, because either we are passionate about them, or we want to be independent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 06:18 AM
1	Why are women like this? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 11:47 PM
1	Why are women like this? How about you just be normal, then things would be better for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 11:35 PM
1	Why are women like this? Lol what, okay, because Ukrainian women definitely want to date the people that killed their family, sure. The thing you missed in the first reply was the fact that those women didn't sleep with the victors of war consentally, most of it was rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 11:22 PM
2	Why are women like this? Lol land doesn't matter, this is just nationalist nonsense. Nobody should be forced to fight over dirt. Kinda funny that a guy is the one disagreeing with me. You guys call out the double standard of enlistment, but turn around and defend it at the same time? Putin is the mastermind, he is both rich and powerful, decided this war while throwing away the lives of both Russian and Ukrainian men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 11:15 PM
-1	Why are women like this? Different types of oppression exist. Most people experience some level of it depending on their circumstances. Based on anything from the way they look, to the type of person that they are, being black or Hawaiian or Latino, or because they're poor, etc. Elements of the patriarchy affect both men and women, and the idea that only men should fight in a war is created from patriarchal standards. That's what we've been trying to say that the patriarchy hurts not just women, but men also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:37 PM
2	Why are women like this? That's the thing, women didn't vote on it either. It was just decided for us by the rich and powerful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:29 PM
2	Why are women like this? I agree that the draft is screwed up. Nobody should have to fight and die in a war if they don't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:26 PM
4	Why do women go around thinking they're safe from the wall? Your time of reckoning is coming... Actually they got buccal fat removal in their cheeks, that's why they look like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:14 PM
1	There is a different set of rules when you're an asian guy Idk.. I like Asian guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 07:10 PM
0	Sexual Economics Theory Vaginas aren't shoes. It's repairs itself and renews itself constantly, just like any other part of the body. You take a shower and wash the dirt off of your skin, does that make your skin dirty for the rest of your life? No it doesn't. Does sex make it "looser?" No it doesn't that's a proven myth, it's affected by natural aging though, just like a guys dick etc. At the end of the day, it's all in your head if you compare a vagina to a shoe because it's not based in reality, you're just judging …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 02:38 PM
2	It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege. We put a lot of work in out looks too, it takes years to learn how to do makeup and to do it properly without looking like a clown. We have to figure out our hair style, moisturize every single day, shave every 3 to 4 days, the entire body mind you. Often times many of us get plastic surgery for our noses or other parts of our body just to look appealing, etc. It isn't just about staying thin, it's about grooming skills that keep us attractive. And that's what most men lack is grooming skills, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 02:23 PM
12	CMV: The real purple pill is that Wife + Mistress is the most trad arrangement for any kind of achieving man. Andrew Taint seems to be posting from prison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 01:38 AM
3	Toxic masculinity does not exist , because no behavior is exclusive to just one gender Most of the time? Really? I can't count how many times I've heard the men in my life say "only pussies go to therapy" or that "therapy is just for women." You're delusional if you think that is not a primary motivation for why men avoid certain things. Or how many men say that shaving any part of their body is "gay." Or how showing any type of emotions, gets you called "gay" or a "pussy" Engaging in that behavior is toxic masculinity, and only serves to harm men. Ignore it all you want, it's not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 01:28 AM
5	Toxic masculinity does not exist , because no behavior is exclusive to just one gender You're missing the entire point, it's not the fact that women can do it too!!! It's the reason why men do it!! The reason why many men avoid therapy is because they think it makes them less of a man. Women don't feel the need to be held up to the ideals of a man, so we don't have the same reasoning for avoiding therapy. Toxic masculinity is the need to uphold unreasonable traits of masculinity to conform to a mythical ideal of what makes someone a man. These reasons actively prevent men from goi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 12:24 AM
1	People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating. Dating isn't the same as a systematic capitalist exploitation and inequality of economic opportunity. Yes some people actually have better looking genetics and such, but to disregard the fact that you need to work on yourself, both physically and mentally for success in dating is just ridiculous. People say this because If you really don't shower and you smell like crap, nobody will want to be around you, if your breath stinks etc, if you look like you sleep walk to work or school without puttin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 02:51 PM
2	If you get an abundance of OLD matches but can never seem to find what you are looking for; what do you think the problem is? Okay, not going to lie that's pretty accurate.. but hey I would go on a blind date with someone, that would be exciting. Online dating is just very exhausting and overwhelming. It's like when you're looking at all the different types of salad dressing or sauces in a store. So many choices, so difficult to know if you are making the right one. At a certain point it's easier to just give up entirely because nobody clicks. I've talked to literally thousands of men and at a certain point every conve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 05:28 PM
16	The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilled Yeah because you guys are experts on our wants and desires right? The whole reason you guys are here is because half of you are incel virgins, and the other half are divorced dads who have no ability to self reflect. If you actually knew our desires, you wouldn't be sitting here on Reddit trying to debate lord all day about "red pill", instead you would have a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/22 07:33 AM
15	The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilled It's funny when men make posts saying they know exactly what women want, when they are neither a woman or attracted to men. Then you say the guys who turned to the "red pill" (and complain about not getting laid all the time) are really the ones who are attractive and getting laid all the time? Make it make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/22 03:02 AM
1	Is there ever any point for a man to be emotionally vulnerable with a woman? Yes absolutely, I don't know the women you are dating but if my bf talked with me about those things, I would appreciate that he trusts me and comfort him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/20 01:38 AM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic I'm just saying rich people get whatever they want, all these men who think we are actively looking for rich men are just stupid, that is a very small minority. I'm tired of these generalizations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 10:40 PM
1	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Guess which guy gets women who actually care about him though? Sex is sex, I like sex and I like money, but I'm not going to stay with a guy because he has it. I would rather spend my time with someone who actually means something to me, I could care less if they had money. Not every girl is looking for some rich daddy. Attractive rich people get whatever they want, in other words the sky is blue. Rich women can date as many guys as they want too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 07:40 PM
1	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic I'm mainly talking about over dating apps, I haven't dated since the pandemic started. The infamous one word conversation starter/killer "hey."	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 06:19 PM
6	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic You're so pathetic 😂😂 come back down to reality. Now you'e just trying to throw my insults back at me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:54 PM
3	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic No when someone's objectively an asshole I'm going to call them one. I don't care if you want to fuck me, I wouldn't want you to, you're probably as ugly on the outside as you are on the inside. I care that people have to be around you at all. Women have goals and dreams just like you, outside of persuing a relationship. The fact that you cared enough to try and insult me tells me I must have hurt your fragile ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:44 PM
5	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic I'm glad you were able to elaborate on how much of a disgusting person you are. I hope you stay alone, nobody deserves to be with a toxic asshole like you anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:34 PM
4	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Exactly, this sub is full of incels it's terrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:29 PM
7	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic You're obviously not here to have your mind changed, the way you talk about us is absolutely disgusting. Maybe you should take a look at yourself and stop talking about us like we are animals. We are human just like you. You sound middle aged or older, very typical. Often times these types of men try to date women who are half their age and then go around complaining that they can't get anyone, and that the women their age are ugly and have kids. Young women don't want to date middle aged men un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:13 PM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Lol, just take care of yourself, brush your teeth, groom yourself hair/beard etc. Style it up maybe, smell nice (no Axe) and dress like your in 2020 not 2005. Clean your room, bathroom, help with the chores around the house. It's not really complicated. I mean I like my manly men, but that doesn't have to conflict with what I said above at all, many men overthink it, "if I do this I look weak" blah blah blah, don't think like that, the second you stop thinking about what other people think, it w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:30 PM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic In my opinion, a quality guy is someone who is caring, listens to what I say, doesn't get defensive or take things personally, knows how to control his temper, is passionate about his interests and just treats me like a normal person, a lot of men like to put women on a pedestal. Also good hygiene is so important, that is such a big problem, for some reason a lot of western men associate hygiene with being "gay" and it not only shows how toxic they are, it also just makes no sense. Any guy who t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:20 PM
8	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Because the fact of the matter is, a lot of men are clueless. They either act so toxic and expect us to follow along, they are creeps, or they are airheads and expect me to entertain them while they just sit there and add nothing to the conversation. Quality men are rare, all these men twisting what we say and not taking it at face value in the comments are exactly the problem too. They refuse to self reflect on why they get rejected and blame it on other things because they don't want to hurt t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:04 PM
2	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU Just go back to r/incels	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/20 03:52 AM
2	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU That's not a study, that's just an anecdotal account. Not to mention guys don't take into account how society judges women who date "down" in accordance to how it places value on both men and women. Sometimes when I am out with my boyfriend I've had random men come up to me and start hitting on me right infront of both of us! And even when I tell this guy I am literally right next to my boyfriend they don't care. The only problems I've had with dating men who are not conventionally attractive ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/20 01:08 AM
2	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU Most guys I have ever been around have anger issues or struggle with opening up to me. Those are the biggest indicators I look for. I had a guy offer to fly me out to his million dollar mansion on the beach of one of the great lakes and I declined because the way he treated me. He was also very attractive. So yes personality is extremely important. "How many people have amazing personalities?" You would be surprised. I've dated a guy who was way shorter than me too and he always knew how to make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/20 12:16 AM
4	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU All these incels in the comments, which is it? Us women sleep around with 50 + men by the time we hit 20 or that we barely ever initiate or like to have sex??? I'm tired of men telling me how I live my life directly to my face when they don't even know my life. We are people, we are all individuals, and individuals makes choices based on their circumstances. I like sex, but I don't sleep around with 100+ guys and I also don't go after what people typically consider "high value men" and I am conv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 03:36 PM
3	Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateable Well someones angry, not surprising. Like I said if men wouldn't pay for the service, it wouldn't exist. Showing our bodies is not a form of abuse, we exist, our bodies exist for more than the pleasure of men. But when a man uses a service to consensually view our bodies, that is not abuse to the man. Are you kidding me?? Sounds like someone just wants to be a victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/20 12:41 AM
2	Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateable You are taking responsibility away from the men's actions who are purchasing the service and blaming the women instead. It's like using the rape defense argument by saying the woman "shouldn't have dressed provocatively" instead of blaming the man who is clearly in the wrong. Misogynistic argument. If men wouldn't pay to see our bodies, the industry wouldn't exist. It's not our fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/20 12:25 AM
1	Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateable Abuse?? So men who are paying their own money for something are being abused?? Sounds backwards. Not our fault that men can't control themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/20 12:11 AM
1	Who has benefitted more from women's sexual liberation: women, men, or some subset? This whole Alpha/Beta dynamic that men made up is so stupid. Men shouldn't obsess about being Alpha or Beta, that in itself is extremely unattractive because it highlights the insecurity in their masculinity. Men do this crap to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 03:42 AM