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The alternative is to have a whole different mindset, but that takes time, trial, and error. You are probably acting too overeager. Match her energy SLOWLY so there isn't some sudden shift in your texting habits and you don't come off as butthurt. There's not a lot you can do without keeping in mind that you're likely not the only guy she's interested in who cold approached her. The best way to navigate ghosters is to be preoccupied with someone or something else, but too many young men just don…
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:07 PM
1

Wouldn't send that. She's already wavering on interest, already sees your texts, why add that extra element of desperation. But the best lessons come from experience so you can try sending it and learn from the results
/r/seduction26/08/25 07:49 PM
3

It's better to help people than to revel in hatred and negative emotion. Helping others manages stress as well, so there's very few downsides and quite a few positives to being generally selfless and willing to lend a hand
/r/newTRP07/02/22 08:15 PM
3

If you aren’t looking for a full blown relationship, it’s best to say something along the lines of “I’m not looking for anything super serious”. Saying that you’re looking for friends just seems disingenuous. Like why are you on a dating site if you’re only looking for friends? Go on twitter or something for that
/r/newTRP13/01/22 08:49 PM
9

Looks are subjective, and if you’re rich with no game then you might as well be broke romantically speaking.
/r/newTRP12/12/21 08:34 AM
2

Not that guy, but for me it was three things. Wardrobe, exposure, and success. I asked people in real life who I knew were good with women for tips on how to dress and what to say so I wasn't going in completely blind. I moved to a new state, so I had a 'clean slate'. People's only exposure to me was the "new" me. You can replicate this without moving (new job, club, church, class, whatever). I started getting compliments on my appearance, which led to women wanting to be around me, which made m…
/r/newTRP10/12/21 09:33 PM
1

Idk what’s up with you guys and wanting to kiss every set of lips under the sun. Herpes is very real, and if you‘re fucking someone casually then you shouldn’t be kissing them willy nilly.
/r/newTRP17/10/21 06:18 PM
3

Botswana is doing pretty good man. You should travel more.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 08:08 PM
1

It’s easy for me because I straight up don’t care whether or not I see any of them again lol. You’re clearly looking for more than a quick fuck though, so if you know you’re a hopeless romantic then you need to look for a different type of girl in a different type of place. Not online. A lot of girls would appreciate that you’re the type to commit early, but few of those girls do one night stands to begin with.
/r/newTRP06/10/21 09:24 AM
1

Oh ok. If you just play a lil harder to get (emotionally) then it should solve your problems.
/r/newTRP06/10/21 06:29 AM
4

They can sense insecurity, so that’s most likely your main issue. You’re probably not fucking them right (as in good enough to keep them coming back for more), or you’re showing too much interest after a hookup and it makes them think you’re already attached. So you got one big issue (insecurity) and two little issues that you can correct
/r/newTRP05/10/21 05:47 PM
1

Hard to say. It’s tough having to shut out somebody who probably lost everything and is desperate to try to reconnect with a former friend. On the other hand, hard drugs like meth and heroin make people even more calloused and predatory than usual. You have to be on your toes and not put yourself in a position to ever be taken advantage of. It wouldn’t hurt to connect and text or even talk, but don’t get suckered in by sob stories
/r/newTRP23/09/21 05:54 PM
2

“laundry Ray” I’m dying over here lol
/r/askTRP11/06/21 04:08 PM
1

She likes it rough. If you're uncomfortable with it, you need to say so or get with the program
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:01 PM
1

You’re 26 man. Give your parents some long deserved privacy as soon as you feel you’re able to.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 08:59 PM
304

You can instantly repair the situation by saying "I've been thinking, I don't think being exclusive is right for us atm." She prob won't stick around to be your fuck buddy (right) after, but trust me, if you start seeing red flags popping up immediately after making things official, cut things off quick. People often do shit like this early on in a relationship to gauge how much they can get away with. Not a good sign.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 06:42 PM
2

Lol damn. Yea this is what I was gonna say OP. Didn’t lay the pipe right
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:35 AM
1

Good luck man.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:40 PM
2

If that’s vague to you, then you need to work on some things other than getting women lol.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:34 PM
1

Work on your appearance. Wear good looking clothes that fit well (don’t overdue it, just try not to dress like shit). Get a haircut. Don’t be afraid to smile. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:08 AM
1

Tbh I didn’t really see where he wanted to hang out with her that bad.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:36 PM
7

I wouldn't have argued with her about it, at least not over text. Putting down her country like that is really the main thing that shot your chances, cut that shit out if you wanna get laid abroad lol.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:28 PM
2

Immediately after I get a girls number I send her a text saying, "hey its Azshira, lock my number in". Usually within a couple days we get to texting and preparing to link up.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:09 PM
5

That’s literally just what his girl is doing, and she’ll do it quicker than he can. He needs to cut bait and not cling to the chick that cheated on him just because he can’t get another other pussy quick enough
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:59 AM
0

I been trying to tell these mf’s for years, they think I’m just bullshittin them lol
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:20 AM
3

Also forgot to add, don’t bother plating, you’ll more than likely end up complacent with just fucking her after demotion, and you’ll really end up dating for 6 months after
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:25 PM
3

You know, it’s funny. I’ve been in a similar situation as you, and I demoted a BPD LTR to a plate after substantial mistrust. I broke up with her because of similar shady shit that I noticed, down to the guilty crying. I fucked her for 5 weeks after we broke up, before she ‘found’ someone else (probably who she was fucking all along behind my back) and suddenly didn’t wanna fuck anymore. I’d have rather just cut contact in hindsight. Being removed from the relationship now, it’s crazy to see how…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:22 PM
9

She wouldn’t give you direct answer on things, hesitated telling you who she was going out with, and started guilty crying before leaving your place earlier than normal. Everything seems fine here, you should probably date for another 6 months until she dumps you, just to make sure you’re not paranoid
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:03 PM
3

I misread a little bit of OP's post I'll admit. I still think he should just leave this one alone. Too many signs of disinterest, any additional texting at this point is just closure seeking
/r/askTRP15/05/21 07:02 PM
0

He’s already been flaked on 3 times, he needs to not respond at all and cut contact
/r/askTRP15/05/21 06:29 PM
1

If you play your cards right you can probably still fuck. Need a better text game though. Instead of saying how nice it was to meet, say something like "Damn, I just cannot get your body outta my head after we danced yesterday, lol." Save the "how was your day" shit for when you're actually in a relationship. Play it cooler instead being super invested in everything about her right from the jump. You don't have to change up your personality, just reign it in sometimes.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:54 PM
1

To be fair to you OP, this is not the sub you want to ask about matters regarding standing up for yourself. Most people here are conflict averse, so you'll get a lot of turn the other cheek style advice, and "agree and amplify". It's probably a cultural difference, but idk how some users can stay calm after their girl goes into a room for 2 minutes with her "guy best friend" who wants to fuck her, and then he comes out and says that stupid shit.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:31 PM
5

Idk. That's a pretty awkward reply, but at least now you know you don't have to waste time on this one
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:23 AM
10

She sounds kinda crazy tbh, bullet dodged. From what she said and from your previous message, she probably didn’t wanna meet up at your place for the first date, but didn’t feel like saying it straight out maybe.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:31 AM
1

Would you really stop talking to girls who post thirst traps, or are you just bullshitting? Sounds like a classic test to see if you back up what you say or if you just talk outta your ass.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:28 AM
6

A closed mouth doesnt get fed. If you wanna go, ask if you guys are still on. If you dont wanna go, just dont respond and do something else. She'll get the idea
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:15 PM
6

Bro the users here get more socially inept by the day. Ask "we still on for Friday?" a day before the date, then set up some logistics for what you want to do.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:09 PM
4

You played that perfectly. "ok, say it back" lol that was a test to see if you're actually a puppet.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:20 AM
1

The point is the age of consent laws wouldn’t apply with a one year age difference. Are you smoking crack lol
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:32 AM
4

Bro needs to listen a 3 hour loop of No Role Modelz
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:58 PM
8

she’ll eventually cheat just to make sure other guys want her. She’s not LTR material Listen to this OP. Low self-esteem/low def-confidence girls that constantly seek validation usually always cheat.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:30 PM
2

I'm not going over to anybody's place I meet online unless I call them on the phone first. Facetiming is even better.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:33 PM
4

? The dude is 18 lol
/r/askTRP01/05/21 07:04 AM
3

I got a laugh outta this if nobody else did
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:18 PM
1

No ones saying it does or should feel good, just that it comes naturally.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:47 PM
1

That’s naive. Everyone lies, and we can all think back to a point in time where we have been complete assholes unjustifiably.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:07 PM
4

Too real on this one
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:03 PM
1

You haven’t heard that before coming on Reddit? Lol
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:25 PM
-1

“Don’t call me a bitch”
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:42 PM
5

70% of this sub will never grasp this until it (literally) smacks them in the face
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:39 PM
0

You do you, man.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:03 PM
-1

How about if it was assembled by users with proven combat/training experience
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:03 PM
9

There should be a sidebar update about self-defense. It fits in with the concepts of physical fitness and confidence. People here gotta know that sometimes trouble will just find you, and you can’t talk your way out of it every time.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:25 AM
57

“Can you tell me the exact date” plus the cheating comment makes it pretty obvious what’s on her mind. Huge red flag
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:46 AM
5

This sub is pretty soft in terms of standing up for themselves to other men. They could get hurt after all
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:12 AM
3

That girl wouldn’t be your girl for much longer after that lol.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:10 AM
2

I invite girls to my crib for the first date all the time. Some are turned off just by the proposition though, depends on who you’re talking to
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:07 AM
1

What’s with all these weird assessments of FWB status. She tried to make out with your friend while you were asleep, respect yourself and drop her.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:13 PM
1

If it’s a regular thing with the “no vaginal” then she’s either a virgin, likes anal, or both. Either way, her forward ness in wanting to have fun (have sex) with you, and her basically offering up her ass as a play toy, means that you’re in there.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 12:02 AM
4

Shes probably on her period, but there could be a million reasons why she laid out the no vaginal rule. Just go there to have fun, see what happens. And she definitely wants to fuck
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:15 PM
3

She’s not going to date you, and give up for free what you willingly pay for every time. Quit paying for sex too man
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:37 PM
2

No one’s gonna kill you for having a spine
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:05 PM
1

1) If they’re too close for you to walk away, hit first. They’re already sizing you up 2) Yes, but depends on the situation (does he have a weapon)
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:26 AM
5

Yea that’s pretty clear. Only one option you really have if you’re OP. How he wants to break it off is up to him
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:25 PM
20

Since her names not on anything, just break up with her. Nothing more to it really
/r/askTRP21/03/21 01:33 PM
3

Just say “cool, we can do some other time” and hit her up the next time you want to chill. You don’t have to blow your lay, it’s good to have some flexibility.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 07:49 PM
7

You don‘t require all of that with hotter girls either, getting their attention is the hardest part
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:55 PM
6

Other men can sense your sensitivity and lack of self confidence from a mile away. Self-deprecating humor shouldn’t be used at all with friends/acquaintances, you’ll come across as insecure.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:27 PM
2

Your mindset is way off, you cant expect exclusivity from someone you haven’t even physically met lmao.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:23 PM
1

Ok last guess, UAE?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:36 AM
1

Lol, did your friend immigrate to Sudan or something?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:28 AM
4

On the off chance you’re not joking, no, don’t try anything.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:48 PM
3

Flakes happen, just gotta get someone else.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:50 PM
14

Short answer, Yes. Long answer, yes, but only if it’s genuine. Women can sense almost every time when you’re lying on your dick, and getting caught lying, esp while trying to explain how much of a player you are, will backfire.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:54 PM
1

It’s more about social tact really. If you were on a date, and you told a girl that you pounded tons of Asians when you were younger but now you’re done with them, it’d just make you seem like an inept moron. Same principal here
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:12 AM
1

Congrats on the video man, what was it?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:13 PM
1

Bro, women with “boyfriends” that are club regulars are looking to let off some steam.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 08:07 PM
20

She offered to reschedule, and apologized. Playing it chill is the best course of action for sure
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:31 PM
5

Many here are just now starting to get laid. They’re inexperienced with vetting/relationships, so they’ll ignore red flags up until they can’t anymore. People with BPD are masters at relationship manipulation, so if you already have a weak frame (insecurities, not in shape, desperate, etc.) you’re more likely to stay put and get jerked around.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:53 PM
2

Agreed there bro
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:44 PM
4

Idk why your gut would be sensing something without signs, that’s implied.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 12:16 AM
4

It’s better to be defensive. Most people outside of close family (and in some cases even them) are unreliable/untrustworthy. If something deep down inside you is telling you that something is bullshit, trust it. Have discretion though, don’t become overly cynical. You shouldn’t be unwilling to trust, just be unwilling to give out that trust to all but a select few
/r/askTRP18/02/21 12:07 AM
5

What you consider a nobody, a girl could see a project to work on.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 10:19 PM
1

Boxing, BJJ, Judo, wrestling are all effective, but BJJ and boxing gyms are fucking everywhere though so start with one of those.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:50 PM
1

Voice doesn’t really matter, it’s what you’re saying and the tone you said it in. Monotone is boring to most chicks
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:37 PM
1

Start training a martial art. There’s people out in the world who get off by bullying the timid.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:33 PM
1

Because they have game
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:24 PM
3

You always gotta be prepared lol, some girls love random facetimes. Don’t unmatch, but don’t message her again either. The slightest shit can fuck up tinder interactions so moving on is the only option
/r/askTRP14/02/21 09:18 PM
1

Hell she may have just wanted to get piped down on the first or second date, and didn’t think you were moving fast enough. Could be anything, but none of its worth stressing over IMO. It’s really best just to move on and have other girls lined up
/r/askTRP11/02/21 11:27 PM
10

2 weekends in a row of being busy is a sign of non-interest. I’d stop trying completely here, only chance is to let her message you. Probably just found someone else
/r/askTRP11/02/21 11:15 PM
2

If you didn’t even cheat on her, then you need to work on standing up for yourself. If it happened before y’all even dated then this shouldn’t have even been a conversation. It’s too late now, she already broke up with you
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:15 PM
2

I plated my ex, but I was the one who broke up with her. We still hang out and fuck sometimes. If you have the game, and you wanna maintain relations than I say go for it.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:49 AM
1

Theres a lot of people living by unsustainable values in this sub. They get one side of the coin, but then never flip it over.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 12:36 AM
3

Not my problem, we’re not dating. What I’m saying is you can get a lot more from a plate other than sex if you choose the right ones. Some good favors, and even household items that I really needed have come from quality women that I’ve chosen to keep in my circle.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 11:22 PM
5

Yea youre right, but sometimes it pays to have patience. Having non-hoe plates is a benefit that a lot of guys don’t even consider.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 08:02 PM
3

That’s true, but not every girl will give it up easily either. Some will take a couple of meetings just to see if you’re only trying to fuck them.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 07:50 PM
16

That’s pretty much it. Women love to be heard in most cases
/r/askTRP06/02/21 11:01 PM
5

Its whatever. Can’t get too mad, but you can still have a backbone even while they’re on their period.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 10:00 PM
7

I don’t think he should act like she just popped his cherry 😂 I agree with that other stuff you said tho
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:57 PM
1

Lol we’ve all been there, some at earlier ages than others. Gotta start making moves right after y’all get that talking out the way. Start with casual touching, work your way up to thigh grabbing, then ass rubbing, then at that point if everything’s been going smoothly, you essentially got a green light to make the call to “move over to the backseat”
/r/askTRP04/02/21 07:44 PM
1

Constantly escalate towards getting physical almost immediately after you guys get the talking out of the way. Start with thigh touches if you guys are sitting next to each other, put your hand on her lower back as yall are going through doors, little shit like that to get her comfortable with you first. When you start getting confident, you can do ‘advanced’ escalation tactics like rubbing her ass lol. Going straight to kissing can be a turn off if you didn’t break the tension with casual touch…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 07:31 AM
1

Happy to help man
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:24 AM
2

Idk what they on lol. It’s not some tinder thot he’s taking out for the first time, they have history. Go dutch if you’re that worried about being ‘used for food’ lol
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:33 AM
8

You’re reading too much into it. She still wants to go to dinner, don’t see the problem. Just have fun
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:02 AM
1

You gotta grind harder.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 11:27 PM
1

Getting older women to hook up on a dating app is tough though. If you don’t have a good body, or better than average game, it’s way harder in comparison to some chick fresh out of college
/r/askTRP01/02/21 09:51 PM
5

Older women do love young guys, but they usually go for more 25-30 ish. They prob have kids that are your age if you go too old lol. They want someone with a young body, but with actual mental maturity behind them
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:03 PM
536

Your relations is over man. You gotta leave with dignity now. Shit hurts
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:00 PM
3

80% of this sub don’t have any idea what the fuck they’re talking about and just say what they think makes them look the coolest. It didn’t always used to be like this
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:01 PM
2

You just gotta live your life man. If someone compels you like that, then go for it. But you’ll want a relationship with her soon. You’re already lacking interest in other options, so it’ll be a matter of time before you go to her wanting more.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:24 PM
11

Threesome or nothing lol. She wants to have sex with someone else, without you, while she’s with you. That’s the precursor to her suggesting an ‘open relationship’ so she can sleep with anybody
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:46 AM
1

If you do, just be prepared to deal with her boyfriend eventually. Not many people will take that dealing lightly
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:44 AM
2

You’re kinda hitting the other side of his coin there. You get the mental benefits from the confidence you gain in being able to defend yourself.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:39 AM
3

Nah you’re definitely not a losing for having other priorities besides fucking girls. When you wanna start fucking again though your own home is always gonna be the place they feel most comfortable giving it up though.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:49 AM
7

You gotta strike while the iron is hot. It’s too late now since she’s not responding to you. Don’t seem desperate by continuing to try to spark things back up either
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:58 PM
2

Did you pay someone to fuck you, or did you actually have a connection with this person? If you paid someone, then cut that shit out, if you didn’t, then bad sex just happens man. You need experience to be able to just be confident in bed, let alone perform. 2-3 times at the minimum before you actually get a hang of it
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:40 PM
10

Girls simp all the time for guys who are actually attractive, lol. You have to step your game up
/r/askTRP17/01/21 06:57 PM
1

If they’re into you, they’d be willing to come to your apartment. If they’re on a dating app, and use COVID as an excuse to not meet up, they’re either not interested, or just want attention from guys they know they’ll never meet.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:07 AM
1

If his woman was with him and saw it go down as he described, she‘d be pretty turned off lol
/r/askTRP15/01/21 11:12 PM
-7

Then that wouldn’t be picking your battles would it 😂 its like you guys just make up situations to be passive in, use your head
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:05 PM
-8

Yea man pick your battles for sure. Just don’t be too scared to even fight a battle 😂
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:30 PM
9

Lmao, Tacoma
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:03 PM
35

I live in the “hood” of Washington state at the moment, and some skinny crackhead tried to make a pass at my girl as we were walking back to my apartment a few months ago. I got pissed and checked him, he immediately apologized, and we went about our business. You rarely will ever have to actually “fight for your girls honor”, but you do have to make it known that you won’t let anyone, especially some guy, disrespect her in front of you and get away with it.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:54 PM
2

To be honest there have been times when I’ve flaked on attractive women, last minute, because I decided I’d rather smoke weed and watch YouTube on my iPad. It’s not a huge deal, but those that do this to you probably have already decided you’re not worth the effort. If it happens to often than it’s a ‘you’ problem
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:44 PM
1

This is exactly what I was thinking. Gotta read between the lines in a lot of situations.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:45 AM
1

Care bout how people feel, but never care about what they think
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:14 PM
1

I don’t say this to be mean or a dick, but I don’t even know you and I can see why she doesn’t wanna get back together with you.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:57 AM
1

That’s kinda what I’m getting at. There’s literally no power you hold in this dynamic, because your goal of getting back with her would be incongruent with you being in a dominant position in the relationship. If you want to get back with her, you can’t grovel at her feet, but you gotta accept blame for what she thinks you are and promise to change
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:24 AM
1

I don’t know how desperately you came off beforehand when she hit you with the “I’m sorry I’m talking to someone, we aren’t getting back together”. That statement in and of itself closed the door for any immediate discussion towards that direction. But let’s just say hypothetically that door wasn’t closed, and you took yourself back in time to immediately after the argument happened. You may have been able to say something like 1) “[their name] I want to genuinely apologize for the way I behaved…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:02 AM
1

RP strategies are not gonna give you what you’re seeking in a situation like yours, the ball is 100% in her court in every aspect of this relationship. Do you honestly envision a future with you two together in the near future? Sometimes you just gotta let time run it’s course and pray for the best, if you truly think you’ve done all you can do, leave it at that. Stress about shit like child support and custody in a reasonable manner. You’re a big boy and made a mistake, can’t escape your punish…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:50 PM
1

There’s no ‘act’ that you can perform right now. You guys have a kid together lol, she know who you are and what you’re about. You’ve laid your cards out on the table. At this point I honestly think you should ask the relationship advice subreddit for a broader range of suggestions Edit: you never mentioned what the argument was about either, that detail would make it a little easier to see where things went wrong
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:27 PM
1

You have a child with someone who doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, and she told you she is talking to other men. On the surface this really does sound like you need to see other people and negotiate proper custody terms regarding your child. But of course you know the person and the relationship better than we do, and you have a connection with her through your child that not many here can relate to. If you think you have a chance at getting back together then you’re the only one t…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:16 PM
1

That guy would not get in trouble with any police anywhere. Show me one example of any charges brought upon an individual for defending someone from a sexual assault using violence. Idk why this is your hill to die on. If you’re the type of dickhead that would disrespect a couple like that then you can expect a lot of ‘assault’ in your near future
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:55 PM
1

Why feel bad? She was chatting with another guy. If she wanted to shut it down, she would have. Most guys don’t grab girls asses without the girl having shown some sort of interest Some drunkard came up to his girl while he was in the bathroom, then smacked her ass after knowing she was dating somebody. That’s grounds for a bottle to the head lmao fuck just a punch
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:50 AM
3

Well yeah, when you choose to have a kid you sacrifice certain things and you have to make decisions that aren’t always centered around you. That’s the point OP stated in his post, it’s also why he’s not in a position to just up and leave like I’m sure he wants to. He’s not a bachelor in his 20s still figuring out relationships and women. His child will be associated with him for life, he has to have some tact in dealing with his son’s mother if he wants to sustain a healthy family relationship.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:19 PM
5

I’m not saying y’all are incapable of giving good insight without having a child yourself, but it’s foolish to think that you’re not lacking in perspective considering OP’s situation. Just be careful when giving out ‘advice’ when you can’t completely relate to a situation as sensitive as this
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:45 PM
13

You’re asking the wrong place. The young guys and teens here can’t relate to having a child. You’ll just get dumb answers
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:28 PM
1

This is pretty much how to do it OP.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:09 PM
2

A little more than half of the women I’ve been with wanted to be choked during sex. They like that shit a lot of the time. You must be having some real straight laced sex lol
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:33 PM
1

It sounds like you already made up your own mind to contact her and keep pursuing, just learn the hard way my man.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:55 PM
1

A superior who only comes around the office occasionally tried to tell me to ‘shut up’ in a joking manner. I was about 3 weeks into the job at the time, and I said to her “don’t fucking tell me to shut up ___”. I had to explain myself to someone ahead of that superior, but literally nothing happened, except for that one superior being nice to me from then on.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:25 PM
3

I fucked a married woman before and caught a serious case of oneitis that took about two years for me to personally recover from. Although for me it also is a morality issue, there’s a few good reasons to just not bother. You do you though man
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:09 PM
4

Fucking right lmao. “I’ll make it short” no need for lies OP 😂
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:05 AM
22

As a rule of thumb, it’s better to just avoid unnecessary drama. Just because you could do something, doesn’t always mean you should
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:59 AM
0

Thank you lol. People on this sub in particular revealed themselves to be very cowardly when all is said and done
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:41 PM
0

You can do both of those things?? It’s ok to risk your life to save someone from severe harm, what is your point
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:49 PM
-2

You wouldn’t yell “what’s going on” or “stop” from a distance if you literally saw someone getting raped in front of your eyes?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:17 PM
-3

He never mentioned getting pussy, not everything is about that. You see someone in desperate need, and you make a choice to be brave and risk your own safety to help. Women want to be with a man who they at least think can protect them or their family if need be.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:00 PM
3

People here would tell you to ignore it, but if it’s on your mind and it’s affecting you? Confront him about it, don’t be scared. You don’t have to fight him but you sound kinda young, be prepared for one.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:25 PM
4

Show me one comment where someone says that and isn’t instantly disregarded as a woman-hating moron.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:10 PM
0

I don’t nor have I ever gave a fuck about points on this site. Reflect on how you post/what you post and tell me if it’s consistent with somebody that actually has sex. You and people like you on this sub are too fucking jaded to actually give good advice, all you can do is parrot around ‘cuck’ and other buzzwords without offering any real suggestions, because you have no idea what the path to even flirting with a woman would look like. If you were a woman, you’d 100% be that unattractive fat fr…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 11:16 AM
1

I doubt that.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:35 AM
-4

Get with the fucking times and adapt
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:19 AM
6

Lol she’s more of a dude than you are (no offense). I get how you feel though bro, and it’s good to get it off your chest somewhere. Just don’t hit her up first and she’ll Text you to meet again eventually.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:12 AM
1

These text games and withholding attention bullshit are for plates, not your LTR. If you had no reason to ignore her text for two days then that’s where YOU fucked things up. There’s probably another dude, other commenters aren’t too far off base there. If your attempts at trying to smooth things over haven’t worked since then, it’s time to start looking towards a future without her
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:00 AM
1

I’m currently dating a girl that has a really hard time having an orgasm during sex, yet she is still horny as fuck literally every time we link and is always down to make me cum and not cum herself. She loves me more and more by the day. Honestly if you just get really good at foreplay, and at least make her wet, then it can work depending on the woman
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:55 AM
1

Never. Ask. For. Nudes. It’s a meme for a reason, a happy girl will willingly send them to you randomly when you don’t feel like looking at nudes
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:48 AM
4

I always get a lil nervous when talking to an attractive woman, but experience gave me the ability to hide it, and that’s all I needed.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:45 AM
6

and I was joking saying how she fell in love with me at first sight. She was like no way it wasn't like that. Sounds like you took this part too personally. You’re coming on strong with all the “do you love me please baby” stuff. When you try to force these emotions it’ll come off as unnatural and desperate. Just have fun and watch the movie next time, but it’s likely over with this one man
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:31 AM
1

If you’re not in college and don’t have your own space yet, then you need to start fucking in the car or at your girls place when the parents aren’t home. You could of course improvise and find private spaces wherever you guys usually see other
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:17 AM
1

This sub is even shittier than it was last year, and goofy questions like these are why
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:05 AM
2

The fact that people are this unhygienic is honestly concerning. Why go hang out with somebody if you’re sick? Now is not really the time to be playing around with stuff like that
/r/askTRP14/03/20 05:46 PM
1

I can’t really suggest how you should act/what you should say without knowing what you look like or being in your head, so the only tips that I can give are generally speaking. -Being honest helps you keep frame (ex. don’t brag, lie, or exaggerate, it’s transparent and turns women off) -Make your words matter. Don’t be overly talkative, especially when the subject matter is boring or asinine to begin with. -Learn to be funny. Humor is a great rookie weapon, if conveyed properly it will let anyon…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:02 PM
1

You should drop her now so you don’t get overly attached and do some simp shit. If you get your feelings under control then you can continue business as usual, easy as that
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:27 PM
1

Change up your approach after every rejection. No point in having the same boring ass conversations if you already know what direction they’ll lead to
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:25 PM
1

Ladies, please.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 05:58 PM
4

Lots of girls are shy, but many of them love to talk as well. If they’re into you the conversation naturally will flow. If they’re reserved to the point of giving one word responses, or looking around at the room/their phone, then you’re not getting anywhere no matter how much conversation you try and force
/r/askTRP07/02/20 04:44 PM
6

She doesn’t wanna go, simple as that. Don’t press the issue, but don’t seem butthurt by not replying. What that other dude said about “Hit me up if plans change” is good but just don’t come off as desperate for her
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:04 PM
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