| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | First Time Approaching Report | AznGhost6 | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 06:15 AM | |
| 2 | Daygame Journal #2: Conservative Women Game, Tall Girls, and Adam's Apples. | AznGhost6 | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 02:55 PM |
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| 3 | Met girl got number flirted and discussed plans, texted and ghosted, now what?Resist... She saw your text. No fucking doubt. Women are literally glued to their phone these days. She wasn't "too busy", she didn't "forget". She chose not to reply. Double texting will only make you look desperate and turn her off further. Give her time to decide whether she wants to respond. If she doesn't, let it go. More stunners out there bro. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 08:23 PM |
| 5 | How to ensure you’re seen as more than just a friendBehaving and talking to girls like they are your friend is absolutely wrong. You're putting yourself in the friendzone. Lmao. Make your intentions known. I'd rather get a solid no than to lurk around hoping she "realises what a great guy I am". That's "nice guy" level shit. She knows within 1 date whether she's interested in you or not. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Vent: Goddamn approach anxiety!I'll approach as a regular part of my day but it's sort of both. I'll walk to places I could bus/subway to and I don't ever wear earphones. Regularly take detours through malls/colleges. I don't really "lurk" and wait around to find a chick to approach like I see in a lot of youtube videos. I have no problem with that though. Maybe that's why I have trouble getting volume in too. Oh, and I always talk to some random dude first before approaching. It's just way easier to shoot the shit with a guy… | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Vent: Goddamn approach anxiety!Approach anxiety is a bitch. One thing I'll add though is to not go out with a target # of approaches like that. You'll find yourself just going through the motions and not having solid interactions. "Getting the approaches in", instead of being in the moment. I found my best approaches were ones where I wasn't coming at it from a position of "set #4" or w/e, from a mental standpoint. Some days you'll approach 2, some days 10, 5, etc. It doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Dating pay etiquette when it comes to first dates and so on?Nothing to do with "showing her who's boss". It's not an ego thing. Well, not to me anyway. I just want genuine connections. If she's out with me, it's cuz she wants to be with me. Not cuz I'm paying for her. That's all. Paying for dates is an old tradition that holds no meaning nowadays besides free shit. You do you. I wasn't meant to sound condescending or confrontational. Just showing another side. I agree, wondering who should pay is the stupidest shit ever. Do you pay for your friends? Alre… | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Dating pay etiquette when it comes to first dates and so on?Never understood this mentality. It's literally not the money. I couldn't care less about $50. It's the frame of the relationship. If you don't mind being a put into the provider slot, then by all means. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 25 | A girl goes on the most amazing date of her life and then...No one is saying he "deserves" sex or a relationship. I really don't understand the people who bring this up. White knights truly are the worst. Brings absolutely nothing to the discussion. Most people are saying what he did is a bad strategy to get into a sexual/romantic relationship. That's a completely fair assessment. Met on tinder. 2 coffee dates. Ugh. Successful invite over. Nice! Into some custom lovey-dovey pinball tokens. Ugh. She was expecting sex or some attempt at sex. Was an easy~ d… | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Girls, help!! How to get a boyfriend (23f)Here's a short story. 3+ years ago, I sat down on a subway and there was this girl sitting across from me. Her row of seats were empty. I still remember her cuz she is the one I regret not talking to the most. It's not cuz she was the most beautiful but cuz she was giving me such a nice smile. Unmistakably right at me. I knew she wanted me to go over there. First and only time I've got such a clear signal in daygame. Looking and smiling is the best way to "seduce" a guy to approach you. | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | First Time Approaching ReportGreat points! There were at least 10 do-able (solo set) approaches I passed on that day. "Other people are within ear-shot", "Too many people around", "She's out of my league. No way she's interested", "She's sitting by herself but has headphones in", etc. Hopefully, I would've approached them if I was more warmed up. Not giving a fuck and destroying that ego is so hard. The drive home after finally approaching is pure bliss though. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 04:10 PM |
| 7 | First Time Approaching ReportFirst time I saw A, we matched eyes for a sec and I walked past her. I could feel myself start to pussy out again. I went to a different part of the bookstore, closed my eyes, and took some deep breaths. I was thinking about how my ego is not important at all. Why am I so scared? Do I care more about how other random people perceive me than I do my personal happiness? That's kind of sad. Forced myself to walk back and open. Your job is to approach. Her job is to let you know if she's not interes… | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 04:02 PM |
| 4 | First Time Approaching ReportI opened all of them with some kind of situational remark. A with books, B with her coat, C with how bored she looked. Then quickly into something direct. Some variations of "Honestly, I just thought you were cute and wanted to say hi". I've been approached by strangers before and I found not knowing their intentions made things weird. I like direct so that they know exactly why I'm talking to them. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 03:53 PM |
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