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| 6 | The idea that men are "low effort" is literally projection from female-dating communities."So the women must be doing something right." What, existing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Rich guys are not on redditYou didn't get what I was saying. I meant, celebrating it is fine. People who don't celebrate it - pretending it doesn't exist, are liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Rich guys are not on redditYou can celebrate it, sure, but don't PRETEND that it doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Rich guys are not on redditMaybe they shouldn't lie to me and tell me I'm a catch then, yeah? You don't lie to your friends. tit for tat. It's also TRUE, and they giggle about it with each other at lunch - this guy was an idiot, but he was hot, etc etc etc. I have the utmost respect for them as incredibly intelligent people, especially at work, but man, I think women think with their pussies just as much as men think with their dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Rich guys are not on redditThat's about it, yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 12:58 PM |
| 5 | Rich guys are not on redditthese days guys just don't know how to flirt well, we've been given a laundry list of shit not to do, and been told to learn women's smoke signals, which are the equivalent of breaking the German enigma code in some cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Rich guys are not on redditI'm shy and do not approach women. I get no luck on dating apps, because I look kinda goofy and skinny. I'm in London, 24, and a lawyer. I make 90k GBP (113k USD). I am 6'5/196cm tall. I am a former boxer, but no longer muscular, just skinny (82kg). When I pass women on the street, they look down and away. Same in shops or whatever. No matches on apps. My female friends *gasp* (I do have them!) tell me I'd be a catch, and then go get rammed by some dude they met at a bar who gave them the tingli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkWorks optimally for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:51 AM |
| 30 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually Work"Modern Dating Doesn't Actually Work" Works for women and high value men. Working as intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women and men are unaware of their entitlement for the opposite sexOh, yeah. I just replied to you because you were discussing the nature of entitlement, which is a word that I believe is thrown around more often than small oil-rich countries are thrown around by superpowers. I thought I'd stick my nose in. I addressed those 'you're not owed' comments to the aether, really. They're just examples of stuff said to lonely men ad nauseam on this site. You did make some really good points ie: standards =/= entitlement etc. I just see a lot of women having standards … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women and men are unaware of their entitlement for the opposite sexNo? This is a year + old account with lots of karma. I post regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?I figured with the amount of women that say they like travel that the pics would be good. Also they're my best pics! Taking them anywhere else feels contrived and I don't have anyone to take pics of me around home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?they can see it on my profile in group photos that I'm at least a head taller than everyone else. For me, it's an unfuckable face, and the fact I can't keep muscle on this body because I have to eat a ridiculous amount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?I have NEVER matched with a girl on a dating app, man! NEVER! I'm 24! I wasn't born better than fuckin anyone! If you've had even a SINGLE match you were born better than me, lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:56 AM |
| -1 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?As a 6'5 dude who's never held a girl's hand this does make me laugh LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:35 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women and men are unaware of their entitlement for the opposite sexWanting to date someone doesn't = entitled Tell that to 2348203820280548509 women on literally every subreddit that call men 'entitled' for wanting to be desired by women Here's a selection of this shit 'you're not owed sex' when did I say I was 'you're not entitled to a partner' when did I say I was and it goes on and on and on and on and on and on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Women ultimately are attracted to strengthNo matches. I'm telling you, the face must be cranked as fuck, lol. Or it's the glasses. I'm aware women don't hit on anyone much because they don't have to, but even at parties etc I get zero eye contact or anything like that. Idk. Maybe my photos put women off because I show off my lifestyle or something. I'm very well travelled and maybe they think I want someone with a lot of money. I don't. I just like travelling, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:40 AM |
| 16 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Yeah. I don't know. I might try being more of a dickhead. I'm at the 'watch what women do, not what they say' stage of pilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?No, I understand it's a desirable personality trait. Many men that have it don't get to exhibit it because of their looks. I addressed my scorn to the user that downvoted me, not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Women ultimately are attracted to strengthIt's a range. I've had some nerdy looking gay guys, relatively fit looking gay guys, average looking gay guys. I'm 24 and I'd say since 20 I've been hit on by dudes 15+ times, and those are the times I've been aware of. I've never even held a girl's hand. I'm not really conventionally attractive. I'm a former boxer, but the muscle's mostly gone. I'm 6'5 so the height's there, but I wear glasses and my face and hair are kinda wonky and stupid looking. Decent teeth etc. I'm very skinny now, so pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:28 AM |
| 37 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?It's low for personality, not for looks. There was a post on relationship advice about a girl whose boyfriend regularly cummed on the floors and carpet, and she was fine with it. That shit disgusting. The amount of women in the comments that said their boyfriends had EQUALLY shit habits like cumming on the walls or whatever, or not changing underwear, or not cleaning properly and having the woman be the maid was incredible. IT FLIES DIRECTLY in the face of the 'be hygienic' garbage that's spewed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:54 AM |
| -2 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?That common example would be a personality trait. For example, I'd definitely ask shit like that. It's important. I've never been on a date, lol. Looks bar the way. EDIT: Thanks for the downvote without explaining why! Good to see on a debate sub. Glad I made such a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:52 AM |
| 7 | Women ultimately are attracted to strengthNah nigga I'm socially awkward as fuck and a coward around women but plenty of men invite me out to hobby nights/bar nights and shit. I'm pretty confident in every other aspect of my life too. Just not the women part. Honestly wish I was gay, lol. The amount of gay dudes I've had come approach me is nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | If the woman you meet is a virgin, what makes you think she’s going to stop being a virgin for you when she hasn’t done so for men she’s dated in the past?No, I perfectly understand that people change, but others are also free to look at that the way they want. For example, say a guy in his youth was a criminal, and had a tattoo of a gang on his back. He used to beat the shit out of guys as a mob collector. He decides to clean up his act and becomes a successful community member and a white collar worker. A woman is free to say hey, your past sucks and I don't know if I can look past it. Idk. These things never have a straight line. But again, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?I wish I didn't have to be looked at like a provider by many women. It would be fun to be provided for, but that just aint a thing for guys, so I don't even think about it. If I had that option, I'd still like to do something to contribute other than just sex and the social benefits of being in a relationship. On a matter of point, I couldn't lie to someone about something like that my whole life. It would hurt me, and any potential children are 'entitled' (I use this word because while people a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?"Do you want a prostitute or do you want love?" The latter. If I wanted a prostitute, I could BEAT what your hypothetical woman is offering by hiring MANY prostitutes, maybe even 6 at the same time. "Trust me when I say I don’t believe in providing for anyone but I don’t understand why you believe women are doing anything wrong if that’s what they want." Well, just because women want something doesn't mean men have to do it for them. Tricking a guy into providing for him by faking attraction is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why not liking sluts is such a big thing for women?You're the one who made assumptions that just because someone has a certain attitude about women, and likes guns, they MUST be scary and MUST have considered killing women or being a danger to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:20 AM |
| -1 | Why not liking sluts is such a big thing for women?t-the th-e the scary thing!! Man, just because a dude likes guns doesn't mean he's gonna fucking shoot anyone. I'm into ww2 era American and German weapons. I think they're incredible pieces of engineering and look fucking awesome. Doesn't mean I want to blast the heads off some dancers at a nightclub or some shit. Learn some perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | If the woman you meet is a virgin, what makes you think she’s going to stop being a virgin for you when she hasn’t done so for men she’s dated in the past?the problem these guys have is with women who readily have sex with all sorts of guys but then use it as a bargaining chip with the guy they marry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Incorrect. I can pay for a prostitute without having to care for them financially forever. I can go home and talk to some friends or some shit. Today's women appear to want their cake and eat it too. It's really disgusting. Think about the dude's feelings in this scenario, my god. He's giving away his one life and shot at someone who GENUINELY loves him physically and mentally for someone that is literally just emotionlessly fucking him. I have been told time and time again by women on this subr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?"Women should be free to disqualify you for any reason they want. Even ones you don't like. Even if it means you never get sex or experience." Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Why would you financially provide for some random person? That's essentially what you are asking. You get NO benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?aaaahhh!! mODs! MODS!! SOmeone has a DIfFErEnT OpinIon ON a DeBAate Sub??? MoDs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?I have a photo of me at a cafe as my opener. My next is me in front of Tokyo Tower. The next is a shot of me when I was a pro boxer. The next is a shot of me at the Colosseum. The next is a shot of me on a camping trip with some friends. The next is a shot of me at the Pyramids. Idk man you'd think at least they'd think I'm rich (I just live in Europe and travel around here is cheap LOL) but nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | All your dating problems come down to one thing....Yeah. I'm exceptionally afraid of them. Doesn't mean I hate them. It's just a REALLY powerful fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?I used an extreme example to illustrate the difference. You're not talking to a halfwit, you're talking to someone well educated. Please have a little courtesy, as I've extended to you. Thanks. You however dodged the question I posed. What do you call someone who is denied sexual opportunity by the sexual marketplace yet does not hold misogynistic attitudes, benevolent/learned or otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?I am perfectly aware of linguistics. Simply because a word has evolved *In certain circles* to have a certain connotation does not mean that that connotation is applicable in every since of the word. Am I able to have sex with women? No. Am I misogynistic and ready to go on a shooting spree to kill all women who will not sleep with the honorable gentleman? Also no. Therefore, I am an incel, but I am not an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?no. the ORIGINAL definition is involuntary celibate and THATS IT. The misogynist association was tacked on later. Plenty of incels are not misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 03:55 AM |
| 11 | What is happening to men? I am concernedAs a tall white man who went to Japan I don't know what you're on about with the penis worship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:59 AM |
| 3 | What is happening to men? I am concerned"What do you think will happen?" In the extreme scenario, we're gonna have shit birthrates, and import people from countries who do not give a single shit about women's rights, they will become majority, and women will lose their rights again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:56 AM |
| 3 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?"You already don't care about what the other person wants or for genuine mutual experience." Hello? When did I say that? Where? I just said women want experienced lovers. If I LIE about having experience, it gives me the chance to LEARN what women like and how to be a better lover. IF I DON'T LIE, I'm disqualified no matter how much I care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:53 AM |
| 2 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?I believe the top 20% of men get MANY more than the rest, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?How about if you look aggressively BELOW average. Yeah. It becomes more difficult. I think people put THEMSELVES Into these situations rather than empathise with another. Yeah you're gonna have a hard time identifying because you don't have the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 01:41 PM |
| -6 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionThat's all well and good as long as they don't go for this shit when they're younger and expect me to treat them like an absolute queen when they're older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?For me, most of the sessions didn't focus on weights themselves. It was 3/4 cardio and form work etc. Imo fundora fights terribly for his build, as he's built for fighting from a distance. I'm heavier than he is though, he's 68kg where I'm 83. You're right, though, the average dude trying to put on a bit of muscle can get away with your bog standard 45 minute 3 day split and see good results with good diet and rest. From what I've seen, though, beginners tire easily so a lot of their time in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 12:09 PM |
| 2 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Me? Haha no I'm ugly as shit and have never held a girl's hand LOL, and skinnier than you'd think, because I'm 196cm tall. Think of the boxer Sebastian Fundora but less ripped because I never reached his caliber. I spend an hour a day on my lunch break at work lifting now, because we have a gym. I spend most of my nights playing video games and talking to fellow introvert friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenThey won't empathise. Men can't empathise if they're hot, and women are tee hee hee no thats not the case ;) about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:59 AM |
| 6 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?Well, how do you get experience when everyone wants experience? You lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | In today's age, do people truly believe that a man's "resources" are really that important?It makes no sense to me, lol. I'd like my wife to be flirty and adventurous with me, rather than 'safe and wifeable'. I want the dirty shit she gave to the other dudes. Mating is weird as fuck lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:51 AM |
| 1 | All your dating problems come down to one thing....Well, what's gonna happen if I approach some chick at a bar? When I walk past them on the street, they look down and away IMMEDIATELY, then straight up when I've passed. They don't do that to other dudes. I'm ugly and get no matches on Tinder. Yeah I'm afraid of women, I've gone 24 years without understanding them. They're a different species in my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | A double standard i’ve noticed with how a notable amount women react to online dating content directed at men vs womenJust a little more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:42 AM |
| -4 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionBruh you act as though 'emotional intelligence, housekeeping skills' are important to the women getting absolutely blasted by some hot guy who's a dropout and talks to his mates about the 'dumb slut' he fucked. Source: I know dudes from my work (sans dropout) who are hot and do this. They are INFINITELY more successful with women than I. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:41 AM |
| 13 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?I know a guy who is a centimillionaire. He did this off crypto. He did that off a series of investments starting with 20k. Each and every one of them, in his own words, has been lucky. [redacted] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:18 AM |
| 6 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Well, as a 24 year old virgin who's never asked a girl out, relies SOLELY on dating apps and never gets matches, I can inform you that I am extremely hygienic and have never sent a nude (even though I have a large hog) because that shit's cringe. I workout regularly. Yet women get 45835845324958324 matches and I get 0. Sorry, bro. It's easier for them. The standards for looks for them are lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:15 AM |
| 15 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Do you have any idea how much effort it takes to be extremely fit/muscular? Athletes don't just spend 30 mins in the gym and then go home. When I was a boxer I did that shit for 3+ hours a day and I was BARELY pro. Even your average dude's workout's gonna take like 90 min if he's serious about getting big. It's about volume and proper rest periods. Lift slow and safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Dating is naturally an intense competition for menOld thread, ik, but - We see it as the other dude was worthy of you doing that stuff, but you don't want to do it with the guy that commits to you? Why? Are we less attractive than the dude before? How would you feel if the guy you dated took you to mcdonalds for food but the other girls he dated he took to 5 star restaurants and got dressed up for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | There's just as many low quality Women as Menon the bright side, at least you live in america! Greatest country in the world, baby! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:46 AM |
| – | There's just as many low quality Women as MenI feel it. I'm an ugly, very skinny, very tall italian in england. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | There's just as many low quality Women as Menrich guys have always had options. Don't count them. Same with a woman with blonde hair, blue eyes, thin with D cups. They're just not in the same plane of existence, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | There's just as many low quality Women as Menflies chase shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | There's just as many low quality Women as Menhybristophilia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:39 AM |
| 5 | There's just as many low quality Women as Mena-ahahhaha! Are you for REAL? 5 days a week gym + body hair maintenance + getting the right cologne + teeth + eating healthy + wearing good fashion = Not giving a fuck about their appearance? Lady, it's the INNATE appearance that women give a shit about. What you're born with. Not how you change it. Gaslight all you want, but men with garbage personalities and good looks get much more play than dudes with good personalities and bad looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:25 AM |
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