| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | Used to date much younger men. Hvm will judge? | SEEKING ADVICE | Azertyyy123 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | A friendly reminder on flairs.I agree! I also read more than that I comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 10:30 PM |
| 2 | FREEEEEEEEECongratulations girl! Enjoy! So happy for you~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 7 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.Never looked at it that way. Thanks for explaining! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.Thank you for your input everyone, BUT for someone trying to learn and was asking a genuine question about this.... I feel very attacked in a way. I thought this was a place to ask questions, learn more, and not be judged and be talked down to. I have read the handbook, but still being new and having questions should be encouraged. Djeez I feel like I was shot down and shouldn't ask questions... Then how can I learn? Anyway, thanks for your viewpoint. You're definitely right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:19 PM |
| -14 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.Ok question. If they are/go no-porn. What do they masturbate too? Men are very visual. Do you give a risky picture then to your boyfriend or husband? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:28 PM |
| 33 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Once a random dude told me I had feet like a male soccer player. Never forgot it and I almost never wear sandals because if it. This was more than 10 years ago and I hate that I still remember that comment from a stranger that was drunk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 15 | Never disregard FDS advice...I almost double texted a guy but didn'tThis! ☝️☝️☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:22 PM |
| 9 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’No day like the present to learn. Time to slow fade /ghost from his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 14 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’You need to let him go and get your emotional support from women. If I was the new GF in this story and following FDS u I would also not tolerate this and make him choose or just walk out and block. Friendship between men and woman is a fantasy. It doesn't exist. It's not friendship here either, because y'all have history. I have had ex's who are good guys honestly and I wanted to keep them in my life just like you, but it isn't right. It's a way of not being able to handle the breakup and it's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:40 AM |
| 5 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’I keep repeating it. Friendship between men and woman doesn't exist. I don't believe in it. Period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:37 AM |
| 40 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?Even for casual sex you deserve a guy that puts in the effort, otherwise it will just be a non fulfilling thrust and dump sex and honestly that's just not fulfilling. Time to invest in a good vibrator girl ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:33 AM |
| 29 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?You need to read the handbook and practice self love and know your worth! You need to realize you are a Queen and deserve respect and being treated nicely. Never message first! Read the handbook it will help you! Some solid advice from RuPaul: if you can't love yourself, how in the hell can you love somebody else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:31 AM |
| 8 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayDo you unmatch or block? If I unmatch I might match them again later and I probably wouldn't remember | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 18 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayMy tinder conversation list is empty because of this. It keeps a good and easy overview haha. Very efficient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 9 | Used to date much younger men. Hvm will judge?Thanks everyone! You're right. It's nobody's business. I appreciate the advice. Now I hope my friends or family won't make any "fun" comments on his age being better or closer to mine... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:30 PM |
| 22 | I Said This Before and I'll Keep Saying It, No One is Entitled to You Giving a Clear "No." YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO STAY SAFE!No, is a complete sentence. The audacity, ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:44 PM |
| 84 | When your boyfriend asks you to do wife shitOmg. I used to do that.... But as a reformed pickmeisha no more! I think the exception is cooking once in a exclusive LTR. Both of us need food and can't go out to eat all the time after the dating stage. Only if he cooks too of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:48 AM |
| 90 | When your boyfriend asks you to do wife shitWhat do you mean with wife shit exactly? Like cooking for example? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Going to therapy!Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:47 AM |
| 5 | 😂Omg 💀💀⚰️⚰️😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020That's what I thought.... Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I agree.... Sometimes it's too much on the feed. Lvm are aplenty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Hi girls! I just got home from a nice first date. When we parted ways I didn't say I had a nice time and he didn't either. Even though I did! Should I send the first message after the date tomorrow saying I had a nice time? It was really nice, he was a gentleman and now I feel maybe sort of rude. I didn't find anything on fds regarding post first date strategy. Help is very welcome! Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 09:48 PM |
| 13 | I knew trash could take itself out, I didn’t anticipate it running down the streets in groups though.If my SO would throw freshly baked bread on the floor like that for a pub, I would dump his ass immediately. Bread is bae instead hahah 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:40 PM |
| 9 | Periodt.If they can no longer control you, they will try to control the image others have if you.... Such lvm behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:25 PM |
| 5 | THIS. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.I needed this today. Thank you~~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:04 AM |
| 4 | THIS.you can do bad by yourself, why would you need someone else's help This resonates with me so much! Thank you for that. Agreed, having it halfway is harder than not having it at all... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:49 PM |
| 40 | THIS.I feel attacked... I took my ex back after he brutally dumped me and then ghosted. The things I did, because I was lonely... 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:28 AM |
| 27 | Never accept a relationship born this way.I learned this the hard way. I unfortunately also experienced this. He ended up treating me the same way. I feel like an idiot. I should have known better... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:08 PM |
| 3 | The best gift this year is the knowledge I found here. Thank y'all so much.Agreed! I'm reading through the handbook and I'm learning so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 11:41 PM |
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